#do du'a dream

[alfaaz-e-momin]

In Surah Yusuf - Allāh described the story of Prophet Yusuf as the most beautiful of stories. Why? Because regardless of what situation you’re going through in life - you can relate to something in it.

It teaches us that dreams do come true, hardship will turn in to ease, and nothing is better in this world than loyalty. It teaches us that those with gifts will be hated upon and plotted against - so patience is key. It teaches us that it’s never too late to say sorry and forgiveness takes the greatest courage. It teaches us du'as may be delayed but they are never rejected. It teaches us that the best of people have the most difficult beginnings but they always have the most beautiful endings. It teaches us that the affection and care of parents has no boundaries, love can cure, broken hearts can be fixed, and reuniting with those we care about is close. It teaches us that the truthful never abandon that which theybelieve in, Allāh is with those who have no one, and He gives everything to those who give up everything for Him.

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my fav anon just ended her last ask with this and I'm just so overwhelmed with emotion and gratitude bc I literally do understand Qur'anic Arabic to that extent and I clearly remember YEARNING to be able to get to that point eventually

it was one night during taraweeh when I was maybe in 11th? grade and I remember watching all the people around me cry as the imam was reading the witr du'a and all I was able to pick up on at that point were little words like إلاهنا - so when the imam would call that out with so much emotion, I remember my only du'a at that point was to be able to understand fus7a and alhamdulillah fr fr bc just a couple years later I started a Quran program full time and that dream was actualized and I swear to God I tell this to anyone who'll listen, there is NOTHING like being able to understand what's being recited to bring you back to Allah man NOTHING alhamdulillah and I really want to shout that from a roof top

it's a mixed bag of emotion tho bc on one hand I'm so so grateful to have had access to that knowledge but also I feel so guilty like I'm sitting on a goldmine of privilege and am not doing nearly enough to make the most of it esp while others are craving to have a bit of what I have and the possibility of the knowledge being a حجة against me is so :(

اللهم حاسبني حساباً يسيراً

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JUZ 20-LESSONS

➖SURAH AN-NAML

-Allah SWT is our Creator, Only He deserves worship and subservience

أَإِلَةٌ مَّعَ اللَّهِ

We should learn about the different types of Shirk and leave all of them. Make it a habit of saying:

لا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللهُ وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ لَهُ الْمُلْكُ وَلَهُ الْحَمْدُ وهُوَ عَلَى كُلّ شَيْءٍ قَدِيرٌ

throughout the day and especially when going to bed to be resurrected on Tawheed.

-Allah SWT is He Who hears the supplication of the desperate الْمُضْطَرَّ إِذَا دَعَاهُ

He makes us go through the pains so that we connect with Him. Sadly, when people are in

this phase they call or text another human being to talk or complain to. Some turn on their television sets to watch a movie or a drama. Some go to the mall for their "retail therapy."

Allah SWT gave us this pain so that we would turn to Him and make sincere heartfelt du'as, but we turn to the creation to calm us down.

Make du'as to Him even if you do not see an immediate response.

-When a person has the "yaqeen" [certainty] of the Hereafter, they will work for it and not just dream about it or wish for it

La Tahzan! If you are a Da'ee, get out of your depression. Do not be discouraged by people's attitudes and comments. Make your heart strong so that you stay motivated in spreading Allah's commands to others.

-Allah SWT is Sufficient for you against your opponents. Hand over all matters to Him. Make Him your Wakeel! Let Him fight your case. You busy yourself with His worship and obedience.

- He who desires Allah's Mercy and Guidance should hold on to the Qur'an

-It is not in our control to make some people listen to the Message - their hearts are blocked

-Ad-Daabah - a great beast that is hidden in the earth and will emerge near the End Times. It will have the ability to speak and reason. It will make marks on the people's noses which will distinguish the believers from the disbelievers.

Do not say anything without knowledge especially about the Qur'an, Sunnah or any other religious issue

-The Day of Judgment will be a horrifying day. Only they will be saved from the terrors of that Day for whom Allah SWT desires. O Allah, please make us of them! (ameen)

-Whoever does good, will be compensated with goodness. We expect reward from the people, but ignore Allah SWT?

Do not stay behind in doing good deeds. Ask Him: O Allah, choose me for good deeds and enable me to do them with ease. Please do not choose someone else ouer me, ameen.

Do not get frustrated when people approach you for help - questions related to Deen (if

you've authentic knowledge); parenting advice (if you're an inspirational parent); study help

(if you're an outstanding student) or financial help (if you're blessed).

Do not frown! Do not turn people away when you're in a position to help them.

Allah SWT CHOSE YOU over others!

-Whoever does this will be in peace on the Day of Judgment so do not take this lightly

➖SURAH AL-QASAS

-Tyrant leaders rule over others by causing division among the people. Beware! Do not hate someone because they are of a different race or think differently than you.

-Allah SWT inspires His righteous servants regarding what they should do. Do not ignore inner thoughts to do something good. Ask Allah SWT:

أَللَّهُمَّ أَلْهِمْنِى رُشْدِى وَ أَعِذْنِى مِنْ شَرِّ نَفْسِى

"O Allah! Inspire in me guidance and deliver me from the evils within myself." [at-Tirmidhi]

-When you are patient over a trial and ask Allah SWT for strength, you will notice an increase in your emaan

Allah SWT won't disappoint a person who relies on Him when taking a step or decision

Judgment [Hukm - the ability to see things in their real form and take the right decision at the right time] and knowledge is a gift of Allah SWT. We ask Allah SWT for material things but fail to ask for innate abilities that will help us for life!

-The moment you realize you have committed a wrong, tum to Allah SWT in repentance the way Musa AS did.

Be Like Musa AS

- Stay connected to Allah SWT and talk to Him as your life's situation changes

When he accidentally kills a man

When he feels threatened

رَبِّ إِنِّي ظَلَمْتُ نَفْسِي فَاغْفِرْ لِي

"My Lord, indeed I have wronged myself, so forgive me." (28:16)

رَبِّ نَجِنِي مِنَ الْقَوْمِ الظَّالِمِينَ

"My Lord, save me from the wrongdoing people." (28:21)

When he is in need of Allah's favors

When he finds himself lost يَهْدِيَنِي سَوَاءَ السَّبِيلِ

رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ

"Perhaps my Lord will guide me to the sound way." (28:22)

"My Lord, indeed I am, for whatever good you would send down to me, in need." (28:24)

when a person wants to reach the destination/goal without hurdles or want to get out of his trials then he should make this du'a

-A special character trait of woman

-HAYA in SHYNESS

-HAYA IN DRESSING

-HAYA IN MANNERS

-HAYA IN SPEECH -HAYA IN WALK

-COMPOSED

Acknowledge you are faqeer, in need and weak, lack knowledge, lack wisdom

Guidance is for him who seeks it. Allah SWT knows our intentions, the day we become sincere in seeking guidance, He will open up the way for us.

- When someone from the People of the Book accepts Islam, they receive double rewards. One for believing in their Scripture and second for believing in the Final Messenger and the Qur'an.

Who are these people? (see 28:52-55)

- they avert evil through good

- they spend from what Allah SWT has provided them

- when they hear ill speech, they turn away from it and say, "For us are our deeds, and for you are your deeds. Peace will be upon you; we seek not the ignorant."

- We can't guide anyone because guidance is in Allah's Hands. We should continue to advise them and make a lot of du'as for them.

- Never become arrogant when you are blessed

- Consult with Allah SWT in every matter. Do Istikharah yourself (don't ask others to do it).

"Seek, through that which Allah has given you, the home of the

Hereafter; and [yet], do not forget your share of the world. And do good as Allah has done good to you." (28:77)

- We build and decorate our homes as if we are always going to live here. When there is an increase in our paycheck, we also increase our expenditures. Instead of upgrading your lifestyle here, upgrade your home of the Hereafter. Enjoy your blessings but do not forget the Right of Allah SWT. Give sadaqah. Arrange gatherings of knowledge in your homes. Spend money to build mosques and Islamic institutes.

Whatever Allah SWT has given you, think about how you can use it in His way.

- SELF-CHECK: When do you feel excited - when you get some material possession or when Allah SWT chooses you for a good deed? An Akhirah focused person will be happy to serve and please Allah SWT. He does not like hoarding wealth or possessions.

- Do not attribute your success to yourself. Everything that we have is from Allah SWT.

- Do righteous deeds in this world, protect your time, live as an ascetic, gain knowledge of the Deen and spread it - busy yourself in this, for a better reward in the Hereafter. Live a simple and content life. Do not desire what other's have. Less possessions = less accountability.

