#but its been uears since

[hungryartbean]

Wishing more of my friends were playing mystic messenger again so we can ignore each other but it's just mutual ignoring

[noecoded]

commitment to drawing asmo img gave him chronic tendonitis when he was only 20……</3

[heatsu]

Lucy <33

[jigsawtits]

almost cried at my new doctors visit because it put in perspective just HOW negligent every doctor has been with me before

[floorpancakes]

[j-1z]

*me rising from the ashes, ready to reboot this account*

i hope youre all doing well!! feel free to submit requests, starting to work on an xh check-in :-3

[jaaankiey]

Idk I just don't want to write anymore

[renchanters]

i need to see a blues game in person right this second or i’ll explode

[scoringeffects]

do you have/know of any kind of natejo primer post? i am starting to be very very intrigued by them…

there is this very delightful primer that covers natejo during their halifax mooseheads era (juniors, age 16-18 [2011-13]) and their team north america era (made up team for the 2016 world cup of hockey) i would so so super recommend clicking on every link there, and as for the 2023-24 season:

nate reached out to jo about playing with him in colorado during the summer because he knew his contract with montreal was coming to an end and jo signed for league mininum to play with him

jo talking about nate in his 'get to know me' interview

jo knows where nate is knows what he likes can almost feel him on the ice. normal things to say about your center.

they walk their dogs together!

bench yappers. ignore that nate probably doesnt have a great deal of concepts about personal space.

both nate and jo achieved career highs in points playing on the same line. nate by 29 freaking points. jo also had a career high in time on ice per game !

nate has the most assists on jo's goals, and jo loves to pass to nate.

one of jo's very best games as an av where he scored the OT winner and partially helped nate extend his second to gretzky home point streak. not inherently natejo but the nhl put the full game up on youtube and its a fun background watch because the announcers r so very nice about jo yayayyyyy. okay hold on it definately used to be up on youtube as a 'fan favourite' voted in game and now its either unlisted, restricted, or entirely gone. fascinating. what a wonderful league. anway.

here's nate saying that jo is his favourite teammate ever. since 2010 nate has played with at least 280 people. he said this during his hart (league mvp as voted by the writers' association) and ted lindsay (league mvp as voted by the players' association) award interview. also couldnt find it for the life of me but im certain there's an interview where jo says he wants to play with nate for ten more years. EDIT: here is the article, found by the lovely @mi-kko-ran-tanen it is also a bit of a natejo primer very very good would encourage a read

24-25 season:

jo resigned for another year ! turned down money again for 'loyalty and happiness'

they actually might have seperation anxiety

jo is going to be point per game this season i believe it with my whole heart.

r-ing into the rpf:

nate's start in the league was . well. the avs were very very bad for quite sometime, bottomed out nearly historically after the 2016-17 season (season directly after team north america and the world cup of hockey) and i think this is around the time nate locked in so to speak. this spittin chiclets interview from 2019 is pretty good (dont let the spittin chiclets part put u off 🙏), he talks about worrying about being a bust, about his expectations and also just the way he talks back then and what he's achieved in the five years since oh nate u have no idea whats in store for u ☹️

jo's time in the nhl has been tumultuous to say the least.

mid way into the 2022-23 season he held the record for most points without a goal by a forward in a single season. (he ended the season 2-27-29, scoring a goal in his 46th game) teammate and close friend josh anderson was quite sweet about it all

there's a lot of talk about jo being a draft bust, there's also a lot of talk about his development being screwed from the get go (sent back down to juniors for the 2013-14 season despite having won the calder cup the uear prior because if a player is juniors eligable they cant play in the minors or smth like that), he was also injured a lot, the habs under bergevin not being great at player development, and in tampa and montreal there was an expectation on him to be an offensive powerhouse that he just wasnt unfortunately due to injuries and mental health issues. they also tried to develop him at center.

it is absolutely not the best metric to measure 'draft bustness', but sorting the 2013 draft by games played and total points, jo is top 20 for games played and top 15 for total points

an espn redraft from march of 2023 has him still in the first round but much lower

absolutely crushing thank u greg

jo was actually injured so much holy shit bro has never played a full season. the closest he got was 81 games in 18-19

apparently there was some buzz about a drouin-iginla trade in 2015 between tampa and colorado??? what couldve been damn

ALL THIS TO SAY nate believed in him and jo believed in nate and it paid off so freaking hard last season and jo has his love for hockey back and nate had his career best personal season next to him and they are it if u think about it

f-ing into the rpf:

i know you didnt ask but i would be remiss if i didnt share these, they're currently what i would say is quintessential natejo reading

I don't believe in soulmates (but nobody saw me like you) by shade_of_blue (@shade-of-drou) (M, 6k) soulmates au where jo realises dewey has soulbond sickness

those who favor fire by bruinss (@droumack) (M, 14k) absoloutely crushing magical realism fic where jo's heart freezes the more he falls in love. it is actually unfathomable how much nate loves him, and how much nate loves jo

got my finger on her trigger by creamsicle_melt (@creamsiclemelt) (E, 6k) lesbian natejo nate fucks jo within an inch of her life absolutely fantastic peice of literature.

