#demirose you say? interesting.

[delightfuldevin]

Squints

[brionysea]

will saying sex is gross and his mother immediately telling him he'll change his mind when he grows up and falls in love is the most ace experience ever (with an added side of arophobia by treating romance as a given, on top of acephobia by treating a lack of interest in sex as childish)

even the angel that is joyce byers struggles to wrap her head around this form of queerness. she understands the concept of boys liking boys much more easily, as shown by how she didn't take will seriously when he said he wasn't gonna fall in love because she's seen him with mike and decided that their friendship involves romantic feelings

even if she's right, because will isn't an aromantic character and those feelings are revealed on both sides over the course of the show (much more slowly for mike because he's demirose), that refusal to believe people about their own feelings and lives happens every day. so does romanticising relationships you are not apart of because they show care and devotion for each other, and friendship alone is too devalued by society to be seen as the reason behind it

that's not good for anyone, whether they experience romantic attraction or not. it's what happened to el and mike, and dustin tried to do it to steve and robin before moving on to steve and nancy instead, despite talking about how dating steve makes nancy worse a few seasons prior. amatonormativity and the inherent devaluing of friendship it involves harms everyone, which is one of the main points of the show

[daftdrac]

One day I'll organize this post better UHHHH it's probably time I make an intro post so ,,

First of all, DNI's (they're all pretty basic)

•homophobes, transphobes, proshippers, zoophiles, etc.

•Anyone who doesn't like polyamorous people, especially if you're a part of lgbtq+ yourself.

•Neo (PRONOUNS. NOT NAZIS WHAT THE FUCK. NAZI HATERS ARE WELCOME) haters.

My tags?

• daft rambles: just a ramble post, really. Me spitting my thoughts or problems into the void because. I can.

• daft reblogs: self explanatory :3

• daft asks: answering asks

• daft literature: my writings and lore drops and stuff :3

About

This blog is probably just gonna be pretty random most of the time, but I will be posting art! My asks should be open! Ask literally anything I'll probably answer. I am eternally bored. Maybe request art?? Idk? I don't mind what you call me, but my chosen name(s) are: Luke/Lukas + Dominic

More Abt me↓↓↓

I use pretty much any pronouns other than she/her, which includes any neos/xenos you could think of, but I mainly use They/He/It/Ze! (I like it when people mix it up so maybe don't just use he or they all the time?) I am Transmasc, Genderfluid, Demirose, and Polyamorous. I don't really have a label for my sexuality because it honestly confuses me but if you really want to know, I'd say it's closest to just being Gay.

/Fandoms/Things I like!!! ↓/

• Hermitcraft and everything else in that bigass fandom

•SCENARIO SMPPP

•The Quarry !!

•The Stanley Parable

•This one hurts. to admit. But. MCSM

•This one is even more painful to admit. Even though it's basic. COD. More specifically Modern Warfare (OG/Reboot, idc)

/stuff I'm kinda interested in↓/

•Lifesteal SMP

•FNAF

•WOF

•MLP, especially the Equestria Girls movies

•BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN.

• Invader Zim!!!

( I am autistic, in case you were wondering. Also ADHD. I'm willing to answer any questions anyone has, either related to any of my interests or anything else in this post! )

[caeliangel]

not a request, but i am currently questioning my orientation but a little lost on where id fit. i noticed that you make flags for different orientations, thus i wanted to ask. feel free to ignore this though. /nf

ive recently accepted being a girl. so that is whati identity as amongst other nonmen labels. i prefer relationships with nonmen and women rather than men. for men, the thought is okay but i have no interest in executing anything with one. on paper theyre okay, but i dont see myself dating or being intimate with a man. i would be okay with dating nonmen and possible intimacy as long as our relationship is close. i'll yearn for it but, no interest until a strong relationship is established. ive been questioning the sapphic label but im not sure.

From what you describe you could be a lesbian!! It's okay to like men, but you wouldn't really date one, so probably a lesbian. (Ofc lesbian can do whatever they want but let's say we're talking about the ones who don't date men). And of course, if sapphic suits you better, then use that!

No attraction until the relationship is established? Demiromantic!! Or demiattractional ^_^ I'm personally demirose and what you're describing reminds me of how I feel with romantic and sexual attraction. I don't rlly feel romantic attraction but when I do, a strong bond has to be there before.

