#commoninterest

[bhb-equanimitimmarcescible]

« Vos enfants naîtront dans un monde avec deux soleils (astre et fusion nucléaire). Ils ne connaîtront jamais plus la guerre pour les ressources. Vous pourrez leur dire que vous vous souvenez de l'époque où la Terre suffoquait, sans étoile brillante dans le ciel et sans animaux dans les contrées et où les gens craignaient la vie sans courant. Vous pouvez leur dire que nous étions seuls à y croire, que nous ne pouvions pas montrer le projet expérimental avant bien des décennies et nous dire : "Il y a une porte de sortie au réchauffement climatique, et un accès à une évolution de la civilisation". Un jour, les enfants du nouveau soleil pourront raconter à vos enfants le jour où tout le monde a saisi l’enjeu et réalisé que nous n'étions que des locataires de ce monde. Nous avons reçu un nouveau bail et un avertissement. #Hope23 #energysupply #food #children #healthcare #education #sociability #informationaccess #knowledge #culture #transmission #tolerance #solidarity #labour #commoninterest #mutualtrade #wealth #progress #prosperity #peace #felicity https://www.instagram.com/p/Cm7r31xNLbp/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[wicked-mind]

Summary: Short and sweet, with a dash of Alpine.

A/N: I’ve been gone. I know. I’m the worst. But hopefully you guys still love me? Also posted from my phone so it may be messy.

As always, any likes, reblogs, and interactions are deeply appreciated.

*Gifs note mine.

“Don’t be mad…”

Bucky freezes at the words coming from you and raises an eyebrow curiously before setting his duffel bag down and slipping off his shoes by the door. He could never be mad at you, but usually when conversations start that way, it seems he always ends up mildly frustrated one way or another. He slowly strides over to you, reaching out to grasp your hips in his hands and planting a soft kiss to your forehead, before leaning back and narrowing his eyes at you, “What did you do, sweetheart?”

“Well…. You know how I follow all those accounts with animals?” You ask before chewing on your bottom lip and gazing up at him from under your lashes, your eyes widening to hopefully pull off those ‘sad puppy dog eyes.’

Bucky nods and one corner of his mouth curves upwards towards a smile. It was a regular occurance of you sending him pictures of animals, mostly cats. Or even poking him awake in the middle of the night and squealing when you saw a silly video of animals, “I do.”

You continue your assault on your bottom lip a moment longer, gauging his reactions before you turn on your toes, disappearing into the bathroom. Bucky hears you make a soft cooing noise before you reappear with a white fluff ball in your hands, one blue eye one green eye peering at Bucky curiously from the safety of your arms.

Bucky sighs at the floof and looks at you, “What did you do?”

“He was going to be put down, love.” You whine out softly, your bottom lip trembling a bit at the thought of harming a defenseless being.

“Why?” His left eyebrow raises slightly, his eyes returning to the white snowball that’s staring at him. The fluff is cute enough, it would’ve been adopted.

You look at the floof curled in your arms, “Nobody wanted to adopt him… he was too different…” you say softly as you gently place the cat on the floor.

Bucky looked at you confused, knowing you were a softie. He loved it about you. You smoothed out his rough edges. His eyes flickered to the cat on the floor and that’s when he saw it. This white cat was missing a limb, its left arm was gone and it started to slowly walk around on its three paws after doing a stretch.

“You can’t say no to that!” You say, gesturing towards the cat as it rubbed on Bucky’s leg as if to mark him as his new person. You smile and declare proudly, “I already named him Alpine.”

Bucky looks at you with a sigh before scooping up the cat and holding it out in front of him, “Alpine, huh?” His eyes flicker to you to watch you nod enthusiastically, “Well, buddy, my girl is a sucker for damaged goods.” He chuckles, slowly bringing the cat to his chest, his lips twitching to a smile when the cat rubs the top of its head under Bucky’s chin with a soft chirp and a purr, “Alright, Alpine. Welcome home.”

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[nikidanger]

I did a thing with a friend. Share if you like =]

[orphancookie69]

Common Values vs Common Interests

I recently watched a dating reality tv show on Netflix, called Sexy Beasts, where people dressed up in elaborate looks and got to know each other for the humans they were underneath. In getting to know each other, they had a first date with all options and then eliminated one based off first impression. Often times, someone was eliminated due to a lack of common interests. Seems logical right? 

