#chiron in seventh house

[cleapallea]

𝙎𝙊𝙇𝘼𝙍 𝙎𝘼𝙏𝙐𝙍𝙉 𝙍𝙀𝙏𝙐𝙍𝙉 2024 (3rd observation/s)

This is my personal observation if you feel that descriptions doesn't fit you. Take this with a grain of salt.

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Sun in the 8th house indicates quitting your bad habits; it can be based on your charts and transits. The Sun represents ego and self, While the eighth house refers to death.

6th house with Aquarius sign can indicate adopting small pets. I have my small adopted kitten that looks like a mouse 😂.

Aquarius and Mars aspects in Solar Return are prone to emotional outbursts this year. Like in hell, every second. I swear.

Aquarius in eighth house in solar return you might find your relationship doesn't last because you are into your vibes and moons.  For instance, you want someone and you want another person. Hell, this gives me a feeling of playboy and playgirl vibes.

Venus  in the 1st house means there is a magnetic factor about your appearance this year. Plus, you might find yourself spending a lot of time taking care of your face like you literally buy anything related to face products. Just be it.

Chiron in 7th house Your close friends or partner might hurt you so badly. So their way of hurting is based on transits, what sign associated with Chiron, and the cause is based upon the houses 

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[schtrawberry]

[3] personal astrology observations

[!] this is mostly an introspective view into my chart; in no way, shape, or form am i saying that any of this is fact or set in stone, nor am i saying that i am a professional astrologer. these are just presences that exist within my chart that i've felt manifest themselves in real life. simply put, take what resonates and leave what doesn't :)

— the observation that venus in the 9th house and sagittarius mars natives are far more likely to be attracted to foreigners and/or meet their future partner/s in a foreign country is true!

[nothing, just felt like confirming, esp as someone w both these placements 🤭 like, i honestly am more likely to be approached (in a romantic setting) by a foreigner both in-person and online!]

═ sun square neptune is the aspect of daydreamers. they're always thinking about an idealized version of the future or dwelling on the past. rarely do they ever think in the present. it is often easier for them to drift off into a daze either thinking about what could have been or everything that could be.

☰ chiron in fifth house indicates pain associated with creative passions and self-expression. one may have had negative experiences that have led them to feel insecure about these aspects of life; thus leading them to distance themselves from openly expressing themselves creatively. they may take great care to keep their works of art private, tone down certain parts of their personality, and may even feel ashamed to explain themselves when others ask them about certain aspects of their creative and self-expression because of negative feedback they could have gotten in the past.

but with such pain comes empathy and understanding. once developed, these natives are the first to take notice and are the fastest to lend a sensitive ear as well as a supportive hand as soon as they see others going through the same struggle.

☱ sun-lilith in harsh aspects might have been told to cover up more by both peers and grown-ups, even when wearing "acceptable" clothing when they were kids. this placement can indicate an individual that was more sexualized from a young age, which can lead to them either being hypersexual or overly-reserved sexually in adulthood.

☲ lilith in the seventh house can indicate an individual that struggles to commit and open up about who they are to their partner/s. people with lilith in this house may have had bad experiences with marriage (perhaps witnessing bad divorces or tumultuous long-term relationships between their parents) and therefore might be turned off by the thought of marriage and/or long-term partnerships.

and though this doesn't mean that the native will be a lone soul forever, it does make one more likely to have these sort of relationships at a significantly older age in comparison to other signs.

[tw: mention of domestic violence in my personal experience, i have witnessed my parents go through an incredibly bad separation (tons of emotional abuse, infidelity, and a situation actually involving domestic violence) which has honestly made me quite hesitant to get married, even as i approach my mid-20s.]

☴ the cancer rising urge to cry when someone you care about is crying or in distress in general.

☳ a few asteroid notes:

note: asteroids are less impactful to one's personality, physicality, etc. compared to personal planets. they tend to only be relevant to one's chart if they are either in a tight orb (0-1°) or have major aspects to personal planets, preferably conjunctions or oppositions.

✢ messalina (545) known as the most promiscuous woman in rome, empress messalina is still recognized today as a symbol of uncontrolled, violent, irrational, and impulsive behavior. this asteroid reminds me very much of lilith in that it is representative of dark feminine energy and having this prominent in one's chart can be indicative of an individual that is not afraid to use their sexuality to their advantage or to create harm unto others in different aspects of their lives, but especially in terms of romantic and sexual relationships.

✢ anagolay (3757) is an potentially hazardous asteroid named after anagolay, the tagalog goddess of lost things and the daughter of the hermaphroditic goddess of seasons, lakapati. she is culturally-recognized for her ability to find not only physical objects but also abstract possessions like lost opportunities and faded memories. having this prominent in one's chart can suggest an individual that is very in-tune with cycle of nature and the subsequent passage of time. they may be more sensitive to bouts of nostalgia where they dwell on things that could have been and the way that things were. may also just indicate a person that is hypersensitive to losing physical things, though.

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[abyssalfaith]

Rating my astro placement : (and yours ! )

Gemini Moon = 9/10 I HAVE to mutitask, my mind is just all the way over constantly, always thinking,planning. Just soooooo good to learm others langages !!! But sooooo bad to sleep. Yapping without breathing all day.

Venus in Virgo = 8/10 I just love cleaning, planning, organizing. Not a nice placement for love and friendship : veryyyy picky and can just forget someone in two seconds if done wrong. Make me have very little social need.

Moon and Saturn in the 12th house = 5/10 Uhm, childhood felt like I was already 45. Give me a lot of mental strenght and discipline tho.

Cancer rising = 9/10 Cancerial feature are beautiful. Feel so nostalgic sometimes...(but i like it). Give a very dreamy aura, water faery vibes.

Lilith in the 10th house = 4.5/10 Strong aura, just straight up scare others. Other women usually do not like me without even trying to know me.

Stellium in the 2h (mars,sun,mercury,jupiter) : 10/10 Never really struggled with money. I spend a lot on hair care and skincare (leo stellium), 2nd house being associated with food, I struggled for quite a bit with my relationship with food, always too much or not at all (you are not alone and everything will be alright.)

Chiron in the seventh house : 2/10. I am just giving points for the fact that i am alive. THOUGH. One friend, cannot make more, feel hurt by every little hurt and always fear that they don't like me and will just leave. Make you isolate as a preventive...

Aries lilith : 8/10 : intimidating aura, others do not try you, if it's bad aspected you can have anger issues. Other women will see you as a threat. Love the anger and the energy

[erosastro]

Astro observations 💜✨

💜 Scorpio placements are the types to dish but can’t take. So they’ll be telling you some ish and expect you to take it lightly and laugh but if you do it back to them, they be mad and defensive af😭 and I’ve seen this with so many Scorpio placements it’s insane.

💜Speaking of Scorpio placements, they can be shit talkers too, especially if they have Gemini and Sagittarius placements. Gemini and Sagittarius kind of have that reputation, esp geminis but y’all have no idea how conniving scorpios can be, especially if they feel like they’ve been done wrong/things don’t work out the way they wanted it to.