➖SURAH AL-'ANKABOOT

Do the people think that they will be left to say, "We believe" and they will not be tried?

Allah SWT tests His servants to separate the true believers from the hypocrites. Therefore, when you are being tested, be patient.

- Whoever strives only strives for the benefit of himself. Allah SWT is free from need. We are the ones in need. We need Allah's protection and mercy in this world and the next.

-Belief in Allah SWT and righteous deeds can erase the misdeeds so increase your good deeds

- Allah SWT knows the reality of the claims that we make and what we hide in our hearts

- In the Hereafter, no one will carry another's burdens so make sure you take your knowledge from the authentic sources and follow the Right Path - the path of Rasoolullah (salAllahu 'alayhi wa sallam). No innovations!

- Do not make du'as to dead saints or peers for an increase in provision. Ask directly from Allah SWT. He is the One Who provides to everyone.

- People of the Deen love others who are busy serving the Deen of Allah SWT - this is love for the sake of Allah SWT, the best form of lo

- Prophet Nuh (AS) called people to Allah SWT for 950 years...how easily do we give up when calling people to Deen? Be patient for the sake of Allah SWT. Do not give up. If you are sincere in your duty, He will help you.

- When you start a conversation talk about the good things first. Do not start a conversation with complaints or negative things.

- Homosexuality is an immoral act, an entire nation was destroyed because of this. Do not approve of something that is forbidden in our religion. Save your families and loved ones.

-Whoever plots against the Deen of Allah SWT their plots are as weak as a spider's web

-No one understands the examples given in the Qur'an except those who have knowledge. We ask Allah SWT for rushd and knowledge and to not make us of those who are arrogant or ignorant, ameen.

JUZ 20-பாடங்கள்

➖சூரா ஆன்-நாம்

-அல்லாஹ் SWT எங்கள் படைப்பாளர், அவர் மட்டுமே வணக்கத்திற்கும் பணிவிற்கும் தகுதியானவர்

أَإِلَةٌ مَّعَ اللَّهِ

நாம் ஷிர்க்கின் பல்வேறு வகைகளைப் பற்றி அறிந்து அவற்றையெல்லாம் விட்டுவிட வேண்டும். சொல்வதை வழக்கமாக்கிக் கொள்ளுங்கள்:

لا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللهُ وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ لَهُ الْمُلْكُ وَلَهُ الْحَمْدُ وَلَى كُلَّ شَيْدُ

நாள் ��ுழுவதும் மற்றும் குறிப்பாக படுக்கைக்குச் செல்லும் போது தவ்ஹீதில் உயிர்த்தெழுப்பப்பட வேண்டும்.

-அல்லாஹ் SWT என்பது அவநம்பிக்கையாளர்களின் மன்றாட்டைக் கேட்பவன்.

நாம் அவருடன் இணைவதற்கு அவர் நம்மை வலிகளை கடந்து செல்ல வைக்கிறார். துரதிர்ஷ்டவசமாக, மக்கள் உள்ளே இருக்கும்போது

இந்த கட்டத்தில் அவர்கள் பேச அல்லது புகார் செய்ய மற்றொரு மனிதனை அழைக்கிறார்கள் அல்லது குறுஞ்செய்தி அனுப்புகிறார்கள். சிலர் திரைப்படம் அல்லது நாடகத்தைப் பார்க்க தொலைக்காட்சிப் பெட்டிகளை ஆன் செய்கிறார்கள். சிலர் தங்கள் "சில்லறை சிகிச்சைக்காக" மாலுக்குச் செல்கிறார்கள்.

அல்லாஹ் SWT நமக்கு இந்த வலியைக் கொடுத்தான், அதனால் நாம் அவனிடம் திரும்புவோம், நேர்மையான இதயப்பூர்வமான துஆச் செய்வோம், ஆனால் நம்மை அமைதிப்படுத்த படைப்பின் பக்கம் திரும்புகிறோம்.

உடனடி பதிலைக் காணாவிட்டாலும் அவரிடம் துஆச் செய்யுங்கள்.

-ஒருவருக்கு மறுமையின் "யாகீன்" [நிச்சயம்] இருந்தால், அவர்கள் அதற்காகப் பாடுபடுவார்கள், அதைப் பற்றி கனவு காண்பது அல்லது அதை விரும்புவது மட்டும் அல்ல.

லா தஹ்சான்! நீங்கள் ஒரு டேயி என்றால், உங்கள் மனச்சோர்விலிருந்து வெளியேறுங்கள். மக்களின் மனப்பான்மை மற்றும் கருத்துக்களால் சோர்வடைய வேண்டாம். அல்லாஹ்வின் கட்டளைகளை மற்றவர்களுக்குப் பரப்புவதில் உந்துதலாக இருக்க உங்கள் இதயத்தை வலிமையாக்குங்கள்.

உங்கள் எதிரிகளுக்கு எதிராக அல்லாஹ் SWT உங்களுக்கு போதுமானது. எல்லா விஷயங்களையும் அவனிடம் ஒப்படைத்துவிடு. அவரை உங்கள் வேக்கீல் ஆக்குங்கள்! உங்கள் வழக்கில் அவர் போராடட்டும். அவருடைய வழிபாட்டிலும் கீழ்ப்படிதலிலும் நீங்கள் மும்முரமாக ஈடுபடுகிறீர்கள்.

- அல்லாஹ்வின் கருணையையும் வழிகாட்டலையும் விரும்புபவர் குர்ஆனைப் பற்றிக் கொள்ள வேண்டும்

- சிலரைச் செய்தியைக் கேட்க வைப்பது நம் கட்டுப்பாட்டில் இல்லை - அவர்களின் இதயங்கள் அடைக்கப்பட்டுள்ளன

-Ad-Daabah - பூமியில் மறைந்திருக்கும் ஒரு பெரிய மிருகம் மற்றும் இறுதி காலத்தின் அருகே வெளிப்படும். இது பேசும் திறன் மற்றும் பகுத்தறியும் திறன் கொண்டதாக இருக்கும். இது மக்களின் மூக்கில் அடையாளங்களை ஏற்படுத்தும், இது நம்பிக்கையாளர்களை காஃபிர்களிடமிருந்து வேறுபடுத்தும்.

குறிப்பாக குர்ஆன், சுன்னா அல்லது வேறு எந்த மத விஷயத்திலும் அறிவு இல்லாமல் எதையும் கூறாதீர்கள்

- தீர்ப்பு நாள் ஒரு பயங்கரமான நாளாக இருக்கும். அல்லாஹ் SWT யாரை நாடுகிறானோ அவர்கள் மட்டு��ே அந்நாளின் பயங்கரங்களில் இருந்து காப்பாற்றப்படுவார்கள். யா அல்லாஹ், அவர்களில் எங்களை ஆக்குவாயாக! (ஆமீன்)

- நல்லதைச் செய்பவருக்கு நன்மையே கிடைக்கும். நாங்கள் மக்களிடமிருந்து வெகுமதியை எதிர்பார்க்கிறோம், ஆனால் அல்லாஹ்வை புறக்கணிக்கிறீர்களா?

நல்ல செயல்களைச் செய்வதில் பின் தங்கி விடாதீர்கள். அவரிடம் கேளுங்கள்: யா அல்லாஹ், நற்செயல்களுக்கு என்னைத் தேர்ந்தெடுத்து, அவற்றை எளிதாகச் செய்ய எனக்கு உதவுவாயாக. தயவு செய்து என்னை விட வேறு யாரையும் தேர்வு செய்யாதீர்கள், ஆமீன்.

உதவிக்காக மக்கள் உங்களை அணுகும்போது விரக்தியடைய வேண்டாம் - டீன் தொடர்பான கேள்விகள் (என்றால்

உங்களிடம் உண்மையான அறிவு உள்ளது); பெற்றோருக்குரிய ஆலோசனை (நீங்கள் ஒரு உத்வேகம் தரும் பெற்றோராக இருந்தால்); படிப்பு உதவி

(நீங்கள் ஒரு சிறந்த மாணவராக இருந்தால்) அல்லது நிதி உதவி (நீங்கள் ஆசீர்வதிக்கப்பட்டிருந்தால்).

முகம் சுளிக்காதே! நீங்கள் அவர்களுக்கு உதவக்கூடிய நிலையில் இருக்கும்போது மக்களைத் திருப்பிவிடாதீர்கள்.

மற்றவர்களை விட அல்லாஹ் உங்களைத் தேர்ந்தெடுத்தான்!

