#fandoms really do make shit unenjoyable at times

[bloodied-velvet]

I really will never get the hate towards Greta.

Sure, I guess people didn’t take much to how late she came in and how a romance took place, but take that complaint to the studio and the writers.

There are characters that literally coerced others into sex, cold-blooded killers, and attempted genocide, but somehow a woman who puts her foot down is the one who annoys you. Oh and the “she’s mean to him” …mean to the man who was lashing insults unwarranted at Trevor, calling his family “mentally ill hoarders” just because he was uncomfortable in the Belmont hold that HE willingly stepped into?! (She’s not even mean… she didn’t trust him, which was understandable because the man was practically alcoholic and had dead corpses impaled in his front lawn. The village desperately needed help, her brother legit got killed in the process trying to seek it. He was the only option.)

and I’m not about to get into the topic of racism within this fandom because that plays the biggest role to a lot of y’all, whether you want to admit it or not.

Like why are you bitching at people who happens to like a harmless ship/character? You can block the words and people, you know. Blocking is a free feature.

She may not be interesting to you, but she’s not a bad character.

A lot of you need to fucking chill. I’m not trying to deal with people talking down on me cause I just enjoy a damn ship that’s not even problematic. Like this is why folks don’t like to heavily engage in fandom spaces anymore.

It’s tired.

[southconfessionpark]

I really hate how the fandom treats Butters, you all make Butters so unenjoyable and annoying, all the "hello kitty OwO smol bean",it really rubs on me the wrong way when half of Butters character is kinda about being a prick. Like honestly, his whole character is the fact he's stupid/naive, gets grounded a lot, and a complete misogynist! And when you haven't watched the show and only see fandom shit, you're gonna have a completely different view on Butters because the fandom represents him completely differently. he's not special, he's not sweet. he is 80% of the time the butt of the joke and an extreme prick. honestly why i love Eric Cartman fans, at least they realize and know their fav character is this horrible person and little shit. Butters fans, learn how to do this, you guys piss me the fuck off. (And other fans alike this, like Kyle fans, you also do this, just I hate Butters in general and have dated too many butters fans.) Yap over 🙏

[xanderjkz]

Knox Overstreet- Fixing the problem of a kind boy

I like fucking love the concept of Knox's character and the message he portrays but holy shit they really fucked up when it came to the execution. Both in the movie AND book (ESPECIALLY there). This fandom takes its time to reconstruct his character to be likeable. But how would this actually play out in a better-constructed storyline for this dude with girl problems?

Well, that's the answer I would like to answer today

Knox in the official dead poets media

Like every poet in the movie Spotlight, Knox comes from a family that's enforcing the path of a lawyer. His father is one, which is how his storyline even starts. He is invited to the Danbury's because his dad helped the only responsible and well-mannered dude in the house. And in that same scene, they literally tell us that people expect him to be a lawyer. So there's this kind of pressure.

But not really because we never get to see that side of Knox in the movies where he clearly states that he doesn't like the path people chose for him. All he has is girls problems.

Which is sad considering that he could be so much more

But then we'd have to extend the movie by about 1 hour and that would make it unenjoyable because this movie is perfect because of the pacing they chose. It's fast and yet slow and kinda counts down to Neil's suicide in a way that gets stuck. Because he is one of the main characters and most scenes should be with him. Not with Knox considering if his life expectancy is okay.

So is there any extra scenes in the book?

...yeah no

"But how do we solve this issue with knox's awful storyline?"

Rewrite the book and hope for the best.

Since I'm an author myself I know that writing often gets complicated when your creative streak is gone but since I'm an author I'd solve it this way:

Keep the Chris storyline

Let that boy be problematic, let him make mistakes but not once that deeply traumatises someone like SEXUALLY ASSULTING someone. Knox is the message bringer of the bad side of carpe Diem. Sometimes seizing the day will make things worse because you didn't think it through. That's a great message to bring across, I mean how many 16-year-olds make mistakes that we thought were okay? A lot, and he is the one who made the mistake in the story.

"So how would you change his mistake?"

The storyline reinvented

He meets Chris like usual

Look he didn't fuck up here in the slightest. I too would be stuttering if I met a beautiful girl. And him meeting her through the Danbury clearly shows the problem he has to date Chris. It's classic anyway

Cut the bike scene and use his sister instead

From what I gathered his sister goes to the same school as Chris (can be mistaken but for this story she does! ) so he uses her to kinda pry into Chris's life and find things out. It is problematic if he literally implies stalking her but c'mon, at least someone in the Overstreet family has common sense and only observes in the distance...right? Besides who doesn't use their siblings for their advantages? Plus it brings depth to that mean. Seeing how he treats his sister could indicate his behaviour with people extremely close to him.

Let him attempt the party but be extremely obnoxious

That's what he's best at

His nickname is literally knoxious. But what the hell do I mean by being obnoxious? Let that boy not leave Chris's side. Why? Because that sets up his mistake. Being attached to someone's hip can be extremely uncomfortable and with Chet's provoke able (?) ass this can go wrong fast. (Also we can't forget that Chris is the one being played around like an object in this and this should be his biggest mistake as we do not treat anyone like that, especially women!) But what would be the breaking point for CHRIS and Chet and the thing where he decides that "carpe diem" is good to use (even tho it's not)?

HE DANCES WITH CHRIS

Okay, instead of him being an ass and kissing Chris, he's an ass and dances with her. He was under the influence when he made both decisions which isn't an excuse but something that pushed him towards it. Because Knox in his most sober self wouldn't even talk properly to her.

So, some lame-ass song from the 50s is playing and he grabs her hand. Maybe she danced with someone else and he stole her. Considering that the tension between Chris and Knox is already uncomfortable, this would bring it to the maximum. Chris (as the beautiful woman she is) would try to use this moment to finally talk about his behavior so he lets her go. And the moment he finally talks chet comes in.

This small synopsis is weak but let's be honest, no one would read a whole ass script abt this.

Anyway

Chet comes in, the situation becomes way out of control and the only person getting extremely hurt is Chris. As she was toyed around by Knox and Chet. So she leaves the party prematurely (as she should, take care of yourselves) and Knox returns to Welton with the same bloody nose as in the movie

He goes directly to her house

Him doing so is a direct response to his failure. Between the party and them talking he needs to reflect on his failures and feel genuine guilt. It sucks that he can only do so once he gets punched but at least he has the mind to realise that.

But Chris isn't that easy to talk to. Obviously, this whole thing made her feel weird and sad so she avoided both of them. When he goes up to her house and gets rejected? He talks with Keating.

