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I’m part of a large kink group on Facebook. Like 40k+ people. I love it because people ask for help about anything and everything and members of the group are supportive and positive and it’s like “trading cookie recipe” level normal regardless of what is asked. Except like when there is obvious dubious shit going down with bad boundaries, lack of clear consent etc. people are honest and give good advice about that.

However I saw a post a few days ago that kinda stumped me. It was in response to another post that got taken down and I didn’t see it so not sure of context but basically post was about feeding fetishes. And how that OP who removed their post should not be encouraging something that is so inherently bad for someone’s health. It talked a Lot about being fat and the toll on the healthcare system and how this person should be asking why they’re attracted to that and doing some inner work. Then went on to say it is basically the Most harmful form of kink or fetish because it makes people unhealthy and then a burden on the healthcare system. It tried to come off like out of concern for people’s health and wellbeing but really just stank of fat phobia and shaming people for being into kinks that involve fat people, therefore shaming the fat people themselves.

What kinda got to me was that no one was challenging them. So I didn’t feel comfortable jumping in like maybe I’m in the wrong and this is the general consensus out there? I am fat, enjoy kink although not into the whole feeding thing personally.

The idea that someone should sit down with someone else and ask a bunch of questions about their fat kinks and why they feel this way when it’s generally accepted that even things like cnc and rapeplay etc are not questioned (because it would be weird for people to act like your therapist before wanting to fuck you) is so strange to me.

I guess their point was that feeding kinks are encouraging over eating and obesity which is bad, but other kinks could arguably be also inflicting physical pain and also reinforcing emotional distress and yet we’re not all out there trying to be doctors for each other…

I don’t know it was just weird. Wondered what your thoughts are on it.

Nah, they're full of shit and fatphobic and you can tell that by the fact they're spreading the usual concern-trolling unscientific nonsense about *besity and health. They're disgusted by fat and by the idea a person might actively want to become fat and couching it in the language of concern, replicating the exact disgust-as-morality cueing that the sex negative Puritans would against them. It's bullshit but it's incredibly commonplace. Even some fat people wring their hands against feedism/gaining/fat fetish stuff because of their own internalized respectability politics, but it's bunk, because if there's nothing wrong with loving fat people or finding them desirable, or with enjoying being fat, then there's no shame in wanting to become fat or wanting the world to have more fat people.

Feedism, gaining, fat fetishism are all great. It's great to derive sexual pleasure from being fat or being with fat partners, and it's lovely to want to become more fat. More people should do it.

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BAKE SALE AT THE HARDCORE SHOW TONIGHT there is good in this world 💓✨💖🌟🥺

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Valentine's Day commission for anon

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sumo wrestlers in a sunflower field

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i can't stop getting bigger...

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I’m getting so out of control 😵‍💫💕

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hungry

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Stress chef 🤝 stress eater

Who wants to be my stress eater?

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Big fan of “I can’t help myself” weight gain

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happy tummy chuesday!!!! new bathroom mirror has me looking massive :3

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So I haven't bought briefs in like 10 years but I wanted to try some out again.

Turns out 3XL was the incorrect size.

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good morning

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came so hard thinking about being a domestic housewife femme feeder again…. overfeeding my partner and pretending that i’m just taking good care of them like a wife should!! making them enormous breakfasts every morning before work and putting heavy cream in their coffee and packing their lunch in two bags to fit everything and of course ending the day with an enormous dinner and then bringing them beers as we watch tv on the couch after. always baking. always insisting on giving them second and third helpings because they work so hard and their body needs fuel. and every evening they end up stuffed and belching, dozing off on the couch while i gently rub their belly. still never admitting how much i love watching it grow.

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Work from home going swell as always

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Yearning for him to push his limit and then pitifully ask to be taken of, belly kisses and bites included asdfghjkl