Someone else watching the same show has a different perspective: “Common interests are over rated.” Now, two people choosing to be together have to have something in common right? This person would say, “Common Values are more important than common interests.” I myself would disagree with that, but to be fair to all parties-I have not thought that much about it. 

So, what are “Common Values”? I took to Google: 

Integrity (Ethics, Honesty)

Respect (Trust, Dignity)

Excellence (Quality, Performance)

Responsibility (Accountability, Commitment)

Teamwork (Collaboration, Cooperation)

Innovation (Creativity, Ingenuity)

Achievement (Results, Success)

Fairness (Diversity, Inclusive)

Care (Service, Compassion)

Passion (Enthusiasm, Fun)

Leadership (Influence, Competitive Advantage)

Learning (Continuous Improvement, Knowledge)

Customers (Customer Satisfaction)

People (Employee Engagement)

Safety (Health)

Community (Corporate Citizenship)

Environment (Sustainability)

Source: https://www.fergusonvalues.com/17-common-values/

I think it is really interesting how the first link that comes up is a business page, like these are things a business wants to be to connect with the customer or employee? Given who made the comment, this makes perfect sense. They would also say, “Kids and Family are everything, otherwise, why build an empire?” 

Common Interests I believe also have their importance. At its very core, being interested in your partner and therefore being interested in their shows/games/hobbies/etc is essential to any long term romantic relationship. It is a sign of connection, and connection defeats any problems big or small.  Everything is connected, and something that starts as small as “we watch star trek together” turns into “we experienced this together” turns into “we dressed up for Halloween as bridge officers”....which becomes the memory you turn to when you are pissed off at your partner and try to think of a time you were not mad at them. 

Commonality, no matter what word you put after that, is important. What brings us together is more important than what our differences are. Commonality and Differences are one of the many dichotomies that are fundamental to life. You want to have enough in common that you meet on common ground, but celebrate and learn from the differences-no matter what kind of relationship it is. As people, more connects us than separates us if you look with clear unbiased eyes.  

[anjaneidhardt-blog]

depatriarchise design *!Labs!*

Ongoing workshop series, developed and organised in collaboration with Maya Ober.

depatriarchise design *!Labs!* is a series of workshops dealing with politics of design and artefacts, trying to bridge between theory and practice, developing hands-on approaches to discussing the societal issues within design practice, through an intersectional feminist lens.

Each *!Lab!* is an educational experiment trying to expand and to question the established ways of teaching, learning, producing and displaying design. The *!Labs!* are rooted and inspired by feminist pedagogy produced in the course of decades, and couldn’t come to live without them. They are also spaces for dialogue, personal expressiveness, caring and unlearning – they are never meant to be finished, rather form part of a larger process of depatriarchising design. Using the existing online platform of depatriarchise design, we will share questions, assignments, reflections to engage into an exchange with the wider community to participate in the co-creation of knowledge and design productions.

Our *!Labs!* are spaces where participants can explore design from feminist perspectives, exchange ideas, find allies, and create hands-on tools for their daily design practice.

depatriarchisedesign.com/labs/

The Visual Identity of depatriarchise design *!Labs!*

Nina Paim and Corinne Gisel from common-interest, a non-profit cultural organisation based in Basel, were not only asked to develop a programme for one of the *!Labs!*, but also commissioned to design the overall visual identity of depatriarchise design *!Labs!*.

common-interest says: “We propose to use the visual identity of ‘depatriarchise design *!Labs!*’ as a platform to support and promote young female type designers. Simply put, for each workshop, we will select and purchase a typeface by a different female designer. By creating a singular identity for each workshop, the visual identity of ‘depatriarchise design *!Labs!*’ will grow into a diverse set of positions. At the same time, the identity will function as a type-specimen that promotes emerging names and thereby becomes a feminist tool for graphic design in and of itself.”

The first three *!Labs!* feature the following type faces:

Vinila by Flora de Carvalho

Nikolai by Franziska Weitgruber

Chimera by Maria Doreuli

depatriarchise design

depatriarchise design is a practice-led research platform that examines the complicity of design in the reproduction of oppressive systems, focusing predominantly on patriarchy, using intersectional feminist analysis. The platform is currently run by Berlin-based Anja Neidhardt and Basel-based Maya Ober.

common-interest

common-interest is a non-profit creative practice based in Basel. Their mission is to bridge socially and culturally relevant insight—scientific, scholarly, journalistic, artistic, or otherwise—and broad audiences through creative means of storytelling and mediation. In short, they are dedicated to making research public. They apply designerly ways of thinking across various disciplines such as writing, editing, publishing, curating, and exhibition-making. Founded by Corinne Gisel and Nina Paim in 2018, common-interest initiates its own productions, takes on commissioned projects, and offers its expertise to non-profit, public sector, and philanthropic clients.

depatriarchise design *!Labs!* is supported by the cultural department of the city of Basel.