Mentor Keating

Not only would this solidify his last scene in the movie more but it also gives them a connection more than Keating humiliating him. Okay, but can we fit this into the movie? Not the conversation but he could easily fit it into the scene where he returns to Welton after talking to her.

"What would Keating tell him?"

The same thing he told Neil. Honesty.

Fate decides itself in the decisions you make and Knox knows that lies won't wrap her around his fingers. So maybe honesty carries them to a state where they can be friends.

So his masterplan gets made and it's the most trope-st shit you can think of.

Throwing a rock in the night at her sweet sweet window

Why did I think of this? Well, do you like the scenery of how he originally apologised and made everybody look at her?

At least it's at night so fewer people look and it would show us the skills he earned from sneaking off bc of the poet's meetings. Thus showing the audience more connection to the group. Plus at night people are mostly at their most vulnerable time and it would get Chris to talk.

But what would they talk about?

Considering that he finally saw the wrong parts of his obsession with her, he would give her the space to express her discomfort to its fullest after he of course apologises. But I think Chris wouldn't even express herself to the fullest because she has sympathy for him. She understands that loving someone can make you sick and twisted when you're a teenager but she is still her flesh and mind who clearly didn't want it to cause her relationship to break.

She might not express the worst anger that comes with something like this but she still expressed her sorrow in this mess. And Knox listens and sees the wrong in his actions. He doesn't need to justify himself because no justification could make this play in his favour. And when all is said and done, she forgives him for being so damn obnoxious.

But she doesn't like him in the way Knox wishes her to feel. And knox needs to learn to accept it. Like we all do

The story progresses without knox getting what he wants

Through this whole story he went through, we as viewers get the message that even if you apologise, it's up to the victim of your actions to give you what you want. And throughout the film, I never even got the notion that Chris has an interest in Knox. Hell, they don't even talk that much to build a conclusion on their goddamn relationship before he kissed her. He sets the message of a "Carpe Diem" gone wrong. After that, he is a reminder of us humans and our way of going through those problems you cause.

There are probably better ways of doing his arc, heck give him a different one. I mean he has potential. Maybe he's better off once the group splits or maybe he isn't.

But the way he is in the movie is a horrible portrayal of romance. I get it, the script is from the 80s but c'mon you're allowed to admit that it's bad.

Well, there's nothing we can really do, the movie in itself is an art and should be viewed as it. It fits into the zeitgeist of past generations and our present ones. I love the movie but if I had to change one storyline it would always be Knox oversteet's

Btw can be talk about how stupid his fucking name is? Who names their child Knox? With the last name OVERSTREET

[holidayslinger]

i think the addiction language is making people a little uncomfortable because we're already on edge. there's been fandom homophobia, the show making a "turned gay" joke, buck not addressing his bisexuality in canon, and #letbuckfuck (which i personally don't think is biphobic i'm just... not a fan), plus people's personal interpretations of what the show has been doing. i don't think there's anything inherently wrong with using addiction as a metaphor, it's just that a lot of factors have been compounding and people are disappointed and feeling vulnerable about everything.

fwiw, my post was actually in response to a buddie post that was tagged as anti-bucktommy but i do get that people are feeling particularly touchy rn. (tho i did see other posts they just didn’t trigger my comment.)

i have my own opinions about the whole buck hasnt said bisexual and that’s Bad thing (i don’t think it’s bad, tbh, i think he still doesn’t have the word bc thus far it’s been Only Tommy and that’s part of the whole hes still got shit to figure out thing - speaking from experience as a 40 year old who came out late in life in my 30s and spent years trying to find the right words and half the time STILL doesn’t know it anything really fits) and i PERSONALLY feel uncomfortable with some of the talk about how if we thinks he’s still figuring shit out were infantilizing him or treating him like a child. sexuality is hard especially when you’re kind of feeling it out as you go and honestly labels aren’t everything. i get it people want the tangible representation but for some of us that IS a person who just kind of needs time to say the actual words and is still trying to figure it out. i do think he’ll get there though and maybe that’s Very Naive of me. but right now i think he’s only thinking about tommy - and honestly i think that’s kind of where he’s always been.

its not surprising that mr im an ally i mean sure ill look at a hot guys ass but that’s normal i’ve only ever really kissed or thought about kissing one man and im hung up on him hasn’t really thought about a label TO ME. i don’t begrudge anyone who feels differently.

we all have shit rn that’s making fandom uncomfortable to us so i DO get it. we’re all just feeling our feelings. since 8x06 ive found everything to be a little depressing, particularly hostile, and honestly just completely unenjoyable which is why i haven’t been here much. (both because tommy leaving was just so devastating to me and because i feel like the atmosphere in fandom is just thick and tense which i do understand why but it’s just sigh) so i DO get it. and everyone had a different lived experience that’s gonna color how they view things.

honestly i kind of just wanted to post about how clean is the greatest break up song of all time. i am very sorry if it poked at anyone’s wounds or made anyone feel bad i just love music and pop culture and metaphors and i have not stopped thinking about that song since buck said the thing about relapsing last night.

like it is legitimately still baffling to me anyone reads the things i say on here and cares at all about them even tho i know they do. i just wanna shriek to the void about the weewoos. i won’t argue that it’s the greatest show of all time or anything but i love it i find comfort in it and its fun for me. i’m trying more and more not to take it seriously bc at the end of the day it’s a show where there can be a bee tornado and a shark on the freeway and your dead wife’s clone and then a tsunami just wipes out santa monica and it’s completely rebuilt 6 months later. also chris was gone 3 months 3 months ago but he’s also been gone 3 months last night and how old is eddie diaz anyway????

[anonymousredactedconfessions]

coming from someone who doesn’t really have any strong feelings abt alexis, alexis haters are some of the most annoying people in the fandom. you guys come out of the woodworks every other month just to try to argue with alexis fans and it makes the entire redacted tag unenjoyable for the rest of the fandom. no alexis didn’t sexually assault sam, yes she was fucked up for turning him against his will but nobody is denying that?? y’all will love the evil MALE characters on the channel like blake who’s kidnapped and lowkey tortured sunshine, regulus who’s like only purpose is to stalk and violate his listener, and other MEN who just generally do wrong but hate alexis (a woman) to your very cores and it’s weird as hell. if you can’t handle people liking a character you don’t care for, you’re not mature enough to interact with people in your fandom and you need a hobby. alexis haters are weird and annoying and every time you guys open your mouths to say some dumb shit i like her more and more.

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[stop-breaking-my-heart-telltale]

I don’t get you, CJ. Why are you so quick to throw around the term “bad writing” when you don’t agree with something? Why not simply chalk it up to having different likes or dislikes than other people and move on?

