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[blaqueivoryslair]

Hmm...I still need to test this... #blaqueivoryslair #SparkPleasure #AdultNovelties #coffeeandsex

[coffeeandsexx]

“Everybody has a secret world inside of them. All of the people of the world, I mean everybody. No matter how dull and boring they are on the outside, inside them they’ve all got unimaginable, magnificent, wonderful, stupid, amazing worlds. Not just one world. Hundreds of them. Thousands maybe.” -Neil Gaiman #coffeeandsex #remember #read #him #her #ex #story #relate #youdoyou #poem #selflove #selfdiscovery #me #love #happy #creativity #paint #read #diy #tutorial #photooftheday #instagood #instadaily #tbt #friends #fun #travel #beauty #joy #blogger https://www.instagram.com/p/CDQvL6WAbm_/?igshid=11ttfh6q2czbt

[coffeeandsexx]

“Everybody has a secret world inside of them. All of the people of the world, I mean everybody. No matter how dull and boring they are on the outside, inside them they’ve all got unimaginable, magnificent, wonderful, stupid, amazing worlds. Not just one world. Hundreds of them. Thousands maybe.” -Neil Gaiman #coffeeandsex #remember #read #him #her #ex #story #relate #youdoyou #poem #selflove #selfdiscovery #me #love #happy #creativity #paint #read #diy #tutorial #photooftheday #instagood #instadaily #tbt #friends #fun #travel #beauty #journal #joy #blogger #journal https://www.instagram.com/p/CDQvL6WAbm_/?igshid=1t7l6zbj5xnfh

[coffeeandsexx]

Let’s call them out this friendship day!🥳🥳 Tag your friends and nominate 2-3 people to do the same! And tag us?! (Pretty please!!) PS- The template is in the story for you to take the screenshot!😍 #coffeeandsex #thisorthat #tagyourfriends #nominate #challengeaccepted #friends #friendshipday #contest #fun #games #share #likeforlike #followforfollow #youdoyou #self #me #love #happy #creativity #paint #read #diy #photooftheday #instagood #instadaily #tbt #fun #travel #joy #blogger #journal https://www.instagram.com/p/CDQcrUIAme_/?igshid=1xh2yup1pliec

[coffeeandsexx]

Who else is in love with Taylor Swift’s “Exile”!!?😍😍 #coffeeandsex #quote #lyric #taylorswift #exile #sunset #couple #photooftheday #tbt #cute #love #sad #happy #single #instagood #instadaily #travel #heartbreak #friends #beauty #aesthetic #blogger #bloggersofinstagram #likeforlikes #pop #swift #followforfollowback #me #friends https://www.instagram.com/p/CDOXX94ghn0/?igshid=ujb843t0wyx4

[coffeeandsexx]

To the “almost lovers”, There is a very thin line between best friends and lovers and yet, you play with the line. On some days, you look at him and cannot stop thinking of what could be and on some days you anticipate everything that could go wrong. If you ask me, it is a fucking goddamn tragedy. You look at each other sitting across the room but darling, do friends steal glances in a room full of people? Somedays it feels like it would be easy- no sinking feeling in your stomach on your first date, no playing pretence to be loved, it means having a person who knows you, adores you, someone you can joke around with, cook naked with and share your deepest darkest secrets with! No judgement-isn’t that the first rule of any friendship? But yet, some days- you evaluate. You think of all the risks and the things that could go wrong. You think of losing your best friend, if something went wrong. How could you afford to lose your-no-matter-what-person? So what you do is you “almost” tell them. You “almost” kiss them. You “almost” get off your guard. But if ask me, it’s a goddamn fucking tragedy. 📸- tumblr #coffeeandsex #friends #lover #tumblr #quotes #relate #photooftheday #likeforlike #heart #heartbreak #love #friendship #bffs #almost #happy #sad #travel #fun #tbt #instagood #instadaily #journal #selflove #newbloggers #bloggersofinstagram #thoughcatslogue #kiss #reading #me https://www.instagram.com/p/CDOQccWgTPU/?igshid=1kwiepu50yxf3

[coffeeandsexx]

You call him up at four in the morning, hands trembling and a feeling you can’t shake. He doesn’t pick up and all the memories come rushing back to you- french fries and coffee, dancing to “Perfect” at three in the morning, long drives to watch the sunset, all the stolen glances and the forbidden kisses. All you want is to tell him that you miss him and to hear the same back. You know you deserve better. You know you’re done with the excuses, but you also know you would go back to him in a moment’s heartbeat. You call him again. You choke up and tell him you love him. It’s his voicemail. You stare at the empty ceiling and wait for the pain to subside. You pop up the sleeping pills and pass out. But next day, you call him again. -it’s a spiral, honey. 📸- pinterest #coffeeandsex #tumblrquote #quote #heartbreak #selflove #3amthoughts #vibe #tbt #photooftheday #blogger #newblogger #photooftheday #sad #happy #heartbreak #love #couple #girl #instagood https://www.instagram.com/p/CDLdzDuAc6j/?igshid=s5ph2ka2084m

