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respectthepetty · 1 year ago

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I love Ming.

And I am terrified he is going to do something he'll regret because of all these rich people problems.

He likes Mei.

But she is going to be in a secret relationship with her boss lady.

And I'm really worried he is going to be involved in robbing one of these couples of their happiness

Because his boss man is a baddie.

And he is the entire problem (is this Mei or the new wife?!)

Ming, baby, don't be involved in any of this misery.

You are a good man, love! A GOOD MAN!

Don't hurt me.

I beg you.

#i feel you linger in the air #I don't know why I'm so afraid #but I am #Ming don't hurt me #I beg you #I already love you too much #I won't be able to handle it #be the good man I know you are #don't go these people dirty work #even if they threaten you

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userautumn · 3 months ago

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"not all men" but not in a men's rights way, in a "it's important to remember that men aren't the only perpetrators of cruelty, abuse, and evil and that subconsciously or consciously training yourself to view men as inherently evil and everyone else as inherently safe inadvertently puts you in a position where you're both vulnerable to attack or harm from people you otherwise wouldn't suspect, AND causes you to limit the number of allies you might have in a time of need" kind of way.

#This is why I worry a lot about young women (teens and twenties) who seek comfort and validation in r//adf//em circles. Many of them have #been hurt through rape or abuse—commonly at the hands of fathers/brothers/uncles or otherwise trusted adults—and have decided that men must #be cruel because both they and their female/female + queer friends have similar stories of abuse. So they seek out others who share this #belief but in doing so they make themselves vulnerable to further abuse and manipulation. I haven't really observed r//adf//em circles long #enough to be able to say what I'm about to say with certainty but I would put money on the idea that being a RF on social media shares the #same hallmarks as being in a cult because the behavior of the adherents is far too similar than that of tradwives or any other modern cult.#Other RF's use the hurt and abuse these young women have experienced and twist and manipulate their truth to foster a sense of #us-against-them cruelty against a population that could in actuality be their fiercest allies. It's such a vicious and relentless cycle.#That's why when I see RF's on here all I feel is pity — both for the cruelty and abuse they've witnessed and suffered but ALSO for the way #they've allowed that abuse to be weaponized against them... many before they were too young to realize it was even happening. We as a #society have got to get better at protecting our young girls and women from r//adf//em ideology. I don't even mean that in a #“destroy the patriarchy” kind of way because that's such a lofty and disorganized goal. I mean it in a “we have to go into uncomfortable #spaces and show these girls love and empathy because right now the only people validating them are people who use their hate and mistrust #against them and if we want to save our young girls and Queer sisters from this pipeline we have to do the dirty work“ kind of way.#But anyway.#jack.txt

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hurglewurm · 14 days ago

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ah that holiday depression

#just doesn't really matter does it #people who have big nice organized christmasses: good for you #do not show me pictures.#do not tell me what you ate.#i will probably be eating toast for christmas dinner.#i don't live alone i just have divorced parents #and one is going to hawaii and the other didn't invite me over so i'll just.#be here i guess.#wrap presents for other people lmao which i do enjoy doing !#wish i could open something tho. just for fun #sigh... online orders could fulfill this need... unwrap something from ugly road-dirty plastic... i guess...#fuckin scrooge up in this bitch #ok also i started drawing a bit and it's UGLY and that made me UPSET #hurgle says things #i also haven't really slept in a few days bc i've been at work asjhbsgbsbgbs selling things to christmas people.#but that's definitely a factor #like this is 100% just that nighttime disease #but i feel sad about it !

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tardis--dreams · 11 months ago

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I was so concerned with the horrors of making a doctor's appointment and the horrors of finding a job that i completely forgot about the worst horrors of them all. Finding an apartment.

