#filkogender

[xeno-aligned]

Hi, I’m still tryna figure out my gender, so I hope there’s a term for this: so basically, I’m always boyflux, but sometimes my gender changes to the person I’m with, but depending on the persons gender, it changes to either more masculine, softer, or fantasy-like. And if the gender is female, or turns feminine (so my gender can be feminine, but never female),, aaaaa I hope this made sense!! I’m not good at explaining qwq

you could be bigender, with one gender being boyflux and the other being one (or more, you could be tri/quint/quadgender/etc) of these:

(a lot of these genders are the same/have similar definitions, so i guess just choose which label you like the best)

Mutogender: A subset of genderfluid; describes when your gender changes depending on your situation.

Ludogender: A gender which has a core, but the individual “tries on” different genders because they are mirroring another individual. A neurodivergent only gender.

Mirrorgender: A gender that changes to fit the people you’re around.

Expecgender / Pivotgender / Swivelgender: A gender which changes depending on who you are around.

Evaisgender / Evainsgender / Locugender: A fluid gender that’s easily influenced by things, thoughts and beings around it, thus it tends to change a lot, even within a single day.

Amorgender / Erogender (or Filkogender, when regarding QPRs): When your gender changes whilst in the presence of an individual to whom you have developed a deep connection for. This could be a romantic attraction, platonic connection, a spiritual affinity or anything similar. For example: An amorboy would identify as male only to someone they felt connected too.

Amicagender: A gender that changes depending on which friend you’re with at the moment.

Aerogender: Where an individual’s gender relies highly on their setting and/or atmosphere, which can be composed of a great number of things (ex. who they’re around, their level of comfort, the temperature, the weather, the time of day/year, etc.) .

Absorgender / Absorbgender: A gender identity that is heavily influenced by the people around someone. For example, an absorgender person would feel more feminine when surrounded by women, or more masculine when surrounded by men. If a particular gender has a stronger influence on a person’s identity, they may choose to use this identity as a prefix (absorboy, absornonbinary, etc).

or, you could be boyflux, with your gender fluctuating from boy to one (or more) of those genders.

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I'm trying to due some research online about what my gender may be, but all I can find online are common terms like demigender, polygender, etc. but non of those fit me. My gender is sort of dependent of who I'm around. Like, if I'm around a bunch of guys I'm not close with, I'm a girl. But if I'm with my best guy friends, I'm one of the guys. If I'm with girls I'm not close with, I'm androgynous. If I'm with girls I'm close with, I'm a guy. I'm so confused. I don't think I'm genderfluid/flux.

Hi! I’ll list off some of the genders that sound like that and if none of these fit you’re always welcome to coin your own term. :D

Condigender: A gender that is only felt under specific circumstances. can apply to any existing gender such as girl, boy, non-binary, etc. for example, a condigirl may only feel like a girl during specific times or with specific people, a condiboy may only feel like a boy during specific times or with specific people, so on.

Mutogender: A subset of genderfluid; describes when your gender changes depending on your situation (such as location or people surrounding them).

Mirrorgender: A gender that changes to fit the people you're around.

Ludogender: A gender which has a core, but the individual “tries on” different genders because they are mirroring another individual.

Amicagender: A gender that changes depending on which friend you’re with at the moment.

Amaregender: A gender that changes depending on who you’re in love with.

Amorgender or Erogender (or Filkogender, when regarding QPRs): When your gender changes whilst in the presence of an individual to whom you have developed a deep connection for. This could be a romantic attraction, platonic connection, a spiritual affinity or anything similar. For example: An amorboy would identify as male only to someone they felt connected too.

Copygender: A fluid gender identity that mimics the gender of someone the person has strong feelings for.

Chamgender: When your gender identity changes to match the gender or perceived gender of whomever you’re with at the time.

Reflectigender: A gender that reflects that of the identifier’s romantic/platonic/social interest. 

[gracios-generodesigual]

Attraflux: [S]ignify that your gender fluctuates based on what gender(s) you’re attracted to at the moment.

Someone whose gender changes to be the same as or similar to the gender(s) they feel [alterous, aesthetic, platonic, romantic, sensual or sexual] attraction to at the moment.

Note: these genders are intended for bi/pan/poly individuals whose preferences (if they have any) are fluid but if you feel that your orientation as a whole is fluid then feel free to use them.

