#by relationship i dont mean strictly romantic like
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soo. idk honestly. i think Kado's the kinda guy to come off concieted but later on if you stick around you May be able to see he is somewhat lonely. he has wealth, mainly from his real estate business, but he's a thief so of course he's got some extra. he's good with business relationships but when it becomes personal he gets a strong urge to just, vanish, because he hasnt been able to uphold a proper relationship of any kind for ?????? years. if it's not because of his own personal flaws, it's because (to put it short) he's a vampire which comes with its own bag of problems. oh and he's a thief lol he doesn't want any snitches all up in his business.
his wealth doesnt make up for the fact that he's like, painfully lonely. he isolates by choice because he believes this is best for him but it only worsens his personal problems
#fortnite headcanons#kado thorne#fortnite#IM SO SORRY. THE BRAINROT HAS ME AT GUNPOINT.#TO my mutuals: im normal i promise you it's just#ermmm... hehehe😁👉👈#by relationship i dont mean strictly romantic like#even in a friendship he gets kind of elusive and distant#but there IS a point throughout where he'll open up to an extent like he'll just straight up be bing chilling#around whoever his homie is#but once again if the friendship gets too personal he wants to.vanish#✧ aztro's writing rambles
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Top Ten Underrated RGG Couple Dynamics?
im not doing ten (it'll be close) but anyway here's groups of pairs im surprised don't have more than 50 fics on Ao3
saejima
kido
baba
shinada
milky-chan
takasugi
akiyama
tanimura
kiryu
arai
kiryu
date
#snap chats#theres definitely more im forgetting but i aint tryna think on this too long i gotta get ready#like if we're talking STRICTLY romantic couples then Up Above are the ones off the top of my head#tho there are a lot of friendships/non-romantic relationships i wish got explored more too#like saejima/kiryu | shinada/akiyama | kiryu/yuya#i mean those COULD be romantic if you want but imo i see them more platonic#i also like akiyama/ryuji lowkey but eeeh im kinda putting more-obvious and 'canonical' ones for now#daigo and kiryu's father/son relationship also isnt really appreciated enough#like we acknowledge it and we make fun of kiryu for being a shit dad but like#we dont /appreciate/ it yk what i mean cause kiryu- even if he sucks dick- does try and evidently cares about daigo#and its obvious kiryu had a HUGE impact on daigo's character and ideology
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AHHH LOVED THE AL HAITHAM FIC SMM but if you dont mind what was going through al haithams head when he realized she left??
-> the house will never be the same again pt. 2
synopsis -> after being incredibly disrespected by your husband, alhaitham, you moved to liyue. what is going through his mind when you leave?
a/n -> AHHH i'm so happy you liked it!!! and i don't mind making a pt. 2 at all sorry this has been sitting here for a while but i hope you enjoy! here is part 1.
warnings -> all hurt no comfort, reader never turns up lol
w/c -> 1.2k
it’s been about a week now, and you’re already settled into liyue. you’ve caught the eye of a bunch of passersby in the city- a sumeru vision wielder living in liyue harbor?
thankfully, you had the traveler and a kind woman from the qixing named ganyu able to assist you with questions about the city. the first day you got there, she noticed your vision, and asked you all about it. it soon led to the two of you hitting off the start of a friendship in a nice restaurant- with ganyu telling you all of the things to do in liyue, the jobs that can be taken, and how magical the lantern rite especially is. you mentioned to her that you had a passion for the arts, and she immediately helped you look for a side job to make a little bit of mora to pay rent in your nice abode in the middle of the harbor.
“so, were your travels from sumeru alright? i’ve heard trudging through desert is not a very enjoyable experience..” ganyu questioned, a slight grin to be found on her face. “though, i have heard that the city down there is very nice. i would love to visit for myself one day, but with work and adeptal business it makes my days a little tight.”
you nod before replying. “the city is beautiful, especially at night. theres a gorgeous stage down there too, where a young woman named nilou always performs on special events. it’s always been the most majestic part of the city, or at least in my opinion.”
ganyu lets out a noise of fascination, before giggling a little. “i would love to watch her dance. nilou is a familiar name, some people here strictly go to sumeru just to see her. i bet she’s as wonderful as everyone makes her out to be.” ganyu sighs. “i wonder if she travels? we have nice performing places here, too.”
you nod. “occasionally. it mostly has to be a big event for her to arrive, though.” you take another bite of your food. “but i bet if i asked her, she’d come out for at least a few days.”
that made ganyu smile once more, before she asked another question. “well, this may be an odd question, but do you have any romantic relationships?”
“well, that's the reason i decided to move here,” now it is your turn to sigh, making ganyu have a confused look dancing across her face. “my partner and i got into an argument. he wouldn’t stop overworking himself, and i simply just wanted him to come to bed. but he’s so stubborn, and he took his work stress out on me. there was… certainly a lot of name calling.”
ganyus look of confusion immediately switches to an apologetic one. “ah, you made the right choice. that’s no way to treat your spouse.”
you nod in agreement, before finishing your dish and pushing it slightly out in front of you.
“well, i’m going to head back to my apartment now. this was very nice, we should do it again sometime!” you smile before standing and putting some money on the table. “here, this should be half. have a good night, ganyu!”
“goodnight to you too, y/n! i’ll see you soon.”
now, back on alhaithams end..
he hasn’t been home in about a week and a half, due to his work causing his presence nearly 24/7. that pretty much means he hasn’t realized you’ve left yet.
as he walks home, he doesn’t know how he would approach you. does he pretend the issue doesn’t exist? does he keep ignoring you? does he apologize? he thought his mind would split open.
as he walks through the door, he notices that the house is a little… emptier, from when the two of you lived together. he walked through the whole place, looking into the bathrooms to see your products gone. looking at the laundry room, met with no clothes that are yours hanging from the clothesline. and now, when he went to your bedroom…
your pillowcases have been stripped from the bed, and your pillow thrown into the closet. there were only a stack of two pillows, right in the middle of the bed. now his heart was thumping, and really hard. he looked through the dressers. the left side was barren, leaving only his side full. the thing that brought tears to the mans eyes was seeing your wedding ring on your side of the table.
so you really left him. he stands there, shocked, unknowing of what to do. does he try to find you, or does he let you go? oh, how he regrets ever talking to you the way he did. if he just took your advice, you would be in bed, waiting for his arrival. likely bringing him into a hug, shaking all his worries and stress away as you whispered questions along about how his day was.
the next few days felt like someone kept coming over to his desk and stabbing his back with blades like his. he felt so regretful, doing everything he can to stay composed while at the same time trying to find where you’ve gone. dehya won’t give him anything besides “somewhere close to sumeru that’s not sumeru.” that could mean you’ve gone to fontaine, liyue, or monstadt. how would he ever find you?