#i just realized that yesterday #after my appointment #and now my rest of my time off is ruined #because i have to find a place to stay and the chances are low that I'll find something okay #the student dorm apartment was the hight of luxury (pretty new. good stove. good bathroom. hot water....)#now I'm most likely going back to broken showers‚ old almost unusable stove‚ hot water every once in a blue moon‚ no room to move #ugly depressing dirty #my dream is unattainable i know #i don't even want more than one room (even though in the long run i would love to have an apartment with a kitchen in a separate room)#but i would love to have an oven #i know it's too much too ask and i should be happy if i have a functional stove #also a bathroom that doesn't look and behave like it's 100 years old and is fully functional would be so nice #and my actual most important concern is having enough space to work out #it doesn't need to be much. i just wanna be able to move freely enough so i don't have to worry about bumping into anything #when doing burpees and whatnot #but I'll take what i can get #if have no choice #i can't commute. the train connections are too bad.#alright #I'll message some people now and get rejection after rejection after rejection 🥲#void screams

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innanzituttoticalmi · 4 months ago

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i'm sorry if you genuinely think bozzi and leclerc "copied the other driver/engineer's strategy" i canttttttt take you seriously

#do any of you understand how this team shit works. how this pre-race strategy meetings team shit works.#or calling this win 'lucky' be for reallllllll #i dont generally go for the block button but that should be an immediate block #its just fascinating the thought processes required to avoid admitting some of these guys are just good at their jobs #possibly better than others.#there's thoughts in me about the ways fandom 'character analysis' trends intersect with the way people talk about f1 on tumblr/twitter #while just completely forgetting or ignoring not just the competitive sports of it all but the very real ways the teams operate #did you guys know ferrari has a whole 'remote garage' of engineers in italy that tune in every race just to analyse data in real time #and feed back possible strategies to the pit wall that then get discussed and acted on based on drivers feedback?#do you GENUINELY think its just bryan bozzi leaning over fred's shoulder to copy adami's homework #you know ferrari has their very own hannah schmidt? maybe not as good as her but there's a dude in there whose job is 'tell us what to do'#maybe you could learn his name it might be helpful #sorry AND ONE MORE THING #how do you call yourself a leclerc fan and then turn around to call this a lucky win #it required outqualifying his teammate #it required taking advantage of the situation around him to jump lando at la roggia #it required sticking close to both mclarens in dirty air and taking a gamble on the early pit stop #it required 37 LAPS ON HARDS THAT NEVER WENT BELOW OR ABOVE 1:23:000 EXCEPT ONCE #and yes it required required teamwork. as most wins do unless you have a rocket under your ass (and/or don't know how to use it)#the only lucky part was lando once again fumbling the first lap and george taking himself out at turn 1 #but you understand he still had to drive the rest of the 52 laps himself right. god #its too early for me to be this mad

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apocalypticdemon · 6 months ago

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y'know. it really sucks to feel yourself back-sliding, mentally, when you know you've been doing pretty alright for a while

#i can feel it coming scoob. frankly i think it may already be here.#i am always so tired. frustrated. having really fun mood swings.#and my job is deeply taxing and deeply stressful. ao i never get any fucking reprieve.#and i literally don't have the energy to care for myself at home reliably.#so my whole fuckin day got ruined today bc my landlord visited with some people to measure the place.#and i spent hours cleaning. and he ended the call by trlling me my apartment was dirty.#so. i cried. bc i have no emotional resilience anymore on account of the constant stress #and then i cut someone off in traffic today despite trying really hard to Not do that #but despite checking my mirrors and blind spot 4 times i still managed it!#and they sped past me. so i screamed at them from the safety of my car with the windows rolled up.#and then immediately burst into uncontrollable tears that lasted the better part of 30 min #and nearly made me puke.#so now. i am hollowed-out and exhausted. just barely making it through.#and i can feel how close the absolute meltdown is. and i can't fuckin do anything about it bc i can't miss work! fuck!#it's been an exceptionally stressful two weeks and I've had it. but we keep trucking i guess.#idk im sad and frustrated and just going through it rn. and it sucks bc i remember being happy.#and i'm just not anymore.#i ramble #sorry this was long and rambly and unasked for i'm just having a really really bad day #and will be having them every day until at least august!

