#fat solution

[shih-coulda-had-it]

baby v5

[lylahammar]

desperately need more fat video essayists to cover topics about fatness, fatphobia, and diet culture. I'm watchin this skinny girl in this video essay replace the word "fat" with "F" in every quote she reads like it's a slur because she looked up what the least problematic term for fatness was and the article she found put "fat" at the same level as "obese"

[not-gray-politics]

Trans women. I'm grabbing you by the shoulders and yelling. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE SKINNY TO BE FEMININE AND PRETTY AND CUTE. PLEASE STOP MAKING DIETS PART OF YOUR TRANSITION GOALS. WEIGHT LOSS IS A SCAM. I LOVE YOU. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES. YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL.

[ispyspookymansion]

any time you make a post critiquing the trends in music or movies or tv or literally anything there Will be people crawling out of the woodwork to smugly tell you that actually, the problem is that you only watch marvel movies and listen to tiktok music, so, gotcha! and these people are fucking stupid.

[sculien]

i think i just broke my own record of how many times ive called my mom this week crying bc I Dont Want To Do This Anymore

[ms-all-sunday]

me saying "if franky was a bear people wouldnt dislike his post ts design" has the same energy as me saying "the way you fix namis design is you make her fat of fucking course"

[vampacidic]

they should give a girl* $100 each time she goes to the doctor with her mom and her mom makes a comment on her body

*not a girl

[unfriendlyamazon]

"it's just a demo" is an appropriate response to the number of clothing and hair options, and the many features that are still in development

the inzoi weight slider is a tied directly to the body frames and i can tell you now to do what people are asking there needs to be an overhaul of the zois bodies entirely

[handsomeamoeba]

I'm going to keep reporting these fucking ads until I stop seeing them.

[mogai-sunflowers]

y'know, i've been visiting your account for awhile.. and this isn't limited to your most recent post: if you're struggling that much with your weight and it feeling like a "gut punch" in regards to your transition and how it likely won't be available, try exercising, doing runs, going to the gym and going on a diet? it's not easy at all, it's harder than it should be, especially with your present disorders, which will difficult your path all the way through: but it def will help, even if just a little bit. you've got to try, or atleast attempt yourself doing it. ik it's kinda repetitive knowning that somebody has (probably) already told you this, but believe me— it's worth it. this world also doesn't care for anyone who is genuinely fat, which doesn't necessarily mean you should lose weight for that- it just means that the world is unfair and even the biggest differences affect everything/nothing. promotion in positivity towards individuals of these sizes will be ever so slightly affective, especially towards those whose health is at risk (for their eating methods). i'm just worried abt you, sorry if this seems disrespectful. i genuinely hope you get better, sending my love to you. ❤

hey anon, i'm not particularly upset with you because i can tell how genuine this was and believe me, i do appreciate deeply how you care.

that being said, it's generally pretty disrespectful to tell someone to do those things to lose weight, for whatever reason, especially when they're in the middle of a mental health crisis. i'm not saying this to make you feel bad, just saying that i and many others don't particularly appreciate being told these kinds of things when we already feel bad about our bodies.

for me personally, all of the things you mentioned are not feasible for me for many different reasons. i can't do most, if any, diets, because I have really bad ARFID due to my autism, so most of my diet is literally the only foods i can eat without constantly throwing up. i can't eat most vegetables for that reason, and i also tend to get very anxious with diets because they feel restrictive, which is actually the number one trigger for my binging episodes.

i cannot drive most places because i get too overstimulated on the road that it's legitimately dangerous for me to be doing so, so i can't drive myself to a gym, because the nearest gym to me is only accessible via highway, and i have inner ear issues so i get carsick at highway speeds so wouldn't be able to drive myself there. additionally, my executive dysfunction is so debilitating that many days, it can feel like climbing Mt. Everest just to make myself a bowl of cereal- working out is about 100 times harder than that on my executive dysfunction- and that's not even getting into how workouts make you sweat a lot, and I have really bad sensory issues with getting sweaty (and can't really shower on my own, which would pretty much be required after every work out)

i also very likely have an undiagnosed physical disability, because i cannot stand or walk longer than 10-15 minutes without my entire body hurting like hell, so consistent runs and exercise would be quite difficult for me.

i know there's no way you could have known any of those personal details about me, so i'm not in any way faulting you for that. but they're my reality and i have to live with the reality that almost all conventional modes of weight loss are not an option for me. my best bet is to stick to my current personal eating disorder recovery plan which has actually been a blessing, and work harder than ever on accepting who i am without having to change myself to do so. i won't lie, it's a steep uphill battle. but i actually have many more good days with my body image than i do bad ones, so that keeps my hopes up most of the time.

so yeah, for future reference, it's a bit insensitive to give fat people unsolicited weight loss tips, especially if they're in times of crisis (believe me, i've heard enough of those tips from doctors who never even bothered to ask my opinion /lighthearted). but i do truly appreciate your caring and hope you have a great day /genuine

[magnus-and-the-dragon]

I’m 5 lbs away from being under 200 lbs for the first time in my adult life, and I’m not sure how I feel about it.

[kozmou]

There's something so sinister about the future paradox pokemon in Violet that I haven't really been able to put into words but imma try.

These are animals right? Living breathing creatures capable of thought and emotion living in and surviving off of an environment they've been born into. They eat grass, fruit, have predator/prey relationships, build dens, live in groups, aid their environment in some way (i.e. magic bullshit, birds pooping out seeds to plant, pollenation) etc. all in order to survive. To live.

What exactly... happens—In the future.

What happens that makes anyone look at a Pokemon and either create a mechanical clone or... force Pokemon to evolve and adapt into a new pseudo-mechanical form? What happens in the world that has destroyed the environment these creatures exist leaving them no other option but to become something different.

Something more.

Or is it that they're gone? A distant memory of what once was, towering mythical monsters capable of bending time itself to their will- fire breathing, electric shooting, beam blasting monsters that just as easily could be your friend or your foe- no longer there. The largest most complex and famous competitions of strength and spectacle that inspired GENERATIONS- gone. All just fog in the winds. History.

So what do they do? They find and discover and understand this old old world from the lens of a people that couldn't live it. And they try to make it. A recreation of a history they can no longer grasp. Born or genuine curiosity for what once was.

—Post over I wrote all of this out just for my brain to shit out that the future people are just Jurassic Park-ing themselves and im mad about it

[235uranium]

back from the barbie movie and I certainly have Thoughts on what the movie was doing but overall I do think it's worth seeing! it's fun

[playablezelda]

would love for people on this website to tell their disabled friends that voting dem is useless

[haemosexuality]

realizing that big boobs are the reason why i have so much back pain immediately destroyed the acceptance i spent years working on about how my chest looks. lol

[gravitasmalfunction]

Text message from medical office: please call our office to confirm your appointment NO TEXT REPLY

Reader, I no longer need a medical appointment because I am so incandescent with rage I have sublimed out of my physical form