#convine your parent for marriage

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जालंधर में प्रेम विवाह विशेषज्ञ - Love Marriage Specialist In Jalandhar

 ऐसे कई जोड़े हैं जो प्रेम विवाह का सपना देखते हैं। लेकिन भारत में प्रेम विवाह करना आसान नहीं है। माता-पिता को प्रेम विवाह के लिए राजी करने के लिए एक जोड़े को बहुत प्रयास करने चाहिए। सिर्फ माता-पिता नहीं हैं जो समस्याएं पैदा करते हैं और भी बहुत से ऐसे लोग हैं जो प्रेम विवाह में बाधा उत्पन्न करते हैं। कई बार कपल ही लव मैरिज में देरी की वजह बन जाते हैं। प्रेम विवाह को प्रेम का फल माना जाता है। जो जोड़े प्यार में होते हैं वे हमेशा प्रेम विवाह के वादे करते हैं। लेकिन जब उन्हें किसी भी तरफ से बाधा का सामना करना पड़ता है तो उन्हें बहुत निराशा होती है। जालंधर में प्रेम विवाह विशेषज्ञ प्रेम विवाह संबंधी समस्याओं को हल करने के लिए बहुत प्रसिद्ध है।

जालंधर में प्रेम विवाह विशेषज्ञ

प्रेम विवाह के लिए समझ, सहयोग, क्षमा की जरूरत होती है। जब कुछ छूट जाता है तो प्रेम विवाह से पहले और प्रेम विवाह के बाद समस्याएँ उत्पन्न होती हैं। जालंधर में प्रेम विवाह विशेषज्ञ ज्योतिष में प्रसिद्ध है। ऐसी कोई समस्या नहीं है जिसका समाधान ज्योतिष से न हो सके। वशीकरण ज्योतिष की वह शाखा है जो किसी भी प्रकार की समस्या का समाधान कर सकती है। प्रेम विवाह से संबंधित अधिकांश समस्याएं इससे हल हो सकती हैं। वशीकरण जादू का शुद्ध रूप है। प्रेम विवाह विशेषज्ञ वशीकरण के विशेषज्ञ हैं। वह जोड़े या व्यक्ति को सर्वश्रेष्ठ प्रेम मंत्र और अनुष्ठान देता है। इन मंत्रों को करने के बाद व्यक्ति सभी प्रकार की प्रेम समस्याओं का समाधान कर सकता है। जातक अपने पार्टनर के साथ प्रेम संबंध बनाए रख सकता है। वशीकरण आपके माता-पिता को प्रेम विवाह के लिए राजी कर सकता है।

प्रेम विवाह में अनावश्यक देरी हो रही हो तो उसे भी दूर किया जा सकता है। जालंधर में प्रेम विवाह विशेषज्ञ पूजा करते हैं जिससे ग्रहों की चाल शांत हो जाती है। अब लव मैरिज के लिए किसी को परेशान होने की जरूरत नहीं है। वशीकरण के साथ अपने माता-पिता और साथी को प्रेम विवाह के लिए तैयार करें। यदि आप सही समय पर वशीकरण की मदद लेते हैं तो आप जाति और धार्मिक मुद्दों को हल कर सकते हैं। अगर लव मैरिज के बाद आपके बीच कोई समस्या है। फिर लव मैरिज स्पेशलिस्ट से सलाह लें। एक्स्ट्रा अफेयर, प्यार की कमी, समझ और कई अन्य समस्याओं का समाधान हो सकता है

[yandere-daydreams]

arranged royal marriage where darling fools around with maids and butlers since they think their spouse aka next in line to the throne doesn't have any feelings for them but they couldn't be more wrong ... yandere finding darling and one of the servants doing the nasty in their shared king sized bed when darling literally refuses to touch them and goes oh i see how it is ...

tw - arranged marriages, cheating, emotional neglect, and implied noncon.

to be fair, they've had every opportunity to express an interest in you. you might not be of royal blood, but you grew up in their parents' court, shared their tutors and their lessons, and aside from a few brief niceties at balls and banquets, they've never made any attempt to speak to you, the oh-so-fortunate commoner they've been betrothed to since the time they could walk. an extravagant affair with enough pageantry to disguise their disinterest and your discomfort, they remained distant, apathetic despite your fumbling attempts to bridge the obvious gap between the two of you. it's only natural that, after you settle into wedded life, after court gossip finds another topic to focus on, you'd seek out comfort in hearts and bodies more open than that of your stoic spouse. it's only natural that you'd start to look for affection elsewhere, since you're so clearly not going to find it in your partner.

and you get away with it, for a while - that is, until your spouse returns from a meeting with their advisors you were told would take up their entire afternoon hours early, until they find you straddling a flustered stablehand in your marital bed. the servent is dragged away, thrown in the castle's dungeon, and when you argue, when you tell them they're overreacting and demand that they release your temporary lover, they snap at you, instead, bare their teeth and raise their voice, show more emotion than you've ever seen from them as they call you a whore, a harlot, a traitor. they're delusional, seemingly convinced that some great, untouchable love exists between the two of you and that your adultary is less a symptom of being trapped in a marriage of convinence to an inattentive partner and moreso a childish overreaction to how busy they've been, lately, how little time they've had to spend with you. it's alright, they reassure you, even as you attempt to shove their hands away, even as you scream for them to let you go - not that their knights would ever put you above their crowned-heir. they're not going to neglect you, anymore. they'll make you feel so loved, you'll never have to go to anyone else again.

not that you'll ever want to, by the time they're finished.

