#feeder to feedee pipeline

[growmydarling]

People really underestimate the influence blogs like yours have on the feeder to feedee pipeline.

It starts when you're browsing Tumblr, looking at hot fatties and then naturally the algorithm throws some FFA content in the mix. You might skim over it the first few times, but eventually you get curious. You see a few posts with some light teasing, some of adoration, some more harshly worded.

It somewhat arrouses you, so you read on. Now the algorithm is pushing more of that content. You discover blogs that become "favourites" but the entire time, it's just a fantasy. You'd never dream of actively gaining. After all, you're a fit individual who has always stayed in shape.

Over time you find yourself skipping the gym or having an extra cookie. You make excuses. "I've been busy" or "It's just a few extra calories, I'll walk it off". But this is new behaviour. You don't realise yet, but your Tumblr content consumption is altering your brain chemistry. But still, you see yourself as someone who is in shape, just slacking a bit.

Months pass and after reading some responses of praise to Asks about stuffing, you take the plunge and stuff yourself one night. It's exhilarating. You imagine a hot feeder praising you, perhaps gently teasing you for your greed and patting your rounded belly. In your post orgasm clarity, you tell yourself it's just once and won't become a regular thing. I think this is the threshold of "too late" for most of us.

Before you know it, it's 2 years later. The stuffings out of curiosity have become normal day to day eating. The dabbling in ffa content has become your entire home page. You've gained 100+ lbs. You're a fully fledged fat ass.

The reality of the situation finally hits. What have you done to yourself?

You check in on all your old favourite fatties you originally browsed Tumblr for. They don't look so big now. Not compared to you. You outgrew the people you were sending anons to calling them "pig". For a fleeting moment you wonder if you regret your choices and reminisce on the days when you could still see your toes.

But then you return to the home page and you're greeted with a post from this blog. Your brain resets back to pig mode and you instinctively order food to stuff yourself with, furthering the endless cycle of gorging yourself until that becomes the norm.

The "ss" prefix to your "BBW" or "BHM" is no longer an "if" but a "when".

you can dip your toes in the feedist water, but if you put your whole ankle in, the ghost of greed will grab your with both strong wrists and pull you deep into the undertow. 🤫 the temptatiom is too great at that point.

[elliegoose]

the feeder boy to feedee trans girl pipeline aka learning that you're allowed to feel desirable and experience pleasure aka You Can Just Be The Cool Fat Girl

[kodeeffa]

I present myself as a feeder and even have my own full feeder blog here, but you make me weak. This entire theme of "together" is way too hot and I've been stuffing myself to that idea for days now. I've already grown chubby in the past, but now I'm really starting to get fat

Aww don’t you know, the feeder to feedee pipeline is always churning out feedees. After all, sometimes the perfect feedee for a feeder is themself. Don’t worry though, mommy is here to claim you as well. Ready to watch you grow to become a massive, mindless and greedy whale. I’ll be here to love all of that luscious fat and coax you into clogging those arteries full of cholesterol from greasy cheeseburgers and whole pizzas. Your legs will forget what it’s like to support your body and your tits will grow heavy as they force their way over your roll filled sides. China will hide your neck and the only muscle you’ll have left is the ones pulling that greedy mouth open and shut. Eat up piglet. Eat up.

[quiet-admirer]

For those of you who used to consider yourself exclusively a fat admirer, encourager, and/or feeder but now consider yourself a feedee and/or gainer (whether you still consider yourself a feeder, encourager, or mutual feedist/gainer or not), how do you view that change?

(if that category doesn't apply to you, just wait to see the survey results instead of using "something else" to see the results please! I'm curious about the actual numbers for people this applies to)

[omgcatboi]

The feeder to feedee pipeline is very real. You are in danger of also blowing up like I have.

This is your fate.

[chubbening]

Thing is, we don't think we were ever really on the thin-feeder-guy to transfemme-feedee pipeline, cause we were never even into being a feeder. The closest kink term would be we were voyeuristic toward feedism, but we're not really into voyeur irl. So it was pretty much 100% yearning and self-insert the whole time lol

[gainercrimsonartblog]

At this point it’s probably safe to say that Nikos is of the thin feeder -> chubby feeder -> fat feeder -> feeder and feedee -> full on gainer feedee pipeline

It takes a while, but he has plenty of time to reach that point.

