#cw sissy

[0w0tsuki]

Hey can we stop pretending like the only feasible reason that a trans woman would not like the term femboy is because she's some puritan anti-kinkster or somehow against men being able to dress femininely?

Like perhaps maybe the group of people who had to go through a phase of having to figure out and explore their femininity while being perceived by society as a man DON'T WANT to police the way men are able to present and express their genders? Like maybe WE DON'T want to make things even harder for transfem eggs. Like maybe we might have an interest in protecting transfem eggs and are speaking from the harm that we experienced as eggs ourselves?

Like maybe it might have to do with the fact that outside of Tumblr your average femboy is a trap fetishist? Like did we all forget the memes of "trying to figure out if the Astofolo icon is a trans woman or a fascist?"

Like some of us were discovering our transness during puberty in the early 2000s. You remember the early 2000s right? Where South Park and Family were at the height of their cultural influence, the R slur was a substitute for stupid, and bigotry was so common that "traps are gay" jokes could be made in polite company without having to worry about backlash. So imagine what kink spaces were like. Especially when you're a teenage trans girl just discovering herself.

I personally was so damaged by that experience that I began to believe that my gender-no my EXISTENCE was a fetish to be embarrassed and humiliated by and to be reviled for. I genuinely did not engage in relationships because I believed I was going to have to give in and tell them that they fell in love with a sex object. I did not believe that I was worthy of love. And it took YEARS of working through that for me to be comfortable with transitioning.

And after I worked through that I still have to deal with them. They haven't left kink communities they had their roots in. To this day there's a kink website I frequent that has community suggestions for tags IE: Unless the OP of the work goes back to delete this feature, anyone can "recommend" deletions or additions to the tags of the work. This is in place to make the proper labeling/searching/blacklisting of kinks easier to help curate content. In practice though it allows transmisoginists to basically graffiti any transfem artwork they come across. And let me tell you Femboy tags are getting added on right after they replace F/F with M/M on a transbians t4t work. And it happens so frequently that I have to check in about once a month to these trans tags to inform the most recent victim about what's happened to their works.

And outside of kink spaces I go into fandom spaces where I have had to deal with trap fetishists positioning themselves as fucking lore scholars when they harass trans positive folks about the Correct and Moral gender of the transmisoginistic character that they've got a fap folder dedicated. I got to see someone rise to twitch fame off the back of trap content turn into a “femboy icon” because he gave some of the trap money to trans charities and has a trans girlfriend. Who is still making trap content by the way.I've gotten to see reddit lose their absolute goddamn minds when the term Trap was banned from r/anime, shitting themselves so hard about it that they made their own separate website with transmisogynistic wojaks on the home page and everything. And then I got to see the fucking Bridget Debacle.

The reason I always talk about Bridgets trans confirmation is that it's the most widely recognized recent event where the exact shit I'm talking about was on full display. The reason why her being confirmed as a trans woman was such a big deal for trans girls was not just because she was one of the anime caricatures with her own folder in the trap enthusiasts masterbation portfolio. It was because she was GROUND ZERO for original coining of the word trap. And the EXACT same guys who deemed her a trap were now coming out in DROVES fuck EN MASS. But this time as self appointed femboys. We had so many examples of fucking Astofolo icon twitter facists trying to drudge up any type of left sounding argument using the femboy identity after having their initial arguments revolving around mistranslation were debunked. Crying that transfems were “stealing femboy representation” and trying to say that it was an “antitransmasculization force feminization trope” unironically. You know the cry of “Let men be feminine!!!!” y'all always bring out in defense of femboys. THAT'S who you're parroting! THAT'S who you got it from! We have had direct evidence of former trap fetishists dawning the term femboy when it became less cool to be openly transmisogynistic and then started appropriating leftist language to give their transmisogynistic arguments an air of legitimacy.

Like y'all need to understand that this magical space we got here is a FUCKING BUBBLE. Femboy communities in literally every other online space are former trap/sissy communities and are fucking cess pits of transmisoginy. I have seen posts by people who's only experience being around femboys was on Tumblr go out and check a place like r/mildfemboys to be horrified by the obsessiveness of the transmisogyny the femboys they interact with. And the femboys here aren't much better by treating being forced to acknowledge that these people exist and that is a still very active part of their community even if they don't personally interact with it as a personal attack on them and their gender presentation.

