#but i also know that 40% of jays fans love him in the “yes im a simp whatre you gonna do abt it” type of way which extremely fair

[grimlin-gromlin]

introduced my friend to Jason "died but got better. tried teaching my dad to stop with the whole child endangerment thing by becoming the danger to the child myself. insane. was physically dead, now is just mentally dead" Todd today

and she just went "...oh my god, there is so much wrong with him, what the fuck. i love him."

which. yeah not suprised at all actually

[cracksofmtdoom]

It was a cool Friday night and Jay was on the hunt. His prey for the evening was a beautiful tranny with a big thick cock. His porn tastes had centered in on shemales lately and he had to get a taste of the real thing. Watching them, with the utterly stunning feminine bodies, dressed in fine lingerie got his cock at attention. What really made him lose it was the sight of the ones with huge, beautiful dicks. There was the bonus.

He was looking for his first to spend the night with, sucking and being sucked and fucking and being fucked. He had done his homework and knew the local hangout for the areas trans crowd. It was a cozy little spot, off the main drag. Nondescript and friendly.

Jay had taken a seat at the far corner of the bar with a clear view of everyone who came in. He had been there for about 40 minutes when she came sauntering in.

She was tall, at least six feet on flat ground but much more so in the spike heels she was wearing. She had deep red hair, done up in a fancy twist. Just a hint of makeup to highlight her incredible features.

She was wearing a tight, short purple mini dress, her ample cleavage showing over the top. Her long legs covered in black fishnet stockings with the aforementioned heels below. She walked with an air of confidence, kissing hellos to her acquaintances as she made her way towards the bar.

His cock was immediately jumping in his jeans and was rock hard and throbbing by the time she pulled up next to him.

He hungrily looked her up and down, studying all the lines of her sexy body. She watched him eying her and smiled. “I’ve never seen you here before stranger, what brings you in tonight?” she asked. Looking deep into her eyes, he replied “You. You and I have a date tonight at my hotel and we’re going to have a hell of a time I think.” “I’m Jay” he said. “Well hello there Jay, I’m Kendra. It’s a pleasure to meet you. So you want to fuck huh?” She asked. “I love to fuck and be fucked” she whispered in his ear. “And I have a very large dick”. Jay grinned and said “That’s exactly what I was hoping for”. “What are you drinking tonight Kendra?” “I will have a double bourbon neat” she answered.

His mind was filled with wonder at this perfect moment in time. Him being a fan of high quality bourbon himself, things seemed to be going almost perfectly. He flagged the bartender and ordered two double Blantons neat.

“Tell me, do you prefer to too or bottom Kendra?” “ I want to experience both with you tonight. I want to suck that big fat cock of yours and make you need to bury it deep in my ass, I want you to fuck me however you want and then I want you to drain your balls deep into my ass, fill me up with your cum.”

“Well well Mr man, thats a rather ambitious plan. I must say I’m very interested. Is this going to be your first time?” She asked. “It most certainly is my dear and you should feel thrilled that I have chosen you to do the one. I knew you were it as soon as you walked through the door. You radiated something irresistible and I had to get you”. She glanced down at the front of his jeans and smiled at the straining outline of his hard on trying desperately to burst forth from them. “It certainly appears you have a really nice cock of your own Jay and I’m getting really horny at the thought of it. I love to get fucked hard, have my little asspussy slammed and ruined. I want to suck that cock nice and clean from my ass over and over. And I also want to feel you swell up and erupt inside me, blasting the depths of my ass with you hot cum.”

They continued to chat as they sipped their drinks, getting more and more comfortable with each other and also getting hornier and hornier.

“I’m ready when you are stud” she said. “What hotel are you in”. I have a room at the Hyatt just around the corner. Let’s go”. He tossed a twenty and a ten on the bar, grabbed her hand and led her outside. It was maybe two blocks to the hotel and they walked quickly. They entered the lobby unable to keep their hands off of each other and once the elevator door closed, he leaned in and kissed her deeply, his hands roaming all over her, her nice firm tits, her amazing round ass and of course the monster cock in her red panties.

They managed to stay clothed and got off on the sixth floor. The room was three doors down the hall. They slipped in and immediately began to tear each other’s clothes off. In no time they stood naked in front of each other, each of their dicks standing proudly and straining to get to the other. “Slow down now sweetie, there’s no rush. We should take a nice hot shower, let me scrub you down and get to know your body” Kendra said as she took him by the hand and led him to the bathroom. She started the shower and turned it hot. Meanwhile Jay sat on the edge of the tub and could no longer wait. He took hold of her swollen member and slowly stroked it before lowering his head and opening wide. He continued to lower himself onto her prick, feeling how much it filled his mouth. He began to move his tongue slowly, licking the underside of her shaft. He had been practicing taking a cock down this throat but the real one he was now engaged with was bigger than anything he’d tried. He was barely more than half way down when it began to hit his gag reflex. He breathed slowly and relaxed his throat, soon able to keep going. Slowly and methodically he took more and more of her dick until he at last had the entire length down his throat and her balls were against his chin.

“That’s goddamned impressive, most first timers choke way before that. Now suck my fucking dick and show me what you have boy”. She barked. She sidestepped into the shower, he swung himself over the edge and followed. The water was hot and the spray was heavy. He knelt in front of her and began to slowly suck her prick, taking time to get to know it intimately. He swirled his tongue around the fat purple head, flicking her cum slit with the tip of his tongue. He leaned forward and took her bald into his mouth next, filling it completely. He sucked her balls for a few minutes, then she told him to stand. They stood face to face, she had a couple of inches on him. The hot water cascaded down their naked forms.