💜Promise this isn’t a Scorpio roast lol I’ve just been noticing some patterns especially with the whole drake and Kendrick thing 💀

💜the sign you have in your seventh house is who you’ll be naturally drawn to, to some extent your fifth house too (you’d be attracted to them). For example, if you have Pisces seventh house, you’d be attracted to Pisces placements. If you have Capricorn fifth house, you’d be attracted to Capricorn placements. It could also work for the planets in that house. So if you have Sun in seventh in Pisces you could also like Leo placements.

💜Your best friend(s) could either have one or more of your big three in their big three too. For example if you have an Aquarius moon, your best friend could have an Aquarius Sun or Rising. It could even be the exact same placement, so if you have a Virgo moon, your best friend could also have a Virgo moon.

💜Aquarius, Aries and Pisces placements are most likely to experiment with their hair and try wild styles/colours.

💜Saturn in 8th house could mean a delay in intimacy, especially sexual intimacy. It could also indicate a fear of death/losing someone close to them.

💜Chiron in third house can show a difficulty in early learning phases and issues with siblings.

💜Lilith and Pluto in first house come across as very intimidating (they are).

💜Aries and Sagittarius mercuries are some of the most blunt people I’ve ever met.

💜Let me love some Scorpios a bit because I feel like I’ve done y’all dirty I’m sorry 😭🫶🏽 Scorpios are very protective over their friends. If you mess with someone close to them, you mess with them too.

💜Libra, Aquarius and Leo placements like to take random pictures of everything. Their camera roll is probably filled with sunset pics then a random pic of a fire hydrant.

💜I’m still learning about solar return charts but it’s definitely true what they say about a ninth house stellium. You could plan a trip and travel during that year and also consider furthering your education, especially tertiary education. I’ve already planned a trip and am going to do my honours lol.

💜Gemini and Virgo placements love reading. They’re fr proper bookworms. Ruled by mercury, it’s not surprising that they do.

💜Honestly, Sagittarius placements are some of the most optimistic and happiest people I’ve met. (Yes even mercuries). They’re always looking at the brighter side of things and are more of a “glass half full” type of person. I don’t think I’ve ever met a pessimistic Sagittarius placement person.

💜Ruler of the fourth house in the ninth in your solar return could indicate moving away/out of your house and possibly abroad.

💜I’m sorry but Leo placements cannot take a hint 😭 especially if they’re rejected in some way, they’ll still try their luck and flirt with someone even after they’ve rejected them.

💜Venus in 11th have a lot of their friends that develop a crush on them. They’re alluring and unique and it draws a lot of their friends in.

💜Aquarius, Pisces and Cancer placements LOVE the beach. They feel the best when they’re in the ocean.

💜Right then after a lot of debate, the signs that can really hold a grudge are Cancer placements, Scorpio placements and Libras(yes Libras!! Especially Mars, they’ll be hella passive aggressive).

💜Don’t piss off Aquarius placements. They may be sweet but if you ever piss one off, they’ll act like you don’t exist. Especially Aquarius Moon and Mars.

thank you for reading!

[venusgroove]

chiron in the solar return houses

when reading a solar return chart, i always look at chiron’s placement. chiron can tell you where you’ll be struggling the most that year.

chiron never fails to give you a hard lesson, you cannot go against the lessons chiron has prepared for you. although this seems tough, once the pain and grief is experienced, you’ll be gifted with strength.

chiron in the first house

issues with self-identity. chiron in the first house can experience negative comments towards appearance and/or personality leading low self esteem. there can be an overall negative approach to life, a lack of optimism.

chiron in the second house

issues with material possessions. chiron in the second house can lead to tricky financial situations or just possessions stolen, this can cause a lot of physical and mental stress. there can also be issues in the work environment, things may be stressful.

chiron in the third house

issues with communication. chiron in the third house can cause miscommunication in both parties, the person with the placement and with other people. things said may be taken the wrong way. there can also be conflicts with siblings.

chiron in the fourth house

issues with family. chiron in the fourth house can cause conflicts in the family. family members can be fighting often or the person with the placement is fighting with family members. either way, instability will be found in relationships at home. this can also cause direct issues with the mother.

chiron in the fifth house

issues with finding happiness. chiron in the fifth house can cause a depressing year. it can be hard to enjoy things that are deemed as fun. there can also be a lack of creativity, this can cause a burnout, especially to someone with water placements.

chiron in the sixth house

issues in routine. chiron in the sixth house can cause life to feel somewhat dull. things can feel boring, there may be the feeling that the days are just repeating themselves. this can lead to a negative mindset, a decline in mental health. there can also be issues with physical or mental health.

chiron in the seventh house

issues in relationships. chiron in the seventh house can lead to romantic rejection. asking people out will often lead to getting declined. if one is already in a relationship, this can mean toxicity may arise in the relationship.

chiron in the eighth house

issues with maintaining positive energies. chiron in the eighth house creates a negative energy, not only can this harm the person with the placement, but also those surrounding them. this is happens due to the fact that energy is so contagious. there can also be issues with letting go, holding onto old experiences can contribute to the negative energy that was previously discussed.

chiron in the ninth house

issues in finding meaning/purpose in life. chiron in the ninth house can cause turbulence to philosophic beliefs. there may be many stressful thoughts relating to experiences of death and what happens after death. there can also be issues with higher education, such as college.

chiron in the tenth house

issues with reputation. chiron in the tenth house makes others jealous of ones status, therefore they try to sabotage. friends will often be hidden enemies. there can also be issues with a father figure.

chiron in the eleventh house

issues with friends. chiron in the eleventh house can bring negativity to friendships. either friends backstabbing or struggling to create friendships. this can also cause a negative experience with technology, something such as cyberbullying.

chiron in the twelfth house

issues in spiritually healing. chiron in the twelfth house drains spiritual energy, leading to a blockage in healing. this could lead to a negative mental space. there can also be issues with sleeping, a possibility of getting insomnia or having nightmares and experiencing sleep paralysis.

[neptunianmuse]

Marriage in Transits and Solar Return charts 💍

I know this is a topic a lot of people interested in astrology care about. So I thought I should make a post about it. In the past couple of months I have read A LOT of solar return and Transit charts of married couples; from famous couples, my friends, my friends parents and family members. I have noticed these recurring placements...I hope you guys enjoy this 💗

Transits

- Mercury in the second house - Sun in the second house - Lunar nodes in the 4th/5th house - Pluto in the fifth house - Chiron in the seventh house - Uranus in the first house/Conjunct the ascendant - Moon in the first house/Conjunct the ascendant. - Moon in an air sign or Pisces is very prominent in many charts I’ve looked at, like MOST of them. - Uranus in the fifth house - For women briede asteroid in the first house. - I've noticed in a lot of charts asteroid groom is in the same sign in the birth chart and when it's transiting. If it isn't conjunct then it is trine. - Mars at 12°. - Pisces moon at 10° I saw In like 8 charts. - Moon at 15° I also saw a lot of.

