#dont sexualise this please i will kill you

[dex1o]

yusuke kitagawa the man you are

[crimescrimson]

Leon S. Kennedy in Resident Evil 6 (2012)

[kirk]

that person rallying against sexualizing fob on rhe basis they are fathers is killing me bc by that logic the only fob memeber who we can sexualize is andy. which don't get me wrong ill sexualize that vegan ferociously but like. it is only okay to sexualize 1/4 of fall out boy.

PLEASE LIKE GIRL THEY DONT STOP BEING SEXY ONCE THEY HAVE A KID like many people have said, how tf do you think they made those children? plus these are grown ass men who have been in the industry for 20+ years i think they have a million and one other things theyd find offensive before finding people calling them sexy as such???? also by their logic is it alright to sexualise patrick from before 2014 only? or pete until 2008 like wheres the cutoff here. this argument is so funny. also after they became fathers i found them more sexy actually. love a dilf

[tbills]

daddys girl.

i lust & i crave & i sexualise & i resist & i act all bratty. I want your love, i want you care, i want your touch. I watch your secure, confident masculine energy to vomit all over me. I lick you, i touch you, i love you. But love? Hm… what is love. I want you obsessed but not too obsessed. I want you here but not all the time. I want you talking just until your words of interest no longer satisfy me. I want everything revolved around me. Tell me im pretty, even if i dont match the beauty standard. Tell me im smart, even when I already know it. Tell me you love my skin, my eyes, my nose, my hair when its not slick like i laid every strand of my hair. Do you really think im beautiful? Even when i go days to weeks without showering, brushing my teeth, keeping ontop my personal hygiene because the thought of showering covers me with exhaustion. What? I am not your perfect “clean girl” but you still love me? Even after you’ve seen me in a boxers and oversized tees with my bonnet ontop of my head wrap? Lie. How? Everyone loves the white girls. There easy. There managable. There not angry. There not “too dark”. There “aesthetically pleasing” to visualise, to look at, to be. I want to be them. Life is easy. There long silky hair always wrapped around that small hair band. So fun. So appealing. So satisfying. I want you tell me im pretty even if my hair is out. Even if i shave it all. I want you to tell me im pretty even when you see im not a “light skin babe”. I want you tell me im pretty even if i dont have the perfect teeth. I want to tell me I'm pretty even i smell a bit. Please just love me. I swear im not that bad. Wait am i? I hate life. The anxiety. Sadness. War. Fake. Un loving. Manipulative. Crazy. Vulnerable. Cringey world. I tell myself ways to fix my anxiety, my insecurities, my confidence, my self esteem. “I know” im this, “i can” be this, “ i am” shown im this. But I never truly believe it, as the second anyone lays eyes on me i feel my self just wanting to hide, to run away, to remove any memory of them perceiving me. Im angry. Im pissed. Why can’t people just leave me. I dont care what your looking at just kill yourself for looking at me. You hate me because im black, because im darkskin, because im stupid, because im ugly. But do they? Ugh im tired. The end.

[dovveri]

Hi dovee how are youuuuu?

I actually feel rly bad for her cuz before they even found out she was trans, there were a lot of men who were being rly degrading to her in her comments and also threatening to start stalking her. Like she had to make a post about how she felt uncomfortable and for them to please stop making threats to her safety. This discourse of men and bear tbh gives me headaches cuz men are so butt hurt that they made a video (ai) of a zombie-like bear (slippery skin if I'm not mistaken) that would "definitely kill women" because its literal goal is to brutalize women but only those who chose bear over men. Like imagine having your ego so hurt that you make this as a response to a hypothetical question that was made to inflate the ego of a man who was trying to flirt. And again, because they fail to have any common sense they can't understand the question and why people answer the way they do😭 I saw a 3-minute long video of a girl explaining the answers so that that kind of men could understand and on the comments, there were still some guys who were like "oh, but the bear would definitely kill you!" like-

HIIIIII OMG my fav person to talk to abt 🤢men🤮 omg i didnt know they were saying that stuff to her even before they found out she was trans? thats terrible omg i genuinely think the less centralised womens lives are around men the more misogynistic they get like did u see the recent bumble billboards? a man HAD to have made that and crazy too as like a response to the 4b movement gaining traction in the west they had to be like “celibacy isnt the answer guys!” like what?!?! u can also be celibate and still date men?? and from BUMBLE too like the platform that was meant to champion women making the first move and everything its so disappointing

ok i recently also watched poor things and i DESPISED it like it got so much love and wtv from being a ‘feminist’ film but um????????? no absolutely the fuck not all it did was champion pedophilia like the director (A MAN) ltr just put all his kinks in one movie and called it feminist bcs it was ‘sexually liberating’ and GOD I HATE THIS ARGUMENT like i HATE that the only thing men have gotten out of the feminist movement is “oh! women enjoy sex too? amazing go women!” like NO SHUT UR ASS UP sexual liberation was important bcs it gave women autonomy about WHO they wanted to have sex with, if they even WANTED to have sex with people, it gave them more purpose to sex than just bearing children it allowed them to enjoy sex just as men have been able to for centuries. but feminism is SOOOO much more than that but ofc thats the only part that men pay attention to right? UGH i ranted abt this film more in my letterboxd review LMAO but i wont text dump here