She took a bottle of body wash and slowly and sensually lathered him head to toe. She passed the wash to Jay and he returned the favor, covering her in rich foam. He slid his hands all over her slippery body, massaging her tits, her back and shoulders, and then reaching around and running his hands up and down her giant dick, gliding effortlessly the full length of it. His own dick was so hard it was almost painful, and he pressed himself tightly against her back, letting his member slide between the smooth cheeks of her ass

Kendra reached back and took his dick in her hand, guiding it up to her hungry fuckhole. “You ready to fuck me Jay, do you want to bury this beautiful dick deep in my ass?” He needed no words, he grabbed her hips and thrust forward.

Her asshole stretched and opened up for his cock and it slid effortlessly into her. And then he was there. Balls deep in this unbelievably hot creature. Her asshole snugged up around his prick and he began to fuck her. “Ooooh baby, your cock is sooo hard and so big. Fuck me, fuck me so good” she whispered looking back at him. “Spread your ass wide. I want to watch this dick go in and out of that hole”

She bent at the waist, reached back and pulled the cheeks of her ass as wide as they would go. “Oh fuck yes, that is such a beautiful site” Jay said as he gazed down on his raging hard on thrusting in and out of her. She used her incredible muscle control to squeeze his cock while he fucked her and it was driving him wild.

“I want you face down ass up” he said as he withdrew from her hole. As the fat head of his dick popped free, she was left gaped wide and he smiled. Kendra knelt down on the floor of the shower spread her thighs wide, lay her face down and again pulled her as wide open.

Jay stood behind her still admiring her gape. He squatted down and slid back into her. He leaned forward, hands on knees and fucked her hard and fast. His balls slapped against hers on each thrust in. “Just like that. Don’t stop. Hammer my cunt, im going to cum!!!” She moaned. He was hitting her p spot with each thrust and cum was oozing from her cock.

“Oh my god, fuck me fuck me fuck me. Fuck my slut hole and fill me up with your cum baby!!” He was close and he fucked her even harder. She moaned loudly as her cock twitched and thick streams of cum shot from her. This sealed the deal and jammed his prick as far up her ass as possible and exploded in her. He came and came and came.

Finally totally spent, he took his cock out of her ass and watched as his huge load began dripping from her thoroughly stretched out asshole

[coolgirl]

Jason expert rate Jason’s designs

sorry for being late i was busy with school but now i’m free so to celebrate. jason indulgence.

pre-crisis not robin

very cute. i like that it has a lil more of flair to it? the collar and the lines on the gloves and the shorter cape.. also love it has pants. king rlly king. wonder if they already knew he was gonna be robin anyways or if they were still considering nightbird. anyways, 8/10 bc its cute

pre & post-crisis robin (bc its basically the same)

i mean its a classic.. however it reminds me jason was the only robin who was simply given dick’s clothes rather than like. have an unique look? which sucks. 7/10 middle child syndrome is REAL

post-crisis robin (winter edition)

OKAY NOW THIS. i absolutely love. is it tacky? oh yes without a doubt. i still love the pants and the sleeves. finally winter clothes for this child, especially considering his new titans scene where he was bitching about the costume not being snow proof. he got what he wanted! 9/10

new 52/rebirth costume by

EPIC. IDC I LOVE IT.the circles on his arms and his boots.. the lines on his legs.. i just love it. i love the red mask too… it feels.. not more unique, but feels more jason-y than the other costume. 10/10

NOW. onto older stuff

hush

as u can see im VERY confusion about the pouches and the straps?? why??? whats the purpose.. generally its fine. the white strand moved a nation and i think the chest piece is cool, but everything else.. uglee. like the long as hell jacket and him looking 40 years old like why r u 19 looking like fifty? ugly white man. 5/10

winicks/utrh version

LITERALLY A CLASSIC. i love this costume sooo much. like jason obviously grew out of it, as in it wouldnt make sense for him anymore to go with something like this as his main costume because i feel like this fit the utrh mood (him not veing a vigilante/hero/villain whatver but trying to be a mob boss n shit) and it just. fucks. i love the helmet just being plain with no stupid mouth or nose shape. i simply love it. 10/10

nigthwing

its just. its just the nightwing costume. didnt even try he just stole that from dick. he still rocks it and looks better than dick, and u gotta give him points for accessorizing with his dagger. 7/10

red robin 

im not. a big fan of this costume.. i think the cowl is ugly, it just does not work for someone as big as jason… however i do like why he took this mantle and what it meant.. 6/10 no words head empty. 

oh brother. furryman

ITS SUCH AN UGLY COSTUME. muzzle batman walked so muzzle red hood could run. its just. ugly like ugly. i dont like the ears or again the muzzle or whatever the hell is going on in the arms.. its just so edgy. 5/10

WANNA KNOW WHAT A SEXY EVIL BATMAN COSTUME LOOK LIKE?

Injustice 2 batman

I2 HAD IT IN THE BAG BABY. i like that its like classic batman costume but again! with some jason touches! the red eyes, the electric tiddies making a comeback.. epic genuinely epic. 10/10

and if ur not into evil jason

100% dad ‘i have my life figured out’ batman jason 

just like the nightwing costume this is just. batman costume. nothing special or different from it so its like did u even try? BUT in this scenario it actually means smth that he stuck to bruces costume.. sweet.. but boring. 7/10

speaking of. evil ugly designs. ugh i hate this.

this motherfucker

ive never. ever. felt as humiliated by a costume than thetime jason wore this. like MORTIFYING RLLY. its DISGUSTINGGG. the helmet shape. the fucking WHITE. the SKULL PLEASE WHO DESIGNED THIS WHO HATES ME IN PARTICULAR SO MUCH??? THIS MAN DOES NOT FUCK! HES UGLY! HE STINKS!!!! the red guns are epic that much i can say. LOOK AT THOSE PANS GOD ITS SO HUMILLIATING. 0/10 WORST COSTUME EVER.

