#family and couples therapy

[efsungeradam]

[ursawiaa]

Family photo taken by the man disaster himself:

My friend and i had this fun idea one time so there it is

[canonicallyobserving911]

Throwback Thursdays - "Their Firsts, At Last" Buddie Fanfic Series

Fanonwriter2023 on AO3

Where CANON and FANON collide!

Hiatus Reading

Their Firsts, At Last - Buck and Eddie share a once in a lifetime, soulmate type of love that transcends space and time and they're madly in love with each other. Follow Eddie and Buck as they experience "their firsts" together starting with their first love confession all the way through to their first honeymoon.

288K Words; Currently 14 completed works: A FANON series that tells Buck & Eddie's love story! Starts with their First Love Confession and will continue until their firsts are complete. It’s multi-part fanfic series about the romantic “firsts” Buck and Eddie share as they journey through life in an established relationship and their lives as a couple will include some of Buck’s individual “firsts” too. It’s filled with the FANON love, romance, fluff and domesticity their relationship should have been allowed to experience in CANON.  The second part of the series title was adapted from the song “At Last” by Etta James.

This series of FANON future speculation fanfics is being written on a continuous timeline that begins with the start of season 7 (if it were to start in September 2023). Each part ends at a specific point in Buck and Eddie’s relationship so the next part can begin with the ending of the previous part. Therefore, parts 1-13 should be read prior to reading part 14 and the series will continue in that manner until it’s complete.

First Love Confession - 8.2K Words; Rated: General Audiences: Buck and Eddie share their first real and meaningful love confession.

First Date - 11.7K Words; Rated: General Audiences:  Buck and Eddie go on their first date.

First Kiss - 12.7K Words; Rated: Teen and Up Audiences:  Buck and Eddie share their first kiss.

First Argument - 14.7K Words; Rated: Teen and Up Audiences:  Buck and Eddie have their first argument.

First Couples Therapy Session - 18.2K Words: Rated: Teen and Up Audiences:   Buck and Eddie go to their first couples therapy sessions.

First Time - 19.1K Words: Rated: Explicit:  Eddie and Buck make love for the first time.

First Morning After - 5.1K Words; Rated: Mature:  The night after Buck and Eddie make love for the first-time, they spend their first morning after together.

First Relationship Reveal - 17.2K Words; Rated: Mature:  Buck and Eddie’s first relationship reveal.

First Mourning - 11K Words; Rated: Teen and Up Audiences:  Buck and Eddie experience their first mourning after a loss together.

First Marriage Proposal - 16.3K Words; Rated: Mature: Eddie and Buck’s first marriage proposal.

First Fiancé Introductions - 27.3K Words; Rated: Teen and Up Audiences:   Buck and Eddie’s first introductions as fiancés.

First Wedding Planning & Preparation - 28.0K Words; Rated: Teen and Up Audiences:   Buck and Eddie’s first planning and preparation for their wedding and honeymoon.

First Civil Marriage Ceremony - 32.8K Words; Rated: Mature: Buck and Eddie’s first civil marriage ceremony.

First Honeymoon - 64.0K Words; Rated: Mature: Buck and Eddie’s first honeymoon.

Parts 1 - 14 are available on AO3.

[dfwbwfbbwfbwf]

Námo has Maiar whose one job it is to go around Endórë with Ghost Vacuum Cleaners and suck up disembodied fëa who refuse/are unable to find their way to Mandos.

(Eöl isn't very happy about this.)

(Areðel is happy to get closure, one way or another.)

(Maeglin is conflicted, but he is happy to know his dad isn't forever lost.)

[deadandphilgames]

oversharing in the tags time :)

[toadsrbutch]

hehe, really fuckin sad to see what a strong grip depression has on your dad and that he’s pretty much gone his whole adult life with no friends or hobbies :’) that’s definitely not sad at all.

[kerink]

guy who literally cant stop thinking about lubelle seeing cecil as a washed up deadbeat who dragged carlos down when he was vulnerable then baby trapped him, and lubelle and her team pitying carlos and wanting to help him because they miss the man he used to be, but carlos keeps avoiding them pushing them away dragging cecil and his team away from fights, looking at them with sad and tired eyes and asking them to just leave him alone

[battlevann]

Death becomes too blinded by his "I can fix him" attitude when it comes to Novo(caine) and begins to put the blame on U.V. when it comes to Novo's behavior and outbursts without realizing it as a way to "protect" U.V.. (things like "well if you hadn't talked to him he wouldn't have hit you" or "you just need to stay away from your father for now/during xyz time of day")

[secretsoftheuniverse1987]

my fic notes are never in anything nearing chronological order, but by god when I try to draft that way do I completely lose track of the order of events

[streightiffsylvan]

The Healing Power of Art Therapy for Trauma

Art therapy for trauma uses creative activities like drawing, painting, and sculpting to help individuals express and process their traumatic experiences. This therapeutic approach allows people to explore difficult emotions and memories in a safe and non-verbal way. By engaging in art-making, individuals can gain insights into their trauma, reduce stress, and foster healing. Art therapy provides a supportive space for people to work through their pain and build resilience, ultimately promoting mental and emotional recovery.

[sebsrainbowbicycle]

Was talking to my therapist about how being injured and lonely has brought out a horrible jealous side of myself that I don’t particularly like.