he’d ask the gaurds, and they all told him you went in the direction of the chasm. getting somewhere, but not close enough. he could walk all that way and come up empty handed. he doesn’t have an exact pinpoint on you yet.
he’d ask nilou. she’d just shrug and say something along the lines of “i heard what happened, but i do not know fully where they went.”
he walked the paths of the city, lost deep in thought. everyone thought it was a little out of character for someone such as him to look and feel as lost as he is. as much as people wondered what happened, they kept their mouths shut.
and for the people who noticed your absence, too, they’d ask different people who would likely have knowledge. but alhaitham didn’t know where to go now. he could walk the whole chasm and still not have you turn up. he could check every apartment complex in liyue harbor, and knock on every door on the outskirts. he could sail the seas to inazuma, and walk every separate island to see who may be housing you, or what commission you may have been taken in by. he could fall down the very waterfall that leads an entrance to the enchanting location called enkanomiya. he could go to fontaine, dive under the waters, walk every rocky mountain, and even visit the fortress of meropide. he could fight every monster near the city of monstadt, looking upon every rooftop for signs of your art, blown through the city of wind. but he still wouldn’t find you.
now what he doesn’t know is that you’re in liyue harbor, and nobody frets to tell him that anytime soon. for now, they’re just going to let him suffer, the same way he let you.
#genshin#genshin impact#genshin impact x reader#genshin x reader#alhaitham#genshin angst#genshin x reader angst#alhaitham x reader#alhaitham angst#alhaitham x reader angst
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SLYTHERIN BOYS WHEN IN LOVE headcanons
including: mattheo, blaise, tom, draco, theo and enzo.
MATTHEO RIDDLE:
-charming and flirtatious: this boy is VERY good with his words and he knows how to make you feel seen and heard.
-affectionate in private: in public, the most yous will do is hold hands and maybe a rare kiss STRICTLY on the forehead because it may ruin his ‘fierce’ image, but in private he cannot keep his hands off of you.
-romantic gestures: although he wouldnt be the PDA type of guy, he always buys you flowers, writes letters to you and showers you in attention “just because”
-physical affection: mattheo secretly loves when you play with his hair, cuddle him, hold his hand and scratch his back and although he would never tell you, but he finds ANY excuse to touch you when nobody looks— a hand on your thigh, on your back and even on your arm he loves it when you get close to him
-deep conversations: mattheo loves the midnight deep conversations yous have— even if he falls asleep during them sometimes.. but he values every part of it and likes listening to how you feel.
-the little things: mattheo will remember the little things, your favourite book, your favourite drink, even your favourite hairstyle and he will make sure your always taken care of.
-REALLY jealous: mattheo can get really jealous sometimes which may cause arguments and a hard time in the relationship, if he senses another person getting close to his partner, he will make his dissatisfaction clear, even if it’s passive-aggressive comments like, “so you were with him today? Interesting.”
-isolation: if he finds that you become distant or dont show as much attention he WILL isolate himself until you notice just so that youll start paying more attention to him— and if you decide to ignore it he will say stuff like “do you still love me?”
-pet names: darling, love, angel, sweetheart and princess
BLAISE ZABINI
-stability and consistency: blaise does NOT play mind games, what you see is what you get he will not switchup randomly.
-quiet gestures of aftection: while hes not loud about how much he loves you, you can tell specially when he makes food for you, leaves little notes, inside jokes or even your favourite drink when he knows your busy.
-loves spending time: blaise LOVES spending time with you, specially when you dont expect it, he loves suprising you by taking you to your favourite shops/ restaurants or even just to stargaze.
-respect for boundaries: blaise is patient, which means he understands emotional closeness takes time and hes willing to wait, he will never push you to hurryup and figure things out. he gently assures you that hes not going anywhere and offers warmth and consistency
-physical affection; he is OBSESSED with you and not afraid to show it! he will kiss you infront of everyone (obviously no tongue) and he will always somehow touch you no matter who sees or hold your hand.
-passive agressive behaviours; although yous always spend time together when you dont have the time for it last minute he would often drop something like “i guess your getting to busy for me, its fine, im use to it” just to make you feel bad for it.
-unresolved issues with silence: sometimes, when blaise gets angry at you he will go silent, he will still hold your hand, kiss you, cuddle you, but he wont talk to you— sometimes you may not even know that youve done something and when you keep pushing he will say “im fine, dont worry about it.” and continue ignoring you.
-pet names: princess, beautiful, my love, babe and my soulmate.
TOM RIDDLE
-intensity: toms love is all-consuming and manipulative, often disguised as care or concern. he believes in control, so his affection is about ownership and power rather than pure emotion.
-protective: tom sees you as someone he NEEDS to protect from everything; although it comes with one condition— you have to be his and only his, his magical intelligence will always make you feel safe to and all of his followers will be forced to take care of him.
-romantic obsession: his love isint affection, its obsession. the moment he first saw you, he immediately became fixated on you. not in an unhealthy way of course— but a way where you have his attention almost all the time, when he loves he will make sure you know it.
-affection: although he may not show a lot of affection, but he will in his own ways whether its brushing a strand of hair off your face or even making sure you eat.
-makes you feel special— then takes it away: toms charm lies in his ability to make you feel you’re the only person who truly matters to him, but it comes with a catch��� he will remind you that his love IS conditional by saying things like: “I could have anyone I want, but I chose you—don’t make me regret it.”
-isolates you: tom doesnt believe that anyone deserves your attention but him, and he will create dependency by doing things like “you dont need anyone else, im all youll ever need.” or “theyre only jealous because you have me.”
-unpredictable: his love is very unpredictable, one day he could shower you in praise but the next day he could completely turn off and ignore you.
-pet names: little one, darling, my dove, pet, pretty thing.
DRACO MALFOY
-overthinking everything: draco would overanalyze every little interaction, worrying about saying the wrong thing or appearing too eager.
-showing off: Draco would subtly (or not so subtly) flaunt his skills, wealth, or intelligence to impress the person he likes.
-devoted partner: once draco commits, he’s fiercely loyal and protective. he would always ensure his partner feels valued and cared for, though he might not always express it perfectly.
-acts of service: He’d go out of his way to handle small tasks or challenges for his partner, though he’d play it off as “no big deal.”
-vulnerability in private: draco would open up emotionally only in the safety of private moments with his partner, letting his partner see his insecurities and fears.
-protective streak: even during fights, draco wouldn’t let ANYONE else disrespect his partner.
-sparring with Insults: arguments would escalate quickly, with draco resorting to insults rather than listening. He’d use personal insecurities against them, making the partner feel small and unworthy.
-insecure praise: draco might constantly need validation from his partner to feel secure, and if he doesn’t get it, he would lash out or act distant, forcing his partner to reassure him repeatedly.
-pet names: pretty girl, love, sweetheart and princess.