HOWEVER. winick and the artist spun GOLD from it, because next time jason wore possibly my favorite costume to date

this motherfucker…2!

like look how much better it looks with a little of swag.. the helmet without eyes.. the belts.. the fucking leather jacket.. keeping the red guns/gloves.. like seriously i dont know a better man. the skull is still awful and i wouldve replaced the white for black and MWAH best costume. like the black part at the top make it all red and the white make it black.. god this jason fucks massively i love him. 11/10 my favorite by a landslide perhaps

new 52/rebirth red hood

OKAY I KNOW theyre slightly different (rebirth has shorter sleeves and a more padded look) but to me its like. same thing. okay i think its.. fine. its not phenomenal but its not ugly.. i like the brown jacket more than the black jacket i have to admit, its more distinctive and i simply like the color more, however i do not.. like jason having the bat symbol.. but thats also a me thing about how badly written this is. anyways. the helmet with the mouth disgusts me and everytime its drawn like that its humilliating. like. 7/10. maybe 7+. when it has the mouth or like nose ANY FACIAL EXPRESSION RLLY its a 5. 

wingman

oh i absolutely despise that helmet. he looks like fucking. terminator. its the ugliest shape ive ever seen and the visor is.. huge. i dont like the shoulder pads either idk what the fuck its going on with the thing around his neck either.. like hes. knockout batman and i HATEEE IT. damians costume slaps tho. i just… its… ugly. like.. 3/10. 

get damian back arc red hood costume

oh im a HUGE fan of this design.i love how his costume is designed in a way thats like. if jason was a dnd character he absolutely would be a tank. the padding, the red undertones everywhere, i just.. love it. i like how all the costumes were done to reflect their personalities you know.. i like this robin red hood hybrid. 9/10 would even say 10/10 bc i just enjoy how gleason draws jason.

red hood/arsenal costume

its like. i dont hate it completely (i love the way the hood+helmet looks) and thats.. yeah thats pretty much all i like about it. i HATEEEE the vest i hate it fr.i hate how huge the sumbol is and idk this costume just does not spark joy. 5/10

outlaw costume

okay this one. this one drives me insane. because like. okay i dig parts of it. i like the lack of sleeves. i like the gloves thingies. i like the hood. i could get aboard him ditching the helmet - it breaks all the damn time anyways. i like the stripes on his pants in the boots. ALL SEPARATE? NEAT. now i hate. hate. the muzzle. like WHY IT LOOKS SO UGLYYY LIKE SO UGLY like unless the artist GETS IT and is SEXY it looks awful. look at this

AWFUL. also like it made sense for when he was on the run and he had to make do and assemble a costume from what he had but like now hes sponsored by lex, get that man a goddamn new suit already please. anyways. 6/10.. like i said i like many elements from it but its still.. kinda ugly all together and depends A LOT on the artist.

three jokers

im torn on this one.. i think its a bit boring.. i dont rlly like the top part, it reminds me SOO much of that one tt issue where he beat the fuck out of tim while wearing a robin costume like i understad the implications of him wearing a costume thats similar to the robin blouse but im not a big fan.. also i prefer the brown leather jacket. its like not his worst costume by far but not the best.. like pretty basic?  i would say 6/10

NOW SOME AUS.

tiny titans & lil gotham

okay these two are like. pretty much the canon versions of robin and red hood HOWEVER they both have details that are different from the original version and DESERVE a mention. the curls on robin jason and jasons red gloves/belt are ICONIC. whoever designed them knew what they were about, so 10/10 best bapy jason.

arkham knight

does the person who designed this know how much theyve done for the lgbt community? i hope they do. i love.. a lot about this costume. i love the ears, i love how techno it is, i love the layers to it.. im.. not a big fan of the whole military thingy but i have to admit that applying it to the design itself is kind of neat.. i love the colors too and how.. practical it is while being. well. kinda dramatic? the whole bat aesthetic.. yeah. i love it. 9/10

arkham red hood

this one.. when u think about it the outlaw version is VEEERY similar to this one: the pants, the hood, the jacket eve. however i like this helmet so much more, i have a weakness for eyeless (??) helmets.. i like the little details of it as well, i remember that pic going around of it being held together with like. fuckign stitches and bandaids. legendary. i love this look, i would say 9+/10

injustice 2 jason

okay gonna go ahead and say it: not a big fan of the helmet. it looks like.. a bug? the lenses do not spark joy. this bitch has many styles and like toners etc and i will no rate them all. i think its a pretty basic design, not the best but not the worst either. like if it was an exam i would make them pass but make faces at what im reading like eeehhhgh. 7/10.

hag jason

middle one is like literally, on the outside and superficial level, just. his usual costume. the jacket and the grey kevlar and the bat. now the gloves are sexy as hell.. and in the whit ebackground one u can appreciate the under costume better and i really like it?? i just.. like the design. I HATE HOWEVER the bat helmet. WHY IS IT HOLLOW?? BITCH HELLO?? AND THE BATMAN SYMBOL DOES NOT MAKE SENSE! and i like things making sense!!!. we will not talk about jason in this book. like.. 8/10. maybe 9 if im feeling it.

hag jason 2: the hagger and the furious

hes just.. a little old man.. he cannot change this.. i like this design. i like seeing jason grow old. wish it wasnt in this context. my father rlly. 8/10

—-

am i forgetting any jays.. i wont do all animated robins because they all look the same and the one that doesnt i do not like. SO HERES my thoughts..

