#cisgenger

[ivygrovvs]

 ⸻     dearest  gentle  reader  ,  it  is  with  great  pleasure  that  i  introduce  you  to  one  of  the  seasons  most  eligible  ,  jacquetta covington ,  the  twenty eight year  old  dowager baron covington that  is  known  around  the  ton  for  being  intellegent  but  those  who  know  them  more  closely  would  confess  that  they  are  more  so  withdrawn  .  and  you  may  not  know  this  ,  but  it  has  certainly  been  brought  to  my  attention  that is common born, married a title gentleman, but now is a widow with a son and has no idea how to navigate in the ton  ,  surely  they  would  not  want  that  known  ,  so  for  now  i'll  keep  it  to  myself  .     ⸻     kylie bunbury    (  cisgenger  +  she/her  +  pansexual  )

—intro

full name →lady jacquetta covington 

current age → twenty five

faceclaim → kylie bunbury

based off of → original character for @tonhqs roleplay

status → widowed

— she is described to be ;

+, witty, clever, practical, -, harsh, withdrawn,

— relationships ;

younger sister→ 18-23 years old

older brother → 26-30 years old

younger brother → 19-24 years old

— biography ;

Jacquetta was born to a minor noble family. she is the second oldest, with a sister younger than her and 2 brothers. while not destitute, the family was not well off. Jacquetta being the practical women she was, understood and expected to marry someone with a title, or at least well off. she understood that most marriages were based in a transactional manner, and was comfortable with that, however she was not going to marry someone she did not like, and did not respect her. when jacquetta was 18, she was approached by baron james covington. the pair quickly became friends. jacquetta and james adored one another, but they were not in love. james had almost married the love of his life, but she tragcially died just a week before their wedding. being a titled gentleman, he knew having no male reletaives, he would have to continue the line. since they were so close, james purposed to jacquetta, and the two of them got married. shortly after, she became pregnant, with a son christened james as well. they had a better marriage then some in the ton. however before her son turned 3, james died from being thrown from his horse. jacquetta decided the likely hood of finding a happier marriage than she had with james, was unlikely, however she has been looking for help raising her son as the next baron.

[qirex-official]

drunk posting but my non-binary sibling'snon-binary partner thought I wore a packer for a short period of time before finding out I am a cisgenger man I am terrified and complimented 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[emroyemite]

Starved Extravert Monk

So, I was asked if I was asexual recently. And it's been bugging me abit. Maybe I am and just didn't realize it? It's apparently very odd that I do not have a significant other or am seriously interested in finding one. Hell, if I have a fuck-time friend, I know a few friends that would be... relieved, for lack of better term. The concern behind my sexless existence is more telling of some of those concerned, I've noticed. Like friends in relationships. With other my friendly partners. Who have spoken about 'bringing another person into the bedroom'....while I'm in earshot. Maybe that's just me, reading too much into a situation but legit, I do not want to fuck my friends and their partner. But I've strayed off topic. My life choices and disinterest in seeking partnership go hand in hand. Why force another person to deal with my baggage while I am the only one that can truly handle it? What's the point in making myself miserable because I don't have the capacity to care about another in the way a partner needs? I have my own shit to worry about, that I'm dealing with on my own and this makes me appear lonely. 'Lonely' is a term I would use only a fifth of the time. Sure, I need people, I AM an extrovert. Sure, I do feel the empty space around me and wish pleasant company occupied it. But the fact that it's empty is my choice. And it's better in the long run. I can call or text some of my favorite people and it does the job of filling the void. For a time. I've become that of a starving extravert monk, finding some form of Zen in the barely sustainable diet of limited human interaction. With great hair. Well, great hair MOST of the time. The obvious abstinence is a 'problem' for others. For me, it's just...how it is. I questioned my sexual orientation and we'll, I know what I am about. I need emotion to care about a person. They need to be attractive. I need to love them. Recreational sexy time is not appealing for me. Masterbation is a means to an end...with the assistance of decently written and shot porn. Sexuality is a spectrum of weird. Sex needs to be intimate and emotional for me with alot of trust behind it. And thus, I simply am a cisgenger white female...who ain't got time(or the emotional reserves) for that! So, yeah, have fun with that mental image.

