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skateisawesome · 10 months ago

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WHY DO YOU ALWAYS HAVE TO BE MEAN TO ME

WHAT DID I DO TO MAKE YOU DO THIS

I HATE BEING A TEENAGE GIRL

#she was such a bitch for no reason #i thought we were friends #why #whyd you decide to hate me on some random tuesday #fucking asshole #im so done #i hate being a teenage girl #why is this shit so normak #cant we be decent people?

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bacchuschucklefuck · 4 months ago

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official finish-this-sketch-how-you-want post idk what to call thisSAMPLE TEXT

hi! I miss drawing with people in a café and some folks mentioned they'd like to mess with my sketches themselves and that sounds cool so this is now a thing. if u play gartic phone this is basically the complement mode! but without the fucking ring noise that freaks you out right when you're getting into the flow of it

few things are 1/there's no hard deadline! take this at ur own pace if u do, but 2/I'll also be finishing this sketch and I estimate it to take around uhh 3 to 4 days? from the time this is posted. so if that's a structure u like then let's aim for something done in that timespan as well! and 3/if u finish ur piece and post it and want me to see it the best way to do that is to @ this blog! above all we go into this one determined to have fun and enjoy. I already bought u a matcha latte with oat milk sorry if u don't want that

here I got u today a sketch that's supposed to be Riz Gukgak (SY) (grey bg version and transparent version for ur ease of peruse)

remember to have fun & be urself & finish ur drink & see u in 4 or 5

#not art #technically #idk what to tag this... I was thinking sketchboom bc its like one sketch many outcomes yknow. but turns out thats already #a company or something like that. and then I thought something riffing on the complement game mode but I cant think of anything for that #can we call it Fuck With This Sketch. pros: it would be funny. cons: cant think of even a single one #sooomewhat in the realm of dtiys. more in the realm of process swap or whatever the drawing meme was that used to be a thing #where like u and two friends swap pieces inbetween every step #(which is somewhat assumptive of what the process is to be fair. I know people who run directly into a piece blocking out poses in colors #as their sketch. and then just render right on top of it. as an ink-for-lifer their process is alien to me and we are like different specie #I want this to be real freeform u can do anything to this sketch. its decently readable for being made by me I think #if there are more than one character it gets worse. or if its full body or a first sketch for a design. uve seen that basrar piece's sketch #and when I say u can do anything to this sketch I mean it. if ur thinking ''oh they didn't mention a bg or painting idk if I should--''#Stop. You Can Do What You Want Forever. seek ur truth seize ur pleasure and call me a bitch to my face #sky's the ceiling and the depths of hell is the bar. draw with me. that is what this is for #ok Im done lets go. hope u have fun with the sketch! yay! yayaya #edit: well now Ive commited to a stupid tag this is called #Fuck With My Sketch

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dykedvonte · 1 month ago

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you make really good points, I think I used the term karmic wrong sorry. I think of it more as not how I personally think he deserved all that happened to him (which thinking back os exactly what karma means, I messed up sorry), but as his fate being directly tied/parallel to anyas. I handnt noticed the toxicity of jimmy and curlys relationship, from the first playthrough I watched and the first interactions I had w fandom I saw so many ppl just. dismiss the terror Anya went through and focus too much on him as the "ultimate victim" and that just didn't sit well w me. I really dislike seeing ppl go "oh well nothing could've been done" I think it's much more complex than that. also I forgot to mention in the last ask that I really appreciate you bringing the point that this game isn't just about the harm of patriarchy but also very very critical to capitalism, I haven't seen too many ppl touch on this. I hadn't thought too deeply about how it makes "he deserved to become disabled as punishment" come up and I agree that's really messed up. I'll try watching a playthrough again with all of this in mind. but either way thanks! I really appreciate your answer 🫶🏼

I guess this is just part of being in a fandom like this. I've noticed a lot of people don't actually see posts outside of their curated view. So some people only get like anya posting or jimmy or curly and it can make it seem like that is what is saturating the conversation.

I mainly just follow the general tags and look for anything new because I'm like obsessed but I know some are only looking for what they want or believe to be the case and can get weird about other ideas.

Sorry if I came off mean its just a last few of the asks have been like circular conversations like this and its not draining per say but seeing all the nuance and details get overlooked to fit a straightforward and basic narrative really sucks cause there's a lot to explore character and theme wise.