OMG YES EXACTLY THAT LIKE THE MAN V BEAR QUESTION WAS POSED BY A MAN like exactly what u said he asked it bcs he thought it’d be an easy ego boost since in his head there was no way a woman would choose a bear over him. and this zombie ai thing?? wtf theyre literally going to show EXACTLY what we’re talking about bcs people that r making that are also the ones killing women in video games and normalising violence against women and combining it with sexualisation of women? so its rly if they had the tools to do it they would and THEY HAVE THE TOOLS so no wonder we’re terrified?

last point i swear but the line between lust and anger? is SO CLOSE lots of men dont realise it but they can go from being absolutely in love with someone and willing to do anything for them, to wanting them dead or worse (junko furata)

[yeosanggf]

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[lovingpetboysandmen]

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[menelaiad]

"that follows the Cassandra was not claimed by agamemnon for sexual purposes, but leople don't seem to like that narrative" - can you explain this one a bit further? I kinda get what you're saying but its not something I've really heard before. Sorry if it's actually something obvious and I'm asking a basic question. Thank you for your time

sure sure! i spoke about this in my lectures and it made said when i verbalised it, but if it comes across all warped and muddled in word-form than please just ask me to clarify ASDFGHJKL

OKAY SO. we know that cly wanted to kill aga. it was planned. aeschylus (and to an extent the other tragedians) give us the whole watch-tower-carpet-walking scene that shows that. she WANTED to know when he was coming home to put her plan into action. homer is not so explicit BUT he, again, mentions that it was cly and aeg that killed him implying Some preparation. the two had a plan to execute.

it was not something she planned to do upon seeing aga arrive at mycenea with kassandra.

SO WE HAVE TWO THINGS - it was iphi. pretty black and white. aga had sacrificed their daughter ten years earlier and she spent ten years plotting his murder. did it. credits roll, that's that.

at least that's what the tragedians say. Homer doesn't say WHY. and this is where hyginus comes in and says:

§ 117 CLYTEMNESTRA: Clytemnestra, daughter of Tyndareus and wife of Agamemnon, heard from Oiax, brother of Palamedes, that Cassandra was being brought as a concubine to her house, a false statement Oiax made in order to avenge the wrong done to his brother. Then Clytemnestra, together with Aegisthus, son of Thyestes, planned to kill Agamemnon and Cassandra. They killed him with an axe as he was sacrificing, and Cassandra, too. But Electra, Agamemnon's daughter, rescued her brother, the infant Orestes, and sent him to Strophius in Phocis. Strophius had married Agamemnon's sister, Astyoche.

(disclaimer: hyginus is roman. however. we cannot say for certain he made this up lmfao. there may be something lost that he got this from. a play. a fragment. something from the epic cycle. We Don't Know. so dont come at me with 'UHHH THATS A ROMAN' - i know. but romans lived closer to the greeks than we do. they may have had access to stuff that we have now lost. okay? good.)

this does kinda hold up though. cause palamedes was wronged by his fellow greeks and aga is the leader of said greeks. so this statement does have legs.

SO LET'S SAY homer is right. there is just iphianassa, laodike and chyrso as his daughters. all alive and no iphi (like in the iliad) - why the plot to kill aga? in this timeline of events (that we know of) there is no iphi sacrifice.

THEREFORE. the spreading of a rumour that cly becomes aware of that she THEN concocts a plan to kill aga for makes sense. someone has told her about kassandra (falsely) and she's made her plan with aegisthus. THUS showing that kassandra being taken by aga for sexual purposes as a falsehood.

EXTENDING FROM THAT in Aeschylus, aga tries to get kassandra to acknowledge cly has her mistress or like cly to acknowledge she's now kass' mistress - which means she's there for cly. and that's a theme in TW too. that these trojan women are going back with greek men to serve their wives (like hecuba and penelope). ALSO. the ONLY reference made to kassandra being in aga's bed/sleeping with him etc. comes from cly. she's the only one who seems to be on that wavelength. nobody else is. aga never says it. kass never says it. only cly - she's the only one privy to the rumour. that's why.

ALSO in homer aga is killed at a feast. not in the bath. also also. kass is not killed with aga IN the bath if you wanna do the bath stuff. she is killed separately and then thrown on top of his body. they are Not bathing together. that is a modern sexualisation of the story (cause we love this shit to be sexual for some fuckin reason lmfaooo welp)

elephant in the room - euripides has kassandra make a big show of being a sexual slave to agamemnon when she leaves with him in trojan women. i've said it before, i'll say it again - euripides needs a LOT of context to be understood. he is ..... i dont wanna say projecting but i legit cant think of a better word ... about the war he is currently in.

