#deadly-assassin417

[ask-pride-color-schemes]

Hey I was wondering if you can make a post on pronouns? I just found out about neopronouns and I wanted to learn more.

I don’t really know what you mean by that, can you elaborate?

If you want pronoun lists, you can see some here, here, here, here and here! (I don’t doubt some of those are rough copies of each other, but meh.)

If you want a more in-depth article, you can read one here! And here is an informative about nounself pronouns.

~ Tath

[demigenderfriends]

Hey, lately I've been identifying as demifluidflux, but I want people to know I'm a boy too. (I feel my genders at the same time) is there a wait to specify I'm both?

Hey there, dude!

First off, trying out new labels is great and I’m happy that you’re doing so!

Second off, it seems like you may be bigender, which means you feel you have two genders, whether at the same time or not, regardless of intensity. If you choose to use that label, you could specify: “Hi, I’m bigender. My two genders are boy and also demifluidflux.” And that’s totally okay!

Alternatively, you could say you are a demifluidflux boy, or a demiboyfluidflux, though the latter implies you are a demiboy, and I don’t know if you are.

My advice would be to keep looking and searching for whatever makes you feel comfortable.

Best wishes on your label quest!

~Mod Isabella

[lgbtq-edits-and-bubbles]

Can you make a polyagender pride but not with random objects? Just pride stuff?

I sent that too early. If you can't find any polyAgender other then the flag, agender/enby stuff is okay

Coming right up!

[aspecmoodboards]

Abrosexual Polyagender Pride Moodboard for @deadly-assassin417

I wasn’t sure how to do this one at first but when I saw the Abrosexual flag it reminded me of watermelons and I had to add them in. Also to answer your question about considering Abrosexual part of the aspec community: My opinion on certain sexualities/genders being in a community for sexualities/genders is that if you feel like you’re apart of that community and aren’t strictly the opposite of the community (strictly cis straight people for example) then you decide wether your apart of it and if you’d like to be apart of it. That’s just my opinion though, if you feel apart of the aspec community then you are apart of the aspec community. The other mods can chime in on this.

-Mod Matt

[lgbtq-pen-pals]

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[multigendered]

Is there a gender where you are constantly a boy, but then you are also fluid flux (ex I'm a boy, and Demi girl, then I'm extra boy, then I'm a boy and agender)

That sounds like boyslider, which expresses a gender that changes but a part of it stays fixed as a boy. Here’s a post explaining it in more detail, and it also mentions horogender, which is a gender that is fluid but has a fixed core (horoboy, in this case), I think both of them might be fitting!

[transnonbinarysupport]

Do you have any binding tips for someone in a D cup??? I have a binder but it doesn't do anything.

Mod Jamie Says:

i personally have a medium sized chest, so i don’t have any first hand experience. 

i asked a friend, however, and he suggested pushing your breasts under your armpits after you get the binder on. this spreads them out and prevents “monoboob”.

I’m really sorry that i can’t answer this better, but there is a post on it from @nonbinary-support here: x

best of luck, Mod Jamie

[ask-pride-color-schemes]

It isn't any of those genders. I saw you're a new mod (congrats x)) but ask Hermy. Or look for hyperfluid in the tags.

I tried to look for hyperfluid before, but there isn’t much information besides “oh we can call this hyperfluid”, so. D:

~ Tath

[demigenderfriends]

Is there a demifluidflux symbol

Hey there again!

First off, I don’t think there is. Demifluidflux –and any demigender identities, actually– isn’t really that well known.

Second off, there are demigender, genderfluid, and genderflux symbols, so if you have any experience with editing or painting, I would see if you could make your own based off of those. Otherwise, perhaps enlist a friend or ask someone if they could help you make one. If you do find one, or make your own, please let us know! It could be helpful for those who feel the same way as you.

Best wishes on your symbol searching!

~Mod Isabella

[lgbtq-edits-and-bubbles]

Can you make a fluidflux/Abrosexual pride moodboard? Please?

Of course!

[fuck-the-binary]

May I have a name/pronoun Validation? I'm feel like my name is too femme. Jace he/him ?

Sure, pal! Sorry that this is so late.

Jace is a super cool dude. I think his name is exactly as masculine as he wants to be. And it’s just a great name! If he likes it, I think he should definitely keep it. I love that Jace wants to help other trans people. I really admire that about him.

(Jace, man, if you ever wanna talk you can message me on my main @witch-boy-666)

- Mod Reyn

[pridedinosaurs]

Please make a Transexpressive Dino x) If you don't know what that is I can explain. LOVE YOU

Hey there! Sorry for being a little late getting to this message :3 

Let’s talk more about transexpressive.  From what I got from googling it, it sounds like a more specific version of gender non-conforming (only I guess you could argue that someone who fits this label/identity is sometimes GNC, but other times conforms to their gender…or to how society expects them to express that gender).  I’m not sure if this is a term specifically reserved for trans people, or if anyone can use it.  

