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National Coming Out Day Round-up!
This is your reminder that you don't have to come out today.
If you don't feel ready, if you're not in a supportive environment, or you just plain don't want to, you don't have to come out.
We're fighting for a world where, in the future, we won't even have to HAVE National Coming Out Day because various sexual and romantic orientations and gender identity will just be expected and accepted.
^ Our 17-year-old Youth Voice Mia wrote this amazing piece for Teen Vogue: "Being a Black-American, Muslim, and LGBTQ+ teen in Texas has been incredibly hard."
^ And LGBTQ+ teacher Sarah wrote up some advice for when you can't be out at home: "Time you can spend in safe situations without hiding who you are will make the moments when you must protect yourself more bearable."
^ Don't forget we've got an entire Coming Out playlist on TikTok with lots of tips, stories, and advice here.
^ And an entire guide to the coming out process here!
#it gets better#national coming out day#coming out#coming out advice#coming out tips#lgbtq resources#queer#lgbtqia
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Anyone have any tips for coming out to family?
I know for a fact they’re accepting and I’d be safe but I hate sharing personal things (idk why) but I want to tell them.
#pride month#ace lesbian#lesbian#ace#coming out#coming out to parents#coming out tips#help me!!!#pls
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Heyyy
Does anyone have any coming out tips?
Or step by step instructions?
I'm non binary, and think it's about time I come out :))
#non bianry#enby#enby pride#coming out#tips#coming out of the closet#coming out tips#Help#ttr talks#idk
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Uh. This is so dumb to ask but in a few years i'm planning to do me a surgery you know become a ✨trans man✨ but like I was thinking that I need advice to how to do it. And I know you are a trans and you already passed so I was wondering if you got anything to say to me. Got any medication for after the surgery. Mostly how can I tell my family i'm trans. Asking for a friend
OH. I haven’t gotten meds or surgery yet sadly, but good for you! As for coming out,
I told my family right away. I told my ma that I was lesbian when I learned abt LGBT and she accepted me, so I was thinking she would accept me on this, too. (She did lol). If I were to give you ⏃ script to go by, I’d give you this.
“[parental guardian(s)], I am Trans. I use [insert pronouns here] and [insert name here] and if you mess up, that’s ok. But please, if you don’t accept me, then you aren’t allowing me to be me. So please accept me to be who I am. Thank you.”
Also, everyone comes out on their own terms, so if you aren’t comfy with it, then wait. And if they don’t accept that, or you, then FUCK THEM!!! THAT’S RUDE! THAT’S THEIR CHILD THATS SUPPOSED TO BE HAPPY!! TELL THEM TO FUCK OFF!
…or to just leave you alone to live your life.
Hope it helps, and good luck! :]
#frye’s confessions#trans#transgender#transmasc#transmaculine#coming out#coming out tips#Hope this helps! :]
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hello!!! Im trans (ftm) and im trying to come out to my family because im tired of not being able to feel like im me when im with them. does anyone have any tips on how to come out as trans to a not exactly transphobic but not supportive family?
my family is supportive of me being a “lesbian” but they dont know im actually trans and bi (maybe? still questioning) but they also dont exactly support transgender ideals and stuff? they refuse to respect pronouns, though for other people they seem to respect preferred names. they know i go by Ace at school and stuff but they kind of ignore it, and when they first found out, they seemed upset and confused.
honestly im just kinda tired of cringing and hurting every time they say “my daughter did this” or “she did that” or “deadname said this” or whatever but i have really severe anxiety and selective mutism so it makes it hard for me to get it over with. my brain is a constant track of the worst possible scenario for every situation and it makes stuff like this extremely uncomfortable and stressful.
anyways i really need some help from other people who’ve overcame this situation and have some positive thoughts and ideas for me. thank youuu <333
#transgender#trans ftm#trans help#coming out#closeted#coming out tips#pls help#im confused#give me tips#i need sleep#lgbtq#pride#biseuxal
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Hello, I’m Ameera a 23 years old Muslim lesbian who is trying to come out, I’ve been in the closet with my girlfriend for way too long, because of how dangerous and hard it is to come out as a lesbian to a religious Muslim family, but me and my girlfriend have decided to do whatever it takes and risk it all to come out, do you mind supporting and encouraging us?, we have the plan to go away which is why I have my donation campaign pinned on my profile, if I raise at least that goal I can start the process with my savings, I can’t come out until I’d gotten my apartment and I’m away from family, so please support by donating if you can and help reblog though I know we all have what we dealing with, so I’m not imposing we just need all the support and encouragement we can get, check my pinned post for more information on how you can support, if you are a Muslim queer and you are out, please help with tips on how to make it less complicated, any word of advice is also really needed, we really wanna come out but we need y’all 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ pride please come through for us, I believe pride is for all
Omg I'm so happy you and your girlfriend are coming out, I really hope everything goes okay
Unfortunately I can't colaborate much :( The coin in my country is at a very low price, and its worth, like, 5 usa dolars. I don't have the money to colaborate and my family is agnostic so I don't have any tips 😔 But I really really really wish everything goes alright and you get everything worked up for your coming out.