-இதைச் செய்பவர் கியாமத் நாளில் நிம்மதியாக இருப்பார் எனவே இதை சாதாரணமாக எடுத்துக் கொள்ளாதீர்கள்.

➖சூரா அல்-கசாஸ்

- கொடுங்கோலன் தலைவர்கள் மக்களிடையே பிரிவினையை ஏற்படுத்தி மற்றவர்களை ஆட்சி செய்கிறார்கள். ஜாக்கிரதை! ஒருவரை வெறுக்காதீர்கள், ஏனென்றால் அவர்கள் வேறு இனத்தைச் சேர்ந்தவர்கள் அல்லது உங்களை விட வித்தியாசமாக சிந்தியுங்கள்.

-அல்லாஹ் SWT தனது நேர்மையான ஊழியர்களுக்கு அவர்கள் என்ன செய்ய வேண்டும் என்பது குறித்து ஊக்கமளிக்கிறார். ஏதாவது நல்லது செய்ய உள் எண்ணங்களை புறக்கணிக்காதீர்கள். அல்லாஹ்விடம் கேளுங்கள் SWT:

أَللَّهُمَّ أَلْهِمْنِى رُشْدِى وَ أَعِذْنِى مِنْ شَرِّ نَفْسِى

"யா அல்லாஹ்! எனக்கு வழிகாட்டுதலைத் தூண்டி, என்னுள் இருக்கும் தீமைகளிலிருந்து என்னை விடுவிப்பாயாக." [திர்மிதி]

- நீங்கள் ஒரு சோதனையில் பொறுமையாக இருந்து, அல்லாஹ்விடம் பலம் கேட்கும் போது, ​​உங்கள் ஈமான் அதிகரிப்பதை நீங்கள் கவனிப்பீர்கள்.

அல்லாஹ் SWT ஒரு படி அல்லது முடிவை எடுக்கும்போது தன்னை நம்பியிருக்கும் ஒரு நபரை ஏமாற்ற மாட்டான்

தீர்ப்பு [Hukm - விஷயங்களை அவற்றின் உண்மையான வடிவத்தில் பார்க்கும் திறன் மற்றும் சரியான நேரத்தில் சரியான முடிவை எடுக்கும் திறன்] மற்றும் அறிவு என்பது அல்லாஹ்வின் பரிசு. நாம் அல்லாஹ்விடம் பொருள் பொருள்களைக் கேட்கிறோம், ஆனால் வாழ்க்கைக்கு உதவும் உள்ளார்ந்த திறன்களைக் கேட்கத் தவறுகிறோம்!

- நீங்கள் தவறு செய்துவிட்டீர்கள் என்பதை உணரும் தருணத்தில், மூசா செய்ததைப் போன்று மனந்திரும்பி அல்லாஹ்விடம் திரும்புங்கள்.

மூசா AS போல இருங்கள்

- அல்லாஹ் SWT உடன் இணைந்திருங்கள் மற்றும் உங்கள் வாழ்க்கையின் சூழ்நிலை மாறும்போது அவருடன் பேசுங்கள்

அவர் தற்செயலாக ஒரு மனிதனைக் கொல்லும்போது

அவர் அச்சுறுத்தலை உணரும்போது

رَبِّ إِنِّي ظَلَمْتُ نَفْسِي فَاغْفِرْ لِي

"என் இறைவா, நிச்சயமாக நான் எனக்கே தீங்கிழைத்துக் கொண்டேன், எனவே என்னை மன்னியுங்கள்." (28:16)

رَبِّ نَجِنِي مِنَ الْقَوْمِ الذَّالِمِينَ

"என் இறைவா, அநியாயம் செய்யும் மக்களிடமிருந்து என்னைக் காப்பாற்றுவாயாக." (28:21)

அவருக்கு அல்லாஹ்வின் அருள் தேவைப்படும் போது

يَهْدِيَنِي سَوَاءَ السَّبِيلِ தன்னை இழந்ததைக் கண்டால்

رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ

"ஒருவேளை என் இறைவன் என்னை நல்ல வழியில் நடத்துவான்." (28:22)

"என் இரட்சகரே, நிச்சயமாக நான் தான், நீங்கள் எனக்கு எந்த நன்மையை இறக்கி வைத்தாலும், தேவைப்படுபவர்." (28:24)

ஒரு நபர் தடைகள் இல்லாமல் இலக்கை / இலக்கை அடைய விரும்பினால் அல்லது அவரது சோதனைகளில் இருந்து வெளியேற விரும்பினால், அவர் இந்த துஆவை செய்ய வேண்டும்

- பெண்ணின் சிறப்புப் பண்பு

-ஹயா கூச்சத்தில்

-ஹயா உடையில்

-ஹயா

-ஹயா உரையில் -நடையில் ஹயா

-அமைதியாக

நீங்கள் ஃபகீர், தேவை மற்றும் பலவீனம், அறிவு இல்லாதவர், ஞானம் இல்லாதவர் என்பதை ஒப்புக் கொள்ளுங்கள்

வழிகாட்டுதல் அதை நாடுபவருக்கு. அல்லாஹ் SWT நம் நோக்கங்களை அறிந்திருக்கிறான், வழிகாட்டுதலைத் தேடுவதில் நாம் நேர்மையாக இருக்கும் நாளில், அவர் நமக்கு வழியைத் திறப்பார்.

- புத்தகத்தின் மக்களில் ஒருவர் இஸ்லாத்தை ஏற்றுக்கொண்டால், அவர்களுக்கு இரட்டிப்பு வெகுமதிகள் கிடைக்கும். ஒன்று அவர்களின் வேதத்தை நம்புவதற்கும், இரண்டாவது இறுதித் தூதர் மற்றும் குர்ஆன் மீதும் நம்பிக்கை வைப்பதற்கும்.

இவர்கள் யார்? (பார்க்க 28:52-55)

- அவர்கள் நன்மையின் மூலம் தீமையைத் தடுக்கிறார்கள்

- அல்லாஹ் அவர்களுக்கு வழங்கியவற்றிலிருந்து அவர்கள் செலவிடுகிறார்கள்

- அவர்கள் தவறான பேச்சைக் கேட்டால், அவர்கள் அதை விட்டு விலகி, "எங்களுக்கு எங்கள் செயல்கள், உங்களுக்காக உங்கள் செயல்கள். உங்களுக்கு அமைதி கிடைக்கும்; நாங்கள் அறியாதவர்களைத் தேடவில்லை."

- வழிகாட்டுதல் அல்லாஹ்வின் கையில் இருப்பதால், நாம் யாரையும் வழிநடத்த முடியாது. தொடர்ந்து அவர்களுக்கு அறிவுரை கூறி அவர்களுக்காக நிறைய துஆக்கள் செய்ய வேண்டும்.

- நீங்கள் ஆசீர்வதிக்கப்படும்போது ஒருபோதும் கர்வம் கொள்ளாதீர்கள்

- ஒவ்வொரு விஷயத்திலும் அல்லாஹ் SWT உடன் கலந்தாலோசிக்கவும். இஸ்திகாராவை நீங்களே செய்யுங்கள் (மற்றவர்களைச் செய்யச் சொல்லாதீர்கள்).

"அல்லாஹ் உங்களுக்கு வழங்கிய வீட்டை, அதன் மூலம் தேடுங்கள்

இனிமேல்; மற்றும் [இன்னும்], உலகில் உனது பங்கை மறந்துவிடாதே. அல்லாஹ் உங்களுக்கு நன்மை செய்ததைப் போன்று நீங்களும் நன்மை செய்யுங்கள்." (28:77)

- நாங்கள் எப்போதும் இங்கே வாழப் போவது போல் எங்கள் வீடுகளைக் கட்டி அலங்கரிக்கிறோம். நமது சம்பளம் அதிகரிக்கும் போது, ​​நமது செலவையும் அதிகரிக்க���றோம். இங்கே உங்கள் வாழ்க்கை முறையை மேம்படுத்துவதற்குப் பதிலாக, உங்கள் மறுமை இல்லத்தை மேம்படுத்துங்கள். உங்கள் ஆசீர்வாதங்களை அனுபவிக்கவும் ஆனால் அல்லாஹ்வின் உரிமையை மறந்துவிடாதீர்கள் SWT. சதகா கொடுங்கள். உங்கள் வீடுகளில் அறிவு சேகரிப்புகளை ஏற்பாடு செய்யுங்கள். மசூதிகள் மற்றும் இஸ்லாமிய கல்வி நிறுவனங்கள் கட்ட பணம் செலவிடுங்கள்.

