#csa mentioned

[fairrytype]

Hello 👋

I won't be making many posts on this situation, but after a few people have reached out, I thought I'd explain some things. these are just some of the messages I've sifted through and have been deleting. this has been going on for weeks - they come in bursts and I turned off my messages, but I wanted to donate to causes sent my way, so I opened them again and after a few days it picked back up.

I can only assume these messages are related to my poke art. Sharing these doodles, these sketches and ideas - that was my escape while my personal life has been so rocky. Maybe it's an unhealthy escape, I don't know. but to be told there is a group of people taking those things and talking amongst themselves and laughing while also pretending to not... My trust has completely been broken if it's true, and I'm at a loss. I'm only vaguely part of two groups through association, so I've narrowed it down, I guess.

I guess. I don't know.

It's also just simply that the things being said are very hurtful, and if people really think I'm spreading pedophilia, I don't want to keep doing that. I don't want to insult people with the things I do, either. I try to be incredibly mindful of the images I produce, aware these characters are children, and never set out to put them in any adult situations. I've never drawn them to kiss and even with my aged up designs, I try to keep things innocent, as I'm really sensitive to this subject as a victim of CSA myself.

...But I also know that it's hard for me, as a victim of CSA, to have an objective view on the situation. I'm truly sorry to someone if I've offended them, so I've set on a mission to try and remove my art everywhere, just in case. I don't want to add to a problem if I am.

I'm just not sure what to do from here on.

I only hope that if anyone is part of this group where they make fun of me, they can tell me who it is one day to put my mind at ease because now, I can't really trust anyone in this space, and I feel like I've lost an entire group of people I had an ability to talk with.

and I'm aware that perhaps, that's what I'm supposed to be feeling if I've offended everyone

[osmanthusoolong]

“Is porn addiction real? Less so than claimed, argues Lisa Hagen in a bombshell report for NPR. In this article, the journalist explores the ‘masturbation abstinence’ and anti-porn addiction movement in the US, finding a landscape filled with pseudoscience, reactionary rhetoric, and shame. “In one study,” Hagen notes, “among people who self-identify as ‘pornography addicts’, the average frequency of porn use was less than ten times a year”.”

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“Meanwhile, sex acts outside the norm are often configured as things that only exist to hurt and degrade women or pollute their relationships, rather than as things women could possibly be interested in. Several of the women I’ve talked to have spoken about being into kink, and about how alienated they feel by discourse that kink is just a cover for violence against women, rather than something women themselves can desire and instigate.”

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“The subtextual ‘threat’ behind ‘wrong’ porn gets very queer, very quickly. An interviewee for NPR describes a common set of anxieties on the forums he frequented: ‘‘The common themes were ‘porn is turning me gay’ or ‘porn is making me cross-dress’ or ‘porn is making me want to be dominated’ or ‘porn is making me like transgenders [sic]’.” It’s pretty clear that men are feeling drawn to the taboo thrills of getting topped, gender-play and gay exploration, whether as fantasy or as real possibility; men are also, I noticed, sometimes seeing straight porn and identifying with the woman. This opens up possibilities and anxieties that ‘porn addiction’ forums seek to close off. If you’re thinking about this stuff at all, they say, you have an addiction that is driving you to seek out ‘extreme’ material, and you need help. Reading this as a queer guy felt like hearing the Kill Bill sirens going off: it’s so clear that any erotic charge towards sex workers of any kind, gay men, trans women, or stigmatised forms of sex are seen as polluting ‘proper’ straight life.

If you read through anti-porn forums and programmes as someone who knows what conversion therapy looks like, you will find its tells in abundance. Heavy emphasis on shaming, while also promising that the programme will provide a way out of that shame; advice that new desires might not go away, but can be ignored and managed; unspoken assumptions that monogamous, cisgender, heterosexual, vanilla sex is the sexual ideal; heavy use of pseudoscience; intimations that the reader is being purposely corrupted by the porn industry or a wider, conspiratorial ‘agenda’. UK Rehab’s page on porn addiction advises that “pornography addiction can lead to changes in sexual tastes, desires and practices […] which can cause huge problems for addicts in relationships. The addict may begin to engage in different forms of sexual experience and expression, which may include risky sexual behaviour […] Even in less extreme cases, as mentioned above repeated exposure to hard-core pornography can lead to changed expectations of partners, which can make attaining a “normal” sex life increasingly difficult”. What is ‘normal’ here? What is ‘risky’? What are the ‘tastes’ in question?”