Instead of deconstructing characters you don’t like, why not use your platform to empower other voices and highlight others with different tastes or opinions than you? Different people notice different things about the games. That’s one of the nice things about fandom.

You clearly love writing and analysis, but when you post answers to asks that hold different opinions than you’re own, you often go “you’re valid, but…” and launch into paragraphs upon paragraphs of your opposite opinion rather than truly exploring theirs.

I guess what I’m trying to say is I think your blog and analyses would be stronger if rather than dismissing plot points or characters as “bad writing” you step outside yourself and ask others what they see in that writing since it’s not connecting with you.

To be fair, anon, I don't get me either.

But I hear you, so if you'll allow me to do the thing where I launch into paragraphs upon paragraphs, let's talk about this.

I assume this might've come about because of the recent Violet talk here? Or maybe it's from older posts, I dunno, you didn't specify so I can only speculate and use the Violet posts as the main example here.

So here's the thing... deconstructing characters and storylines is something I enjoy doing. Hell, it's one of my favorite things to do. It doesn't matter if I like or dislike the character, or if I agree with plot directions, or if I think it's "good" or "bad" writing. That's how I work things out for myself, how I try to understand why I'm feeling the way I am about certain characters and story elements. I break apart the different aspects of these things and analyze them so that I can improve the content I create and try to avoid the same mistakes I've come across that I wanted to be better.

When it comes to me tossing around "bad writing", or just implying it, I'm not trying to say that "bad writing = trash, garbage, unenjoyable, anyone who likes this is a dingus, how could you?" it's more "I see flaws here and I want it to be better, I know it can be better and it frustrates me that I can't fix it," y'know?

And I'm fully aware that other people might not see it that way. With that basketball Violet post, I know that a lot of the Violet crowd are gonna read that and be like "no, I love the bell tower scene! It fits well with her character! What are you talking about?" and that's fine, I expect that. That post was me writing something that's been on my mind that I wanted to share, it wasn't me trying to scold anyone for liking it or trying to dismiss their feelings about it.

When it comes to differing opinions, especially on Violet, I've come to the conclusion that we just gotta agree to disagree. I've tried for years at this point to understand the appeal of Violet and gone looking for answers about her in hopes of being enlightened, and I have asked around.

In the past, I have made posts inquiring about what people see in Violet [Minerva, too] and why they prefer Violentine, and I got little to nothing in response. So I totally get where you're coming from when you say I should ask others what they see in the writing that I don't, but there's only so much I can do when no one is willing to answer me. So, I have to look around myself.

I've searched through several threads on reddit and none of them have been insightful, unsurprisingly.

That's what sparked my mini-rant about Louis before. On reddit, a lot of the answers on why people like Violet are either "she sided with Clementine, she's just really sweet deep down, she has more trauma, and lesbian," or "I like Violet more because Louis is a traitor," and what the hell am I supposed to get out of that, y'know? They're not really telling me anything, they're just looking to argue among themselves and I've had to throw in the towel on that one.

I've had better luck here, having read some truly insightful posts about Violet, her arc, and her relationship with Clementine. The conclusion I've reached it that the things people find appealing about her are things that I don't.

If you need an example, we'll use the aftermath of Marlon's murder when Violet turns on the group to defend AJ. Every post from the Violet crowd I've read that talks about that scene praises her for turning against her friends/family to defend AJ when they were gonna attack him, it shows what she's willing to do for them, that's something that drew them to her. Then there's me, who sees that as adding unnecessary aggression to the situation when none of them were going to attack AJ, they weren't looking at AJ, and none of this is helping. Neither of these interpretations are wrong.

Guess what I'm trying to get at is I'm one person, and having discussions takes more than one willing person.

Moving on, "when you post answers to asks that hold different opinions than you’re own, you often go “you’re valid, but…” and launch into paragraphs upon paragraphs of your opposite opinion rather than truly exploring theirs."

I've thought about this for a while, and maybe I do actually do this but don't realize it. I like to think that I'm engaging with the ideas that people send me, but I dunno, maybe I can be dismissive of things because I have a hard time being objective. That's something I've always struggled with, and I'm sorry if I ever came across as dismissive or didn't fully explore ideas, that's something I can definitely get better at.

As for "why not use your platform to empower other voices and highlight others with different tastes or opinions than you? Different people notice different things about the games. That’s one of the nice things about fandom."

I've done character nights, ship nights, season nights, etc. for about two years, give or take. That's what those nights were about. Usually, I'd put up a poll and we'd all vote on what we wanted to discuss, and then the floor was open for anyone to give their input, and we'd discuss.

I stopped doing them a little while ago because I was burnt out on themed nights. Remembering to make new polls, setting aside part of my weekends to spend hours answering asks the best I could, usually dealing with other projects on top of it all.... it may not seem like it, but god, those nights took a lot out of me. I loved doing it! Having those discussions were some of the best parts of running this blog, but now my new job has me working 40+ hours a week, four days with ten hour shifts and occasionally some overtime on the weekends, I just don't have it in me anymore to do it every single weekend. Not with how tired I am and with all the other projects I'm working on.

That's why I've started testing the waters with these shorter posts of me throwing out ideas or going on mini-rants. They're something simple I can do with no pressure, just me with an empty document getting whatever's on my mind out... and it helps that it feels like my last fuck has just flown away to the heavens to weave itself into the boat god's beard like as he sails among the clouds and stars..... so now I'm gonna talk about whatever I want and the fact that it's my opinion is implied.

I'm sorry if I'm coming off as a little defensive with this part, I tend to get that way whenever people tell me what I should or shouldn't do with my blog, even if they're just trying to be helpful and I don't believe you have any ill intent with your message. I've had this blog for three years now, and I've always had people telling me I shouldn't do character analyses, I should stay in my lane, just write fanfics and do character nights. I should answer more asks otherwise people will think I don't care. I shouldn't write headcanon posts, that's what other blogs do and I'll be taking content away from them. I shouldn't write that one au I've always wanted to because I should be working on [with you]. I shouldn't write anything but [with you.] I shouldn't talk about Violet because I'm a Louis blog.

And that's dumb. All of that is dumb! No one owns the concept of headcanon posts or character analyses! Just like how I don't own the concept of character nights!

Again, my last fuck is lost in Kenny's beard, I don't have it anymore. I'm going to write and analyze whatever I want, when I want, and the best I can do is promise to be better. My inbox is open, I'll try to answer and engage with you guys when I can, I'll keep doing these posts where I ramble about whatever topic is on my mind, and I shouldn't have to put a disclaimer of "This is all my opinion and it's okay if you disagree, I'm not trying to invalidate you" because that's implied.

