#concert advice

[a-goth-a-go-go]

Here’s a question:

I’m going to a machine girl concert soon and I’ve only since footage of them preforming. If you have been to one of their concerts (which I’m assuming you have) is there any etiquette I should keep in mind of? (I.e. mosh pits, Matt stage-diving, recording the show, etc.)

I probably sound like a nerd but I wanna be respectful to ever around me haha.

Yes! i love this question and i actually have been to a machine girl concert. i can’t fully recall every key detail since it was already over a year ago but i’d say:

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the mosh pits weren’t too bad but you might wanna avoid them especially if you haven’t been to many concerts before.

id say just look at the pit and decide for yourself if you wanna go in, because every concert’s pit has a different vibe.

matt stage diving —

i was really far from the stage so i couldn’t see everything and can’t fully recall if matt dived into the crowd but however i WILL say this: matt DID teleport to my far back side of the venue and it caught me off guard but it was really fun lol. that microphone cord must extend pretty far though

so yes, expect to see the matt machine girl

And also — recording the show is completely fine and you wouldn’t be the only person doing that. People aren’t typically uptight about other people having their phones out since i mean, a good heckin’ chunk of them were doing just that.

the energy at machine girl concerts is literally unmatched, but half of that is the energy matt and sean bring and the other half of that energy is the crowd at the concert. I can’t predict what kind of concert environment the other concertgoers will create with you but from my experience it’s usually a fun one.

{{ Also, just as a general rule of thumb, try to get in a good meal and good hydration before any concert you go to. i’ve gone to concerts on an empty stomach and almost passed out on the way home. it might be common sense but it’s really important, especially if you’re the energetic type at concerts (i’m a chronic headbanger) }}

Overall i feel like the concert etiquette is pretty basic - just try to have fun :)

ps — i’m also seeing them again, sometime in november !

feel free to ask more questions anon (◔‿◔)

[polyamorouspunk]

Punk’s Quick-Guide to Amphitheater Shows:

Thinking about going to see a bigger band in an outdoor amphitheater vs a venue? Here are some of my tips and tricks as someone who has done this a few times:

Get someone to drop you off! Parking is a hassle and it’s a hike. Especially when shows are in the summer heat. Drop off means shorter walk AND shorter line

Ditch the bag! All you need is your phone, keys, money, ticket, water, and medical/other. I have my debit card in a pocket in my cargo shorts that buttons shut, my phone with my ticket in my hand, and if I need water I’ll buy it.

Amphitheaters have food! It’s your standard type of food, chicken tenders, fries, hot dogs, etc.

Bathrooms are nasty but they are your friend. Don’t hold it. It’s not good for you.

If you’re parking get there very early before gates open. If you’re getting dropped off get there when gates open. It will be VERY packed, do not be afraid. There will be many mysterious lines. Ask someone in line what they are waiting for before blindly joining.

When in doubt follow the crowd.

If you are planning on staying for the whole show consider leaving during the last song unless it’s your absolute favorite. If the crowd coming in scares you it’ll be nothing like the crowd coming out.

Consider skipping someone’s set if you want merch. Merch tents are most crowded just before and just after shows. The concert I’m at right now has multiple merch tents and the ability to order online. They run out of my size often, so I ordered online and it’s being held for me at a merch tent until I come get it.

Whether or not you want a lawn chair is up to you and your personal comfort. I leave this to individual preference. I was lucky enough to get into the pre-order for this show and I got actual seats.

Have fun!! No point in being there and spending $100+ to not have fun <3

[lady-jay]

The Concert Experience

Seeing Ateez perform live in Chicago was absolutely amazing and I am still reeling. The vocals were beautiful, the choreo on point, and the showmanship spectacular. There is most definitely a difference between seeing these men perform on a screen and a live experience. My advice- if you have the opportunity to see them in concert, do it.

I am someone with a high J score- I like to have a plan, down to the details, well in advance. So, for those who are like me, or who perhaps simply wonder, I hope I can provide a quick bit of helpful advice for a comfortable and enjoyable concert experience.