So to summarize, look into the demi- labels among sapphic and lesbian labels!

[demirose-colored-glasses]

My page looks better on desktop

➳ I'm Ro. I'm in my late 20s. Please don't gender me. I'm a queer enigma. They/Them works just fine.

➳ My page looks better on desktop and I can't follow back, this is a side blog. I will interact though.

➳ I'm Demiromantic, for me this means that I can't feel romantic attraction towards people unless I have a close emotional bond with them, for me that's friendship/a platonic bond. Hence the joke in my title. (This doesn't mean I am attracted to all my friends, just that I can't feel romantic attraction to people I'm not close with.)

➳ Current hyperfixations/special interests: (most active in bold) Psych (coming back from childhoood), Glee, Stardew Valley, The Summer I Turned Pretty (I love all these characters and they can be as petty and messy as they'd like.), Arrowverse, Harry Potter (I do not support JKR and I fully acknowledge that the goblins are antisemitic, nagini and cho chang are offensive, and that her treatment of indigenous cultures is unacceptable)

Buffy The Vampire Slayer (I'm late I'm sorry)

➳ Flag in banner/background is the demiromantic flag color picked from The Summer I Turned Pretty cover.

➶ I post Demiromantic and other aspec headcanons. Mostly focus on demiromantic/demisexual though. These may be hot takes, and are strictly through the lens of my own experience and you don't have to agree, in fact I vibe with canon or whatever headcanons you may have.

➶ Feel free to send asks and interact in any way possible.

➶ I'll also make icons or color picked flags at some point if people want them. There aren't very many demiromantic headcanons.

➶ reblogging an edit or a fic doesn't mean I ship the ship, I just support Fandom creators. So if you see me saying I don't ship something, then you see it in my reblogs, I'm just supporting Fandom creators.

➵ Allies, non-queer, and people uneducated on queerness are obviously welcome, this is not, nor will it ever be a queer-only space. Despite this you MUST be able to understand that is a queer amatopunk space. It rejects amatonormativity. This means that despite loving the romance genre and experiencing some romantic attraction I will be critical of amatonormativity and allonormativity.

➵I am neutral on RPF most of the time but have zero interest and will not reblog it.

➵ I am neutral on "bad" fandom content existing. As long as they're not harassing real people I'm not even looking in their direction, they tend to trigger me so I don't engage.

➴ Despite being neutral on rpf existing, "Tinhats" can fuck right off. Especially if you talk to the people involved about it or in any way harass them. I hope you have a bad day every day forever.

➴ I'm typically not interested in large age gaps ships where one person is a teenager but I don't think they're evil or whatever fanpolice are on about. Also proshippers are racist trash 99% of the time so don't lump me in with those assholes either please.

🏹 My writing (Dead link for now)

🏹 My Media Takes/Overviews

Tags:

#demirose glasses on - headcanoning characters to be on the aspec in any way shape or form, sometimes used for general queer headcanons as well.

#demirose glasses off - just a general speculation post about a piece of media.

#my stuff - edits I made

[amekikai]

for the matchup (idk if this is good enough)

- abt me: my name is cas. i'm bi and demirose (demiromantic and demisexual). i go by he/they pronouns.

- personality: i'm a fairly quiet person and i consider myself soft-spoken when meeting new people because of social anxiety. i am very passionate about my interests and i like making people happy. i just like being in people's presence if i know them well. i'll just sit there and do whatever. i dont fight much, but i want to learn how to. :D

- interests/hobbies: i don't go outside much, but i de-stress by going shopping or walking. i cook and clean to clear my mind. i love cats and writing/reading. i listen to music a lot, too! i commonly take care of people and i can stay calm under stressful circumstances. (i will freak out abt a week later when i process the incident tho). anything my friends like will peak my interest.

- love language: idk my main love language, but i'm assuming it's gift giving or quality time.

I match you with...

🌻 Giorno Giovanna 🌻

I feel like Giorno would be very considerate about your anxiety and would notice if you get too anxious. He'd take you somewhere quiet to go for a walk. He knows all the most beautiful areas.

He's also a really good listener so he doesn't mind talking to you about how you feel or your interests. He'd remember almost everything you say.

He likes that you like making people happy and would be glad to help you learn to fight

Even though he's an outdoors kind of person, he doesnt mind. He'll bring you flowers (or use his stand to make them for you).