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“Women, in particular, are taught that men’s excessive sexual desires are the root of cheating and disloyalty and sexual violence (rather than the misogyny that makes men disregard women’s boundaries, for instance), and that they therefore need to surveil and police their partners’ porn use. This is furthered by the assumption that any desire to use porn at all is a marker of unmanageable sexual vice and voraciousness, which you’ll particularly find in evangelical/religious circles.”

The fact that people will argue in court that this problem that, again, doesn’t exist, is responsible for CSA and other sexual violence and not the structure of society and families encouraging and enabling such…

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“Most people who think they’re addicted to porn aren’t. What they’re addicted to is policing their own genders and sexualities, hoping that if they just do so a little more successfully, all their personal and relational problems will fall away.”

This seems relevant to the constant discussion about the subject here, especially given the politics of the people who think porn addiction/porn brain/etc is real

[roseliker]

I read the upd8 and I have to say I completely understand why the content warnings were what they were. While I hope that we can have more explanatory, even spoilery content warnings in the future, the bottom line is that there was no CSA in this upd8. Its just that Vriska called Doc Scratch a ped*phile which is a short step up from everyone just calling him "creepy" a bunch of times in the original comic.

But here's the thing, Vriska saying this doesn't make it any more canon than it was before. She is just calling his coding what it is.

There isn't CSA in this upd8, and there isn't even really implied CSA in Vriska's past. Doc Scratch is the same weirdo he always was. The only change, from my perspective, is that now the Beyond Canon team is saying, loud enough for everyone to hear "This stuff isn't funny and isn't a joke." Which was deeply needed. Especially since I reread Homestuck THIS YEAR and the amount of pedo jokes in there is actually insane and aging like MILK.

[trickstarbrave]

can i say smth

i think shit like this rly doesn't actually help victims of csa and is kind of just trivializing child exploitation, abuse, and grooming as "degenerate gooner behavior" by lumping it in with being like, rly into porn. its like "god what losers why are they even in society" instead of "this person did a horrible thing to destroy the lives children and leave them with life long trauma that will impact their brains for their entire lives".

[spartanlocke]

I left tumblr but I guess I might be coming back soon for real time since apparently Elon's bots ARE POSTING ACTUAL, REAL LIFE CP AND CSA NOW.

I'm not even fucking joking. There are dozens of people in the replies and QRTs saying the same thing: the "PUSSY IN BIO" bots pots posted actual CP on their tweets.

IF YOU USE TWITTER, DO NOT HAVE AUTO-RECORDING ON, DO NOT STREAM AND MAKE SURE YOUR CACHES ARE CLEAN, POSSESSION OF CP - EVEN ACCIDENTAL - IS ILLEGAL. IF YOU SEE A TWEET HIDDEN FOR SPAM, DO NOT OPEN IT. I'm lucky to not have run into any CP/CSA footage myself yet, but I'm going to be extremely careful and I recommend you all be too. And if you DO happen to run into it, you can use websites like https://tips.fbi.gov/home. report.cybertip.org or iwf.org.uk/en/uk-report/ to report it.

Don't bother reporting it to twitter. Elon's already been exposed for restoring the account of a man who posted real CP. He won't care. He's a demon and twitter has become exactly the way he wants it.

Stay safe and pray for Elon Musk's downfall.