NOW - am i saying 'aga doesnt suck cause he didn't wanna sleep with kassandra' NO. taking a poor girl from her home. killing her family. u know the spiel. is AWFUL. whether you sleep with her or not ... doesn't matter tbh. BUT it seems to be like concrete that that is what aga wanted and it's not .... that concrete, there is .... explanation for the contrary i suppose. also, people, stop making everything regarding the epic cycle about sex and sexual violence, like who are you? pat fucking barker?

[tomdutch]

this is clearly a very heavy subject to you, which is why i feel like you don't really take into consideration that there are people who might have went through the same that dont have this way of seperating themselves with it as you do.

im sorry that happened to you, no one deserves that.

dealing with trauma is for some people also just straight up talking so much about it that you sort of become desensitized for to it.

rape is not fun, incest is disgusting but people who want to write it about fictional people with it to deal with their own stuff should be free to do so as well.

you're invading a space for someone who is obviously not well in the head, i dont know if they put trigger warnings and if they didn't they were in the wrong for that but it's their fantasy.

its okay to strongly dislike and to find it disgusting but please dont say stuff like "die"

if its not a subject you can stay objective on because of personal trauma then dont talk about it if it brings harm to others.

peter parker is also canonically a minor, writing about him is giving people who might see an appeal in the fact that he is a space to sexualise minors.

any sane person will be able to read something and not think about doing the same in the real world, which is often the same argument of murder in movies and writing which could also be seen as "desensitising killing people" its your responsibility to not act or exaggerate on these things, seperate between fiction and reality.

its the writers responsibility to warn people about what their work might trigger, and if they didn't do that then that is her fault.

but it was your choice to read.

they probably already know they're disgusting and gross but they cant help it.

just like every fanfic writer always says.

if you don't like it don't read it.

just a different perspective! not trying to be mean in any way.

no because you’re actually so incredibly wrong and insensitive i don’t know where to begin to address the shit you’ve said.

dealing with trauma by writing about it means dealing with it in private, not posting it online for a crowd of people who are most definitely not survivors of incest or SA to jerk off to. if you must absolutely retraumatize yourself by sexualizing rape and incest, then do it in a fucking diary, not on a website and tag it with smut tags for people to get off to.

second of all, i know for a FACT that none of the people writing these ~ dark!au ~ fics of characters, underage or not, are SA victims simply by scrolling through their writing and see blatant hypersexualization and false sentiments that nobody who’s actually being assaulted irl would write. it doesn’t take more than three braincells to notice that.

there is a huge difference between writing murder and writing detailed porn of rape. thousands of words worth of porn of sexual assault and pedophilia. murder is not written with the specific intent to masturbate to like smut is. is this your first day on earth.

your entire paragraph on peter is literally pedophilia i don’t know what to tell you. he’s a fucking minor.

anyway if you get off to writing and reading and sharing incest, sexual assault and pedophilia, from a victim of sexual assault and pedophilia: die. literally die. from the bottom of my heart i hope you die. i can’t believe you have the balls to say this to me on anon no less and think you’re giving me a lecture on trauma by essentially telling me to get over my own rape and just be ok with the fact that thousands of people in this very fandom are jerking off to rape and incest porn of an underage character. die.

[lady-ragnvindr]

Okay okay hi, I know I was kinda highkey high af last time I sent an ask but since there's so many anons here talking about how toxic the twitter and tumblr shipping fandom is well...

I kinda have a hot take???

⚠️ :mentions of violence, p*d*phillia, unhealthy relationship??? Death, limb cutting???

Jesus Christ tumblr, let me do cuts so that I could put everything utc even if I'm on anonymous mode smh.

The ship Chili/Zhongchi is just... Too over sexualized to the point it's not really pleasing anymore.

Ironic that I'm talking about this in a suppose 18+ account BUT HEAR ME OUT

I seriously have nothing against the ship it's still valid and people can ship whatever they want (hell, I used to ship it as well actually) but literally not a second goes by without you seeing porn of it.

There was literally this dark au someone made on twt about childe being a literal kid and zhongli being this ageless doctor or sum and zhongli literally ya know... "messed up" to the point that childe grew up to be sadistic and gets horny when zhongli beats him up or they fuck.

(The creator even drew a chained up Childe that's missing all his limbs and being horny AND ZHONGLI HOLDING A DECAPITATED HEAD OF CHILDE AND I AM AFRAID)

They srsly didn't even make childe 18 when he grew up they made him be 17- like... Cmon man atleast make the man 18-

Just..... The fandom's too wild. Too wild for me.