THEODORE NOTT
-slowburn romance: theodore is not one to fall head over heels quickly. he believes in taking time to truly understand someone before becoming emotionally involved.
-softness behind closed doors: In private, theodore is much softer with his partner. He may not be the type to shout his affection from the rooftops, but when it’s just the two of them, he’s more open and vulnerable.
-respect for his partners boundaries: theodore is deeply respectful of his partner’s boundaries and independence. he understands the importance of personal space and will not push for anything his partner isn’t ready for.
-loves the quiet moments; whether its sitting together during study sessions, walking side by side in comfortable silence, or sharing a simple meal, its these small, intimate experiences that make him feel closest to his partner.
-jealousy and protective; theodores jealousy can be subtle but toxic. he may not express it openly, but his behavior could become possessive—monitoring his partner’s actions, questioning their interactions with others, or subtly undermining their relationships.
-withholds affection: he might withhold affection or attention as a form of punishment. Instead of addressing the issue, he could give his partner the cold shoulder or refuse to engage emotionally,
-reluctance to apologise: theodore might struggle to offer sincere apologies, instead offering vague or insincere ones.
-pet names: love, trouble, darling, heart, bella, amore eterno, cielo mio
LORENZO BERKSHIRE
-gestures over words: rather than grand declarations of love, he expresses his feelings through subtle gestures—small acts of kindness, making sure the other person has everything they need, or staying by their side during difficult moments.
-intellectual bond: as a lover, he enjoys deep, meaningful conversations and values intelligence in his partner. hes attracted to someone who can challenge him mentally, and he enjoys discussing books, history, or magic with them.
-physical touch: though not overly touchy, lorenzo expresses affection through small physical gestures—brushing his partner’s hand, a reassuring touch on the shoulder, or pulling them into a brief but meaningful hug.
-romantic, in his own way: though not overly flamboyant, he does have a romantic side. he enjoys quiet moments with his partner, like watching a sunset together or sharing a cup of tea after a long day, creating an intimate, peaceful space where love can quietly grow.
-silent treatment: as much as he prefers gestures over words, he WILL give you silent treatment because he knows how much itll hurt.
-threatening to harm others: im moments of extreme jealousy or frustration, lorenzo may threaten harm or lash out at others in front of his partner as a way to keep his partner in line or force them to feel responsible for his actions.
-pet names: angel, my muse, love, princess, and doll.
#tom riddle fanfiction#headcanons#mattheo riddle#lorenzo berkshire#theodore nott#draco malfoy#blaise zabini#tom riddle#fluff
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The entire bizzyboy team x godpoke
wait hold on had to make a whole graph for this
i present the bizzyteam panopticon of romance routes, Godpoke in da middle. biased to headcanons of course as godpoke is a player stand-in after all.
pink heart is for most potential mutual relationship/crush. red heart is infatuation, more of a heavy handed attraction than actual investment. light blue circle is friendly terms. grey zig-zaggy line is for complicated, unsure feelings.
pattypoke, obvious, i think they found eachother at the right point in time, godpoke traveled real far simply for the sake of meeting an idol and ended up becoming part of history, and patty did as well by standing up for herself and finding her voice and identity again, they are sweet like candy to eachother.
alexpoke, i honestly think godpoke tries to flirt with em but alexei is incredibly skittish or straight up doesnt get it, doesnt mean it CANT work, but al would need to come around n not get distracted so much.
vibipoke, ive seen cute stuff with em but i dont really ship em, in fact i think vibi simply cant really vibe romantically with a person of so few words of their own, vib wants megapon, or capo, whoever comes first.
banapoke, this is krerdly deltarune 2 if we believe in ourselves/lh, i honestly like it a lot, its cuteee.
grujapoke?, i think grujaja feels unsure about godpoke and really hasnt opened a lot to people in general to form a coherent relationship at this point in time, also sometimes megapon loud as fuck and he cant take it, godpoke wants to try to be more mindful of their wellbeing to hang out.
capopoke oooohh boy, capo definitely feels Things for godpoke, its mostly about the rivalry going on and being pitted against eachother, but its also the fact that Godpoke doesnt feel that strongly against Capo even after everything, in fact they seem to Actively care, which drives that weird attraction further, Capo is just that guy that loves provoking something just to get manhandled, probably.
Inspekpoke , HOOOH BOY how do i say this its pretty fucking obvious that Inspekta is crazey for the new deputy, immediately wants to pull them in, immediately wants to get weird about it, a lot of it comes from Spek projecting a buncha things at once at em, and thats a problem, i think he sees them as a strictly blank canvas that can be easily swayed by promises and sweet nothings, but to me Godpoke finds it probably a bit cute at the beginning and then it just turns, clingy and uncomfortable towards the end, especially with the passive aggressive behavior and mood swings coming in, too much too quickly. they got a lot to talk about post-canon, lotsa things to be apologizing for.
anyways thanks for coming to my bizzy presentation.
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How do you feel about nsfw? If you don’t mind it would you write nsfw headcanons/abcs for Daryl Dixon? If you don’t like nsfw (which is completely fine and understandable) maybe just headcanons of Daryl pining after naive reader? No pressure and please don’t overwork yourself. Remember that you always come first and that if you don’t feel like writing or creating something it’s completely ok. Thanks in advance! 💜💜💜
ABC| NSFW Daryl x reader
happy October everyone! a/n: i prob will write your other idea too, i loved both of them way too much!! You are so sweet thank you for your kind words omg!!! i love getting sweet messages from you guys! thank you for your support and for your request!! I know its taken me a bit to do school has been absolutely crazy busy! hope you enjoy!
HEY! THIS IS A BIT SMUTTY SO PLEASE READ WITH YOUR OWN REGARD AND IF YOU ARE UNDER 18 MAYBE DO NOT READ IT
A (Aftercare): Daryl is definitely the type to clean you up first and then put you in some comfy pjs before he even thinks about himself. I have a feeling this man would run down to get you water, naked, the moment you asked.
B (Body part): Thighs, ass, boobs. I dont think this man would pick a favorite but if he did it would be those. He loves to worship all of you and make you feel like your a goddess in the body you inhabit.
C (Cum): Like I said hes good a cleaning up wich probably means he likes to make messes aka making you a mess.
D (Dirty Secret): Why do i feel like he definitely has a fantasy of him fucking you on his bike. I mean the man goes everywhere on his damn bike, why would he not want to please you on his favorite thing. (Hes thought about doing it on runs before and just pulling into the woods to do so) E (Experienced): He may know what to do but I think both of you found your way with sex together. While we all fawn over Daryl hes definitely the type thats not well experienced with girls but damn does he get good with you. F (Fav Position): i think given everything missionary is the way to go for both of you. Plus Daryl the type to only let a few in emotionally and then let you in, he definitely wants to see you when you two have sex. Hes not the degrading type.