Y'all just want to pretend it doesn't exist and treat the idea that a Transfem might not WANT to interact with YOU(OH GOSH!!) because of it like it's some sort of personal judgement instead of something you're just going to have to accept happens when there's a large portion of people who share that title who are responsible for traumatizing them. But y'all got to go one step further. Y'all who go on about how femboys are our closest allies and about how “femboys and transfems are actually closer than transfems want to admit”. Y'all treat femboys like they're out little fucking brother in the queer community and it's our personal fucking responsibility to leave behind any personal baggage at the door in order to make them feel welcome.

Y'all can't handle the fucking idea that a trans woman might not be comfortable with sharing community with someone who's average member would call her a trap while jacking off to her selfies if he thought he could get away with it. That's she's not interested in playing the Astofolo icon game with them. Y'all gotta create a backwards narratives where she is against her own interests, where she is for making it harder for eggs in the future instead of you know. Asking for better from the communities those eggs are drawn too.

I have been forced to fucking put up with femboys in nearly every online space I've ever been in. And I

Am sick and fucking tired

Of putting up with femboys

[bynux]

This is what the inside of the average conservative brain looks like.

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[fucktoyambie]

i used to be kinda into sissification but then it just got. boring. it's not as hot when the forcefem is seen as an ultimately negative and humiliating thing >:|

[our-genderfae-experience]

Can anyone get a read on @/estrogenklinic?

They're advertising selling estrogen, but the only thing I can see about them on their blog is that they say "FDA certified", which as far as I know, is just for products.

Of course, if you do take a peek over there, take all due caution, and make sure you know the risks of interacting with them. And if you are doing DIY HRT, be responsible.

[andrew3garfield]

CARRIE (1976) dir. Brian De Palma

[goddessmartha91]

Reblog if you can wear this in public?

[celticwoman]

Carrie (1976) dir. Brian de Palma

[andruillus]

carrie (oil on paper)

[haveyouseenthismovie-poll]

[skeletonbabyboy]

Sissy soon realized if Nancy's golden boy could get hurt, she could too. She decided that night she'd get out of this house as fast as she could. And as far away as she can. Also big on the idea that Sissy went by Sunshine/Sunny mostly before her running away. Teenage designs based off the early concepts art of these two!

[svicidemessyboy]

I was walking down my street when an older guy mistook me for a girl. It was pitch black and I was wearing a hoodie with the hood up and short shorts. I didnt recognize the guy, he begun to follow me after I ran into him at the corner. He didnt say anything for a while, just followed till he eventually stopped me. He asked where I was going and I just replied that I was going for a walk and tried to move past him. But he grabbed onto my wrist and pulled the sleeve of my jacket up. My fresh cuts from only an hour before on full display for him.

“Aww, sweetheart, I didnt know you were a cut up too.” He said after a while of admiring them.

I didnt know what to do. I froze, just standing there in a panic with this stranger staring at my self harm.

“Lets get you back to my place and you can create more of your beautiful artwork for me as I fill your pathetic cut-up cunt with my seed.”

He tried to grab me by my waist, attempting to bring me back with him. I didnt know what to do. I was in a full panic. Of course guys had told me stuff like that and thought I was a girl. I have a very thin figure and my hair is messy. But I have never been in this situation. I didnt know what to do so I gathered up all the strength I could and ran away..

A day later and im still wondering what mightve happened if I didnt leave…

[lifesver]

live laugh pass away for holding him at the infinite loop for 2 long <3

[vibe-stash]

Carrie (1976)

Director: Brian De Palma DOP: Mario Tosi Art Direction: Jack Fisk, Bill Kenney

[mistys-sinners]

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"They're all gonna laugh at you"

- Margaret White, Carrie (1976)

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What started your love for horror? For me, it all began with the 1976 version of Carrie, starring Sissy Spacek. So, of course, my spooky little shop needed some Carrie bracelets!

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[goddessmartha91]

Are you craving for pegging tonight? Are you ready to lick my feets? Are you ready to worship my pussy? Are you ready to be spanked? Are you ready for real domination? This is my telegram @miss_martha85 massage me if you're ready

[andruillus]

process of my last carrie painting. it's smaller than it looks, about 20 cm wide (which im told is about 8 inches)