[incorrect-ace]

If it’s not solely pop then I recommend Scenery by Ashmute, and Hookah by Hyukoh. If it is solely pop then I recommend That’s My Jam by b.a.p, Missing You by BTOB, and either Crazy or Missing by Teen Top. Sorry, I know I just recommend a crap ton and I don’t expect you to listen or watch all of those, I just got excited 😬

Lmao yes you are allowed to be excited. But please rather spam me with 10 asks than give me one giant ask 😂 so I will try to get a little on every song instead of doing a huge thing on one song.

Ashmute: Well, this feels like the Korean Lana del Ray, and I've never been a fan if Lana del Ray. So that self explanatory right? I personally didn't like the song. Not because of any other reason than the fact that it isn't my style 🤷‍♀️ If I would pick a favorite part. I would say the part where she sings "Even dreams seem so lonely" because the volume? of her voice was pretty~~ (I dunno if volume is the right word)..

Hyukoh: I def liked this more than the one before it!!! Ive heard Paul and Tomboy before from this artist. And even tho it wouldnt be my favorite type of music. I really appreciate the unique artistry in his music. You can def HEAR it's him singing whatever sing it is. He has his own color!! I liked the first part of this song...the one in Korean. Well mostly bcz i found it funny that I could bearly make out what he was saying in Korean 😂😂 slight recommendation from me: Watch Jay Kim dance to Hyukoh's songs!!!

B.A.P: Ive always wanted to watch something from bap!!! Omg I found it so interesting that they used the same beat but with different instruments for the different scenes. Gasp!! Thats so clever! Also the fact that yknow normally there is build-up and then you get the drop to the chorus thats supposed to be the most catchy part. But this song has the chorus at the very start??? And then when it dropped later on to the chorus again...I shockingly enough didnt get bored? It was still exciting even though we heard the chorus at the very start. Masters of good beats 👌👌👌

My favorite part is prbs the rap at 0:40 because how the same beat is used in the intro and the rap...but just with different instruments really got me there. Also that rap has such a unique element in comparison to the rest of the song and MV. I obvi absolutely loved the chorus too!!!~

(I said i wasn't going to do this lengthy...lmao look at me)

Also fun weird Choice moment:

Orange haired Jason from Callin

TAKE ME HIGHER

I feel so lucky color theme for the rap part

Having the most intense part at the beginning without losing the excitement when it comes back again (aka Undercover build-up)

BTOB: Well...the song is beautiful. I really liked the part with "Spending a year/day..." because it sounded really good in korean. There is a poetic linguistic thing here involved but its 5am and well...my brain aint functioning enough to remember it. But i found it cool to use in a song. Ive never been a really big fan of MVs with a breakup theme... :// so that was a bummer. But def a bummer due to personal taste and not bcz it was bad.... The song was amazing~ my Favorite part 1:48 to 2:05

Teen Top: Ouch...that was def one of the worst kpop mvs ive seen in a while. O.o ahh i know im sounding like an asshole right now. Im sorry. But that was prbs one of the cringiest things ive seen in a while.....well. the rap is prbs my favorite part??

Decided to also rank these 5 songs:

BAP

Hyukoh

BTOB

Ashmute

Teen Top

Thank you for participating and sorry the last part was so asshole-y and mean. But I'm stupid like that I guess and you asked for my opinion sooo yeahh.

Send me a Kpop MV in my askbox and I will tell you which part is my favorite!!~

[gothamcityprince]

i was tagged by @notquitedeadyet

rules: answer these 85 statements & tag 20 people

the last:

1. drink: uuuh water i guess

2. phone call: like legit phone call ??? with phone numbers ?? cause i dont do that 

3. text message: @notquitedeadyet

4. song you listened to: i think farmer refuted from hamilton 

5. time you cried: fuck if i know my man

have you ever: 6. dated someone twice: unfortunately  7. kissed someone and regretted it: oh yea 8. been cheated on: kinda tbh 9. lost someone special: probably  10. been depressed: do u mean my constant state of being

11. gotten drunk & thrown up: no comment 

favorite colors:

12. red

13. blue

14. yellow probably tbh

in the last year have you: 15. made new friends: yea 16. fallen out of love: can it count as falling out of love if ur p sure u werent in love in the first place  17. laughed until you cried: yeah gd josh keaton reading spiderman memes  18. found out someone was talking about you: yeah 19. met someone who changed you: definitely  20. found out who your friends are: ye ah 21. kissed someone on your Facebook list: mm

general: 22. how many of your Facebook friends do you know in real life: i dont want to go through them all and figure it out but i think i actually know almost all of them irl 23. do you have any pets: y e s !!!! i have two doggos  24. do you want to change your name: hell yes i do 25. what did you do for your last birthday: i did absolutely nothing and pretended it wasnt my birthday to the best of my abilities  26. what time did you wake up: i woke up at like 1 am n then was up all day and now im up at 2 27. what were you doing at midnight last night: i think i was still sleeping tbh 28. name something you can’t wait for: going back to school and seeing my bf 31. what are you listening to right now: my gotdamn fan i dont have anything playing cause im a lazy piece of shit who doesnt want to reach over and grab his headphones 32. have you ever talked to a person named tom: uuuuuuh i mean i think so ??? 33. something that is getting on your nerves: ppl who r dicks for no reason i suppose theyre always getting on my nerves  34. most visited website: flightrising  35. hair colour: uh this really really reddish brown 36. long or short hair: short af it use to be an undercut 39. piercings: ive got two in each ear tho theyre mostly closed up and ive got my lip pierced (i also use to have my nose pierced  40. blood type: fuck if i know my guy 41. nicknames: jay,,,,, i think thats it 42. relationship status: taken 43. zodiac: gemini  44. pronouns: he/him 45. favourite tv show: the flash i think 46. tattoos: eventually

