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little-forget-me-not · 2 years ago

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day/aeriel/william

text conversation discussing my OCs Day/Aeriel/William’s relationship/family dynamic

[6:20 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: This makes me want to explore Days relationship with his absent dad

[6:20 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Cuz like surely that bothered him to some degree right

[6:20 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Always just took it at face value

[6:34 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: I feel like she told him the stork delivering babies story and he's like "my daddy is a stork?" And she's kinda like sure and for a long time he was satisfied with that cuz he had this imagination if his origins and everything. When he told other kids they laughed or found it fascinating

He probably believed it for a long time before some kid when he's older mocks him for it

[6:36 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: She would rather tell him his father is dead or never existed than for him to know that he was a bastard child unwanted by everyone in her life except her

[6:36 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Day didn't know about her past at all

[6:36 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: that makes a lot of sense

[6:37 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: does he know his father is still alive?

[6:37 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Also because Day was friends with Jacob at an early age, it became normalised to him that not all kids had nuclear family

[6:37 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: ohhh that makes sense

[6:37 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: teenage day i mean

[6:37 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: So he didn't really question it. Probably thought Jacob was a stork baby too

[6:38 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Cuz eventually he knows stork babies aren't a real thing x'D

[6:38 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: yeah man

[6:38 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: he doesn't seem like he won't ask later on

[6:38 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: unless aeriel says the dad is dead or sth lol

[6:39 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: does aeriel tell him his middle name is after his dad?

[6:39 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Probably also thought the stork carried the wrong letter/name that's why Jacob was previously a girl and had a different name

[6:39 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Aeriel probably told him this lmfao

[6:39 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: She also illustrated storybooks of the stork concept so it probably seemed very real for day ad a kid

[6:40 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: I'll have to think about all these questions xD

[6:41 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Omg he probably asked to see the letter and it's actually just his birth cert

[6:52 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Aeriel doesn't want Day to ever think/know that

1. He was a bastard child

2. Neither of his grandparents or father wanted him

3. The only "support" she was given was meant to be used to abort Day

4. She cut ties with her family and ran off on her own to raise him

5. Will was not a good person

6. Will did not love him

so I think she lied to Day and eventually told him that his father was dead

[6:54 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: omg

[6:54 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: i want to make it so Day does find out it's a lie and I think it's going to be absolutely devastating to him to realise his mother lied to him

[6:54 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: omg...

[6:54 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: omg do you want the drama

[6:54 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: wow oof

[6:54 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: he asked because he wanted to make sure they got him right too cuz what if he was actually a girl and his name was something else lmao

[6:55 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: omfg...

[6:55 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: is aeriel avoiding thinking about this topic herself?

[6:55 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: shE IS

[6:55 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: no wonder

[6:55 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: she was very relieved when Day bought the stork story and she thought she never had to deal with it again

[6:55 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: but what about when he was a teen tho

[6:56 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: oh she told him that his father was dead

[6:56 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: yeah i think he learns that in like..maybe middle school or smth ...really late xD he bought into the stork theory for a long time (like how my sis lowkey believed in the tooth fairy )

[6:56 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: hahahaha

[6:57 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: by then he was older and the death concept made things click for him

[6:57 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: it's very cool how in the family dynamic, whatever happens with the parent really has an effect on the child

[6:57 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: right!!

[6:57 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Wow

[6:57 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Would he want to know a date or the grave?

[6:57 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: i hate it!!! because i see it reflected in me!! xD

[6:57 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: To visit?

[6:57 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: omg you're right he would...........

[6:57 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: fuckin Aeriel digging herself a hole

[6:57 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Like how parent affects child?

[6:57 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: It's like the eve/yvonne/Jacob situation hahaha

[6:57 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: she probably lied the whole fucking way for years oh jesus

[6:57 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Because I would lol

[6:58 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: yeah...........................

[6:58 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: This is totally a disaster waiting to happen HAHAHA

[6:58 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: The drama omg

[6:58 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: it is omg

[6:58 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: By the way, you should write this down lol

[6:58 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: but ...i cant see her telling him the truth when he was so young

[6:58 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: ....i will xDDDDDDD ill compile the chat lol

[6:58 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: it's also too fresh for her and she doesnt want to deal with it

[6:58 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: That makes sense for sure

[6:58 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: I was just wondering how she deals with it when he's older

[6:59 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Is day sad that his dad is 'dead'? And he vists the grave and everything?

[6:59 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: imagine they bump into Will and Aeriel just goes rigid and Will looks at her and is like "...Flo?" and he sees Day and his eyes widen even more and he's like "Is that?" and Aeriel is like GTG

[6:59 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Because I can totally see that lol

[6:59 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: HAHAHA

[6:59 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: OOF

[7:00 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: oh my god Aeriel probably told him they couldnt visit the grave or anything cuz it's really far away (which is true, she did leave the area) so they made like a makeshift one in the backyard (.........wonder how Aeriel feels about that fucking smh)

[7:00 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Oh my god.......

[7:00 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: I'm dead

[7:00 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: but then Day probably tried to save up tickets so they could all visit and stuff

[7:01 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Day would treat it very seriously right?

[7:01 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Yeah omg

[7:01 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: How does Aeriel feel about that lol

[7:01 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: increasingly horrified lol

[7:01 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: she's really forced to confront this

[7:01 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: i think she breaks down

[7:01 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: I mean....

[7:01 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Ooof

[7:01 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: and Day stops after that because he realises he's upset her

[7:01 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: so after a certain age he stops bringing his dad up

[7:01 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Aeriel..........

[7:02 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: like he learns that it's a taboo subject

[7:02 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: I need to bathe but keep this coming

[7:02 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: jesus i never thought about this ahahaha

[7:02 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: I NEED TO EAT

[7:02 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: It's the same feeling as watching a train wreck

[7:02 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Aeriel................ Omg

[7:02 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: IT IS

[7:02 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: im like..oh god i cant look away

[7:02 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Please write all this up omg

[7:02 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Day is a super curious child though like there's no way he'll stop badgering her about it

[7:02 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Yeah

[7:03 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: She just keeps deflecting and distracting him

[7:03 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: And he's emotional and he would hold on to stuff like that

[7:03 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Is he sad when it's fathers day and he's older and thinks his dad is dead?

[7:03 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: He'd probably want to know the death date right... Would she make it up too? Omg

[7:04 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: like with the stork theory, she bought years of time xD cuz Day would just draw his own stories and make up what his "dad" was like and ask his mum if they could visit the Storkland or if he can fly and all that and his own imagination basically filled in whatever gaps there were and kept him busy and satisfied for a while

[7:04 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Hahahahaha

[7:04 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Oh gosh

[7:04 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: She's literally just like holding him off

[7:04 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: ....YEAH..she's sentimental so I feel like the date would have either been his actual birthday or the date they split up

[7:05 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: How does she feel about it herself?

[7:05 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Like is it that she can't accept that this is what happened with Will?

[7:05 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Like I'm just curious what's motivating her avoidance

[7:05 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: OOF

[7:05 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Day is living a lie and mourning a lie... I'm dead 🤣😐

[7:06 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: teenage Day probably did a lot of his own research actually.......he wants to know more about this elusive father whom Aeriel never talks about. She only says stuff like "he's kind/good/gentle" etc and omits everything else. And when Day asks if she thinks he would have loved him too it fucking shoots her in the heart like an arrow

[7:06 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: I'm going to bathe but this is such a train wreck omgg

[7:06 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: kids man

[7:06 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: OOF

[7:07 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: If Aeriel never really dealt with it, it makes sense with how she went from being under her parents control to being Day's mom

[7:07 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: It's heartbreak. I don't even know what it's like to feel heartbreak like hers to be completely honest. She literally lost everything and became deeply disillusioned with the world for a bit. She couldn't believe Will would have treated her the way he did and she...couldn't really make peace with it. I wonder if she ever shared this with anyone...like Noella or someone. Idk yet.

[7:07 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: In a way with having to bring up Day, she doesn't have the free time to think about it? I guess?

[7:08 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Ohhhhh

[7:08 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: That makes a lot of sense. She loved him right?