G (Goofy) : Daryl is serious in the moment, maybe a few giggles from you but hes all about pleasing you and making sure you feel good. Plus darly is really bad at telling jokes when he's not meaning too so, best to keep things professional
H (Hair): While his head hair is messy and long, Darly is good about keeping things neat, especially since he started this serious side of your relationship. He doesn't care at all how you look but he wants to make sure hes looking good for you, he likes to please.
I (Intimacy): romantically Daryl is a pleaser. He wants to make sure everything he does pleasures you and makes you feel good. Course he doesn't mind at all when you do the same for him but most of the time he focuses on you. J (masturbation): Daryl doesn't have that much time to do things by himself with the way the community always needs help, or someone's lurking around that shouldn't. Plus when he does have time he puts that toward you. K (kink): He's probably into bondage, choking, and whatever you are into. L (location): Darly likes doing it in your bed but he obviously also doesn't mind pulling over with his motorcycle or car and fucking you senseless in the woods.
M (motivation): Seeing you fresh out or in the shower definitely turns him on. I think (he wont admit it) but whenever your out and you have to take on walkers, seeing you just fight you way through them definitely does something to this man. You protecting yourself and showing off how smart and strong you are is 100% a turn-on for this man. Oh and whenever you take charge in the bedroom would get him going for sure.
N (no, hard limits): Anything that could hurt either of you, weapons being involved is a no-go. For Daryl thats strictly apocalypse work things and he wants to keep the bedroom free of weapons (even if you fighting to turn him on, doesn't mean he wants it involved). He wants the space between the two of you to be sensual and sexual not dangerous. being degrading is the only hard limit for either of you, daryl is not the type to do that because of how he was raised and who he is.
O (oral): he 100% loved giving, anything to please his woman. He wont fight you if you want to help him but he much prefers doing you.
P (pace): Depends on what the two of you are doing, but darly likes going hard and slow for you so you feel everything and feel your best. If he's in a horny mood and he wants you fast and to get you to come as much as possible he'll go faster and harder.
Q (quickies): Days when the two of you are so busy or on the road are perfect for you two, even if you love the longer sensual times with each other. Neither of you hates them but spending longer amounts of alone time together is preferred. There have been times you were almost caught on runs doing it in the back seat of the car because you had been out for days. Those were not fun times almost being caught.
R (risk): The only risk you two are taking is on runs getting frisky in the backseat after days and days on the road. Even before when the two of you would run off into the woods together because neither of you could take it any longer you always ran the risk of others seeing, hearing or finding you. No one ever does but there have been times its almost happened. S (stamina): Daryls got a lot of stamina, i mean he could go for a long time or even do you a few hours later and still not tire. I think you might be the only one keeping Daryl from fucking you all hours of the night.
T (toys) : Usually no because well it is the apocalypse and no electronic toys work others have been sitting in shops getting dirty for years that the two of you make up, and honestly prefer it just being your bodies working. The only “toy” is probably the use of handcuffs, which Darly stole an extra pair from Rick once or twice for the night. He acts like he doesn't know but Ricks is fully aware.
U (unfair, teasing) : Daryl loves teasing you on runs, in public or even when he really shouldn't. Most of the time you wait till you get home to make him fuck you all night but there are times you just can't handle it and make him find a spot to put the teasing to real life.
V (volume): When you're alone in your house in Alexandria you typically don't have to contain your volume but the two of you have become so used to being quiet that normally your voices don't rise very loud. In any circumstance the two of you had on the road made it so you learned how to be shit up by Daryl. W (wild card): I think Daryl has fucked you on his bike before! That's the wild card!
X (x-ray): if you really want to know, Daryls a good size like 6 inches probably and god if your obsessed with his arms, hes toned everywhere! Y (yearning): I think Daryl has a high sex drive around you and always teases you and wants you but has to contain himself. Before he met you he didn't but now that hes emotionally and romantically involved he definitely wants to be with you a lot. Zzz (sleep): I think both of you fall asleep pretty quickly afterward if it's a long night of being together but for quickies, no you don't fall asleep.
#fanfic#daryl dixon#daryl twd#daryl dixion#twd daryl#the walking dead daryl#daryl dixon x reader#daryl x reader#daryl fanfiction#abc#daryl dixion imagine#daryl dixon smut#twd daryl dixon#the walking dead imagine
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Since a lot of being aromantic is STILL stigmatised, heres a little post about aromantic quirks to raise awareness!!
Being aromantic faces a lot of stigma due to it being viewed as “romantic repulsed” or incapable of romantic love. This is wrong. While some may be repulsed by romance on a whole, many dont. They may feel little to no romantic feelings. They may have spikes. What matters is being aromantic is a SPECTRUM.
Aromantics can still have crushes. They can still dream about being in a romantic relationship. They can enjoy doing romantic things like going on dates, or being affectionate. However (coming from an aromantic) they may struggle with forming a romantic attachment to someone or even considering someone in a romantic state.
Their love can fizzle out quickly after entering a relationship and they can feel out of place for it or otherwise grow disinterested the closer they get. While they may dream about the IDEA of being in a romantic relationship, however they may abhor or be generally disgusted at the idea of being committed to an actual person! Or heck they might even like the idea and then dislike all the traditionally ROMANTIC actions (like going out together, picnics, gifts, etc) of it and treat it more like a closer friendship than a traditional romance.
They can like doing romantic things but be uncomfortable with them being tied to a committed traditional relationship and strictly romantic context! What matters is you can be any of the above and still somewhat register on the spectrum.
Common aromantic experiences are:
Having a crush on someone but feeling no need for them to return it in kind / losing interest when they start reciprocating
Liking the idea of being in a romantic relationship, but feeling little to no interest when people approach you with it.
Of course this doesnt mean aromantics can be COMPLETELY adverse to a relationship. Aromantics can still be in romantic relationships for other reasons. An extremely close friendship for example. As someone whos been in relationships with other aromantics its one of the incredibly rare times i feel some semblance of affection (usually after they confess; i find i never even entertain the thought of romantic ties beforehand but thats my experience).
And finally sexual and romantic attraction is different. You can experience sexual attraction without necessarily feeling romantic, or vice versa, or even barely any at all.
If you think youre aromantic you can also take this quiz.. it might help? Anyways thats all.
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my thoughts on character relationships in the cast
fun fact for yall: before i made Vanguard, there were some characters in the cast that were going to be explored between them. these pairings are not canonical anymore but i wanna share them because why not?? again yall this is NOT GOING TO BE IN THE GAME ive just explored their relationships w each other prior to making Vanguard!! just a fun post, dont take too seriously :]
Vera x Emilio. there’s a post somewhere on here that states they had a previous situationship and yes this is true but they’ve ended whatever they had. alsooooo if you haven’t seen the post where i go more in depth, i recommend it!Vanguard takes place after they confirm with each other they are strictly platonic. i have several past works (that if there’s interest, i can post maybe) about these two. some that are um. perhaps not the safest for work. anyways.