Solar Return Chart

- Sun in the first house - Vertex in the seventh house - North node in the seventh house - ASC in Leo, Virgo, Libra, and Cap - Moon making an aspect to Uranus - Juno in 3rd, 7th or 10th house - Stellium in the 7th and/or 10th house - ASC at 19° or 27° - Pluto in the fourth house - Sun conjunct Mercury, this was also shown the year people got engaged. - Moon trine/square ASC. - Jupiter making an aspect to Saturn/Uranus. - Moon at 1° or 29°, I saw this in every married family member of mine solar return chart. EVERY SINGLE ONE. - Mercury at 16 degrees was in SO SO many charts, also at 13 degrees but it didn’t come up as much as 16 degrees. - Venus in Cap, Libra, Cancer and Pisces - Vertex aspecting Venus mostly square and opposition. - Venus sextile/trine mars. - Vesta at 15° - North Node/Vertex in 5th house - A lot of the solar return charts I've looked at when people had prominent 5th house placements or a stellium they had kids right after marriage.

Asteroids I've mentioned (Juno 3, Groom 5129, Briede 19029, Vesta 4)

I hope you guys liked this post, let me know if you have any thoughts or questions. I would love to hear them 🙈.

[hoodreader]

𝒯𝐻𝐸 𝒜𝒮𝒯𝑅𝒪𝐿𝒪𝒢𝒴 𝒪𝐹 𝐵𝒫𝒟 .ᐟ

( 𝐵𝑜𝓇𝒹𝑒𝓇𝓁𝒾𝓃𝑒 𝒫𝑒𝓇𝓈𝑜𝓃𝒶𝓁𝒾𝓉𝓎 𝒟𝒾𝓈𝑜𝓇𝒹𝑒𝓇 )

what i write below aren’t sole chart identifiers for the manifestation of the disorder, just because i write a placement below doesn’t mean u have the disorder. u know urself best though. and don’t come up in here talking bout “waaaa u can’t use astrology like this.” correction! YOU can’t. but i can.

discretion is advised. bpd is a disorder with complex traits that may be triggering for some readers. such as self-harm, suicide, or addiction. source i’m using: one

❤︎ 𝒫𝒜𝑅𝒯 𝒪𝒩𝐸: 𝒟𝒮𝑀 𝒞𝑅𝐼𝒯𝐸𝑅𝐼𝒜

bpd is defined as a pervasive pattern of instability in the following three main categories areas:

instability in relationships

instability is neptunian, but i’d also extend to an afflicted saturn especially if it’s forming a hard-aspect to mars. this is because saturn is the planet of stability: an affliction indicates the lack thereof or a struggle with it. ( saturn in aries, saturn aspecting nodes, saturnian 2h/6h/8h or 12h. . . ) — let this inform the 3h/5h/7h, & also the 1h/4h.

moon rules changeability, so an afflicted or weakened moon will indicate that the nature of change may be instability. venus represents our securities. and both planets reserve delineations over how we emotionally connect to others in intimate relationships. afflictions to either one cause strain with relationships. ( moon in scorpio, capricorn, or aries, venus in aries or pisces, moon/venus aspecting the nodes, lunar/venutian 8h/12h especially, moon/venus harsh-aspecting saturn/neptune/mars/uranus, moon & venus harsh-aspecting each other, etc. . . ) — let this inform the 3h/5h/7h, & also the 1h/4h.

i’d also add in pisces, due to pisces being modernly ruled by neptune. even though pisces is venus’ exalt, exalt doesn’t mean ‘good’ & pisces venus natives tend to struggle with instable relationships. nodes, uranus, mars, moon, & neptune in the third, fifth, & seventh.

instability in self-image and emotions

basically the same as above, but instead, centered on the first house & moon ( nodes in the first/fourth house or aspecting the moon, nodes aspecting mars, moon aspecting mars, first house or fourth house lord(s) aspecting the nodes/mars, or in the 8h/12h especially, etc. . . )

marked impulsivity

an affliction to mars is one of the strongest indicators i’ve seen for poor impulse control ( mars aspecting the nodes, mars in the 8h or 12h especially, mars in cancer, sun in very close conjunction to mars [an orb of 2° or less], mars harsh-aspecting saturn etc. . . )

the nodes in & of themselves though can show whether or not the querent struggles with impulsivity - especially the north node, as the north node represents insatiablity. . . how u are almost consumed by what u “desire.” asc containing the north node, north node aspecting mars, north node in any of the malefic hoises ( second/sixth/eighth/twelfth ). . .

general houses & planets of interest. . .

first house is the house of the mindset & general health. sixth house is the house of illness & disease (but typically of the body). eighth house is the house of mental sickness & illness.

moon, saturn, and mars are planets i typical read for mental, mood, psychological, or emotional disorders. mercury. . . to a lesser degree. the nodes are not planets but they are also very relevant! treat their significance as a planet as well.

❤︎ 𝒫𝒜𝑅𝒯 𝒯𝒲𝒪, 𝒯𝐻𝐸 𝒩𝐼𝒩𝐸 𝐵𝒫𝒟 𝒞𝑅𝐼𝒯𝐸𝑅𝐼𝒜

to meet the criteria for BPD, five of nine symptoms must be present in multiple contexts and cause significant suffering or impairment in relationships and overall functioning.

one abandonment reaction

frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.

abandonment is saturnian in nature, as saturn is the planet responsible for exile / seclusion / loneliness & more. so look for wounds in the chart relating to feeling abandoned ( chiron aspecting saturn, chiron in capricorn / aquarius, chiron in the twelfth house, moon in capricorn / aquarius, moon aspecting saturn, saturn in the twelfth house, chart ruler / moon dispositor in the twelfth, etc. . . )

the moon is of significance due to it representing safety and security in the chart. a compromised moon will reflect in the native’s sense of security, including in their relationships (fear of abandonment) such as moon aspecting a malefic, moon in scorpio or capricorn, moon in the twelfth, moon dispositor in a malefic house, etc. . .

someone with a saturn-ruled chart or the first house containing saturn can be someone who anticipates abandonment / isolation. this is because the first house shows our mindset & our expectations of our environment. i also think the seventh house is significant as well, because it shows what we think of those closely intimate with us, & the expectations they mirror back.

this hypervigilance of perceived abandonment is also a manifestation of paranoia. so i stress an overactive mars, an afflicted mars, or an afflicted moon ( aries / scorpio ascendant, mars in the first, mars in cancer especially, mars in aries or scorpio, moon in scorpio, moon in capricorn, moon aspecting mars, mars aspecting saturn, saturn aspecting moon, etc. . . )

two idealization and devaluation

a pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.