[7:08 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: She just avoided thinking about it as much as she could because she couldn't even come to terms with it herself. Overtime it became easier to just keep throwing blankets on it

[7:08 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: I can't see her sharing this with anyone right now

[7:08 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: That makes a lot of sense

[7:09 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: thats' why when Day presses her she breaks down because it hits too close to home, all her fears and heartache and bitterness and confusion and a deeper sense of "what have i done/am i doing this right/was i not good enough"

[7:09 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: and she has no time for that

[7:10 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: She definitely becomes ...different when you mention Will. Her whole demeanor shifts and I think it probably scared kid Day so he just learnt not to bring it up

[7:11 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: he knows his dad's name though. "William". And he's like :D that's my name too!

[7:18 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Oof...

[7:18 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Oh man

[7:18 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Our characters really made me realize that a perfect parent doesn't exist

[7:19 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: No matter how good your intentions or what kind of person you are

[7:19 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Hahaha I can definitely see Day like that

[7:20 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Are you going to explore this more?

[7:20 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: I dont think Aeriel herself knows how she feels about Will. It's such a mix of so MUCH that she can't really ...think about it for too much. It reduces her to tears and I feel like it's smth she needs to talk to someone about to process it

[7:20 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: This is so interesting

[7:20 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: yeah man

[7:20 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Oof...

[7:20 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Is this why she threw herself wholly into raising Day? I mean, of course she loves him and she left everything for him

[7:21 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: But it's also a convenient reason to not have to think about all this

[7:21 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Or to think about romance or connecting with people in that way

[7:22 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Now that I think about it, she doesn't have many connections other than Day right? It seems like she never seemed very close to Noella though Noella is super friendly. Did this affect how she is unconsciously closed off to any new person or resisted having new connections? She has trust issues. She feared Noella wanted to take Day from her

[7:22 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Sorry for the questions lol, I was just thinking about how it might affect her

[7:22 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: NOOO THE QUESTIONS ARE VERY GOOD

[7:23 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: I just realized she really has no friends

[7:23 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: YEAH OMG....she just made him her whole world and ...well yes it's like it's her responsibility and everything but she could always say she didnt have time to deal with herself because Day. Like Day became her excuse too

[7:23 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Like not in a judgy way but the only strong connection she has in her life is Day

[7:24 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: YEAH I definitely see that in her

[7:24 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: I do think she has a friend group! But idk how much she....yknow, goes out and shit.

[7:25 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: This explains why you said her life was like being under her parents control, and then raising Day and she never really explored her own interests and all that

[7:25 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: I mean the timing is unavoidable but it also makes sense that there wasn't another self-exploration part to it

[7:25 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Ohhh that makes sense!

[7:26 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Idk why she always struck me as having her whole life revolving around Day

[7:26 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: She wanted to keep Day close to her...kinda like how her parents kept her close to them omg

[7:26 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: but also because of how her parents were so overbearing, she gives Day way more freedom too

[7:26 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: That makes a lot of sense

[7:27 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: but more unconciously, it also supplies the reason why Day doesnt feel comfortable leaving her for too long

[7:27 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Yeah man

[7:27 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: It explains the very subtle codependency

[7:27 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: dang it goes deep

[7:28 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: She does have more time for herself after day goes to school and all that

[7:31 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: she does! i see her opening up more then but at the same time...

[7:31 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: idk i vibe with her in my current condition except hers is way deeper ._.

[7:32 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: she had a thorn festering deep in her and she never pulled it out. Just kept bandaging over it and ignoring it until it looks like it's scabbed over

[7:32 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: that's years of pus and decades of deeper trauma she never addressed

[7:33 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: i dont even know what the deal with her family is

[7:33 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: did they disown her? did they look for her? she was the one who ran away so maybe this whole time they were looking

[7:35 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: because i have this feeling that if she shows up again, yes her parents will be critical and angry but also ....happy to see her? and even Day? they might even feel guilty about the whole situation? Esp when they see what kind of person Day is

[7:40 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Oof

[7:40 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Yeah man

[7:40 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Are you gonna explore her past?

[7:40 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: It seems like it's a big part of how the whole situation with Will plays out

[7:41 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Oh wow... Its even weirder when you think of them as Day's grandparents

[7:43 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: very true...perhaps i shall xD

[7:43 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: it's a hard topic

[7:43 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: she doesn't let me in so it's harder to know

[7:43 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: ikr

[7:43 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: idk how i'll feel if i lived scraping by and suddenly learnt that actually my entire extended family that i didnt know is RICH

[7:44 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: and they partially had a hand in my situation

[7:44 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: bound to feel...squirmy

[7:51 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: lmao i was thinking that if Day seemed a bit distant and off due to this, he'll still be all smiley and jokey with his friends and i think most people won't even realise he has such a big issue as this in his life at the time

[7:55 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: I feel like when Aeriel finally tells Day the truth, he doesn't have the space to process it because he's more focused on supporting his mom because of how clearly deeply upset she is about it

[7:56 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: He doesn't think about how HE feels about it, just how she is taking it and how she is feeling

[7:56 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: It'll probably catch up to him after when his friends ask him about his feelings and he has to confront them too

[7:57 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: but I have a feeling he's very shaken at the fact that she lied to him because he always trusted her 200%

[7:57 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: for so long too

[8:09 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Yeah gosh.... That's messed up

[8:09 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Omg

[8:09 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Aww

[8:09 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: That makes sense with his personality

[8:09 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Oof

[8:09 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Yeah omg

[8:09 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: And about something so big

[8:09 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Would that affect his rs with her?

[8:09 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Aeriel wanted to shield him from the knowledge because she believed that him knowing would damage something in him (projection) and she never wanted him to feel anything less than loved and cherished. Kid!Day might have struggled with it, because he was a kid. But teen him is more understanding. I think he would have been hurt, yes, but more than anything he would have been moved by her love for him. To him, it didn't matter so much that these faceless people didn't choose/want him, because his mom did. So does his aunt and friends and everyone so like...these people he never even met not choosing to love him meant way less than that.

[8:10 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: That makes sense. I like how Day sees it. And I can definitely see why Aeriel shielding it was because she thought he would react the same way as her

[8:11 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: I think so... it has to. But I think they patch things up a lot quicker than my other ocs

[8:12 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Definitely, they had a strong foundation and they're both attuned to each other

[8:12 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: But wow their relationship never had anything rocky before

[8:12 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: I think it's gonna the first real instance Day realises his mom isn't infallible and it's gonna shake his world

[8:12 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: and he's going to see more and more of it as he grows

[8:12 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: I was gonna ask that omg

[8:13 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: Like it's part of growing up to realize your parents are human and fallible

[8:13 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: And he never really had that

[8:14 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: but he has a lot of compassion for her so I dont think he has ever blamed her. But he starts seeing that she's not perfect and it grounds him a bit. Like this whole time he thought, one could...BE perfectly kind/good/etc everything that he values and honors. It's a bit scary for him to realise that that isn't real

[8:14 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: probably has a bit of a existential crisis

[8:14 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: this sounds unintentionally funny hahaha

[8:14 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: aww yeah i can definitely see that

[8:15 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: wow this is making him grow a little too

[8:15 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: ikr hahhaa

[8:15 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: i wonder when this happens for him

[8:16 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: that's what i was thinking

[8:16 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: like what the timeline is like

[8:16 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: his Nolan saga is already very emotionally draining i dont think he can handle both happening at the same time lol

[8:16 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: so probably not then

[8:16 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: but i feel like it's at a similar age range yknow

[8:16 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: maybe a little older? i guess i'll have to fiddle with it

[8:16 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: yeah that's what i was thinking too lol

[8:16 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: and it's not like aeriel can be there for him during the nolan saga if she has this going on

[8:17 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: so is day still going overseas?

[8:17 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: HONESTLY I DONT EVEN KNOW WHERE THE NODAY SAGA WILL GO. Cuz last I checked, Nolan finally opened up to him after they broke up and Day was already resolute in staying away from hm. They kinda just stopped contacting each other after that

[8:17 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: ohhhh

[8:17 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: i always assumed they met each other again in happenstance when they were older and it's awkward af

[8:18 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i can't remember the noday details except that there was a lot of back and forth until they finally got together

[8:18 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: ohhh

[8:18 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: actually the whole thing with my struggle with [redacted] has made me kinda wonder if NoDay would even happen lol....... (too real) like...they have so much history and unpleasant stuff ...like why would they end up together and not with others

[8:19 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: oof

[8:19 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i think sometimes your current situation colors things

[8:19 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: definitely my history with you made me really disbelieve in childhood friend tropes (ironically when i read bkdk and iwaoi) buuut things can change and it's just your situation

[8:19 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: yeah... noday shouldnt make me sad lol xD their back and forth is so annoying but i understand WHY also so...sometimes its just messy

[8:20 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: omg what are childhood friend tropes..