The moment I saw that au I immediately stopped shipping it. Like I admit that I'm a horny ass bitch but I would NEVER go this far.

Sorry to chili shippers If I ruined your fun please don't kill me I swear you can still ship it just calm down with the ideas LADKFKGKGK

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Oof thats....thats messed up 😟

I was never a fan of male x male ships since it isn't something that i vibe with-- this does not mean I am against the lgbt, please dont attack me, but as i was saying their are some ships thats I personally find them cute and one of them is chili. Now i do gotta agree that a lot of ppl who over sexualised the ship but going that far too drawing gore and seeing it being cute or someis seriously FUCKED UP. HELL NO THEY DID THAT AND CALLED IT A FUCKING SHIP.

These is why i dont like reading yandere stuff or even writing it, i dont mind like soft yandere (which i like more) one were the person doesn't do something extreme but overall if I see yandere im the fuck out.

Shit like that fucking hurts me like nahhh nahhh no rape no cutting my limbs or something. That pains me honestly.

[xianglingslesbian]

oh I'll give u a character alright: Izuki, Kiyoshi, Riko and Aomine <333 technically that's four, but what goes around comes around (I'll keep this circle of love goin forever buddy)

VICCCC ily my man <33 thank u!!! aight putting this under a cut bc it got long

Izuki

Why I like them: izuki’s just overall so amazing! he inspires me to give my best in the stuff i do, and although it sounds a bit silly i try to be a person that he’d be proud of. his puns are hilarious and well-thought-out (as a person who loves words and word jokes, i’m naturally drawn to him lol). they’re also a way to take the heat off the team, he’s so hardworking and never views obstacles as obstacles, rather as hills he must climb to find newer skies. he’s also rather clever and employs his brains to great effect when his body fails him! izuki embodies the meaning of ‘eagle’ in the truest sense - waiting to strike when the time is right and not failing when it is.

Why I don’t: *sweats* can’t really think of a reason i don’t like izuki, at all??? i guess he can overwork himself a lot and tends to keep his true emotions hidden which could lead to misunderstandings between friends (although this is totally headcanon territory lol)... i also didn’t like the ableist comment he passed on hayama (“i’m just glad you weren’t smarter than me”). but i think he can (and will!) grow from that kind of stuff, he is that kind of person so yeah no particular reason for me to dislike him at all

Favorite episode (scene if movie): how dare you make me pick s3 e8 izuki vs kasamatsu, hands down. i know its like cliche or whatever but that moment just told me so much about izuki as a character? he’s willing to do what it takes to win, he’s adaptable and dependable and he doesn’t let shit get him down ever. it’s gorgeous

Favorite season/movie: s3, he got some fantastic moments in there!! although i will say i loved the spotlighting he got in s1 in the seihō match

Favorite line: “Fear isn't a bad thing. There are some things that can only be done by cowards.” this is first of all such a nice thing to say. ‘fear is not bad’ is just... so fucking wise? keep in mind that this boy is 17, i’ve met 30 year olds who are less mature. secondly it feels like izu’s speaking from experience?? like he has a lot to be scared of, i’m sure. particularly of falling behind and being a burden to his teammates. but it’s that ‘cowardice’ that drives him to practice so so hard. that visceral terror of weighing on seirin is what pushes izuki beyond his limits - which is why here he can empathise with furi’s fear, and knows how best to employ it.

Favorite outfit: look i hate last game w/ a passion but that lil tie/shirt/hoodie thing he had going? that was literally so cute. izuki in general has a p great fashion sense but his last game outfit takes the cake <3

OTP: hyuuizu oh my god i could talk for years about them but since this post is gonna be very long i’ll refrain. just. they are perfect they are fucking perfect

Brotp: kiyoizu!! kiyoshi is izuki’s biggest enabler and i love that for him <3

Head Canon: izuki can be very very passive aggressive when he’s angry at someone/sad and gets cold and withdrawn. it’s not fun to experience but tbh if you upset him you probably deserve it

Unpopular opinion: izuki should’ve been naturally better in canon. it’s not fair to shaft him and give the ‘trier’ thing off to himuro. that being said i am p happy with who he is as a person

A wish: i want to know how izuki felt after middle school! izuki’s and riko’s backstory focuses so much on hyuuga its dumb >:( he also would’ve been demoralised but he didn’t quit bball and i would like to know his thought process!

An oh-god-please-dont-ever-happen: i. uh. i guess izu quitting basketball. because i genuinely cannot see that happening. it brings him so much joy, he should never stop cold turkey. i can imagine old man izuki hobbling about a court giving little kids pointers and making them laugh T-T

5 words to best describe them: “big brain caffeine-powered clown baby” 

My nickname for them: babyzuki/izu/shunshun

Kiyoshi

Why I like them: lots of reasons! kiyoshi is an admirable person. he’s strong, yet friendly and gentle, and he loves his team above all else, which i just find beautiful. i find his manipulative side also pretty cool, bc it shows off how multifaceted he is.