I like the idea of GNC pride (especially since I’m a GNC person, albeit a cis one), and I especially like that this is an identity that specifically separates gender from gender roles/expression (since I’ve seen some of the “newer” gender labels get these two things confused).  

That being said, I’m not sure if I want to draw a dinosaur for transexpressive (or even GNC) at this point in time.  Mainly because my wok schedule is still pretty backed up, but also partly because I would like to get input from some other people I know and trust in the trans/NB community.  Just to see what their thoughts are on this term and its definition.  

Personally, I don’t have a problem with this label existing.  I’ll admit that I’m not really a fan of the word itself (especially because the only thing that comes up when you use tumblr’s search for it is a pretty gross looking porn fetish blog).  I think it’s because I’m used to seeing “trans” in the context of “transgender,” and I can see a lot of people (admittedly, mainly cis people who don’t know/understand much about the transgender community or even gender itself) getting confused and misinterpreting it.  

But then again, I’m a cis person, and someone who (for the most part) isn’t all that bothered by microlabeling, if the microlabel isn’t put in the wrong category (e.g. mistaking a sexual identifier for a sexual orientation).  Someone else who is trans and who is more cautious about what labels they think best represent their community might have a very different opinion on the subject. 

I hope though, that you understand that no matter what I say about transexpressive or what any other person says about it, if this is how you feel about your gender expression and this is the label you most strongly connect to, than you are free to keep using it.  Although I decide what identities I draw dinosaurs for, and although other people (even other trans people) may criticize you for using it, in the end you are the only person on Earth who controls what labels you use for yourself.   Whether it’s a label for something as important as your gender or something as seemingly meaningless as your aesthetic attraction, how you make friends, or how you express your gender - if who you are truly fits the label and if you feel better about yourself in using it, than I think you should be allowed to use it to describe yourself.  

So tl,dr (because I apparently can’t answer a simple ask without turning it into an essay haha): I probably won’t get around to drawing transexpressive any time soon due to backlog in my schedule, and I would like to get a second opinion from some other trans people before I even decide whether or not I want to draw that particular dinosaur.        

[ask-pride-color-schemes]

deadly-assassin417 replied to your post “What's a gender that is genderfluid between genderfluid identities”

Why super

Since it’s referring to superfluids, which has special properties, which seems to match with genderfluid with genderfluid identities. What do you think?

[ask-pride-color-schemes]

Hey! For the term Hyperfluid, should we coin it as hypergender since it includes all shifting genders? (Flux, multiple (bi, poly, tri) and fluid)

Hypergender is another term already, actually (experiencing a gender with more intensity than is common for your identity).

I think I’ve missed a piece of the discussion, but, if it’s something like “gender changes a lot” or “gender changes constantly”, have you tried...?

Firegender: "A fluid gender in a constant state of change that never truly extinguishes. Aesthetically linked to fire as a visual metaphor or symbol.Can be combined with relevant genders."

Kinetigender: “A gender experience that constantly moves or is in motion, similar to genderfluid or genderflux.“

Kangaroogender: “A fluid gender that “leaps” from identity to identity.“

Horrorgender: “When you gender identity is so fluid and “all over the place”, it almost scares people (hence the horror part). “

Genderplasma: “Similar to genderfluid but feels "hotter".“

Mutaregender: “A fluid gender in which the person never feels like they experience the same gender twice, their gender is always changing and evolving.“

Passengender: “A gender that goes where it chooses. This gender is always going somewhere on its own drive and it may be affected by your surroundings, but you can't really control where it’s going (you're like a passenger).“

Quantumgender: “Composing of an identity (two or more genders) that's in a [constant] state of fluctuation between [whichever the person identifies as] so fast that it forms a continuous stream/flow of "vibrations"--with the identities being/almost seeming as one continuous [blurred and homogeneous] identity, but the differences can be seen only close-up--like how "static" molecules vibrate on the quantum-level.“

Razorgender: “A gender that is sharp and singular, yet moves swiftly. For example, you may feel intensely and definitively agender for a short while, but then quickly move to being intensely and definitively bigender.“

Snakegender: “When your gender slips away every time you try to reach for it to figure it out, and it’s always changing and it’s really scary to confront so you just try to avoid it. “

Sychnogender: “Similar to Argogender and Tachigender but regarding frequency. The gender of someone who is sychnogender might change many times throughout the course of a day. Prefix from the Greek συχνός meaning frequent.“

~ Tath

[ask-pride-color-schemes]

I got a sketch for the shifterfluid flag

Ooh, feel free to submit it!

-Hermy

[ask-pride-color-schemes]

What's a gender that is genderfluid between genderfluid identities

There isn’t a term for that yet. Maybe gendersuperfluid? Since superfluidity is a real thing (and is super cool)

Superfluidity is the characteristic property of a fluid with zero viscosity which therefore flows without loss of kinetic energy. When stirred a superfluid forms cellular vortices that continue to rotate indefinitely.