Book your hotel well in advance- those closest to the venue will book out fast

Have plenty of money set aside for the 'when you get there'- be sure to account for travel costs (rideshare/cab fees, parking fees, food, last minute store runs, merch, concessions at the venue, etc.)

Join an online fan group- I joined a discord server soon after I got my tickets. It helped me keep track of updates, suggestions, and info from people who'd been at earlier performances. It also put me into contact with fans local to Chicago who had great insights.

Be ready to wait outside- fortunately, it was a beautiful evening in Chicago on the 10th with a lovely breeze keeping us all cool- but I heard that some of the other areas, especially in the south, weren't as fortunate. Prepare accordingly.

Wear comfortable shoes- kpop fans like to dress and we all definitely appreciate each other's style, but you will be on your feet while waiting and then during most of the concert. Also, if you're near enough to the venue, you might be walking to get there and back!

Get a clear concert bag- some venues require them, others might not. Regardless, they make getting through that security stop very simple. I got one with the band's logo stamped on it from Etsy super easily.

Dress for your venue- again, that atiny style is fabulous, but it was hot in the arena because there were literally thousands of people packed in, jumping, screaming, and generally being excited. Also, if you're at an outdoor venue, account for the weather.

Plan for traffic- getting to the venue wasn't so bad. Getting out was a different story. Be prepared for backed up traffic and a long-ish wait.

Stay hydrated- be sure to drink water during your time there- especially if you're also consuming soda or alcohol. It's hot, you'll probably be screaming, treat your body right.

Be aware of what you're getting into- you will be in a massive crowd where the personal bubble does not exist. There will be flashing lights, it will be loud, people will ask you to shove over so they can get out to pee, and someone might have their lightstick in your face when it starts blinking. Keep a good attitude and just know that in a concert this size, that's to be expected!

Use good judgement when bringing children- when all the grown-ups stand, the little one won't be able to see the stage. Also, please do remember that some of these men have a penchant for skin exposure and hip-thrusting.

I hope this is helpful to those who are perhaps attending a large concert for the first time! It will be an insane amount of fun- it just helps to be prepared so that no rainclouds come in to ruin that concert high. -Lady Jay

[forlorn-crows]

Crow I'm freaking out

It's August 1st and my first ritual (and first concert literally ever) is in 29 days. I'm practicly VIBRATING I'm so excited but I'm also stupid nervous. I have breezy clothes, ear plugs, tickets ready to be downloaded, I'm good on that, I'm just so worried with this being my first concert I'm going to forget something or mess something up? I wanted to draw all the ghouls and give them to them but found out they weren't doing a meet and greet when I bought the tickets so that's some anxiety I don't have to worry about but I seen someone said they accept stuff at the merch booth?? I didn't even know merch booths was a thing really

Sorry for spamming you a bit, you're just my favorite ghost blogger and I know you've been to a ritual before and could get advice on anything I'm forgetting 😅 thank you <3

okay first things first; you are NOT alone in feeling nervous, let me start with that. ive been to many a concert, and for some reason this one's making me quite anxious too (mines on the 12th! ahh!)! but listen, ghost as your first concert? that is GREAT choice

some things to consider; look up your venue's policy on bags, what can you bring/not bring? some venues have weird things on there, so you might want to double check that. for example, someone in front of me had to throw away their chain from their wallet, couldn't wear it in. only bring it what you really need. last time i only brought my id, credit card, car keys (JUST the car key, my other keys were IN the car lol) and your phone (where i presume your ticket will also be). i recommend pockets when you can, a small back without too many pockets for quick check-in as you go through security. for your sake and theirs!

if you're gonna be in direct sun; SUNSCREEN. PLS. FOR THE LOVE OF SATAN. protecting your skin is super important.

ear plugs are IMPORTANT TOO! im glad you have them. you will absolutely be able to hear everything, dont fret about that.