#its like idk i feel like im yapping about the same stuff over and over and over again cause people confuse simple on paper with simple in #execution or like without the human factor like idk sometimes to humanzie Anya people dehumanize the other characters to an extent #which is also part of the systemic problem because by dehumanizing people you take away from the awareness like idk the statements #that curly was the captain and just a guy like have to exist together hes like an okay find decent even good captain just not great #hes not exceptional and i think a lot of people are acting like the game said he is when thats just jimmy like Swansea and Anya see that he #just a guy under everything else hence why they dont feed into the vitriol jimmy tries to serve about him crashing the ship and how they #talk to him pre crash even with anya i feel like people are so focused on trying to see what jimmy doesnt that they are adding intention w #where there isnt not even on like she cant be this scale more so you are treating this like everyone in this game is doing some secret gran #gambit when they are just trying to surviv in really back circumstances like having anya respond to jimmys behaviro through the #fawn effect isnt making her a weak depiction its a real response that can coexist with purposeful action because she is clearly scared of #Jimmy even if she hates and thinks he's incompentent like shes not gonna roll over for him but shes gonna be docile in his presence so he #doesnt create a reason in his head to lash out at her like people simply cannot combine concepts to create the complex responses we see in #the game and idkn why its so hard because not every statement contridicts like Jimmy is a monsterous asshole can exist with how #systematic oppression and social enabling create/allow people like him to do their worse cause at the end of the day he chose to do #everything he did despite other options vs the others trying to figure out the best option for all whether that was the best or not like #he dug his own grave vs the others sorta being lined up in front of theirs and shot like this is more interesting to me than him just being #like idk cartoonishly evil and gross and why cant concepts stakes like fitting aspects together is fun its like the worlds shitties puzzle #mouthwashing #mouthwashing game #anon #ask #ur fine anon im just insane and get frustrated easily when i think im explaining something bad

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anxiously-sidequesting · 1 year ago

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#inspired when i saw an ad on youtube for wizard101 #where it said “come play for free and explore 16 different worlds!!!” and i was like okay thats a fucking lie #you cant even get all the way through the FIRST world #personally i think its stupid and inconvenient to have to pay to play the MAIN QUESTLINE #for the people who dont have time to grind the set amount of time you pay for membership or those who dont have money #you either pay for a year and are pressured to do as much as you can before time runs out #or you're stuck doing nothing. there's very little you can do without membership #like the main selling point of the game is so you can finish the story. thats what we download the game for in the first place #it gives you the impression that the priority here is your money and not the consumer's enjoyment and comfort #like there are plenty of games who make the entire game free and still are well off #we pay like 40-50 dollars on bundles and even more than that on crowns. that should be more than enough #there are other games where if you dont have membership it barely affects your gameplay experience overall #or games that have no membership function but still can make decent money #imo having to pay to just actually play the game doesnt make it free. like yeah you can do other stuff like fish and duel each other-#and thats it. you walk around the commons and talk ig #thats like the biggest reason i dropped the game its just wayy too expensive and inconvenient to play it #wizard101 #w101 #wiz101 #polls

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lycankeyy · 3 months ago

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Gonna go to bed but my Final Message. I do think abt cyborg!bf in the rgbfverse a lot (lets call him Cyber in this context) and honestly it would be hard to write anything until I 100% iron out his Deal but the idea of him latching onto YS as a big brother figure makes me. Very happy. For both of them LMAO

#he would probably be Very freaked out by the others i mostly imagine him spending time alone w ys #idk i guess i Do know what the deal would be it would just depend entirely on when YS intrudes on the timeline #bc if its early enough. bf would still be Violent idk if it would even be worth it for Herself to give him mirrorwalking #just bc like. even if he Likes ys he'd still be a risk to other people #but like. later in the timeline after he starts to regain some memories and the Human part of him starts to fight through the robot #hes really just like. a scared little kid. hes 14 but hes pretty regressed socially due to Insane amounts of trauma #maturity of a 14 year old. hides behind YS like a shy 6 year old when other bfs are over #cyborg bf is like. pre-apocalyptic. 'something very bad is Going to happen so we need to stop it'#and maybe ys cant help with the Actual Apocalyptic Threat but he can help these children recover from their own personal post-apocalypse #probably had a decent amount of angst about that not being Enough but when doesnt he #the fact that this kid trusts him and feels safe around him despite everything is enough to convince him to keep trying #....... anywayNDNQBSKQHSJ #BEDTIME. GN #💛#rgbfverse #cyborg bf au

