#but! i am cautiously optimistic
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the fact that BOTH lando and oscar are saying the track isn't great for the car and yet they finished p6 and p8... i am very excited for this year
#i mean. max domination will most likely continue#but! i am cautiously optimistic#especially given ferrari look decent. mercedes i am confused by#formula 1#bahrain gp 2024#op81#ln4#oscar piastri#lando norris
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Wicked (2024) dir. Jon M. Chu
#wicked#wickededit#filmedit#musicaledit#filmgifs#wicked 2024#dailyflicks#userbbelcher#cinemapix#filmtvtoday#chewieblog#cynthia erivo#ariana grande#usersource#musicalsedit#popcultureds#*#nessa007#tusersadie#userninz#jonathan bailey#userclara#i am cautiously optimistic about this
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he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.
except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?
at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.
except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.
about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.
he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.
#i used to think it was romantic too and then i was like. now i see it as a HUGE red flag#writeblr#it is also almost EXCLUSIVELY said by immature ppl who think this is normal#fyi even if u think it's funny and ur like 'im an introvert it's just TRUE' like. you need therapy (ily tho)#healed introversion is just ''i would prefer to be by myself'' not ''i hate every person'' ... hate is not normal. that is not healthy#im sorry. i know it feels accurate. but if you're walking around with that kind of rage....#1. you're making a LOT of assumptions about every single person u have ever met. which is often unfair and unkind#and also usually involves judging people based on their worst moments or little mistakes#2. you are being unfair to the person who is ur ''exception''#3. there is a VAST difference between ''ur my favorite person'' and ''the ONLY person i like.''#idk i think this is just a personal bias thing tbh#im sure there are people who have this experience normally#but i have YET to find a man who thinks like this and ISNT absolute DOGSHIT. although tbh.... like. im sure he exists#when u hit like 30 some of the things that were once kind of hot now just sound fucking exhausting. like ''im in a band''#edit in the tags: i used to kind of be like this too. but the thing is that like. my life became so much more peaceful#once i started believing that people are generally good. like yes i am mad at the world at large#but it's just.... a very hard way to live. you're not a bad person or wrong for the ways other people hurt you and taught you to be angry.#but that anger will continue to hurt YOU. it will punish YOU. it will prevent YOU from making new deep connections. it will protect you yes#but it will also cause MASSIVE blowback. bc if you lose the One Person... your life will fall apart. i know this personally.#i really recommend just trying to be... cautiously optimistic instead. like. yes#people can be horrible and cruel and there are some communities (incels for example) that aren't worth that optimism#but i think like... most people will hold a door for you . most people want to help you find your wallet .#i hope one day you are able to find peace. i hope that rage eventually smooths over. i know how hard it is PERSONALLY#and i know what must have happened to you. and im deeply deeply sorry we share the same wound.#but i promise - sometimes we all need someone else to help us carry the weight. eventually the rage has to die so that we can let help in#i had to spend years biting at outstretched hands. i still often do. im still very wary . and my heart breaks that you flinch too.#here's the thing: i don't blame you. but we were both acting out of fear and pain. .... not out of healthy behavior. and ... change#was needed. i needed change too. rage was useful for a while. then it just left me isolated and bitter. i had to (with effort)#choose to let that rage go. and let people in . VERY SLOWLY THO LOL
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williams announcing carlos sainz will be doing their end-of-season testing marks the beginning of a new era.
let's not forget, we're talking about carlos-tactical-brilliance-sainz and james-wdc-winning-brawn-gp-race-strategist-vowles.
#i am cautiously optimistic#f1#formula 1#formula one#carlos sainz#carlos sainz jr#williams racing#williams f1#james vowles
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THE LOST BOYS, A NEW MUSICAL
#youtube#video#HOLY SHIT#I AM CAUTIOUSLY OPTIMISTIC BUT I THINK THIS COULD BE REALLY REALLY GOOD#i haven't been to new york in years... might have to plan a trip lol#the lost boys#the lost boys (1987)#tlb#the lost boys a new musical
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I've been seeing a lot of posts talking about how "shouldn't we really be blaming the people who voted republican for this? It's not the non voters that voted trump in!"
Do you know what you sound like? The same republicans who say that politics shouldn't get in between relationships. You are exactly the same. Your inaction has carried just as much weight, and you shouldn't be surprised that people hold you every bit as accountable for it as the people who actively voted for fascism.
#I am trying to remain... cautiously optimistic#this election was going to be hell either way#but good god this site is going to cause my joker moment
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A summary I saw posted on discord! I did not write this ❤️
ok here's my effort at collating all the high-level updates.
Neopets is now a standalone entity after JS's closure.
New head of said entity is Dominic Law (staff name probably Altador...that's what he goes by in NMC server), who previously headed NMC and saved Neopets through a "management buyout deal"
New TNT has raised $4M from external investors to be used for rebuilding the brand/site.
Plan to incorporate Ruffle to save Flash content. 50(!) games will be returning via Ruffle on July 25th!
Plan to launch new mobile app "World of Neopia", "a social life-simulation game in which you live your ideal Neopian life from the perspective of a Neopet"
Plan to increase communication. "releasing monthly updates, hosting regularly scheduled AMAs, and launch an exciting new brand ambassador program"
New unified home page launching July 20
Plan to relaunch Island Builders
Plan for "a virtual concert"
Plan for a new plot (called "The Void Within" per the youtube video)
Launch 2M NC giveaway, which ends Aug 6
Neopets Metaverse has been cancelled. Some assets will be used for World of Neopia, but world of Neopia will have no crypto/NFT elements. Collectibles continue to exist and can be traded on secondary markets but have no utility.