Would be overjoyed to cook with you or go for walks with you.

I feel like his love language is gift giving and quality time too! So he's very happy that you're similar to him!

Sorry this took so long, I was a bit busy!

[hoarder-of-boys]

somebody tagged me in a thing?! (ty @rainbow-compass ily)

rules: tag 10 people you wanna know better!!

name: matt!! or bunny but probably just matt

sexuality: ????? idk anymore all i know is i like boys, im polyam, and demirose rbebrjrbr

hogwarts house favorite pokemon type: dragon, dark, or fairy!!

cats or dogs: both? both. both are good.

current time: 9:17 am!

favorite animal: im not gonna pick favorites!! i like too many!! foxes. its foxes

when i made this blog: my sense of time is super messed up so i couldnt tell u dhdbdjdv at the time of writing this i wanna say a few days ago?

reason for url: im poly, i really like guys, i have a shitloadda guy f/os, also dragons r a special interest and they hoard things fhfbfb

tagging uh....nobody ! if u see this u can do it c:

[verdantmeadows]

FOr the ship bingo - Sun Wukong and Macaque

Ahhh, one of not just my LEGO Monkie Kid OTPs, but one of my OTPs of all time. Let me explain each of my little boxes I filled out!

Enemies to lovers to friends to lovers to weird exes to friends to enemies to lo: Have you SEEN the two of them and how they behave in show?

Facebook status it's complicated: Again, see above

Romeo and Juliet Part 2 Electric Boogaloo: They definitely have a level of tragic lovers/starcrossed lovers that should be but just can't or haven't yet. I believe if they just got over themselves (mainly Sun Wukong-) they could get together. Unfortunately. This has not happened yet. I honestly don't mind if it never happens in show because I don't trust how the show is going to handle it

This is such a normal healthy normal relationship I promise (lying): The trying to kill each other fighting and everything is part of the appeal to me, I will be honest. It is very hot. I mostly filled this out because they have definitely hurt each other horribly and try to kill each other. However I think it's a lot easier to contextualize it as them being immortals/deities.

I want to smash them together like barbies: Well. It's true. I ship them so much and just want them happy :(

Childhood friends to unresolved sexual tension forever and ever: I personally headcanon them as childhood friends and it's very likely in the context of canon as well, especially since I think Macaque has inspirations from Monkey King 2009. Also they just literally . Macaque literally pins him down and uses the phrase "feeling out" WHILE ON TOP OF HIM. He also pins him down multiple times (via clones and himself). Like. Yknow.

They are horrible for each other (interested): I genuinely think they're basically soulmates or meant for each other, to be clear. However, they are literally being horrible to each other as of right now, so-

Listen. Is it really subtext at this point or can we just call it canon already: I think you would have to be a little bit oblivious to not realize the very clear subtext between the two of them. I mean, the touching and pinning? Calling him a gem? His beloved? Literally LEAVING LADY BONE DEMON TO SEE SUN WUKONG FIRST BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE EVEN THOUGH HE WAS PUNISHED FOR IT?? Please. Literally being the WHOLE WAY THAT HE IS BECAUSE HE WAS ABANDONED BY HIS BEST FRIEND? Please.

Give it twenty years and maybe they'll get their shit together: Maybe more like thousands of years for all we know. It has been quite a while between the two of them. They just need to get therapy for BPD (Macaque) and NPD (Sun Wukong) (joking). But really so much of their pain is from each other and they need to work past it.

It was love at first sight: I don't really believe in love at first sight as someone who is aromantic but falls in love and acespec/demisexual. But the level of this phrase is implying they're meant for each other and that's how I feel it is. I headcanon them both as demirose. I don't feel like they immediately fell in love with each other, but that they were always going to fall in love with each other. It's one of those things where they became just a part of each other's whole life, their very being, and by the time they realize they're in love, they can't remember a time when they weren't.

I have a LOT to say on this ship and I can't succinctly say it all or summarize how I want to. But it's just one of the best written pairings ever and I truly love the extremes it can go to because of the fact that they have lived thousands of years and are immortal beings. It completely scratches the BPD urges in my brain on how intense love can be and what abandonment can feel like. I'm not sure how to phrase it well, but I truly love BPD-coded characters/villains that get to have their symptoms be fuel for their actions where they get to act out on their urges/feelings. It's not great representation but it's so cathartic for me. (See Catra from SPOP)