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molliemoo3 · 5 months ago

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Another FE + BBC related presenter being a fuckhead is not the news I expected from today. Hopefully are the people affected are being supported and will be OK 💙💙💙💙💙

#WHY CANT THEY JUST BE DECENT HUMAN BEINGS #formula e #fe #it wasnt Tom #didnt particularly enjoy jermaine Jenas especially given the name pronunciation fuck ups #but jesus fucking christ can we be normal for 5 minutes #tbf its not confirmed what the conduct was maybe hes just a massive wanker to people and its not like with jack #and there is no confirmation as of yet in terms of fe sacking him #(this literally popped up from the bbc news app like 10 mins ago at most so they will need time)#i hope all the people affected are ok💙💙💙

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itsseriouslyridiculous · 2 months ago

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I really hate how my physical body looks so so so much. unfortunately there isn't much I can do about it.

#ive got fat genetics from both parents families going back generations and ive been trying to lose weight forever #my stupod body likes being fat i can excercise like crazy and eat barely anything and i wont lose anything #i was excercising 2+ hours a day before i got sick and it made me stronger but i.stayed fat. now that im sick im weak and still fat.#and im not the kind of fat anybody can find pretty. if i could somehow not be fat id be decent to look at my face isnt bad #my skin is bad though my skin sucks #in my eyes im disgusting #and its so messed up because i dont think other fat people are gross #but i hate how i look so much that i cant imagine anyone being okay with it #like no matter how kind and understanding and sweet i am to people its never gonna make up for the fact that my body is grossly ugly #and i cant blame anyone for not liking me i get it.#sorry #this is a problem i have #bacause i just usually pretend my body doesnt exist and i wear pretty loose fitting dresses that cover me completely so but #even though i am what i am #sometimes you happen to meet a nice person and they are polite and dont seem disgusted by your existance so then your traitorous brain t #thinks hey maybe this person would be willing to marry us someday if they got to know us. which is so silly becuz theres no way thatd ever #so it makes me sad when i should be happy that a nice person talked to me. yay good job successful friendlyness. but it has to remind me #that i had this expectation from when i was a kid that id marry somone and have at least 3 kids and love my kids and take care of them and #give them everything i needed when i was a kid. and of course that never happened. because i never dated anyone. because people dont just #magically get married out of nowhere. its stupid. so i keep trying to be okay with whatever. but i guess i never stopped wanting a family.#which we know im aroace now so. i need to stop. but my brain is always bothering me about this.#why can't i just accept that no one will ever love me. why cant i be happy that they dont?#ive got cats #someday i will have irl friends again #sorry i think everything would be so much easier if i was just #this isnt a problem with an easy solutiom #i guess im gonna try to do the useless excercises again because at least it will look like im trying even though nothing will change

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possum-tooth · 1 month ago

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today sucks i have so much socializing to do 😭😭

#pick up stuff for work. then work. then auto care shop. then maybe call our insurance rep. then call gamestop. then hangout w a friend #and go to a holiday vendor show. girl.#then i get to wake up early tmrw and go to my bfs appt AND the mall AND whatever else he wants to do. then sunday i get to relax for a #second before i meet my friend for coffee then leave for 2 nights. girl help #im gonna forget something i just know it 😭😭#and i wish i would fucking GET PAID. GIRL. i meed money!!!!!!!!! especially bc we're like 2 weeks out now!! fucking figure out payroll!!!!!#she said she'd give me cash but then didnt. please i need money i need to purcahse items and pay bills. please.#anyway. this week has kinda been a shitshow but if you show up for people they remember and care. so at least im decent there #and got some ornaments from my grandparents last night YIPPEEEEE so we can decorate the tree more tmrw hopefully :3 #i cant even say a date im waiting to pass. its like this for the rest of my life.#talk tag

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snekdood · 2 months ago

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i feel weird even claiming my family used to be considered "rich" bc a lot of yall immediately jump to having summer homes, 20 yachts, and enough money to save a country