Maybe akin to amaregender, amorgender/ekogender/filkogender, copygender, erigender, erotogender, gendershift or reflectigender.

Color meanings: red and blue to represent attraction which may feel magnetic, grey to represent orientations which may be fluid, pastel blue and yellow represents the reflective nature of one's gender.

Text from pride-color-schemes/pride-flags Google spreadsheet. 

Flags by type of attraction under the read more:

Alterousfluid:

Asthefluid:

Platofluid:

Romofluid:

Sensufluid:

Sexofluid:

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Genders I Can Make Edits For (A-M)

Hello everyone! In case anyone happens to be wondering what labels/identities you can request for me to use in edits (moodboards, flag and name edits, etc.), I’m posting lists of which ones that I’m able to make edits for.

The list will be under the cut.

Genders (A-M) | Genders (N-Z) | Alignments | Intersex Terms | Orientations (A-M) | Orientations (N-Z) | Non-Mono Terms

(The links to the other posts will be added later)

A

a-nonbinary/anonbinary

abimegender

abimeboy

abimefluid

abimegirl

abimenonbinary

absorbgender/absorgender

adamasgender/admasgender

aerogender

aesigender

aesthetgender/aesthetigender/videgender

aethergender

affectugender

affigogender

agender

agender boy

agender girl

agenderfluid/cancegender

agenderflux/librafluid

aisthesisgender/synesgender

alexigender

aliagender/aliusgender

altegender

alteboy

altefluid

altegirl

altequeer

altexirl

altexoy

amaregender

ambigender

ambonec/AN

amicagender

amigender

amiboy

amifluid

amigirl

amivac

amogender/flirtgender/genderamas

amorgender/erogender/filkogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

amorboy/eroboy/filkoboy

amorgirl/erogirl/filkogirl

amorneutral/eroneutral/filkoneutral

anagender/anogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

anaboy/anoboy

anagirl/anogirl

ananonbinary/anononbinary

androfluid

androgyne

androgynos

anesigender/ansigender

angeligender

angender/hategender

anintensigender

anler

anongender

antigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

antiboy

antigirl

anvisgender/apagender/inersgender

anxiegender

apogender

apollogender

aporagender

aptugender

aquarigender/genderflow

archaicgender/eldrigender/historiagender

archaigender

argogender/arogenderfluid

ariesgender

arithmagender

astergender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

asterboy

astergirl

asternonbinary

astralgender

atergender

atmosgender

autigender

avarumgender/varumgender

avarumboy/varumboy

avarumgirl/varumgirl

avarumnonbinary/varumnonbinary

axigender/axisgender

axiboy/axisboy

axigirl/axisgirl

B

batgender/moongender/nocturnalgender/owlgender

bigender

man-leaning bigender

neutrois + man bigender

neutrois + woman bigender

woman-leaning bigender

bigenderfluid

bijougender/jewelgender

biogender

bissu

blizzgender

blurgender/genderfuzz

boggender/crocgender/gatorgender/swampgender

boi

borderfluid/bordergender

boy-proximal/boyprox

boyflux/manflux

brevigender

buckgender

burrnesha/sworn virgin

burstgender/spikegender

bxy

C

cadensgender

caedgender/caedogender

caedboy/caedoboy

caedgirl/caedogirl

caelgender

canidaegender/canigender/canisgender

caprigender

carmigender

cassflux

cassgender

catusgender/felidaegender/feligender/felisgender/nekogender

causticgender/caustigender

caveagender

caveaboy

caveafluid

caveagirl

caveanonbinary

cavegender

cavusgender

cendegender/cendgender

cendboy/cendeboy

cendegirl/cendgirl

cengender/resgender

cennedgender/pareogender

cervusgender

ceterogender

ceteroboy

ceterogirl

chaosgender

charagender/egogender

charaboy/egoboy

charagirl/egogirl

charanonbinary/egononbinary

charmgender

charmboy

charmgirl

cheiragender

circegender/circgender

cloudgender

cocoongender

cocoonboy

cocoongirl

cogitogender/cognogender/existigender/filogender/opinogender/pensgender

cogitoboy/cognoboy/existiboy/filoboy/opinoboy/pensboy

cogitogirl/cognogirl/existigirl/filogirl/opinogirl/pensgirl

coigender

collgender

colorgender

greengender

comgender

commogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

commoboy

commogirl

commoneutral

commononbinary

compassfluid

compassgender

condigender

condiagender

condiboy

condigirl

contigender

corugender/flashgender

coruboy/flashboy

corugirl/flashgirl

cosmicgender

cryptogender/gendercryptic

crystagender

cutegender/gendercute

cyclogender

D

daegender