[ravenloon]

Here’s an invite to my Community - Mötley Crüe: http://aminoapps.com/c/Motley_Crue Come join darlings (I am not a leader just helping spread the word) #amino #cruehead #motleycrue #crue #tommylee #nikkisixx #mickmars #vinceneil #glammetal #commoninterests #makefriends https://www.instagram.com/p/CRUvMBDMNSz/?utm_medium=tumblr

[elisamacellari]

New illo on @donnamoderna Finding common interests 🌕

[capucebrise]

To celebrate the end of the year, I have decided to highlight the 10 points that made 2018 so special to me. 1. I got engaged to the man who has been sharing my life for the last 11 years. We are getting married in september and I have a strong suspicion that Bruno only proposed to have an epic bachelor party with his friends 😏😆 #Orléans #changeoflife #lifestyle #wedding #soon #manofmylife #happy #goals #travels #adventures #commoninterests #couple #selfie #instacouple #mariage #bientôt #objectif #grateful #gratitude #love #amour #happiness (à Orléans, France) https://www.instagram.com/p/Brv7hDynQmy/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=12guq20aiagg

[politicalscienceview]

📖 Associations of States 📖

✒Nature of International Associations of States: When two or more states have interests in common,

they may join in some form of the international association for joint regulation of their common interests.

If informing the union, the states give up their sovereignty and external independence to such an extent that

they cease to the states; the result is not an association of states but a new state. Associations of states consist of members

who retain a sufficient degree of independence to continue to the state after the union is formed. The union itself does not constitute a state.

The usual method of forming international associations is by treaty agreement on the part of the states concerned.

🔗 https://www.politicalscienceview.com/associations-of-states/

[internationaldayofhappiness]

#Volunteering broadens your support network and creates strong ties with others in your community, your country and the world. 

[reicapital]

Real estate investing is a business and like every other business it requires planning📑, execution💪🏾, and proper management🧠. Successful businesses build a team🦸‍♂️🦸‍♀️🦸 of trust worthy individuals who share a common interest🤑💰😁😉. Understanding that competition can be the ultimate form of cooperation🤝🏾. #commoninterests #education #communication #realestateinvesting #buildwealth #privatemoneylender #privatemoney #timeismoney #worktogether #beanentrepreneur (at Fluvanna County, Virginia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CGv-fzoFysn/?igshid=p6u620bf0ua8

[devin-it-y]

find the one that’s your type of perfect crazy make sure your theirs 😜 #yourtype #soulmate #yourbestfriend #notetoself📝 #thickandthin #sicknessandhealth #tildeath #lifetimegoals❤️❤️❤️ #goals❤️ #mutual #commoninterests #similiarinterests #flourish #loyalty #thatonceinalifetimelove https://www.instagram.com/p/CFldAgIJNwI7F4NzjPod-N2rXydHkLCyDC0pDo0/?igshid=1x449suh91w1u

[metalbuckaroo]

Hiiiii!!!!! Can I request a one shot where Bucky wakes up from a nightmare of him killing his wife (he’s walking over bodies of people he killed and then zemo snaps him out of the winter soldier and when he sees the bodies he starts tearing up but when he sees Y/N, his wife, as part of the bodies, he rushes to her and starts to pat her face and tell her to wake up and then he starts to cry and scream his heart out. Then when he wakes up startled cz he’s never had a nightmare like that, she asks him if everything is okay and he says yes then later that day he becomes distant and angst and fluffy happy ending plzzz

Can they also have a little boy named Steve and is 3 years old but smarter than most 3 year olds cz of the supersoldier serum he inherited from both parents (Reader is Steve Rogers younger sister and she also became a supersoldier with him)

Family

Summary: the ask seems like a pretty good summary honestly

Warnings: mentions of death, blood, trauma, nightmares, angsty asf, mention of pregnancy, fluffy, lots of emotions

AU: Bucky x Rogers!Reader

AN: I looooved this request so much, I really hope I did the beautiful idea the justice it deserves ❤ the bold and italic is the nightmare, I did indeed cry a little while writing this. Its a bit sad.

Requests are always open!