[8:20 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: there is a lot of back and forth, i remember

[8:20 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i'm gonna sound very cynical, but just the fact that childhood friends can turn out healthy was very hard to believe to me lol

[8:20 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Day was the one who cut it off!! good boy!! and Nolan was wracked with guilt and shame

[8:21 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: like iwaoi/bkdk and i read a few other ships with the childhood friends turned lovers and i was soo not buying it at the time hahaha but yeah things can change i guess

[8:21 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: he needs that man

[8:21 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: xD I see... thank you for sharing

[8:21 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i read some bkdk where it happened similarly

[8:21 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: they separated for a while

[8:24 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Nolan approached him to apologise but Day never continued engaging with him and Nolan didn't feel..like he could. So they just...yeah went off separately for a good period of time. I think when they met each other again, the old flame rekindled and they were pretty awkward about it but Nolan in particular was ...way more of what he wasn't back then. I'm just surprised Day wasn't in a relationship. Or maybe he was? But didn't work out? Idk. I know Nolan avoided relationships after. So yeah idk. It feels too real in a personal way so I don't think about it ._. which frustrates me but here we are

[8:27 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: actually if I think about it, Day was probably afraid to realise he had feelings for Nolan again because it felt very similar to the past ._. Feels like trauma man xD

[8:27 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: OOF

[8:27 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: that sucks that you can't find comfort in it and it reminds you too much of your situation

[8:28 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i think they can work out though

[8:28 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: yeah man...they were supposed to be my COMFORT ship

[8:28 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: though maybe it's hard to work on that now

[8:28 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: yeah... ooof

[8:28 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: that really sucks

[8:28 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: (nodsnods) yeah.. kinda interesting tho to realise that this time Day is the one who's wary of his feelings

[8:28 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: like it's flipped

[8:28 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: that makes sense

[8:29 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i mean he was all in and he got hurt a lot

[8:29 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: back then when things got too like....invested, Nolan would backpedal. Now it's Day who gets uneasy if he finds himself getting too close.

[8:29 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: https://a-friendinthedark.tumblr.com/post/664297383776124928/not-me-once-again-using-doodleface-to-create-my

[8:29 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: love that yvonne/eve contrast lol

[8:30 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: ahh i like the parallel

[8:30 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: you said that nolan was forced to woo day

[8:30 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i like that it flips

[8:30 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Never thought I'd see the day Nolan is unabashedly wooing Day huh.. I mean i had an idea but I didn't realise it was so....like..it has to be a very deliberate effort

[8:30 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: rather than a subtle thing

[8:30 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: OMG

[8:30 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i think it's good though

[8:30 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: THAT YVONNE/EVE PARALELL I LOVE

[8:30 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: it's a bit like making up for what he did in the past

[8:30 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: right omg

[8:30 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: ODETTEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

[8:30 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: in mbti terms they are total opposites

[8:31 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: OMG so cool to see them

[8:31 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: and i love that when i put the icons side to side you see it

[8:31 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: AH i should put all my ships side to side

[8:31 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: wait a minute

[8:31 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: let me just edit this real quick

[8:31 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: btw do you think i should keep hal/hannah with the long hair or short hair

[8:31 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Yeah..! I think he struggled a lot with it too but after he saw Day again and realised "that fuck, he is in love with Day, he's not going to deny it this time, he has to do it right like a man and if it fails so be it but god dammit if he doesn't fucking try"

[8:32 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Long

[8:32 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: 'like a man' i love that HAHAHA

[8:32 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i like the reversal, i think it's good for nolan

[8:32 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: and irl a lot of times ppl switch positions

[8:32 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: nova looks so good................. i am respectfully looking

[8:32 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: hahahaha

[8:32 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: IKR surprised at how well i could get her

[8:33 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: whatcha mean

[8:34 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: as in in relationships, people often switch 'positions' a lot

[8:35 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: also the idea of nolan wooing anyone is hilarious...im like...can you do it...... (.......actually can I do it ...omg...maybe i also dont know how to)

[8:35 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: I also wonder how that looks like hahahah

[8:36 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Day is more grown up then actually. So I wonder how to like...connect to him. Makes me sad he doesn't trust Nolan but I can't blame him. I also wonder why they hang out together lol...if it's so awkward. Can someone write fic of them and I read it to convince myself pls

[8:39 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: oof... is it hard for you to picture?

[8:39 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: ................maybe

[8:39 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: it sounds like you have difficulty picturing it or sth

[8:39 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: i just keep thinking.............Day's a great guy...he can have so many other options. ...so why the guy who hurt him so badly in the past @_@;

[8:40 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: that makes sense

[8:40 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: does Day still have feelings for Nolan?

[8:41 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: He got over Nolan eventually. Seeing Nolan again made him feel conflicted. But I think he definitely develops renewed feelings again which scares him because he's kinda like "oh no not this again"

[8:41 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: because he literally went through it twice already

[8:42 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: so it's like he's resisting it

[8:42 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: The first he confessed, Nolan ghosted him, and when they got back together it was silently understood to never bring it up.

But then Nolan went up at kissed him after Day had already come to terms his unrequited crush and with being just friends

Then Nolan was hot-and-cold and it ended up so that Day believed Nolan just felt guilty and pretended to be into him.

It's a MESS.

[8:42 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: Ooh that's a good way to put it.

[8:42 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: OOOOF

[8:43 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: poor day lol

[8:43 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: yeah fucking nolan man

[8:43 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: wow the last part is like

[8:43 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: that stressed guy wiping sweat emoji

[8:43 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: nolan really had the whole "I MESSED THIS UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IF ONLY I COULD GO BACK AND FIX IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" realisation lol

[8:43 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: hahahaha

[8:43 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: he shot himself in the foot there

[8:43 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: he really did...he shot himself like 3 times man

[8:44 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: day sounds like he's resisting his feelings and the rs

[8:44 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i get now why you can't picture it

[8:44 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: this is so cool tho i never thought i'd see this from day xD

[8:44 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: well, he got burned three times technically... HAHAHA

[8:44 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: yeah.....christ xD

[8:45 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: but yeah my comfort ship is RUINED

[8:45 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: ive actually been lowkey bothered by this for months now...feels nice to actually share this with someone

[8:45 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: oh man.......... that sucks

[8:45 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i still think they can get tgt if that helps

[8:46 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: sorry your comfort ship is like.... NOT comfort anymore ouch

[8:46 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: awww thank you for the faith sobs

[8:46 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: yeah...maybe it can change but for now...they are in the bad place with me

[8:46 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: cuz nolan's shit at courting people but also he can take a hint

[8:46 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: yeah...

[8:47 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i mean if day is like resisting it then that's hard

[8:47 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: come back to it next time

[8:47 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: seems like now isn't a good time

[8:47 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: (flips through the agnst manuscript...what cataclysmic event can i throw at them to force them together...)

[8:47 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: hahahahah

[8:48 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: (but i dont want that xD but thats why fic writers do hahahah)

[8:48 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: yeah... xD its actually a pretty good reflection on my current emotional state in terms of my hopes and dreams

[8:48 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: ...oh that sounded....a lot darker than i realised

[8:49 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: yeah it would be kind of forced lol

[8:49 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: aww... ouch

[8:49 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i think the ship can work

[8:49 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: though yeah i guess it isn't a good time

[8:49 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: btw does wendie have blue eyes?

[8:49 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i decided to use doodleface to make everyone

[8:49 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i wanted to see the contrasts lol

[9:16 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: OOH

[9:16 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: yeah she has blue eyes!