you'd have to stop the world by bladeless_knife (@mi-kko-ran-tanen) (M, 12k) nate is stuck in a timeloop watching jo get hurt no matter what he does. genuinely incredible theyre so so very much natejo here and also very nate and very jo

Gather by plethoriall (@plethoriall) (E, 4k) once again, another fic where theyre so very natejo. like that interview linked in the very first bullet point? those guys ("yeah we're dumb and dumber") def did this. a delightful study in what if our codependant homoerotic teenage friendship turned into a regular healthy adult friendship except every time you touch me i remember how we used to jerk eachother off which (thankfully for everyone inolved) turned into Yay sex and also i love you. instead of turning toxic.

all very very very good writers i would highly highly suggest checking out their other works as well + commenting and kudoing

[gracingtodd]

posting this on tumblr because i would get cooked for this on twitter but like boynextdoor is genuinely one of if not the best 5th gen groups rn bc not only is their discography absolutely perfect but their sound is just si nice and refreshing and the members are all so incredible like i literally dont think j can categorize them in different positions bc theyre all aces and not only that theyre all incredibly gorgeous like!!! talk about an all-rounded visual group man!! its only been a uear since they debuted but i cannot wait to see what they have in store for the future bc i just know that i will not be disappointed

[sp3ll-b0und]

i miss camp so bad its the only place where i have ever felt truly accepted and it got cut short :(( its been a bit since i flew back home but i am still missing everyone and everything about it. hello camp friend @huntoftheclock i will see you next uear!!!!

[mrchalamet-mrstyles]

So rumour has it Timothee might being doing Hamlet on Broadway around winter 2023/ spring 2024, and that it will be a short run. Apparently this is the gossip in the broadway world rn. Still thinks he is doing something with apple though as otherwise that commercial makes no sense, but this does not make sense schedule wise.

Second rumour has it that he is dating leo dicaprio. Obviously take it with a grain of salt, but this rumour has been popping up a lot of places lately, and also online which has made me wonder whether Timmy might actually be bi.

I would LOVE for that first rumor to be true bit apparently its been circulating since last uear? But hope dies last 🙏

As for the second- 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[sillylittleclowncat]

NEED rompope candy i havent had one in 4 uears so yummy i can faintly taste it still so good why do they not sell them in the U.S WHTYYYY ........... pelase i miss mexico too its been forever since weve last gone T_T

[fudanshijoseph]

OFCOURSE OF COURSE !! that's fair, i usually also feel like i've forgotten certain things, but i also condense the information alot cause its easier to make look cute

i like doing both cause with metadata you can even make cute graphics for rentry, i primarily use ibis and photopea cause theyr easy and i can use them on my ipad cause jm lazy

please make sure you're taking care of yourself too, i do understand accommodating yur partner cause you want things to improve, but sometimes there are situations you have to step back from and revist at a later time which is okay to do !!

soggy cat andrew... he liek hisses at you n then immediately looks sad and apologetic.. OLD MAN NAPS HELP i wondr if thats how old poeple feel whenevr they wakw up cause i'd just nevr sleep again i think ... 5 uears waow, i've been aware for uhm hmm AXTUALLY ALMOST 5 TOO HOLY CRAP TIME FLIES -💫

yeah ,, i kind of always feel like m forgetting somwthing when i talk about myself n never really know whatt.. we also have a habit of condensing info rly bad but then we get Uneasy bc people dont know Enough about us and we dont particularly like that .. like its very important to us that ppl are aware that we are heeavily disordered and act weird cus of it but often dont find a place to put that info anywhere where itll still flow well n look pretty ..

metadata.. blinking trying to figur out what that is if its a program/site or other thing ough... i think we tried photopea once n didnt care muhc for it and we use ibis now cus its like all we Have ww but firealpaca will always be our preferred for making graphics i Think,,

yeahh i think m fine now .. we do use isolation as a calming thing a lot of the time because we get Uncomfortable being around other ppl when we arent doing well so we just need to be alone for a bit.. its been a decent while since weve had anything bad like that happen with hxm bbbwwh. admittedly always kind of Expecting it which im sure is . not good. but. hxs gotten better..

ih my god thats like EXACTYL how he is n its so silly.. he even tries to be big and scary sometimes (7'2 ominous angel man dressed in all black so he definitely LOOKS the part) but deep down he really is JUST a sad little bunnyrabbit . adorablest 42 year old man ever i think. unless i count as an old man cus im like 60 bc weird joseph time lore but . who cares im a little boy !!!!

[1m-l1v1ng-1n-h3ll]

I dont want to get better because its so much change and its so much energy and effort i have to put into it but im in the process of it anyways from when i was begging for uears to be helped, its gotten so much worse since then and i dont know if its considered forced recovery or not but either way its so much energy whether youre doing it willing or not, i praise everyone whos been through this journey especially the people who have been through it multiple times you guys are so strong and i aspire to be as strong as you one day

I don't think mentally well people get how tiring "getting better is"

You need to put in ACTUAL EFFORT and change countless things about your life to get better

And sometimes life sucks so much you just cannot spend that mental AND PHYSICAL energy to do so

Shaming people who aren't in recovery isn't doing any good because a lot of those people want but cannot get better

There are also obviously people who do not wish to get better for other reasons

But by assuming not getting a recovery is simply a personal failure you are just MISSING THE POINT!