For example I am jealous in a dark way when people are doing things I can’t, and more so when people I love talk about their family. I turn into a horrible black void of jealousy and resentment and it’s not a person I recognise.

And this bitch looks at me and says “could it be that you’re finally feeling everything you haven’t let yourself before”

I hate her.

She’s right, but I hate her.

[deadrlngers]

i was tagged by @shadowglens and @risingsh0t to make some ocs in this picrew. thank you so much besties, i loved this picrew so much!! <3

vesper moxley (cp2077) • victoria gray (cp2077) joelle knight (fo4) • nina bower (fo4) selene (oblivion) • hiraeth (skyrim)

tagging: @uldwynsovs @arklay @devilbrakers @nuclearstorms @morvaris @girlbosselrond @indorilnerevarine @moiragf @cultistbase @faarkas @steelport @nokstella @reaperkiller @malefiicarum @brujah @calenhads @lightwardens @aelyosos and whoever else wants to do this or that i missed bc i'm terribly forgetful sorry!!

[canonicallyobserving911]

First Marriage Proposal

Fanonwriter2023 on AO3

Where CANON and FANON collide!

FANON Future Buddie Fanfic Series

Part 10 is now available on AO3: “First Marriage Proposal" - Eddie and Buck's first marriage proposal.

First Marriage Proposal

16.3K Words; Rated: Mature

___________

Here's a snippet from one of Buck and Eddie's conversations.

___________

Buck’s eyes light up at the sight of Eddie and his smile widens as the first song on his playlist, “Love of My Life” by Brian McKnight is at the point in the song where Brian sings the chorus, “You’re more than wonderful.  More than amazing.  The irreplaceable love of my life.  You’re so incredible, here in these arms of mine.  The irreplaceable love of my life” and he thinks this is perfect.

Eddie’s stuck in place because he’s not sure what’s happening but he can tell it’s something big.

Buck walks over to him, takes his hand in his, laces their fingers together and says, “This is all for you Eddie.”  He closes the door, then he removes Eddie’s bag from his shoulder and says, “Come over here with me so we can talk.”

He walks them over to the middle of the living room and after they stop, he gets down on one knee and he hears Eddie gasp after he does.

At that very moment, Brian sings the lyric, “Baby you know, you know you’re my one and only.  All I want to do is be together” and Buck meets Eddie’s eyes and says, “It’s true, all I want is to be with you”.

He picks up the remote and lowers the volume on the speaker, then continues.  

“Eddie… you work so hard.  You take care of me and Chris all the time because you’re a caregiver by nature but you deserve someone to take care of you too.”

What is Buck going to say next?

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First Love Confession -Buck and Eddie share their first real and meaningful love confession.

First Date - Buck and Eddie go on their first date.

First Kiss - Buck and Eddie share their first kiss.

First Argument - Buck and Eddie have their first argument.

First Couples Therapy Session- Buck and Eddie go to their first couples therapy sessions.

First Time - Eddie and Buck make love for the first-time.

First Morning After - The night after Buck and Eddie make love for the first-time, they spend their first morning after together.

First Relationship Reveal - Buck and Eddie’s first relationship reveal.

First Mourning - Buck and Eddie experience their first mourning after a loss together.

First Marriage Proposal - Eddie and Buck’s first marriage proposal.

__________

Their Firsts, At Last - 118K Words; Currently 8 completed works: A multi-part fanfic series about the romantic “firsts” Buck and Eddie share as they journey through life in an established relationship and their lives as a couple will include some of Buck’s individual “firsts” too. It’s filled with the FANON love, romance, fluff and domesticity their relationship should have been allowed to experience in CANON.  The second part of the series title was adapted from the song “At Last” by Etta James.

This series of FANON future speculation fanfics is being written on a continuous timeline that begins with the start of season 7 (if it were to start in September 2023). Each part ends at a specific point in Buck and Eddie’s relationship so the next part can begin with the ending of the previous part. Therefore, parts 1-6 should be read prior to reading part 7 and the series will continue in that manner until it’s complete.

Parts 1 - 10 are available on AO3

[pistanthrophobiamaiden]

So I'm getting married. That's pretty cool.

I told myself that being 28 was gonna be the coolest thing in the world. I had this idea growing up that once someone hit 28, they were in that sweet spot of youth and wisdom. Now that I am, I'd say it's a cool life but I don't feel wise lmao.

Anyway, getting married is something I genuinely never thought would happen to me. I met a man, a great man, and he loves me enough to want to marry me. He sees me and gets frustrated with me sometimes, but he loves me anyway.

I struggle to communicate after a lifetime of being conditioned to keep all of my thoughts and feelings inside. I got to a point where I could have something happen to me, I could ball those feelings up like a paper wad and toss them away, never to be seen again.

Only that's not what happens. It gets put away, crumpled, and messy until someone comes along that you can't hide from. They shine a light into that void inside your soul and force you to sort the mess inside you. They will love you while you cry, kiss away your fears, and give you the reassurance that just because you're human and you deserve it. It's going to make your inner child cry, and your inner teenager rage out like nothing you've ever experienced before. It's a journey.

I'm marrying that person. That man. I don't know what I did to deserve him, but my god I'm so thankful for him. I don't communicate well, but I am trying so hard for him.

[fridayyy-13th]

okay so like. i have ocd, and obviously with that comes intrusive thoughts. but sometimes i have intrusive thoughts without a compulsion coupled with them. is that a different thing. is that just anxiety. send help