#deathsucks

[anxietyliveswithin-blog]

Having to go to the graveyard to visit your friends 💔

[grievingmydad-blog]

living with grief doesn’t go away, you just learn to live a new life around it.

[guenthergroup]

Goodbye Big Gun or Big Jim. Stood 6 foot six back in the day and lived larger than life. He lived nearly 88 years of what could only be described as a very good life. He instilled in me my love of boats, Northwest seafood, politics, skiing. So much. This is him enjoying the boat with me in early October. After his recent hospital stay, just a few days ago we were talking about him keeping up with his occupational therapy so he would have no problem getting in and out of the boat this coming season. I loved you, Dad. I’ll miss you. . . *** #deathsucks #goodbyedad #largerthanlife #agoodlife #happytravels #oldboatersneverdie (at Filucy Bay, Puget Sound, WA) https://www.instagram.com/p/CoB1r79OTYr/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[hernerdreview]

Losing someone close to you really puts a lot of things into perspective

[sumnersuzanne]

Oh god, you guys, I don’t know where to start. I grew up watching this man. He starred in one of the most important shows in my personal culture. My dad showed me his part in The Aristocrats in 2005 and I fell in love. The duality of his content and the scope of his humor ONE THOUSAND percent enamored me. I will forever regret not seeing him live. I’m floored. I am crushed. I am absolutely shattered by the untimely loss of this comedic powerhouse. I love you, Bob Saget. Fly high in those stars you filthy, hilarious, sexy man. I will celebrate the media you gave me regularly. Forever.✨ . . . #ouch #bobsaget #saget #iloveyou #comedy #fullhouse #thearistocrats #americasfunniesthomevideos #comedian #deathsucks #crush (at Greenville, South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/CYikQWjsjsK/?utm_medium=tumblr

[fuko79]

Morning you sexy mofos!!!!!! Time to let the animal out and smash!!!! Each day we face struggles and how we choose to deal with them makes us who we are. We can’t let them beat us! Enjoy everyday you never know when it’s your last. Cherish every moment. This world has taken many folks and again continues to again and I will always cherish each and everyday!! Hope you do the same and have an amazing day!! #fuscosmash #fuscogonewild #dailyshenanigans #enjoylife #beexcellenttoeachother #cherisheverymoment #deathsucks #makesomeonesmile #bethebestyou (at Pro Fitness RI) https://www.instagram.com/p/CLZa7BmnFSV/?igshid=bi6n7xavx4mr

[apatheticaggo]

Dry Bones

I remember when I was little

There was a tree standing near you

At some point I hid behind it

Because I didn’t want to look at you

Perhaps I thought I was safe

That the wind blowing through the leaves

Could also blow me away

That was when I was probably seven

I didn’t go back there till 2012

I wanted to be put through hell

So I visited but couldn’t find the tree

I was trying hard to pull the memory

To remember everything

But I was a fucking child !!

I went to England without saying bye

Without telling you how I felt inside

About all the bullshit you put me through

And how you were never there for me

You spent the entirety of my childhood

Beneath that stupid fucking tree

And when I went to see you

To say I missed and loved you

That I was a better man than you

I couldn’t. Because I couldn’t see the tree

My wife convinced me to go back

In 2016 we made the plans

I traveled two days in a car

Scripting what I’d say to you

When we got there my wife found you

Before I ever found the tree

She walked with me to see you

My name laying face up on the ground

You had no Sr so I won’t put a Jr

When they place me next to you

I stood there. Shaking

My wife seeing my heart breaking

For 30 years I have wanted to talk

And now that I can

I can’t move my mouth

I just shake out of 30 years of emotions

The hatred the rage

The love that never came

The father you weren’t

The father I am

How I need you

To be proud

To hold up my hands

To stop the thoughts

Of suicide from

The shitty life

You left me to live

Dead before I was born

It doesn’t make a difference

I was your last child

And I needed you most

She named me after you

So I was a constant reminder

Of the abuse that she took from you

They said I look just like you

Perhaps when I die

My dry bones will too

I never said a word out loud

My wife just walked me back to the car

We went to a wedding after seeing your grave

I just prayed there child wouldn’t suffer

From their father passing away

And only leaving dry bones

To guide the way.

[royboyprods]

Man I miss my golden. 