Before I close out this long response, I do wanna add a thank you for the ask, I do appreciate the constructive criticism. Usually anons that have any problem with me after I talk about Violet will just call me a piece of shit and tell me to delete my blog. Maybe this helped you, maybe it didn't, either way thanks :)

[latinforlight]

We collectively, as a fandom, need to stop hating on these characters. HOLY SHIT.

The entire point of this show is that no one is perfect, teenage life is messy, the way people deal with parental expectation and grief can be ugly, etc. Why are we holding Ben and Paxton to a completely different expectation than Devi? And to each other?

This is just really making my time in the fandom unenjoyable.

Believe me, I have my issues with Ben. Even Paxton for that matter. But I'm not gonna sit here and shit on Ben just because I don't like some of the things he did. I generally like Ben except a few things, but even then I get why he does those things, making him an interesting character, but I'm sick of how much Paxton hate I see to prop him up. Like seriously, why are people sending anon hate to pro-Paxton blogs? And I'm sure Daxton has their fair share of toxic fans who feel it necessary to bring hate to a blog that's pro-Ben.

Yikes, y'all. We can do better. I want solidarity dammit.

[zhilan]

Not really a question just my frustration sr about my english... I don't understand why people still say shit about Gigi and about how they don't trust her. Like she's probably the only character who truly tried to communicate with her people, everybody else just seems to hide their feeling away...Hasn't that always been the problem? And yet everyone gets a pass but when it comes to Gigi??? And also the woman hasn't said a single bad thing about Bette Porter :)))))) and Bette...how many times she talk shit about Gigi?

And funny how some said their sex scene was meh and tried to compare with the others ...like duh? Don't get me wrong, to me it was hot and beautiful but ofc it didn't truly click because Dani was angry. But for me, the true key point was when they had their later conversation to reach the level of communication, intimacy, and understanding that was when it really felt grounded, that was when it left me shaking... Dani, Gigi, Bette are still my favs even though Bette really gets on my nerves a lot this season. Hate seeing them fight!!

I think it's hard sometimes, when you see characters that mean something to you be hated on by other people. I also get that it can feel personal especially when they're characters that you maybe relate to or see yourself in. The thing with fandoms though, is that there will always be haters and what I've learned is that most of the time there's nothing you can really do about it. So I say if the fandom is making it unenjoyable for you, try to avoid reading what they're saying or try not to let their opinions hold so much weight for you. Don't let their opinions ruin something you love and don't let them drag your energy down! 💖

I agree though, I've always found Gigi to be extremely open, honest and very in touch with her emotions which is good thing. I think a lot of people misinterpret that openness and willingness to put herself out there as her being a player, but I really think she just genuinely tries to put effort into every relationship she's in for the potential that it holds and she just hasn't had luck in finding something real (til she met Dani). That doesn't make her a player, it makes her genuine and sincere.

Dani, Gigi and Bette are my favs too! But I don't mind the fighting honestly 😂It's probably because I know they'll resolve it eventually so it's okay but that's just me.

[i-will-physically-fight-you]

That... Wow, yeah... You put it into words... This year has been so rough on my mental state that I'm seriously feeling like that right now. Especially since my grandfather passed away a few months ago my mental health has been declining big time and it's not getting any better. I feel like the last day of this year is when I'm going to die. But yet I don't...care... Every time I go to sleep I keep wishing that I don't wake up. And when I do in the morning I feel disappointed and depressed, like I wanted nothing else but to not wake up.

I often daydream every single time I step outside that I'll get in a car accident and die. Or some car will run me over. And I keep feeling more and more awful cause as my mental health is declining more and more I can't concentrate on drawing or writing. And my adhd brain is screaming at me that if I'm not constantly doing something in this fandom that I'm worthless. Im nothing. And it doesn't help that my hyperfixation of this fandom is dying out and I have nothing else to hyperfixate on. So I already feel like shit too.

And it keeps getting worse with no end in sight. I have no friends to express this to. My parents will think it's a joke and just brush it off like they have before. But thank you. I knew this was a sucidal thing but I didn't know there was a term for it. And it makes me feel better that I'm not the only person feeling this so thank you.

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Aww, dear anon I wish nothing more than to offer you a hug and maybe some hot chocolate :(

I feel you, I really do. I’m glad that by sharing my experiences, it’s helped a bit. You’re truly not alone--regardless of what your brain might tell you. And it’s true that some people might not understand, but it’ll surprise you how many will understand. I want you to know that I think you’re incredibly brave for sharing your experiences with me. And I hope you prove yourself wrong by living to see New Year’s Day happen and many more days.

In regards to creating content, during the height of my suicidal ideation, I could not write. I really truly couldn’t. And it ate at me, because writing is my thing--if I’m not writing, what good am I? It was also extremely bad, because I was still taking classes and one of my classes was a creative writing class. 

So uh, it was extremely important for my grades to be able to write. I couldn’t bring myself to either drop out or reach out to the professor with what was going on. I really wish I had. Maybe the professor would’ve been understanding. It was an online class and I kept waiting for the professor to be the one to say something about my missing assignments, to notice and reach out, but they didn’t. I got a F in that class. A F for something I’m extremely passionate about. A F for something you could argue I’m decent at. 

And honestly, I still struggle with viewing writing as the only thing causes me to have value. As creators our writing/art can be something so intimate that we feel like it’s a part of us. And while it is, sorta, also it’s a separate entity, a tool we use to express ourselves. You are more than the writing/art you create. You have value outside of it, and it should not define all that you are. 

You are not worthless if you aren’t constantly producing writing/art. Your worth isn’t measured by how much content you produce. By just existing, being on this planet, is value enough. The odds of you existing at all is infinitesimal. As a friend once told me, “You’re a human being, not a human doing. It’s okay sometimes to just be.”

 Allow yourself a chance to heal. Take a mental breather from creating. No one expects an athlete to perform at their absolute best if they’re injured. They expect that athlete to take time off the field and heal before they go back out there.

By continuing to create when it’s causing pain will cause your brain to associate writing/art as something negative and unenjoyable. I know it’s hard, I know how it feels by not writing/drawing you cease to have worth, but pls consider it.

In regards to waking up--I often create task lists, because it helps me stay on target in the midst of adhd/depression fog. The first thing I always have at the top of my list is “Wake Up” it’s sorta silly, but y’know what? Waking Up is a big accomplishment. It’s not something you wanted to do. You could’ve laid in bed all day but you didn’t. You got up. That’s BIG. Recognize that.