i might also recommend sturdy/closed toed/comfy shoes. its so easy to get your feet stepped on accidentally for whatever reason , no matter if youre in the pit or have a seat. and you dont want your feet to hurt halfway through either

i also wouldnt bother with complicated accessories or things that are easily lost/pulled (i.e. long necklaces, dangly earrings, lots of rings), they just become a hassle. to me, anyway.

as far as the drawings go, i havent heard about being able to gift anything via the merch table (usually theyre situated by the entrance to the venue where they sell all the cool stuff!). lots of people test their luck by throwing shit on stage at the end of the show but, personally, im not the biggest fan of doing that. also i cant throw for shit lol. i know a lot of people are sad about the no papa meet and greet. i wish the ghouls still participated in those like they used to way back when, but once cardi came about i believe that stopped.

bottom line is, dress comfy and have a good time! let me know if you have any more specific questions

also your FAV ghost blog?? lksjdfdslk i dont know how to respond to that ahhh

[beaaareputation]

what is k-pop concert etiquette bc i’m going to one this week but i’ve never been to one

[no-psi-nan]

Considering that there are actual fake fortune tellers in the series and that Aiura presumably works with a few of them for some time, it's pretty surprising that we never get Aiura's opinion on fortune fakers.

🤔 Like does she respect the hustle? Is she only okay with it if they're basically doing undercover therapy? Does she not realize the others are fakers? Does she think it's possible for other people to have milder versions of her powers? 🤔

[enbyfrogz]

WAIT!! does anyone know if you can get into an 18+ venue if ur accompanied by an adult?? its the boston concierge city winery, i desperately need y’all’s help 🙏🙏

HOLY FUCKING SHIT WILL WOOD IS TOURING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IM GLING CRAZY GOING INSANE THIS IS A MOMENT IN HISTORY I CAN FINALLY GET TICKETS THIS TIME ADJDAHDISIJWHDJSKWDH

[itsaspectrumcomic]

Hey I'm an autistic person ( Also I have ADHD ) What are some of Your recommendations for going to a concert I have issued with people yelling at my direction And the feeling of certain things It's going to be a smaller concert , so Less people But what are Some things I should bring

Earplugs (I used loops until I lost them 😭), headphones if you think you'll need extra hearing protection, a stim toy you can fit in a pocket or bag and take out easily, and ideally a person you feel safe with who can help if you get overwhelmed.

I also recommend checking out the venue in advance if you can (sometimes they have pics online) and figuring out where things like bathrooms are and if there are any quiet rooms you can go to for a break.

And remember it's ok to leave if things get too much! There's no point forcing yourself to stay once you're past the point of enjoyment.

I hope you enjoy the concert! 😊

[tumbler-polls]

Advice with Tumbler Polls

Anon said: Hi guys, this question may be a bit niche and unusual, but I really gotta ask someone. So, I'm a very anxious and socially awkward person, but there's a concert by a band I like in my town, and I decided to go. I don't have friends or family members who are into that kind of music, so I'll be there by myself. Now, the thing is, I'm a bit of a lifeless person, not visibly enthusiastic. I'm afraid I may be sorta killing the vibe with my presence. It's a small venue and I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable, questioning why I'm even there. So I keep wondering, should I go, or should I stay at home? Would you be mad if you went to a concert and there was someone sorta giving Darcy at the ball vibes?

We got a few such questions (i.e., asking for advice), so let's give it a shot. Feel free to expand on your answer in the comments / tags ⬇️

[strangethings-everywhere]

So here’s a question for the clikkies who’ve been in the pit for their concerts before: how early should you show up to get as close to the stage as possible? I want to be as close as I can get, like close enough to hold Tyler up during holding onto you

It’s also one of their columbus shows so idk if that changes things

[fivewholeminutes]

so. wembley.

Once I have finally gathered my wits the words did not want to stop coming. This rambling is long; apologies for that. And for the messed up tenses I hate tenses we only have one past tense why is English like this

No photos/videos yet, they are still not properly checked/deleted/edited by me.