[distractedducky]

whenever i read stuff like think i think about the dichotomy of the character. of a man very aware that he feels and even likes it, but is super ashamed of it and represses it really hard. even developing an illness tied to emotional suppression (TNG). its says a lot about him and his view of his people that he felt he had to over correct with his children and how it wasn't until Spock was in his late 30s that they started having a real relationship and even later on (after Spock died and came back in the movies) that they really started building on that relationship, though they never really got close. Serek was a bad dad, but the more I understand  Vulcan society and the way it engage in social shaming and universal appropriate practices for expression, the more i can understand how that can mess with an individual and how a man like Serek comes into being. 

In that kind of strict cultural upbringing. you either learn to question everything you were taught and rediscover it for yourself, to accept yourself for who you are and justify your existence through self discovery and individual interpretations of logic, (in terms of religion people either rediscover their religion, change their religion, or leave their religion, but in terms of logic I think it’s more of coming to terms with your own understanding of it) or (and i think this is Serek) you allow yourself to think you are wrong for not following what you were told was correct, your interpritations of realty forever colored by preconceived interpretations provided by someone else and try to stifle yourself. It makes sense that Serek found peace and acclaim on earth, were less was expected of him as a Vulcan surrounded by humans , and were other Vulcans valued his knowledge of human culture. 

His biggest mistake was raising Spock on Vulcan or more accurately believing he had to raise Spock Vulcan and not choosing to raise him as something new, not Vulcan or human. ( instead spock was raised like most mixed raced kids, being told they must be more then either of their cultures yet never enough) 

Serek kind of reminds me of my aunt. she married into my very lax, mixed jewish family from a strict Catholic background. she meet my uncle in college and was pretty chill and free after leaving her family. (Much like Serek on earth) Then they got married, and then she got pregnant and everything changed, she reconnected with her mother (fear of parenthood and returning to her community and parental support lead her to return) and decided she needed to raise her kids Catholic. My uncle didn’t care, (again, lax jew) so my cousins grew up super Catholic, (private Catholic school, church on Sunday's and holidays, including midnight mass, and all the other catholic things I don't really understand). Im not going to lie, it messed with my cousins a bit and it took my aunt far too long to realize that she was subjecting her kids to the rules and people that she herself left when she needed to find herself. 

She’s not a bad mom though, because she grew, she saw she was hurting her kids and recognized that it was her fault, and she's not stubborn, she wanted them to be happy. Even if that meant one dropped out of college to work at a pet store and another moved states away to hang off bridges for a living, with funky tattoos. she now is a happy grandmother of one of my cousin step kid and baby (which she had before marriage). but the drive is their to go back to what you know. What you were told was how you should raid your children.

I also know people who try to raise their kids to fit an ideal, cultural, religious, what have you, to be accepted by people whose opinions shouldn’t matter, because they want to be accepted on some level and if their kid is accepted, then so are they. 

I think Serek doubled down at some point, convinced himself he was doing what was best for his son, and in some way craved the acceptance of his life style though the acceptance of his child. He was convinced he wasn’t Vulcan enough and that Vulcans looked down on him and therefore he looked down on himself and he looked down on his son for anything that he saw as a “failing” of emotionalism. Its all kinds of unhealthy, but the more I read the novels and see Serek happy and in love with Amanda, teasing and playing with words, I just think about the depths of it all. What could have been, and what was. The disconnect between father and son and the deep intrenched expectations and toxicity of higher Vulcan society. 

Sorry for the rant. have been going through a lot of Serek and Amanda stuff and the more i look at the character through the different depiction in cannon and sub cannon the more this stood out to me

things about sarek/amanda from ‘spock’s world’:

sarek read a report on something to the President of the United States in a Texan accent because he’s so good with languages and naturally learned it just like he did many languages as another dialect of English; she thought it was so funny that she wanted him to be her running mate in the next election (whether or not sarek knew it was funny and was actually Making A Joke To Entertain Humans isn’t entirely clear but i’ve GOT to assume that he knew)

all the vulcans came to sarek with their problems because he Knew how to talk to humans and they didn’t.

he learned a ton of Human languages in the sixty years he was there and helped other Vulcans learn English when they were involved with Starfleet.

he likes szechuan food and after he met Amanda they’d have dinner every weekend, often twice in a row.