I wish you all good ❤
Pride be upon ya
#ask#queer#coming out#coming out tips#if SOMEONE can help please do it#lgbt#lgbtqiia+#lgbt community#sorry :(
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on a completely separate note; shizun luo binghe with a disciple shen yuan who fell into the abyss??? *thinks about LBH canonically stealing SQQ's corpse for 5 years* he'd hallucinate i think. like, like visual and audial hallucinations.
Keeps thinking he's seeing SQQ in the corner of his eyes, or wandering between the trees, amongst a group of disciples. Thinks he hears him calling for him, but its just the wind or another disciple.
Gets Xiu Ya reforged but patently fucking refuses to make a sword mound. Because his disciple Is Not Dead :))) There was No Body. He's Not Dead. And If You keep Insisting That He Is, He's Gonna Skewer You :). He's holding onto Xiu Ya so he can return his most favored disciple's sword when he returns. It's on his hip right next to Zheng Yang where it's supposed to be.
Also this motherfucker?? does not sleep btw. He has the image of SQQ, wide eyed and hysterical and standing at the mouth of the abyss burned into his fucking eyelids. Can't use the dreamscape to escape it either because he keeps trying to save him and either he does and it's an incredibly cruel trick to wake up to, or he doesn't and he gets his heart broken in several different pieces again.
There is no convincing this man that Shen Qingqiu is dead. Absolutely nothing at all. He is buried so deep in denial that moles would be jealous of how deep he is. He keeps making tea for two in the bamboo house only to remember that it's just him. SQQ's fans are hiding everywhere, little reminders of his presence. He goes to wake up SQQ on the mornings he sleeps in-- only to find the room empty.
#svsss#luo binghe#svsss au#scum villain#scum villian self saving system#shen yuan#shen qingqiu#disciple shen yuan#lbh. visibly exhausted and with twitchy eyes: im fine :) | everyone else: ho no the fuck you ARENT.#SQQ was hysterical not because he found out LBH was half-demon but bc he was having a long-awaited mental breakdown over his autonomy :)#or (limited) lack thereof. he was having a sudden onset crisis of mortality and was handling at quite literally the WORST time. oops#im thinking very hard that LBH would never push his disciple into the abyss especially with no system to force him to. so SQQ either#had to goad him into it (failing always) or throw himself in. he ended up doing it himself but not before some very impressive hysterics.#BUT ALSO. IF THIS HAD BEEN WHERE SQQ WAS THE HALF-HEAVENLY DEMON INSTEAD IT WOULD'VE BEEN SO GREAT.#and by great i mean horribly angsty bc SQQ is NOT doing too hot and has. in very SY-like fashion. convinced himself that LBH will kill him#when he finds out he's a demon. so when it comes out i have this mental image of him lunging at LBH and LBH flinches back. but SQQ wraps hi#hands around the blade of Zheng Yang and yanks it up so the tip of the blade is digging into his chest where is heart is. LBH can't yank th#sword away without risking slicing into SQQ's hands. SQQ's hair has fallen out of its tail/bun and is now messily spilling down his#back and its NO helping the kinda deranged look he has going on. he's visibly shaking and his eyes keep flittering away and back at LBH's#face. SQQ is looking at the messages from the system warning him that he has to go into the abyss or punishment will occur. he's like.#rambling though. talking about how shizun doesn't *like* unclean things and there is nothing more unclean than a demon. like he is#INSISTING. LBH can't?? get a fucking word in. actually. SY isn't listening that much either anyways. too overwhelmed with the system and#the amount of stress he's under and his crumbling mental state and the innate and primal desire to live even when he's standing in front of#his own executioner. it all ends with him sitting on the ground at the lip of the abyss with his hair falling in his face. he looks so#unkempt and fallen apart and so distinctly *non-Shen Qingqiu* that LBH feels physically ill over it. tears are streaming down SQQ's face#and despite everything he is smiling. its not a nice smile. its a very frayed falling apart at the seams about to crack smile.