47. right or left handed: right 48. surgery: i had one on my neck when i was like 3 i think and then i got my wisdom teeth out 49. piercing: this,,,, this is the same as the other one but uuuuh i wanna get my septum pierced  50. sport: idk im not really big on sports but uh martial arts and skiing i suppose  51. vacation: to go see my bf and also see the world i really really want to travel  52. pair of trainers: ive got a pair of combat boots and a pair of red converses

more general 53. eating: n,,,, nothing rn ? 54. fav drink: hmm probs sweet tea ngl 55. what you’re up to: this 56. waiting for: nothing really ? 57. want: a completely stable mental state would be g9 58. get married: at 30, to my boyfriend 59. career: fuck if i know my man which is better: 60. hugs or kisses: yes 61. lips or eyes: y e s 62. shorter or taller: hmm uuuh i dont think i really have preference tbh ? but i guess i like to be taller than ppl 63. older or younger: i mean as long as it doesnt get much past a 3 year difference i dont care all that much 64. nice arms or nice stomach: all stomachs n arms r nice 65. hook up or relationship: normally ? neither ngl 66. troublemaker or hesitant: asjdlkfjd probably troublemaker i suppose  have you ever: 67. kissed a stranger: yea 68. drank hard liquor: oh man 69. lost glasses/contact lenses: HA YES 70. turned someone down: :’ ) 71. sex on the first date: rip how about sex and then just straight up not dating 72. broken someone’s heart: i wish i could say no but i think i have 73. had your heart broken: hmm i mean i dont really think so  74. been arrested: ,,,, oh wow i dont think i have been 75. cried when someone died: yeah  76. fallen for a friend: those r literally the only ppl i fall for 

do you believe in 77. yourself: lmao 78. miracles: not really  79. love at first sight: it depends i guess

80. santa claus: i have never believed in santa claus once in my entire life 81. kiss on the first date: heck yeah 82. angels: i mean that would imply that theres a god so no i guess

other

83. current best friend’s name: wouldnt u like to know,,,,, ok but umm hmm i mean perce for sure, n def silas i mean it takes quite a bit to reach a point where i consider someone close enough to be a best  friend

84. eye colour: green as shit 

85. favourite movie: this is rude and asking me to make a decision idfk what my fave movie is tbh maybe the original ghostbusters 

i tag: i dont really feel like tagging anyone so if u wanna do this u can just say i tagged u n go nuts

[sandiegodjstaci]

Kim-Chi & Richard's Bi-Coastal Tom Ham's Lighthouse Wedding

Kim-Chi & Richard's Bi-Coastal Tom Ham's Lighthouse Wedding

Of all the San Diego wedding DJs calling America’s finest city home, Kim-Chi & Richard chose me to DJ and MC their Tom Ham’s Lighthouse wedding on Shelter Island on Saturday, May 25, 2019. The following write-up is based on San Diego DJ Staci’s crazy organized &  detailed outline for this Tom Ham’s Lighthouse wedding.

  THE TOM HAM’S LIGHTHOUSE  WEDDING CEREMONY

Prelude ➔ Piano, Vitamin String Quartet

Processional ➔ Latch by Simply Three Bride

Processional ➔ “I Can’t Help Falling In Love With You” by Haley Reinhart

Recessional ➔ Brighter Than The Sun by Colbie Caillat (cue to 30 seconds/first chorus)

  THE COCKTAIL HOUR & DINNER MUSIC

While San Diego DJ Staci offers couples pre-set cocktail & dinner playlists to choose from, Kim-Chi & Richard opted to hand-select their background music for their Tom Ham’s Lighthouse wedding.

Cocktail/Dinner Music ➔ Taylor Swift – ….Ready for it?, Rita Ora – Let You Love Me, Beyonce– Halo, Calum Scott & Leona Lewis – You are the Reason Duet Version  Ariana Grande – No Tears Left to Cry, ZAYN & Taylor Swift – I Dont Wanna Live Forever, Rita Ora – Anywhere, Major Lazer – Light it Up, Sara Larsson & MNEK – Never Forget You, Fifth Harmony – Down ft. Gucci Mane, Sia – The Greatest, Nick Jonas  Nicki Minaj – Bom Bidi Bom, Fifth Harmony – Work from Home, Katy Perry – Dark Horse, Chain Smokers – Dont Let Me Down, Justin Timberlake – My Love, Jason Mraz – Im Yours, Martin Garrix  Khalid – Ocean, Ed Sheeran – Photograph, Pussycat Dolls – Stickwitu ft. Avant, Ellie Goulding, & Diplo – Close to Me, Cashmere Cat  Major Lazer – Miss You, MAX – Lights Down Low feat. Gnash, Nick Jonas – Close ft. Tove Lo, Jason Derulo – Marry Me, Maroon 5 – Sugar, Jason Mraz – Lucky, Ed Sheeran – Perfect, Leona Lewis – Bleeding Love, Mariah Carey – Always Be My Baby, The Greatest Showman Soundtrack – Rewrite The Stars, Bruno Mars – Just The Way You Are, Ed Sheeran – Thinking Out Loud, John Legend – Love Me Now, Far East Movement ft. Ryan Tedder – Rocketeer, Bruno Mars – Grenade, Truly, Madly, Deeply – Savage Garden