[heritageposts]

if you support israel right now, you're supporting the extermination of the palestinian people.

it really is that simple.

this isn't a 'complicated conflict,' it isn't a situation that 'requires nuance,' it's not a 'geopolitical event' that requires us to condemn the 'bad actors' on 'both sides.'

it's a genocide.

there is no 'nuance' to be had here. it's a genocide, committed by the israeli state against the palestinian people, and it's happening right now as we speak. you don't have to infer anything: israel has openly, with next to no pushback from so-called liberal democracies, cut off gaza's access to water, food and electricity. that's more than two million palestinians denied even the basic necessities for life. a million of them, children.

what is that, if not a genocide?

and that's only the latest escalation. we could go all day, listing the atrocities the palestinian people have been subjected to. the killings, the beatings, the children sexually abused in detention center, all the hospitals and ambulances being blown up, videos of palestinians being heckled by settlers as they're driven from their homes, israelis gathering on hilltops to cheer as their military drops bombs on gaza...

but all westerns want to talk about, is hamas.

because the murder of palestinians by the IDF is status quo; it doesn't affect them. what's one more dead palestinian but a statistic? but if hamas has killed a handful of israelis — if they've go as far as to even kill babies — then that justifies the extermination of two million palestinians, children and infants included.

westerns will even say that the palestinians brought it on themselves; that they should have know that a drop of israeli blood requires a river in return.

and just so we're clear, you don't have to like hamas. but when you equate hamas with the IDF, when you derail every conversation by demanding a condemnation of 'both sides,' or when you, god forbid, agree that israel is justified in dismantling hamas — which, as israel themselves have outlined, will involve the complete destruction of gaza and the murder of hundreds of thousands of civilians — then either wake up, or own up to the fact that you're a participant in the extermination of the palestinian people.

do you think i'm being harsh? then imagine how it's like living under constant aerial bombardment. with no food, no water, no electricity. constant air-raid sirens. a bomb, dropping every minute. never knowing a moment a peace, always wondering if today is going to be your last day, if you and your family are still going to be here tomorrow.

could you stomach living in gaza, for even a day? i doubt it.

and still, now, on the eve of what might be the ground invasion of gaza — with one million palestinians being told to flee, with nowhere to go — i'm getting messages from people who demand my sympathy... for israel.

well, you're not getting it.

i'm not even humoring your hand-wringing.

if you live in israel, and you're one of the ones who've turned a blind-eye to the suffering of the palestinian people, if you've fought for the IDF or tacitly supported them, if you've callously called upon the memory of the holocaust thinking the death and suffering of your ancestors would wash the blood of your own hands....

then yeah, i think you deserve every single hamas rocket lobbed at you and so much more.

[paper-mario-wiki]

Drake - Pregnant Drake (2024)

[jestergal]

i think when someone replies to the thought of "your triggers don't get to determine the kind of art other people make" with "maybe not pedophilia and incest though" maybe they are not talking about the controversial novel "lolita" or anything else with "dark themes that may make you feel uncomfortable" and are in fact talking about the people online that write thousands upon thousands of words about fictional kids being abused purely for fun and pleasure. like i dunno. uncomfortable themes have a place in something with good writing, sure. but maybe i'm tired of seeing this fucking "let people write what they want to write uwu" type bullshit post every other day, even if the OP means well. no one on fucking ao3 is vladimir nabokov. let's be honest

[txttletale]

"people can use pro-kink language to groom children" yeah thats true. they can also use minecraft to groom children & yet it would still be bad to accuse random people posting about minecraft of being pedophiles innit

[corvidcaeneus]

[corelle-vairel]

I had this idea, so here it is

[catboymoments]

“What’s your unpopular owl house opinion?” and people will go “I liked willuz better than lumity” meanwhile I’m over here like “I think Hunter getting possessed was a metaphor for csa” and I feel weird for it when it’s actually a valid concept

[yejifire]

Interesting how jk rowling claims to care about women and girls but has not said one word about the convicted child rapist (steven van de velde) being allowed to compete in volleyball.

Instead she has chosen to focus solely on bullying imane khelif for "not being female enough" for her liking. Very telling. In fact I think that says it all.

[bloodenjoyer]

i’m not “pro ship” or “anti ship” i live in the real world + have media literacy + am grossed out by pedophilia which is all pretty standard fare for people who live in the real world actually

[cloudabserk]

look i understand if you like marius because this is the evil morally bankrupt vampire story. however when people argue that marius was actually really cool and chill and normal about armand i want to fight them

[butterflyinthewell]