#he tells shizun not to worry about staining his blade with this disciple's filthy blood because this disciple will take care of it himself.#and then he falls into the abyss before luo binghe can so much as grab him. the only reason LBh doesn't literally jump in after him is bc#he was numb with shock and the abyss was already closed before he could feel his legs again :]
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imagine if after the transmigration shen qingqiu became a combination of shen yuan and shen jiu, not in a "second person living in my head" kind of way, but a "this house is haunted and carries the echoes of the dead" kind of way; imagine shen yuan having nightmares about a house, a fire, a faceless boy behind a door he can't remember; imagine him having flashes of emotions he doesn't understand, rage at a name he doesn't recognize, helplessness when yue qingyuan apologizes for something he won't mention, nausea when ning yingying says the name "a-luo"; imagine parts of his own self have changed too, how he now likes bows in his hair, pretty flowers and flowing robes, but can no longer stand a stranger's touch, a man's touch, yet he longs for the brothels, but never sexually, only fondly, like there's something there he misses. there are many empty spaces in his heart where he feels something is missing
#imagine if one day shen qingqiu wakes up and he no longer knows which one he is#imagine the guilt too. for not just taking a body but their self too. their memories and wants and needs and feelings#maybe it differs per day#sometimes he is more shen jiu. snappy and defensive and aloof#sometimes hes more shen yuan. silly and bumbling and trying so hard#and maybe. maybe. if you want to tear your heart a little more:#most disiciples and peak lords sit out the days where parts of shen jiu surface waiting for shen yuan to come back#theres a metaphor about the ship of theseus in here somewhere. its on the tip of my tongue#something something replacing all the parts one by one. is it still the same ship or has it become something new?#svsss#scum villian’s self saving system#shen jiu#shen qingqiu#shen yuan#scum villain#mxtx svsss#mxtx#luo binghe#bingqiu#svsss thoughts#yue qingyuan
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Trouble in paradise #1: coming out
Might change the name who knows, anyway when the main project is too much and you can't handle working on it what do we do? start a side project of course!
#artwork#character art#comic#digital art#beginner artist#character design#dragonblood#enby#non binary#non biney#coming out#closet#lgbtq#lgbtqia#lgbtq positivity#lgbt pride#transfem#transgender#trouble in paradise#TIP
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Puts Elden bling doodles into ur hand
#fromsoftware#elden ring#may I offer a redundant tip for soulsborne bosses#I ingrained this in my head when first played sekiro#my first fromsoft game lmao#and I’d get stuck on bosses hours at a time#there is a point during the fight when u know the moves and u know what to do#but u space out and get slower and slower#at that point u gotta take a break#and it can be so difficult with such addicting fights#but if u get up and do whatever#for like an hour#u will come back and get the fight within 3 tries#works every time#did it with isshin after being stuck on him for 4 hours#then took a break came back and blap
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Sanji: Honestly, I can't believe you! You have someone as pretty as Boa Hancock obsessing over you and you don't even--
Luffy: Sanji's prettier though
Sanji: I
Sanji: What??