அல்லாஹ் SWT உங்களுக்கு எதைக் கொடுத்திருந்தாலும், அதை நீங்கள் எவ்வாறு அவருடைய வழியில் பயன்படுத்தலாம் என்பதைப் பற்றி சிந்தியுங்கள்.

- சுய சரிபார்ப்பு: நீங்கள் எப்போது உற்சாகமாக உணர்கிறீர்கள் - உங்களுக்கு ஏதாவது பொருள் கிடைக்கும் போது அல்லது அல்லாஹ் உங்களை ஒரு நல்ல செயலுக்காக தேர்ந்தெடுக்கும் போது? அக்கிராவை மையமாகக் கொண்ட ஒருவர், அல்லாஹ்வுக்கு சேவை செய்வதில் மகிழ்ச்சியாக இருப்பார். செல்வம் அல்லது உடைமைகளை பதுக்கி வைப்பது அவருக்குப் பிடிக்காது.

- உங்கள் வெற்றியை நீங்களே காரணம் காட்டாதீர்கள். நம்மிடம் உள்ள அனைத்தும் அல்லாஹ்விடமிருந்து வந்தவை.

- இவ்வுலகில் நீதியான செயல்களைச் செய்யுங்கள், உங்கள் நேரத்தைப் பாதுகாத்துக் கொள்ளுங்கள், துறவியாக வாழுங்கள், தீன் பற்றிய அறிவைப் பெறுங்கள், அதைப் பரப்புங்கள் - மறுமையில் சிறந்த வெகுமதிக்காக, இதில் மும்முரமாக இருங்கள். எளிமையான மற்றும் திருப்தியான வாழ்க்கையை வாழுங்கள். பிறரிடம் உள்ளதை விரும்பாதே. குறைந்த உடைமை = குறைவான பொறுப்பு.

➖சூரா அல்-அன்கபூட்

"நாங்கள் நம்புகிறோம்" என்று விட்டுவிடுவார்கள் என்றும், அவர்கள் விசாரணைக்கு உட்படுத்தப்பட மாட்டார்கள் என்றும் மக்கள் நினைக்கிறார்களா?

உண்மை விசுவாசிகளை நயவஞ்சகர்களிடமிருந்து பிரிக்க அல்லாஹ் தனது அடியார்களை சோதிக்கிறான். எனவே, நீங்கள் சோதிக்கப்படும் போது, ​​பொறுமையாக இருங்கள்.

- எவர் பாடுபடுகிறாரோ அவர் தனது நன்மைக்காக மட்டுமே பாடுபடுகிறார். அல்லாஹ் SWT தேவையிலிருந்து விடுபட்டவன். நாங்கள் தேவைப்படுபவர்கள். இம்மையிலும் மறுமையிலும் அல்லாஹ்வின் பாதுகாப்பும் கருணையும் நமக்குத் தேவை.

-அல்லாஹ் மீது நம்பிக்கை வைப்பது மற்றும் நற்செயல்கள் தீய செயல்களை அழித்துவிடும் எனவே உங்கள் நற்செயல்களை அதிகரிக்கலாம்

- நாம் செய்யும் கூற்றுகளின் உண்மைத்தன்மையையும், நம் இதயங்களில் நாம் மறைத்து வைத்திருப்பதையும் அல்லாஹ் SWT அறிவான்

- மறுமையில், யாரும் மற்றவரின் சுமைகளைச் சுமக்க மாட்டார்கள், எனவே உங்கள் அறிவை உண்மையான ஆதாரங்களில் இருந்து எடுத்து சரியான பாதையை - ரசூலுல்லாஹ் (ஸல்) அவர்களின் பாதையை பின்பற்றுவதை உறுதிப்படுத்திக் கொள்ளுங்கள். புதுமைகள் இல்லை!

- வசதி அதிகரிப்பதற்காக இறந்த புனிதர்கள் அல்லது சகாக்களிடம் துஆ செய்ய வேண்டாம். அல்லாஹ்விடம் நேரடியாகக் கேளுங்கள். அவர் அனைவருக்கும் வழங்குபவர்.

- அல்லாஹ்வின் தீன் SWT க்கு சேவை செய்வதில் மும்முரமாக இருக்கும் ��ற்றவர்களை தீன் மக்கள் நேசிக்கிறார்கள் - இது அல்லாஹ்வுக்காக SWT யின் சிறந்த வடிவம்.

- நபி நூஹ் (அலை) 950 ஆண்டுகளாக மக்களை அல்லாஹ்வின் பக்கம் அழைத்தார்... தீன் பக்கம் மக்களை அழைக்கும் போது நாம் எவ்வளவு எளிதில் விட்டுக் கொடுப்போம்? அல்லாஹ்வுக்காக பொறுமையாக இருங்கள் SWT. விட்டுவிடாதே. உங்கள் கடமையில் நீங்கள் நேர்மையாக இருந்தால், அவர் உங்களுக்கு உதவுவார்.

- நீங்கள் ஒரு உரையாடலைத் தொடங்கும்போது முதலில் நல்ல விஷயங்களைப் பற்றி பேசுங்கள். புகார்கள் அல்லது எதிர்மறையான விஷயங்களுடன் உரையாடலைத் தொடங்க வேண்டாம்.

- ஓரினச்சேர்க்கை ஒரு ஒழுக்கக்கேடான செயல், இதன் காரணமாக ஒரு தேசமே அழிக்கப்பட்டது. நமது மார்க்கத்தில் தடைசெய்யப்பட்ட ஒன்றை ஏற்றுக்கொள்ளாதீர்கள். உங்கள் குடும்பங்களையும் அன்பானவர்களையும் காப்பாற்றுங்கள்.

-அல்லாஹ்வின் தீனுக்கு எதிராக எவர் சதி செய்கிறார்களோ அவர்களின் சதி சிலந்தி வலை போல் பலவீனமானது.

-அறிவு உள்ளவர்களைத் தவிர குர்ஆனில் கூறப்பட்டுள்ள உதாரணங்களை யாரும் புரிந்து கொள்ள மாட்டார்கள். நாங்கள் அல்லாஹ்விடம் அவசரத்தையும் அறிவையும் கேட்கிறோம், ஆணவம் அல்லது அறியாமை உள்ளவர்களில் எங்களை ஆக்க வேண்டாம், ஆமீன்.

[dillasannotation]

Some days you’re grateful for what you have, but other days you feel like a sad karaoke version of a Britney Spears song gone wrong on loop.

Ruzina Ahad - Dream Du'a Do: A Millennial Muslimah's Guide to Achieving Your Wildest Dreams  

[roses-and-latte]

my dream uni vibes ( ♡ )

posting these here to spark the willpower in me and slap my lazy ass off cause I'd LOVE to further my studies here :') i mean look at em, such a beautiful place to study, learn & grow. To be having a place in there means doing the extraordinary. like how they say, "if you've never got what you've never had, then do something you've never done before".

[aminakerai]

::: A Woman's Du'a for her Future Husband ♥️...

O Allah! Please grant me the one

Who will be the garment for my soul

Who will satisfy half of my deen

And in doing so make me whole

Make him righteous and on your path

In all he'll do and say

And sprinkle water on me at Fajr

Reminding me to pray

May he earn from halal sources

And spend within his means

May he seek Allah's guidance always

To fulfill all his dreams

May he always refer to Qur'an

and the Sunnah as his moral guide

May he thank and appreciate Allah

For the woman at his side

May he be conscious of his anger

And often fast and pray

Be charitable and sensitive

In every possible way

May he honor and protect me

And guide me in this life

And please Allah! Make me worthy

to be his loving wife

And finally, O Allah!

Make him abundant in love and laughter

In taqwa and sincerity

In striving for the hereafter!