daimogender

daingender/delicagender/elegender/ethegender/ethereagender

deaboy/deamasculine

deergender/fawngender

delphigender/mystigender

demigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

demi-offboy

demi-offgirl

demiagender

demialia

demiandrogyne

demibigender

demiboy

demifluid/demigenderfluid

demiflux/demigenderflux

demigenderqueer

demigirl

deminonbinary

demitransgender

deogirl/deofeminine

digigender

diurnalgender/flowergender

dodransgender

dodransandrogyne

dodransboy

dodransnonbinary

dodransgirl

dodransneutrois

doegender

domgender/plerugender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

domboy/pleruboy

domnonbinary/plerunonbinary

domgirl/plerugirl

dragongender

drakefluid

dreamgender

dryagender

dulcigender

duragender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

duraboy

duragirl

duranonbinary

E

eafluid/enbyfluid/nobifluid

earthgender

eastgender

echogender

echoboy

echogirl

echononbinary

ectogender

effluide

effreu

effrille

effron

egender/exgender

ekragender

ekraboy

ekragirl

elementgender

elissogender

emotugender/motusgender/sensumgender/sentigender

endogender

endoboy

endogirl

energender

entheogender

entrogender

entroboy

entrogirl

equigender

equinogender

erotogender

erotoagender

erotoandrogyne

erotoboy

erotogenderqueer/erotoqueer

erotogirl

erotomaverique

erotoneutrois

erotononbinary

espigender

evainsgender/evaisgender/locugender

exiccogender

expecgender/pivotgender

explorgender/explorogender

F

fa’afafine

faegender

familiargender

fascigender

fatugender

faunagender

femfluid/femmefluid/venufluid

femfluidflux

femgender/femmegender

femminiello

fengender

feugender

fingender

firegender

firmagender

fissgender

fluidflux/fluxfluid

foggender

fogboy

fogfluid

foggirl

freezegender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

freezeboy

freezefluid

freezegirl

freezenonbinary

frostgender

fuzzgender/fuzzygender

fuzzboy/fuzzyboy

fuzzfluid/fuzzyfluid

fuzzgirl/fuzzygirl

G

gemelgender

gemigender

geminigender

gender creative

gender neutral/genderneutral/neutral gender

gender nonconforming

gender questioning

gender variant/gendervariant

genderale

genderblank

gendercollector/genderhoarder/hoardgender

gendercosm

genderdormant

gendereaux

genderfae

genderf*ck/genderfuck

genderfleur/gendfleur

genderflight

genderflora

genderfluid

genderflux

genderglitch/genderglitched

genderhu

genderless

gendermaverick

gendermeh/mehgender

gendernegative

gendernull/nullgender

genderpansy

genderplasma

genderpositive

genderpunk

genderqueer

gendersea

genderslider

genderstrange

gendersuperfluid/shifterfluid/superfluidgender

gendervague/vaguegender

vagueboy

vaguefluid

vagueflux

vaguegirl

gendervex/gyaragender/gyragender

gyaraboy/gyraboy/vexboy

gyaragirl/gyragirl/vexgirl

gendervoid/voidgender

genderweird

genderwitched

girl-proximal/girlprox

girlflux/womanflux

glarogender

glassgender

glimragender

gossagender

gravgender/gravigender

graygender

greygender

gxrl

gynefluid

H

heagender

healegender

heliogender

hemigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

hemiboy

hemigirl

heminonbinary

hijra

homgender/worlgender

horogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

horoboy

horogirl

horononbinary

horrorgender

hydrogender

hypogender

hypoboy

hypogirl

hypononbinary

I

illusogender

illusoboy

illusogirl

impediogender

implagender/inexgender

intensiflux

intensigender

intergender

inturgender

invisigender

ipsogender

ipsogender man

ipsogender woman

J

jouine

jupitergender

juxera

K

kingender

kinggender

L

lamingender

laogender

lavagender/magmagender/volcanogender

lavaboy/magmaboy/volcanoboy

lavagirl/magmagirl/volcanogirl

lavanonbinary/magmanonbinary/volcanononbinary

leogender/reigngender

lettragender

leukogender

libergender/liberique

libragender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

librafeminine

libramasculine

librandrogyne

libranonbinary

lichtgender

lilapsogender

lilapsoboy

lilapsogirl

lovegender

luagender

ludogender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

ludoboy

ludogirl

ludononbinary

lunagender/monagender/monegender/selenogender

lysigender

M

macrogender

magegender/magusgender/venefigender/witchgender

magigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

magiboy

magifluid

magigirl

maginonbinary

magiogender

māhū

malagender

malatransgender