#not gonna act like we weren't well off... ofc we were but like.... we werent on THAT level nearly at all #more of a country club... goes on a lot of vacations.... has a decently sized house with a pool... kinda rich #which is still rich dont get me wrong but i promise i wasnt living like fucking. kim kardashian or whatever ok #we didnt have a fuckin walk-in-fridge or 20 unused empty rooms #i say this bc ppl end up surprised when i tell them im not anymore like 'how' well its a lot of things like the housing market crash #my parents getting a divorce my dad being the one with the job that my moms dad gave to him that was making him all the money #and my grandpa passed not long after i was born so when they split up we were just going off of whatever he left really for a while #had to move etc etc.... now im low income and rely on food stamps and ssi ✌️ but thats mostly bc im disabled so #kinda necessarily low income bc the govt only wants to pay the very bare minimum that they can.#its also- not my money! i dont get to decide what happens to it and i dont get to decide i get nice things or whatever. that all hinges #on if my mom or gma wants to.#so technically even if you wanted to consider them rich still- its not part of me atp bc its not even my money and im an adult #whos not legally dependent on them anymore. i think it only counts if its *your* actual money or if your parent is okay with dishing #out like a 1000 dollars a month like its nothing. completely unfazed by giving it to you.#its not rich if its conditional ok like... children of rich parents arent rich and i will die on this hill. why do you think so many of the #end up fucked up? not only is it bc they've had ppl basically doing everything for them their whole life so they dont know how to take #care of themselves they're also entirely dependent on the parent for money. when you feel controlled like that- even if your parent isnt #necessarily abusive about it- just the fact everything you do hinges on the approval of your parent- kinda fucks you up and makes #you feel like you're stuck being a forever child. not great for people who probably want to go out in the world and date to feel #like you cant escape being dependent on your parents

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bitegore · 3 months ago

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baru cormorant seems to me to be a series that suffers miserably for me having read machineries of empire first. unfortunately everything BC is doing strikes me as something MoE did better and more believably and with much a greater and more grounded eye for how systems, complex system interaction, and oppression like. work

#red rambles #also i don't like the writing very much so I'm not having as much fun with it as i did with MoE #but YHL straight up writes with the exact approach and methodology *i* write - the narrative frame is extremely close. the lines are punchy #the description is sparse the info we are delivered is typically in short wacky one-off chunks that tell us not only something about the #world but something about the narrator who is also the main character whose head we're in #the timing. so on and so forth #someone told me that seth dickinson is transfem but i cant find her (?) pronouns anywhere so if anyone knows where to see them i'd #appreciate a link if only to complain that i don't like her (?) writing that much in comparison because it is a lot less.... rewardingly #entertaining i suppose. when compared to the way yoon ha lee structures his. there are much fewer twists #and of course the major huge twist of Baru Cormorant was hidden from the reader which i just think is *bad form* when it comes to intrigue!#when yhl will lay all the moving pieces of the plot before you openly and say 'hey. isn't that a funny side tangent. anyway look to your #left; something is exploding' and then as it keeps unfolding he goes 'and here in small scale is how it is being used! isn't that #interesting to see how these pieces move? now look to your right; something is exploding' and then at the very end it all comes perfectly #together #the way i felt around the middle/end of Raven Strategem when i understood the spy network the first time is something that BC cannot do #you aren't trusted with the pieces and you don't get to play the game of understanding that you weren't *told* literally everything #i'm reading monster baru cormorant today as i go about my errands and I kinda don't think it's what i want because i want it to be the kind #of working awful poisoned bloodstained empire as the hexarchate and i want it to be a complex contradictory overlapping system like the #hexarchate's army and i want the banal cruelty of perfectly decent people condemning strangers to awful awful bloody deaths because they're #'not like us' instead of the petrified horror *everyone* has of the Social Contagion Agents because i just do not BUY the construction of #dickinson's Social Hygiene Offices and their place in the world #but i cant just read the MoE books any more. i'll get bored. i'm already kind of bored of reading them over and over

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noctilu-uca · 4 months ago

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i sketched an awful amount at school today. Do i like half of these drawings ? No. But they look okay enough to post

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aroaceleovaldez · 2 years ago

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okay that is all i can muster for tonight. my insanity will have to wait.