May Allah grant all single Muslim sisters with such husbands... Ameen ya Rabb! 🙂 ♥️

[bintadnan]

Learn the Language

A heartfelt request to anyone who comes across this - please do yourself a huge favour and start learning Arabic if you aren't on this journey already. You may have read somewhere or heard someone underscore its importance and I'm here to further and echo all of that. Wallahi, once you start to understand the grammar (إعراب), morphology (صرف), tenses, Nahw and rhetoric (بلاغة) you won't be able to look at the Qur'an the same way again. So many things will naturally start to stick out for you that someone who isn't acquainted with the language will simply overlook and fail to appreciate. You will not be able to help yourself but truly pause and reflect at the ayaat of Allah deliberating over the beautiful and impeccable symmetry of His words and find yourself asking why is so-and-so word appearing earlier than expected and why is so-and-so word delayed according to the grammatical rules and theory? You will be able to identify the places where Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has added an extra layer of emphasis as a means of drawing your attention to certain words and phrases. Every word in the Qur'an offers us an infinite ocean of reflection and it is nothing short of a disservice to the book of Allah and an incredible loss for us to keep staring at the tip of the iceberg when marvels await us beyond it. You might envy those people who bawl and sob at the recitation of the Qur'an or break down into a pool of tears in the middle of their salah wishing your heart could split open like theirs. You can be in their shoes and experience those tides of emotions if you study the language intending to befriend His words and not to refute someone in a debate or prove anything to anyone. Your brain will start unravelling insights that wouldn't pass without studying the language. You would crave to unlock more and more every day. All of this is possible by Allah's will. See, I'm not belittling the fact that the language certainly appears difficult to someone with no background, who is looking to explore it from scratch. But aren't most of them? When your niyyah is sincere then you will catch yourself by surprise learning the language with ease and diligence because you're striving to draw closer to Allah and it is nothing but an act of ibadah. I will briefly share a few words in the hope of encouraging and compelling you to take the leap. When I first became exposed to reminders emphasising the importance of Arabic I used to wonder haughtily (أستغفر الله) that reading the translation will suffice for me and as long as I continue to go through them time and again I have best contemplated the word of Allah. I'm not in need of putting myself through something so rigorous and laborious when these translations are available for me at the drop of a hat (I'm not undermining the accessibility of the translations here so don't take me wrong). Until one day, I heard a lecture (khutbah) and was amazed at the way the speaker was conveying the messages embedded in the Qur'an that I, in my understanding of the translations never grasped, felt an immediate pang of guilt in my heart. I found myself vying for those skills- the ability to extract those meanings myself, to develop direct access and connection to the word of Allah. I couldn't continue to ignore the call anymore and the guilt was bearing heavily on my conscience. I just knew that I'm depriving myself of the most beautiful gift ie, the language and this heedless attitude had to come to a halt. Although let me put this out there the change didn't happen overnight or consequently afterwards. I tried Youtube and saved courses to my playlist but everything seemed insurmountable. I was left more discouraged than before since nothing was working for me at that point. The dream was faltering. I was channelling my despair through constant du'as. there was desperation in my voice in the last third of the night and wallahi, I might have stopped making efforts towards learning the language but I never stopped requesting Allah for help.

I even felt guilty for begging Him despite not putting in any visible effort but somehow my du'as never ceased, Alhamdulillah. And SubhanAllah, truly the du'a made in the last third of the night is an arrow that doesn't miss its target. Allah uprooted every feeling of intimidation and uncertainty from my heart and instilled a love for this language, opened the doors of possibility, and brought me across the best place for learning for me. If you've made it thus far please consider these words as a hopeful reminder from Allah. He steered you in this direction and wants you to take the plunge and leave your worries in His care. You can test and try whatever works for you until you land across the best source for yourself. But please don't cave to the whispers of the devil who will blow things out of proportion for you and make it seem a herculean and impossible task. I pray that this inspires you even if a tad bit. May Allah plant the love for this language in your heart and grant you immense ease in your learning. May He make you steadfast and allow you to own the language in a way that opens up another dimension for you.

[haathonkilakeero]

Also not to pour my heart out on the 'ol internet but I want to...get married?

Like not just for the sake of it but I want to have someone who loves me and cares for me and I want to be comfortable with them and their love and reciprocate it.

I want to not have to give up my dreams, I want them to support my ambitions and look after me when I'm feeling vulnerable and want to be their support too. I want companionship, flowers, holidays, love, comfort and support. I want the world and everything in it!

This post may or may not have been heavily inspired by Hyun Bin and Son Ye Jin's wedding

They're so cute.

Would never admit this out loud of course.

All the boys around me are so...infuriatingly misogynistic or just stupid. I do not feel a gravitational pull to anyone.

Any time someone shows any sort of interest in me (now whether its genuine or not is another whole issue!) I feel offended lmao. Like what are you doing?! Its embarrassing plz

Or am I just too snobby to fall in love? Like I see people around me getting married and am I just a cynic for thinking that the girl is settling?

I dont even think the love I want is real. If it is, its very rare and certainly isn't found in my neighbourhood.

Du'a mein yaad rakhna. For now I will daydream about a white wedding.

[saqrqa3d]

Many people ask about getting married and how to find a spouse. There is so much confusion out there and matrimonial sites of all sorts are also available. Find below some practical advice which has been tried and tested. Please keep in mind that everything revolves around Allah for us and that even marriage is an 'ibadah, so we are still dealing with Allah.

1. Make sure that you have a pure and sincere intention. Desire marriage as it is a sunnah and because you want to remain chaste and find that companionship and comfort that Allah speaks of in the Quran.

2. From beginning to end, know that all matters rest in Allah's Hands. It is He and He Alone Who can ultimately make things happen. Therefore, turn to Him in du'a and plead with Him to make the matter of marriage easy for you. Ask in your sujood, ask in your du'a between the adhan and iqamah, ask in the last third of the night and beg of Allah at all times, especially those times when du'a is readily accepted. Ask and beg with confidence and being certain that Allah will respond to you. Do not approach du'a half-heartedly. This is Allah we are speaking of, not some weak human being. Be persistent in your du'a and do not be hasty. Ask continuously and know that Allah knows best when the right time is for you. Do not give Allah deadlines or ultimatums; remember that you are on His schedule, not the other way around. Allah will not hasten things because you are in a hurry.

3. Be certain to be close to Allah by firstly fulfilling your obligations (faraid) toward Him, then through voluntary acts of worship; acts such as dhikr, nafl prayers, voluntary fasting, recitation of Quran, sadaqah, helping others and so forth. The closer you are to Allah and the further you are from sins, the better your chances are of having your du'a answered.

4. Do not turn to questionable means for marriage. Many matrimonial websites are questionable at best. Make certain to follow the rules of the sharee'ah. Do not be in contact with someone (for marriage) without the guardian (wali) being involved. You cannot expect to obey Allah through His disobedience. Ignore the "advice" from the relationship experts and marriage professionals who cast aside the Islamic teachings. The more obedient we are to Allah, the more we can expect positive results.

5. Do not be obsessed. Have the right intention and make use of all permissible means and move on. Life won't come to a halt if you don't get married right away. Place your trust in Allah while exerting efforts and let things unfold as Allah wills.

6. Don't be desperate and jump into marriage without considering all things. Have realistic expectations and have a plan.

7. When you find a potential spouse, be prepared to ask questions and do not be shy. Be very clear as to what your expectations are. Talk about things like how conflicts will be resolved (should they arise). Discuss things like work and financial expectations. Don't be shy to bring up issues pertaining to children and household chores. In this day and age, nothing is "understood" any longer. We have to be explicit. When speaking to a potential spouse, be very honest and do not sugar coat things.

8. From the means available to us is to get family involved and to get the word out among friends and in the community. Networking is an excellent way to open up possibilities.

9. When you find someone you think may be suitable, ask around about them and get character references. Consult people you trust and get advice from people who actually have something to offer. Thereafter, when you feel this may be good for you, do istikharah. You do not need to repeat it nor do you need to look for some "sign". So you don't have to see a dream nor does some extraordinary thing need to happen. Do istikharah and proceed; if it is good for you, Allah will facilitate it.

10. After consulting then doing istikharah, accept whatever Allah wills and decrees. No matter how it turns out, be certain that this was meant to be and this was best for you; after all, you turned to Allah and poured your heart out before Him and begged Him for what is best for you. Therefore, be content with whatever He chooses for you. Do not second guess after the fact.

Marriage is a huge deal and we need to take it seriously. We also need to go about it in a way that is pleasing to Allah, following the guidelines He has laid down for us. Rest assured that if we follow the shar'ee guidelines, only good will result. Do not look for "loopholes" and ways to circumvent the sharee'ah; that is just foolishness. Deal with Allah and be confident.

Should it be that things are just not happening, do not despair. Know that this is what Allah has willed and this is what is best for you. He knows better than we do. Keep trying, but as I stated earlier, do not be hasty. Don't make the mistake that many who were hasty made; they rushed into marriage just for the sake of marriage and ended up in misery. They did not consider and assess things and as a result, they live in regret.

May Allah make marriage easy for all those seeking it and may Allah grant goodness to those who marry and bless them and their marriage.

[sederhana------indah]

Here comes August.

