in general i kind of wish people who make posts like that on here in the vein of asexual positivity would kind of like check what theyre posting somewhat so that they dont say stuff that honest to god feels kind of homophobic. like ive just been coming across shit every so often for years now where it either sounds just honestly homophobic (usually sex repulsion that gets weirdly pointed at gay people for having the audacity to talk about sex) or its like implying- like the prev post- that gay people have some kind of privilege for their willingness to have sex as if that hasnt been like the pinnacle of homophobia is disgust at that and even as things progress people still want gay ppl to 'keep it in the bedroom' and literally would prefer to view the gay people around them AS asexual so they dont have to think about their sex life. cause they think its gross. i understand why you would want to find community in your identity and generally when i come across positivity posts or whatever its like fine but no one ever seems to correct the people that wind up saying things that range from ignorant to regressive and i wish they would
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rush/dirxst fans when my effin' life isn't full of crazy gay sex and boys kissing
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I respect actual celibacy i respect only having sex in commited relationships and whatever the fuck else but ill never respect waiting with sex til marriage specifically. Everyone who does this is a moron that deserves to be laughed at
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what the fuck did he even do that day. I genuinely do not remember
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realistically i’m probably on the ace spectrum somewhere but the second some weirdo gets in my mentions or asks or whatever with some sex shaming puritan christian bullshit ESPECIALLY if the bitch is white!!!! somebody’s cocks getting sucked. as many cocks possible. both boyfriends and as many randoms as i can find, as long as it gets this poindexter out of my mentions
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People try so fucking hard to upset me and misgender me when they see that I'm bigender. They send me stuff calling me female/a girl/a woman often. And it's like. Dude. I have made it very clear that girl/woman/female IS IN FACT ONE OF MY GENDERS. You aren't making me feel bad by calling me those, you're just outing yourself as a transphobe. Like, congratulations! You called the girl a girl. Wooooo. You called an afab person who literally identifies as a woman female. Wow. You're so clever.
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why are so many f1blr posts being reposted to twt…. first of all be funny on ur own second can you not even crop out urls 😭 its so freaky!!!
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I kind of wish so many people didn’t depict queerness through the lens of shipping. I think we’d fall less for the “queerbait” trap if we did this less.
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