#csa trigger

[kevingayimeanday]

My absolute favourite piece of discourse started by the extra content is whether or not Andrew smiles again. Nora says no, however, he’s fictional and whatever happens after the end of the series is just headcanon, regardless of whether or not it’s the author saying it.

Anyway, my not so hot take is that a lot of people (myself included) relate to Andrew. Whether we’re survivors of csa, former/current foster kids or just struggle with mental health in general, a lot of people in the aftg fandom get it and have been in a (maybe not quite so) dark place like Andrew. Part of what makes Andrew fabulous, despite all his horrible actions, is his ending. He’s got Neil, a family, a future and he’s a massive symbol of hope for those of us who relate. So, I think he does learn to smile again, even if it’s a decade later. Because I want to keep that hope that things do get better and it’s possible to heal. It might not be realistic, but neither is anything that happens in the series. One day I want to be happy too, and if I want to project the idea of healing and having a happy family and a good support system onto a five foot tall fictional man I will.

[eugenoid-draws]

Thinking about how little bodily autonomy Daan possessed his whole life

[calvinsimsart]

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[blacknidstang]

Things that drive me insane is when ppl want sam to be the innocent normal one with less trauma and in the process completely brush off azazel's entire csa coded storyline + demons trying to kidnap and groom sam. Sorry it's just kinda sorta upsetting when you take Sam's feeling of being unclean and dirty and needing to run away to establish some ounce of control in his life and make it only about john abusing dean. It's kinda wretched actually.

[mazzystar24]

“ why do some people call out or talk about dumb and lesser fandom drama but haven’t spoken about those anonymous fics”

I beg you with all my fucking heart to muster up two braincells and use them

I haven’t gotten this hate directly but I keep seeing posts either saying it or ppl having it said to them

You are claiming to understand what’s so disgusting and vile abt what the person who wrote those did but you’re here not taking two seconds to think hmm maybe the dumb and lesser stuff is easier to talk about for more people than those fics?

Lemme throw some bullet points and break it down into little words for some of these absolute fucking idiots:

• you’re always gonna find more people willing to talk about the little discourse than the harder to talk about topics especially in fandom spaces

That doesn’t make them a bad person for it because

1. Everyone has their boundaries

2. Everyone has their own shit and no one should be having to sit there and tell you they’re traumatised to get you to back off

3. This is again a fandom space by not talking about it they aren’t disadvantaging or not spreading awareness abt or supporting any causes by making a post saying what others have already said a thousand times over which is that those fics were a disgusting thing to do

4. “ oh but you’ve pointed out racism/homophobia/misogyny and this thing and that” again see all those points but also like this is like someone saying don’t be racist and then someone going oh wow so they talked about how ppl shouldn’t be racist but not about how ppl shouldn’t be sexist so they must mean being sexist is acceptable

5. Again it’s not like everyone was super quiet about it like I saw all the outrage on here and it was being served toward that anonymous writer from BOTH sides, no one on either side as far as I can tell agrees with that shit so stop saying shit like oh they were a buddie fan

So fucking what? I’m sure i have the same music taste as some murderers but that doesn’t make me a murderer? Get a grip honest to fucking god

6. Also that fucker was living for the attention that’s why they kept making more with mocking bios and shit

That’s all the angry rant for today guys🫡

[eddiebuckley-diaz]

Severely disappointed in this fandom. The lack of respect for actors and crew members is absolutely disgusting. To now also making this fandom extremely unsafe for others is abhorrent. Placing works on a site tagged to be positive for a pairing only to actually be triggering especially geared to CSA against a canonically gay character and aiding in the stereotypes that older gay men are predators is unbelievably damaging, cruel, and triggering. People should be so ashamed of themselves and yet they won’t be. There is little we can do about the situation unfortunately, but we can work to make certain spaces safe starting with the blogs on here.

Please know that this blog is a safe space for any one of you. I am here to support you and am here if you need to reach out to someone. I know this content is going to be especially triggering for others so please reach out if you need support.

Much love ❤️

[irlangelsdiary]

Facts about intrafamiliar sexual abuse, COCSA, and CSA.

• COCSA can happen with children of any age, but potential incidents can increase as children enter puberty and adolescence.

• 40% of Children who were sexually abused the perpetrator was older and or more powerful

• 5% of children have been affected by sibling sexual abuse.