aka, splitting. black & white thinking — things are wholly one thing or another ( either all bad or all good; all loving or all hateful; all fair or all unjust; etc ). but neither are founded in reality, since they are contingent on how the person is triggered.

afflictions to mercury can impair the native’s ability to reason ( mercury aspecting pluto or mars, mercury aspecting the nodes. . . mercury aspecting an afflicted moon, etc. . . )

idealization is neptunian because it’s a bit delusional in nature ( neptune in the first, neptune aspecting mercury + moon + venus especially if it’s a hard aspect ).

affliction to venus, as venus is the planet responsible for balance & harmony. so someone whose venus is afflicted can struggle with balancing seemingly conflicting information. . . likewise, maybe a chart shape of see-saw or having a chart full of oppositions can cause this “black & white” thought pattern.

three unstable self image

identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.

this will be the first house, as this is the house of the self but also how the querent perceives themselves. saturn present in the first will cause a barrier for the native to understand themselves ( this is alleviated with age, but bpd is a disorder that manifests before saturn’s maturity ). uranus, neptune or pluto influencing the first house can cause instability in self image.

this also goes for those planets ( saturn, uranus, neptune, or pluto ) aspecting the chart ruler and/or planets within the first house.

the first house lord in the malefic houses ( second/sixth/eighth/twelfth ) since these are the invisible houses — but more specifically the eighth and twelfth houses. can cause the native to struggle “seeing” or “understanding” themselves.

the nodes are significant: be present in the first or aspecting the lord of the chart. possibly the sun consuming the ruler of the chart as well ( aka, combustion ). and the moon is naturally significant ( the nodes are dependent on the moon ), so an afflicted moon relating to the ascendant as well.

four self-damaging impulsivity

impulsivity in at least two potentially self-damaging areas ( e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating ).

the twelfth house is the house where the querent causes harm to themselves, so this is a house of significance. mars & uranus rule our impulses, so connection between them both can denote poor impulse control that harms the native ( mars / uranus in the twelfth, twelfth house aries + scorpio, mars / uranus dispositor in the twelfth, twelfth house lord harsh-aspecting mars / uranus, mars-pluto, mars-uranus, mars-saturn, twelfth house pluto ).

since the self is the ascendant / 1h, also look for connections between the 1h and the house of self undoing - these are core to the manifestation of the disorder, & 1h rules the mind / mindset / mental health of a native ( connection between the first house and the twelfth or eighth, eighth house and the twelfth, etc. . . )

because self-damaging impulsivity can be a broad category ( as indicated above: sex, drugs, driving, etc can all be ways you damage yourself ), i’d observe the nodes but particularly the north. the nodes in the first / twelfth / eighth are overall indications of self-damaging impulsivity. connection between a node and a respective planet can help delineate how a querent self-damages: node-venus can be sexually or financially, node-mars can also be sexually ( but in more violent contexts, imo ) or physical brutality / mutilation, the north node itself can be representative of addiction, and both nodes can delineate disordered eating ( especially if they are relating to moon, mars, the second house, the sixth house ), etc. . .

five recurrent suicidal behavior / self-harm

recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.

when you get your diagnosis for bpd, it’s actually advised that the healthcare provider inspect you for self harm scars: cutting, burning, etc. but self harm is more nuanced than that. it’s any way you may cause harm to yourself. the indicators here will mirror a lot of the indicators from the above fourth section ( “self-damaging impulsivity” ).

but this is particularly suicide, suicidal behavior, & self mutilation. we will also look to the twelfth house ( connections between first and twelfth, twelfth containing malefics, twelfth containing nodes especially considering the nodes are ‘severed’, etc. . . ) suicide itself is neptune, pluto, and saturn ( in the twelfth, ascendant, etc. . . ), and a connection between the twelfth and eight could perhaps suggest self harm.

node connecting to neptune, pluto, saturn, or mars.

six emotional instability

instability is neptune, and the emotions / emotional state are going to be found in the moon, first house, and fourth house. so neptune present in those houses, connected to the lord of those houses, or moon to neptune can denote emotional instability, especially if the moon is afflicted ( in a malefic house, in detriment or fall, etc. . . )

but i’d also say the same essentially for mars, pluto, or a harsh-aspect to saturn ( such as mars-moon, pluto-moon, or moon square / opposite saturn ). connection between the moon’s dispositor / fourth house lord to the eighth house or twelfth house i feel especially can show some sort of instability.

and of course, the nodes. node aspecting moon, node present in the fourth house, in the first house, etc. . .

seven chronic emptiness

emptiness is something that feels saturnian and plutonic to me, so the feeling of being ‘empty’ or ‘devoid’ of something can be first house containing saturn or pluto ( or the first house in capricorn or scorpio, depending on conditions of the chart ruler ) - chronicness is explained through pluto & saturn, as they are the planets representing long periods of time or things that reoccur.

i think nodes are significant as well - bpd’s chronic emptiness is due to a feeling of (1) insatiability or (2) dissociation. i’d ascribe the former to the north node ( i.e, constantly feeling hungry for a feeling, chasing ‘highs’ because nothing satisfies an urge ) and the latter to the south node ( i.e, the body detached from the head is kinda floating through its own senses ). let them be present in the first house or aspecting the ascendant / chart ruler.

eight inappropriate anger

inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger ( e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights ).

an afflicted or overactive mars. especially cancer mars, since their mars is disposited by the moon. it causes a certain defensiveness; a need for “protection” that causes their lashing out to be rooted in survival. similar for moon, though - both planets are guarded and are responsible for protection. bpd manifests because of insecurity & a wound from the home environment ( mars aspecting moon, mars in cancer, mars harsh aspecting saturn, aspecting pluto, mars in first house, etc. . . ).

i think a harsh aspect between mars / moon and saturn is significant because it denotes a struggle with mood regulation.

nine paranoia & dissociation

transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.

paranoia is saturn and pluto, but i’d also say overactive moon and perhaps general neptunian energy. paranoia is like a ‘wounded intuition’ spiritually. . . so i’d say twelfth house containing saturn, pluto, neptune, or moon can show paranoia. i’d also add a connection between moon and saturn, moon and pluto, or moon and neptune. . . and of course, the nodes - moon and north node, specifically.

for the dissociation. . . dissociation is described as “the state of being disconnected.” so i find significance in twelfth house lord in first or vice versa, the chart ruler aspecting twelfth house lord or planets, and a heavy stress on the south node. the south node is the planet of dissociation due to it being the headless body - this is an energy that is difficult to work with, so the south node in the twelfth / in the first / aspecting ascendant or chart ruler / aspecting moon can definitely cause the native to “be out of their own bodies.” i’d also add connection between the south node and saturn.