#AALV TSATS liveblogging #please just mentally picture me chewing on this book #luckily i dont follow too many RR blogs so i am relatively safe from spoilers *[STARES POINTEDLY AT ALL OF YOU]*#nobody send me spoilers i swear #ftr i am still taking literally everything in this book as Optional Canon #im enjoying the writing so far but. bro. you cant drop a major continuity error like that. its just blatantly incorrect.#and then say it's Totally Canon And Actually A Major Thing For These Characters IT DID NOT HAPPEN!!#IT PHYSICALLY COULD NOT HAVE!!#do not misquote the ancient texts to me witch. i was there when they were written #but Writing Is Decent. thankfully Nico's narrative voice is not as jarring as i was expecting #tbh he's actually written here kind like how i write him which is. delightful vindication.#also if we could STOP RETCONNING THE UNDERWORLD that'd be GREAT #will we ever get one trip to the underworld where it is consistent with literally any other trip down there? nope.#none of the details line up. none of the descriptions. ever. any of the times really. in any part.#youd think theyd make anything with Nico and the Underworld and Hades and their powers consistent for this book #based on the book tour is sounded like Mark sure tried #but like. yknow. Nico has a room in the underworld! in BoO his dad literally says ''Yeah you always have a place down here''#and theyre on good terms! also in BoO Nico uses dream powers! it's heavily implied he can inflict nightmares on people #we've known that since TLO actually #anyways. hrmhrhrmhrm grumble grumble #writing good. details i am biting. will keep posted #if yall do want my more unhinged thoughts i am also posting updates as i read in the discord #the ones im posting here are curated for your enjoyment

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mantisgodsdomain · 11 months ago

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...there are people who actually write things on mobile???

#we speak #we are having revelations today hold on #what the fuck do you mean people exist who actually write & edit their stuff soley on mobile. what the fuck.#this is just as wild to us as when we learned there are people who only have phones and never use computers #you cant even have decent folders on mobile! youre telling us you people live without decent folders??? we cant fathom your world #every day we discover more differences with random internet users

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okkottsus · 2 years ago

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i meannnnn, ppl u thought they were ur friends unfollowing is always sad even tho everybody obviously has the right to unfollow anyone for whatever reason, but the least u guys can do is (soft) block me like. im not ur fucking fan, i dont want to continue following while being delusional abt us being on good terms

#esp when i can guess ur reason u unfollowed is rooted in lies u chose to believe #every other month im here chilling in my lane when i learn some nasty ass ppl r out there still acting like they r starring in mean girls #the way i have trust issues bc of u....i keep wondering if people associated with u and ur stupid server secretly hate me even if we r moots #leave me tf alone !!! im too old for this #and i have real life problems that need to be dealth with #i havent mentioned u to anyone in AGES but u still cant get over urselfs...i highly recommend touching some grass!#me a decent human: have ppl i dont like blocked or simply dont interact with them // u a person stuck in middle school drama:#even me addressing this atp is more than u deserve but whatever #personal #tbd

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bleetusmcyeetus · 10 months ago

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*KEYBOARD SMASHING*

#GOD I CANT #MASTERPIECE AS USUAL #I #*keyboard smash*#it’s so good #sams #sams solar #(rip)#also I’m sorry wdyfm the VAs got death threats bcuz of solar dying????#are we as a fandom literally impossible of Being Decent People????#jesus christ #it’s a character yall. it’s sad but JESUS

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235uranium · 1 year ago

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hc that the reason ford is so terrible with earth computers despite almost certainly having encountered more recent technology + technology based on current era technology while in the multiverse is that he's gotten way too familiar with alien computers and keeps trying to make normal computers work that way

#☢️.txt #ik canon is likely that he is just Bad at comp sci since he cant use fiddlefords laptop #but like. hes presumably a high energy physicist in the 70s #he likely wouldve encountered C by that point!#SQL came out in 78! and as far as we know he was reading journals even in gravity falls #hell even a lot of his pre-fiddleford tech seems to have relied on some form of computing #my personal hc is somewhere between 'ford is doing learned incompetence on everyone bc he thinks the idea of pcs is Silly and Pointless'#and 'ford was running everything entirely by hand until fiddleford showed up and forced him to use computers because no stanford you cannot #do this by hand actually. please for the love of something just use a calculator'#but i DO think the core issue is that ford is really bad at logic (the math subfield) and thats some of the basis of his animosity #hes really good at the type of math needed in physics and hes even pretty decent at working in different bases #but he struggles with stuff like logic gates bc he. does not think like most people. smth smth ford isnt just an anomaly due to his hands #his thought processes are different enough from other people that he struggles to make sense of coding languages #i think he also (and id argue this canon) makes massive leaps in logic that are hard to translate into code #if youre always making massive connections between things and seeing patterns but you dont always realize other people didnt pick up on the #then its really hard to write code for it bc you have to tell the computer Absolutely Everything #and ford isnt exactly known for his documentation lmao #ford pines

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