If you ever want to reach out to me via askbox again or even DMs, please feel free to. I’d be happy to offer a listening ear and perhaps provide further encouragement should you need it. I’m rooting for ya <3

[tacosandtomcos]

So many Starcos are so used to shoveling shit into their mouths they have no idea what good writing is like, or what it should be.

eh i don’t think that’s true, plenty of people know how messy things became later on down the series.

but at the same time, despite how subjective a lot of these things can be.

there is a way to write and handle plots and pull off arcs to achieve an ending that feels complete, like, i think if things had gone perfectly the fandom wouldn’t have reacted the way they did.

Like, don’t get me wrong , even endings that feel fantastic you can look back on and wish maybe something had changed.

But i think if the ending or how something was done turns off a majority of people and takes them out of the story, then it probably failed in some way.

like i feel more like people who found tom ok didn’t care, but people who had been really invested in tom’s arc were pretty mad about his treatment, and these are the people this show is supposed to win over here.

the show has to aim for ending everyone’s arc in a way where the people who enjoyed their characters feel satisfied with their end and how things went for them and that they spent a good amount of time on them.

there’s nothing more satisfying in a character arc then for a character to feel like they found their true happiness, go through all their problems for the most part, and accomplished everything they set out to do. 

I’m happy tom got through his problems, i’m super happy about it.

but it’s extremely difficult to enjoy his arc because it was tied so closely to his relationships with star and marco, and the show practically dismissed those relationships by the end.

He improved greatly, and i’m proud, but he came so far because of his friends and both of them pushed him aside and it felt around the end more like he was another love interest that was being brushed aside for star and marco.

the idel end should’ve been for him to not only have improved, but for those relationships to reach their peak, and instead they got cut off because they needed star and marco to be together, so they never reach a peak, they feel shortlived or brushed to the side.

all that relationship development he has with both of them and it doesn’t really amount to much, it comes off like it exists for tom to push them together and that leaves a bad taste in my mouth because it makes everything feel less genuine.

like they made him friends with them just so he could get them together, it takes a lot away from his arc and gives him a rather unenjoyable, and weaker end.

He got no sendoff for his character despite being here since the beginning, he was just kinda...there

[transhawks]

Something I've noticed in like...discourse is that the way I and @dabistits approach it definitely based on the fact both of us are social science majors used to looking at source material, questioning biases and validity, and debating ethics. It's part of it.

And we bring that method but ...that also comes with the assumption the people whose content we criticize can engage like that? Many of people holding fast to their noncon porn and shota/loli stuff are still practically teens, even if legal adults, and if not, assuming everyone has the access to academia is obviously near-sighted.

But it makes having conversations difficult then - because there's very little engagement with the actual arguments being made and only reactions and complete disregard for 'why' someone is saying and only 'what'. It also got really messy when people revealed their status as csa survivors as justification when, as we should be honest, that stuff is produced and consumed by people who aren't necessarily survivors.

So, it's a derailment in itself, because it focuses on who has the right to produce and consume this material, something that can't be debates because it cannot be 'policed', rather than the initial argument of whether sexualized and fetishizing depictions of rape for the sole purpose of sexual gratification should be produced and consumed in fandom spaces at all.

And, listen, I do have friends who vehemently disagree with me because the point of escapism, which fandom undou tedly is, is not to give things like this a consideration. For many of these people, sex isn't a real life reality either and so this glorified 'dark, taboo, edgy' shit is pretty much frustration at situations in life where sex is either unavailable or unenjoyable as much as what they produce and consume. Questioning whether it allows for a healthy community to consistently celebrate and unquestionably defend the right of prosuction to rape porn or child porn or incest, is seen as a personal attack on many of these peoples' sexualities because if they truly start examining it from moral standpoints or a wider community perspective, they'll start to question their enjoyment and people hate being uncomfortable. Cogntive dissonance is a thing.

Finally, I'll also say this: I heard a few seconds of the Emmy's last night and Billy Porter explained succinctly why actors and artists are important: their fictional portrayals change the hearts and minds of viewers. As uncomfortable as it is, maybe it's time we admit that all the media we consune does affect us, affects our time, affects our views and emotional states, and affects us in general.. Fiction...non-fiction, it doesn't matter; media shapes us and our realities, changes minds all the time.

And I truly hope within time many of those defending the content Worldie was criticizing change their minds too. I know I did.

[tinkdw]

How do you manage to stay positive amongst this awful fandom mood that’s been going on since the cancellation announcement? It’s like there’s new wank everyday from almost all sides and it really takes away my enjoyment of the show, I wish I had your patience to deal with this

I generally have bigger fish to fry. I don’t let it get more important in my life than is healthy.

When I was depressed and found SPN, binge watched it all and googled “do cas and dean end up together” after season 9 and found fandom, when I set up my blog when season 12 aired, I used it as a crutch. I was obsessive. Now I’m over my depression and have a 4 week old baby I enjoy the show and stay in fandom out of habit and thanks to the distraction for the night feeds tbh!

But it should never be more than a hobby unless it’s helping you through something, imo, and if it turns ugly and unenjoyable then it’s time to take a pause.

That’s the issue with these bitter and anti people, they’ve let it get too obsessive and important in their lives to the point where their negative emotions spiral to the point they can’t see reality anymore and think their crazy ass reaction is normal. It’s not normal. It’s a friggin tv show. If you’re assholing at real people over it there’s the line you just crossed from normal fun hobby to obsessive and unhealthy. There’s a reason the term Stan is reminiscent of someone murdering their girlfriend and child and committing suicide it’s UNHEALTHY AF.

Enjoy what you enjoy, go for a walk, see real life people, get your hair cut, idk, but don’t let a tv show run your emotions. Enjoy the entertainment, make some positive friends in fandom and if it’s not enjoyable then stop.

I generally just enjoy what I enjoy and have fun with my friends here and on my Twitter GC, otherwise I roll my eyes at the idiots tbh. I’ve spent 3 years pointing out the bleeding obvious and people still wanking about stuff I’ve explained a gazillion times or that’s just standard fucking storytelling or common sense... I roll my eyes and remember that’s what the writers and cast do. Bobo literally likes anti tweets cos he thinks they’re funny, j2m give zero shits about the antis, Dabb fucking trolls them.

If they don’t let it get to them and they can continue to create the show and enjoy it then I can continue to watch it and enjoy it. As for those choosing to wallow in negativity

[smileykeijser]

hey if you don't mind saying what are your reason for not enjoying skam france? cause ibwas really enjoying it up until a but past half way and then i just stopped and im tryna figure out what .if it have been the reason(sl

I’m mostly going to talk about season 3 here because from what I’ve seen the first two seasons were just copies of the original and didn’t have much problems apart from that.

This got super long so it’s under the cut.

