#endos can interact but do NOT clown on this post. singlets too.

[killer-wizard]

the system tag on this hellsite is horrible dear fucking god. can i exist with my fictive (singular) in peace please.

legit, how do they have NO empathy for mentally ill people. tearing down systems will not make the singlets like you.

it will not make the doctors kinder.

it will not make the systemic oppressions go away.

attacking mentally ill people like rabid dogs does not make anything better.

it does not make your community loving and safe, like it should be.

we are tired. we are traumatized. we shouldn't have to face this kind of treatment from our own fucking community.

\/ more under cut \/

because even if they are faking. there is still something wrong. no one wakes up and decides to do something like that for clout, unless there is something wrong.

having empathy, even for people you might consider "evil" or "bad" lets us understand others in a way i think is helpful. and i don't mean murderers.

when someone gives a long paragraph explaining multiplicity and being plural, and you respond with something snarky (ex: "oh, someone's mad i don't like their tommyinnit alter" -actual thing i have seen happen), it shows that you don't want to change. it shows that you are immature. and, there isn't anything wrong with being immature! i am very immature and that's ok :) but when you harm people, that's... not okay.

it's just like when bi people had to convince everyone they were real. and the same with pan people, and ace people, and aro people and-

exclusion does not help anyone. it only makes our community (both the plural and lgbt) more oppressive and upsetting to be in. and while i do advocate for inclusion, some people really don't need to be included. in the instance of the lgbt community, it would be MAPS (literal pedophiles) trying to act like they belong.

in the plural community, it's endogenic systems acting as though they are on the same level as traumagenic system.

endogenic systems do not have did or osdd. they can't have these disorders without trauma. did and osdd are formed by trauma, this is just how they work.

but that doesn't mean we can be rude or exclude them from the mentally ill community. they are still mentally ill. they still deserve support. and while they appropriate terms and act like they are the same as traumagenic systems, maybe they just need better terms, better coping mechanisms, support.

i am not saying actual systems need to provide that, instead that it's up to the people that are clearly in need of something- a community, a support network, therapy- to better themselves.

empathy is a powerful tool. it would benefit some of you to learn to use it.

(tl:dr guys stop being mean to everyone that doesn't act like you. endos get therapy /gen)