1. Kita selalu rasa tak ada yang peduli. Tak ada yang menjaga. Tapi Allah selalu peduli. Allah selalu menjaga. Mungkin bila kita sedar hakikat ni, kita takkan rasa rapuh lagi.

2. Pilihlah yang kamu senangi dan yang menyenangimu. Namun belajarlah juga bahawa ketika membuat pilihan, kita kadangkala bakal berhadapan dengan kekecewaan. Jika kecewa, belajarlah untuk menerima kekecewaan dalam setiap pilihan yang kita lakukan. Redha.

3. Dalam hidup ni kadang-kadang kita bernasib baik lalu kita dapat apa yang impikan. Tapi kadang-kadang kita perlu diuji, perlu belajar, lalu kita kecewa. Mungkin Tuhan mahu kita mengerti apa itu ikhlas, sabar, dan redha.

4. Sometimes you need to move away from things that hurt you, so you can make a way to a better you.

5. Time will pass, and you will forget. Just don’t stop moving forward.

6. Belajarlah untuk mengucapkan selamat tinggal kepada masa lalu dan hal-hal yang tidak betul.

7. Refrain yourself from hoping too high because too many times it will hurt you.

8. Stop missing & dreaming & longing to something we didn't had.

9. It hurts when it hurts, but the aching will pass. No pain last forever. Ia akan sembuh seiring masa seiring doa, inshaallah.

10. Have courage to let go of the things that are not meant for us.

11. It is true that love cannot last forever. But it is also true that heartbreak is soon forgotten. You just need to accept reality.

12. Tak ada bahagia di masa lalu. Yang ada cumalah keindahan dalam kenangan yang takkan berulang lagi. Move on.

13. Yang terlepas dari kita itu mungkin bukan yang terbaik. Kerana yang terbaik itu tak boleh diganti. Terima kehilangan inshaallah akan ada yang lebih baik berganti. Sabar.

14. No one wants to be left out in the loneliness, rejected and alone. That's why you have Allah. He always listen to you. So make a du'a.

15. Everyone is somehow will fall to pieces while searching for their purpose and for chasing their dream. But don’t give up. Not now. Have faith deeply to Him, have a great courage, and hope that this bad experiences turn into happiness.

16. Du’a is a place where sadness echoes and disappears. Even though your dream may be dissolving, just don't abandon your du’a and hope ; it is the things that keep your heart glow and strong.

17. If you are going to cope with fate, stop saying that you are sad or lonely. Surely we'll be able to understand reason behind all of this sadness. Because there could be a meaning to all of this after all.

18. Send your prayers towards the sky, as long as you still alive. Hope for the good, du’a will light the way.

19. Start walking, hand in hand with du’a and hope to Him, never letting go. We will leave our mistakes and pain the day we start to redha.

20. Be strong. Be brave. Don’t look back to a things that hurt you. Keep on moving forward even if your heart bleeds. The road still continues on and on endlessly, even if you choose to stay behind. So move on.

21. Wake up and walk forward even with uncertain future. Don’t be afraid to change. Have courage and believe that miracle will happen to guide you to a good destiny.

22. We are human so we can't become unbreakable. Learn from whatever that break us and grow wiser. Live and learn. That is how we become better person.

23. Please remember that everyone you meet is not going to stay forever. Not everyone will have a permanent place beside you or inside your heart. Everybody leaves in the end.

24. Stop asking why you must feel sadness, frustration and pain. There will always be a time for healing. Sabar and let go. Accept your past, stop denying your fate. Ikhlas and let go.

25. Everything have an end. And that's the beauty of life. You will have a chance to begin again. As long as you still breathing, there is a chance for a new beginning.

26. Sadness is just an oppurtunity to learn and to appreciate happiness. The pain will come and go no matter what. So live for today, fight for tomorrow.

27. A moment or a forever, a love or a dream, a laugh or a cry, our rights or our wrongs ; It always happen at a best time, in Allah best plan, with His best intentions.

28. Ada perkara yang memang tak perlu dibetulkan, sebaliknya harus dilupakan. Jika tak melupakan, kita akan telepas pandang banyak perkara lain yang lebih bermakna. Jangan sia-siakan peluang dan nafas yang ada. Kita tak pernah betul-betul terlambat untuk cari ruang dan peluang lain yang lebih baik.

29. Stop questioning the way Allah do His job because there are too much of His blessing that we still don't appreciate enough. Try to fulfil His commandments first then inshaallah He will give us what is best because He is The Most Merciful.

30. Aturan Tuhan tu lebih baik berbanding segala harapan insan. Takdir-Nya mendahului segala cita-cita kita. Ingat tu. Sabar, ikhlas, dan redha, ya?

[islamicrays]

In Surah Yusuf - Allāh described the story of Prophet Yusuf as the most beautiful of stories. Why? Because regardless of what situation you're going through in life - you can relate to something in it.

It teaches us that dreams do come true, hardship will turn in to ease, and nothing is better in this world than loyalty. It teaches us that those with gifts will be hated upon and plotted against - so patience is key. It teaches us that it's never too late to say sorry and forgiveness takes the greatest courage. It teaches us du'as may be delayed but they are never rejected. It teaches us that the best of people have the most difficult beginnings but they always have the most beautiful endings. It teaches us that the affection and care of parents has no boundaries, love can cure, broken hearts can be fixed, and reuniting with those we care about is close. It teaches us that the truthful never abandon that which they believe in, Allāh is with those who have no one, and He gives everything to those who give up everything for Him.

Shaykh Mohammed Aslam

[sederhannaindah]

Here comes February.

1. Eat healthy. Exercise daily. Think deeply. Love logically. Talk softly. Act wisely. Save money. Sleep early. Pray regularly. Live humbly.

2. Despite all of the heartbreak, chaos, futility, and uncertainty in this world, it's all that we have and we always have power to make something special out of it. Try to see the world in a different view, and see ourselves differently too. Be grateful, and love yourself.

3. Do not let fragile and temporary things destroy your hope, your dreams, and yourself. Belajar bezakan apa yang penting dan apa yang tidak, belajar untuk utamakan apa yang lebih utama (baca : diri sendiri) dan belajar untuk lepaskan, lupakan apa yang telah berlalu.

4. From love story to lost story. You will heal, eventually. Now or later, you will heal. And from lost story, you will have your love story again.

5. Remember that you don't have to react to everything, especially on things that bother you.

6. Tuhan tak pernah salah menentukan, manusia saja yang selalu silap menilai diri sendiri. Tuhan selalu ada untuk kita terus percaya, berharap, berserah ; walau akhir usaha kita takdirnya tak indah. Muhasabah diri, dan bermulalah kembali.

7. Anything can happen and nothing can be predicted. But God give us the ability to make choices. So choose wisely, choose carefully. Dreams are different than reality. Remember that.

8. Make the move if you want to change your life. Don't just sit and waiting and hoping for things to change.

9. We don't know how things will change, and we don't know what will happen. But at this moment, we surely alive, and we want to keep on living, keep on loving, no matter what. May we rise stronger from our broken selves and may happiness come one step closer.

10. Berdoalah walau apa jua yang terjadi, walau realiti tak seindah mimpi. Mungkin nanti, bersama hadirnya redha, takdir kita akan indah juga akhirnya.

11. We should be conformable with who we are and not be ashamed for look down at our past.

12. Everything we ever love and everything good in the world will one day, will no longer exist. Life is short, and that's why you need to choose your commitment carefully. Fight for things that matter the most. Leave what is need to be leave.

13. Cherish whatever things that makes you happy, even for a while. When one day things change, don't cry. You already do your best to live and love some of the best moment in your life. Smile, wipe your tears, and may you find another happiness on your new journey.

14. Just because someone leave you, doesn't mean you need to love yourself any less.

15. If you believe in destiny, fate, and God, then you need to leave behind the past. Heart was shattered, eyes overflowing with tears, but life goes on. Lets be strong till the end of sorrow.

16. When feeling isolated or depress, a connection will save us. Connect to people. Connect to God. You are not alone. Talk to someone. Make a du'a.

17. Sometimes crossing path is just temporary before we move separately to another path. And that's scary ; to let go things or people we used to. But that's life. Nothing stay the same, especially the good one. Today we say hello, tomorrow we say goodbye.

18. Half in the past, half already move on. But we can't go back because nothing is there for us. Learn your lesson and say your goodbye. Give your everything to the future.

19. Semoga dipermudahkan urusan untuk meraih bahagia yang diidamkan. Mungkin ada bahagian yang bukan untuk kita. Itu kerana kita adalah manusia, dan manusia, tak semestinya akan dapat semua yang dia mahukan.