It was. Unsurprisingly. One of the best days of my life. But also, I don't remember much from my life, so don't trust me on this one. (Kidding, it totally WAS one of the best days of my life). And uhh... I have a problem with processing events and emotions, so it still feels like I have seen it on a TV screen instead of, you know, actually, physically having been there? Idk how to explain that, I still have to convince my brain that I've been there. I feel detached from it completely. But!! I!! Have!! Been!! There!!

I woke up so early that foxes were still roaming the streets. Didn't talk much with people around me in the queue (hello anxiety), but they were lovely! I signed the blue flag for iii from me & Lia, got the sticker for Projekt Atlantic, received some bracelets, exchanged some bracelets, put some sea creatures tattoos on people (LIA I FORGOT TO GIVE YOU THE WHALE!!!), slept on a pavement, bought merch for myself and others (I've never had anyone to buy concert merch for before, it's such a nice feeling 🥺).

And queueing for so long was so fucking worth it! Third row, baby!! For the first time in the middle!! (Which was my downfall later, but the pre-show me was not aware of that just yet). I couldn't actually hear HEALTH that well, but I really liked their drummer, he was enjoying himself and his joy was contagious. (I've checked them later though and. Last album, my beloved.) During the break, well, you all know what was happening, I have been liveblogging everything (sorry about that <3). The moment someone in the crowd literally screeched when they saw the new masks on instagram was a blessing, I wouldn't have survived seeing them in new masks without a warning. Also, my blind ass would probably realise 3 songs in that they have different masks, I shit you not. Besides, it was super fun having a mental breakdown here on tumblr with y'all <3

When Espera entered the stage, everything else stopped being of any importance to me. I remember my first thought was "oh yeah, sure, the ladies are dressed up and moving like this and you expect me to focus on anything else that is happening on this stage?". And of course, my second thought was "I GOTTA TAKE PICTURES FOR DARYA". Naturally, I was trying to keep up with everything else anyway. I haven't seen ii all too well though and it makes me sad :( Alas. I've had a good vantage point for the ladies. Yeah. Brain went brrrrr every time I was looking at them. Where was I again-

I was still coughing at that time. I got a terrible coughing fit after literally 3 short screams during HEALTH and my idiot ass has left all the lozenges except one in the hotel room an hour before the door opening. I thought I would have to spend the rest of the night not singing along nor screaming and felt utterly heartbroken for a few minutes, but after my Holy Grail Lozenge (and a LOT of water from the venue's crew) my cough has abandoned me for the duration of the whole ritual (thank you, Sleep). Even though, when Sam told us that we have to sing, my only thought was "I CAN'T FUCKING SING EITHER, MATE". But I did. Oh, I so fucking did. I sung my lungs out and did not cough even ONCE.

But you know. I was exhausted, anxious, surrounded by strangers and had more sugar in my veins than red cells at that point, so I wasn't my best self. I really thought the karaoke was for shits and giggles at first. "Oh yeah, it's The Most Popular Song, let's see how it sounds when 10k people sing it without the singer's help!", you know. Thought it was for the recording the announcements warned us about. But then we sung Granite. Ohhhkay. And then The Love You Want - certainly not a song they would leave for an impropmtu singalong. It was then that I (belatedly) realised that yeah, something really was wrong and so my heart broke again. So many preparations! Their biggest gig so far! Even iii managed to be there! And something had to happen!! Specifically!! To Vessel!! Of all people!! That was just not fair. He totally didn't deserve this. But it's just life and its endless fucking bad surprises for everyone, huh.

I didn't have enough time to collect all the broken pieces of my heart from the sticky floor and mend them after this realisation, because after Vessel joined the singing for the last few lines of TLYW, he dropped to his knees in front of us crying and thanking everyone. That sight is now carved into my brain. This is when I realised the 3rd row was a mistake. The psychic damage it gave me is irrevocable. Do you have those moments that you will never forget? A few seconds of an (usually traumatic) experience that will haunt you forever, replaying in your mind like a broken record? It was a bit like this for me. It wasn't traumatic, mind you, but it was definitely something that made a permanent dent in my heart and a home in my brain. And I wouldn't change it anyway.