Nia x Kiera, i just thought they would be cute idk!! Kiera would love that sweet princess so hard dear god please…
this one might be kind of surprising and maybe random to u guys, but Vio x Charles. yup. also have a piece about them too! that is wholesome, surprisingly!!
here’s some other pairings that i liked, but weren’t gonna be canon:
Vera x Nia. Nia would say “i can fix her” and she would!!!!
Cirrus x Emilio…im sad Emilio’s not in the story yet so you don’t know his personality all that well, but from the snippets on this blog i hope you can understand that he’d love Cirrus’ height. ahem.
Charles x Emilio x Vera. i have some stuff written about the three of them, and I’ll probably post it because it’s platonic and relevant to the plot of Vanguard.
Cirrus x Vera, they would compliment each other surprisingly well. Cirrus would find her intelligence super hot (i mean me too).
anyways i was just rereading some of my old works and stumbled across scrapped pieces of these characters. i personally think it’s important to explore your characters’ relationships with each other, romantic and platonic, as it makes them more believable to the reader. because why would they drop everything they’re doing and run for the mc, right? again, if there’s enough interest, i can post these old works onto this blog, or maybe on my side account. i’ve been yearning to write so sorry for all the blublub.
#vanguard if#vanguard#twine interactive fiction#cirrus vanguard#emilio vanguard#vera vanguard#nia vanguard#charles vanguard#vio vanguard#kiera vanguard#vanguard:romance
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Saiki and Aiura are bound to end up togethre because Aiura predicted it and her predictions are never wrong by the way! Hope this helped! Soulmates cant be platonic beacuse thats not what she predicted!
? im not sure where this is coming from but my point isnt and has never been "aiura and saiki are platonic soulmates", its "regardless of their status as soulmates, it cant force them to fall in love and so that relationship will just develop as it may, platonic OR romantic." the way you say this honestly just makes it seem like you dont understand what "soulmate" means and WHY people call them "platonic soulmates", its not that people think "platonic soulmates" is a specific label that defines them and that thats what the universe wanted them to be, its that "soulmates" cannot be defined as strictly platonic OR romantic without being an extremely creepy forced romance or friendship and it doesnt make sense that way anyway, so people are allowed to think their label as soulmates ends up being platonic FOR THEM.
and also that its really creepy that people think she has some sort of ownership over him or something... that just because she tells him theyre romantic soulmates means his feelings dont matter, youre not allowed to ship him with anyone else and hes not allowed to love anyone else, even if theyre not dating because she already staked her claim on him or something 😭
and nowhere in canon does it say she predicted that they end up together btw, its already very clear to me that youre very biased but this is just something you made up. if you headcanon that, thats perfectly okay!! but as far as we know, it didnt happen. nowhere does it say or even slightly imply that her soulmate power has anything to do with her predictions of the future, most of her powers that we see actually dont lol she predicts some futures but her other most prevalent powers we're shown are her ability to see auras and "compatibility" (which you can headcanon or theorize as having to do with future predictions, but again in canon this is never even so much as alluded to)
so yeah its not a future prediction and also even if it was, they literally prove in the show that the future can be changed, especially if you KNOW the future. but regardless, i doubt its a prediction in the first place and all evidence points to it not being so, especially since aiura went out of her way to come to pk to find her soulmate which, if she had already predicted theyd be together eventually, would change their future, their meeting, and their love story drastically and, although i have criticisms for how she wholeheartedly trusted her power and didnt actually make any romantic connection with saiki before trying to date him, aiura is not nearly stupid enough to mess it up that badly
anyway, like ive said a million freaking times, i do think "soulmate" the way she says it has a romantic connotation, but my point is that that doesnt actually mean much in terms of anything romantic happening between them. it didnt happen in canon and theres nothing to imply that it ever will. shipping and headcanoning is awesome and fun and i love love loveeee aiura and saikis friendship and how fun it is to build off of, but a romantic relationship between them is not canon, not now and never in the future. in myyyyy opinion, they found each other and theyre good for each other and thats what matters to me about their relationship and thats what makes them "soulmates".
also guys me saying your ship isnt canon shouldnt be considered an insult to your ship, i dont know why people take it that way 😭 im a fucking diehard kubosai shipper which is the least canon you can possibly get and you dont see me desperately grasping at straws to force it to be canon, join the club ??? its not that hard ??? also some of my other favorite ships are teruaisai and poly psychikers so its not even like im saying mikosai is impossible 😭 also last note, i find it very very hard to believe that people genuinely think asou would and did make a saiki ship canon LMAOOOO he gets close with ships sometimes like with satou and suzumiya, he somewhat implied they both like each other but not that they would ever get together... i wholeheartedly believe terusai is implied to be reciprocated and i have a lot of evidence for it, but its not CANON for a reason, asou would not do that and its more interesting this way anyway. we can agree to disagree on implications, but hating on me because you think your ship is CANON is next level delusional
#i wasnt going to post this but i say on it for a few days and was like. yea i like how i organized my thoughts here#sorry if its a lot#not anti ship just anti stupid people and canon claims#saiki k#tdlosk#the disastrous life of saiki k.#aiura mikoto#saiki kusuo#meows post#meownalysis#<- putting that here because this post has a lot of my thoughts on the canon of mikosai and soulmates#eventually i will do an analysis on aiura and saikis friendship as a whole cuz i love them so much
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this is my last ask when it comes to bill and ford (as it's such a heavy situation) but im actually glad to see someone that doesn't look at billford and think it's lovey dovey in any of the sense. It's a cataclysmic relationship in all meaning of the word. People can of course ship what they so please but billford would never be anything good. I dont even think bill has the capability of having any sort of emotion that would be akin to romantic love, or any good emotion in general. He's a demon through and through. I truly cant see the ship as anything more as hateful platonic, if anything, SA. Bill strictly used Ford for his own gain, and imo, his "obsession/grudge" that people say he has, would be not cause he misses him, but because he's angry that he lost and no longer has that hold on Ford that he once had. It's classic narcissism and sociopath behavior. So frankly it's refreshing to see someone have a good understanding on their true relationship, and not try to make it romantic and more importantly, consensual
I agree, and you know what I think drives it? This weird focus on 'proship' and 'antiship'.
People have to make things squeaky clean because if they ship something that has noncon or whatever in it then it's 'problematic' and they have to feel dirty for doing so. They've got to make it digestible for a puritanical culture.
An example of this is Hannigram. Totally abusive, fucked up and weird. But the fandom never (or rarely) ever made a fix it fic or a Hannibal is good now! au. Hannibal was always the bad guy and it was fine because that was his character and that was how he and Will were in the show. It was fine because it was portrayed as fucked up and we all knew it, but no one ever tried to make it seem romantic or whatever beyond some memes. Everyone approached it for what it was: Insane.