[desired-destruction]

i just wanna say that aroaces, aros and aces CAN be cishet, cisgender, heteromantic, heterosexual, they just wong be ALLOcishet. allo means alloromantic and allosexual, if youre on the aspectrum at all youre not allo.

an aromantic person can be cishet

and ace person can be cishet

its allocishets that arent anything more than allies to the lgbtq community.

aros and aces who are cisgenger, heteromantic and/or heterosexual are queer and always have been.

aros and aces can be both aspec and still identify as hetero, hetsex or cisgender, having an identity thats complex doesnt mean its not fucking real

all aroaces are queer, end of story.

[zee-has-commitment-issues]

Let's bully cisgenger people. And also heterosexuals. Oh don't forget the teenagers. How about over 30s? Yeah they must just be perving around the young fandom, let's bully them too (hello youngsters, the elderly has spoken).

Why are we like that? We can't we just have a discourse and unite over a show we all obsess over? What happened to inclusiveness and tolerance? Why does it matter who we are, as long as we are not assholes to each other? Makes me sad reading things like that.

The only people we should be mad at in this fandom are people who disrespect boundaries or use the queer content for their own sick and twisted motives.

Everyone else is a beautiful person who should enjoy the media they want to enjoy.

[kitkatopinions]

I always assumed Ironwood wasn't straight. I mean he's a dude in his 40s who's unmarried and has no previous family or children to speak of. Then again he did dance with Glynda that one time so who knows?

That's just the thing, there's no way of knowing. Here are things that literally would not go against Ironwood's suggested feelings for Glynda.

Asexual and Biromantic, Panromantic, or Heteroromantic. Bisexual and Biromantic, Panromantic, or Heteroromantic. Pansexual, and Biromantic, Panromantic, or Heteroromantic. Homosexual and biromantic, panromantic, or heteroromantic. Homosexual and homoromantic, but using compulsory heteronormativity (idc what MKEK said outside of canon, their own heteronormative writing in the early seasons makes it impossible to believe that there aren't things like Homophobia, transphobia, and sexism in the world of RWBY.) Asexual and Aromantic - Flirting does not mean that you're not aromantic. Heterosexual and Heteroromantic but trans, non-binary, or genderqueer (although he looks male-presenting, that's not an indication that he's definitely canon cisgender, and yes, he goes by he/him pronouns, but I have a non-binary sibling who mostly goes by she/her and stills calls herself my sister. You never know just by someone's appearance or even their pronouns.) Any of the above, and still not meaning anything really by his somewhat flirtatious tone and asking Glynda to dance in the same way that Yang winking at a White Fang member before attacking him says literally nothing about her canon sexuality since she's casually flirty, because he might just be casually flirty and that doesn't even mean that he's trying to appear straight even if the writers were clearly heteronormative themselves when they wrote everyone in the first three seasons before they decided to think about making Pilot Boi their first queer character. Heterosexual and heteroromantic and cisgengered.

Personally, I myself see James Ironwood as a bisexual, biromantic man who deeply respected Glynda, was attracted to her appearance, but more wanted something to be between them than actually having real feelings for her. But it's perfectly valid to headcanon any of the above.

Currently Ironwood's sexuality (and his gender for that matter) has yet to be confirmed. Even if the show writers stated that James Ironwood is just the straightest most straight, cis, non-LGBTQ+ character in their show, it still wouldn't be show proper canon, because Word of the Author is a broke system that many people threw out sometime around JK Rowling telling everyone wizards used to just pee and poop all over themselves at random and magic away the evidence. And even if the show writers wrote Qrow or Winter or something to say "Yeah, James is the straightest most straight cisgendered hetero guy we knew," post-death, it still would not be wrong to headcanon anything different.