marfluid/mascfluid/mascufluid

margender/marigender/maringender/nubilagender

marsgender

mascfluidflux

mascgender/mascugender

maverique

mazeplexgender

medeigender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

medeiboy

medeifluid

medeigirl

medeinonbinary

melauche

mercurygender

microgender

midgender

mingender

minumegender/subgender (I don’t have the flag for the general gender, but I have flags for specific genders under it)

minumeboy/subboy

minumefluid/subfluid

minumegirl/subgirl

minumenonbinary/subnonbinary

mirrorgender

mnioct

mniobainin

mniodrach

mniofirin

mollgender/molligender

moll-agender/molli-agender

mollboy/molliboy

mollfluid/mollifluid

mollgirl/molligirl

mosaigender/portiogender

multigender

multigender otherkin

musicgender/musigender

genderalto

genderbass

genderbeat

genderclef

genderdynamics

genderflat

genderforte

genderfortissimo

gendermajor

genderminor

gendernatural

genderpianissimo/genderpp

genderpitch

gendersharp

gendertreble

mutare/mutaregender

mutogender

muxe/muxhe

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Amorgender, Erogender, Filkogender

Amorgender or Erogender (or Filkogender, when regarding QPRs): When your gender changes whilst in the presence of an individual to whom you have developed a deep connection for. This could be a romantic attraction, platonic connection, a spiritual affinity or anything similar. For example: An amorboy would identify as male only to someone they felt connected too.

The prefix for this term comes from the Latin “amare” meaning “to love” Erogender (from eros, the greek god of love).

Alternative name for (queer)platonic version: filikogender, from filikós, greek for friendly.

Term coined by: @pythya​

Amorgender/Amorneutral/Amornonbinary:

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Full size [Here]

Designed by: pridearchive

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Designed by: Me (for whoever prefers more “standard” designs)

Amorgirl/Erogirl:

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Amorboy/Eroboy:

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Full size [Here]

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Full size [Here]

Color meanings: 

Yellow: Platonic bond.

Blue & White: Spiritual Bond.

Pink/Blue/Purple: Femininity/Masculinity/Neutrality.

And the Two Rings represent a connection/bond.

Full pride gallery HERE! FAQ and “dictionary” of genders, orientations, and other related terms HERE. Send any questions to Ask-Pride-Color-Schemes!

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Is there a known gender/sexuality for when you always reflect the gender of your partner/ person you’re attracted to. So you could switch between male/female/NB (unintentionally), so that you’re always experiencing same-sex attraction? If that makes sense? It’s taken me years but I’m realizing this is what I have been experiencing.

Some possibilities are:

Condigender: A gender that is only felt under specific circumstances. can apply to any existing gender such as girl, boy, non-binary, etc. for example, a condigirl may only feel like a girl during specific times or with specific people, a condiboy may only feel like a boy during specific times or with specific people, so on.

Mutogender: A subset of genderfluid; describes when your gender changes depending on your situation (such as location or people surrounding them).

Mirrorgender: A gender that changes to fit the people you’re around.

Ludogender: A gender which has a core, but the individual “tries on” different genders because they are mirroring another individual.

Amicagender: A gender that changes depending on which friend you’re with at the moment.

Amaregender: A gender that changes depending on who you’re in love with.

Amorgender or Erogender (or Filkogender, when regarding QPRs): When your gender changes whilst in the presence of an individual to whom you have developed a deep connection for. This could be a romantic attraction, platonic connection, a spiritual affinity or anything similar. For example: An amorboy would identify as male only to someone they felt connected too.

Copygender: A fluid gender identity that mimics the gender of someone the person has strong feelings for.

Chamgender: When your gender identity changes to match the gender or perceived gender of whomever you’re with at the time.

Reflectigender: A gender that reflects that of the identifier’s romantic/platonic/social interest.