Making Bill good or giving him human emotion is ridiculous because it goes against his character completely. Like, at that point just make an OC because that's what you're projecting onto Bill.
People won't 'dead dove: do not eat' like they used to and it's making things worse.
#asks#i guess#anon#i want to tag this but I daren't because people don't know the difference between discourse and bashing#but you're right anon#ship what you like but don't whitewash or bastardise the concepts#you're doing a disservice to the topic
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What do you think was wrong with Carter that he used the show to deal with his own issues? I mean, did he really think that platonic coworkers behave this way? Had he ever had a real job? That relationship would have been an HR headache.
HR: ok. Mulder. Again, you cannot stand that close to your female coworker. That can be sexual harrassment. You are making the other agents uncomfortable.
Mulder: how close is too close?
HR: Geez, agent, it's Wednesday and this is your second meeting this week. Do not call your coworkers in the middle of the night if it's not an emergency. Business hours are 9-5.
Mulder:Then why do we have these cell phones? What do you classify as an emergency?
HR:Twice today! I don't get paid enough to deal with Mulder load. Do not touch other agents! Keep your hands to yourself. And, I didn't think this needs to be said, but you cannot stare at Scully. Don't stare at anyone. From here on, you must keep at least an arm's distance personal space between you, Scully, anyone! YOUR ARM LENGTH! I have provided this laminated sheet of Mulder Dont's for you to keep on your person. Please review and follow them.
Mulder: is Gazing considered staring?
HR: get out!
XDDDDD
(But how can he stay away from Scully, HR Man, when she was the first one to jump him??)
Oh, Chris 100% knew that Mulder and Scully weren't strictly platonic: he started the show by comparing them to a (then) famous will-they-won't-they couple; and admitted, years in:
Interviewer: When you first explained Scully and Mulder to FOX, was it a point of sale that this was going to be purely working relationship, no love interest.
CC: I wanted it to be that way from the get-go, although I did want there to be sort of an underlying tension between the two of them because my feeling is when you put two smart people, a man and a woman, in a room, I don’t care whether or not they’re passionate about their life and their work, you’re going to get sexual tension out of that naturally.
Interviewer: How important is the sexual tension between the characters?
CC: I never wanted them to jump in the sack together because it was uninteresting to me. To me, the most sexual relationships are often the ones that are never realized, consummated or even spoken about. So I wanted this to be two smart people who work together, who happen to get along very well. Through their shared passion in their work, there is a natural chemical sexual tension that comes out of that, that doesn’t ever have to be spoken about, but it works.
(I wrote a meta based on his chronological interviews-- and how he buried the romantic lead under a false umbrella of platonic-- here. All the answers to CC's psyche can be found there. >:DDDD But in short: he had tropes he liked; and he wrote only those.)
Chris (later) admitted, over and over, that he'd planned for Mulder and Scully to get together at the end of the show. To this day, he claims to know what the last scene of The X-Files would be-- and I'd bet that last scene involves a chaste, romantic kiss. Unfortunately, he blew the kiss card during Season 7 (which was supposed to be the last season.) Still, hope flamed eternal; and he and Spotnitz successfully baited the network into another go around after Millennium and all things (before Requiem, if I recall.) Then, he was left with a floundering, "Now what?"
Ironically, he did have the happy ending and final kiss scene: Existence (which wasn't originally planned-- because of course not, that'd be admitting the show was actually over.) And Existence would have been it, if Gillian hadn't accepted a nice check for Season 9.
My opinion? I think Chris thought (thinks) the show will be over once they kiss-- and, to be fair, I've been catching up on a lot of fans/reviewers/reactions to famous 90s tv will-they-won't-they; and all of them concur: most people lose interest, and those shows sink in quality, after the couples finally kiss. I don't think it has to be that way, of course; but the broader audience has to become engaged again some other way, which is tricky.
Ultimately, CC signed his own death warrant because he just couldn't let the show end-- wouldn't let them pan out on one last, happy shot together-- despite many opportunities to do so. And, without another trick up his sleeve, viewership declined; and the original run of the show ended on a latent, struggling note. You could argue the same for IWTB and the Revival.
Those are my thoughts, anyway¬.
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How are sheith shippers fetishizing gay men. Are you delusional? Misinformed? Lacking IQ?
Keith is not Asian btw, While we're at it, please prove to me all the damage sheith has done to the gay Asian male community.
Ok considering i have sheith shippers/defenders dni in my intro post and I really dont feel like wasting my time today ill try to keep it short and wont be responding to shit like this down the line. Next time save your breath though. Because idk if you knew this but dni stands for Do Not Interact. You are interacting. Stop that.
1) they’re brothers. Sure it’s revealed much later in the seasons, but the point is they have an incredibly strong familial relationship. If you started off shipping sheith when they weren’t explicitly defined as brothers, fine. But after their familial relationship is revealed the choice to continue shipping those two specifically comes off as strange as hell. Even stranger when you consider the multiple other available male characters that are not only more age appropriate but also dont have a familial relationship with them lmao. Also Shiro canonically gets married to a man. So the choice to continue shipping sheith has to go beyond just wanting to guys to kiss. The next common denominator? They’re both asian, so I must conclude that the need to ship them comes from that. The next next common denominator is that they’re related and some of you just have a thing for incest. But i still have faith in humanity so i wont accuse you of that even though i occasionally feel the urge to. I refuse to take “but but they have the most in show relationship development” as a reason because that just means you’re too fucking lazy to think of your own scenarios. Which is not true, because the amount of devious ass sheith shit I unfortunately stumble across means your collective neurons are actively firing away. Just for the wrong thing. You guys really saw the only real developed relationship (i use this word generally and not strictly romantically) between two guys in the show and decided that it must have romantic undertones. Beyond how its harmful to irl men and deters them from emotional maturity out of fear that any non toxic relationship between two men is automatically seen as romantic by some people, it’s just fundamentally mid yaoi because you guys cant fathom that 1) romance isn’t a core part of the show beyond allurance 2) that two guys can talk to eachother while smiling without wanting to fuck. Yall are in the same league as those guys who are addicted to step sister p0rn.
1.5) bcs i know someones gonna ask “why do you think sheith is incest”, its because shiro fulfills the kinship role of “sibling” for keith, or even “parent”. From here-on out simplified as “guardian”. Within anthropology there are numerous kinship systems which determine which family member is called what. Ex. In the hawaiian system, every male family member is called “father” and every female “mother”. No matter if they birthed you or not. In the linear (also known as esk/mo but that’s a word with heavy history) system, your parents are “mom/dad”, siblings are defined as “brother/sister”, and everyone else is “aunt/uncle” or “cousin”. This is the system commonly used in the west. Kinship systems define a lot of things, from inheritance to respect hierarchies. Another key thing they determine is incest taboo. The range of which this taboo applies differs depending on culture, which is why you’ll hear of two people, for example, cousins getting married. In the west that’s considered taboo, but it may not be in another culture. Kinship and its taboos also apply to non blood related relationships. Hence adoptive siblings, etc. And keith quite explicitly refers to shiro as his brother. Given the context of those scenes, it can be deduced that it’s not said in a way that is 1) casual, as the lingo would more likely be “sup bro” or the tone of voice would be significantly more casual, 2) indicative of anything other than a familial relationship, for if keith considered him a brother in arms he would’ve said something more along the lines up “on your feet, brother”. Keith saying “you’re like my brother” AND THEN DOUBLING DOWN TO “You’re my brother,” said in such a sincere tone of voice leaves little to be debated.
