#but it's MY problem not THEIRS
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I feel like I'm gonna lit someone's ass with this (god have mercy on me I don't wanna start a discourse haha) but I honestly don't understand what's the problem with being "proshipper" or something lmao. like. ofc the fiction has its impact on reality and romanticizing Bad Things™ is never okay but it's still art!!!!! and the art is a reflection of reality and sometimes reality is just full of shit. there should be a place for everything in art because it's just the life as it is and real problems won't go anywhere if you try to stop writing and drawing about them. I personally think that as long as you don't hurt anyone in real world you can create anything you want even if it's "problematic". I used to write about sexual assaults (yes, even about childhood ones) because you know what? I'm a csa survivor and I'm severely traumatized and it was a way for me to cope with it!!!! art should comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable, and it's one of my favorite quotes ever. so yeah. I don't see a problem in "problematic" content as long as it doesn't hurt anyone irl. it's just that simple. and wishing people death bc they drew an art with a "wrong" ship is never okay bc you know. it hurts real people :)
#and no I don't enjoy ALL the art I see.#some of it just disgusts me and I ask myself what's wrong with those people#but it's MY problem not THEIRS#sometimes everything you need to do is just press a block button#and avoid tags you don't like#it's that simple!!!!!!!!#proshipper safe#anti anti#proship#also. harassing people is NEVER okay#whether they are anti or proship
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Stardew Valley Discourse: A Summary
shane: i have depression
person: aww poor sweetie im so sorry ily im always here for u
shane: *exhibits symptoms of depression*
the same person: ew there's no excuse for that
#some of yall.........#i have been in this fandom for like a week n im already sick of folks doing this man dirty#“but he doesn't even keep his room clean after you marry him” he has DEPRESSION#“he should fix his problems before getting into a relationship” if we all waited for our messiness and struggles to magically disappear#we would be waiting for the rest of our lives.#do people with mental (or otherwise) health struggles not deserve love and understanding too?? did i miss something???#like bruh if you personally can't deal with someone's baggage that's fine you don't have to sacrifice your own wellbeing for theirs#but at least stop blaming people for HAVING A MENTAL ILLNESS#sdv shane#shane stardew valley#shane sdv#stardew valley#.....but also relevant to real life.#my yapping
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waking up super early in the morning (you had to FORCE yourself awake because you were feeling particularly frisky and daring today!) to crawl beneath your shared blanket just to give your peacefully sleeping boyfriends sloppy toppy's...just to the point of their pretty standing cocks to the brim of cumming (edging them on like crazyyy hehe) and leaving them both high and dry, humping desperately into the air as you remove yourself from beneath the comforting sheet. with a brimming grin and devious intentions running through your mind for all of the risque ideas you have planned for them for the entire day.
you giggle to yourself as you hear them whine and swear in pitiful neediness and complaints. oh what a sly little devil you are! 😈
#turns out you were ovulating and wanted to make it EVERYONES problem <3#ESPECIALLY THEIRS LOL#don't worry...they pay you back in FULL. BELIEVE 👏🏼#i think i miiiight be starting my ovulation week lol#oh g o d#satosugu x reader#geto suguru x reader#gojo satoru x reader#jjk
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i ate a cupcake recently without first spending five minutes talking about how logistically stressful it is to eat a cupcake, so. i am capable of growth
#i just don't understand how you're supposed to do it without making a mess#why would someone design a food that seems like it is specifically impossible not to get smeared somewhere?#like just design it differently idk??? but everyone else seems to be fine with it so i guess it was a fine decision and i'm the problem#this time i didn't want to say anything about cupcakes being stressful to eat because i was being given a cupcake by the person#who had made the cupcakes and also it was her birthday. so. would have been kind of a dick move.#instead i just unwrapped the cupcake very slowly to give me time to observe how other people were eating theirs#and then i decided i didn't like their methods and did something else#this makes it sound like i've never seen someone eat a cupcake before or eaten one myself but i have many times#i just have never liked it. and i keep holding out hope that someday i'll see someone do it in a way that makes sense#i want someone to crack the code so i can just eat cupcakes. i don't think they're very interesting but it would behoove me socially#to be normal about cupcakes. since everyone else seems so into them for some reason#food#my posts#that said i do know the wrongest way to eat a cupcake and that's the way my younger sister does it (or used to do it)#which entails eating the entire wrapper as well as the cupcake#so in my quest for an acceptable way to eat a cupcake i have at least ruled out several including that one
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BFFL 34/∞ ↪ "always you and me" (MMG ep.3)
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#mx7net#monstaxedits#monmukgo#minhyuk#hyungwon#monsta x#tuseral#wabisarah#oorieri#wings.gifs#wings.original#long post#bffl series#💜💜#one of my favorite exchanges of theirs in this show skdjskdf#it took so long for it to sink in to wonnie that min was implying they looked like they were lazy/not contributing and his reaction pLS#i'm team restless but i also understand that it is. a problem hfnfnfn.#also. the way tapping is just a near-constant form of besties communication <3#(also kihyun shocked into stuttering <3 )
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Part of why I hate this fandom's take on Autobots vs Decepticons is ppl (mainly 'con fans honestly) who can't have any nuance of the situation whatsoever and love to write plots like "oh the humans are racist and abusive towards Cybertronians so this is how Megatron is right" no actually I don't think colonialism/imperialism and racism are justified so long as you can point the finger and say "they were the aggressors first" or "their hands are no cleaner than ours bc their society sucks too" sorry. Please come up with better sociopolitical narratives in your war story.