❤︎ 𝒪𝒱𝐸𝑅𝒱𝐼𝐸𝒲

the most recurring traits i feel there is in my interpretation are harsh aspects between mars and saturn, an afflicted moon or mars, and connections between the first house and the twelfth house.

a strongly placed north or south node also seems extremely significant, especially for the context of self harm / self damages / addiction.

don’t sleep on reading the fourth, first, and moon to understand how a disorder manifested: bpd is highly environmental and highly genetic. the first house is ruling over your environment as well, your fourth house is your familiar environments ( such as home ), and your ancestry is indicated through both the moon and the fourth.

thank you for reading! if you have another disorder you’d like to see me try, please comment down below. i’m open to any psychological disorder, provided i am well-read & studied on it. time to take a nap! byeee🩶

[pallastrology]

astro notes

🌾 oppositions create more of a stalemate, while squares create competition. this effect is clearest when looking at synastry charts, where you can look at where the tension is. they both have interesting dynamics, but the square is more energised and the opposition more cautious

🌾 we often associate certain houses with love; fifth and seventh, for example. but in my experience, such a huge part of life follows us everywhere, and we see it expressed in every house

🌾 taurus moons have a very soothing aura. they are a sign you can sit in silence with, and just take in the feeling of finally coming home

🌾 water houses can represent different aspects of our inner world. the fourth house is all about our sense of safety and the innocent, childlike imagination we keep safe within; the eighth holds our fears and the shadow self, the parts of ourselves we keep packed away; the twelfth relates to dreams and our unconscious memory, what our bodies hold onto for us

🌾 sun sextile sun in synastry feels easy, safe. it’s not a thrilling, tense, engulfing aspect but a lazy, tender one. it makes me think of those couples that have been married longer than you’ve been alive, or a friends-to-lovers situation

🌾 chiron in the first house, or aspecting the ascendant, can indicate struggles with body image and disordered eating. of course, the rest of the chart needs to be taken into consideration, but chiron brings with it a wound, and when it’s focused on the self, it can hint at body image difficulties, and trying to control one’s self with food

🌾 mars in libra is often called manipulative. this is because they are highly attuned to those around them, good at reading between the lines, and are people pleasers. they generally don’t have bad intentions, but can be guilty of using their emotional intelligence to “mind read” and steer people in certain directions

🌾 neptune aspecting the descendant or in the seventh house can go one of two ways; sometimes the native is attracted to - and attracts - neptunian people, who may be deceptive or confusing; or alternatively, the native may be prone to deluding themselves in relationships, justifying bad behaviour and wearing rose-tinted glasses

[stellarwhisper]

Astrological Perspectives: Using the Signs and Houses to Manage Relationships, Express Oneself, and Find Healing

Virgo Mars people value efficiency and order, are pragmatic, and pay close attention to details. They might prevent emotional vulnerability by keeping their buddy groups apart and being wary of emotional ties. They put function first and could come across as analytical or emotionally aloof. Attracting Virgo Mars people could be a sign of an unconscious attraction to their groundedness, respect for boundaries, and shared regard for structure or space. It is critical to take into account the dynamic that is most noticeable in these partnerships.

Astrological archetypes Venus and Moon have the power to forge deep emotional ties in passionate and sensual partnerships. But friction can occur when these impulses take precedence over friendship or respect for one another. Although the Venus lady satisfies the man's emotional, sensual, and romantic demands, their relationship may be shallow and one-dimensional. Although the Moon lady offers security and stability in the home, her sexual or sensual life might not be as satisfying. Although both ladies are extremely powerful, prestigious, and exclusive, it is challenging to integrate them as complete, multifaceted people.

It is easy to misinterpret Saturn, the planet of structure, discipline, and karma, because its energy frequently shows itself as difficulties and difficult lessons. However, there might be satisfying benefits if one realizes that these challenges are intended to teach important lessons. Saturn's position in the seventh house, which is typically associated with marriage, partnerships, and one-on-one connections, frequently portends profound and defining relationship teachings. People can develop a better sense of self and learn how to create healthy boundaries by facing their anxieties and destructive routines. Saturn teaches us things that require perseverance, diligence, and a readiness to endure hardship, but once we understand them, the planet rewards us with long-lasting benefits. Adopting Saturn's discipline and teachings can help you grow by guiding you through challenging situations, which will increase your maturity and wisdom.

In Aquarius, Chiron represents profound traumas that sometimes cause isolation or misinterpretation. Fear of criticism and judgment might result from this placement, particularly when unusual thoughts conflict with established wisdom. For Chiron in Aquarius, the path to recovery entails accepting their individuality and realizing that their distinct viewpoint is a gift. By valuing their uniqueness, they may authentically and satisfyingly share their vision and abilities with the world.

It is common to characterize Leo and Capricorn as egotistical because of their distinctive traits. Capricorn is goal-oriented and self-disciplined, whereas Leo wants approval and self-expression. But rather than being self-absorbed, these signals represent people who are trying to showcase their special traits and make a significant contribution to the world.

In astrology, the 12th House is in charge of subconscious problems and self-undoing, while the 1st House is in charge of identity and self-image. Unresolved trauma may show themselves as bodily manifestations. Meditation, self-compassion, and mindfulness are all part of healing. Feelings of loneliness can arise from acknowledging and releasing internalized sorrow. Self-compassion, mindfulness, boundary-setting, physical health awareness, and treatment are all practical steps toward recovery.

Particularly in the 1st House-12th House dynamic, spiritual activities, religious instruction, and philosophical study can be quite effective for healing. These exercises support the development of inner serenity, purpose exploration, and meaning in suffering. They can also foster trust and help people let go of their fears. Finding activities that speak to one's deepest self is the key to healing, whether that be through traditional religion, nature-based spirituality, or contemporary philosophical investigation.

Hobbies, relationships, self-expression, and creativity may all be quite therapeutic for those in the 1st and 12th Houses who are struggling emotionally. Art, writing, dance, and music are examples of creative outlets that facilitate the expression of one's true self and the processing of unconscious emotions. Hobbies provide people meaning and fulfillment, while romantic connections bring acceptance, intimacy, and recognition. These pursuits can encourage self-care and lessen emotional strain. These actions can aid in healing and development, such as using creativity as self-therapy, looking for romantic partners who embody one's greatest traits, and selecting pastimes that feed the soul.

Neptune in the 5th House has an impact on romantic relationships, self-expression, and creativity since it symbolizes illusion, spirituality, idealism, and dreams. Idealistic conceptions of love, escapism, empathy, emotional attachment to children, and creative imagination are important themes. This placement frequently results in a rich inner life and a propensity for artistic endeavors. They might, however, be romantically sympathetic and overlook imperfections. Neptune has to deal with issues like boundary issues, unreasonable expectations, and reality escape. They do, however, have the capacity for good things like loving compassion and spiritual creativity. to center creative energy, define romantic expectations, establish reasonable boundaries, manage Neptune, and partake in spiritual activities.