Tldr: Shiro fulfills a guardian kinship role for Keith and thus the incest taboo applies to him.
1.6) also like? It’d be weird either way. Going by their canon age diff (season 1, 25-18 = SEVEN YEARS), and considering shiro met keith in middle school, and going by the oldest middle school age (15) bcs im feeling generous, shiro wouldve still been 22. If they just met once and never again till seasom 1, fine. Ship sheith however you want. But the fact is they met and then they formed a bond when shiro was significantly older and in a position of power over keith. Shiro was a mentor and guardian to keith whether you like it or not, and he stayed that way from when keith was young and impressionable until he was an adult. Yk what thats called? Raising a child. Imagine shipping that. Crazy. Imagine a 9 year old being raised by a 17 year old babysitter bcs of his absent parents. Suddenly when the 9 year old turns 18 he starts dating his babysitter. Thats freaky as hell, and i only increased the age gap by 2 years. Literally nothing else changed.
2) now why would they include a non aapi character in the mash up? Also, his source character from the og voltron is named “Keith Akira Kogane”. What non asian person is named that?
3) also the fact you need me to show you damage.. same vibe as “wdym he’s stalking you he’s just being friendly!! Show me how his so called stalking has put your life in danger”. Like imagine needing actual damage before even considering something bad.
#I HATE SHEITH#sheith shippers DNI#voltron#voltron legendary defender#hot take#sheith is gross you guys need actual help
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“Okay, I know what it looks like. But here's the good news. The multiverse didn't collapse. Little touch and go, but it worked out!”
before we get started, there’s some things that are going to be pointed out here (plz read they are important)
if you’d like to ask LYLA anything, use the ask box! it is open for that reason (if talking to mun, pls clarify)
if you’d like to rp but dont know if ill say yes, just ask. im like a 99 percent chance of saying yes
im cool with anything as long as it doesnt involve nsfw
i have a wack time schedule so there will be days where i am radio silent. i swear i am not ignoring you (just priv msg me if you want to double check)
my main blog is @flowered-bicycles if you want to check it out!
i also roleplay as @ghostly-sunflower (gwen) & @i-love-vines (spider-terra)
mun goes by soka but will normally be referred to as LYLA’s mun, or not at all
as hard as i will try to be LYLA’s canon self, i may end up throwing a bit of myself into the rp. pls dont hate, just let me know nicely
LYLA will be movie based as i dont have enough knowledge about the comics
[], {} or // will be used when ooc (when mun is speaking)
roleplay is normally in 3rd pov but basic posts and/or asks will be 1st pov
extra and disclaimer! - this is strictly an rp blog (yes i may act and speak and react like LYLA, but i am in no way actually her. i am in no way affiliated with marvel (unless you count fan as being affiliated) so this is completely fanmade! feel free (much encouraged) to like, reblog or send/asks and make comments! the ask box has anon on as well, so if you are shy, anon is on just for you! if you wish, giving an emoji for me to recognize you by would be greatly appreciated! you can leave comments and ill try to reply to them. submissions are open too (i think) if you wish to submit something!
BLOG RULES
you may use “potty mouth” when rping, but dont “over curse” iykwim
LYLA is an AI so she obviously does not have a romantic interest. if you want to make a relationship with her, dm me and we will figure something out (the only funny ship she has is holofang no i will not be taking criticism)
keep this SFW blog! (which means NO SMUT TALK!!! violence and gore are accepted tho so be warned)
keep the asks RESPECTFUL please. i will block you if you dont
uncomfortable topics will be blatantly ignored
dont godmod
have fun!
about LYLA
lyrate lifeform approximation
ai
based on earth 928
silly goofer
proud of her work
works for miguel o’hara
friends & foes
canon
miguel o’hara - @spiderman2-99
peter b parker - @peterbsideparker
hobie brown - @spiderpunkofficial
pavitr prabhakar - @pavitr-prabhakar-50101
noir - @noir-spider-noir
miles morales - @whosmoraless
other/oc
mila - @crybaby-spider
spider-glow - @glowing-arachnid
bridge - @nan0-sp1der
#across the spiderverse#atsv lyla#lyla#lyla answers#lyla spiderverse#lyla spiderman 2099#lyla rp#posting from lyla hq#spiderman: across the spiderverse#atsv#spiderman rp#spiderman across the spider verse#marvel rp#shit happens in 2099#// ooc post
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"Alright, people, let's start at the beginning one last time. My name is Gwen Stacy. I was bitten by a radioactive spider. And for the last two years, I've been the one and only Spider-Woman. You guys know the rest."
before we get started, there’s some things that are going to be pointed out here (plz read they are important)
if you’d like to ask gwen anything, use the ask box! it is open for that reason (if talking to mun, pls clarify)
if you’d like to rp but dont know if ill say yes, just ask. im like a 99 percent chance of saying yes
im cool with anything as long as it doesnt involve nsfw
i have a wack time schedule so there will be days where i am radio silent. i swear i am not ignoring you (just priv msg me if you want to double check)
my main blog is @flowered-bicycles if you want to check it out!
i also roleplay as @lyrate-lifeform-approximation (LYLA) & @i-love-vines (Spider-Terra)
mun goes by soka but will normally be referred to as gwen's mun, or not at all
as hard as i will try to be gwen's canon self, i may end up throwing a bit of myself into the rp. pls dont hate, just let me know nicely
gwen will be movie based as i dont have enough knowledge about the comics
[], {} or // will be used when ooc (when mun is speaking)
roleplay is normally in 3rd pov but basic posts and/or asks will be 1st pov
extra and disclaimer! - this is strictly an rp blog (yes i may act and speak and react like gwen, but i am in no way actually her. i am in no way affiliated with marvel (unless you count fan as being affiliated) so this is completely fanmade!
feel free (much encouraged) to like, reblog or send/asks and make comments! the ask box has anon on as well, so if you are shy, anon is on just for you! if you wish, giving an emoji for me to recognize you by would be greatly appreciated! you can leave comments and ill try to reply to them.