#squiggposting#i'm too tired to like actually care about this any more#and ppl's fandom takes don't necessarily represent their IRL views#but i'm just like. oh so i see that you want to write mature stories with politics and dealing with bigotry. that's cool!#now do it in a way that actually refutes bigotry and makes some sort of attempt at resolution#bc 'oh humans are just as bad and evil so it's fine if we colonize them' isn't the pro-con take ppl think it is lkdsfjlsdkfs#honestly this is what john barber got right in his story even tho the politics in his became overbearing#at least he's like the one dude who rightfullly pointed out 'uhhh organics have history with cybertronians that makes them very justified#'in not trusting them'#but my mistake is expecting the average 'con fan to disengage from the 'revolution' part to talk about the racism and imperialism lmao#if ppl weren't cowards they would be able to write characters as problematic and bigots and imperialists#but still show their humanity and point out how the cycle of retribution needs to end at some point#and how killing everyone who ever did anything bad (esp for a race as long lived as theirs) isnt a sustainable model of society#that's my PROBLEM man like stop being COWARDS acknowledge that your heroes can be shitty ppl#instead of framing things as good guys vs bad guys and then framing absolution as being only for the good guys#what if good and bad didn't exist and we were all shitty in some way and none of us inherently deserve forgiveness. what then#what if you wrote a story where you had to deal with the reality of rehabilitating ppl who have genuinely done horrible things#what if you wanted to rehabilitate society but realized the majority of ppl in it are monsters. what then?#do you only extend forgiveness and peace to the ppl who got thru with no moral compromises?#do you want to kick the majority/almost all of your race to the curb and give them no mercy/second chances?#what if ppl wrote stories where sociopolitical issues had no good/bad guys and no easy solutions#what if ppl had the courage and ethical fortitude to say 'everyone here sucks actually'#anyways sorry for the rant
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had a moment today with my seniors that was so tense, I made myself stop, breathe, and say three hail Mary’s under my breath. the moment teetered and then the tension broke. I was so relieved.
#it wasn’t even like. a showdown or anything#but it’s the underlying unpleasantness that comes when a student continually and relentlessly chooses not to do the work#and they come face to face with the reality that I won’t let them not do any work#and it’s so hard for me not to aggravate the situation. to get angry almost pre-emptively to lash out at them#to be ready with my own storm of anger prepared to meet theirs#because I GET so angry#and it’s always better when I don’t#where I add nothing to the fire where I just let the consequences of their own actions play out#and let them sit in the misery they feel when they have a quiz they are unprepared for#without being instantly ready to counter their mood#which i always am! I’m so reactive. always have been.#and it doesn’t help. not when it’s negative#so I just have to breathe and pray in the face of it#I didn’t expect the mood to suddenly swing. I actually was fully prepared to HAVE to lecture them#after I said the hail Mary’s but the problem was solved in the saying of them#this makes no sense I am giving no specifics 😂#but it’s been a hard time with my seniors and this made it better#teaching tag
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everyone knows how the kotlc economy is messed up but i know how to fix it without really changing cannon, by assuming Della and Fitz are unreliable narrators when it comes to how their world works because they grew up in noblity
only nobles get birth funds, but they tell themselves and their kids that everyone does so they don’t feel guilty, and because Della was the one to tell us about the birth funds it was just her brain washing from growing up in nobility talking
Nobles are the only ones with Gnomes living at their houses, otherwise they work at or own their own shops in the lost cities
nobles lose their birth funds by getting a bad match/match fail, or by being talentless, on top of that children of bad matches/match fails never get birth funds even if they join noblity, or are directly descendants discouraging those things more than they where already
there is a working class (the nobles just like to pretend it does exist) that works in mysterum and they live in neighborhoods outside of the city that the council likes to pretend don’t exist as well so they are very rundown
Working class families still discourage getting bad matches because if they marry someone from a noble family, weather that person works for the council or not they will still will have access to their birth fund
on top of that bad matches have to worry about medical malpractice, fake reports of crimes, and being the scape goat for nobles mistakes, which most working class families don’t have to deal with.
