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winarasidi · 2 years

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Berbagi Playlist juga Bentuk Love Language (setidaknya buatku)

The Love Language Profile yang ditulis oleh yang empunya Chapman (2015) digunakan untuk menilai cara-cara individu dalam berkomunikasi. Seperti yang kita tau, ada lima bahasa kasih yang amat populer disisipkan dalam obrolan anak-anak remaja atau manusia dewasa, diantranya; words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, dan physical touch. Chapman juga berpendapat bahwa alasan utama munculnya masalah dalam hubungan adalah karena pasangan berbicara dengan bahasa cinta yang berbeda. Bagiku masih masuk akal.

Aku justru amat menyadari hal ini ketika bekerja di Aceh Singkil. Lalu amat tersiksa atas relasiku dengan salah satu teman sepenempatan. Susah banget rasanya komunikasi sama dia. Gini salah gitu salah. Terus aku merasa sudah sangat berusaha membangun komunikasi, mencoba memahami, tetap saja nihil. Hasilnya? Ya akunya aja goblok sebenarnya hahaha

Lalu gagasan ini muncul ketika kami memiliki waktu refleksi yang dingin, dimediasi oleh pihak ketiga. Mentor. Dengan segala permasalahan yang terjadi antara aku dan dia, salah satu kemungkinan penyebabnya adalah karena kami berbicara dengan bahasa kasih yang berbeda. Bagiku, yang dominan words of affirmation, nanyain kabar, nyemangatin dengan kata-kata, sudah sangat mewakili kepedulianku terhadap teman sepenempatan. Tapi ternyata, bagi dia yang acts of service, semua itu hanya omong kosong dan ilusi kalo aku ga sampe nyamperin dia sebagai bentuk komunikasi dan dukungan yang diharapkan. Sampe belut buluan, maksud kami ga akan pernah ketemu! Karena aku sudah merasa cukup, sedangkan dia tidak. Juga sebaliknya. Ketika dia lupa bilang tolong, maaf, atau terima kasih, aku bapernya minta ampun sampe ke ubun-ubun. Dongkol. Meskipun hanya ada dalam kepalaku saja. Ya ini pengalaman relasi sosialku yang coba menerapkan teori love languagenya Chapman. Setelah tau, rasanya lebih mudah berinteraksi secara sehat dan dua arah. Kami saling memahami dan toleransi terhadap kebutuhan orang lain. Lantas dalam relasi romantis? Ya silakan yang punya pengalaman boleh mengingat-ngingat.

Akhir-akhir ini aku sedang merasa penuh, akibat berbagi playlist dengan mereka yang terdekat dan terkasih. Ketika stres menyerang, sungguh kalimat sederhana “Win dengerin ini deh”, rasanya memberikan ketentraman batin yang tiada dua. Konten yang dibagi denganku juga beragam, mulai dari podcast, video youtube, ceramah, diskusi tertentu dan terutama musik. Mereka yang membagi playlistnya denganku tentu saja sudah lebih dulu mendengarkan, bisa jadi juga merupakan bagian favoritnya, lalu mereka dengan sadar membagi, merekomendasikan, dengan penuh perhatian kepadaku. Tentu sangat membuatku penuh. Haru. Hangat. Terkadang ingin mewek.

Buat kalian yang menyempatkan, untuk sekian detik, memikirkan playlist dan membaginya denganku. Aku sangat berterima kasih. Sangat berarti bagiku. Sungguh. Semoga kalian selalu dipenuhi cinta kasih setiap hari :)

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source: youtube.com Salah satu lagu yang aku nikmati akhir-akhir ini, silakan ikut mendengarkan jika berkenan.

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louie-d · 2 years

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My friend’s birthday celebration in Buluan Island, Zamboanga Sibugay, February 16–17, 2022.