Why I don’t: this is more of a fandom reason but i really dislike how kiyoshi is always said to have had the greatest impact in hyuuga’s story. he badgered and manipulated hyuuga, and while some may argue hyuuga needed that push, it only worked bc hyuuga had had time to think about shit. he’d also been given space by riko and izuki (two integral parts of his life whom the fandom looooves to sideline for uwu kiyo//hyuu). 

Favorite episode (scene if movie): yousen match (can’t pick the episodes)! i loved the backstory we got for kiyo vs mura and i loved how kiyoshi was willing to smile and play but also refused to lose. he truly stole the show despite kagami being the one to finally take down murasakibara, it was gorgeous <3

Favorite season/movie: s2 for sure. kiyoshi wasn’t allowed to shine much after yousen imo - all the focus was on hyuuga kagami and kuroko, and to a lesser extent izuki. not complaining, but yeah

Favorite line: “Let’s go have some fun.” i know it’s kinda cliche but i do love how kiyoshi’s always thinking about playing a good game and enjoying basketball. he wants to play because he loves it and as someone who loves a sport as much as kiyoshi loves b-ball, that love is so poignant and tender

Favorite outfit: practice clothes! kiyoshi looks great in pink <3

OTP: kiyohana. hateshipping amirite ;)

Brotp: kiyohyuu! i love them as friends so so much <3

Head Canon: kiyoshi is half-iranian on his mother’s side and is muslim. i won’t say too much because i am not muslim myself, i need to do more research into this but i’ve had this headcanon for quite a while now!

Unpopular opinion: he should be bullied more for the fact that his canon power is having yaoi hands

A wish: kiyo finds something he loves as much as b-ball. he can’t canonically play at this level again, so if he found another sport/competition/anything, it’d be amazing

An oh-god-please-dont-ever-happen: he should never become demoralised. kiyoshi at heart is a dreamer, so let him dream, let him look towards tomorrow with a smile always

5 words to best describe them: “useless dreamy dumbass cheerleader clown”

My nickname for them: kiyoyo, bc my feelings about him have yo-yoed a lot lmao

Riko

Why I like them: im a lesbian, next. /j i love her because she’s so tenacious and driven. yet she’s also kind and gentle, and never loses her humanity. she cares, and she cares hard. she’s so fucking smart too like... coaching a hs basketball team at 17 against players of NBA calibre and making them win? i could never. seirin without riko is nothing.

Why I don’t: i dont like the constant slapstick of her beating up her boys. also, i dislike how the narrative forces her to act ‘feminine’ and then has the boys think of it as nothing. like first of all if someone like her offered me a kiss i would so take 100, and secondly... why is a girl’s worth so tied to her femininity? it’s awful

Favorite episode (scene if movie): her sending in furi vs kaijō, early in s3. it was an exceedingly smart move that could have only come from her knowing her players’ strengths and weaknesses intimately, and being a brilliant coach. just amazing <3

Favorite season/movie: all of them! riko has some amazing moments each season, so i can’t really pick

Favorite line: “Humans grow. Don't act like you understand when you don't even realize that!” here, riko knows and knows well that she is in her element. momoi might have the data, but riko understands adaptability and knows how to predict stuff. in that way, one can draw parallels between takao vs izuki and momoi vs riko: takao and momoi are recon experts, whereas riko and izuki are strategists. momoi uses raw data; riko manipulates the data to her advantage

Favorite outfit: idk if this is exactly an outfit but her glasses are so cute oh my gosh. (i’d kill to see her in a leather jacket tho)

OTP: rikomomo!!! i’m 100% sure that momoi’s fixation w/riko’s boobs is just... repressed lesbian sentiments. also sports girlfriends gimme

Brotp: hyuuizuriko. i hc that hyuuizu were tgt since elementary school and riko joined them in middle school so... childhood friends feels!

Head Canon: riko knows how to shoot a gun. her father owns one so it makes sense

Unpopular opinion: riko does not need to have bigger boobs in fanart. please stop sexualising a 17 year old girl

A wish: white suit riko please

An oh-god-please-dont-ever-happen: her ever leaving behind sports in any way shape or form. it’s her thing. in the same vein, she should never have to change herself or become more traditionally feminine to be ‘appealing’

5 words to best describe them: perfect perfect perfect perfect perfect

My nickname for them: ai/riri

Aomine

Why I like them: aomine is just a pure, hurting young man that deserves help. he’s passionate, and his fire died down out of no fault of his own. that fire’s reignition through kagami is one of my favorite scenes <3

Why I don’t: he’s perverted as hell and i dislike that. it plays into the ‘brutish dark-skinned pervert’ stereotype which is yikes. also i thought we were done with pervs in anime

Favorite episode (scene if movie): s2 seirin v touou when kagami enters the zone!! aomine’s finally happy and it’s so amazing to watch <3

Favorite season/movie: s2, he finally got happiness and peace of mind

Favorite line: “You’re the best!” there’s just so much of pure joy in this line. he’s so so beside himself that he finally has someone he won’t destroy. kagami sees aomine the person, and that person is so happy, it’s beautiful

Favorite outfit: the leather jacket from the finale lmaooo he looked so cute

OTP: AOKAGA BABY i could write an essay tbh

Brotp: aomomo!! theyre such good friends and bi/lesbian solidarity too!