Luffy: I guess Hancock looks nice. For a girl anyway. But Sanji's way, way prettier than she is
Sanji: *squeaks* O-oh
#Imagine the most pathetic warbling little squeak coming out of Sanji's throat. That's his reaction. LMAO#Luffy: Shishishi. Sanji turned BRIGHT red#Sanji blushing to the tips of his ears: Shut up shut up do NOT look at me right now#Everyone fussing over Hancock and how beautiful she is and then Luffy gets angry#Luffy: Sanji's a thousand times more beautiful though!! >:(((((#Sanji: DO YOU *WANT* HER TO KILL ME???#Luffy: But you are!! :"(#Sanji: I can't. I can't do this I ca#Sanji; hiding his face in his hands: 😳😳😳#One Piece#Sanlu#Lusan#Sanji#Luffy#Monkey D Luffy#Black Leg Sanji#Shima speaks#Back on my Sanlu silliness 🤪
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She came up with a new activity
#snake#snakes#Hognose#hognoses#pets#In her defense I also didn't realize the reason she couldn't move it at the end was because her tail was no longer under the basket#So instead of sliding over her it just bumped into her and was stuck#to her credit she did listen to me and follow my directions! But neither of us realized the problem.#ah it was cute while she did it#she was going a bit before I started recording#she comes up with silly fun activities#i should let her play with the hammock again#it's funny when she found it she'd gesture to me with her head when she wanted me to lift it and put it down#and it was like a weird elevator parachute game#i think she might have been extra delighted she was able to communicate her wants to me and I did them#We both got practice with that the other day when we played climbing ball#I misunderstood a few times#she is much more patient and less easily frustrated than her sister#she was asking for climbing ball and I thought she was asking for kisses#i did eventually figure out what she actually wanted#i suppose it helps she likes kisses too#when i say kisses I'm not putting my lips on her#I let her flick her tongue at the tip of my nose and make little kiss sounds at her#she either understands this is affection or otherwise likes it#Because she will often go to my nose and I'll give her kisses like this#I don't kiss her because the bacteria and stuff in my human mouth could be dangerous for her#I know reptiles and such can also have salmonella#But I'm really not worried about that part tbh as I keep my girls pretty clean#They are princesses#And know it
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so confused when people hate miss agent margaret carter because what do you have against a woman with big beautiful brown eyes who pummels people with her entire body weight
#is this about the time a customer kept harrassing angie so peggy shoved a fork against his brachial artery#and told him under threat of death to leave a generous tip and then never come back?#or is this about the time she honoured bucky's death by posthumously naming him a shield agent so that his name would be on the memorial?#is it when she ran out into the rain after steve and betrayed direct orders to get ahold of a jet for him and fly him past enemy lines?#do you hate when a woman isn't afraid to be emotional and vulnerable because she's secure in her strength and rationality??#does it bother you when she keeps growing as a person because of the people she loves?#does she handle disrespect with too much integrity and grace?#ohh is it only appealing when a male character is haunted by losing everyone they care about?#is it misogyny that has you diminishing a fleshed-out main character who does not let manchildren get away with their bullshit#to 'some girl steve kissed once' do you hate her for reasons you pulled out of your actual ass like her being a hydra ally(???)#I'M GOING TO THROW YOU INTO A WALL#peggy carter#*#text*
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@houseboatisland requested a passionate Panjosé kiss! Thank you so much for tipping! ✨Ko-fi✨
#the three caballeros#josé carioca#panjosé#panchito pistoles#panchito x josé#ducktales#duckverse#polisenaart#houseboatisland#my doodles end up being lineart or else they're unintelligible#I'll have this tipping price until my irl work comes back again and then I'll figure out new prices for doodles#requests
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one thing i see a bit with disco elysium fan script is a conflation between a failed skill check and bad advice from a skill. one of the beautiful things about DE is the skills are not arbiters of truth; successful checks won’t always lead to the correct outcomes, and a skill level being too high can impair you. in that sense, a failed passive (“anti-passive” according to wiki) wouldn’t be a skill giving bad advice, but a skill failing to fulfill its duty.
(bad example ahead) so it wouldn’t be:
LOGIC [Trivial - Failure]: Stick a fork in the toaster.
but more like:
BREAD-TOASTER: You peek into the narrow opening at the top of the electric bread-toaster.
PERCEPTION: You find a slice of bread wedged between the filaments. Smoke wafts into your nostrils. It’s burning, and you seemingly have no way of retrieving it.
INTERFACING [Challenging - Success]: The metal fork you found in the cupboard. It should be both long and sturdy enough for the job.
You: Grab the fork.
INLAND EMPIRE [Medium - Success]: The tips of your fingers tingle. This seems like a very bad idea.
LOGIC [Easy - Failure]: You are uncertain of the outcome here.
1. Use the fork to fish out the toast.
2. “This is beneath me.”
3. [Half-Light - Godly 16] Establish dominance. Fuck the toaster.
#also an extra autism tip: consider planning out harry’s stats#adds realism and also a fun way to get immersed at least imo#dont mean this as discourse or an insult#i love all the writing coming from this fandom and it’s helping me finally get into fanfic#just tryna give some advice hope it helps x#disco elysium#disco elysium skills#harry du bois#writing tips#o
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IF YOU COPIED SOMETHING BUT ACCIDENTALLY COPIED SOMETHING ELSE AND LOST THE TEXT YOU ORIGINALLY COPIED, JUST PRESS [ WINDOWS + V ] AND YOU CAN SEE YOUR CLIPBOARD HISTORY
#edit: you need to turn on clipboard history if you want this to work btw#the only good thing to come out of my compsci degree lmao#nearly committed arson when i lost the 1k words i copied for my fic but luckily i remembered this shortcut#life hacks#writing tips#writing advice#whaddupmytags
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