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xcandydolluniverse · 6 years

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Buluan Island (Ipil, Zamboanga Sibugay)

During college days, I would only be using Marine Protected Area data I found online on the researches I work on - leaving me ponder about how it feels to be and what I would see in there. Now I could tick off visiting an actual marine sanctuary on my bucket list. :)

This is an overwhelming experience, especially since this place isn’t very accessible to most Filipinos, geographically and security wise, being in Mindanao.

I hope to visit more sanctuaries, and more hope that places like this are maintained and preserved for its natural beauty and wildlife!

#buluan #philippines

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yadukaru · 4 years

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Boating in Buluan Lake (02/10/17) #Yaduing #Buluan #Maguindanao #travelphilippines #travels #travelph #MyMindanao #WritingLife #Stories #People #bnwdocumentary #blackandwhitephotography #bnwworld #bnwphotography (at Lake Buluan) https://www.instagram.com/p/CGYq6F1nre1/?igshid=r0vj5afbazqz

#yaduing #buluan #maguindanao #travelphilippines #travels #travelph #mymindanao #writinglife #stories #people #bnwdocumentary #blackandwhitephotography #bnwworld #bnwphotography

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conanaltatis · 5 years

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Philippines' Resham Ramirez Saeed is Miss Supranational 2019 interview winner

Philippines’ Resham Ramirez Saeed is Miss Supranational 2019 interview winner

Resham Ramirez Saeed

Resham Ramirez Saeed, 25, Philippines was one of the four Miss Supranational 2019 interview winners. The other three winners were Jessica VanGaalen, 28, Ireland, Naomi Huth, 19, Singapore and Eva Louise Wilson, 22, New Zealand.

Hosted by Anita Jones and Domian Kordas, the Miss Supranational 2019 coronation night took place at the Międzynarodowe Centrum Kongresowe w Katowicach…

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#Buluan #Maguindanao #Miss Supranational 2019 #Philippines #Resham Ramirez Saeed

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princesspoula · 3 years

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Tour and Learn Filipino With Poula

Blog 1: Tour Guide for a Day

Yellow and bright. Sunny day, it is! Great way to start our day as a tour guide.

Coffee. The first step towards replenishing my wandering thoughts and lightening my not-so-heavy body. I gaze at the serene sea water filling my eyes with blue as I take a sip of its bitter-sweet taste. Water as turquoise as the sky, a soothing wind breeze, and tranquil sea waves...yes, this is life!Never in my life,had I thought that I'd wander off with this this line of work. Isn't it a dream come true to travel while earning a living? I used Filipino language so we will understand each other while showing how proud we are for being a Filipino.

Guests came at 7:10 a.m., their faces lit up with joy and bright grins. Seeing a guest is something that happens on a regular basis, but today is different; you can sense that they are looking forward to it.

Time check: 7:58 am. First stop — Stone Hills, for the longest time, this is my go-to place whenever visitors wants to taste something unique but fits with their palette. This place has never let me down; I would give it a perfect score of ten if I were a guest myself.

Noon, it was when we arrived at Buluan Island, as a Filipino tour guide, I exhibit the beauty of our spots and proudly showcased our language; by explaining to them both in Filipino and English language. It was a fun-filled experience not only for the tourist but also for… me too!

When we returned to the accommodation at dusk, they had already prepared food for them to eat. Tonight's dinner featured authentic and delectable seafood served in Bilao.

A serenading harana performed by their local band wrapped out the evening. It was a great alternative as lullaby; calming for the ears. It was wonderful to demonstrate our pride in our language and culture by sharing it. I also told them that most foreigners visit Palawan and Boracay. I hope next time I will be their tour guide for these place. This if for today now. Paalam!

Blog 2: Interviewing a Foreigner

It's thrilling to try new things and gain knowledge from them. Another day, a new adventure. I've never done an interview with a foreigner in the Filipino language before, and I'm looking forward to crossing it off my bucket list. Wenve Kim is a long-time internet friend with whom I've been eager to share this new experience. She was laid-back and quick to pick up new things, so I taught her in my native tongue. Her tongue went crazy at first, but she grew used to it after a few tries.She added that she will enroll in Filipino lessons in order to understand not only our language but also our culture and everything there is to know about us. It's both gratifying and terrific to be able to encourage someone who has taken a real interest in our culture as Filipinos. Paalam!