[alexisinneverland]

Anyone who knows my dad, knows how much he LOVES his dogs. He loves those sweet babies more than he loves us kids! Last week he and Dale had to put down not 1 but 2 of their fur children 6 days apart... Reverend Fred was 19, and sweet Sapphire was only 12. 2020 has been a devastating year for my family, taking so many loved ones away from us... if you pray, we could use some prayers pir just good juju sent our way because we can't take another hit like this. We miss you so much already, sweet children!! . . . . #2020sucks #goaway2020 #deathsucks💔 #heartbroken #imissyou https://www.instagram.com/p/CBhM2IFpPxB/?igshid=fi61i6d3ys2l

[nicsplace]

This is the perfect day, weather wise. Highs in the mid 50s but the sun is warm and there's a very light breeze. Who wouldn't love this? 🤷🏻‍♀️😁🥰 It makes a hard day, saying goodbye to a sweet friend, bearable. #FuneralsSuck #DeathIsNotTheEnd #DeathSucks #ATX #ATXWeather #BeautifulDay #SingleMom #SingleMomLife #Influencer #Smile #StrongerThings #BrownEyedGirl #GirlsWithGlasses #GirlsWithTattoos #InkedGirls https://www.instagram.com/p/B7MvVciA0M-/?igshid=12czs0qgn53vc

[comicbookhistorians]

Alan Moore had a multi issue run on Jim Lee's WildCATS for Wildstorm under Image and in these few 1996 panels he takes light hearted jabs at the 1990s Super Action Hero names that were highly popular at the time. #DeathSuck https://www.instagram.com/p/BydQom_hPqn/?igshid=16qh147c73arg

[chimerakiss]

My opinion on death and the living

Personal note (don't read unless you want my opinion on death). It's inevitable that death is wandering around and taking people away. Relatives, friends, neighbors, friends of friends, and well, just anyone. It's been close to me, a few times. My thoughts are this : Every life matters to someone. One (out of a crowd) more than others, pending the person. Time is the one thing that just continues to march right on. It doesn't matter if there was someone who passes, without warning, time lets you know, -  you can stop for this (I'll keep going), or you can keep going (and try to catch up). It's a crazy decision to have to make, but it's very real. No one can tell you how long you should greive. How long you should be sad or when it's okay to move on. Everyone is different and everyone should do what works for them. Depression is not one of those things anyone should be left alone with. Going back to the 'time' issue ; If you made plans 6 months ago, to do something you really like, and someone close to you passes, do you stop what you are doing. Do you enjoy yourself, knowing that you should be greiving ? My opinion is this - yes, you should enjoy life. If you don't, you aren't living. The memories you had with the person should be just as joyus. You may not be able to tell them right away, but you know in your heart they were there with you. When people say "Never forget" they are really afraid of what they may forget themselves. But all of the memories you've had with the person who's passed will continue to be with you always. It's up to you to remember. It's YOU who knows the meaning of a person's life, to you.  Should anything happen to someone close to you pass. Celebrate the life they led, how that person made you feel, how special they were, and what you would have become if they were there. You, have that now with someone ? Keep it. Treasure it. It's rare and needed in this world.

[sumnersuzanne]

It has taken me almost a week to make this post, but at 3:50 p.m. on Thursday, April 30th, my sweet prince left this world. He was a month shy of his 12th birthday, and three months short of the anniversary when he became mine. We were supposed to have one more night with him, but he chose to go on his own. I truly believe he knew that euthanizing him would have absolutely destroyed me, so in true Oliver fashion, he spared me of that burden and left on his own. It was ugly, awful, and the most intense thing I have ever experienced, but he died in my arms, hearing only how much he was loved and how good he was as he took his last breaths. To say my heart is shattered is a gross understatement. There is an emptiness in my home, life, and heart that I am not sure how to deal with. Oliver was my first dog and he was so very loyal to me. He always needed me in his eyesight, even if he hated all the squeezes and kisses I gave him constantly. I have never known love like I had for him...and I do not think I ever will again, and I guess that’s okay. He has been beside me since I was 19, and endured every struggle, misstep, and tragedy since. I feel it is so cliche to say, “I didn’t rescue him, he rescued me,” but damn if that is not the honest truth. I love you best friend, my misters, my bubba. I will never stop missing you and thinking of you. I hope you enjoyed the life you had and knew how important you were. You deserved everything. Good show, old man. . . . #oliver #mymisters #bubba #mybaby #mybestfriend #mylove #illmissyou #forever #deathsucks (at Cordele, Georgia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B_1RAUQF46X/?igshid=hagj9tr5er54

[bonesgleedoctorwho]

Please consider donating! https://www.gofundme.com/usvj8y-funeral-funds-for-corey-earls #rip #deathsucks

[alexisinneverland]

My sweet baby boy, I wasn't ready but I know you were unhappy and in pain. It hurts so intensely and my heart is definitely half missing, but I love you the absolute most and am glad you're no longer in pain. I miss you so much already, and will see you again. #dogstagram #dogsofinstagram #champ #sweetbabyboy #sweet #iloveyou #imissyou #deathsucks💔 https://www.instagram.com/p/B7W5tc8JSLn/?igshid=34ojqjegatnq