working class kids don’t get a birth fund even if they do join nobility, unless strings are pulled, but if they marry a good match and their spouse is also a noble their child will get a birth fund
both the working class and the nobility get taxed, because no society can function without taxes, and the taxes are very high to pay for the birth funds* which keeps the working class poor and the nobility rich
the working class can’t afford the same fancy things and houses that the nobility can, and while the working class tends to make the products the nobility can buy, they can’t afford that much themselves, they need cheaper products to buy and rely on.
there are factories in the neutral territories that the banished can work at for exchange for necessities, the working environment is awful but so are all the other options for getting necessities in the neutral territories so they have a large supply of workers,
the products the factories produce go to the shops that the working class buy from because they are cheaper, even though they know that the factories are mistreating their workers, they don’t have a choice because there’s no other option for them. them working class makes the products the noble use and so on and so fourth
*there’s this saying in my economics book “there’s no such thing as a free lunch” it means the money always comes from somewhere and that somewhere is the people
#i realized never posted this idea and just talked about it in dms and discord#if it sounds familiar it’s supposed to#our economy has problems#and considering the fact that they are just#yeeting money at newborns#i think theirs would function pretty similarly to ours#kotlc#much more deatiled verison of my rant on discord from last night#this is actually underlying in all my fics.#this is how the economy works in my head it just doesn’t come up to often#kotlc headcanons#kotlc economy
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ive got to go to school for something involving drugs and addiction it is the only interest ive had since i was a wee lil lad and im so passionate about it
#i love addicts including alcoholics#and i am absolutely fascinated by all types of drugs and how they interact with the brain/body#im so empathetic for those who struggle with it especially if theyre self medicating pain/mentall illness/etc#i think itd be the perfect field for me and i want to help these people so bad#problem is. ive got to beat my own addictions first before i can possibly help others with theirs#but once i do. maybe ill take this path. idk.#only thing ive ever been livelong passionate about besides maybe despising capitalism and ableism.#ough.#maybe one day if i myself even survive this
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Saw someone on the dp×dc tag ask people to stop tagging it with Danny phantom because it's cluttering the dp tag??? Like you're not going to get people to stop. It is literally Danny phantom. I don't know what to tell you. Just block dp x dc.
#batman#danny phantom#dp x dc#dc x dp#you're not going to get a whole fandom to stop using the name of the show in their tags just because it annoys you#smh#DCU#dc#danny fenton#like one of the taggs in love is cluttered with a show u straight up couldn’t care less about and you know what i do about it?#i block the blogs that talk about it#(mostly because i don't know how to block the tag but that's literally my problem not theirs)
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i know holding grudges isn’t healthy but i love being mean
#[ daddy speaks ]#it also costs me nothing to hold a grudge when my friends and loved ones drop theirs#like no problem i will be mad enough at this person for all of us xx
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do I need to be more generous with the block button or am I just being irrational
#manic is manic#idk man some people make really good art but i get super weird about different headcanons n shit#especially ships#im the problem 100%#there are also some ppl that spa. the pizza tower tag with their oc over and over#glad you're proud of your oc but ffs#idk i feel like im too judgmental and closed minded towards other people and their hcs and ocs#i don't wanna see it but i also feel bad blocking them bc what if they enjoy my content??? i just dont enjoy theirs???#i feel like a dick but i also want my tumblr feed more personalized#peppinoise shippers tread lightly#i have the tag blocked but some prople don't tag it
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I know when a ship is MY ship when I phisically can not take any angst about it without getting AT LEAST the exact same amount of fluff afterwards.