[9:16 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: not how genetics work but she has matthias' eyes and nolan has heather's lol

[9:18 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: https://a-friendinthedark.tumblr.com/post/664300458004873216/the-lin-family-unintentional-but-i-gave-jacob

[9:18 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: oooh

[9:18 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: hahaha

[9:18 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: JAVOB LOOKS SO FUKCIN CUTE

[9:18 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: it's ok i guess we can take some creative liberties lol

[9:19 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: it's our world

[9:19 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: AWWWWWW sobs i love it

[9:19 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i'm tidying up all the many doodlefaces and posting them with relationships

[9:19 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: didnt you make aeriel before

[9:19 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: not me using doodleface again in 2021 lmao

[9:19 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: yes i did

[9:19 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i also made double bs

[9:19 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i'm going to collate everything and send you the links

[9:19 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: she has the same hair as eve

[9:19 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: yeah

[9:19 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: so does morrigan

[9:19 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: i remember your wendie was SPOT ON

[9:20 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: jacob is so cute my heart

[9:20 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: thank youuu

[9:20 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: I AM REMAKING STAY TUNED

[9:20 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: hYPE

[9:20 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: while i was showering i realised when Day saw Nolan again for the first time he was like "Oh no, he's still hot" in a very dismayed way in his head

[9:21 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: omg

[9:21 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: that's so funny hahaha

[9:21 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: ikr...i relate to him tho lmfao

[9:21 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: me looking at my own icarus doodleface: did i make icarus half asian??

[9:21 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: what???

[9:21 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: i like how nolan is always day's type

[9:21 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: this is what the attraction is for

[9:22 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: shortcut to get people to notice each other

[9:22 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: hahaha

[9:23 pm, 06/10/2021] Reba ♡: did i ever say before that icarus was half-asian?

[9:23 pm, 06/10/2021] r e i: I have this idea also that Nolan doesnt know how to date and he asks his mom and people around him in relationships how to court people lmao. And he attempts it all but it's so.............................not his style that he probably confuses Day a lot. I can imagine Day asking him about his weird behaviour and Nolan is very confused and kind of embarrassed/angry like "Courting you?? I thought it was obvious???" and they both pikachu face at each other lol

Also Day's naivety can really be linked to his upbringing with Aeriel. Her idealism is almost like a defense mechanism for dealing (or not dealing) with the losses she had to endure when she cut ties with her family and was dumped by Day's dad and ordered to get an abortion...... She's very idealistic and she wanted the world to be a safe, hopeful place for Day so she really did everything she could to keep it so.

which worked cuz Day grew up very optimistic, hopeful and idealistic too...but naive to a fault. Which was honestly pretty dangerous for him

cuz he didn't really have the best judgement of character

#rei ocs #never thought you'd see this tag again huh #me neither #aeriel info #day info #william info

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woollyslisterblog · 5 years ago

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1834 April Sunday 13th (part three)

[in margin ‘announcement to Mariana respecting Miss Walker’]

I am going to York Tuesday - at any rate , we shall be at ho[me] on the latt[e]r day to a late din[ner] - my father, and a[un]t, and sist[e]r, are so well satisf[ie]d, that all Shibd[e]n’s disagreeables are smooth[e]d away as m[u]ch as poss[ible] – Mar[ia]n h[a]s really tak[e]n me by surprise - I h[a]d cert[ainl]y no right to calc[ula]te up[on] her being half so kind[l]y accommodat[in]g - my father's life seems mo[re] and mo[re] uncert[ai]n and my a[un]t’s state of extreme suffer[in]g can[no]t be support[e]d for ev[e]r – b[u]t she rallies extraord[inaril]y ev[er]y now and then-

I supp[ose] y[ou]r fr[ie]nds are n[o]t yet on the oth[e]r side of the wat[e]r – heav[e]n prosp[e]r all your schemes of heart and happ[ine]ss and ment[a]l improvement! I am gl[a]d Miss Cholm[le]y is in your neighb[ourhoo]d - it w[a]s a ver[y] good of h[e]r to beg to be rememb[ere]d to me - do pray gi[ve] my rememb[ran]ce in ret[ur]n - I saw h[e]r to gr[ea]t advant[age] last sum[me]r, and th[ou]ght of h[e]r mo[re] than once aft[er]w[ar]ds - her being an old fr[ien]d of yours w[a]s noth[in]g ag[ain]st h[e]r - I oft[e]n th[ou]ght I sh[oul]d like to see Emma Strickl[in]g ag[ai]n - I d[i]d n[o]t see m[u]ch of Mrs. Milne in York, b[u]t th[ou]ght h[e]r look[in]g thin and anx[iou]s - I suppo[se] Hamlyn w[a]s off on Mon[day], and that Mrs Milne w[oul]d ret[ur]n w[i]th Charl[o]tte to Langt[o]n – b[u]t no mo[re] - my own mind is n[o]t perh[aps] less than theirs astray fr[om] chit chat -

God bless you, my dearest Mary! You will f[i]nd my reg[ar]d affectionate and steady, and will still, I trust, live to acknowl[edge] that b[o]th for your hap[pine]ss and my own, I ha[ve] done right – Ev[e]r very respect[full]y yours AL’ -

To Miss W [Walker] s[ai]d griev[e]d ov[e]r hav[in]g put off go[in]g till Tues[day] - my 1st impulse w[a]s to go tomor[row] or to do qui[te] as I lik[e]d this m[orning], b[u]t aft[er] think[in]g ab[ou]t all the aftern[oo]n , saw it w[oul]d be bet[ter] to keep to Tues[day] now it h[a]s been fix[e]d - she w[oul]d underst[a]nd all this on com[in]g here or on see[in]g me – ‘But this acc[oun]t of yours[elf] puzzles me – Howev[e]r not a word mo[re] just now’ -will see Dr Belc[ombe] - he to be at Hewarth Grange at one, or 12.30 - do n[o]t see wh[a]t can prev[en]t her ret[urnin]g w[i]th me ‘but we will be guid[e]d by Dr Belc[ombe] - I can be pat[ien]t, or wait, or do an[y] th[in]g for your health’… ‘I cann[o]t tell wh[a]t to think’… ‘I shall not wr[ite] m[u]ch mo[re] - I am too impat[ien]t etc etc etc. I do n[o]t pretend to care noth[in]g at all ab[ou]t you - I sh[oul]d be off this even[in]g if I d[i]d as I lik[e]d - Dont go bey[on]d the gard[e]n on Tues[day] morn[in]g - ever my d[ea]r[e]st f[ai]th[ful]y and aff[ectionate]ly yours AL’- din[ner] at 6 and coff[ee] in an h[ou]r hav[in]g Mar[ia]n w[i]th me all the while - Fr[om] 7.05 to 7.45 wr[ote] all but the first 4 lines of this p[age] and s[e]nt off by Th[oma]s my let[ter] to ‘Miss W[Walker] Hewarth Grange York’ and my letter to ‘Mrs Lawton Claremont House, Leamington, Warwickshire’ mus[in]g ov[e]r my let[ter] till 8.45 - then w[i]th my a[un]t till 10 o’clock - then the papers – ver[y] fine day - F 55° at 12.15 tonight -

I suspect much of her musing was over her letter to Mariana. It’s interesting to not how much was told to her by omisson. She only implies MW is to move into Shibden by mentioning her family’s pleasure at the news and expects Mariana to infer the rest. With MW herself she feigns ignorance of the STD and deflects but significantly her loyalty has shifted being now “faithfully” hers and no more of that is left for Mariana. It is done.

#gentleman jack #anne lister's diary #ann walker #mariana lawton #lesbian history #If only she’d write shorter entries and I could catch up to daily pattern

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archiefm · 5 years ago

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... claws my way up from hell once more and vomits onto the dash.... hello. its nora. i used to write rory bergstrom, but if u were here before that u might remember me as greta or alma putnam or..... som1 else.... an endless carousel of trash children..... this is finn, who i actually wrote for an early version of this rp abt 5yrs back now...... grits teeth..... so forgive me if im rusty i havent written him in a long time but seein honey boy gave me a lotta finn muse n im keen to get Back On The Horse yeehaww...