20. Dalam hidup, kita perlu belajar untuk redha dan melepaskan. Ya, kata-kata ni memang klise. Tapi yang klise tu la yang kita selalunya tak mahu buat.

21. Manusia boleh bermimpi tapi realiti, kenyataan, & takdir tu milik Tuhan. Yang kita boleh buat ; berdoa & berusaha. Jika diberi, bersyukur. Jika tak dapat apa yang diimpikan, sabar, redha, & berusaha untuk rancangan lain pula.

22. I'm not going to say it's gonna be okay. I don't know what you're going through. I don't know what you've been through. I don't know if it'll be okay. But you've made it this far. You are breathing. You are living. You can heal. No matter what, you will survive.

23. One du'a can change a day, from bad to good. One good day can change a life, from worst to better. And one better life can change others, or even the world. So pray. And make a du'a. It will change you, and hopefully, helps you change others and this world.

24. Beautiful things remain in memories even though separation is hurt. But the world goes on.

25. Harapan tetap selalu dalam doa walau kembara untuk mencapai angan, mimpi, dan cita-cita sering dibasahi tangisan. Terimalah apa yang terjadi walau memahami realiti dan kebenaran tu tak mudah. Tuhan akan selalu menunjukkan jalan, asal kau sabar, ikhlas, dan redha.

26. Time will be the judge for all of us but we are all suppose to try ; to choose between to stay here or burn the bridge that connect us to the past and move on. No one get things right straight away but we all can learn.

27. You don't have to hold on to something so tightly just because you thought it'd last forever. Please take care of yourself.

28. Cherish every moment, hug your loved ones while you and they are still around. Because life is a fragile thing and nobody knows what may come up tomorrow. Enjoy life and the people you love, because our life passing one minute at a time.

29. You did everything you could. There wasn't one more thing you could've done. Try to live in this moment as best you can, with clear eyes, and love in your heart, with joy in your heart.

30. To people who battling depression, To people who still giving love even though others and this world stole their joy, To people who having suicidal thought, To people who feel like losers and shit ; You are worthy, you are special, you are loved. Don't give up.

- sederhanaindah

[rest-in-being]

In Surah Yusuf - Allāh described the story of Prophet Yusuf as the most beautiful of stories. Why? Because regardless of what situation you're going through in life - you can relate to something in it. It teaches us that dreams do come true, hardship will turn in to ease, and nothing is better in this world than loyalty. It teaches us that those with gifts will be hated upon and plotted against - so patience is key. It teaches us that it's never too late to say sorry and forgiveness takes the greatest courage. It teaches us du'as may be delayed but they are never rejected. It teaches us that the best of people have the most difficult beginnings but they always have the most beautiful endings. It teaches us that the affection and care of parents has no boundaries, love can cure, broken hearts can be fixed, and reuniting with those we care about is close. It teaches us that the truthful never abandon that which they believe in, Allāh is with those who have no one, and He gives everything to those who give up everything for Him. - Shaykh Mohammed Aslam 🌿

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Dreams are wishful thinking, if you will; they are those little voices in your head that randomly pop up as you go about your business.

Ruzina Ahad - Dream Du'a Do: A Millennial Muslimah's Guide to Achieving Your Wildest Dreams

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Is it sin to sleep by lying face down? What are the manners of sleeping?

It is not haram to lie face down. However, the Prophet (pbuh) did not find this style of lying appropriate. The Prophet awakened a person who lay like that in the mosque and said,

"Lying like that is a styleof lying that Allah does not like." (Abu Dawud, Adab, 95; Tirmidhi, Adab 21)

As it is seen, the Prophet (pbuh) did not find lying face down appropriate and stated that it is "a style of lying that Allah does not like".

Therefore, it is not haram or a sin to lie face down – without the intention of resembling non-Muslims – but it is contrary to good manners and it causes man to be deprived of the thawab of sunnah.

Islam has determined all of the principles of good manners including when it is appropriate to sleep, when it is wrong to sleep, what to do before sleeping and what to do after waking up.

First, let us have a look at the “sorts” of sleep. Badiuzzaman Said Nursi, who says, "Sleep is of three sorts" states the following as an interpretation of verse 4 of the chapter of al-Araf, which ends as follows: "…or while they slept for their afternoon rest."

Sleep is of three sorts:

THE FIRST is `Ghaylula'. This is from pre-dawn to forty-five minutes or so after the sun has risen, the time when prayer is lawful but reprehensible. Sleep at this time is contrary to the Practices of the Prophet (PBUH), since according to Hadiths, it leads to a decrease in one's livelihood and to be its being unfruitful. The time most appropriate for preparing to labor for one's sustenance is when it is cool. When this time has passed, a lethargy descends. It has been established through numerous experiences that just as this is detrimental to that day's labor and indirectly to one's livelihood, so also is it the cause of unfruitfulness.

THE SECOND is `Faylula'. This is from the afternoon prayer till sunset. This sleep leads to a diminution of life, that is, it makes life that day shorter and makes it pass in a state of semi-sleep due to drowsiness, thus causing a physical deficiency to life. So too in an immaterial aspect, since most of the results of that day, material and immaterial, become apparent after the afternoon prayer, to pass that time in sleep as though prevents those results being seen and makes the day as though not lived.

THE THIRD d is `Qaylula', which is in accordance with the Practices of the Prophet (PBUH). It is from mid-morning to just past noon. This sleep is part of the Practices since it allows a person to rise at night to pray. So also in the Arabian Peninsula to rest from work at noon when it is intensely hot is the custom of the people and of the area, so has further strengthened this Practice of the Prophet (PBUH). This sleep increases both life, and sustenance. For half an hour's Qaylula sleep is the equivalent of two hours' sleep at night. That means it adds one and a half hours' to a person's life every day. It saves one and a half hours from the hand of sleep, the brother of death, and makes it live, adding it to the time of working for one's livelihood. (Flashes, Twenty-eighth Flash, Fourth Point) p.269)

That is,it is not a good thing to sleep from the time the sun rises to about forty-five minutes after the sun rises. What is essential is to go to bed early and to get up early. One should not sleep after performing the Morning Prayer; he should read the Quran, hadith, tafsir, catechism and then start to work.

The Prophet stated the following:

"There is abundance and success in the early hours of the morning." (Lawaqihul-Anwar, Sha'rani, p. 295)

The wisdom behind the unfruitfulness and failure that has recently increased gradually should be sought under the light of the hadith above.

Unfortunately, television faces man as "the enemy of going to bed early". It is necessary to overcome this fierce enemy, to go to bed as early as possible, to get up for tahajjud prayer, to get up for the morning prayer in a vigorous way before sunrise and to start work after that without sleeping again. Our grandfathers and grandmothers, whom we saw as vigorous and hardworking people, did like that. When this nice habit disappeared, health, abundance and peace disappeared too.

It is necessary not to sleep between the afternoon (asr) and the evening (maghrib). Everybody experienced the harm of sleeping in that period. A person who sleeps and gets up during that period becomes dopy; he cannot come round easily.

To sleep for a while after the noon prayer (qaylula) is very useful.

When Going to Bed

Let us have a look at what is necessary to do before sleeping at night.

* It is necessary to put out the fire before going to bed. Today, it is necessary to check whether, the oven, stove, boiler, central heating, etc is off or not. If central heating boiler, etc is not safe, it is better to turn them off before going to bed.

Hz. Salim reported the following from the Prophet (pbuh):

"When you go to bed at home, cover and put out the fire."(Ramuz, II/467-4)

In particular, those who use wood and coal burning stoves should be very careful.

* One should make wudu before going to bed.

According to what is reported from Bara bin Azib, the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said,

"When you go to bed, make wudu as you do for prayer (salah) and lie down turning to your right side. Then, prays as follows:

'O Allah! I have submitted myself to You. I have committed my affairs to You. I have relied on You since I fear and love You. I take refuge only in You. My salvation depends on you. I believe in the Book You revealed and in the Prophet You sent.'

"If you do so and die during the night, you will die as a Muslim. Let this supplication be your last words before sleeping." (Muslim, Dhikr: 56)

* There are several prayers to be read before going to bed.One should read the one(s) that he can read easily. For instance, the Prophet (pbuh) prayed as follows: "O Allah! Protect me from your punishment on the day You resurrect your slaves!"

