#canoni

[alexsaal]

"È un laureato, è un bravo ragazzo" e proseguono i vari titoli, lavori ecc

Come se una laurea o un determinato lavoro potesse definire quella persona una brava persona e "adatta" ad una relazione e ad amare.

Ancora oggi sento queste frasi quando si parla di una ragazza che si è fidanzata e l'uomo con il quale è fidanzata deve essere "giudicato".

Continuamente le sento.

Non è tramite le etichette che una persona può essere definita.

Oggi molti uomini (non che le donne non ne soffrano) soffrono le pressioni della società perché devono dimostrare continuamente di valere qualcosa, spinti da ciò che impone la società, da ciò che la società ritiene corretto da fare per valere, secondo loro, qualcosa.

Molti uomini non riescono ad esternare le proprie debolezze, si chiudono, tentano di esternarle ma senza "ascolto" reale, inoltre potrebbero essere visti, secondo la società, come "uomini deboli", perché "gli uomini non piangono" e frasi del genere.

Dobbiamo ascoltare gli uomini, senza dirgli che sono chiusi e che devono aprirsi di più.

Non bisogna "sentirli", ma "ascoltarli".

Non sentirti non adatto se non hai il fisico che vuoi, se non hai una ragazza o se non sei "abbastanza uomo" secondo la società.

Sei soltanto umano.

Con insicurezze e fragilità.

Sei abbastanza anche tu.

Vali anche tu.

Questa società è malata e uccide ogni giorno, lentamente.

E un dato che fa paura, è che gli uomini che si suicidano ogni anno sono il doppio delle donne.

Fonte: https://www.google.com/amp/s/luce.lanazione.it/attualita/suicidi-uomini-donne-italia-soluzioni/amp/

"Rahn Bailey, psichiatra statunitense e direttore sanitario del Kedren Health System Inc. di Los Angeles, ha messo in evidenza questa differenza invitando a non aver paura a chiedere aiuto: “Gli uomini possono soffrire di depressione tanto quanto le donne, ma manca la nostra capacità di coglierla e diagnosticarla. Inoltre dobbiamo spiegare ai nostri ragazzi che va bene chiedere aiuto quando se ne ha bisogno.���

[marcogiovenale]

nuova stagione di corsi di centroscritture.it : amelia rosselli / problemi filosofici / canoni di poesia

CENTROSCRITTURE.IT Nuova Stagione 2024-2025 Riprendiamo il nostro viaggio di esplorazione tra gli autori, le opere, le idee, le tecniche e gli stili della scrittura poetica contemporanea con 10 nuovi corsi da ottobre 2024 a giugno 2025, per un nuovo anno di poesia insieme. QUARTA STAGIONE 2024-25 ​Amelia Rosselli, Pier Paolo Pasolini (a cinquant’anni dalla morte), Edoardo Sanguineti, Dario…

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PRIMA PAGINA Tirreno di Oggi mercoledì, 21 agosto 2024

[mintaikk]

Venom after abandoning his entire species and planet for some sad wet white guy he's known for like a day

[lunarlivs]

a typical night in gryffindor tower

[assortedmelons]

Celebrity Melons

[questionthedompler]

You know what, dude? I think about it and yeah, you're kind of an hypocrite.

That one rule about helping clients smile when they ask first? Yeah? Apparently it's an exception when it comes to folks you yourself look up to. Yanno, like that one time with Mr. Frog.

But ya didn't wanna join Pim in helping HIS childhood hero smile.

Maybe you earned getting your nose ripped out.

earned?

earned.

earned.

earned

earned

yeah okay sure right lets just back it up a notch lets back it up and pretend for just one minute second that what happened to be me is justified because i wanted to go help mr frog who

oh i dont know has been a key part of my life since i was a kid who was there for me when things were shitty and when things were good and i wanted to repay the guy for being a fucking beacon of hope for me after being cancelled by a bunch of idiots yeah sure

lets say that means that the one day the one day i didnt go on some crazy adventure and wanted a lazy day in the office with my friend glep yeah that means i deserved to be abused verbally humiliated oh and HAVE MY NOSE RIPPED OFF MY FACE which by the way took an eighteen hour long operation to reattach multiple blood transfusions and continuous doctors check ups and now im in fucking debt for cuz oh you know the medical health care system in america is fucking broken