DYLAN O’BRIEN / CIS-MALE — don’t look now, but is that finn o’callaghan i see? the 25 year old criminology and forensic studies student is in their graduate year of study year and he is a rochester alum. i hear they can be judicious, adroit, morose and cynical, so maybe keep that in mind. i bet he will make a name for themselves living off-campus. ( nora. 24. gmt. she/her )

shakes my tin can a humble pinterest, ma’am....

finn has a bio pasted at the bottom (n written in like.... 2015.... gross) but it’s long so if u don’t wanna read it here’s the sparknotes summary..... anyway this was written years ago n a lot of it seems really cliche and lame now but..... we accept the trash we think we deserve

grumpy, ugly sweater wearing, tech-savvy grandpa

very dry sense of humour and embraces nihilism.

if ron swanson and april ludgate had a baby it would be finn

he was raised in derry, just south of dublin.

from a big family. elder sister called sinead. he also has a younger sister (aoife), a younger brother (colm), and a collie named lassie because his father lovs cliches (finn hates cliches but loves his dog).

his father was a pub landlord and his mother worked at the market sellin fruit n veg when they met but got a job as a medical receptionist when she had kids cos it meant she cld be there with them in the day and work nights.

his parents met when they were p young and fiesty and rushed into marriage cos they were catholic n just wanted to have sex. his family were literally dirt-poor, but they had a lot of love i guess

hmmmmm his relationship w his father wasn’t the best cos i can’t write character who have healthy relationships w their parents throws up a peace sign. yh, had a pretty emotionally distant, alcoholic violent father n so gets a lot of his bad habits i.e. drinking as a coping mechanism and poor anger management from him BUT anyway

as a kid he was never very motivated in class, he always had a nervous itch to be off somewhere doing something else. struggled under government austerity bcso there just wasn’t the resources to support low income families where the kids had learning difficulties n needed support. fuck the tories am i right

his mum suggested he try sports to help w his restless energy but he was never any good at football so he took up boxing and tap dance instead. he took to tap dancing like a fish to fuckin water. as adhd n found this as a really good way to use his excess energy in a creative way

had a few run ins with the police in his early teens for spray painting and graffiti, but he straightened himself out n now actually considering becoming a detective inspector??? cops are pigs.

he had a youtube channel where he posted videos of him tapdancing and breakdancing as a kid, basically would be a tiktok boy nowadays, n had like... a small fanbase in his early teens. attended several open auditions unsuccessfully, until he was finally cast in billy eliot when he was fifteen.

during billy eliot he began dating an italian dancer called nina. they became dance partners soon after and toured across the republic with various different shows (inc riverdance lol the classic irish stereotype). their relationship was p toxic tbh, they were both very hot tempered people and just used to argue and fight all the time.

he went semi-pro at tap dancing, and nina couldn’t stand being second best so she moved back to italy with her family. ignored his texts, phone calls, etc, eventually he was driven to the point where he used his savings to buy a plane ticket, showed up at her house and she was like wtf?? freaked out and filed a restraining order accusing him of stalking.

he was fined for harassment and then returned home to derry, but after the incident with nina he quit dancing for good and finished his leaving cert before heading to university in the US to get as far away from nina and his past life as poss. and basically since he quit dancing to study forensics (death kink. finn cant get enough of that morgue. just walks around sayin beat u) he’s become a massive grump and jsut doesn’t see the good in people any more.

u’ll find finn in an old man bar drinking whiskey bc he is in fact an old man at heart or sat on his roof smoking a joint, drawing wolves and lions and skeletons and shit, playing call of duty or getting blazed or at the corner of the room in a house party ignoring everyone and scrolling through twitter. is a massive e-boy. always up-to-date on memes and internet slang. has reddit as an app on his phone

not very good at communication. rather than solve his issues by talking, he’d prefer to just solve them through fighting or running away from his problems hence why he has come halfway across the world to get away from an issue which probs cld have been solved w a few apology emails.

takes a lot to phase him, but when his beserk button gets pressed he can become a bit pugnacious like an angry lil rottweiler. in his undergrad he was in a few fist fights but doesn’t really do tht any more as he doesn’t condone violence.

in the previous version of this rp he was hospitalised like 5 times. pls, give my son a break. stop tryin to kill him. he literaly got a bottle smashed over his head and bled out all over his favourite angora rug that was the only light of his life

works at the campus coffee shop n always whines about how he’s a slave to capitalism. always smells of coffee

lives off campus with an elderly woman named Marianne, and basically gets reduced rent bcos he makes her dinner / keeps her company. they have a great bond

fan of karl marx. v big on socialism

insomniac with chronic nosebleeds

cynical about everything. too much of a fight club character 4 his own good n has his head up tyler durden’s sphincter

always confused or annoyed

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full name: finnegan seamus o'callaghan nickname(s): finn age: 25 astrological sign: aries hometown: derry, ireland occupation: phd student / former street entertainer fatal flaw: cynicism positives: self-reliant, street smart, relaxed, intelligent, spontaneous, brave, independent, reliable, trustworthy, loyal. negatives: hostile, impulsive, stubborn, brooding, pugnacious, untrusting, cynical, enigmatic, reserved.

physical

colouring: medium hair colour: dark brown, almost black eye colour: brown height: 5’9” weight: 69kg build: tall, athletic voice: subtle irish accent, low, smooth. dominant hand: left scar(s): one on the left side of his ribs from a knife wound that he doesn’t remember getting cos he was drunk distinguishing marks: freckles, tattoo of a wolf howling at a moon allergies: pollen and the full spectrum of human emotion alcohol tolerance: high drunken behaviour: he becomes friendlier, far more conversational than when sober, flirtier, and generally more self-confident.

psychological

dreams/goals: self-fulfilment, travel the globe, experience life in its most alive and technicoloured version, make documentary films, help the vulnerable in society, grow as a human being.

skills: jack-of-all-trades, very fast runner, good at thieving things, talented tap dancer, good in crisis situations, dab-hand at mechanics, musically-intelligent, can throw a mean right hook and very capable of defending himself, can roll a cigarette, memorises quotes and passages of literature with ease, can light a match with his teeth.

likes: the smell of the earth after rain, poetry, cigarettes, shakespeare, whiskey, tattoos, travelling, ac/dc, deep conversations, leather jackets, open spaces, the smell of petrol, early noughties ‘emo phase’ anthems.

dislikes: the government, parties, rules, donald trump, children, apple products, weddings, people in general, small talk, dependency, loneliness, pop music, public transport, justin timberlake, uncertainty.fears: fear itself, drowning alignment: true neutral mbti: istp – “while their mechanical tendencies can make them appear simple at a glance, istps are actually quite enigmatic. friendly but very private, calm but suddenly spontaneous, extremely curious but unable to stay focused on formal studies, istp personalities can be a challenge to predict, even by their friends and loved ones. istps can seem very loyal and steady for a while, but they tend to build up a store of impulsive energy that explodes without warning, taking their interests in bold new directions.” (via 16personalities.com)

full bio (lame as fuck written years ago..... pleathe...)

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born in quigley’s pub on the backstreets of sunny dublin, young finnegan o'callaghan was thrown kicking and screaming into the rowdy suburbs of irish drinking culture. the son of a landlord and a fishwife, he never had much in the way of earnings, but there was never a dull moment in his lively estate, where asbo’s thrived, but community spirit conquered. at school, finn was pegged as lazy and unmotivated, though truly his dyslexia made it hard for the boy to learn in the same environment of his peers and only made him more closed-off in class. struggling with anger management, finn moved from school to school, unable to fit the cookie-cutter mould that school enforced on him, though whilst academic studies were of little interest to the boy, he soon found his true passions lay in recreational activities. immersed into the joys of sport from as young as four, finn was an ardent munster fan and anticipated nothing more than the day he could finally fit into his brother’s old pair of rugby boots.

his calling finally came unexpectedly, not in the form of rugger, but through dance. to learn to express himself in a non-academic way, he began tap dancing, finding therapy in the beat of his soles against the cracked kitchen tiles (much to his mother’s disgrace). it wasn’t a conscious choice, finn just realised one day that dance was something that made him feel. a king of the streets, finn made his fortune on those cobbled pavements – dancing and drawing to earn his keep. by default, finn became a street artist, each penny he earned from his chalk drawings saved in a jam jar towards buying his first pair of tap shoes. though many of his less-than-amiable neighbours called him a nancy and a gaybo, finn refused to quit at his somewhat ‘unconventional’ hobby, for the young scrapper found energy, life, and released anger through the rhythm of tap. soon he branched out into street dance, hip hop, break dancing, lyrical, his days spent smacking his scuffed feet against the broken patio into the night.