For example: Whenever I read creek fanfiction and It has the angst tag on it I NEED to check for a hurt/comfort tag AND assure it is between them. My ass is NOT reading anything without them having a somehow happy ending. I would kill myself.
Style on the other hand?? Oh yeah Stan spends almost half his life unrequitedly in love w Kyle until he accepts it won't ever happen and gives it up, distancing himself from Kyle to help himself forget about him. Except that it's not really unrequited, and Kyle finds out about his own 10 ten year old and still growing crush on his best friend when said best friend isn't around anymore. It's too late now, so he just lets the growing apart thing go it's course and hope that maybe, one day, he'll forget about Stan. They never get to know it could've been possible. oooh I'm 100% eating that shit UP
#Creek is for fluff and fluff ONLY I cant take anything else or ill die#btw ad Cartman ALSO having the biggest crush on Kyle since forever but knowing he and Stan love eo so he never says shit about it either#this is my dynamic for them#kenny is just chilling#👍#THIS IS ALL IN AN AGED UP WAY OBV LIKE#IN THEIRS 16/17/18/19#it doesnt apply to the current ages this is literally a problem for future main 4 w kenny as the infamous witness#creek applys bc theyre canon already and are the cutests kids in love EVER#creek#style#south park#sp#craig tucker#tweek tweak#stan marsh#kyle broflovski#sp creek#sp style#fanfiction#ao3#shipping#nate rambles
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Mattmac's acting in TD will never not be insane to me, bcs its probably the only acting that genuinely fully made me think, yeah he completely escaped into the role. It's not that there's not any other actors out there that I think are amazing, but it's still often hard for me for the most part to separate the actor and their roles, especially if I've seen a lot of their work. Meanwhile, even just looking at a still of Rust, it's so hard for me to perceive, oh wait that's not a real guy?? Rust isn't out there???
#if this makes sense lmao#idk its so odd bcs ive watched interstellar so many times more times and it literally came out the same year#yet it doesnt affect my perception at all as it often does w most other actors i like when i watch other works of theirs#aaghhhhh like im not saying mattmac is the BEST actor of all time and that everyone else is inferior#theres a lot of roles i can think of that were amazing and that i fully bought into#rather theres no other character i can think of where i genuinely get baffled when i remember theyre not real#if that makes sense?? like ill usually still look at a character and their actor is in the back of my mind#like saying wow their acting is so good in this!!#meanwhile w td im like ...wow rust is such a cool guy hes so fascinating. wait wdym mattmac played him#i feel deranged saying this cause idk if im getting my point sdkjhfs#ig part of it is the fact that td covers a good portion of his life so you see a lot of aspects of his character#but he just feels so REAL to me#as i said even looking at screencaps i cant think of him as mattmac. he IS rust. thats some guy!!!! that exists!!!#id say the acting in td is generally really amazing BUT#i realized since i last watched it some actor in it was in a comedy show i watched which completely influenced my perception of that actor#so when i saw his face w that new context i couldnt buy his character at all anymore bcs he was just that dude from the other show#meanwhile ive watched a lot of mattmacs stuff before and after yet ive never though of rust when seeing him in another role or vice versa#AAAHHHHHH MAN. sorry i just really love that show and i think rust will forever be some actual person to me. hes out there i swear#idk the picture thing is especially so odd bcs as i said interstellar is from the same year and he has a pretty similar look#yet im still like. no those are clearly two different people. and i think of mattmac when i watch interstellar but not td so ?????#thought let me be clear his acting in interstellar is also amazing and real to me.#just not in the way where he becomes a real indistinguishable person to me#anyways. cough cough. i have a problem.#catie.rambling.txt#true detective
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ive accepted that i dont have to do everything alone NOW WHAT DO I DO WHEN THOSE I CARE ABOUT ARE SUFFERING AND I WANT TO HELP THEM BUT THEY'RE WORRIED ABOUT ME AND I DONT WANT THEM TO WORRY ABOUT ME
#but if i dont do everything alone my friends have to worry about my problems#when i want to help them with theirs#asher says stuff#the struggle between “oh i dont have to do everything alone”#and
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Hello! This could've been an Inter Eric Announcement, but we've found that humans tend to have great ideas on how to piss people off, so I'm gonna turn to all of you.
How should the 1000 or so of us hiding in Heaven bother Upper Management?
#ask a disposable demon#we're stuck up here but it's not our problem#it's theirs#just doing my demonic duty
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