The 12th House's Venus is a privacy-loving planet that wants to maintain hidden or secret personal affairs, especially those involving romance, beauty, and money. This is because Venus is associated with the 12th House, which stands for aspects of life that are within and challenging to articulate. Venus may keep romantic secrets, refrain from disclosing personal information, and shield their romantic life from criticism from others. They might also favor quiet relationships and be frugal with their money and belongings. They could have a spiritual or charitable side in addition to emotional weaknesses. Establishing appropriate boundaries, embracing seclusion, and keeping oneself grounded in reality are essential for navigating this placement.

[mercurianthing]

SHORT ASTROLOGY OBSERVATIONS Pt.5🗣️😻👠

💌 People who have their moon in your second house will always want to touch you and their love language towards you is physical touch but they can also be afraid of your reaction and sometimes that is what can prevent them from giving you the hug they so want to give you! (It also depends on the other of the synastry you have with them).

💌 Pisces mars can really like to play soccer or they liked at some point in their life to play soccer and they are also very good at it.

💌 Mercury in the seventh house (can also relate to neptune - venus people) stop daydreaming about that one person who did the smallest thing for you, even if it was bringing you a pen during class or being nice to you for a few seconds, and start focusing on yourself - for your own good, really.

💌 I don't agree with the stereotype about virgo venus that they love animals. If someone has virgo venus in their birth chart together with virgo saturn/chiron, they most likely don't like animals and are afraid of them.

💌 Sun conjunct venus synastry makes the venus person admire and seek attention (sometimes even seek some kind of validation) from the sun person.

💌 Venus opposite saturn can indicate marriage at a later age than you expected or wanted, it can also indicate that you really want to find a relationship that will lead to marriage and a wedding but also love your freedom and the single life.

💌 The sun sign that is easiest for me to find out is Leo as if it is something in their broad speech where they talk mainly about themselves and their way of speaking which is as if they are living in their own movie, it is so easy to understand it, it can be a matter of a conversation lasting a few seconds for me to understand that a leo sun person is speaking in front of me and the ascendant sign that is easiest for me to find out is scorpio ascendant literally their eyes, I don't think I need to explain it.

💌 11th house ruler in the 3rd house can indicate popularity in your elementary school years.

💌 THAT'S IT FOR TODAY.🪐❤️‍🔥

[archersarrow-tarot]

| the D O M I N A N T S |

🏠 dominant astrology house

🪐 dominant planet

💫 dominant astrology sign

🌎 dominant element

The Four Dominants

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DOB: 10/20/1995 @ 1642 in (private location)

Dominant HOUSE

The Seventh House. The 7th house rules marriage, partnerships and other significant relationships. This house reflects what we seek in our potential life partners. Mercury in this house brings the qualities of intellectual openness; the Moon brings the feeling of home and nurturing. Chiron brings the strength of vulnerability. Partnerships are a very significant part of your life in many areas.

Dominant PLANET

Saturn is the most dominant. Neptune is second most dominant & Pluto is third.

Dominant SIGN

Pisces Signature. Pisces signatures have a intuition that is very powerful. Tens to extremely sensitive and overwhelm easily. Pisces are often escapists.

Dominant ELEMENT

WATER element. Water signs are sensitive, emotional, often creative-whether with art, music, etc. Sensitive, feeling everything deeply.

[sensualnoiree]

daily transits & horoscopes 12/10

The Sun’s harmonious trine to Chiron in Aries today offers a profound opportunity for healing through courage and self-awareness. Vulnerabilities once seen as weaknesses may now emerge as sources of strength and wisdom. This aspect encourages embracing personal growth by honoring your unique journey. Simultaneously, Venus in Aquarius sextile the North Node in Aries underscores the value of authentic relationships that align with your soul’s path. Today is about creating meaningful connections and collaborations that support your evolution.

Rising Sign Delineations:

Aries Rising The Sun-Chiron trine highlights your first house, empowering you to embrace your individuality and heal past insecurities. Venus in your eleventh house aligns with the North Node in your first house, encouraging you to seek friendships that uplift and support your goals. Let your authenticity lead the way in relationships.

Taurus Rising This healing energy illuminates your twelfth house, bringing clarity to subconscious fears or wounds. Venus in your tenth house sextiles the North Node in your twelfth, suggesting that career connections or mentors may offer wisdom for your inner growth. Trust your intuition in professional collaborations.

Gemini Rising The Sun-Chiron trine energizes your eleventh house of friendships, helping you find healing through supportive communities. Venus in your ninth house sextiling the North Node in your eleventh encourages seeking like-minded individuals who inspire you to broaden your horizons. Embrace opportunities for collective growth.

Cancer Rising This transit highlights your tenth house of career and public life, offering healing through confidence in your leadership abilities. Venus in your eighth house aligns with the North Node in your tenth, suggesting that partnerships or shared resources can propel your professional goals. Collaborate with trust and intention.

Leo Rising The Sun in your ninth house trining Chiron in your fifth encourages bold self-expression and creative healing. Venus in your seventh house of partnerships sextiling the North Node in your ninth house highlights relationships that expand your worldview. Seek connections that inspire adventure and mutual growth.

Virgo Rising The Sun-Chiron trine activates your eighth house, encouraging you to face emotional vulnerabilities with courage. Venus in your sixth house sextiles the North Node in your eighth, indicating that supportive workplace dynamics or health practices can help transform your inner world. Embrace depth and authenticity.

Libra Rising This harmonious energy flows through your seventh house of partnerships, helping you heal through open, honest connections. Venus in your fifth house sextiling the North Node in your seventh encourages creative collaborations or romantic relationships that align with your values and purpose. Let authenticity guide your bonds.

Scorpio Rising The Sun-Chiron trine energizes your sixth house of work and well-being, inviting healing through self-care and service. Venus in your fourth house sextiling the North Node in your sixth suggests that creating harmony at home can support your health and productivity. Build a foundation that nurtures your goals.

Sagittarius Rising This transit activates your fifth house, encouraging healing through creativity, play, or heartfelt self-expression. Venus in your third house sextiling the North Node in your fifth highlights the power of meaningful conversations to deepen relationships or inspire artistic pursuits. Speak your truth with passion.

Capricorn Rising The Sun-Chiron trine illuminates your fourth house, helping you find healing in your roots or family dynamics. Venus in your second house sextiling the North Node in your fourth suggests that aligning your values with your home life will foster security and growth. Prioritize what truly matters.

Aquarius Rising This harmonious aspect energizes your third house of communication, encouraging healing through honest dialogue. Venus in your first house sextiling the North Node in your third indicates that your authentic presence can inspire meaningful connections. Speak with confidence, knowing your words hold power.

Pisces Rising The Sun-Chiron trine activates your second house of values and self-worth, encouraging healing through recognizing your intrinsic value. Venus in your twelfth house sextiling the North Node in your second suggests that quiet reflection or spiritual practices can help align your inner world with material goals. Trust in your worth.

follow for more astro insights like this and head on over to @quenysefields or my etsy --> sensualnoiree to grab my new astrology guidebook on reading your own natal chart :)

[geographerdose]

I’m re-watching Weeds and got inspired by Mary Louise Parker’s/Nancy Botwin’s beauty:

And what do you know? No birth time. I see opportunity 🥽

Sag Rising with chart ruler Jupiter in the sixth house.