when he was thirteen he took up boxing, and as expected, his newfound ‘macho’ pastime conflicted with his dancing. the boxers called him ‘soft’; the dancers called him ‘inelegant’. he felt like two different people; having to choose between interests was like being handed a knife and asked to which half of himself he wished to cut away. he couldn’t afford professional training in dance, with most schools based in england and limited scholarships available. instead, he made the street his studio, racking up a small fanbase on youtube. when he was fifteen he made his debut in billy eliot at the olympia theatre in dublin. enter nina de souza, talented, beautiful and italian; ballet dancer, operatic singer, genius whiz kid, and spoiled brat. she was selfish, conceited, hell bent on getting her own way, and every director’s nightmare. finn fell for her like a house of cards. he’d always had a soft spot for girls who meant trouble. and so their hellish courtship began.

by the time they were seventeen, the two young swans had danced in every playhouse across the republic. they were known in theatres across the country for their tempestuous personalities, their raging arguments with one another, their tendency to drop out of shows altogether without any notice, yet the money kept rolling in and the audiences continued to grow. for three years, their families continued to put up with their hysterical fights followed by passionate reconciliations. he was too possessive, and she was too wild. their carcrash of a relationship finally came to a catastrophic halt when nina broke off the whole affair and returned to italy with her family. for months finn tried to contact her, yet his phone calls, texts, facebook messages were always ignored, until finally he was driven to drastic measures and used his savings to get a plane to her home town. when finn turned up uninvited at nina’s house she freaked out – and rightly so – she contacted her agent, accused him of stalking her, and had a restraining order placed against him. finn was arrested, held in a station overnight, and charged with harassment before he was allowed to return to dublin.

after the incident with nina, finn lost the fight in his eyes. he became far more hostile, far less likely to retaliate with his own fists, and picked fights not for the thrill of feeling his own fists pummel another into a wall, but for the sensation of his own brittle bones cracking. he dropped his tap shoes in a dumpster, stopped talking to his friends, followed his father’s advice and went back to school to complete his leaving certificate. a few short months later, and finn was packing his bags, saying his bittersweet goodbyes, and travelling half-way across the globe to be as far away as possible from his past self, his mess of a life, and most of all nina. it seemed somehow ironic that the boy who had been cautioned by the garda so much during his youth for spray painting, busking without a liscence, and raucous parties would become the grumpy, aloof overseas student studying a degree in criminology; that his once reckless spirit could be crushed so easily.

of all things that finn could be called, straightforward would never be one of them. ever since his first days in atticus, the boy was pegged as hostile, hot-headed, cynical, rude. he seemed to spend more time in his thoughts than engaging in conversation. like a ticking time-bomb, finn’s anger was of the calm kind, liable to explode without a moment’s noticed. his unpredictable personality make him something of an enigma to those who aren’t amiable with the lad, though hostile as he may appear, he harvests a good heart. loyalty lies at the centre of his affections, and whilst his friends are few in number, he makes a lifelong partner. somewhere within finn, there’s still some fight left, but mostly he has recognised that his hedonistic lifestyle did little to leave him fulfilled – mostly, it just emptied him out – and over his three years at university has resigned himself to a nihilistic predicament.

if u wanna plot with me pls pls pls im me or like this post!! i am always game for plots i love em so excited to write with you all here r some ideas

study buddies. finn is now a phd student so has to start takin shit seriously. he gon be in the library every day doing that independent study. if he had ppl who were also regular library goers n they get each other coffees to save time.... tht wld be sweet

ppl who love techno dj sets and going super hard on the weekends!!! fuck yea

friends with benefits. exes on bad terms. ppl he tried to date but couldnt because he’s always emotionally hung up on someone else. spicy hook up plots

ppl he met touring?? maybe ppl who were also in the entertainment industry..... anyone got a character who is ex circus hit me up

does anyone else study criminology / forensics / criminal psych / law? phd students sometimes lecture so he cld be an assistant lecturer / tutor if ur character is in a younger year

gamers !!! social recluses !!! hermits !!

finn goes to the skatepark and all the young boys there think he’s a gradnpa which he is!

#huntingtonintro #is tht the tag....... idk..... msg me xo

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stephcurry02 · 3 years ago

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jaigny · 5 years ago

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Zodiac : Libra BEECH ITS LIBRA SEASSSSSON!!! YAAAS

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If you had a time machine, would you go back in time or visit the future? I guess it would depend really? I’m human and I’ve made a few mistakes in the past or I would of done something different. But like the fact that tomorrow is basically the future is amazing too and that would be interesting too see too.

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Following: 355 beautiful people that like my trashy content LOL

Would you rather be rich or famous? Rich but not famous being famous wouldn’t be for me LOL

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What I’m wearing: Black sweat and a white singlet cami top cause its like my basic comfort zone. Ultra comfort zone only happens in colder weather when I putt out my fluffy marshmallow fleece pjs!

Dream job: I’ve had alot of dream jobs...but I feel like cause I really like helping people of all ages..like..I wanted to be an anime artist when I was a teen...then wanted to be a florist...a counselor...actually started a course on it until I couldn’t do it and had to quit because lots of stuff went down..bad stuff..and a whole bunch of other things throughout the years til I became a carer for my grandmother for 24/7 literally. And as exhausting it was for those 5 years (I had to stop cause mental health reasons that I still to this day have) I’ve decided I like helping people and went and got my Cert 3 in Individual Support for the elderly and am now wanting to do Cert 4 in Disability. I want to learn more because my youngest sister has Autism and I find that and Dementia just so fascinating despite how it not pretty it is.

Dream trip: Japan mainly and take my boo there for his anime pleasures LOL And just learn about the culture I’d love to see Ireland and Scotland and other places but beech I’m a broke woman

If you were an animal. What would you be? I would probably be a cat (Literally my nickname is Kitty) 👀

What are some of your favourite books/films/shows/games/etc.?

Books: The Lord Of The Rings, Z for Zachariah, Waterfire, Vampire Academy Books.. SO MANY BOOKS LOL I mean I even love to nowdays just read Fanfiction of my fave shows anime and tv alike! Like its amazing how creative people can be!

Films/Movies: Well I gotta say classics like Jaws, Deep Blue Sea, The Alien franchise, Predator (Even the AVP stuff) Tau, Marvel, there’s alot of movies I like too LOL but the genre is mainly rom comedy, thriller scary stuff. I watched the latest It movies and I liked the first one more then Chapter 2 but I was happy Ben finally got his girl in the end lol I’m looking forward to watching Scary Stories to Tell in the Dark. And then I love like Disney films like Moana, Tangled and the classics that I grew up with like Little Mermaid etc Frozen 2 looks interestingly better then the first so yeah lol

Shows: Hmm... I’m currently watching Supernatural, American Horror Story and Dr Who lol But I love Buffy the vampire series and Friends...Stargate...Orange is the New Black..and then I like fail cooking shows like Nail it lol And then I have all my anime I watch LOL

Games: I grew up like alot of older simmers round my age and older the Sims 1 and Sim City, Mario Bro 2 on Nintendo 64 , Resident Evil 1, 2 3 and Outbreak File #2 on Ps1 and 2 (Love Resident Evil) Final Fantasy 7 on Ps1, Parasite Eve 2 on Ps1 ... I also loved to play Pokemon on the gameboy that my cousin owned lol I remember playing a Digimon game on I think ps1? Oh I played Alien Isolation that was such fun...I played Grand Theft Auto throughout my childhood on Ps2 and then GTA5 I mainly though played Sims 1 and then later on Sims 2 and 3 til Sims 4 came out.

Play any instruments? I used to play keyboard in Music class that was like part of an assessment in highschool but mainly I just like to sing however bad/good I am LOL

Language(s): English (I did learn French in Year 7 and 8 and I know a couple of stuff in Japanese from watching anime and reading Fanfiction!