#im plagiarizing sorry#cautiously optimistic i guess? i am nervous about the new owner's association with crypto however#neopets
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Me: wanting to avoid DATV spoilers as much as possible since I won’t have a chance to play until at least 3 weeks after release
Also me: obsessively checking Emmrich’s tag for any crumbs of info and amazing art
#this is how I know I’m down bad yall#I have mixed feelings about datv and am cautiously optimistic about it#but nothing is gonna stop me from romancing my gentleman necromancer#delayed because of irl obligations maybe but ooof#I don’t want spoilers but I NEED to KNOW about my future husband#dragon age#emmrich volkarin#Rhae plays da
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God I'm sorry but Em Friedman is the Dnd Shorts of Actual Play writing. The Burrow's End coverage is egregiously off-base and there's just a pretty profound ignorance of How Things Work. Like, how TTRPGs work, but also how Actual Play works, and more generally how fantasy as a genre works, and there are some significant errors in really simple things such as the fact that ACOFAF used D&D, and usually Polygon has a bit of editorial integrity but this is giving like. CBR Top Ten Most Cool Things About D20.
#i have. many thoughts about the latest burrow's end episode#namely if it's the setup for a twist I am intrigued and excited!#if it is the twist itself...y'all could read about stoats on wikipedia and not a single article on How Do Nuclear Power plants work huh#and to be clear the friedman/dnd shorts comparison holds either way; i'm cautiously optimistic re: the actual show#but GOD the coverage is BAD#burrow's end spoilers
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She looked like Carole Lombard. She had the same kind of translucence, only instead of being in black and white and having that ladylike blonde blonde hair, she was in color and had hair of gold. She actually looked like Venus rising out of the sea, but she was less stupid-looking than Venus. Venus is as stupid-looking as Beauty in Beauty and the Beast, who acted like she didn’t know why the doors opened by invisible hands or why she got through customs without having to wait in line. Beauty was a dope.
Eve Babitz, "The Girl Who Went to Japan" (Eve's Hollywood, 1974)
#i love you evie#i am cautiously optimistic for the didion/babitz book#but also dreading it because lili anolik wrote it :( :(#eve babitz#eve's hollywood#literature
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we're only on episode 3 so there is PLENTY of time for GMMtv to disappoint me and go off the rails, but so far Only Boo is falling into the same category for me as My School President: a simple concept, executed well, played by actors who understand their characters and writers who approach the script with earnestness. it would be very easy for Moo to be a pushy, spoiled, whiny prince, but thankfully he's just a sweet, overenthusiastic, confident guy. in the same vein, it would have been easy to make Kang a grouchy, mean, stick-in-the-mud, but instead we are treated to an introverted, thoughtful, rough-speaking but well-meaning kind young man. I think both actors are doing very well, but especially Kang's actor, who is a complete rookie. there's a sense of depth and weight to Kang-- he's got a lot going on internally, and Sea is able to show that through small details in his acting. it's fantastic. if you've been on the fence about watching Only Boo because it's yet another GMMtv high school BL, I recommend giving it a shot. it's cute and charming and funny and very earnest. plus Milk is there.
#original#only boo#only boo the series#this is my Official Endorsement for this show; please have tomatoes on standby to throw at me in ~ 8 weeks#i am CAUTIOUSLY OPTIMISTIC......#a tad worried about pacing but that's fine if the plot kicks in more
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1 - Richas admin's art is incredible ❤️
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Halo Family name is powerful and painful :')
#halo family#badboyhalo#dapper#pomme#richarlyson#i dont kmow if i should be excited or worried for the 'true end' but i am cautiously optimistic
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THE BOYZ ROAR MV Teaser
#the boyz#tbz#tbzinc#kflops#kpopco#malegroupsnet#eyestrain#*mywork#useroro#higabi#rosieblr#madstual#it's giving me some matrix it's giving me angels literally falling so i have to say i am CAUTIOUSLY optimistic#anywaysssss the bad bitch jcob shot? for ME
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Tr*mp being found guilty is awesome but at this point I'm just waiting for the other shoe to drop. Shit's about to get VERY real, VERY quickly.
#it's already been scary but it's about to get crazier#i am cautiously optimistic but i can't imagine the people who've decided he's their savior are gonna take this well
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I'VE BEEN HYPERVENTILATING ALL MORNING AND I CAN'T EVEN FOCUS HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO WORK ALL DAY WITH THIS NEWS ???
#Red White and Royal Blue#Red White and Royal Two#???#Red White and Royal Wedding#????#or just the classic RWRB2#(... I am still waiting for TOG2 som I'm gonna be cautiously optimistic here🤣)
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My disability hearing went very well! The vocational expert actually agreed with me/my medical team that I am unable to work literally any job.
Now we just have to hope the judge agrees. Which we likely won’t know for a few more months. But at least for now, my responsibilities are done.
#literally the only dissenting opinion was the one examiner who said i could work an office job#and even the jobs expert disagreed with her#so I think i have a good chance#i am cautiously optimistic#which feels weird#veritasrose rambles
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