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Amare System was posted by @revenant-coining and made by a unnamed friend of its! Look here(link) for the original post! Bellow is the definition!

"Amare System: an alternative to partner and bonded system that describes a system that you, as a system, have a relationship with. it can be any type of relationship; platonic, romantic, tertiary, etcetera"

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Fandom Problem #4285:

People who try to desexualize female characters with hourglass/curvy figures by changing their body types or putting them in more "modest" clothing:

1) Are body shaming

2) Furthing the sexualiztion of woman's bodies

3) Treating clothes & hourglass/curvy body types as something inherently sexual

If you want to desexualize a character; put them in poses/situations that aren't sexual, have other characters refer to them as just cute/pretty/nice rather then sexy/hot/thick/etc, have them defend themselves or someone else defend them when another character tries to sexualize them and/or what they're wearing, don't have other characters lust after them/make comments on their body or clothes, focus on their personality and just who they are and not their clothes/body, etcetera etcetera, you should get the point.

Stop treating clothing and bodies as if they are inherently sexual by inadvertently saying they are sexual by removing those to desexualize.

This is coming from a woman who has a hourglass figure who is tired of both the constant sexualiztion in media and the quiet body shaming and sexualiztion in fandom btw

And while I can't fully speak on it, I'm sure my fellow ladies who have bigger rears, chests, or thighs but aren't exactly hourglass/curvy face a similar struggle.

Also this doesn't apply to people making adult content in their own private corners about hourglass/curvy bodies or clothing like thigh-highs/chokers/lace/leotards/etc. People are allowed to feel attraction be it romantic or sexual or both, just don't shame other body types that aren't your preference and don't treat body types and clothing that you're attacted to as inherently sexual—they're people connected to those bodies after all, and they're more then just the skin or clothes they wear.

I'm talking specifically to people who are trying to combat sexualiztion and sexism in fandom/media by treating hourglass/curvy bodies and clothing as something inherently sexual.

Oh and I almost forgot, this all applies to people who treat hourglass/curvy bodies as "unrealistic" too! No body type is unrealistic, because just like how some people are born with green eyes and some brown, you're born with a body type. What is unrealistic is expecting someone with one body type being able to magically get a new one through exercise or diets, not the body type itself.