Head Canon: aomine cannot dance. he has stepped on kagami’s feet multiple times. he has also attempted to twerk when drunk. kuroko recorded the whole thing and uses it as blackmail in case the puppy eyes and “but aomine-kun you didn’t fist bump me back” don’t work

Unpopular opinion: more a fandom thing, but you all need to stop making aomine the aggressive/possessive top/‘seme’. it’s racist as fuck

A wish: aomine goes pro. it’ll be amazing for him, a huge challenge and kagami will be there too so its a win-win ;)

An oh-god-please-dont-ever-happen: he quits again/b-ball loses its allure. aomine at heart is someone who needs passion to drive him so i just want that passion to always burn bright within him

5 words to best describe them: “bastard baby needs a hug”

My nickname for them: dai-chan, momoi rubbed off on me

[enamoured-dynamite]

Pinned cause last post went popular

And i really dont want to waste time on re-discussion 

Why can’t ppl just ignore antis? They can. 

If some ppl are cling so tightly to the canon to ask questions about Peter`s cAnOnICaL age then any pairings with dead characters are necrophilia or any homosexual pairings with canonical heterosexual characters are romantization of reparative therapy and etc. Same logic so why not. Or it`s just hypocrisy and attempts to justify hate to notp and acting like mindreaders. Yeap. People can see and imagine pairings in many non similar ways.

Something you don’t like doesn’t automatically become bad even if it somehow attack your personal feelings. Ppl can represent fictional ships in thousands ways. If you can’t imagine something in unproblematic way then it’s your own problem. Some other ppl perfectly can. 

Second: 

Facts:

1) In mcu canon Peter is already 18 without snap (from 10.08.2019). Multiverse is totally mcu-canon cause of upcoming Loki-2012 TV-series. And Tony is dead in main timeline but they killed Thanos in Endgame twice. Last from 2014. So there is at least one canonical world without war, snap and timeskip where Peter supposed to be 18 and where his relations with Tony could develop according to any scenario from the point in 2014 where Thanos disappeared from their world.

So it’s not just au or aged-up - it’s canonical based fiction. Any age or father-son questions should be exepted from this point if ppl so love canon and can`t accept AU existence. Although I don`t know why people have problems with thoughts and fantasies about later development of the characters relationships. If someone think that it`s grooming (heard smth like this) then it`s real ignorance meaning of the word

2) Peter and Tony are not blood-related. Their relations aren`t stable. They didn`t call each other father or son and didn`t live at least one day together as a family.. No functional roles as family members so no significant psychological issues that come from specific family influence that is realy hard to change, ignore or outgrow. But here is nothing like this. So, please, don’t act like calling close friends bros and sis automatically go to pseudo-incest if feeles changed. You see Peter and Tony as father and son? Fine. For me it`s just a fanon. One from a lot of others. For example, after FFH I prefer Happy/May + Peter family. In addition, older man who treats well a person younger than him doesn`t have to be his father figure and quite often ppl automaticaly outgrow mentor-teacher influence to become equal friends and partners.  

3) Tom Holland was adult in all Marvel movies so using his appearance aren`t sexualisation of a minor and not part of content that real MAPs interested in.

4) Hatred to legal relations with big age difference just discrimination and ageism cause any relations with equal probability could be “bad” if ppl in them don`t respect, don`t value and don`t love each other. And any legal relations could be “good” if ppl in them respect, value and love each other. One simple rule of “how ppl relate to each other”. And only that matters. Gender, race, age or any other external and internal characteristics of ppl don`t matter if it’s legal and harmless. 

The main problem of abuse is in abusers. It doesn't depend on age. An older person who has entered into a relationship with someone younger doesn`t automatically become an abuser if hasn`t been an abuser before. This isn`t how it works. Choose right people and you will be safe. End. 