  (c) San Diego DJ Staci, the Track Star

  THE TOM HAM’S LIGHTHOUSE WEDDING RECEPTION

MC Welcome ➔ “Good evening! Welcome to Kim-Chi & Richards wedding reception!!! I am the Master of Ceremonies, DJ Staci. Please take your seats so we can officially welcome our guests of honor. Be sure to post your photos today with #KCGotRICH and #FinallyFoundChiu. If you need to charge your devices, I do have a mini charging station up here including some universal chargers. Also, there is a basket of flip flops up here for the ladies later when they– or really & we-are ready for some comfortable kicks after dinner 🙂 Ladies & gentlemen, please put your hands together for the introduction of the wedding party…”

Grand Entrance ➔ Mark Ronson – Uptown Funk

1. “Give it up for Richards family…his sister Jenny & his parents, Kwong & Lye!!!”

2. “Show some love to Kim-Chi’s family…her brother Vin, his wife Chelsea, & her parents, Chin & Trah-Doe!!!”

3. “Please welcome Bridesmaid Tina & Groomsman Nash!!!”

4. “Give it up for Bridesmaid Key & Groomsman Chris!!!”

5. “Show some love to Bridesmaid Krystal & Groomsman Mike!!!”

➔ “Far East Movement” – Turn Up the Love ➔ “They met in February of 2016. Together they enjoy outdoor activities like snowboarding, hiking, & snorkeling, watching superhero movies, & traveling. Together, they’ve visited Belize, Guatemala, Bermuda, Vancouver BC, New Hampshire, &  Vermont. Ladies & gentlemen, get on your feet to welcome–for the FIRST TIME EVER–Mr. and Mrs. C—!!!”

➔ Newlywed Brief Welcome/Thank You Speech ➔ yes

7:35 ➔ Meal Served: Buffet/Food Stations/Etc ➔ Dismiss tables: Banquet Captain

➔ Shoe Game (Avoid questions like: Who wears the pants in the relationship? What makes more money?)

➔ Toasts ➔ champagne pour ➔  “Ladies & gentlemen, I hope you are enjoying your meals. While Mr. & Mrs. C are both huge fans of MacCallan Whiskey, tonight we are going to be toasting them with champagne! Please welcome our first speaker:

➔ “Kim-Chi’s closest guy friend since 5th grade, Day”

➔ “Groomsman Nash”

➔ “One of Kim-Chi’s friends since high school, Bridesmaid Key”

➔ “Groomsman Mike”

➔ Formal Cake Cutting ➔ Liam Payne & Rita Ora – For You

➔ First Dance ➔ “Say You Wont Let Go” (feat. Madilyn Bailey) – Joshua David Evans ➔ fade early: no ➔ “On August 8, 2018, Rich decorated his apartment with flower petals, pictures of him &Kim-Chi together, & balloons. He played their song Over You & put an origami flower she had made for him on their 2nd date in a treasure chest. When Kim-Chi got home & saw all of this, he got down on one knee & asked her a very important question. I think we all know how she answered because we are about to welcome Mr. and Mrs. C— to the dance floor for their first dance as husband and wife.”

➔ Group Photo on Dance Floor

➔ Open Dancing

➔ Surprise Choreography ➔ “Turn Down for What (Remix), feat. Juicy J, 2 Chainz French Montana”

10:00 PM ➔ photographers/Videographer Leaves

11:10 PM ➔ Last Dance

  (c) San Diego DJ Staci

  KIM-CHI & RICHARD’S DANCE MUSIC RECIPE

Dance Music Rating ➔ PG-13 early on then some R/X-rated as it gets later

Play A Lot ➔ 90s, Top 40/Pop, Hip Hop/RB, Electronic Dance Music

Play A Few ➔ Rap, 2000s, Trap

  ♥ M U S T – P L A Y S ♥

1. Avicii – Levels, 2. John Legend – All of Me, 3. Usher – Yeah, 4. DJ Snake  Selena Gomez – Taki Taki, 5. Lil Jon – Get Low, 6. Jay Z ft. Alicia Keys – Empire State of Mind, 7. J Balvin – Mi Gente, 8. Macklemore – Cant hold Us, 9. Flo Rida – Low, 10. Pitfull  Christina Aguilera – Feel This Moment, 11. Justin Bieber  Luis Fonsi – Despacito, 12. Timbaland  Keri Hilson – The Way I Are

  ♥ P L A Y    I F   Y O U   C A N ♥

Misc: Major Lazer – All My Love, Beyonce – Girls (Run the World), Ciara – 1, 2 Step, Tove Lo – Talking Body, Over You – Dyrisk & FlyBoy (*song Rich used to propose), Far East Movement – G6, Major Lazer – Powerful, Boom Boom Pow – The Black Eyes Peas, Havana Brown & Pitbull – We Run The Night, Usher  Beyonce – Love in this Club (Remix), Jason Derulo – Tip Toe EDM: David Guetta – Light My Body Up, Summer – Calvin Harris, David Guetta  Nicki Minaj – Hey Mama, David Guetta Showtek – Bad, David Guetta, Sia – Titanium Trap: Fetty Wap – 679, Fetty Wap – Trap Queen

  ♥ D O    N O T     P L A Y S ♥

Disco, Oldies, 70s/Classic Rock, Country, Tween/Children, Rihanna – Work, YMCA, Chicken Dance

  TOM HAM’S LIGHTHOUSE WEDDING FLOOR PLAN

  SAN DIEGO WEDDING VENDOR LIST

Here is the amazing team of San Diego wedding vendors I had the pleasure of working with on this Tom Ham’s Lighthouse wedding on Shelter Island:

Venue Contact/Caterer ➔ Tom Ham’s Lighthouse restaurant

DJ/MC/Lighting/Photo Booth ➔ DJ Staci, the Track Star

Photographer ➔ Heather Lee Photography

Videographer ➔ Timecode Media

Officiant ➔ Donna Ross

Cake Bakery ➔ Extraordinary Desserts

Florist ➔ DIY

Again, I was honored to be the one and only San Diego wedding DJ Kim-Chi& Richard trusted with their Tom Ham’s Lighthouse wedding. Thank you!

