#enfpthoughts

[raysharifdvagbremerhaven]

Meine neue YouTube Reihe über die 16 Persönlichkeitstypen. Als erstes habe ich mit mir selbst also dem #enfp angefangen. #enfpproblems #enfpmemes #enfppersonality #enfplife #enfps #enfpt #enfpfacts #enfporamor #enfpa #enfpthings #enfpthoughts (hier: Bremerhaven, Germany) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6SoYG0KkE-/?igshid=1vsag2x7co8sq

[coupleaabatteries]

HUMAN

I've found that our human nature is to empathize. If you think about it or not, you empathize some way or another. When loving someone you have to go through rough patches. You have to endure the things you don't want to. You have to say things that you don't want to, even though you know it'll better the relationship. Why must something with so much power and greatness get so difficult to bear?? Because our human nature is to empathize with the other person. Your brain wonders. We are natural wonderers. We wonder if they miss us, we wonder if we hurt them, we wonder if that person is safe, we wonder if that person loves us, we wonder if they will stay, we wonder if that person will be willing to endure the same things we are for them. We care. We love. We endure. For each other. We can empathize with one another because we are both human. We both have temptations, happy times, sad times, we both get frustrated, we pray, we dream, we plan, we both have deep love in our hearts to spare that was planted there. You are living a life, but it all matters on whom you spend it with. You will become like that person. If you spend time with broke people, you will be broke too. Surround yourself with people who wake up with a gulp and seizes the mountain in front of them. The mountain is where you grow. We empathize with one another because we all have a mountain to climb.

[myerbriggsandlife]

Night time questions

Does shyness lose it's tempo as we age?

[coupleaabatteries]

It’s my personality to think it’s better to keep my mouth shut. If you tease me, I might react in a different way. Sometimes I just shut people out. Out of fear? Probably. Just be understanding. I’m tired of conflict, judgement, no communication, rejection, and fear of nobody actually caring. Everyone is. Grace. Thank the Lord for His unending grace.

Abigail grace

[coupleaabatteries]

I know you miss him, sweet girl.

This is for you. Yes you! The girl who misses him like crazy and wishes she could go back to how things were or to the single girl who is frustrated doing things on her own.

Girl, i know how you feel. I actually know exactly how you feel. It’s probably the most helpless feeling ever. Wishing you could go back and just do it one more time and cherish those moment even more.

You feel guilty because you didn’t appreciate those moment enough because somewhere deep down inside you thought it will always be like that.

I was floating on a cloud and didn’t even realize it. I was so happy. About everything and anything. goofy or serious.

I was once told… “you’re my favorite risk, my favorite leap of faith.” Love truly is a leap of faith. It’s all faith.

but I tell you what… it was great while it lasted but I can’t go back. It’s just part of my journey.

You can’t go back so you just need to keep going forward with your head up knowing who hold your future.

God already knows your future and his.

I know you miss him. I know it hurts sometimes. Trust me, if anyone could relate it would be me. I’ve wished I could’ve said or done something different. it’s so hard. I’m still struggling. But what’s made it easier for me personally, is just taking time to process my thoughts and determine which ones are lies and truths then pray about them.

Temptation. That’s what got me. Temptation to go just and do my own thing. I had the attitude of “I’m going to fix it by myself”

that my dear, is taking the short cut.

It’s a very dangerous way to go. I was willing to just take the short cut to things because it seemed clearer and a faster way over to where I wanted to be. And I wanted to be with him RIGHT NOW. It was a temptation. What is temptation??

Temptation is a suggested short cut to the realization of the highest at which I aim- not towards what I understand as evil, but towards what I understand as good.

Of course I thought being with him was good. Seriously, why wouldn’t God want me to be happy?? It’s not like we would do anything wrong in our relationship.

I have been so darn stubborn with holding onto everything I thought was mine. I thought he was mine. No other girl was allowed to have him *news flash* he wasn’t.

I wasn’t being patient in the Lord’s timing, I had him in my hands, my hands were closed and I was just praying “God please take this situation from me” except I wasn’t willing to truly give it all to him. My hands were closed. You see, I wasn’t willing to give it all over to the Lord. I was taking “the suggested short cut”.

My plan wasn’t working. And I know why, God has his reasons for everything. And it’s not my place to know them. I don’t need to know them. God is merciful, faithful and a good judge. Sometimes God says “no” but yet we keep praying for an answer.

And quite frankly we don’t need an explanation for why God does what he does. But sometimes God will give you little answers down the road why that thing you thought was so great wasn’t actually all the fantastic.

Anyways, you don’t realize the reason why it’s not happening is being the answer was “no”.

*insert your name here*, I know it’s so hard right now and that you miss him. I miss him everyday so so much. I seriously do. It’s normal to miss someone. But I just want to encourage you to have patience and wait. I took the short cut at first. Now whenever my mind starts to wander I just pray for him. I pray that the Lord will give him strength, peace, joy..etc. Stay strong and faithful, sweet girl.

All my love~Abigail Grace

[myerbriggsandlife]

Thoughts of an ENFP

Sometimes I think ENFPs don’t realize just how much potential we have. Sure we have a hard time sticking to a schedule and getting things done due to our nagging NE, but when we really want to do something and we stay focused, we can accomplish so much!!!! We have so much energy and ideas that when we do go the extra mile, it’s to the extreme and I really love that about our type.