I think Sag rising bc Lilith would be on her Ascendant with Venus opposing it. She’s the MILF of Weeds.

Even if it’s a character, she is able to LOOK the part. The woman is drop dead gorgeous and highly desirable, no questions asked.

MC probably falls in the ninth house which would be Leo and contain the Sun.

This would give her a day chart so Jupiter is the best planet, Mars is the worst.

According to Wikipedia, she had a very unhappy childhood. Saturn would be in the fourth to corroborate this.

However Saturn is more constructive in day charts so I think this inspired her to dive into drama/acting and I would say that worked out quite well for her.

With Weeds alone, she’s hella successful. She even had some big hitting roles before Weeds but like most great actors/actresses, there is one role that she just owns— that just flows through her as if she was born to do it.

Nancy Botwin for Mary Louise Parker.

Tommy Boy for Chris Farley.

Dexter for Michael C. Hall.

You get it right?

Also her boyfriend left her for another woman when she was seven months pregnant which is pretty fucked up.

Mercury is opposing Chiron and rules her seventh house of relationships.

Fifth house would be ruled by Mars (her worst planet) at its fall in Cancer. Fifth dealing with kids so this would also support my Sag rising theory.

[astroismypassion]

Hi! Been following your blog for some years now, so I quite trust your opinion if it's possible :)

What do you think about two people having eachothers sun both in their twelfth house, and eachothers chiron both in their seventh house? I have these aspects with somebody and can't get a read on it.

Thank you!

Thank you so much💕 It really has been years, I still feel like I started out yesterday, when in reality in has been years!

Chiron in the 7th house could go in two ways, either they heal you or hurt you. This means that one of you might be not willing to commit to the connection due to past hurts and wounds from old connections.

Having Sun in each other’s 12th house means you see right through each other, which results in feeling naked in front of one another. You could easily project onto each other, certain traits that you have, you might feel your partner has them as well.

[danpuff-ao3]

Snily Synastry: Best Friends? Brother/Sister? True Love? (HP Astro #20)

An intense friendship, or a great romance? Practically brother and sister, or friends to lovers? Whatever flavor you prefer, there's no denying Severus and Lily were very close, and had a lot of love between them.

Also read: Astrology Introduction, Severus Snape, Lily Evans

According to sun sign compatibility, Capricorn and Aquarius just...do not jive. But we know there's more to the story than that, don't we?

First impressions: the Ascendant. At first glance, what did they see in each other? Severus, with Scorpio Rising: dark, mysterious, dangerous. Lily, with Aquarius rising: friendly, quirky, different. Severus' emotional water energy, Lily's sociable air energy. The two signs don't necessarily get along, but they're both fixed signs, and share a certain stubbornness and firmness.

Both share Chiron in Aquarius; a shared Wound of Belonging. Both feeling like they don't quite fit in. Lily, the witch in a Muggle family; Severus the wizard son of a magic hating father. Both magical children in Muggle communities. Both too clever for their own good. Both stand out, for better (Lily) and for worse (Severus.)

For me, if Severus' Scorpionic energy made Lily wary, her Aquarian energy appealed to Severus. Not only for the innate kindness, and for her intellect, but also for the sense of connection. Someone else like me, someone I can belong with.

This is further supported by Severus' Chiron sitting in Lily's First House, her House of self. Severus is drawn to Lily at first glance (1st), and Severus helps Lily with her own wound (Chiron.) Where Lily needs to accept who she is and be proud of her differences, Severus supports this. His appreciation of who she is, for all of her uniqueness, is what aids Lily in loving who she is. And helping to heal her own Aquarian wound.

Lily's Chiron is in Severus' third house; the House of Early Learning. They meet as children. They live in the same town (Third House also represents neighbors.) Lily helps teach Severus in her own ways, helps challenge and change his beliefs. She can also help Severus express this inner wound; best done through shared experience. She understands what he feels, and urges him to talk about it (3rd.)

This bond over something so deep and painful only helped strengthen their friendship. But while Lily worked on healing this wound (see: Lily), Severus never really caught a break in healing his own (see: Severus.)

Their moons (emotions) have an easy flowing nature between them. Severus' sentimental and sensual Taurus moon to Lily's whimsical and empathetic Pisces moon. Water (Pisces) nurturing earth (Taurus.) A loyal Taurean heart, and a compassionate Piscean heart; stable Taurus and dreamy Pisces; romantic Taurus and idealistic Pisces. Both are soft-hearted, and sensitive, and can nurture each other emotionally.

Further supported by this: both of their moons are in each other's Third House. They speak (3rd) about their emotions (moon); they communicate easily, and deeply. They are close physically (3rd) and emotionally (moon.)

Individually, their moons are in opposing houses. Lily's in the First (House of Self), Severus' in the Seventh (House of Relationships.) Lily is closely tied to her emotions, well aware of them. They impact how she expresses herself. She can be sensitive, and moody. Meanwhile, Severus has an emotional need to connect to others, and belong to others. The Seventh House means official, labelled relationships. Pinky promises, blood oaths, best friends on paper, and shouted to the world.

In Severus' case...he never really had that connection before Lily. She was the only person he trusted and counted on for many years. His parent's marriage (7th) was rocky. He didn't have other family, or friends. He had no comfort or safety in anyone before Lily. And due to Lily, the only other relationships (7th) he had were of the contractual, business partner sort (7th.) His connection to future Death Eaters disrupted his friendship with Lily, and likely played a part in him calling her "Mudblood", which for her was the straw that broke the camel's back. From there, he dedicated himself to Voldemort. And when Voldemort threatened Lily, he turned away from the Death Eaters and swore service to Dumbledore. The Seventh House also represents Open Enemies (again, known and labelled connections), tying back to Voldemort.

There are several conjunctions between Lily and Severus. Conjunctions are close ties to planets; this speaks to a very intense relationship in those areas. For an idea, these are their conjunctions (Severus' planet first, Lily's second): Sun - Mars, Sun - Saturn, Mercury - Venus, Mercury - Mars, Mercury - Saturn, Mars - Jupiter, Jupiter - Jupiter, Saturn - Mars, Saturn - Saturn, and Uranus - Uranus. That is 10 points of extreme connection!

Let's take a closer look at the most telling ones:

Severus' Sun conjunct Lily's Mars. Severus' self, his sun, energizing Lily's Mars, her center of action. The sun's ego and Mars' aggression can speak to competitiveness, but can also create common interest. This also tells of a progressive relationship; two people connecting and bettering one another. Both are in Capricorn; to me this says that Lily's Capricorn Mars sees that structured, ambitious Capricorn energy in Severus (his sun, his core) and is inspired by it. Severus' very being pushes Lily's drive. His energy pushes her into motion. And in motion, she takes his hand and pulls him along with her. Her drive pushing him forward, as well.