MASTERLIST

(@commoninterest made the mood board)

Bucky should've been use to the nightmares by now, even though he didn't have as many, he should've been able to pull himself out of them easily like how you showed him; check for clocks, count your fingers, etc. But, this one felt so real, so different.

There was so much blood and carnage, lifeless bodies scattered a small field that he was walking through as a voice echoed in his ears; command words that he hadn't heard in so long.

He looked around at the familiar faces of the corpses, tears stinging his eyes from the memories of each of them.

"No-" his voice was strained, the lump in his throat nearly blocking the sound as he rushed to the one body that nearly tore him apart, his blood running cold.

He stumbled and tripped over bodies, repeating himself over and over. "No, no, no-" He skidded to his knees, grabbing your hand to feel for any pulse as he shoved one of the other corpses off of your legs and pulled you onto his thighs.

"Please, no." He whimpered, holding your cheeks as tears streaked his blood and dirt caked face, dropping onto yours.

Bucky's attention turned to Zemo who stood in the midst of everything, completely clean. "What did you do?!" He boomed, chest heaving with the heavy sobs. "What did you do. Soldat."

He looked back down to your face, gently shaking your head and stroking his thumb over your cheekbone. "C'mon, wake up." He sobbed, vision blurry from the uncontrollable tears rolling out.

"Please, baby! Please, wake up! Don't leave me! You said you wouldn't leave me!" Bucky croaked, a blubbering mess as he cradled your limp body in his arms and held you close to his chest.

An explosive, guttural wail ripped from his chest as he clutched onto you, his whole body shaking from the screams and weeps that tore through his throat. His pained cries and shrills loud echoing off of the trees.

He took a shaky breath and moved his hand to your stomach, shuddering before squeezing his eyes shut and repeating the same phrase like you'd told him. "It's not real, it's not real, it's not-"

Bucky jerked awake, room still dark as his hand grasped at the empty spot next to him that made panic surge through his body. "Sugar?" He called, sitting up in the bed to look around the empty room. "Sweets, where you at?" His chest started heaving when all he got was silence.

It couldn't have been real. There was no way it was real, he just saw and touched your face last night. You were right beside him, tucked into his side when he went to sleep and your spot was still warm.

The bedroom door cracked open and some relief washed over him, your form slipping into the room. "I had to pee, are you okay?" Your soothing voice said, delicate hands reaching out to cup his cheeks. "Y-yeah. I'm fine, just a bad dream, I guess. I don't remember." He lied, gently holding onto your wrists.

"Steven is gonna be up soon, lets start some breakfast. I'll make you some coffee. Okay, stud?" He nodded at your offer and swung his legs off of the bed, walking with you downstairs.

Bucky helped cook breakfast before going to his son's room, the three year old boy that was his fathers portrait; dark hair and sparkling blue eyes, a smile to match and smart as a whip thanks to the super soldier serum that coursed through his veins from you both.

"Mommy made breakfast, bud. Let's go eat." Bucky smiled, lifting the boy into his left arm before heading back downstairs. "Are you okay, daddy? You look sad." Steve frowned, holding Bucky's cheeks in his small hands. "Sad? How can I be sad when I got you and your mom?" He smiled. "Mommy gets sad sometimes."

"Well, she is growing a baby, she's allowed to get sad. It's a hard job to do."

Bucky tried to go along with his day like normal, it was only a night terror after all; it wasn't going to actually happen.

But, everytime he'd look down at the small bump of his second child growing in your belly that barely stretched the fabric of your tank top, it made his heart pound and head feel light; like he was going to pass out and throw up all at the same time.

So, after breakfast he placed a short, sweet kiss to your lips and hid away in his office for the rest of the day; the spare room with boxes in it that would be a nursery soon enough.

You didn't think anything of it at first, he hadn't been home from a mission for very long and probably had paperwork to fill out or go over. Steven had asked a couple times if his dad was going to play today and you assured him that Bucky would tomorrow.

It wasn't until bedtime when you were tucking your sleepy son into bed that you knew something was up; Bucky never missed bedtime unless he was gone for work.

"I think daddy's sad." Steven frowned, clutching the teddy bear Bucky had brought home from wakanda right before he was born; a gift from Shuri. "He's just working, honey. I'm sure he'll spend the whole day with you tomorrow to make up for it." You smiled, tucking his blanket under his legs.

"Is he thinking about Uncle Steve again?" Your sons soft sleepy voice made your heart swell, smoothing a hand over his dark hair. "He might just be, baby. But, don't you worry about that. Get some rest, we'll go to the park tomorrow."

