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[questionthedompler]

Hey Charlie! LGBTQ pride month may be over but now it’s disability pride month! If you’re disabled and queer that means you get two pride months in a row lol

Do you have a disability?

holy shit i get TWO months i didnt know that why doesnt anyone ever tell me this shit??

and yeah man, i been disabled since i got hit by that fuckin car that ruined my hopes and dreams of being a football player

my knees need support yannow? being smashed in by a speeding car kinda leaves you messed up in the joint department and since then i been using these bad boys

course there were times i'd refuse to wear em cuz they made me look weak cuz being an alpha i gotta set a good example right

but now i got Pim and Emily that kinda shit don't really matter any more

i need to work on leg day at the gym more, i wanna be able to keep up with Emily once she starts crawling everywhere

[questionthedompler]

Happy Father's Day to both you and Pim? What have y'all been up to? :)

i think going by how long it took me to answer this is a big fuckin indication what we been up to

been a wild month man

emily's growing stronger every day keeping us both super busy

ive gone back to work so i get a million texts a day from pim about how shes going

we had a great fathers day i mean YOU know that emily couldnt buy us gifts each but we got each other something to open

im glad she made it in time for it

we also went to a family friendly pride event which was nice - ive never been to one before but i figure it was about time to so we all went wearing our colors with pride and all that good shit

i was exhausted by the end of the day though

but lifes been good

im happy

we're happy

now just gotta wait to see what july brings

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Hypothetically say Emily turned out to be a boy, what would you have named them?

emanuel was my choice when we were talkin bout the baby being a boy or a girl and i think emanuel dompler woulda been a good name!

who knows maybe down the line we might have a boy

thatd be nice

id like a son

but dude like

i love my daughter shes a noisy messy little stinky thing but shes mine, shes ours

im v proud

tired but proud

[questionthedompler]

happy pride month

how did you feel when pim came out to you as trans 🙀

"Hey, Charlie? I've got something I really need to tell you."

"U-huh?"

"I'm trans, Charlie."

"...okay, cool man."

and that was it

i didn’t feel anything cuz why would i so hes trans big deal im yellow gleps green allan is red and pim is trans

[questionthedompler]

the fuck i do

The Smiling Friends wiki is so mean to him

[questionthedompler]

took us a while but finally

we home

no more hospitals and nurses and doctors and shit like that

happy to have Pim sleep in our bed tonight with Emily beside us

my backs been killing me sleeping in hospital chairs

[questionthedompler]

What about…*your* side of the family finding out? I don’t mean your mother’s side.

my whole family knows we had a kid - they’re fine with it

when she’s a bit older we’re all gonna go down south to visit my family it’s gonna be fuckin sweet

[questionthedompler]

Wait is that safe? The announcement in the paper? Wouldn't that potentially open. Can of trouble in terns of…ex communicatied members?

well it’s been a day and we haven’t gotten any word from his side of the family so

idk man

if they do dare to try anything they’ll see what im like when im mad

[questionthedompler]

will you and pim tell pims family about your baby

probably not

they might find out cuz we put an announcement in the paper but idk if they’d care if they saw it

[questionthedompler]

oh wait isn't your mom still around? has she seen emily yet?

yeah dude! she saw her first day here and she loves her so fuckin much

she’s an Abuela now and that’s a big fuckin deal

she’s staying with us a whole month to help us out give us tips show us the ropes you know stuff like that

She’s been knitting her so many clothes

[questionthedompler]

how does something so small make so much poop

like WOW

stinky baby

[questionthedompler]

Ur probably not missing ur dad but the dad he could have been yk yk.

probably

it just sucks dude

[questionthedompler]

What happened…exactly? You don’t have to if you’re not comfortable but… seems to be haunting you dude

my old man taught me lotta shit

the world was cold and cruel

you can’t always rely on family

my first drink when i was six

that the belt was one of the worst punishments imaginable

how to feel helpless as he beat my mama

how to swim by throwing me into the deep end

and the endless wave of hurtful shit he told me on the daily

he made me afraid, dude

looking back he’s the one who taught me men don’t cry or talk about our feelings and that women were objects for us to claim

it all stemmed from him

so why the fuck am I the wanting to talk to him

[questionthedompler]

Hey Charlie congratulations! Also I don’t mean this as an insult or anything but your baby looks like a Musharna.

a fucking what

wait lemme google

THE FUCK IS THAT

My daughter dont look like that!!

DUDE.

[questionthedompler]

Do you ever talk to your mom about it? Your dad I mean.

nah man no way why would I wanna talk to her bout the bastard that hurt her so much

I can’t do that to her

[questionthedompler]

now im a dad I gotta wonder if my old man felt this way when I first arrived

was he proud? did he love me? did he ever love me before shit started going wrong?

…

almost wish I could talk to him about it

[questionthedompler]

I'M PROBABLY LATE BUT CONGRATS TO THE BOTH OF YOU EEEEEE 🩷🩷🩷🩷

nah dude never late never too late to congratulate on a baby

thank you!