Severus is competent and goal-oriented; he is drawn to Lily and tells her all he knows of the magical world. They lay in the grass, under a summer sky, and make plans for their future. They work towards achievement together. They have shared interests, shared goals. (And for Snily shippers, this conjunction does speak to sexual attraction, and quite intensely. Lily drawn to Severus' physicality and emotionality. Severus drawn to Lily's focus and drive.)

If Severus' sun energizes Lily's Mars to action, then Lily's Saturn helps harness Severus' sun's power. Saturn is discipline. Saturn is work. Lily values Severus' strictness, and sureness; she helps him realize his potential, and pushes him to grow. There is wisdom to Lily's Saturn that Severus can learn from, and make use of. (For Snily shippers: it is said this is a strong connection for marriage.)

Lily and Severus both benefit from being in each other's lives.

Severus' Mercury (communication) conjuncts Lily's Venus (hobbies), Mars (action), and Saturn (discipline)! Again: all of these planets are in Capricorn. Capricorn is tenacious, resourceful, reserved, and ambitious. That energy colors all of these places.

Mercury is information -- how we receive information, how we communicate it; how we learn, how we teach. How our minds work. And it is Severus' mind that connects with Lily on so many levels. They have shared ideas (Mercury) of art, beauty, and romance (Venus.) Severus has the ability to express (Mercury) Lily's ideas and creativity (Venus.) Complementary tastes, and easy communication.

Lily stimulates (Mars) Severus mentally (Mercury.) His curiosity sated by her liveliness. Lily also guides (Saturn) Severus to learn (Mercury) important lessons (Saturn), especially with regards to responsibility, morality, law and order (Saturn.) Severus seeks (Mercury) this wisdom (Saturn) from Lily. And Lily admires and respects Severus' sharp, open mind.

Jupiter conjunct Jupiter speaks to shared philosophy and cultural values. Saturn conjunct Saturn speaks to shared opinions on politics, duty, and material stability. Severus' Mars conjunct Lily's Jupiter says expansion; helping each other move to grow.

There are points of stress between them, too. Severus' Venus square Lily's moon; disharmony between Severus' social/romantic needs and Lily's emotional needs. The stress can be worked through, and can make them stronger for it, but it is a point they need to work through.

Severus' Pluto in opposition to Lily's moon. This can be an unstable point. Severus (Pluto) can be too intense for Lily's (moon) more delicate constitution. Severus can be seeking a deeper connection (Pluto) than Lily is able to give; it can scare her, or she might be wary of it. This can be explosive together. They can grow together and make it work, or it can drive them apart.

They do have many sextiles and trines between them, which are easier connections. Comfortable, though it is wise to remember that one can be too comfortable, and grow lax where things are too easy. Severus' Venus sextile Lily's sun and ascendant, Severus' Pluto trine Lily's Venus, Severus' Saturn sextile Lily's moon, Severus' Neptune trine Lily's moon, Severus' Mercury trine Lily's moon, Severus' Venus sextile Lily's Mercury, Severus Mercury sextile Lily's Neptune, Severus Mercury trine Lily's Pluto, Severus' Neptune sextile Lily's Mars, Severus' Jupiter trine Lily's Uranus, Severus' Uranus trine Lily's Jupiter, Severus' Saturn sextile Lily's Neptune, Severus' Saturn trine Lily's Pluto, Severus Neptune sextile Lily's Saturn.

If your eyes glazed over all of that...I don't blame you! What I hope you take away is just how many points of connection there are, all "easy" relations. Areas they can bond over, move together with, but also areas they can become complacent.

There are a handful of squares, areas of stress. Venus - Moon, Venus - Pluto, Ascendant - Uranus, Neptune - Ascendant, Moon - Uranus, Neptune - Sun, Neptune - Mercury.

They have several intense connections (conjunction, opposition), many easy connections (trines, sextiles), and a handful of stressful points (squares.) Without looking at the specifics, what sort of story does that tell? Two people with a strong bond, aided by so many areas of comfort, and a few areas of conflict. All relationships, be they familial or platonic or romantic, are going to have conflict.

For Severus and Lily, who they are as individuals, and the many easy connections between them, turned them lax, I think. And rather than using all of their conflict to learn and grow together, it eventually drove them apart. Neither of them worked hard enough on their main issue. We can argue that Lily tried to draw Severus back to the "light", and it can be argued that she didn't try hard enough. We can argue Severus should have listened, should have paid more mind to his oldest, dearest friend. We can argue that Severus never should have said that word, and that Lily should have listened. They let things slide until it was too late. They stayed friends, in spite of the ways their paths were diverging, not really working towards resolution.

We can chalk it up to their youth. That's fair. We can remember that, however similar their circumstances, they do come from different backgrounds. (Muggle-born Lily in the magical world, half-blood Severus among purebloods, a wizard with a magic-hating father, a witch with a magic-envious sister, a boy from an abusive household, a girl with happy parents, a boy in poverty, a girl in stability, a strange boy, an enchanting girl.)

Had Lily lived, what would have become of them? With enough time and space apart, maybe they could have healed. There could have been a road to forgiveness when Severus turned away from Voldemort. With age and maturity, they could have worked through their issues together. In my mind, there is too much history between them for it to be easy, and too much baggage for either of them to fully let go. Severus would have to work for forgiveness, but it could be done.

And for me, I always read them as deeply, intensely platonic. True friends down to their soul. I always see Severus as needing more challenge in his life than he could truly have with Lily. He met her too young, and she's too much a place of comfort and safety to truly challenge him. But that is, of course, my personal headcanon. I believe there is enough in the stars to point towards romance, if that's what you see in them. It's up to you to look at the pieces, separately and together, and see what you make of it.

[jupiicoree]

Introduction ✧.*

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↠Sun - Self, main concerns, vitality

↠Moon - emotions, instincts, habits

↠Mercury - communication, intellect, reasons

↠Venus - love, art, beauty

↠Mars - action, desire, aggression

↠Jupiter - expansions, optimism, abundance

↠Saturn - Restriction, pessimism, structure

↠Uranus - rebellion, eccentricity, upheavel

↠Neptune - Imagination, dreams, delulsions

↠Pluto - transformation, obsession, power

↠North Node - Potential

↠South Node - Karmic Past

↠Chiron - Point of Healing

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→First House Appearance, outward personality

→Second House Money, possessions, values

→Third House Communication, immediate environment, brothers and sisters

→Fourth House Home, parents, roots, circumstances at the end of life

→Fifth House Romance, children, creativity, fun

→Sixth House Work, health, service

→Seventh House Marriage and other partnerships

→Eighth House Sex, death, regeneration, other people’s money

→Ninth House Higher education, travel, religion, philosophy, publishing, law

→Tenth House Career, status, reputation

→Eleventh House Friends, groups, goals, aspirations

→Twelfth House Seclusion, secrets, spirituality, self-sabotage, institutions

Goodbye for now !