#dracofiend is an excellent fic writer

[halfbloodrecs]

Could you rec me some feel good Snarry fics? Fics where Harry is affectionate and loving and Severus is snarky and defensive until he realizes Harry really means it. I just want like... Severus feeling loved and cared for

these immediately spring to mind:

Dumbledore’s Folly by DementordeltaSnape must court Harry according to wizarding traditions. Words: 28k.

The Task At Hand by Dementordelta Snape tries to cure Harry. Harry isn’t sure he needs curing. Words: 16k

The mating rituals of the crabby hermit. by pekelekeAfter two years of fruitless attempts to become closer with Severus Snape, Harry finally realises that he has been going about it in the wrong way... Words: 10k

these might fit elements of your request but not entirely:

Speaking in Tongues by abraeHarry lost one language in the war, but he finds he’s learning to speak another. Words: 8k

Sine Qua Non by dracofiendHe passes a hand over his face and takes a few seconds to silently, pointlessly curse the Dark Lord, himself, and the wretchedness of magic for burdening him with something so fantastic and absurd as true love for Harry Potter. Words: 14k

Love’s Curse by dracofiendTurns out, failure is an option. Words: 3.5k

March by dracofiendIn like a lion, out like a lamb. Words: 2.5k

Monkey Business by who_la_hoopTrapped in a sort-of coma with only Harry Potter's visits for dubious comfort, Severus Snape learns many things – including the beneficial power of irritation upon the healing process, and the positive things that can come from failing at Occlumency. (The less said about the monkeys, the better). Words: 8k

I hope these are along the lines of what you wanted!