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joaqqquiin · 3 years

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POLITICAL DYNASTY - AMPATUAN

CHAPTER 1

INTRODUCTION

Introduction

Politics in the Philippines have been quite a contentious and fragile topic for the past decades. Politics have led to numerous outcomes such as disunity, distrust, dissension, dispute, and even violence. These are some of the factors that have contributed to how society in the Philippines acts in the present which commonly affects the atmosphere the people work and dwell in, the socio-economic status of Filipinos, and most importantly, the well-being of individuals. One example of a hot topic in the past is regarding the feud between late former president Ferdinand Marcos and the Aquino family. This topic is a topic that a number of people would call controversial due to the mixed views and feelings people have in regards to the topic. A riveting concept the two families have in common is that they are both political dynasties in the Philippines. Some people and politicians would consider political dynasties as a root cause of issues that arise such as poverty, bias, impunity, and even quarrels between political dynasties that may get in the way of making rational decisions and lead to neglection of appointed duties. A case in point which proves that political dynasties are nothing but problems was the largest massacre that the Ampatuan dynasty committed.

The Ampatuan massacre, or popularly known as the Maguindanao massacre, is a carnage which was a ploy made by the Ampatuan family to gain the upper hand against their rivals. This unfortunate event that the Ampatuan dynasty planned was recorded as the single deadliest event for journalists in history. Being a journalist is a reputable job as one is tasked with the obligation to inform the public with the news, however, the Ampatuan family has dented the country’s reputation of being a safe space for journalists as 32 were killed in the massacre. The Maguindanao massacre alone may show that the Philippines is not an utterly safe place not only for journalists but in general. The Ampatuan family has contributed greatly to putting the Philippines in a position where press freedom is attacked, impunity is exercised, and power is corrupted. The Ampatuan dynasty jeopardized the credibility of the nation as a fun and safe place to spend time with your family.

CHAPTER 2

SUMMARY

Background

The Ampatuan family is considered the largest political dynasty present in our country with over 51 members. A few prime members of this family are considered to be the most politically involved and have had the most transgressions. The late Andal Ampatuan Sr. was a patriarch of the Ampatuan clan and was also a main suspect of one of the largest massacres in the Philippines, the Maguindanao massacre. Before the case was resolved, Ampatuan died after falling into a coma caused by a heart attack. Andal Ampatuan has 4 sons, namely, Andal Ampatuan Jr, Sajid Ampatuan, Zaldy Ampatuan, Anwar Ampatuan Sr.

Andal Ampatuan Jr. was the 8th child of Andal Ampatuan Sr. and Bai Laila Uy-Ampatuan. He was known as the mastermind of the Maguindanao massacre and was convicted of 57 counts of murder alongside his brother, Zaldy Ampatuan. He is currently located at the New Bilibid Prison where he is sentenced to a maximum of 40 years without parole.

Sajid Ampatuan was among the accused of plotting the massacre. He claims that he had already cut ties with his family and said that he assisted his wife who was filing her candidacy at the time of the massacre. He was not present during the promulgation of judgement and was given 5 days to reason out his absence. Due to this instance, he was sentenced to life imprisonment with graft charges and lost his chance to appeal since the rule of court states that absence during the promulgation is not justified.

Zaldy Ampatuan was a governor of the Autonomous Region in Muslim Mindanao (ARMM) however he was expelled from office due to his participation in the massacre. It was said that he planned the Maguindanao massacre alongside his brother, Andal Ampatuan Jr. However, all charges against him were dropped, citing lack of evidence. This was until Justice Secretary, Alberto Agra, restored the murder charges against Ampatuan due to new findings.