besides allan was the one who put his hand up to help pim in this adventure i didnt even get a say in it he wanted in and pim was all for it you shouldve seen him waving his arms around looking all adorable and shit about going out with allan who am i to say no youre my co worker youre my friend WE go on adventures fuck you allan no i wasnt gonna shit on his parade of not only meeting HIS childhood idol but then demand i go along with besides idk who gwimbly is i didnt grow up with video games they were too expensive

so im a hypocrite so im the asshole everyone needs a fall guy right i guess im the fall guy in this situation

but no yeah dude its fine no worries im glad we all agree its cool that im the hypocrite who deserved to have his nose ripped off his face

next question

[lezleonardo]

My favorite part abt the star trek fandom especially the tos one is that as an outsider you'd see someone talk abt a plot from the show and you'd probably be like "damn what fan fic plot is this?" Only to actually watch the show and realise it was not fanon but canon..

[yurki-posts]

Hopefully season 7 or the movie will make this canon

[hermesmoly]

Heyy hi so. I'm very happy to find someone who enjoys the Hera and Hermes friendship. I thought I was the only one so far. I admit I base it only headcanons 🫡 but since you look like you know much more than me, i just wanna know if their friendship actually has any proof in myths?

When Hera feeds milk to Hermes, it was unintentional because she pushed him away. So I don't think she feels like a motherly way towards him because of this. Plus she feeded Dionysus milk too in Dionysiaca but she still hated Dionysus. I don't think this paints the relationship in positive way 😟

About Argus too. there's a version where she wanted to punish him but because hermes was following on Zeus orders she couldn't and just threw stones at him. It is a funny myth though. So she did have anger on him for Argus I think but maybe forgot it after some time.

So there are other myths where they are amicable? I mean not neutral but actually friendly. Maybe a myth where Hera and Hermes hang out or something? Or Hera wants to give one her daughter in marriage to Hermes 🤭 something like that i hope there's a story I really want to know more about their relationship

OMG SORRY all of these are my headcanons too 😭💔 I am no academic and I got excited so I didn’t realize the implications of the milk myth / Argos. Thank you on correcting me! (please kindly send the version where she was mad! Cuz I didn’t know it existed!)

Sadly I have searched far and wide for Hermes-Hera positive myths (where they interact) and so far came up empty like you. The closest I know is this one passage where Hermes’ son Bounus honors Hera by making her a temple.

Pausanias, Description of Greece 2. 4. 7 (trans. Jones) (Greek travelogue C2nd A.D.) :

"Here [on the Akrokorinthos of Korinthos], too, is the temple of Hera Bounaia set up by Bounos the son of Hermes. It is for this reason that the goddess is called Bounaia."

So no, not directly Hermes but Hera having a whole epithet from a son of Hermes that survived the times is pretty nice!

[sugarsnappeases]

guys does anyone ever think about how when hermione and everyone else use polyjuice they still have their own voices but when barty does it in gof he has moody’s voice…. like ik this is probs just jkr’s shitty writing but do you think he spent like. a long time. tryna practice moody’s voice, like to get it perfect before his big star role in the school play

[alexsaal]

Ignorate le pressioni della società.

Non dovete dimostrare niente a nessuno.

Non dovete essere migliori di nessuno, ma solo per voi stessi.

La società impone dei canoni, ma quei canoni NON esistono.

I canoni sono invenzioni.

Siate voi stessi, con i momenti oscuri e bui e i momenti di luce.

Non abbiate fretta, anche se questa società vuole che tutto sia rapido e veloce, voi NON abbiate fretta.

State alla vostra andatura.

È il vostro percorso, è il vostro cammino, è il vostro andamento, NON è quello degli altri.

Non cambiate per gli altri.

Non cambiate per piacere agli altri.

[ninicaise]

damen and laurent ARE codependant but like. they never find out

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PRIMA PAGINA Corriere Del Mezzogiorno di Oggi martedì, 06 agosto 2024

[percival895]

Se ci avessero messo una figona come Tricia Helfer non si sarebbe lamentato nessuno.

[soren-apologist]

now that i’ve finished timerra’s forging bond supports, my main take away is that it’s too bad oscar never showed up because timerra would have loved him