She was one of his first friends since he’d been so involved in work that he hadn’t really made many real friends back home, mostly work colleagues and they were friends for a long time before they got romantically involved.

she made him laugh out loud for the first time in years because she was angry at him and insulted him and she frequently did so (both insulted him and made him laugh)

He was afraid if he died on earth that his katra would be lost since he was one of the only vulcans there so he was “extra careful crossing the street”

he went to the world series and told T’Pau about it and it fascinated her so much that she asked him to send her a recording of the game

together they essentially invented the Universal Translator which is how they met; she’d studied on Vulcan before meeting him but learned it in a “country bumpkin” accent which he found charming 

he loves when she insults him 

he was made the Ambassador because he’d done so much tourist stuff that he knew tons of languages and liked to hang out in Paris and London and was super young when he was appointed

he didn’t go back to Vulcan for sixty years after going to Earth because he loved it so much 

He got super emotional holding baby Spock for the first time and was hesitant at first because he didn’t know how to deal with a baby but once  he did hold him he found it very pleasant

anyway he’s a bastard but also its the cutest shit i’ve ever read bc he’s so Soft for her

[ofmsfortune]

"cousin," dimitri greeted, a nervousness to his smile that cut at his teeth. "I must confess something you've likely already deduced, but I'm afraid I've never been as quick as you in these matters." for all that dimitri would dare to push the boundaries of his position, second sons always got away with more, he knew that there was a chance he'd only ever be able to admit this truth once. his heart ached & he was desperate for advice, or comfort, or anything really. "I fear I've fallen in love."

robine sighed as she mentioned for him to sit down with her. she had known, had seen this coming. she knew her cousin well, better than she knew some of her brothers, and she had seen the little changes in his demeanour, had watched quietly how sometimes, he would behave  oddly  … and she had wondered. she had not been sure if he would trust her with this, and she would not have been upset had he not. such feelings were private, were cherished treasures of the heart. to keep them hidden inside one’s chest was — perfectly understandable. still, despite her worries, she felt a sliver of  pride  that he had chosen to trust her with this.

but there was no room to pretend, nevertheless. their roles had been decided the day they had been born — they were to play their parts to satisfy their parents’ ambitions. they could pray, they could hope but in the end, some choices would be made for them and not by them. robine herself  hoped,  desperately,  that her parents would consider her wishes,  her feelings,  but she knew that this did not necessarily have to be the case.

but this was not something she had to tell her cousin, this was something he already knew, likely since childhood. and he had surely not come to find her in the garden to hear an old story. no, he had come for something else … perhaps an open ear, though he surely could have sought out lady marcia for this purpose, too.

“ i see, ” she muttered softly, setting aside the book she had been reading. “ do i know… ”

she trailed off, reminding herself that it did not matter, not really. their parents had grand plans and all of them had to play their parts in it. still, despite her concerns, for a moment, she liked to imagine what it would be like if marriage was always about affection and not about politics. it was a nice thought, she had to admit, because it would mean that people who were truly suited would be wed instead of people who were arranged to be married for someone’s ambitions. 

however, she was the only daughter of one of talia’s most powerful men. as much as she wished that she could marry for love, she was not oblivious — whenever someone had approached her father for her hand, it had been about politics, not about her. it was insulting. dimitri, too, was sought after for reasons that were neither his looks nor his personality. he was a second son, something that afforded him some freedom, but he still was meant to inherit their grandfather’s title once the old man died … or was convined to step down. his present role might not make him much of a catch in the eyes of ambitious parents everywhere, but his future … that was a different story.

overcome by — concern, robine closed her book and fully focused on her cousin. this was not easy, for neither of them. “ i can … see if i can find out if your love is meant to be, ” she offered, vague about the specifics. both of them knew that she would not inquire using conventional means, but in case they were overheard, she would prefer not to have said something that could make for a scandal. and full moon  was  coming up, she was meant to assist her father with his reading. perhaps, he would allow her to ask a more specific, personal question.

[justme-living-life]

CO-PARENTING. definition means to parent

to-ge-ther. TOGETHER.

No one told you to have a baby and then separate or divorce.

There are ways to prevent pregnancies. Use them.

When you vow that you to love someone. You stand by your word to do so. You dont take back them words. Bc in that moment. When you stated them. You vowed yourself to the other person. Those words stood true.

This is why I will only have one. ONE. Marriage.

And I am goin to make damn sure that it is.

That no child will be brought in to the mix if we cant get on the same page. Bc if you cant. You shouldnt be married.

Dont sit here and involve other people in your screw up. We do this as a fucking favor to get your child. Granted I would do any.thing for this child. But dont sit here and when it is convinent for you to toss this child back and forth. Dont sit here and play these fucking games. You are a grown ass adult. Act like fucking one.

I aint got time nor the fuckin patience to deal with stupidity. Grow the fuck up.

[mksharmaji]

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