Describe yourself as aesthetic: Warm cozy (Not too much clutter) homey Minimalist I guess lol

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calorieworkouts · 6 years ago

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How to Choose the Best Personal Trainer for You

There's no question about it, working out on a regular basis with a professional running the program benefits you. Research reveals functioning with an individual instructor that could reveal you precisely the best ways to deadlift, pull-up, and also plank while likewise supplying inspiration could enhance toughness as well as health and fitness gains in addition to assistance you stick to an exercise routine. The impact of direct supervision of resistance training on stamina performance. Mazzetti SA1, Kraemer WJ, Volek JS, et al. Medicine & Science in Sports and Exercise. 2000 Jun,32( 6):1175 -84. Effect of certified individual instructor solutions on stage of exercise habits and also workout mediators in women university students. Fischer DV, Bryant J. Journal of American University Health and wellness. 2008 Jan-Feb,56( 4):369 -76. . But with greater than 200,000 personal fitness instructors currently practicing in the United States, all whom represent a range of certifications, specializations, as well as approaches to fitness, where does one begin when it involves discovering a fitness instructor that's the pot to your bell, the walk to your mill, the master to your staircase? Right below, that's where. Prior to you pick your match made in fitness center paradise, address these 8 concerns:

1. Are they credentialed? Whether you desire to boost your rate, develop stamina, or shed a few extra pounds, you'll intend to collaborate with someone that's been licensed by an organization you can rely on. The National Compensation for Certifying Agencies (NCCA) supervises of ensuring companies that accredit instructors meet the NCCA's own criteria of professionalism and trust and also skills. There are a few various certifications that are NCCA-approved, yet among the most popular and also respected is the American Council on Exercise (ACE). Merely ask your trainer where their cert comes from (or do a little Google stalking research). You could check out the NCCA's full list of recognized physical fitness and wellness organizations right here. And also if you wish to go one step further, inspect out this useful dandy chart that breaks down the difference between ACE, NASM, as well as ACSM certifications.

2. What sort of (and just how much) encounter do they have? We used to think that proficiency of a skill came after 10,000 one hours of purposeful technique. However the preferred "practice-makes-perfect" concept has been debunked for the a lot more nuanced idea that "clever practice makes perfect." Simply puts, when it involves learning an ability, it's the quality of time invested exercising, not the variety of hours logged, that transform a newbie right into a virtuoso. One structure block of top quality method is quick recognition as well as modification of errors. Just how is this relevant to your prospective personal fitness instructor? Fitness instructors learn whether or not their techniques operate in actual time, making adjustments along the method in order to help customers reach their goals. In this way, the much more experience your fitness instructor has, the far better. And also, researches show that training is a fantastic way to discover Graduate students' teaching encounters boost their methodological research skills. Feldon DF, Peugh J, Timmerman BE, et al. Scientific research 2011 Aug 19,333( 6045):1037 -9. . A trainer that has actually been instructing correct technique for a very long time has actually likely improved and much better at providing the right hints to aid you obtain one of the most out of each rep.

Once you've experienced a deal with on just how long a fitness instructor has actually been in the health and fitness video game, always remember to ask what kind of encounter they have. Whether you're brand name new to exercising or an experienced athlete searching for sports-specific training, you'll desire an instructor that understands how you can collaborate with a person just like you. A couple of things to take into consideration: physical fitness degree, age, health and wellness standing, physical fitness passions, or any other particulars you think may be important.

3. What is their technique for stopping and handling injuries? Many people take care of irritating aches as well as discomforts or recurring injuries as well as we're unclear just how to experience a great exercise without triggering a flare-up. If you're taking care of an old injury, your fitness instructor should can adjusting your training to work around it. For any kind of new injuries, they'll suggest seeing a physician before getting back into beast mode.

4. Do they focus on any training styles? The NCCA stamp of authorization may be sufficient to make you feel comfy, certain, and ready to schedule your initial session, yet if you have particular goals (overcoming a handstand, experiencing in form for surfing, swinging a kettlebell like a pro) or have constantly wondered about a specific sort of workout (suspension training, anyone?), you could desire to see to it your fitness instructor is somebody that could blaze a trail. Find out if they have actually been officially instructed in a provided area and are certified to educate it. Maybe you would certainly such as someone with a YogaFit credential, a CrossFit Level I cert, or a certification in kettlebell lifts, TRX, Pilates, mind-body training, and also so on. Several instructors seek proceeding education and learning in excessive range of various other areas, from plyometrics and nutrition for marathoners to glutes and low-back pain! (Click on this link to see some lesser-known qualifications offered by ACE you may wish to look for.)

Finally, if you like the concept of functioning out with someone who has researched fitness in an academic setting, try to find trainers who hold degrees in exercise scientific research, athletics, or kinesiology (a combination of physiology and also health and wellness science).

5. Exactly what's the small print re: cost and availability? A fantastic instructor is worth his or her weight in gold. For many individuals, the trainer we select has more to do with the quantity of gold we have to spend. Do some window shopping to learn ordinary rates in your city. Although individual fitness instructors made a standard of $35 each one hour in 2013, rates differ depending upon area. In New York City, as an example, personal training can cost as little as the national average or as high as $300 per session.

If a personal instructor seems out of your spending plan, you have a couple of alternatives. Some fitness instructors offer reduced rates for semi-private exercises, which are something in between individually training as well as a team course. You could additionally ask about discount rates for purchasing sessions wholesale. Think about looking at working with a trainer as an included bonus to your workout regimen (as opposed to the only time you work out). Ask your potential trainer about feasible setups where you could fulfill in-person much less often however follow their program in between sessions.

It's likewise a great idea to ask about their timetable-- if they have the tendency to meet customers at the very same time weekly, just how much beforehand they reserve consultations, their cancellation plan, as well as whether it's feasible to make up missed sessions.

6. Just what is their mentoring style? When it involves client-coach compatibility, character as well as training style are vital. Consider your very own learning style first. If you're someone that grabs a movement by having it damaged down right into its tiniest elements and also demonstrated repetitively, make certain to choose a fitness instructor that is interested in the minutiae of exercise and also has the perseverance to go with the details.

Next up: the individuality of your optimal individual trainer. Do you desire a supporter who will advise you of exactly how incredible you are for making the initiative, or do you require a stern, drill sergeant-type who is most likely to inform you to go harder, much faster, and larger than praise you on each small success? Either one (and also anything between) is fine! One research study located that students were a lot more successful when they received recurring social assistance from their fitness instructors Exercise facilitators and also barriers from fostering to upkeep in the diabetes mellitus aerobic and also resistance exercise test. Tulloch H1, Sweet SN, Fortier M, et al. Canadian Journal of Diabetic issues, 2013 Dec,37( 6):367 -74. . On the other hand, some clients could be self-dependent when it concerns motivation and also gel with a trainer that urges freedom Effects of an autonomy-supportive workout advising style on exercise inspiration, psychological well-being, as well as exercise participation in middle-age women. Moustaka FC, Vlachopoulos SP, Kabitsis C, et al. Journal of Exercise and Health and wellness. 2012 Jan,9( 1):138 -50. .

Although you could get lots of answers by asking your maybe-future-trainer about their approaches as well as how they see their very own styles as well as perspectives, signing in with somebody who trains with them could possibly offer added insight. Request referrals to obtain the inside scoop on what it's like to be the trainer's customer-- like their pet peeve concerning preparation or exactly how adept they go to clarifying as well as instruction.

7. How do they program as well as track progress? Your trainer ought to not only be able to make a customized training program based upon your objectives and also health and fitness level, however additionally aid you track your progress to see exactly how your effort is settling. This could indicate exercises in order to help you PR at your following 5K, a program to aid you drop a couple of extra pounds, or a step-by-step plan to grasp the handstand. Whatever you wish to attain, functioning out under guidance while adhering to a program has actually been shown to be much more effective than flying solo at the health club Effect of Managed, Periodized Workout Educating versus Self-Directed Educating on Lean Body Mass as well as other Physical fitness Variables in Health Club Members. Storer TW, Dolezal BA, Berenc M, et al. Journal of Stamina as well as Conditioning. 2014 Jan 3. That claimed, if you're collaborating with a trainer but typically aren't seeing results or discover more of these red flags, it may be clever to damage connections.