Problems in the actual show:

I found Maxence to be extremely unrealistic as a 19 year old, he looked way too old and it broke the spell for me. I know Rocco was also way too old, but they did a much better job making him look like a realistic high schooler, Maxence never sold me which made it hard to believe the show. I saw a similar problem with Michel being cast as Charles because as sweet as he is, he looks nothing like a high schooler so it didn’t seem realistic. Both Maxence and Michel are super sweet guys they just didn’t fit into the show.

The entire season felt cartoonish to me. Sure there were some really great moments but overall the new characters and the atmosphere of the whole show felt cringy and cartoonish to me which made it unenjoyable.

The way they had Basile and Daphne end up together was awful. I know they were trying to do a whole redemption thing with Basile but he was terrible all season long, and not in a douchey boy way like in Skam NL where you don’t like them because of how realistically awful they’re acting, he just seemed like a terrible attempt at a comedic character that was the cringiest part of the season. Then he kept approaching Daphne even though it was blatantly clear she had zero interest in him, and yet when he finally stepped away they decided that she would just flip on a dime and figure out she liked him because he acted decently one time? Ugh she deserves better.

There were certain things that didn’t really come through in the end that I didn’t like. Mika treated Lucas so poorly at the beginning, but there was never any sort of resolution where Mika apologized or they mended their problems, I mean, Lucas got kicked out of his bedroom in his new apartment when Manon came back, that’s a super shitty thing to do. And the whole thing with Yann not accepting Lucas as gay and making Lucas feel like shit only to reverse that plot point and not do anything of substance with it made me feel like they were harsh just to be harsh and to say they were, instead of actually making it a part of the season, which they could have done and it would have been really impactful.

I also just didn’t particularly enjoy Elu, they didn’t really click with me and therefore season 3 was hard to enjoy.

Outside of the show:

I found the whole thing so unlike Skam in the commercialization of the season. There was so much bts content and direct information right from the writers and director, and the amount of interview content they released all the time was just so much and broke the bubble. It almost felt like they never wanted there to be a moment without some sort of new content that could be gushed over, and when the outside world of Skam becomes too intwined with the show it doesn’t work for me. It felt like the promotion that I would see from the CW or Freeform here in North America where the actors are as essential to the process as the actual show, when in the og the show took full focus and most of the remakes are creating that atmosphere in some way shape or form. Skam Italia has had some events where the cast does panels or talks to the fans but it didn’t irk me as much because it didn’t feel like the actor content was everywhere on the official channels.

I think that the Skam France fandom has the highest percentage of fetishizers and real life shippers out of all the remakes and it makes the fandom sometimes feel much younger than the rest of the remakes and much less inviting. I’ve also seen a fair few people in the fandom be really hostile to people who dislike the season, calling them homophobic or saying that they don’t have real friends of their own so they don’t know what support looks like. This is not the entire fandom but it makes an impact when you see those types of things.

Overall, it’s not the remake for me, but I respect the many people who enjoy it!

[greybat]

I didn’t realize there was drama happening in the Sweet Enchantments/Voltage games fandoms.

SO, these are my rambling thoughts:

Sweet Enchantments is a cafe with criminals in their employ. Like, my dudes, I kind of think all of these characters are going to have some problematic elements and overcoming them will be the point of their routes. 

However, after playing and considering other people’s points, my main concerns are: 

How much do the customers acknowledge magic is being used on them? I don’t know, seems like a can of worms...

The fact MC gets magically bound to their LI is kind of shitty. She just wandered in, she’s got no clue what’s going on. They could’ve just sent her back? This leads me to suspect there’s a frustrating lack of consistency when it comes to consent in magic use.

Also, I have concerns about the seeming lack of studying most magicians do. It seems it’s usually an innate talent for them, which - to me - implies their magic could affect others without the magician realizing it.

Anyway, on to the characters! My impressions and thoughts on them all.

Emeril

Works part-time at the cafe

Likes detective novels (in Runa’s route)

I wonder if she’s doing community service for a misdemeanor - rather than what she told MC - but that’s me

Seems genuinely pleasant. Seems.

But it’s always the quiet ones that are the scariest.

Roman 

Dude has memory magic... and he’s so pleasant. How much you wanna bet he magics away his bad memories?

In fact, he magics away people’s bad memories. Which could be problematic if people buying his dishes aren’t aware of what he’s doing? 

Like, I get bad memories and feelings suck, but sometimes you gotta steep in them to manage or work passed them.

Definitely eager for his route, though. I think it has a lot of angst potential.

Zain

I’m so interested in Zain’s route, too, tbh.

Curse/dark/hex magic? What did he do to be put in the cafe? What’s the extent of his powers? Was he always side-eyed for his style of magic, so he just went “if you think I’m bad just for my magic, I’m going to do bad things then.”

Though, again, he casts stuff to clear up hexes and curses in his coffee. Is this consented to by the patrons?

Either way, witch man, tell me your backstory. And give me an iced coffee.

Liora

I’m assuming she has calming magic. She literally exudes it (or does she use it to keep her charges + MC in line? Another question of consent and magic.)

Seems like the responsible, can’t-take-a-break type. 

I’m getting a Reiner feel from her, for some reason. Super kind, takes in a variety of charges, but also really responsible. All that’s missing are some parent jokes.

HOWEVER, it seems really questionable to leave her charges alone when she goes on extended meetings.

I don’t know. I like Liora as a character, but I don’t think I’d like her route, if it’s revealed she does manipulate emotions or feelings to a calmer spectrum. For me, I’ve had to re-claim anger and other emotions and to be made to feel otherwise - whether on purpose or otherwise - by magic, leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

NOW, onto the routes available to us. I’ve played both. I enjoy both, even though I’ll probably rip into them. 

Lucien

Anyone else annoyed by his beard? It seems an odd design element, but maybe that’s just me. 

Ice king

Tries really hard not to fall for MC, because it’s a) against the rules of the Sweet Enchantments criminal house ((I think)) and b) it’s against the rules, in general, for magicians and humans to be a thing.

He has luck magic and -he’s studied magic, extensively. (I feel like it’s implied he’s studied more than the other LIs, which is where my concern on studying+control stems from.)

He’s a jerk, but he’s also trying to keep people at arm’s length. idk I’m guessing the last time he got close to someone, shit went down. Maybe he was used for nefarious things, since everyone seems to be “oh, wow, what a helpful magic you have Lucien!” 

I’m not super into his route, but it wasn’t totally unenjoyable, either!

Runa

Charm magic (that somehow animates non-living things and causes people to love her?)

Lot of discourse over coercing or even raping Kamila. I’m not even sure if they had sex. Yes, Runa forcing someone to love her is really shitty and problematic, but love doesn’t necessarily mean sex. (Maybe I missed some key implications, though.)

