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Kitten in a sleeve😭✨️

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OKAY BUT THIS^^^

THERE SHOULDNT BE STEREOTYPES ABOUT NONBINARY PEOPLE??? it's literally not being binary, it's also an umbrella term for a bunch of different nonbinary identities. The idea that you can't be nonbinary or any of the other identities unless you're afab or at least androgynous is fucking stupid.

Putting stereotypes on people who literally aren't in a binary is completely missing the point????

It's like you don't necessarily need to use "they/them" only if you're nonbinary.

Don't feel pressured to conform to stereotypes that shouldn't even be there in people's heads. Make nonbinary whatever you want it to mean for you. Not what it is to someone else. My idea of my identity is probably completely different to someone else's who identifies as nonbinary but that doesn't make me any less nonbinary as them or vice versa. I sometimes dress masc or even fem but that doesn't take away from my identity.

God this particular topic riles me up, just because people keep enforcing this stereotype of "you gotta be androgynous to be nonbinary" ITS ABSOLUTELY NOT TRUE. I can't stress that enough. Just be yourself. If nonbinary fits then that's awesome! If you wanna use a bunch of different pronouns then that's great too! If you're afab, amab, testing things out you do you boo! You're still nonbinary regardless of any of that, don't let people make you think otherwise. If you're in the community, or are questioning it, please please please, don't think androgyny is a requirement or inforce it because its not. There's no requirements you need to meet to identify as nonbinary. Just be yourself and let other people be themselves too.

That's all I wanted to add--

A friend of mine just came to me fucking crying bc he thinks he may be non-binary and you know what his other, NON BINARY friend told him?

"You don't really seem non binary to me. You don't seem all that feminine."

I'm gonna fucking break everyone's necks. Non binary doesn't mean "Androgynous or feminine", it means whatever the fuck you want it to be. It's being outside of the binary.

ITS BEING OUTSIDE OF THE BINARY. MASCULINITY CAN BE NON BINARY TOO. I WILL FUCKING KILL ALL OF YOU GODDAMN RADFEMS.

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My favourite activity is making my cat look like he's an old white man's pfp on facebook

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IM SORRY CAN SOMEONE EXPLAIN WHY MERLIN IS TRENDING????

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Oh to be active in the fandoms I love to reblog but being dangerously unfunny and being lazy in my craft giving me anxiety about posting art or writing is very sexy of me if I do say so myself /j

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Breaking my heart all over again :(

Top post link @ijustreallylovemerlin

Bottom post link @nextstopparis

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what are you gay or smthn

Smh- That's kinda rude to ask yoshi did Mario teach you manners?

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Hi! Quick update but I'm opening my commissions up for bbc ghost fanfiction too! I've got a few fic ideas to kick off me inserting myself in the fandom but if you want to commission me before then feel free!

My rates are; £5 per 500 words.

So if you want say 1K words that would be £10 and so on-

For any topics that I may need to do more research on that's an extra £5 but I'll let you know what I think about the research and that may lessen or increase depending!

Here is my AO3; dylwritesstuff

Here is my Ko-fi; dylwritesstuff

disclaimer; You do NOT need to go through my ko-fi commissions to commission me you can simply message me and we can discuss things that way too.

I'm still trying to sort out my ko-fi to a standard that I like and I'm not the happiest with how my commission section looks.

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Hi! I was wondering if anyone else is having this issue but I am unable to reply to posts??? Even my own?? My settings say I have my replies set to everyone? But hhhh idk what's going on and was wondering if other people were having the same issues??

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Help my friend!

Hey!! I need a huge favour from you guys-

My friend has been utterly fucked by the student loans company and can't pay their rent on time (1st October)

But they have commissions and a ko-fi! They're a brilliant furry artist and friend so it'd mean a lot if you could share this link or help out if you can!

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Cannot fucking believe Henry's left and they're recasting him WHAT DO THEY THINK THIS IS??? DOCTOR WHO??? WELL I HAVE NEWS FOR YOU BUDDY IF THERE ISNT ANY GOLDEN REGENERATION OR A UPY DOWNY TARDIS YOUVE GOT THE WRONG SHOW- god I'm so fucking mad right now what the fuck

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If I don't make new friends through this fandom I'm going to shit-/j

Everyone's creating such cool things ahhh!

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You know when you wanna write, but you also... don't want to write?

I am in a state of "That's a good idea but I can just write it later." BUT I HAVENT PRODUCED ANY WRITING IN MONTHS. yet I call myself a writer smh- :/

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I'm realising I haven't been on here in a longggg time-- I'm forgetting who my mutuals and things were because it's been a while since I've been active and most of you don't remember me, but if anyone's wanting to catch up or finally be friends then just hit me up!

I'd love to talk about doctor who, Sanders sides, good omens or even merlin if people want!! Im trying to get fanfic done for all of them so hhh, anyways yeah! I miss talking to people on here!

Hope all is well!!

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As an enby on tiktok, all these creators making gender neutral versions of songs for nonbinary people is making me unbelievably happy. I feel validated and included by these talented individuals and yeah- it's just nice y'know? To be included in something as simple as a song.