Another thing that made me think that I will just fall down and never get up was iii & iv's hug. It was. So full of love and reassurence. Idk, you could just feel that emitting from them, okay? I was standing there thinking "yeah sure, just fucking murder me tonight instead, okay. Should've kept staring at Espera only-". Ah yes. The ladies. Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. Where was I again-

The goosebumps when the whole venue yelled "they won't be missing you" during Nazareth, oh my fucking god. On my previous rituals, in way smaller venues, there's always been a handful of people screaming it. And everyone doing it? Unparalleled feeling. Bordering on the shrimp emotions scale.

The lights were spectacular. I cannot describe how amazing the light show was. I am sending a kiss to each and every light crew member.

Also, Vessel being more emotional during the ritual as a whole. The TLYW moment was the worst for me, but there were many others. (Ascensionism and Bloodsport stabbing me with a rusty knife the most.) I mean, who could've blamed him for the emotions, he would probably be very emotional even without the voice issues. Who wouldn't be!! It was a big night, after all. God, it must have been so difficult for him, I really, really fucking hope the love coming from his bandmates, crew and the crowd was enough to help him focus on the good parts of the evening only. And!! It wasn't even that bad!!! Sure, he lost his voice for a while, but once it was back you could!! Barely!! Hear!! The difference!! I have a whole new level of respect for Vessel because of that. And for staying onstage with us for the songs he couldn't sing. Didn't know I could respect him even more than I already did, but hey. Love being surprised like that. I have seen concerts where the singers were singing way worse live while being completely healthy. Like sure, you could notice he's not using so many uhh, how do you call this in English, vocal ornamentations??? and that his voice is strained, but it was still beautiful. Take care of your voice now though, dude, jfc. Thanks for the sacrifice, much appreciated, but TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF OR SO HELP ME GOD I WILL FUCKING FIND YOU- (kidding, kidding. or am i.) I also liked that he was leaving the more screamy moments in songs for us. Aiming the microphone at us, positive we'll have his back. Like yeah, yeah, other bands do that relatively often, but it's not something they usually do, you know.

I can't vouch for everyone in the crowd, but I sure as fuck did not have a SINGLE thought that the show sucks because of his voice issues. Like it didn't even occur to me. Honest to god. I was shocked when I saw on tumblr that people were leaving? Asking for a refund????????????? I was having the time of my life singing those songs. It was a once-in-a-lifetime experience, probably!! Who can say they karaoked whole 3 songs with the band playing for them live?? Your local karaoke bar could never. (Bonus points, you could hear Espera better bc of that! Yes, I know, you are not supposed to hear backing vocals too loud in general, I'm just saying it was nice hearing them, bc usually I hear them on recordings only.)

Yeah, sure I was disappointed after the show that there was no Euclid, but that's just me, a total whore for Euclid. It's a completely different thing than being a bitch who leaves halfway, because something out of the ordinary has been happening.

Anyways. I would like to wish all the crowdsurfers a very fuck you. Hope you will all step on a lego every day for the rest of your lives <3

Crowdsurfers and constant giving away of water (which I understand, it was terribly hot there and it was needed) were a bit distracting, I missed some things because of the commotion, the drum solo has been disrupted by me getting a (fortunately very light) kick in the mouth and DRUM SOLO IS SACRED. I HOPE THE CROWDSURFER WHO DECIDED TO GO UP IN THAT MOMENT WILL STEP ON 3 LEGOS DAILY. IT'S LITERALLY THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF THE RITUAL FOR ME AND THEY HAVE RUINED IT. Thanks to another crowdsurfer, I missed the moment the band was throwing stuff into the crowd and I promised Lia I will catch a pick/drumstick for them!!!!!!! I've had a banner for this occassion and all!!!!! And!!!!! For the whole time things were flying from the scene!!!! I have been under someone's legs and ass!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Side note: Vessel was throwing away his rings. That's so fucking cool, ahh.