8. Do they remain on top of physical fitness patterns as well as related research? Extensive fitness expertise and also proficiency is a main reason that individuals intend to function with individual fitness instructors. Your fitness instructor ought to be able to discuss a selection of training designs and the benefits as well as downsides of each. A lot of instructors have their very own opinion about exactly what gets outcomes, yet the finest ones typically aren't so married to one particular technique that they will not be flexible in their programming. According to ACE expert Jessica Matthews, if you happen to capture your fitness instructor using the very same workouts and regimens with other customers, maybe that she or he could not comprehend the "why" behind your exercise and also how particular workouts will certainly help you to reach your goals. The finest trainers are the ones that enjoy just what they do (same holds true for any kind of occupation). And caring exactly what you do frequently translates into always wishing to enhance and also increase your knowledge so you could maintain feeling better at your work. If your potential trainer appears much less than enthusiastic concerning proceeding his/her education and learning-- or believes that he or she currently knows all there is to learn about fitness-- it's probably a smart idea to consider collaborating with another person, Matthews states.

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The American Council on Workout ® (ACE ®) is the largest not-for-profit health and wellness as well as health and fitness organization on the planet. Along with supplying NCCA-accredited qualifications for Individual Fitness instructors, Group Physical fitness Instructors, Health Coaches, and also Advanced Fitness Specialists, ACE works as 'America's Authority on Physical fitness' as well as safeguards the public from dangerous and inadequate products, programs as well as trends.

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September 10, 2020

Americans love sports and we tend to think we know more about them than professional coaches do. We also love to gamble; wagering on literally anything tends to make situations more interesting and suspenseful. Combined, however, the love we have for these two separate entities seems to grow beyond the sum of the two parts when separated. In recent years, sports gambling across the entire world has skyrocketed in popularity and became a legitimate stream of revenue for the governments which sanction it. According to a recent Zion Market Research Group study, the global sports betting market was valued at about $104 billion in 2017 and is expected to reach approximately $155 billion as quickly as 20241. A large part of this growth has been the result of the expansion of legalized sports betting within the United States over recent years. However, it was not until the Supreme Court’s landmark ruling in Murphy v. National Collegiate Athletic Association (2018) that such betting became legal, leading to sports betting’s significant growth in our country.

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Fearing that doing so may harm their respective bottom lines, the NCAA, NFL, NHL, NBA, and MLB filed a lawsuit against the state of New Jersey, arguing that it’s legalization of sports betting violated PASPA provisions. In this case, which became known as Christie v. National Collegiate Athletic Association, the state of New Jersey defense acknowledged that passing the Sports Wagering Act directly violated PASPA. However, the state argued that PAPSA itself violated the Tenth Amendment’s protection against anti-commandeering federal laws4 which maintain that the federal government itself cannot force state governments to adopt federal laws. After hearing both argument of both sides, U.S. District Court Judge Michael A. Shipp ruled in favor of the sports leagues. Following their loss, New Jersey then went to the federal Third Circuit Court of Appeals in hopes of a better finding. Unfortunately, in a 2 to 1 ruling, the judges of the Third Circuit Court also found in favor of the leagues. Thereafter, New Jersey appealed to the Supreme Court of the United States, which ultimately denied hearing the case in June 20145. As the Supreme Court is our nation’s final court of appeals, this would seem to have ended hope for the New Jersey Defense. However, the state was far from done in its effort to legalize sports gambling.

In the months following the Supreme Court’s refusal to hear their case, New Jersey passed Senate Bill 2460, which, according to Cornell’s Legal Information Institute, repealed several longstanding state prohibitions on sports gambling and repealed bans on gambling at casinos and racetracks by those age 21 and older6. Effectively, this was done to circumvent the unfavorable rulings the state was handed by the District Court and the Third Court of Appeals. After the bill passed the state legislature, though, New Jersey governor Christie vetoed the proposed law. But, by September, the governor changed his mind, decided to support the bill, and signed it into law. This signaled a win for supporters of state-sponsored betting in New Jersey.

Unsurprisingly, the ratification of Senate Bill 2460 into New Jersey law led to the same five sports leagues suing the state again. However, the outcome of this lawsuit was much more favorable than the first to the state of New Jersey. The same District Court and the Third Court of Appeals ruled again in favor of the leagues, but unlike their first appeal effort, the Supreme Court accepted New Jersey’s second appeal and decided to hear the case. It was at this time, in 2017, that Phil Murphy became the newly elected governor of New Jersey and the case was renamed to Murphy v. National Collegiate Athletic Association7. After hearing the arguments from both parties, the Supreme Court, in a 7-2 majority opinion, ruled that PASPA violated the Tenth Amendment’s anticommandeering provision because it forcefully dictated what a state legislature may or may not do8. This, in effect, gave the power to regulate sports gambling back to the states.

Thereafter, on June 11, 2018, Governor Murphy signed a law making sports gambling legal in New Jersey. In a statement sent to the media, Murphy said, “Today, we’re finally making the dream of legalized sports betting a reality for New Jersey” and that “This is the right move for New Jersey and it will strengthen our economy”9. Thanks to the popularity that sports betting quickly gained in the state, New Jersey has since collected $69,615,087 in state tax revenue on legalized gambling (As of August 12, 2020)10. Clearly, the ruling in Murphy v. National Collegiate Athletic Association has proven to be very beneficial to New Jersey’s economy.

Today 18 states have legalized sports betting within their borders and 5 more have recently passed bills to do so. An additional 24 states have introduced bills within their respective state legislatures proposing to legalize sports gambling but have failed to gain enough support to pass into law. The remaining three states left in our country that haven’t even proposed the idea before their legislature, Idaho, Wisconsin, and Utah, show no signs of legalizing sports gambling in the foreseeable future11. Considering the recency in which Murphy v. National Collegiate Athletic Association was decided, the fact that so many states have or are in the process of legalizing sports betting suggests that it will both benefit the states respective pocketbooks and satisfy the desires of the public. It appears only a matter of time until legalized sports betting becomes the norm in the United States of America.

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[1] Zion Market Research. (2019, July 26). Research: US $155.49 Bn for Sports Betting Market Size 2019 Growing at 8.83% CAGR Through 2024. Retrieved from https://www.globenewswire.com/news-release/2019/07/26/1892289/0/en/Research-US-155-49-Bn-for-Sports-Betting-Market-Size-2019-Growing-at-8-83-CAGR-Through-2024.html#:%7E:text=According%20to%20the%20report%2C%20the,8.83%25%20between%202018%20to%202024.

[2] USA Today. (2018, May 14). What It Means: Supreme Court Strikes Down PASPA Law That Limited Sports Betting. Retrieved from https://eu.usatoday.com/story/sports/2018/05/14/supreme-court-sports-betting-paspa-law-new-jersey/440710002/

[3] Howe, A. (2017, August 14). The 10th Amendment, anti-commandeering and sports betting: In Plain English. Retrieved from https://www.scotusblog.com/2017/08/10th-amendment-anti-commandeering-sports-betting-plain-english/

[4] Cornell Law School Legal Information Institute. (n.d.). Christie v. National Collegiate Athletic Association. Retrieved August 14, 2020, from https://www.law.cornell.edu/supct/cert/16-476

[5] ESPN. (2018, May 14). The Odds of Legalized Sports Betting - New Jersey vs. the Leagues. Retrieved from https://www.espn.com/chalk/story/_/id/22605881/the-odds-legalized-sports-betting-new-jersey-vs-leagues

[6] Cornell Law School Legal Information Institute. (n.d.-b). Christie v. National Collegiate Athletic Association. Retrieved August 14, 2020, from https://www.law.cornell.edu/supct/cert/16-476

[7] Gibson, Dunn & Crutcher LLP. (2018, January 19). Christie v. National Collegiate Athletic Association, No. 16-476 & New Jersey Thoroughbred Horsemen’s Association, Inc. v. National Collegiate Athletic Association, No. 16-477. Retrieved from https://www.supremecourt.gov/DocketPDF/16/16-476/28553/20180119165048861_16-476%20Letter%20to%20SCT%20re%20name%20change.pdf

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[9] Corasaniti, N. (2018, June 11). New Jersey Legalizes Sports Betting. Retrieved from https://www.nytimes.com/2018/06/11/nyregion/sports-betting-legalized-nj.html

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