James Ironwood is as gay as you want him to be, I guess is what I'm saying. James Ironwood is not a canon straight guy, I guess is also what I'm saying. It's deeply flawed and rooted in bi, ace, and pan erasure to assume that anyone is straight just because they make advances towards someone of the opposite gender. I already see so much biphobia specifically in the RWBY fandom, especially in regards to Blake, Yang, and even Qrow these days. It just really makes me frustrated that people have this mentality. Either they are Homosexuals or they are straight. Either Yang oogling men in season one means she's straight and now they're retconning her sexuality or Yang's a lesbian who was clearly just being comphet/Yang's a lesbian and if you're still clinging onto the first season, you're stupid. Either Blake's straight and it was wrong of the showrunners to 'pretend otherwise' to force her to be anything else or Blake's a lesbian and anyone still shipping her with Sun or other men are denial ridden homophobes themselves. Either Qrow is straight and anyone paying attention to lingering looks, hugs, and blushes are idiots reading into unintended framing or people shipping Qrow and Winter are just so stupid to ignore that Qrow winking at her meant nothing and people who read romantic tension in their fight have 'hetero goggles' on. Btw, there's nothing wrong in my opinion with headcanoning Yang as not attracted to men at all, Qrow as not attracted to women at all, or even Blake as not attracted to men at all and only thinking she had been. But that's not canon, and trying to enforce it is rooted in biphobia.

And now it's 'James is established straight from the get go,' because he said a somewhat flirty line to a woman and asked her to dance. It's very annoying. James is no more of a canon straight than Yang, Weiss, Blake, or Penny is. Expressing a very casual slight attraction towards someone of the opposite sex very much so doesn't determine someone's sexuality.

You're right, who knows? Nobody. Because currently, James Ironwood could be pretty much anything (even alive!) and we wouldn't know.

[brimadawna]

Feeling blue #dabudeedabudie #imbluedabadeedabadie #jkimchillin #imjuschillin #chillinchillin #imcoolin #coolincoolin #groovy #groobybaby #yeah #bluehair #bluehairdontcare #cisgenger #whitecisfemale #whatitdo

[asexualhawkeye]

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Okay but cishet aces are cis and het. LGBT aces are inherently LGBT, cishet aces aren't. It isn't bullying to exclude people who aren't LGBT. Nor does pretending like aphobia is the reason LGBT people are oppressed make any sense, lmao.

first of all cishet was coined by trans people and means cisgenger heteromatic heterosexual. second of all when you are either ace/aro or both it means the latter parts no longer qualify you as cishet. Seriously straight people don’t like aro/ace people just as much as they don’t like the LGBTQ+ community, we’re different and well society doesn’t like different. I should know as an autistic disabled non binary person I’ve faced my entire like being othered. 

third point aphobia is a small issue that reflects the problems inside the community of gatekeeping and in fighting, both which weaken ourselves because instead of standing together we’re too busy tearing each other down. That is what our oppressors want, for us to be distracted attacking ourselves while they continue to do things to make it harder for us to exist. Our enemy is not ace/aro people, our enemy is society.  

[playchoicesconfessions]

Sent by anonymous

‘I’m a cisgenger female, but I hate playing as a female MC. I don’t know why, but I enjoy being the male MC more. I don’t have dysphoria or anything, but I don’t like playing as female. ‘

POST/CONFESSIONS DO NOT REFLECT THE MOD’S PERSONAL OPINIONS!

[defcon-leppard]

For most it's Pride Month. They get to celebrate and fit in. Yay for them I guess.

My Demisexual self holds no love for this month.

Not anymore.

Not when six months ago my only reason to celebrate this month was traumatically taken from me.

I also just. Don't fit in. Who would want to celebrate with a cisgenger neurotypical anyway. I don't bring progress. I bring everyone down.

So this month is just not my favorite.

[thewoodsattheworldsend]

If people say most of the people on Tumblr are women and or queer people, and they say that most of the people writing fanfic and creating fanart are also women and or queer people, then the complaints written on Tumblr to the Rick and Morty fandom about how it's a fandom of garbage people that suck and don't deserve to have a show they like, is being read on tumblr by..... ?

Striaght cisgengered white men, of course.

So sorry the show with mentally ill alcholic autistic pansexual got 70 more episodes. It's a sure sign of how terrible our world is.