[magical-agatha]

ive seen a lot of other ppl saying something similar but im not sure its appropriate in this context to make a comparison between trans women and men based on our genitalia.

its too close to the logic of transphobes who force us to tuck in the first place for my comfort. the reason many trans women are forced to tuck or feel safer tucking (even when it hurts), is because cissociety firmly believes that genitalia = gender, penis = boy, vagina = girl, aka gender essentialism or the myth of biological sex. obviously, thats not true, genitalia has no bearing on gender as gender is a purely social construct.

because of cissociety's undying belief in gender essentialism, many cis ppl feel like trans people are disgusting and deserve to die, and some of those cis ppl decide they have the right to kill us bc we're trans. something that happens disproportionately to trans women. all because of the belief that whats in our pants means something about us and cis ppl think they deserve to know whats down there and do something evil about it.

so while i understand your logic and i dont think you think trans women are men or anything like that, in the context of this post thats a dangerous comparison to make, and i also think it misses the point i was trying to make.

i think a better comparison would be that if cis women dont have to force their genitals up into their body and risk their health in order to pass as women, neither should trans women. this isnt an issue about genitalia, this is about a specific class of women and the oppression they face. this is about mysogyny, specifically transmisogyny.

the point if this post is that trans women shouldnt have to tuck to be seen as women. the point is that we shouldnt be scared for our lives because we're not cis. the point is that our genitals shouldnt matter and no one should be looking at our crotches without permission.

and its also that we shouldnt be sexualised for our default state of being! ever since this post got popular i keep getting followed by violent perverts who want to dehumanise trans women and reduce us to a fetish. tucking is a complicated and difficult thing to do, just like shaving constantly or vocal training or wearing makeup. i dont want to do any of that stuff. i shouldnt have to. its expensive and painful and its my body. anyones genitals should be no ones business but their own, and no one should care whats in my pants but my girlfriend and my doctor.

i should be able to leave the house without being scared im not passing bc i cant tuck and dont want to. i should be able to go to the beach in whatever i want without being scared some bastard is gonna attack me or scream at me or drag me somewhere and kill me or worse. all because society teaches him im a freak and deserve to die and that he has the right to exterminate me. the point of this post is that trans women deserve to live in peace and safety and shouldnt be expected to tuck or feel safer tucking or risk violence for not tucking.

please reblog this version of the post! this addition is rly important. thank u for spreading it as much as you all have i never expected it to get this much traction! all the ppl saying supportive things restored my faith in humanity a little bit, thank u!

trans girls not tucking needs to be seen as a completely normal and nonsexual thing. chasers go die.

trans women’s genitals are not so repulsive that they need to be totally hidden through our clothes at the expense of our health and safety and for the sake of your comfort.

if cis men don’t have to tuck then neither do trans women.

[je0nghans]

hello! i'm very new to seventeen and the whole fanbase and i've learned their names only few days ago and i still mix them up sometimes lol. i wanted to know a bit more about the whole fanbase, inside jokes and the boys too :) i hope you can help me out a little and i hope that i'm not bothering you! have a nice day and thank you if you answer ♥ and if you don't have time or interest in answering this maybe you could recommend me a blog who would do so instead? thanks again ^^

ahh a new carat im bursTING

and dont worry youre not bothering me at all dont worry! I’m glad you ask me honestly!

So um i’ve known the boys since around 2013 lmao I saw a gif of mingyu and was like wHO IS THIS FIne SPECIMEN  but yk at the time he was just known as mr. wristband lmao rip *war flashbacks to watching seventeen tv at 5am without english subs*but I’m pretty forgetful and some of these stuff were a while ago ;;;; im sorry ;; If anyone has more to add please reblog this an add some im sorry ;A;;;

Firstly, I recommend going through pledis17′s faq page, about page and member profiles it’s really helpful! Also go through their tags for official pictures, fantaken pictures, fancams, videos (including eng sub!) and a lot of their other content!

I also recommend looking at some fyeah blogs and their member profiles as well. I mentioned pledis17 above but there’s also: @fy-scoups, @jeonghandata, @joshua-data, @fy-junhui, @fyhoshi, @fyjeonwonwoo, @fywoozi, @fyseokmin, @fuckyeahmingyu, @fyeahthe8, @datakwan, @v-hansolchoi, @dinodata, @fyjihan

Obviously there’s more but those are the ones I tend to use the most!

The rest stuff is under the read more because it came up to too much im sorry ;A:;

Ok fandom wise, as far as I know from that time to now carats are literally one of the nicest fandom’s I’ve ever been apart of like literally I love them so much. The fandom isn’t perfect, there’s some really not-so-nice fans like some who sexualise the members and like fanwars or yk have done some really shitty things (im not gonna go into detail but I know a few things) but the good fans really out weigh them! Don’t be intimidated to come of anon and talk to me or other members of the fandom trust me you won’t regret it at all!

So I mentioned Seventeen TV earlier and basically before seventeen debuted they had a program that aired on ustream that basically showed them practicing, playing games and other things as well. It was really entertaining and I really enjoyed it! Like seriously you should watch it it’s really funny I’m not even jokingg. 

Sadly, the ustream channel has a password now bUT you can watch some clips or full episodes here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here just to give you a few (I tried to give you as much as I could find really ;A:;;) but really youtube has a lot of videos on it. 