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gaysamurai · 7 months ago

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death note would be so much improved if the writer were interested in how misa's experience of seeing her parents murdered in front of her as a child traumatized her and gave her a warped sense of good and evil and made her feel detached from her own life but instead they just used it as an excuse to make her obsessed with light

#in the musical she says smth like “i don't mind if my lifespan is halved because i haven't been alive since the day my parents were killed”#n im like wow! characterization!#it would be fascinating if at some point she became disillusioned with light because either #1) the savior who punished her parents' killer became too caught up in the cat-and-mouse game with L and lost focus #(spending all this time on getting rid of people in his way rather than killing the criminals she thinks deserve to be killed)#2) she sees him killing everyone who stands in his way regardless of whether they did something wrong and at some point #he kills innocent parents of young children that make her suddenly see herself in the victims of kira rather than in kira #those are two different directions you could go in that are both more interesting than what we got #i know that people like that she kills even more indiscriminately than light/“is more evil” but that doesn't go anywhere!#she just ends up doing his dirty work and sometimes causing problems for him by being less cautious #they need to have an ideological conflict just like L and Light do for her to be a player in the game #she is potentially the most powerful character in the show with both the knowledge of the dn and the eyes #but because it's never a question that she's faithful to light there's no danger #now if it were at any moment unclear where he alliance lay...

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miisfits-toys · 7 months ago

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Theoretically, the prideful and ambitious figure should be the easiest target for her "devil's bargain, appeal to ego" tactics.

Well...

#My Art #Illustration #Original Character #Original Characters #Ipseity: The Wayward #Ipseity: Caligo Narcyz #She forgot to calculate that he's Also a little freak #''I'm not sure if I should punish or entertain this!'' - Paloma who's done exactly what he's doing in the past #I think this is why he has some sort of History with various Figures #2 Egoful People who want to Work for their shit and get their Hands Dirty #''I don't respect It but I do Respect it'' people #Caligo is lying and he is a cheater because all of this information is being obtained for ''I'm going to figure out how to use magic too''#purposes as someone who is super not a magic user #but you know. Aforementioned simply Cannot have his win handed to him (though it is tempting to see how Exactly that would work)#(what will it do to his body? Wonders of this world yet to be discovered)#Anyways fun fact this the 100th post on this blog yaaaay

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syrenki · 7 months ago

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#music #es #mine #i don't go where i'm supposed to go #and i don't go really anywhere you know #i made up my mind and i don't mind saying so #i went to meet you at central square #but man i couldn't find you there #i went walking around the city some more #people watching with a cold blank stare #and i saw your face in everyone i swear #seems i never get your kick quite right #i was working slow to a dirty dive #i'm so sick and tired trying to change your mind #when it's so easy to disconnect mine #high times high times high times man i feel fine don't pick me up #i'm fine right where i am

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schulziann · 8 months ago

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Watching so many financially well off ex classmates post about their trips to Balkan countries knowing full well that a) they considered all my recommendations of fascinating/important Balkan literature boring during our school days b) they could not properly pronounce my Serbian bf's name when we were all together c) they are annoying and Protestant af.... what are you even doing there 💀

#yes I'm jealous. But also I never understand people who travel without any appreciation for a region's culture or language #because why were you mocking my desire to live/work in an area you considered dirty and depressing and now you get to go there and I don't.

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bluastro-yellow · 1 year ago

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I see some of the place I live in Martinaise. of course the situation is not the same, and it's not as bad, but this part of the city is a shithole on the beach with so much potential to be great left to rot on its own (it has an even worse fishing "village" too)

but still. the sea and pinewood forest are so beautiful and full of life, and there's still people who're trying to live their lives and change the situation. "but I love it nonetheless. It belongs to me as much as it belongs to you" is changing my perspective

#this part of the city is the western side. the further you go from the centre the worse it gets #where cracked roads and abandoned buildings and scaffoldings and trash and shops closed forever and syringes on the pavement are normal #with the fishing village at the end as a cherry on top #but it's not all like this. the rest is just mediocre-bad or ok. and it was much worse in the past #(still talking about the western side)#there's worse places to be. have you seen coal city?#disco elysium #pointless microblogging #this side is like its two mini malls #one has a bar a supermarket a big everything-for-cheap shop. it's always kinda dirty #and a couple of other shops #kinda greasy. like those cheap luna parks. sometimes the electric stairs don't work. the parking is kinda shit and cramped #but somehow it's still open. somehow people still go there #the other is new and shiny and it's a desert city. there's one cool clothes shop. a shoes shop. probably an hairdresser #but ai don't know if it's still open. I think there was a supermarket that closed?#but the place is empty. the building is empty. the shops are empty. a failed investment

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doom-dreaming · 9 months ago

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how do i tell my mother that coming into my room calling me "lazybones" if i'm still in bed at any time past 7 a.m. for YEARS has done near-irreparable damage to my self-esteem and created shame about being able to just fucking relax?