A gentle kiss to his forehead and a click on of his nightlight, you headed to Bucky's office down the hallway.

"You okay in here?" Your eyes looked at the untouched dinner plate before Bucky who sat with his face in his hands at the desk chair. "Buck, baby. What's wrong?"

The gentle touch of your hand on the back of his neck pulled Bucky out of his miserable thoughts and back to you, his strong arms wrapping around you and cheek pressing to your stomach. "Just wanna hold you." He sniffed, a slight shake to his voice as he left a kiss to the bump of your belly.

You let him pull you onto his lap, his arms snaking around you again and head leaning against your chest so he could hear the thump of your heart. "Whats going on in that brain of yours, stud?" You asked quietly, twisting a a lock of his shorter hair around your index finger.

"I promised Steve I'd protect you and I feel like I'm doing a terrible job..." His voice was more raspy from crying most of the day away. "Terrible job?" You leaned to look at him directly, his arms tightening around your waist slightly as though he didn't want you to move away.

His red eyes and puffy cheeks broke your heart. "Bucky, look around you. What do you see?" He glanced around the room, eyes taking in every smiling photo and box that was filled with baby supplies for the upcoming addition that was months away.

"Our home..." He mumbled, relaxing into the soft circles your fingertips traced into the skin of his forearm. "Exactly, our home. Where we're gonna be raising our babies." You soothed, your voice like honey to Bucky's ears.

He shook his head, the lines between his eyebrows deepening. "You could still get hurt. All three of you. Something or someone could try to hurt you."

You pressed a kiss between his brows, feeling the tension soften a little. "I can take care of myself, but that's why I have you. Among other reasons." Bucky frowned again, shaking his head. He still couldn't get the image from the dream out of his head. "I could hurt you."

Massaging his bicep, you placed another kiss to his face. "You won't, never would."

"But, I could."

Your stern look made his features soften completely, knowing you were going to scold him for thinking such things about himself as you held his cheeks in your hands. "James Buchanan, I went 70 years without you. It's not going to happen again, okay? You're home and you're safe, with your family."

He nodded and your hands slipped back down to his shoulders. "My family." A smile tugged at his lips, he wouldn't never get tired of saying and hearing that he had a family. A growing family at that.

Another kiss was placed to the top of his head, his hand rubbing the swell of your belly; still small but big enough to tell you were pregnant and growing every day.

"My big, strong soldier is a complete softy." You said breathing a laugh. "You're stronger than me anyways, I can never do this." He smiled, feeling a soft ripple from the moving life under his hand.

Bucky was always in complete awe of you when your belly was round from carrying the babies he helped create, going every day as if it was the easiest thing to do; just touching and looking at the small bump washed the intrusive thoughts away and brought happier ones.

"I'd do everything all over again just so I can have this life with you, Bucky." Your hand sat on top of his and he looked up at you. "How's baby boy number two doing?" He grinned.

You rolled your eyes and shook your head. "I already told you, Buck. I think this one is a girl." You laughed. He shrugged lightly and looked back to your hands. "How many more we gonna have?"

"Maybe two." His eyes snapped back up to yours with furrowed eyebrows. "Two? That's it? I was thinking maybe five more." You breathed a laugh at his number and shook your head. "Oh, definitely not."

"Come on, you wouldn't like to have seven little Barnes' running around?" He joked, smile wide on his face and all terrible memories pushed away, back into the deepest corner of his mind. "We do that we'll have to get a bigger house and a school bus."

"I can make that happen."

[rcampos11]

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[nikidanger]

The most important thing to notice is that all I gotta do is touch some strings to get them to strip in the first 5 seconds. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😩😩😂 just kidding. ((Not really)) NIGNOG, WHERE’D UR SHIRT GO?! Ok I’m done. Y’ALL. This is @commoninterest being the goat he is without even trying. Go follow him 🤘🏽🤘🏽💃🏽💃🏽 #Egghead 😂😂😂 the disrespect (at Washington D.C.) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6ZVPD6lcXY/?igshid=kne4ukuuq3lq

[bougieblackbrother]

Always find ways to show your love to someone. Then share it. Without acknowledgement or gratitude. Own it #partner #love #unconditional #longtermrelationship #commongoals #commoninterest #cuba #amoment #travel #havanacuba (at Havana, Cuba) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bo-qCq7hYFE/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=ky923qijjr42