#dudes im so fucking tired. every day i have less and less ability to function (or at least i feel so)

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There's a special kind of let down when a stranger genders you correctly but then immediately is like "oh, [misgender]. Sorry."

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bro..... im sooo tired of ppl being whiny freaks about ppl liking fictional shit ‘~too much~’. like bitches are literally fully convinced if you prefer acting out certain ideas in fiction but not irl, thats not your normal preferential boundaries but rather your brain is a mental illness BOMB and you need to be fucking hospitalized for being imaginative and having autonomy. like yall if its not taboo or smth shut uuuuhp man you’re not ‘concerned for their health’ or w/e you’re fully just tryna get away with being a nihilistic asshole who lacks sympathetic reasoning skills. listen to me. fiction is valuable. the thoughts we have on it are important. the personal lack of value you happen to put on a media is next to worthless. its not a fuckin waste of time dude, creators are people, who live in the real world, they experience it and have ideas through it and about it, they form and tweak their ideas while still definitely existing in the real world, and then put that back into the world with a new angle and new perspective, to share with other people definitely encountering it in , you guessed it , the real world. thats not disconnected. its not nothing. these things do not magically appear from fairytale land, they are created. stories mean smth, people tell them for a reason, its ok to feel smth for any story, why would we even tell them if not with the intention to impact others emotionally somehow i mean??? fiction does not Just affect reality, it is valuable to real life society, it is a functioning thriving part OF reality. 

humans have told stories since the dawn of our existence. it is literally all but an inherent species trait for us to imagine things, its tied to each and every one of us, and to reject ‘fantasy’ as smth worthless to human life is frankly just fuckin wrong and weird of you. bitch we are Supposed to get outside the box, the fandom ppl you cringe your pants over arent thinking abt fake shit too much, you guys very often just arent exercising abstract thought and imagination enough, which actually hurts your ability to engage with it critically in all the ways its meant to be. if you dont see the value in fiction its because you put in no effort to form the analysis skills. in other words, you idiots dont get the hype bc you’re too stupid to get how you're supposed to compare a book to the real world it came from. ‘uu but cmon not everythings valuable what about [tumblr designated cringe media]-’ 1. ok! somehow you havent come to this conclusion yourself yet but thats not real, whatever ppl get to enjoy is not all abt you, your bias means less than dirt to others outside of hivemind social medias, you can keep it to yourself, ppl shouldnt care about it bc it means nothing outside of ur own space, its literally funny to me that you’re so elitist you want me to cater my interests to you, Your Standard Of Quality Isnt Universal, 2. ranking the values of fiction is the waste of time here, if you compare mlp to pride and prejudice ill dissect your teeth, different emotional impacts from tragic to funny to Just A Vibe are all able to be assessed as ‘valuable to somebody else so leave well enough alone’ if you dont have 2010+ funnyman brainrot disease that makes you incapable of reflecting on anything you can find a way to joke abt first.

i mean seriously like. whenever randos start engaging with medias you ppl dont like or in ways you dont get, the strawmans yall make up to get to be cringe culture vultures abt such benign shit, and almost Always at the expense of neurodivergent people with a deeply rooted undertone of extreme ableism might i add..... its just so selfish. u have a brain ok, you’re manipulative but we both know you dont Actually think ppl automatically default to being a waifu obsessed incel rotting away at their basement computer, stagnating their social skills and straying further and further from reality with each passing day, a poor disturbed wretch that you just HAVE to save from themselves, all bc they say they. prefer fictional porn or w/e to having sex irl. buddy thats not a big deal, theyre normal, just different from you. theyre fine, you’re just uncomfortable. as a functioning adult you’re gonna have to try and recognize that sometimes that feelings gonna be 100% on you, and you cant always just lie abt the validity of it to make ppl feel obligated into agreeing with you. this is gonna be one fragment of their personhood and your self obsessed brain imploding over how unrelatable that is doesnt fucking matter, grow up bitch like. how detached do you have to be to think thats so unstable or morally wrong.... its just a completely inconsequential preferential decision that only affects them and isnt a wrong choice at all cuz nobody has to get their dick wet if they dont wanna for any reason ever and thats gotta be that tbh.... and it kills me cuz they still inherently experience the real world and are capable of thinking abt it critically,,, even tho they... masturbate to drawings or w/e the fuck ppl think is unhealthy ???? like? imagination is just fun we dont need to moderate it anymore than we moderate other fun activities i mean lol ksdjfsd this is the DEFINITION of ‘just vibing’ no one FUCKING cares and it deosnt fucking matter the way you desperately try to make ppl think it does just so u get to be loud abt ur shortcomings as a decent understanding person. 