And since he and Yin are in an open relationship, there’s nothing to stop the addition of another feeder to help Yin keep Nikos well fed and growing bigger

[fayamn-moonlit]

I find myself feeling envious a lot. Not just of girls in general (the pipeline is so real) but of feedees. I'm an encourager/feeder so I see plenty of feedees repost stuff like yours and what you people write is amazing, and seeing how flustered and happy it makes other feedees...I almost feel like I'm missing out on the fun. Doesn't help that I've always felt like I'd make a great feedee with my huge appetite and love for fried foods. Idk am I fucked?

Find a way to give it a try in a live feeding session... Or even better an IRL one. You'll know what your heart crave~ And it might be you like both!

[piggies-r-us]

So if you’re depressed and into death feederism, is gaining all this weight your way of committing suicide?

Genuinely curious, no hate

ahahhahahahha no they’re unrelated i feel like a lot smarter feedees have wrote about the ED to feederism pipeline that i dont need to go into it

but yeah i do think death feederism is hot but if i were to unalive myself it wouldn’t be my chosen method ahahahha

[prettyprincesspiggy]

The feeder to feedee pipeline is literally elite

[fatterpussycat-kill-kill]

The feeder >> feedee pipeline is such a struggle when you love food as much as I do. I think it’s time to officially reassign myself to the ‘mutual gainer’ box…

[hedoneet]

i've been struggling to come up with a label that 100% satisfies me. okay, so, "feedee." that means someone who is being fed, implied to be someone with a feeder. i'd love a feeder, but idk that i really have one?

okay, so there's "gainer" and i like the feeling of acknowledgement of solitary fattening behavior. but it doesn't have the same visceral kick of "feedee"

which makes me hover around terms like "glutton" and "hedonist"... i especially like the latter, because it more transparently includes the pleasures of overindulgences in things like drink and drug as well, and that's important to me, too...

but there's nothing that quite captures that "follower of The Easy Way" energy i want to succumb to. i guess that's why i added "neet" maybe? as a way to incorporate my laziness/selfishness/bad-person-ness that i get this kick out of fetishizing.

i think it's like, the way some people get about how fattening "the american lifestyle" is? i really really like "living a sad little life as a spoiled, dead-end, lazy, hopeless, neet" as a similar erotic pipeline to indulgence, gluttony, hedonism, descent, and yes, fattening.

so "hedoneet" is the word for that. it means someone who lives for a full belly and a hazy head, someone who never wants to work a day in her life. someone who only cares about feeling good. someone who says "fuck society, fuck everything. i want my happiness, and it's so easy to give in to it..."

the forbidden pleasure of just giving up...

[nevermindtheweights]

Yanagi going from just licking her fingers clean of grease from whatever calorie bomb concoction she shoved into her current project's face to fullscale stuffing her guts on the food she mashed together to wreak havoc on a fat girls digestive system

Feeder to fatass fuck pipeline

Yanagi won't admit it but her plan involves eventually succumbing herself to the bountiful bliss she had forced upon many.

She will be the pinnacle of her work, the final finale.

Until then, however, she will enjoy the off sample, the odd bite, the occasional taste of what is to come.

Her desire to feed will never truly ebb away but nor will her wish to grow herself.

Until that day is able, she will ensure the next calorie bomb is pushed into the nearest 2338lb feedee is she pushing the limits on~

[alittlepudge-neverhurtnobody]

Aaaaa it's so good to see you around again! For OC questions, have you told us yet how A figured out she was a feeder?

ah thank you!! every day i realize more and more that tumblr is the superior social media platform lmao

A came up the same way as a lot of us did: the good old "feeling weird about childhood media to finding deviantart" pipeline. she's been aware of her queerness and her preference for fat folks for most of her life, but she didn't 100% realize the kink aspect until someone she dated early in college gained a little weight and she was like 👀 OH. and from there she starts doing some googling and realizes there's a whole community dedicated to this online. she tries out posting some pictures of herself for a while to see if she likes being on the feedee side, but while she decides that she likes the body worship and admiration of being on that side of things, she'd rather just eat what she wants instead of intentionally gaining. she interacts with people via blog but doesn't venture much into it in real life until the end of college. she dates a girl for while who she does some casual feeding and stuffing with, but they move to opposite coasts after school so it doesn't last. they do stay friends though!

thank you!!