I forgot to mention but during the duration of seventeen tv there were other member but subsequently they left due to various reasons. These members include: Samuel (who was part of the duo 1punch which has now broken up, was on produce101 season 2 and has recently debuted with a bomb ass song), Doyoon (he is training to become an actor i think), Dongjin and MingMing.

They also had another predebut program called Andromeda. Subs can be found here

Right before seventeen debuted a program called Seventeen Project aired. Basically they go through a lot of trials and tests (? i think?) to get them ready for debut! You can watch it subbed here. You should definitely watch this one because you get to know the boys a little better.

For inside jokes this list on amino is literally a god sent but i was updated around january of this year. Speaking of amino, there’s a timeline on it, here. It’s outdated by a year but it’s really helpful as well. (Btw my favourite inside jokes are probably KIMBAP KIDDING and drink water lmao).

I also recommend watching all like17sub’s videos and what17says’s videos as well. As they’ve been subbers in the fandom for a fairly decent amount of time.Kwonvely is a more recent subber but I recommend you watch their subbed videos as well!

Svtunited subs  and SVTdiamond subs haven’t updated in a while but they still have a significant amount of videos, especially from the earlier days!

You can also watch subbed videos from here, here, here, here, here, hereOf course there’s more channels with subs but this is all I can think of.

A really nice way to know the members is through their Vlive channel where they do various live streams. Sadly, some vlives you have have to pay for called vlive+ because vlive likes to make us suffer BUT you can find some of the vlive+ videos in full here. The videos on Vlive are already subbed thank god.

The boys have had a reality show One Fine Day and a more recent one One Fine Day 2. They also have an ongoing series called Going Seventeen. On their Vlive+ there’s a series called ‘Where is my Friend’s home?’ where they basically visit the members’ hometowns (they mostly eat tho lmao). I believe minicarats only has the perf team’s one up right now but I believe the hip hop and vocal teams’ will come out soon. Someone uploaded theirs on youtube but obviously the channel got terminated.

They’ve released some DVDs as well which I totally recommend you watch. Seventeen Boy’s Wish CONCERT (1) (2) (3),  Shining Diamond Concert (1) (2) (3), Seventeen’s 2017 Season Greetings.

ALSO a great way of getting to know the members more is probably from mackenzie - ww’s why we love seventeen series, here, on youtube.I would also recommend her 10 reasons to love seventeen series here as well. Another good one is LoliKitty’s english time series as well, here. (IT kills me everytime lmao). Lolikitty has only 2 kpop meme origins but it explains 2 fandom jokes, jisoos christ and headlines headlines in a really funny way lmao.

You can also watch IGOTBTS MONTEEN’s Seventeen - Funny and Cute moments series.

Also in case you wanna know my favourite moments that I really love it’s: When sehun mistook jeonghan for nct’s johnny. You can watch it here and die lmao. Also when vernon slapped seungkwan’s ass it was the bES t.

So uh thats all I can remember off the top of my head really ;;; I’m sorry I know I definitely forgot some things I’m really sorry ;; I’m sorry if I wasn’t much help ;;

I don’t know much people who’ve known them since predebut but the blogs I know that I’ve seen during the debut era or at least around 2015 (and are still active) (i think i’ve seen them around since then I’m really not sure well except for the user junghan lol I definitely know they’ve been around since then) are probably: @junghan, @jungahns/@jeongahn (it’s the same person lol), @pledisseventeen, @hanwooz, @17dad, @jeonghan-1004svt

I really recommend you check them out! They’re really awesome blogs! I think you can ask them to verify anything I said or to give you more info

[mygenderadventures]

hey, i'm thinking of writing a non-binary but I dont know what stereotypes to avoid, could you help me out please? Also i love your blog!

Do you mean non-binary character? Here’s a few helpful articles (about trans characters in general) which give a lot more detailed info [X X X] - for more just search ‘how to write a transgender character’ or words to that effect. As a general starting point I would say you should try and avoid:

referring to such characters using offensive language/slurs (even from the mouths of other characters, unless you’re intentionally trying to villainise the speaker - but even then I’d avoid using slurs at all)

a ‘shock reveal’ of their trans-ness i.e. someone walking in of them naked or something

anything that fetishizes/overly sexualises said character

the concept of a trans person ‘tricking’ another character with regards to their gender, especially in romantic/sexual situations

vagueness/non-committal to stating the characters identity. Try not to just allude to it and hope people will pick up the subtext - if they’re trans make it obvious in some way!

in a similar vein to ‘Bury Your Gays’, if they’re your only trans character try not to kill them off

If anyone else has anything else to add feel free! Basically as long as you remain consistent with pronouns/terminology and do a bit of research where necessary, just treat them like you would any other character and you should be fine. Whenever you’re in doubt about something, ask a trans/NB person what they think. Happy writing! :)