#did i mention shes autistic shes autistic

[jasperthejester]

me: finally accepting theres a good chance im autistic and starting to work up the courage to ask my parents to see if i could get a diagnoses but being scared to

my mom: do you ever think you have adhd? if you want to do a screening for add next time your at the doctors you can

me:

[ahrats]

allison’s grief of her daughter leading her to murder viktor’s son-figure and then make him the bad guy for also grieving the loss of a child is genuinely one of the most insane 180 character arcs i’ve seen from a show in years

[treasureguardingdragon]

i go so feral at even the most nonexistent mention of alex rider

‘oh i had an ear infection—‘ YEAH SO DID ALEX AS A BABY SO HE DIDNT DIE IN THE PLANE EXPLOSION WITH HIS PARENTS

‘my friends at a school in wimbledon are always the ball girls for tennis—’ ALEX AND SABINA CODED AAAAAA

these were actual irl conversations.

[silverthelovebug]

Extra one for you guys, they’re eating blueberry pie and having a wonderful time :3

[kyttypeteater]

if anyone asks me why i love dovewing so much its because shes.. literally me. little ol' 7 year old me related to her so bad😭 the child prodigy, the gifted kid, everyone having really big expectations for you, people being so jealous of you to the point of hate.. i related to her because i saw her powers as being like my sensory issues, her troubles as being like my insecurities, i could see myself in dovepaw to dovewing. my first warriors book was fading echoes and my first favorite warriors character is dovewing. she was my favorite character and she always will be

[mooncalf87]

When the pookie sent you a tiktok proposal video and said "us" and she had you saved in her phone as

And here discord bio keeps going on about how she has a crush

[pigeon-feet]

its very amusing to me when skilled horticulturists know fuckall about native plants

[mollypaup]

i have been thinking about that person who rb'd my post about hating yotasuke's mother who is, imo, neglectful at best and actively emotionally abusive at worst, with a huge rant about how actually she's a good mother because she *checks notes* buys clothes for her teenaged son and at one point in a manga extra looked vaguely confused at him engaging in an activity he enjoyed that wasn't art. Because i clicked onto their blog to see if maybe there was some context i was missing for this and the next 6 posts were all about how much they hated that everyone was "treating hikaru ga shinda natsu like it was BL, so gross". the manga that opens with the protagonist talking about how his best friend who he was in love with Came Back Wrong but he loves him too much that destroying his impostor feels like killing the only part of him that is left and he cannot bear doing that.

[leonardoeatscarrots]

Art therapy is so fun because today I just drew pathologic fanart, and my therapist was like, "Awesome, so tell me about it"

[vanweezer]

very very personal, just insight into where im at w my family and things that bother me/have encouraged me to move out

"i know youre moving out so im just gonna say no ones kicking you out and if you feel like this is something you have to do then ok"

thanks! i know im not being kicked out! but yknow i kinda yet a weird vibe when your out of touch husband takes me to a cemetery to yell at me, tell me im just like my father/dont give my father "the time of day", and that im "mean to people who care about me" in front of his dead mother's grave in a poor attempt at guilting me out of speaking my mind. but no yeah thanks for stating the fucking obvious that im leaving on my own terms

[billie-the-sleepyhead]

I may enjoy redeeming characters that seem like they have a very plausible chance that gently nudging them in the right direction would solve their problems and make them a “better person” and more emotionally stable.

Yes I watched a movie from 2005.

Yes I saw one of the “bad guys” and immediately thought, “oh! You poor traumatized child! Lets get you some help immediately!” Because clearly, he just has mommy issues/severe childhood trauma perpetuated by his mother and could very possibly have gotten a redemption arc after the movie was over.

(I also do this with a lot of other characters from various media, including characters that did bad things trying to be good. Yes Joey Drew from Batim/Batdr is on that list.)