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[2/7/17, 10:30:15 AM] Ruthie: (*) WILL YOU BE TRYING TO SHOWMANCE ANYONE THIS SEASON? (*) [2/7/17, 12:11:14 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): trying to showmance is hard because no one woukd want to with me so I probably won't try [2/7/17, 4:17:13 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): also I don't know what to dr about except that I am not winning hoh for my clique lol [2/7/17, 6:18:04 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): dr: Daniel told me to shut up so if he gets put up his ass is grass [2/7/17, 9:59:50 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): when Nicholas won and I am safe, plus safe in bbdarkness so yay safety

[2/7/17, 11:03:56 PM] Ruthie: (*) NICHOLAS WON HOH.  HOW ARE YOU FEELING ABOUT THAT? (*)

[2/7/17, 11:11:12 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): I feel I answered this, but I am glad because I am safe and I am glad for that. [2/8/17, 10:14:01 AM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): so Daniel is digging his own grave I think like he started a fight at 6 am with matthew henning he is so extra [2/8/17, 10:24:47 AM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): there was no personal attacks ruthie :P I am sure Daniel doesn't mean it he clearly is trying too hard to be funny week 1 that's it lol I mean It makes me not want him in this game and if he goes up I want to vote him out but personal? this wasn't really he is just being  extra to be iconic or something [2/8/17, 1:30:40 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): Daniel is so arrogant lol like I got he was trying to be funny it just wasn't funny I- [2/8/17, 1:31:36 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): no one was offended though matthew henning doesn't really get offended we just made it clear that it wasn't funny shrugs [2/8/17, 1:33:28 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): no like I am saying he thinks people were offended I was in a call with people they weren't [2/8/17, 1:33:34 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): they just found him really annoying [2/8/17, 1:34:04 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): and matthew hennings skype is as matthew henning so why would he need to make a new one [2/8/17, 1:34:55 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): no like I am saying I was on call with these people they weren't anyway I am more talking about that bull apology [2/8/17, 1:35:33 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): it wasn't real he knows matthew hennings name matthew henning is matthew henning on skype so to me he is just being arrogant [2/8/17, 1:37:02 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): but yes it has gotten offensive not because of what he thinks that people are "sensitive" but because he has over done it to the point where it's not funny [2/8/17, 1:40:51 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): On 2/8/17, at 1:28 PM, da Divine Damned Daniel wrote: >  i'll call u by ur name but idk id recommend a new skype if u don't wanna be called icemystic1216 like it's matthew henning on skype like does he need proof or something? [2/8/17, 1:42:15 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): On 2/8/17, at 1:29 PM, da Divine Damned Daniel wrote: > and the other girl i forget ur entire name but i'm soz for whatever i did i dunno lol but u were sticking up for ur friend so and I feel like this is referring to me and he knows my name he seems to just want to start fights with people even [2/8/17, 1:43:03 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): i am sure it's for drama in this game but like it's week 1? and he isn't safe from eviction [2/8/17, 1:51:34 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): yeah idk him at all I met him in the bbglee vl i thought he was nice at first but idk if he's ever played big brother before but he can't do this week 1 when he is not safe that's probably why no one is fighting him because I am sure Nicholas will be putting him up [2/8/17, 1:53:09 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): no I get that I love newbies but newbies need a big brother do and don't for week 1 lol [2/8/17, 1:53:20 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): clearly he does anyway [2/8/17, 1:54:06 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): he reminds of this housguest from house of shade 9 who we banned from house of shade because he went really personal on someone after being voted out week 1 hopefully he is not like that after we vote him out if he goes this week [2/8/17, 1:55:24 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): also he just sent a holocaust joke meme and that's not funny at all like andie just said [2/8/17, 2:07:55 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): so he called me a foot infection interesting I only told him matthew hennings name like [2/8/17, 2:08:57 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): On 2/8/17, at 2:08 PM, Matthew Henning wrote: > WHO TF IS CHRISSA IS THAT A FOOT DISEASE IM THE BIGGEST GLEE FAN U BLISTERING FOOT ZIT Daniel said this earlier Mathew henning sent me I didn't see it because I was sleeping [2/8/17, 2:10:20 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): I never personally claimed I was the number 1 glee fan I just said I really love it like what? [2/8/17, 2:24:28 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): I also think the apology about calling me a foot disease was fake but I am not fighting him because he is just gonna be voted out, he seems to have a huge ego [2/8/17, 2:37:34 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): tbh he can do that all he wants I love him ruining his game week 1 lol [2/8/17, 2:41:47 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): a lot of people on the detention call already wanted him gone and Nic wants him gone Ncholas was on that call he will put him up as I said this is like that houseguest from house of shade 9 who was messy week 1 lol [2/8/17, 2:42:36 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): I hope this atleast teaches Daniel a lesson if not I don't feel I can be friends with someone like him [2/8/17, 2:43:10 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): i am never easily offended either to be honest he is a different case [2/8/17, 2:44:27 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): it didn't teach houseguest a lesson as he still went off on people after being voted out and houseguest was 23 sometimes the egos are too big [2/8/17, 2:45:24 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): like if Daniel thinks this is a joke he probably doesn't care how his words affect people [2/8/17, 2:47:24 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): whew I love this game though [2/8/17, 3:31:03 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): On 2/8/17, at 3:28 PM, da Divine Damned Daniel wrote: > ok I'm gonna leave so you can all celebrate and what not, but quite frankly i don't want to be in a group were people get hurt over small things, and i don't wanna be the one to cause people pain and hurt, so I'm sorry if ive offended you in some sort of way but i feel its best and I'm sure some of you will agree if I'm not around, i hope someone replaces me who you all get along with much better and is less 'intense' as me i guess but just letting u know theres a certain person here u all love thats just playing u so i hope u don't make the wrong decisions and no its not christa, emily or connor its someone i haven't fought with or whatever this is anyways i wish u all luck and i hope u love glee as much as i do by the end xxxxxxx ps. elizabeth better get my spot he really wants to be this extra [2/9/17, 10:47:24 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): I don't have anything to dr about except dom and Zach are on the block and that's crazy but I am split on who to vote at the moment lol idk

