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Mr Eazi & Simi - Doyin (Official Video)

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BBNaija reality star Doyin reveals BBTitans housemates she wants to win the cash prize (see lists).

BBNaija reality star Doyin reveals BBTitans housemates she wants to win the cash prize – see lists below. Ex BBNaija reality star Doyin David, has taken to her twitter handle to reveals list of #BBTitans housemates she wants to see in the finals. Doyin took to her official twitter timeline, made her final list of #BBTitans housemates she wants to see in the last day. Read Also: Even if my…

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Welcome back to today's* documentation of "how Doyin Richards continues to advocate and post apologetics for child abuse in his paid job as a child-advice columnist with Slate."

In his November 22, 2022 column, a reader writes into Care & Feeding with a genuine, serious problem: They have discovered their daughter (age unstated) is writing and sending out chain messages using her phone, the kind that threaten "send this to X number of people or you will die." These messages are apparently a sufficiently serious problem in her school that the school has been sending home letters about it.

And how does Doyin respond? He tells the parent that obviously the solution is to confiscate the kid's phone, whines that people like me think he's being too harsh, says some horribly abusive shit, and then says, "chain messages are dumb" and that the parent should make sure the child stops b/c "sending messages that threaten murder aren’t remotely funny" and it could "could potentially get her in trouble at school."

There is, as always, a lot to unpack here, but let's start with the most important bit" his horribly abusive shit. He says, "I know that some parents will think my position is harsh, but I tell my kids that nothing belongs to them. Their tablets, phones, laptops, etc. are my property because I’m the adult in the room who bought them."

I struggle to explain how horrifying these sentences are, because I cannot believe it is not self-evident. I cannot believe someone not only typed them out, but an editor reviewed them and a magazine published them.

A child is a person, not a toy or an extension of their parents. They have a right to privacy and an independent identity. As part of that, they have a right to have things that belong to them, that they have control over, and a right to privacy in those things. Furthermore, Doyin (or any parent) is "the adult in the room who bought them," BECAUSE he is the adult, because a child cannot and should not be responsible for buying things for themselves. A child does not have the choice to be independent, and parents have an OBLIGATION to provide for the needs, including the material needs, of their children.

Second, there is no need for Doyin's whining about how everyone is so mean to him but he's such a great dad. There is a place for describing personal experience in giving advice, but his self-centeredness goes far beyond that.

Third, there is absolutely no consideration for why the child is writing and sending these messages in his advice. And honestly, that alone should be disqualifying! Because these messages are a problem, they are harmful to others, and the child doesn't appear to see that. Either the parent is failing to communicate the harm, or the child is failing to understand the harm, or the child sees the benefit of sending the messages worth the risk of harm (or some combination). Is the child experiencing some kind of peer pressure/peer normalization around sending these messages? Do they not understand or care that others will be disturbed by them and genuinely think they are funny? Do they *want* to hurt other kids by sending them out? These are important questions, but Doyin doesn't even allude to attempting to figure them out, much less address them, b/c Doyin Richards doesn't think children have inner lives b/c Doyin Richards thinks children aren't people.

And this leads to the fourth problem with his advice: confiscating the phone (probably) isn't even a real solution here! In a modern setting, the child, unless kept under extremely serious lock-and-key, is still going to have access to, at a minimum, email. They could still engage in this kind of chain-letters through print, even! If this is a peer-group problem, they will still be within the same peer-group environment w/o any effective pushback from the parents (b/c Doyin doesn't actually give them any tools or advice to do so).

His abusive advice wouldn't be justified if it actually worked, but the fact that it fails to even address the problems the letter raises strips bare the facade that his "advice" is even an honest attempt at productive guidance. By continuing to give him a platform, Slate is providing him a megaphone to promote abuse, and nothing more.

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Doyin Okupe Reacts As Atiku Visits Buhari, Peter Obi’s Ex-campaign Chief

The recent political dynamics in Nigeria have seen intriguing moves and reactions, especially following Atiku Abubakar’s visit to former President Muhammadu Buhari. Atiku, who was the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) presidential candidate in the 2023 election, visited Buhari in Daura, Katsina State, accompanied by prominent PDP figures including former Sokoto State Governor Aminu Tambuwal. Atiku…

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Doyin Okupe Jail Term: Politician Reacts After Paying Fine Instead