‘uuuuuu im sorry but thats unhealthy :///’ you sound like a goddamn maniac dude stories are not unhealthy having feelings abt them is not unhealthy thinking some anime bitch that was DRAWN TO BE HOT , IS HOT, is not UNHEALTHY and you clowns arent convincing anybody you ‘care’ abt that concept anyways !! im losign my mind here skdlsdfsd medias are literally DESIGNED TO DO THIS TO PEOPLE... WE’RE SUPPOSED TO FEEL THINGS FOR IT.... IT IS WHAT MAKES THE ART WE’VE TAKEN PART IN FOR CENTURIES, “ART”.... ITS JUST... HAVING IDEAS AND EXPERIENCING IMAGINATION..... whats wildly unhealthy actually is yalls toxic obsession with ‘harsh truth’ and validating your stupid ass cwinge feewings to the point where everything that gives your underdeveloped selfish ass hives has to be a matter of health and morals and whats ‘best’ for everyone. u dont know that shit!!!! ur a petty brat and im not ur mommy ok i wont baby you so u dont feel like the shitty whiny person you are, you need to grow and do better and think outside urself already, dont put the responsibility of making u feel right for judging somebodies benign hobbies on me. i wont bc its wrong and unnecessary. you’re not a savior no ones falling for that lmao you’re just a bitch girl xoxo get over it shit truly does not matter. let them write nsfw self insert fics instead of banging !! 

to make it real do yall really not Get that basic consent kinda doesnt just mean ‘no when im not in the mood at the time’ but it means ‘no if i just dont fuckin feel like having sex ever for literally any reason at all bc i choose what i do’ and pressuring them, even with what your warped brain translates as the best of intentions, is inherently disgusting? especially with the ‘i know how to help you’ attitude like......... ohhh die soonly ew lmao! lay off this nasty shit already please it doesnt matter! stop trying to make it matter!! its not hurting you or them you stupid tumblr phd ass!! and like again yeah some media shits just truly gross but tbr now its like even That kind of shit, the Real social issues caused by Actually problematic media that ppl should discuss Genuinely without ulterior motives, is being used more and more rampantly as just a stepping stone to get to the needless mockery of other harmless things in the media they want an excuse to bag on.......... like a bitch cant just be grown and talk about problems at face value without getting a bully jab in. smhhhhh you all fuckin suck please just stop talking already. so anyways yeah being attracted to fictional characters instead of real people or w/e IS funny, funny how many boyfriends they have when u have none xoxo theyre having fun and you can die sad abt it they get to die 5 times in an angsty fantasy fic and be brought back with mouth to mouth by fuckin kakashi every time and then they go get lunch irl while ur updating tinder bitch ... different fucking strokes ig !

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ANSWER THE FOLLOWING FOR SO PEOPLE KNOW HOW SHIPPING WORKS ON YOUR BLOG.

REPOST. don’t reblog. TAGGED BY:  @oceanfoamed, whom i adore TAGGING: everyone i know has been tagged >:0

WHAT��S YOUR OTP FOR YOUR MUSE?:

listen it’s a known fact that @oceanfoamed’s thomas and @harriedwritings‘ miranda have the keys to my flint’s soul given that they were the basis for like, building up so much of my characterization and canon and verses and shit. 

WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO RP WHEN IT COMES TO SHIPPING?:

Pretty much anything tbh?? The only thing I ask is that any unhealthy aspects of a ship are acknowledged and recognised by both writers- which is why I have to be somewhat selective with shipping Flint, because the man has some serious fucking identity and codependency issues due to his inability to separate himself from Thomas and Miranda, etc etc, on top of being both highly manipulative and easy to manipulate himself (especially where Thomas is concerned, Jesus Christ- like not even with the man himself necessarily, but just that basically if anyone has knowledge of Thomas, they have the ability to manipulate Flint as a result).

HOW LARGE DOES THE AGE GAP HAVE TO BE TO MAKE IT UNCOMFORTABLE?:

EH to be honest as long as both characters are over 21, are written as if they’re over 21, and there’s no sense of like... one character being viewed as a child or written that way etc, then it’s probably fine. 

ARE YOU SELECTIVE WHEN SHIPPING?:

Yes and no? I’m always open to shipping because I enjoy it and it’s fun, but generally speaking Flint is a difficult character to ship with without development and OOC chemistry. As a character he also isn’t generally looking for romance- if anything, he’s actively avoiding it, and there’s likely always going to be the issue of Thomas and Miranda to contend with too. I ALWAYS... WANT MORE SHIPS but Flint is, well, Flint.

HOW FAR DO STEAMY MOMENTS HAVE TO GO BEFORE THEY’RE CONSIDERED N.SFW?:

listen basically if I wouldn’t want my professors seeing it while i’m in class, it’s probably unsafe for work dljdnjgfg

WHO ARE OTHER MUSES YOU SHIP YOUR MUSE WITH?: 

@least-among-hamiltons‘ Thomas, whom we adore and fuck dude I love writing with Matt because it’s so damn low pressure sdfjdnfkgjn and <3333 ;; 

@tidefated‘s Joji, who somehow just?? was consistently fucking considerate and firm and loyal to flint and as a result completely stole Flint’s heart dkfjndlfknjg I THINK ABOUT THOSE TWO EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE.

tbh I think that’s actually all of my current Official Ships kdfnsdklfng????? LITERALLY I HAVE LIKE... FOUR... i might be forgetting one or two though rip. 

ANY NOTPS?: 

The Cursed Ship, aka Flint/Silver, is the biggest one, especially just--the way it’s written in fandom. I would make an exception solely for @harriedwritings and @oceanfoamed because I know and trust them OOC and we are all of equal contempt for Cursed Content. My Flint is a fucking idiot during S4 despite my personal feelings on the matter (by which I mean generally, by default, there are some Indefinable Buried Not-Quite-Platonic Feelings from flint during s4 and postcanon, but it’s complicated and obviously like... no amount of ‘feelings’ could ever fucking make up for The Shit Silver Did without some SERIOUS FUCKING DEVELOPMENT ETC and it would probably also need to be as part of a trio or more, SO). TL;DR; basically I won’t even write with Silvers that aren’t Holmes’, Harri’s, or my own. 8I

Flint x literally any woman that isn’t Miranda or Madi (and both of them require another male party as part of a trio in order to work; Miranda is only an exception because they were a trio before).

DOES ONE HAVE TO ASK TO SHIP WITH YOU?:

NAH?? that shit tends to happen organically, the only exception is like... if we aren’t friends OOC in which case shipping is unlikely to happen anyway??? i’m always pretty upfront about whether or not i ship something--or rather, i’m upfront if i don’t ship it, i’m an idiot with the other thing kdjndfg G-D. 

HOW OFTEN DO YOU LIKE TO SHIP?:

listen i love shipping so All The Time tbh who cares

ARE YOU MULTISHIP?:  

yes! and also 100% down for ot3s/ot4s/etc bc flint functions better in a trio!

ARE YOU SHIP OBSESSED OR SHIP MORE-OR-LESS?: 

im TIRED

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SHIP IN YOUR CURRENT FANDOM?:

it’s flinthamiltons obviously but listen i’ll ship Likely Unrequited Flintgates until i die. also harri and i spoke once about an au where basically everyone is just in a polyam relationship with one another which is excellent too.

FINALLY, HOW DOES ONE SHIP WITH YOU?:

just fucking yeet yourself at me tbh?? i’m also always fine with unrequited ships so either way it’s a win/win