• It is one of the lowest disclosed forms of sexual abuse, meaning the statistics around this are likely to be higher.

• More than 90% of abusers are people children know, love and trust.

• 30-40% of victims are abused by a family member.

[nothing0fnothing]

My mom always used to tell me that I was so much more mature than the boys my age because "girls mature faster" and always told me to date older when I started dating.

The men in my family would tell me that the best way for me to succeed was to 1) get really thin 2) get really hot 3) marry an elderly man months from death 4) inherit his money after he died.

Constant discussions about how I shouldn't be dating teenage boys because teenage boys "only want one thing" and I should be waiting to date till my mid 20s when they've "calmed down".

But yeah it was totally my fault when a man in a position of power over me in his late 20s started dming me when I was 13 and I thought it was normal.

[nerves-nebula]

ACTUALLY child abuse isn't sad and serious. i mean it's sad and serious but it's not JUST those things. it's also HILARIOUS. it's SILLY. it's illogical it makes no fucking sense! it can seem so surreal that it makes you laugh at how ridiculous it is. and child abuse belongs in happy stories, CSA belongs in silly stories too !! because CSA doesn't prevent you from being silly or having a good silly time and im. sooo normal about this. im not angry. i'm soooooo normal.

[fagbearentertainment]

Scrolling thru old emails of comments from the troll lancer fangirl yt channel I made when I was 13, I think this is the person that threatened to kill me and made me super paranoid for like a year I forgot about that lol

Bro rly called a 13 year old a child molester for shipping their oc with a fictional character wtf 😭😭😭

[milkyspine]

— gynecologist, room 202

[butch-himbo-king]

yesterday was easily the hardest day i’ve had at this job so far and the fact that it’s only tuesday and i have to go back there today and tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow feels so fucking heavy rn

[fangsup-cobrastyle]

You know, I'm getting real fucking sick of hearing about how we need to "protect our children" by banning books and exterminating trans people surrounded by killing all of the children in Palestine and all these stories about kids being abused/molested and kids getting shot in the streets or in school.

They don't give a shit about "the children" and it's obvious now that they never have.

[magpiemoonchild]

For the Rook Tarot Game: The Hermit, The Sun & The Moon :)

TW: Brief mention of CSA

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The Hermit: When Rook is alone with their thoughts, what do they think about? Is solitude a blessing or a curse for them?

Rowena does everything, and I do mean everything, to not be alone. Her mind is always full, always talking and not stopping even when she tries to sleep. This has caused some serious insomnia, so at least she's used to not sleeping when they got to the Lighthouse. She spends her days (and nights) before the Veilguard doing contracts, having flings and annoying Viago to death. At the Lighthouse she spends a lot of time with the companions, learning about them and spending time with them. She spends a lot of time with the other insomniacs as well.

The Sun: What is Rook passionate about? How do they fuel that passion?

Rowena is passionate about art, and people's wellness. When she was sold to the Crows as a child, Viago took the time to teach her how to read and write, and about artwork. She learned to draw, and now drawing and painting are her two biggest Hobbies behind contracts and reading. She often will paint and sell to Antivan aristocrats, donating the funds to the people of Treviso. She kills Venatori and saves slaves as often as she can - she remembers that life. She won't allow anybody else to experience it.

The Moon: How does Rooks past impact their values? Does their past come with any biases or blind spots they have to account for?

Rook was stolen as a child from Arlathan after her clan was killed and sold to a Magister in Tevinter. She spend the next six or so years as his slave, as his "favourite". The Magister had a specific inkling for...relations with children. After she had grown too old for his tastes, she was sold to the Crows. Her contract to become a fully fledged Crow was simply chosen - and easily done. Since then she has spent as much time as she could helping others in that situation - any slaves. Elf or not, doesn't matter. She will not let anyone - ANYONE feel the pain she felt.

[pinkfey]

i have no friends who care about me because my personality is boring and understimulating and i have no selling point as a friend and i am being left behind

[bpdcodone]

Heyyyy guess who’s back to writing on this blog of hell. Anyways just wanted to say after a strenuous 2 year long recovery journey with DBT/MBT I’m here to officially say I only meet 7 out 9 BPD symptoms now🎉���☦️

But the downside is that my NPD has been going haywire since my BPD has gone down symptomology wise but my NPD remains stable or somewhat worse nowadays I hope to find another personality disorder specialist once I complete DID therapy and healing from CPA/CSA