The Prophet (pbuh) also recommended reading the chapter of al-Fatiha and another chapter (Ramaz, I/26-1) and saying,"La Ilaha Illallah, Wahdahu La Sharika Lah, Lahu'l mulku wa Lahu'l Hamdu wa huwa Ala Kulli Shay'in Qadir (There is none worth of worship but Allah alone, Who has no partner, His is the dominion and to Him belongs all praise, and He is able to do all things)" and "La hawla wala quwwata illa Billah (There is no might and no power except by Allah's leave)" and saying "Subhanallah" 33 times"Alhamdulillah" 33 times "Allahu Akbar" 34 times (totally 100)

Hz. Huzayfa reports the following about how the Prophet (pbuh) prayed before going to bed and what he said after waking up:

"When the Prophet went to bed, he would read the following du'a (prayer):

'Allahumma bi'smika amutu wa ahya' (O Allah! I die with your name and revive with your name). When he woke up, he would read the following du'a: 'Alhamdulillahi'lladhi ahyana ba'da amatana wa ilayhi'n-nushur' (Praise be to Allah, who revives us after killing us and to whom we will return)" (Shamail-i Sharif, p.281)

* It is sunnah to get up for tahajjud after sleeping for a while. This is the custom of righteous people. This prayer will be your light in the grave.

* One should not put his hands in any plate, glass or jug without washing his hands three times after waking up. (Ramuz, I/30-2)

* One should not lie face down.The Prophet prohibited lying like this. The Prophet awakened a person who was sleeping like that in the mosque and said, "Lying down like this is a kind of lying that Allah does not like." (Abu Dawud, Adab: 95)

- What should one do when he has a dream?

Dream is a part of sleep. Almost everybody has dreams. What is necessary to do when one has a dream? The Prophet (pbuh) stated the following regarding the issue:

"When one of you has a dream that he likes, he should not tell it to anybody except the ones he loves. If he sees a dream that he does not like, he should spit three times to his left side and take refuge in Allah from the outcast Satan and his evil. He should not tell anybody about this dream. In that case, the dream cannot harm him."

- What are the basic rules regarding manners of sleep?

Allah Almighty granted us sleep to enable our bodies to rest. Sleep is a great bounty. If you ask a person who suffers from insomnia (sleeplessness), you will understand how valuable sleep is.

- It is necessary to use the night well, which is the most appropriate time for sleep. One should go to bed early and get up early as much as he can.

- He should make wudu before going to bed and pray Allah; he should praise and pray Allah when he wakes up.

- One should turn to his right side when he lies down and put his right hand under his right cheek. (Even if he turns and changes his position afterwards, this sunnah is regarded to have fulfilled.)

- He should not lie face down.

- If he has a bad dream, he should spitthree times to his left side and take refuge in Allah from Satan. He should not tell anybody about this dream.

- He should try to get up for tahajjud prayer and make this his habit.

- He should go to bed early so as not to miss the morning prayer.

- He should not sleep again after the morning prayer if it is possible and he should start work.

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Envy

In the past, I used to text some acquaintance. I didn't knew why I texted them in the first place, but I guessed to maintain my social life and probably expected some du'as for me.

I remembered a girl that was one of my acquaintance. She was my friend's close friend, so I thought that I wanted to be friends with her. I was met with her once, and to told you the truth, she was taller from me. She got a blissful face or you can say, a calm face and round eyes. She was slim I think, but I didn't really knew because she wore jilbab and long khimar.

Well, long story short, we texted sometimes and I found that she was interesting folks. Her knowledge of religion and her point of opinion was better than me, so I'd decided that she was going to be my teacher. Of course I didn't tell her this, it was just my determination in heart.

That night, she was asking something about university acceptance. She was successfully entered in the major and university that she wanted. But, she questioned me somehow;

"What will you do if you see your friend is more successful than you?"

I didn't understand back then, why she asked me that. She admitted in university, she had a good start. Why indeed, this girl, asked me that hurtful question?

The me in past, was naïve. The me that answered her question would cheerfully and gallantly typed;

"I will be happy for them. I'm delighted that they are more successful than me, I have my best regards for them"

That's more or less I replied her. I thought, it's the best answer. I thought, my opinion is a good one. I have some basis for this, because I was failed and my friends were going ahead from me not just one two, and that's my real feelings. However, she firmly rejected me, I mean, my opinion, and replied quickly;

"I don't think so"

I was dumbfounded. I didn't think she was disagree with me, because she was in a same track of mind with me. I didn't knew to response her, and I didn't remembered my next response either. I thought my memories had some holes so I wasn't really sure.

The fact that my visual memories had some holes, but my feeling memories still remain. I still remembered my remained fresh feelings of curiousity of her response. Why she was not happy if her friends was successful than her? Was her personality rotten? Was she feel dejected that time? Was I typing some annoying manner at that time?

However, I have my answer right now. Wise people often said that 'time heals wounds', and I believe in it too, but this time, the quote seems to be off and flexible to this, 'time provides answers, as long as you wanted to search'.

The truth is, I didn't really care about her question, but indeed that time I was confused about her answer. It was really weird for me. I thought that time I was remembered some novel quotations from a famous novelist. It said, 'you can't expect people have a same heart as you.', that was the reason I didn't want to thought that matters deeper.

And it seems I was only realized now, the reason why she said "I don't think so". I can assured you, too, I am agree with her now.

Some friend call my love and persona is 'agape'. Well, it didn't reached some points to God, but anyway, I have my own terms with this 'agape' type, that was 'love type that loves to give more than receive'. What's the relation of that question? Well, why indeed.

Not to brag, but I was hard to experience some negative emotions due to my carefree behavior. It's not that I didn't experience it at all, but that emotions was just left in mind and I forgot that I was mad, or envious, or felt dejected.

Well, that's it. Envious.

Why we feel envy at the first place anyway? It was some jealousy (well, jealousy is more related to partner/lover, though) towards the people you know, or people that you called friends, have some better circumstance than you. We feel inferior to them, because we expected that we are better than them. In the reality, we are no match for them. It makes us feel hatred for ourselves, feel envious toward others, make our relationship worsen and worsen. Well, it was the negative aspect. If you can turn that into motivation to make you better and better, then, it was a positive input for your life.

Recently I have read some of my lifetime favorite novel series, and somehow in the past, I just enjoyed the series. It was a mystery novel, by the way. I engrossed myself in these past days of my holiday and I've begun to realized that I was missing something. Mystery novels supposed to engaged its' readers to think and enjoy the development of plot. However, after re-reading and re-think, I was really missing something. That was, character and their circumstance development. This was an example of the novel's plot;

"What do you feel, if you read manga that your friend created? That manga was so good and your friend didn't have any experience with manga. And then, here's you, who love manga so much, struggling to create manga and couldn't do anything that match your friend's. What do you feel? Can you accept that you are defeated?"

"Expectations was born because you've given up trying. You couldn't do anything left and in the end, you just can entrusted some matter to someone better, expect that they will solved this matter that you couldn't do."

Well just some comment, in this novel, secondary heroine was waiting for this secondary hero for accept her love. She was remain waiting for one year and what she had for result was some sign of postponed answer. She expected some answer, yet she dissapointed. Well, it's true though, if you remain expect something, if you couldn't change it, the result is absolute: dissapointed.

The reason that I didn't feel envious at that time was, the friend that I could think didn't have some same goals as me. They have dreams that I didn't dreamt. So that's why I could support and give my best regards to them. This is my true feeling. It will remains the same.

Then, how about friends which have some goals as me? This was the first real experience of envious and some competitive mood come from myself. I was surprised. For this 'agape' dude want to did the best for beating someone at some aspect, it was the least thing I could imagine. Well, it was a reality though. Then, I realized what i did wrong. "I don't think so. I don't think that I could face them with happy face and congrats them. I couldn't give my support, I couldn't give my regards. And somehow I thought of them as a stranger, worse, an enemy. They have that I didn't have, they could something that I expected I could, but in the end I was just some mob, not worthy of anything." That was my argument for my positive respond back then.

Until now, sometimes I felt this envious emotions. I got insecure when I saw them slowly walking or running ahead and didn't turn their back. Oh well, because they didn't care of me at all, of course. Because of this realization, somehow in any ways, I got indifferent.

I don't care about it anymore. Let me be myself and let me walk my path, please. This attitude make me relax, and well, it make me less feel envious towards my friends. Sometimes I want to do what my friends do, though. But I must stay on my track, because I have another journeys that really have a different place, time, and of course, people.

Envious is a negative emotion for me so it isn't help me to get better in my studies or work so I think it's better to forget it. Just keep doing my best and let God do the rest eases my feeling.

Thank you for your patience and thank you for reading this.

Plg, 2018—2020.