[chubbening]

h-hey, I saw you are a trans female feedee and wanted to know... what's that like? With every passing week i'm more sure i'm trans and I'd love to gain some weight when i'm on hrt. So talking to someone who went through that would really help!

Hi there :)

So I am going to answer your question, but I always feel the need to preempt this things with some important points. Mainly, I can only speak on my personal experience as a feedee/gainer on feminizing HRT. If this is a topic you really want to dig into, I encourage you to get some different perspectives--maybe from some of the other gorgeous trans gals I'm always reblogging! My experience is not theirs, and it will not be yours. Everyone's path and results will vary, with the gaining, with the hormones, with the self-love.

All that said, this transformative experience has been incredible. I had wanted to gain weight lots of times over the years, both before and after I knew I was trans, before and after coming out, and before and after starting HRT. I kept holding back though because I didn't think I'd actually look good with more weight--because I hated my body as it was, so I wasn't able to gain from a place of self-love, which I think is so important. I think I was also restricting my eating as a way to exercise control over a body that had been shaped mainly by things outside of my control. Like, if I couldn't look like what I found attractive, I'd at least look conventionally attractive to other people.

HRT is the best health decision I've made in my life, and what I love most about it isn't even how it's changing my body (stick with me, we'll get there). My results are not universal, but within 24 hours of starting estradiol and spironolactone, I felt better. I felt more awake and in-tune with everything around me, it made my intrusive thoughts and bad days more manageable, it made the world a brighter place for me. It got rid of urges and desires I think would be too heavy for me to get into here, but you can probably guess.

I found that I could love myself, could love my body, which made me finally take the steps I wanted to change it. The hormones do their own work, of course, and I've been lucky on many fronts with that. My tits ain't stopping, my ass (which was already pretty good "for a guy") isn't either. The weight is going mostly where I like it, and the skin softening has helped with that too.

And here's the amazing thing, and why I think the self-love is so important out the gate. I'm not getting my "ideal" body. This isn't the body I used to fantasize about having. My hips are decent, but will probably never be where I want them relative to the rest of me.

But that's okay. It's okay! Before HRT, I didn't think I could accept anything less than total control sculpting my ideal body. Now, I get excited by every little change.

Like my face. I had the stereotypical face dysphoria thing where it just felt off looking at myself in the mirror. Uncanny, like that wasn't me, like it was just the mask of a suit the real me was wearing 24/7. The HRT changed that, probably a combination of fixing (some of) my brain chemistry and the physical changes to my face. Now, with gaining weight, my face is still changing, rounding out, but it still feels like me. It still looks like me.

Okay, after taking a lil break from writing this, I realize I could go on and on even more. (we didn't even get into how all this has healed my relationship to food!) If you have more specific questions, feel free to drop em. (And ask other trans femmes who are open to that!)

And if this is the way you decide to go, allow me to welcome you to the feeder-guy-to-feedee-girl pipeline. You'll have lots of company ;)

Always remember, make your decisions out of love for yourself, all bodies are beautiful, if you want to be trans you can just be trans.

<3

[chronicheat]

People should warn you about the feeder to feedee pipeline more. People should warn you about how in the middle of stuffing your feedee you sneak a few bites in yourself and how because you make every meal you share as rich as possible you're eating just as many calories and how seeing your feedee eat without a care makes you feel comfortable to do the same and how now to your brain seeing any jiggles or feeling any softness at all is exciting and now you're fat(ter) too and instead of being indifferent you fucking love it. and now you want more. They should warn you about that