Anwar Ampatuan Sr. is the brother of Andal Ampatuan Jr. He was part of the mastermind group and was also convicted with 57 counts of murder. Unlike Anwar Sajid and Anwar Jr. who were identified as first-class convicts or those who had plotted and fired at the victims, Anwar Sr. fell under the second class of suspects or those who had prior knowledge of the crime but were not at the crime scene.

Political History

The Patriarch of the Ampatuan clan, Andal Ampatuan Sr. was already a vice mayor in charge of Maganoy when President Marcos appointed him as mayor. Maganoy is now Shariff Aguack. However, in 1986, due to the People Power Revolution, President Marcos was departed, and Corazon Aquino came into power. As she came into power, she replaced every locally elected official with officers-in-charge. Ampatuan Sr. was also replaced by another Ampatuan, Datu Modi who served for two years in that capacity.

In 1988, after the 1988 local election, he served as mayor for 10 years as he had been winning three consecutive local elections 1988, 1992, and 1995. In his 10th year as mayor in 1998, he was elected as governor and started to accelerate his Clan activities. His family occupied almost all the political costs in the area, the family tried to widen the range of the power, and even, eighteen of the mayors in Maguindanao were once members of the Ampatuan clan.

In 2001, his clan solidified its hold on power by keeping a close friendship with Gloria Macapagal Arroyo. The reason for this is because Arroyo assumed the presidency after EDSA People Power II. And His choice was excellent. The family was appraised by the “Popular support” and openly supports Arroyo. In 2004, during the 2004 presidential elections, Arroyo came into power succeeding the previous president Joseph Estrada and dominated the polls in Shariff Aguack and most of Maguindanao.

And lastly, in 2006, Arroyo issued Executive Order 546, allowing local officials and the police to deputize local militia to aid in the fight against insurgents. This greatly contributed to the establishment of power in the Ampatuan Clan. The Executive Order was issued shortly after an assassination attempt on Andal Ampatuan Sr. and the end of the Clan's history and relationships was dreadful.

Issues they were associated with

It is no secret that fear is often instilled to control people. The Ampatuan clan, despite being popular and influential, they were feared. Numerous journalists would say, “They own the people'' or “The word of the Ampatuans was the law. The lives of the people living in Maguindanao would lie in the hands of the Ampatuan family as they had a private army consisting of 2000-5000 armed men composed of government-supported militia, local police, and military personnel. An instance when this private army was put into use was on the 23rd of November back in 2009. This instance was the Maguindanao massacre which would be the biggest issue of this political dynasty.

Maguindanao mayor Andal Ampatuan Jr. was challenged by Buluan vice mayor Esmael Mangudadatu as he was going to file his certificate of candidacy (COC). Vice mayor Esmael received death threats from his rivals so he thought that inviting journalists to his filing of COC would lessen the chances of ambushes. Esmael invited 37 journalists with him to file his COC. Along with the 37 journalists, there were also reporters, lawyers, aides and his family. As 58 of them were on their way to the Elections provincial office, they were kidnapped and murdered. Some were even raped before they were killed. There were at least 198 suspects including Andal Ampatuan Jr., Andal Ampatuan Sr. and several other members of the Ampatuan clan who were charged with 57 counts of murder. However, this was not the only issue the family had. They have a history of killing people way before the Massacre.

Back in 2005, 25 armed men in the military uniform killed the wife and child of Mando Tambungalan. He had identified that the suspects were hired killers on the Ampatuan payroll since he had been targeted by the Ampatuans for running for vice mayor of Datu Piang in 2001. In 2006, the Ampatuans planted a bomb which exploded near the Shariff Aguak market, killing five people, including Ed Mangansakan who was a known weapons supplier for the Ampatuans. Another instance of their wrongdoings was when motorcycle-riding gunmen, linked to the Ampatuan clan, shot and killed Judge Sahara Silongan while he was driving his family home. A relative of the judge believes he was killed for failing to issue an illegal warrant of arrest demanded by the Ampatuans. As well as in 2008, a cousin of Ampatuan, Jr., and his armed men allegedly shot and killed eight members of the Lumenda and Aleb families. One gunman told the Human Rights Watch that he and the others were ordered to shoot the family because the Ampatuans doubted their loyalty.