[coffeeandsexx]

I think one of the best things you can do for yourself is have a creative bubble surround you. Paint, read, cook or do anything- that makes you feel you. It gives a sense of empowerment and who knows- you might make a living out of it! But do something- do not overthink. You might not be good at it, but hey, there’s always room for improvement, right? Take that step. Forget that person. Forget that memory. Do what your heart wants. Sing as loud as you can or read as much as you can. But “be the love you always hoped for”. 🌈🌻 #coffeeandsex #write #feeling #guide #youdoyou #self #selfhelp #selflove #selfdiscovery #me #love #happy #creativity #paint #read #diy #tutorial #photooftheday #instagood #instadaily #tbt #friends #fun #travel #beauty #journal #joy #blogger #journal https://www.instagram.com/p/CDJKEANA-E3/?igshid=yo624kcsc8hg

[coffeeandsexx]

You know how they say, “When life gives you lemon, make lemonade”? Well, somedays you can just throw those lemons and go buy yourself a lemonade. Take a day off, do what you want and just BREATHE. It may be a warm coffee on a rainy day or just a good book or eating your comfort food, whatever it is. Forget about work, meetings and deadlines- do what makes you happy. Take that day to go watch a sunset or maybe sleep your ass off the whole day. Do what you want to do, by yourself. 🌸 #coffeeandsex #write #feeling #guide #youdoyou #self #selfhelp #selflove #selfdiscovery #me #love #happy #stepstoselflove #photooftheday #instagood #instadaily #tbt #friends #fun #travel #beauty #journal #joy #blogger #journal #sunset #sunrise #landscape #pretty #dayoff #holiday https://www.instagram.com/p/CDJBPkjAnKC/?igshid=19aiqgnv9unsk

[coffeeandsexx]

One of the most important thing to remember is: DO NOT TAKE YOUR DOSE OF THERAPY FROM SOCIAL MEDIA. Social media may be good and all, but remember, it is not a substitute for therapy. If you feel anxious or even, just unhappy, go see a therapist. Believe me- it’ll help so damn much to know yourself better and just vent. Social media can be toxic, and it might have the opposite effect you want it to have. So choose smartly, and grow. Please grow. Learn to love yourself for who you are and leave toxic relationships and situations. You can do so much better, honey. 🌻 #coffeeandsex #books #self #selfhelp #selflove #selfdiscovery #me #love #happy #stepstoselflove #photooftheday #instagood #instadaily #tbt #friends #fun #travel #beauty #journal #joy #blogger https://www.instagram.com/p/CDIwlB7AW5o/?igshid=1b5toq3663r4k

[coffeeandsexx]

Self love is a tricky process- it requires hardwork and patience. The first step (among the six steps!!) that I would recommend is read books- great books. Self help books might sound something that’s just good on paper- but believe me, once you implement what they have to say- your life changes. For good. So here’s some of my favourite self discovery books- (tell me yours?)- • Unlearn by Humble The Poet • The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey. • Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki. • Ikigai- The Japanese secret to a long and Happy Life. • You are a Badass. #coffeeandsex #books #self #selfhelp #selflove #selfdiscovery #me #love #happy #stepstoselflove #photooftheday #instagood #instadaily #tbt #friends #fun #travel #beauty #journal #joy #blogger https://www.instagram.com/p/CDIvgwUAMYX/?igshid=1uifofr5eway

[coffeeandsexx]

The most pertinent step and also the last one (yas!)- Learn. Heal. Grow. Nobody is gonna change you or make you better unless you yourself want to. And saying that I can not change who I am and why should I, is a very toxic mindset and just don’t do that. Learn what can be mended and heal yourself. Let go. Grow to be a better version of YOURSELF. Everybody’s different but you are you. Take your time and take your days off, but bloom. Nobody else is entitled to your shortcomings and you cannot expect a person to carry your baggage. So, grow.🌻 #coffeeandsex #write #feeling #guide #youdoyou #self #selfhelp #selflove #selfdiscovery #me #love #happy #creativity #paint #read #diy #tutorial #photooftheday #instagood #instadaily #tbt #friends #fun #travel #beauty #nature #joy #blogger #journaling https://www.instagram.com/p/CDJMiy0giwS/?igshid=hs8wysci9m7e

[coffeeandsexx]

Hell, this IS the most important step: JOURNALISE. Write down what you feel, why you feel and ask questions. To yourself. “Why was I angry?” “Why did it make me feel that way?” “Do I deserve better?” Believe me, taking out that five minutes of your day to just vent- to yourself- might give you so much clarity and a sense of healing. It has been proven an effective method since ages and every therapist recommends it! So go ahead- WRITE WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL SPECIAL AND WHY SO?🌎 #coffeeandsex #write #feeling #guide #youdoyou #self #selfhelp #selflove #selfdiscovery #me #love #happy #stepstoselflove #photooftheday #instagood #instadaily #tbt #friends #fun #travel #beauty #journal #joy #blogger #journal https://www.instagram.com/p/CDIxlBrgJXV/?igshid=1lfn0qouiptom