I feel like Runa has been victimized in the past, to some extent, as well. Not to justify what she did to Kamila and some of the iffy scenes with MC, but I feel like that behavior was normalized for Runa and that implies someone did it to her before. Which, this is coming from someone who grew up in an emotionally negligent and abusive household, has done abusive things without realizing it, finally acknowledged they were abusive, and has striven to be better, I can appreciate Runa getting this sort of potential character development.

Again, my big concern is the overall concept of consent in magic in magician society:  

Are magicians just used to always sprinkling magic on everything? 

Do the patrons know magic is being used on them? 

Or do they just accept magic is always used on anything they consumed or buy? 

Are some magics considered definitely bad (like forcing love, obviously) while they make excuses for other things (like a magically-fueled, calming auras?)

I don’t know. These are just my impressions and I’d definitely like to explore the world of Sweet Enchantments more.

[keyofjetwolf]

It’s that time of year again, friends! It’s time for THE GIFTENING.

This post will be your primer and introduction, particularly handy if this is your first GIFTENING. Even if it’s not, though, I’d recommend reading, as it’ll have info that’s pertinent to 2017′s GIFTENING. Please don’t make your nominations or votes on this post! Those posts are coming next. Anything put here might get lost in the shuffle and not be counted, and nobody wants that.

So let’s try this in anticipated FAQ format!

What is THE GIFTENING? A tradition expressing my love and thanks to all of you for how incredible you’ve been over the year, delivered as only I know how: BY DOING THAT SHIT I DO. For two weeks(ish), I’ll fill your lives and your dashes with stuff nominated and voted on entirely by YOU GUYS. Ever wanted to see me liveblog a particular show, have me livestream a certain game, or watch a specific movie with me? YOUR TIME IS NOW.

When is THE GIFTENING for 2017? We’ll start Sunday, 7 January 2018 and go until Saturday, 20 January 2018, from at least 10am to 8pm PT (ten hours) each day.

Why is it called THE GIFTENING 2017 when it’s in 2018? Because it is. Don’t question me.

Who can nominate and vote? Anyone! Long time Tumblr users, brand new Anon followers, and everyone in between. Just send me an Ask with your nomination/vote, or reply to the corresponding nomination/vote posts via either Tumblr or Disqus.

What’s changed from last year’s THE GIFTENING? A couple things! Based on last year’s THE GIFTENING, I’m going to dial back the scope a bit. I felt, and most everyone seemed to agree, that it all worked better with a more concentrated focus, rather than trying to cram a bunch of different stuff into each day. So this year, there’ll be no more than two things liveblogged or streamed per day, with the volume of vote determining if something has a day to itself or will share. Also, due to a tight schedule, I’ll have to hold firm to the final day of THE GIFTENING being the 20th, so no surprise extra week(s). Also this year, winning shows/subjects have to be approved by my little jury. More on that in a second.

What categories will be open for nominating? This year you’ll be nominating (and voting) for at least five categories: Animated Series, Live Action Series, Games, Movies, and Other. More on those in their corresponding posts.

Any restrictions on what we can nominate? No Steven Universe, for all the reasons that I don’t publicly liveblog Steven Universe anymore. No Gravity Falls, as I won’t be out of my Patreon exclusive time frame to catch everybody up on where I am with the series. Common sense stuff, like no porn. Oh, and if PGSM wins the vote, because we’re so close to PGSM time anyway, I’ll begin with the first episode and go from there, so no episode vote for that one. Otherwise, we’ll play it by ear!

Do you have any triggers we should consider for nominations? I’m happy to report that, as far as I’ve experienced, I’m trigger-free. Which is of course not the same as finding something distasteful or unenjoyable, but that’s a much broader question. One which conveniently ties into:

What was that about a jury? I have a few trusted souls who I’ll call upon/have already roped into checking out the top winners in each category and giving me their or okay (or hell no) before I officially release THE GIFTENING schedule. This is to help avoid that really shitty situation where there’s something I’m about 98% unlikely to enjoy, or its fandom is on the zealous side, or really just any bump in the road that could keep this from being the experience we all want. Which doesn’t mean I won’t crankyblog something (looking at you, Pigeon Fucking: The Game!), just that that sort of thing works best when we’re all on the same page. These folks will do their best to start us off there.

How will voting work? More detail as we get to the voting part, but as with previous years, you’ll have three votes you can cast in each category, from a list of options created from submitted nominations. Each vote will be weighted, by which I mean your first vote will be worth, say, 5 points, your second worth 3, and your third worth 1. The winners will be determined by their accumulated point totals.

What’s the nomination/voting timeline? About three weeks for everything! Nominations will begin TONIGHT, and you can start sending those as soon as you see the appropriate category post go up (I’ll be writing those next). Nominations will be taken until 11:59pm PT on Saturday, 16 December 2017. The next day, Sunday the 17th, I’ll make up the voting posts, and you can vote through Sunday the 24th. The week after that, I’ll be getting the schedule made, and soliciting you guys for specific episode picks, where applicable. I’ll drop THE GIFTENING schedule some time on New Year’s Day, and that’ll give us about a week to GET HYPED.

Don’t worry about memorizing all this though. Trust me, you’ll get LOTS and LOTS and LOTS of reminders.

Can I plug my favourites and try to convince people to vote for the stuff I want? SURE YOU GUYS FIGHT AMONGST YOURSELVES. But to help you out this year, when it’s Voting Time, I’ll throw up a quick forum, where you can all plug and discuss and convince each other in one concentrated space where you won’t have to worry about spoiling me. More on that at voting time.

I THINK THAT’S IT. Which almost certainly means it’s not. Did I forget something? Have a burning question you need answered? Don’t be shy, hit me up.

IT’S THE MOTHERFUCKING GIFTENING KIDS

[targsdaenerys]

the ceiling is a blank slate - spideychelle fanfic

summary: When a laptop is forgotten at the Decaplan meeting, MJ is forced to take it home before no one who shouldn't do. But when she looks through picture and video folders for an identity of the owner, more than one is found.

basically, MJ finds out Peter is Spiderman.

read: on AO3

Part 1/2

This is why she avoided human interaction.

Besides their tendency to be annoying, bunny slutted twats, the smartest could still qualify to be the most irresponsible freaks she came to the unenjoyable fate to meet.

Seriously, how much thoughtless space can a brain on the Decaplan team have room for to forget a laptop?

Enough, it seems, as it’s laid in front of her on her mattress, nothing more than just extra, pain in the ass weight she had to carry home. Of course, it was the only day out of, well, ever, that her phone was dead and her dad had taken her charger to work; therefore, she would not be able to deal with this the easy way and simply ask which idiot decided to leave it.

