#don't yuck someone's yum pls??

[lunarmochi]

i heard someone say this the other day and i think it describes me perfectly:

"i don't have a preference for partners, but if you look across my favorite characters, there is some consistency between them."

yes, a lot of the people/characters i like may have X or Y trait.

no, that does not mean i will only fall for a person that has those traits.

no, that does not mean i will love my partner any less if they don't have any of those traits.

[allfearstofallto]

Pls ignore this if it’s uncomfortable but I really don’t know who to ask 😭 I’ve been into yandere and noncon stuff for a LOOOOONG time and idk why. Like I have vague ideas abt why but idk, and I see so much discourse online abt how it’s this horrible thing but I can’t help it? the idea of someone loving me so much to the point where they can’t live without me is probably just an extreme manifestation of growing up ugly LMAO but could I ask why you like yandere/noncon? And your opinion on separating fiction from reality?

I've been through a lot of phases throughout my life, but the thing I've learned most is "Don't yuck someone's yum." It's probably the simplest, most easy, most freeing way to live.

I personally LOVE noncon stories, I also love dark romances, and written toxic relationships. But I also understand that things like that are considered extremely bad in the real world. Like, obviously most of us don't want to be stalked in real life, but some things are nice as fantasies. Cause that's what they are, just fantasies. A little fun to spice up life.

I like yandere and noncon fics because I have a deep desire to be desired. I find being wanted to be the most attractive thing on the planet. I love the idea of someone losing themselves in me to the point where they lose themselves. It definitely comes from growing up as the "ugly girl". I'm not even ugly, kids were just mean. But it's nice to write about.

I see no issue in separating fiction from reality as long as you're able to do it safely. But I also genuinely don't care about what most people do as long as they don't touch kids.

[cherryblossomshadow]

I'm rewatching BNHA right now, and I am SO SALTY about All Might. I don't want to yuck anyone's yum, so scroll past pls if you don't want to hear some harsh words about All Might

All Might does NOT get to fit this bill, in my opinion, because he is NOT a good mentor for Deku. Maybe he would be a good fit for someone else. But all of his advice to Deku comes down to "try really hard." Not actually that helpful

And all of the "small talk" they could engage in is cut off, quite rudely actually, by All Might himself.

I actually don't know how I missed it the first time, maybe bc Deku worships him. But if you actually look at the things All Might says to Deku, it's all things like "stop crying" and "stop muttering" and "don't give up, even if you break all your bones." Being emotional and muttering a lot are like two big staples to Deku's behavior. If All Might can't handle even an ounce of either one, does he even actually like Deku? He wasn't impressed by the kid until he saw how very very ready he was to die. Does he even like the kid? It doesn't feel like it

I don't think All Might knows any of this about himself, but it's not a good look

I trust big muscled people because I feel like they just want to give me advice on how to live my best life and impart mass amounts of motivation on me

their muscles are filled with compassion 

[aaeeiii]

"Just scroll if you don't like it!", "Don't yuck someone else's yum" girl.. that's literally rape??? Nonconsensual?? Get some therapy pls

The amount of incest, noncon, and pedophilic jjk smut content is getting out of hand.

"Just scroll if you don't like it!" - this doesn't negate the fact they're posting disgusting scenarios. They're targeting an audience of people who should seek therapy. That kind of shit is not okay.

It's like saying "scroll part a zoophile account on Twitter if u don't like it." See how stupid it sounds?

This Fandom is slowly becoming one i regret being in because of just how disgusting people are becoming. Come on guys, do better.

It's okay to have kinks and fetishes, but that doesn't mean they're okay. It's not okay to sexualize minors, it's not okay to sexualizw little space, it's not okay to sexualize r//pe! I get dubcon, but noncon? That's literally just nonconsensual sex.

Anyways. Rant over. Do better, people.