Doyin Okupe Jail Term: Politician Reacts After Paying Fine Instead

After being found guilty of charges related to money laundering by a court, Dr. Doyin Okupe, a former Senior Special Assistant to former President Goodluck Jonathan, has spoken out. Doyin Okupe Jail Term: Politician Reacts After Paying Fine Instead On Monday night, he said on Twitter that his adversaries keep losing. He wrote, “God is not man. The enemies have tried in so many ways but keep…

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Okupe ‘steps aside’ as Peter Obi’s presidential campaign DG

Okupe ‘steps aside’ as Peter Obi’s presidential campaign DG

Dr Doyin Okupe has resigned as the Director General of the Labour Party Presidential Campaign Council. Okupe shared his letter of resignation which he addressed to the LP presidential candidate, Peter Obi on his Twitter page on Tuesday. “It’s time to step aside. But I am with PO and the Obidients and the presidential campaigns till God gives us victory in Jesus Name,” Okupe wrote on…

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Doyin Okupe, 10 Others Sacked By Labour Party

Doyin Okupe, 10 Others Sacked By Labour Party

The Director-General of the Labour party’s Presidential Campaign Council, Doyin Okupe has been sacked by the Ogun State chapter of Labour Party over non payment of membership dues. Okupe, together with 10 others, was expelled from the party for violating its constitution. Briefing newsmen on Thursday in Abeokuta, the Chairman of Labour Party in Ogun State, Michael Ashade, and the party’s…

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Folorunso Alakija (July 15, 1951) is a Nigerian businesswoman who is involved in various industries such as fashion, oil, and printing. She is known for being one of the richest Black women in the world.

She was born in Ikorodu, Lagos State. She was from a sizable family due to her father, Chief L.A. Ogbara, having been married eight times and fathering 52 children. Alakija was his second surviving child and her mother, a fabric merchant, was his first wife. At the age of seven, she and her younger sister Doyin were sent to study abroad at Dinorben School for Girls in Northern Wales. The pair of sisters attended the school for four years before they returned to Nigeria at the request of their parents, who did not want the girls’ African values, traditions, and culture to be lost. She continued her studies at Muslim High School in Sagamu, Ogun State, Nigeria. She ventured abroad again, this time to Pitman’s Central College in London to pursue an education in secretarial studies.

She began working in Lagos as an executive secretary and worked at FinBank for several years. She studied fashion design in the UK for one year. She established Supreme Stitches, her fashion house, in a three-bedroom apartment in Surulere, Lagos. She was one of the best designers in the country and became recognized for endorsing Nigerian culture through her works and clothing.

She expanded her business interests and applied for the allocation of an oil prospecting license in May 1993. Her company, Famfa Limited, was granted the license to explore for oil on a 617,000-acre block, known as OPL 216. She entered into a joint venture agreement with Star Deep Water Petroleum, a subsidiary of Texaco, and appointed the company as a technical advisor for the exploration of the license. Some 40 percent of her 100 percent stake was transferred to Star Deep.

She married Modupe Alakija (1976), a lawyer and the couple raised four boys together. She is known for her philanthropic work through the Rose of Sharon Foundation. She was appointed as the vice chairman of the Nigerian National Heritage Council and Endowment for the Arts. #africanhistory365 #africanexcellence

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Congrats Doyin Richards, you managed to avoid advocating for child abuse in this column, but you did once again manage to prove yourself to be a massive shithead in an entirely different way!

(For the record, just to be clear that I'm not misconstruing his response: the lw says that she has "very little interest" in sex and that as a result she and her husband have had an open relationship for years. Her question related to her husband wanting to end their romantic relationship. There was zero need to declare that obviously a man can't stay in love with a woman who won't fuck him.)

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@scaredysap replied to your post “someone, anyone who wants to share their favourite...”:

I think Pangzi starred in one specific, incredibly viral doyin video. Think like. "And they were roommates" kinda fame. So sometimes he will be going through his day and a random bunch of teenagers will come up to him all excited bc omg!! it's the famous guy from douyin!! they demand selfies and that he re-do the joke he got famous with for them. Pangzi always spends the rest of the day all happy and braggy bc he's more famous than both his famous boyfriends

​god he would!! he’s surprised by it too, because his account is full of videos of xiaoge and wu xie. mostly xiaoge doing cool tricks (like when in tlt2 pangzi films xiaoge doing that big jump to open the door in that tomb) so it really surprises him when he posts one of himself and it just BLOWS UP everyone thinks it’s hilarious. wu xie is so mad because he actually thinks that video of him tripping over air should be at least just as popular but FINE pangzi is way hotter than him so he gets it 🙄🙄