[2/9/17, 10:53:19 PM] Ruthie: (*) HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT THE PEOPLE IN YOUR CLIQUE? (*)

[2/10/17, 7:00:19 AM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): so I can't sleep but that's not new lol so I am just here lol thinking about how I am jesse st. james trash but Sydney got him first lol [2/10/17, 8:19:12 AM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): also I will answer: I love my clique honestly I get along with all of them.[2/11/17, 2:08:45 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): Also the best part of that recap is the meninist alliance being the most short lived alliance in bb history we did that

[2/12/17, 2:00:08 AM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): DR: I love Matthew henning zack ruining his chance ata possible hoh sad I hope his week 2/3 curse is broken though, Matthew henning always gets screwed over and it makes me honestly sad. [2/12/17, 2:02:21 AM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): also Julia Roxy is an icon that is all [2/12/17, 3:15:15 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): IS JAY ALIVE CAUSE I HAVE NEWS IF JULIA ROXY KISSES ELIJAH I AM HOH AND I AM TERRIFIED that is all [2/12/17, 3:16:15 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): i love after i wasn't kissed though nic said hi to me [2/12/17, 6:10:41 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): is hoh ever going to end? or will it just go on forever [2/12/17, 6:10:43 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): :P [2/12/17, 6:12:08 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): did Julia pick or is she still too busy [2/12/17, 6:12:11 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): :P [2/12/17, 6:24:10 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): she told me she sent her kiss don't be keeping me waiting :P [2/12/17, 6:34:28 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): I was so close I knew she picked him already for some weird reason she wants nic to be safe [2/12/17, 6:44:15 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): I came in here to cry at how I never get hoh's this is genuinely the saddest I have ever been about losing a comp [2/12/17, 6:45:18 PM] AshleySarah ~Glee Host~: It's ok!!!! U were close!!!! There will be other ones that you can win!!!! It's only week 2!!!!! [2/12/17, 6:45:34 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): no you see [2/12/17, 6:45:42 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): this is the only type of comp I can win [2/12/17, 6:45:51 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): i can't win flash games and other types of comps [2/12/17, 6:46:43 PM] AshleySarah ~Glee Host~: That's why we included a variety!!!!! I promise there are more like this!!!! No skill or knowledge of anything!!!! [2/12/17, 6:51:06 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): i hope so i honestly wish i could win competitions i honestly don't get why i am not good at any of them but then i remember how bad I've been genuinely all my life at games maybe it has something to do with having no hand eye coordination or my autism in general i was never really good at anything ever so why do i get my hopes up that i am now [2/12/17, 6:54:54 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): unless it's something like the kissing one I might not usually if it involves a score I never get higher than anyone else [2/12/17, 7:56:19 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): the issue with comps like normal ones I have at winning I figured it out so I really an inept at math if studied science i'd get an A but if I studied math all I would get is a B, um and so most normal comps somehow involve math so my brain goes into shut down mode because it's not ready for math lol [2/12/17, 7:59:53 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): it's like that episode of spongebob when he became the waiter and cleared his mind and all the spongebobs are freaking out because thy threw out his name but for me the name is math anything [2/12/17, 8:10:32 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): I can't technically even tell time that's how bad I am [2/12/17, 8:10:44 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): 20 minutes when is that idk [2/12/17, 8:11:06 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): yesss [2/12/17, 8:14:34 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): I also can't believe the lit detention chat started because someone added jeff week 1

[2/13/17, 12:08:12 AM] Ruthie: (lips) HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT ELIJAH WINNING HEAD OF HOUSEHOLD? (lips)

[2/13/17, 12:09:34 AM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): you know how I feel honestly but I hope he is being honest and I am safe this week, I am kind of more over it now and I am happy for Elijah [2/14/17, 12:06:20 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): I truly want my valentine to be my husband Jay, that is all. [2/15/17, 7:20:38 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): people are fighting it's so extra my mood is now now revived [2/15/17, 10:32:31 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): Elijah is so stupid, so stupid because I have a really huge chance of not staying thanks to Julia rae being on the block beside me like who'd vote out Julia rae? no one. and if this backfires on him I will never forgive him he told me I was safe this week, why did he have to take a shot at Julia rae? like she isn't aligned with everyone he is such a bad hoh. [2/16/17, 8:05:23 PM] Chrissa Todd (circleofhappiness host): yep Elijah is dumb that's confirmed lol