BLOG RULES
you may use “potty mouth” when rping, but dont “over curse” iykwim
gwen is a teenager, remember that, so she obviously does not have many romantic interests. if you want to make a relationship with her, dm me and we will figure something out (the only acceptable ships are with other teenagers (hence, teenage spider gang))
keep this SFW blog! (which means NO SMUT TALK!!! violence and gore are accepted tho so be warned)
keep the asks RESPECTFUL please. i will block you if you dont
uncomfortable topics will be blatantly ignored
dont godmod
have fun!
about GWEN
ghost-spider
spider-woman
based on earth 65
teenage spider gang
ballet dancer
works for spider society
friends & foes
canon
miguel o'hara - @spiderman2-99
peter b parker - @peterbsideparker
hobie brown - @spiderpunkofficial
pavitr prabhakar - @pavitr-prabhakar-50101
noir - @noir-spider-noir
miles morales - @whosmoraless
other/oc
mila - @crybaby-spider
spider-glow - @glowing-arachnid
bridge - @nan0-sp1der
gwendolyn stark - @gwendolynstark
#spider gwen#gwen stacy#posting from earth 65#spider woman#across the spiderverse#spiderman: across the spiderverse#spiderman#gwen answers#gwen stacy rp
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Sometimes I read your posts and they really resonate with me.
Generally, I describe myself as submissive in bed, but I hate to call myself strictly a bottom, because I genuinely love to top guys, just in a “service top” sense. But SO many guys think “submissive = bottom” or “top = dom.” No, you can absolutely make me yours while you make me plow you into the sunset, even with your dick locked for Locktober; it’s just a matter of attitude and perspective. But when I try to tell that to guys, you’d think I was trying to explain postgraduate modernist philosophy.
Haha yeah man. Hope yall dont mind me rambling here but I am really trying to figure out my relationship with sex more. Getting this out of the way- Sean and I don't sleep together very often which is SUPER DUPER ok. If you were to say a relationship cant be romantic, end game, and fulfilling without sex then I would fight you on the spot. I like sex. Love it even. Before I was out, people made fun of me for being a bottom because I was emotional and anxious (still am). In my first relationship, I was exclusively a top- because mainly we never did bottoming right and it always really hurt and I always really hated it. After we broke up I thought nobody would love me if I didn't learn how to bottom. I did both with whatever partners till I met Sean. After Sean and I opened things up- I met a FWB who I got to explore top and bottom with. And that was the best I had in a while. Mainly because we got to be friends, and I was able to feel more comfortable. I haven't been able to find a consistent person who I feel really comfortable doing things with. I don't have to be in love, I just need someone I can laugh and feel comfortable with all while learning what I like. All of this just to say, it bothers me when people say "well you don't like xyz" or "you're in to xyz" like no I need more time to explore and find someone to explore with. I thought I was only a bottom and told I was a bottom because of my personality. People make fun of me because in theory I'm a "timid top" (which is a funny nickname my friends have given me which is ok!!) - but I also want people to know I can take on personalities in bed depending on who I am with and what they want. I know I am a people pleaser, and I know that makes ME happy But I hate the fact the dynamics fall to "Tops are mean and in charge" and "Bottoms are bratty and submissive."
Like the last guy I slept with wanted me to call him sir, and thats fine, so after he said "wow you really liked calling me sir, huh?" and I said "I like being called Sir too." and he goes "haha sure you do, I think I'm the sir." Plus I am still working on getting over someone- its a long process for me- so its just a tiring process haha So I dunno. I'll probably stay on the apps a little here and there, still try and get my rocks off, still try and find maybe someone who fits in well with Sean and I (which sadly I thought I had haha) - but truly it would just be nice to have a FWB who knows roles can be diverse in bed and want to play around with that
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pinned post thingo… pt 3 !
hiii my name is 💥 micah 💥 and this is my selfship sideblog! i use he/him and im a certified transsexual 🔥 aroace and gay as well. its a complex and wondrous thing yk how it is ‼️ i’m also australian 🎉
i tend to see my selfships as more on the fictional side; i like to explore the relationships like any other relationship in fiction, meaning that it wont always be the healthiest, so… keep that in mind i guess 👍
i dont like to associate this blog too closely with my main but if you get notifs from a blog with a url starting with d and a rainbow pfp of castiel, thats almost definitely me! if u wanna know the exact url feel free to ask and i’ll let you know 👍
you can also check out my strawpage for some general info about me and an f/o list, etc. :^)
i draw sometimes ‼️ i tag all my art with “#my art”
my main f/os are dave s.trider & c.handler bing but ive also got a couple more in the bag!
proship and closely associated please kindly don’t follow 🙏 strictly nsfw or 18+ blogs preferably dni too closely also . generally tho i’ll just block people i don’t want interacting
f/o list, sharing boundaries, etc. below the cut!
for romantic f/os, my general policy is that i’m not particularly comfortable with sharing and while you’re free to follow or interact if we share f/os, keep in mind i’m less likely to follow back— this ofc does not apply if i follow first. platonic, familial, etc. f/os im totally fine with sharing, in fact i think thats awesome
also! i have no tagging system— that being said, if you want me to tag a certain ship for filtering purposes or similar, i’d be happy to do so
characters i talk about in a romantic manner (some are f/os, some not, it’s complicated):
dave strider (homestuck) — f/o. thats my boyf riend . basically my first proper f/o i heart him lots 💗
chandler bing (friends) — f/o. thats also my boyf riend. my beloved sarcastic repressed boring yet not boring guy. this may come as a surprise but i also love him lots
hitch (ruby redfort) — f/o. i dont talk about him as much but i do love him. middle aged secret agent who’s afraid of crocodiles and is secretly silly :-)
prismo (adventure time) — f/o. also dont talk about him as much but i love him i prommy. idc that he’s 2D i will find a way to give him a kiss 🫡
jonny goodman (friday night dinner) — fictional crush or something i dont even know. i was briefly obsessed with him during my fnd interest period and i still hold him dearly and sometimes rewatch some fnd episodes and think of him
bernard black (black books) — i truly dont know tbh i just love black books and am a little obsessed with him. manny & fran too but i dont have gay little crushes on them so
jeremy usbourne (peep show) — practically an f/o atp but im in denial. side effect of my recent peep show obsession was developing a secondary obsession with this freak
characters i have some sort of weird little qpr situation with
foxy (fnaf) — idk how to explain it he was one of the first characters i started selfshipping with in some variety and i like him :-)
the nice cream guy (deltarune) — he’s a developed character 2 meeee. we’re gayass boy best friends
red guy (dhmis) — who knows but it’s not a normal friendship folks
characters that are my friendssss my familyyy etc. you get the idea
toriel & asgore dreemurr (deltarune) — my parents:)
kris & asriel dreemurr (deltarune) — my siblings:)
basically the entire rest of the main characters from the other medias ive already mentioned — my friends:)
THAT’S ALL FOLKS!! THANK YOU FOR READING :^)
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