All in all, half of the things that happened there, I've learned from tumblr. The announcements about the recording, people leaving, Vessel being covered in runes (I WAS STANDING RIGHT BEFORE HIM AND DIDN'T SEE ANYTHING. A N Y T H I N G. I HATE BEING A BLIND IDIOT), the Espera ladies laughing at iii for not coming to the photo, hell, even Vessel trying to get his attention. I have NO idea what I've been doing back then, it's a blur again lmao. And. The most important thing: Vessel's "thank you". I didn't catch it back then. I don't hear it on my recording. Tbh I couldn't believe y'all for a long while that it really happened (I'm sorry). But it did and you know what? I'm glad the broken pieces of my heart were left on the arena's floor earlier during the show. I don't want them anymore.

I would also like to thank that one security guy in huge headphones who was our warning that another fucking crowdsurfer was coming our way. I hope the headphones guy's pillow is always cold on both sides, his skin clear, his crops- and so on. Our hero <3

There was also a moment during Atlantic (another important moment disrupted. Smh) where 2 security persons dived into the crowd?? I still have no idea what was happening, bc if someone faints for example, they are always brught to the barricade by the crowd and security picks them up, I've never seen security getting into the crowd before. And because of that, people around me were talking loudly during Atlantic. Kill kill murder kill

Still, Projekt Atlantic was a huge success and I am so proud of the organisers!! They're in the same category of lovely people as the big headphones security guy

Sending a kiss to @murderofcrow for this gif 🖤

To sum up. I will forever be grateful for this band. This music has activated the dormant parts of my mind. I am making art again. I am meeting cool people because of them. I have people to talk about it with who are as excited about it as I am. For the first time in ages I really feel alive again. And life is not good, far from it, to be completely honest with you, they haven't magically fixed all my problems, but I do have something that actually fucking works on me. I know Vessel wouldn't agree, but they are saving people. And you all, lovely ST pocket of tumblr motherfuckers who are reading this, you are saving people too.

And, last but not least!! In hot pink, because I can! Thanks to this ritual I could finally meet @vesselsscarlet and @thevenomousseprent in person!!!!!!!!! I love you guys, you are amazing and I can't wait to see you again 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 You've made me feel so loved that weekend and it's something I haven't felt in a while!!

[dreamgirlvibes]

Breezy Concert 2024 🫶🏽💗🤞🏽😍😮‍💨

[archiebaldo1414]

Hey there, I’ve got POTS and a bunch of sensory issues but am trying to figure out if it’s even remotely possible for me to go to a concert. Does anyone in a similar boat have any advice, or have any tips to make it possible? Hozier is going to be very local and it feels like I have to find a way to get there����

My biggest concerns are

- Vibration sensitivities

- Standing for long periods

- I also get sensory overload quite easily especially from crowds

If anyone can give me some tips or share their experience please do, feel free to message me, anything is appreciated:)) I can give more details if you message me but I didn’t want to make this post even longer than it already is. I also realize this isn’t really the place to ask but I follow a lot of Spoonie blogs (if that’s what you’d call it I don’t really know I’m pretty new to tumblr) so I thought it might be fine. My guess is this isn’t going to be something I can handle but I want to be really sure before I dismiss the idea. As I’m sure lots of chronically ill people can relate too it’s easy to feel like I’m missing out on everything

Thanks☺️

[hexjulia]

you know the stereotype of the DIY dad right. well mine is the exact opposite of that. Truly truly no understanding of why i make anything and trying to talk to him about making something (asking if he has powertool use tips lol) is asking for a refrain of "but why" + "i don't think you can" + "that seems difficult you could abandon it" + "ugh why would you" alright old man you go back to listening to lana del rey and misunderstanding politics and let me build this cabinet in peace.

[oddly-twisted-muses]

I'm going to a Will Wood Concert in November! And I'm already starting to freak out over what to wear.

[wishitweresummer]

Actually freaking out!!!

Tomorrow I meet Dream!

And my online best friends!

And probably more people from MCYT fandom if tomorrow’s show goes like the other ones.

My heart has been speeding up all day whenever I think about it.