MJ sighed, letting air escape from her lips to blow some of her mask of hair out of her face, adjusted her criss-cross position and opened the screen. Luckily but stupidly enough, the home screen greeted her instead of a login screen. She smirked nevertheless her low hope of hacking skills coming into use.

AO3

After mindlessly searching everywhere for a name, MJ must give her loser one thing; he or she does know how to hide identity. There was no name anywhere, and although the search history was deleted, the only thing she managed to get from the ��Recently Deleted’ tab was links to videos of that spider dude going around the streets. Rules out Flash. The videos are just too much attention on another individual he would be able to muster. When MJ just decided the person would just have to wait for their precious no-name laptop back, her aimless clicking brought up something that caught her attention. Pictures and Videos.

Well, no shit. She bit her lip in punishment for not thinking of it sooner and leaned forward so her head would rest on her hand.

MJ clicked on the folder. The tab was empty all but for one thing, which was yet another folder, this one labeled ‘Untitled’. She clicked on that one, which led her to the following replica, and repeated the process enough times to make sure the thing wasn't glitching. Sure enough, she was answered when she was met with row and rows of loading pictures or videos. Impatient, MJ clicked on a random one, hoping it would carry some sort of indication of the owner.

And then Peter Parker’s face filled the screen.

Well, that was easier than she expected. Although MJ never thought of him as much of a nerd to be watching endless videos of the spider freak, she turned over her shoulder to see the home phone on her dresser. Too far. Besides, Peter’s probably too ‘crazy busy’ at his internship to realize his laptop is gone, much less answer an unknown number. Why not entertain herself?

She barely turned back in time before Peter's voice boomed from the video, enough for MJ to be startled and turn down the volume. She only got out a whole mix of “It was amazing !” and something about the infamous Mr. Stark and running or jumping and holy shit did he just do a backflip to get the door?

And then a man, one she had never pictured to be his father, basically told him to keep it down. Even with the slight confusion in her mind of where the fuck he was, she found a hint of amusement in his excitable state.

But confusion took over and her curiosity brought her to another, this time, with him in a car. With Mr. Stark. Well, she guessed, at least the possibility of his Stark internship has been increased, and she sort of understood the first video she watched, which likely was the night after his first day. But then, ‘retreat’? In sarcastic quotes? Okay, now she was going to bust the druggie.

MJ clicked on another random one, earlier than the second so she may get a simple look into his ‘retreat’.

“Okay, Peter. You got this, you got this.”  The video opened with Peter in some sort of, what kind of retreat was this where he had to dress like an arctic swimmer?

Before MJ could ask herself, his father asked for her. “What the Hell are you wearing?”

The camera panned up and down Arctic-Swimmer-Wannabe’s outfit. “It’s my suit.”

“Where's the case.”

“What case?”   the clip cut to Arctic-Swimmer-Wannabe following his dad. "Hey C'mon man- What? I thought that was a closet. This is still my room?”  She didn't think he could get anymore dorkier than how he was with Liz. it was always courteous. Nevertheless, this proved her wrong; but it wasn't as painful. “Woah, okay my room is way bigger than I thought.” His father in the background was just telling him please and something she couldn't pick up. “Alright, alright look I found the case.” and he did actually, which was silver and big and overall something one would pick off a movie set regarding a money exchange. Peter picked up a note and read the text, A minor upgrade.

He unlatched the locks and it opened and oh.

She didn't even need to wait for the part where his dad told him to put it on - Happy? He calls his dad happy? Oh, that's bait. That's…

Everything just clicked. And it was so obvious that she was surprised she hasn't even called him out on it yet - even on accident. But that's where her surprise ended. She smirked, shook her head and continued to the next video. And the next. And the next. And then it was over, nothing else but random pictures of everyone on their Decaplan team, some notes, lego things... nothing surprising. Her eyes started to droop and she closed Peter’s laptop.it found its way to her dresser as MJ figured it would be considerable to not panic peter too much, assuming he was home, even after his nightly stroll as a spider dude.

She picked up the house phone and looked at the dials. Which one was he again? Going with the one that was two numbers off from her mother, she put the phone to her ear.

One ring.

Two.

Three.

“Hey, this is Ned. who are you?” MJ rolled her eyes.

“Dick-wad, its MJ. Give me Peter’s number.” after a rambling of protests and that she should be nicer when asking for things, she was given his digits.

Five rings.

“H-Hello?” Rustling was in the background, but the voice was the same one she spent listening to for endless videos.

“Hey, loser. You forgot your laptop at the meeting. I got it.” Everything silenced in his end but a small noise that she would think he made as he sat down somewhere.

“MJ. Hi.”

“Did you hear me? Or do you need ears along with a new credibility lever.”

“Yeah, yeah. I heard you. Um, did you get a new phone? This number isn't in my contacts -”

“Nope. Night.” and with that, she hung up.

----

The ceiling looked like a book that night.

Sometimes it was a number line, sometimes the world. Sometimes a poisonous tree frog’s brain. But tonight, it was a simple book.

Of every single thing only she had witnessed this spider mutant do. Just what she'd seen herself because fuck rumors and the news. Any kind. Especially the school morning news.

She was across the street when he stole a bike from a reckless biker, the one that knocked into her and her books as she had made way outside the library for maybe twenty times by then.

And when he saved her team from that slave-built-tower - despite almost being shot.

She just happened to look out her window to see a ferry cut in half, but still breaking the laws of gravity no doubt due to the same freak.

And although she never really thought of anyone else, picturing Peter was really, really hard.

She's always been suspicious of him, leaving early, coming late, maybe not coming at all. But she was sure he was in a drug dealing mafia or something. Not this.

Although, the more she thought, the more she stared, the more she was able to conjure his face under the mask, he ears making prominent dents at the sides. And his heart in the spandex shit. High tech spandex shit, but spandex shit.

And thinking every reason why it no doubt was him and every stupid thing he's done because of it just made her smirk and shake her head. Because the more she imagined, the more she knew that she knew.

Notes:

hey, readers! thank you a lot for taking the time to read this, I hope it wasn't wasted! this is my first work in the fandom, bound to be followed by countless more. I love this MJ and Peter dynamic more than any other version.

Keep this in mind;

-I am well aware Happy is NOT Peter's father, and that will be addressed in the next part.

-the next part will hopefully be up by this time in twenty-four hours and will consist of MJ actually addressing her discovery to Peter. it will be in his POV

That's it for this part! please leave love and reviews if I deserve it, so ill be able to know what this fandom will want when it comes to writing fanfic. i plan to write plenty in the future, but i want it as enjoyable for readers as for myself.