[ruralspaceman]

Let me preface this with an apology for the novel! So, Im a straight, white, thin, christian, male, Living in the southern U.S. Im the epitome of privliged. And I admit, I'm not that great of a Christian; ya boy sins every day, I forget to pray, and I feel like I take advantage of gods forgivness more often than I have any right to, and I dont read my Bible very often (southern baptist kind of turned me off of church [but thats a story for another day]). Regardless, I got home from work today and I saw a stack of Bibles on a table, on the top was an illustrated Bible I used to have when I was but just a wee bab, and something posessed me to thumb throug it and look at the pictures, and as I flipped through, I ended up on a back page and found this: The Beatitudes. And the very last thing it says in this bible "Blessed are ye, when men shal revile you and persecute you, and say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake." It spoke to me. I immeadiately thought of people who are gay, bi, transgender, and all manner of non cisgenger or straight people who are outed by the Christian community. And like I said, I'm not a good Christian, and it's been quite a few moons since Bible study, so I had to google it, and The Beatitudes are blessings that were spoken by Jesus himself at the sermon on the mount. You heard that right, Jesus himself, the son of God, has blessed those that his followers hate because of their religion. Please don't let a few bad apples speak for the bunch, You are all loved, you are all valid, you are all BLESSED in the eyes of Jesus.

[jacethebeltsculptor]

Being a good person

Under a cut to keep personal and “big feel” off of someone else’s dash. 

I post and reblog a lot of stuff about a lot of important stuff. Social issues and all that. I’m a Straight White Cisgender Heterosexual Man, with all the massive wealth of privilege and ignorance that inherently brings with it. It probably annoys the hell out of a lot of people, but this is my blog, and I’ll post as I damn well please. With that said- a lot of this is important to me. It really wasn’t a couple of years ago- I mostly met a lot of people who have become dear to me and they’ve done a lot to change a lot of my perspectives and get me some self-awareness. Some of it is little things, like how one of my friends pointed out to me that making rape jokes was really, really off-putting, and legitimately scared a lot of people. I’d never really thought of that- why would I? It moves over to bigger stuff, like how I used to insist that if bathroom bills were such a huge deal, you could just not use public bathrooms. The long story short is, I’m trying really hard to not be Straight White Cisgenger Heterosexual Man.  That’s a really long preamble to start this with, and this is being written from an entirely emotional place- please forgive it being sloppy. The point of all this is, I don’t consider myself a good person. I’m trying to be, and I want to be. I’m a much better person than I was on my first day of high school. That being said- I really don’t like considering myself a good person. I’ll always have that privilege as part of who I am, and all that prejudice and whatever else. I can recognize it, sure, and I can try and work myself out of it, and that’s good. It’s what I should be doing. It’s why, when I talk about men being fragile or cisgender people being transphobic or anything like that, I think it’s really important that I make sure I include myself in that description- I’m not personally above it and I don’t want to treat myself like a saint or something.  I get kind of squeamish when people say things to me like saying that I’m considerate or that I’m self-aware or that I’m progressive or anything like that. They’re all compliments, I’d be really happy if I felt they were true, because a lot of them are part of how I define being a good person. I just don’t feel like any of it, on a fundamental level, can really apply to me in a meaningful way.  All of this probably reads like me trying to beg for praise or be told I’m a good person because I’m trying to not be Straight White Cisgender Heterosexual Man, blah, blah, it’s so brave or... whatever. In all honesty, I don’t know why I started writing this. I’m really, really emotional at the moment and I trend towards poor impulse control at the best of times.  I guess if anyone is going to take anything away from this I guess... Please, when I reblog stuff or comment on things or whatever and sound all pretentious, please don’t think too well or too poorly of me. If I’m just being an asshole or speaking where it isn’t my place, let me know- I really just don’t want to be doing more damage. 

[little-quinncy-blog]

PSA For All Followers

To those who are gay, straight, and in between. To the cisgengers and the non-cisgengers. Whether you have kinks or not. Whether you're account is SFW or NSFW, that doesn't matter to me. If you need advice of someone to talk to, I'll be here for you. I may not be good at giving advice, but I'll listen wholeheartedly because no mater who you are, I love you all.

[chaotic-bloodoath]

ok I'm trying to prove a point to someone so I want to make a list of comments people have made towards bi/pan/ace/aro/trans/genderflux/genderfluid people to prove how offensive people are. I specifically don't want gay/lesbian comments though, they agree there is hate there.

Here are the ones I've heard, if you can add on, that would be great.

Special snowflake

That's not a real gender

You just want attention

You just want more sex

Isn't [being pan] basically being a fucked-up lesbian?

Just shut up and suck a dick

You're such a prude

So you're a dude? (I'm girlflux)

Isn't that just being cisgenger?

It's just a phase

I bet boys find that sexy/hot/attractive

Just kill yourself

Please add on with all the offensive comments you've heard, whether directed at you or someone else!