[autisticjonathanjoestar]

I need to stop being sad about someone who got mad at me and gave me the silent treatment all night because I said I read the wikipedia article for a movie I googled. ok. I hate being sentimental.

[poorks]

What’s the vampire lore for your book then?

Vampirism is an infectious blood disease that changes you at the cellular level.

Vampire society is hierarchal and based on personal ability. The stronger special abilities get special treatment while the rest are servants.

Lotte and her husband (a vampire, a very weak vampire) live in a castle where the servant vampires revolted and had their powerful Master killed, and since the castle was built in a magic forest that makes the castle incredibly hard to find, they live in peace in communal living separate from larger vampire society.

[goosemixtapes]

my cyclical joker moment is that every few years i remember how good the gone series would have been if michael grant didn't hate disabled people

[crabs-nonsense]

Something I love is my mom's romantic relationship. Like her partner and the ways they interact are both so wholesome and amazing. So you guys are gonna unlock some lore here.

Over two years ago my dad cheated on my mom and she said their relationship was over, because that was a rule she's always had for herself, once a cheater always a cheater. After that she started dating her current partner in a long distance relationship. They are an enby who lives in Norway and the two of them met on tiktok because they both cosplay the marauders era from Harry Potter.

In the two years they've been together my mother has gone and spent several months visiting them and meeting their family twice, once for summer and once for winter. Their family loves her and regularly invites her to things even though she can't attend. They video chat pretty much daily and text constantly. They've seen eachother at their highs and lows and been there through it all. An extremely funny fact is that my mom started learning Norwegian from a 6yr old with a very specific dialect and a speech impediment, because her partners son mostly speaks Norwegian with a bit of English.

Anyways the reason I was thinking about this is that yesterday I was in a voice chat with my bsd cosplay friends and my mom was across from me talking about the paperwork for getting citizenship through marriage with her partner. And I'd said she doesn't have to be engaged for a long time before getting married, which very much confused my friends and I had to explain. So it's been on my mind lol.

I love that they've talked about the steps needed for all of us the get citizenship, and how to get my sister and I onto disability there. And they even told my mom they might get a bigger house just so we can all still live together. They also send us Norwegian candy from time to time (sending things to the US is super expensive so it's not very often). They also send all her kids presents both randomly and for birthdays and Christmas. I have a crocheted pokemon plushie from them that I absolutely adore.

But yeah despite my mom being completely done with my dad he spent a year and a half trying to "win her back" but in like a really semi toxic roundabout way that all of us could see would never work except for him. And he only this year finally moved out of the house. Divorce papers FINALLY got filed and we all know he's going to drag it out and fight for full custody just to spite her. So because of that my mom and her partner are only dating, but mom has said the moment the divorce goes through she wants to take a small trip to Norway so we can all meet them in person and she wants to propose in person. Her partners son (again he's six) insists he's planning their wedding (they've never said anything about getting married to him), and he collects rocks and shells every time they go to the beach to use as center pieces for the tables.

Another thing is that with the safety of trans people quickly fading here they've also talked about how if things get bad enough that we are in danger here, we can all go to Norway. Like they told my mom if she suddenly said hey we're getting on a plane and will be there at x time, they will get their family together to get large enough transportation and housing for us (I have 4 siblings so there's 6 of us in all).

And and and!!! They are also disabled and have been since they were a kid. They don't have the same issues my sister and I do but they do have joint problems and chronic pain just like us so its been amazing to be getting first hand advice for a lot of things. They are so amazing i can't wait to meet them in person and give them a hug honestly.

[il3x]

So, my mother (who is awesome and whom I love dearly) has been kindly listening to my Worm Infodumping for the past, oh, six-ish months. Today, I mentioned "the main character's bugs". Cue her response: "the main character's what?"

Cue the realisation that, during 6 months of worm rambling, I had not mentioned that the main character (of hit web serial Worm. Named Worm. After, among other things, the worms Taylor can control.) had bug powers.