CHAPTER III

REFLECTION

Abad, Anton Angelo T.

My thoughts about the Ampatuan clan is that I'm surprised to see that they haven’t all been imprisoned and even some of them are still not arrested. I was shocked to read that they are responsible for the massacre and that they only did it because they didn’t want to get arrested. I think that people should learn more about these clans and start to plan a way to prevent them from gaining too much power. Because just like the Ampatuan clan they have so much power that they have their own private army and were able to delay there inevitable arrest for 51 murder.

Golamco, Janise Kate A.

The Philippines suffers from widespread corruption. From embezzlement, nepotism or police brutality, the common denominator to these actions is greed. Political dynasties such as the Ampatuan family are a huge factor to further influence these acts. Yet, people continue to tolerate their wrongdoings by doing nothing to prevent them. Because of fear, people have been silenced by their own timidity. Because of their own selfish desire, civilians were caught in the crossfire resulting in one of the largest politically involved massacres. The innocent lives lost cannot compare to merely a few years of imprisonment.

As students continue to grow and learn, it is vital that people know of the things that harm their society and strive for change. Influential families, such as the Ampatuans, use their power at their own disposal and further contributes to socio-economic inequality. It is why knowledge is greatly needed in order to stop corruption. By learning about the vulnerabilities and impacts of misconduct citizens are given a chance to end impunity once and for all.

Lee, Noah

After exploring the largest political dynasty in the Philippines, there are a number of things left on my mind. It has been 19 years since the gruesome mass murder took place and threatened the Philippines. But I would appreciate that still now, we are studying this and learning about that happening and being reminded to be wiser in how to live as people in this country. We have to know what is currently happening, and what is harming or damaging the order of our country. It is our duty to argue for justice in our society and politics and to heritage it to our next generations. To achieve our duty, we all have to have a bright notion about the corruption of power that someone longs for enough to commit mass murder.

However, the most damning aspect of the report for me was the support of the Ampatuans by the state, the police and the military, allowing them to consolidate their power. I strongly oppose the idea of making use of the public power for the private benefit of chosen families. It is said that there is no person above the law but I feel irritated about the fact that there is a person who takes advantage of the laws. Until we can generate real justice, we should keep our eyes on our country.

Velasquez, Joaquin Gabriel D.

Having the power to be able to do everything we want is something that if not all, most people dream of. The power to be exempted from the law, the power to generate money, the power to rule the world, or the power to make this all come true. To be able to obtain that amount of power is like living everyone’s dreams, but no, it makes us corrupt. Corruption of power is one of the deadliest aspects that can not only destroy an individual but also a whole nation. Corruption has been present in the Philippines for decades already, it has never left the country and I think it does not plan on leaving anytime soon. Corruption has many factors, it can be through pocketing money, abusement of power, and even the act of impunity. Impunity is as dangerous as corruption as it serves as an immunity pass to those with power. There have been several occurrences in which both impunity and corruption have been present, working hand in hand. A famous case is in the presence of political dynasties. Political dynasties have been believed to be the root cause of far-reaching problems in the Philippines.

The Ampatuan dynasty or family is one of many political dynasties present in the Philippines. The Ampatuan family is known for planning the biggest massacre which ended up killing around 57 people. Several suspects have been charged with 57 counts of murder. However, due to impunity, a large number of suspects are still at large. In respect to this, I do not condone the presence of political dynasties in our country. As a part of the youth, it is important that we are aware of when corruption and its likes are present, lurking around us. I may not have the power to be able to do everything I want but I have the power that not everyone has the ability to do, speaking up and using my voice to amplify the voice of those who are silenced by the effects of the wrongdoings of these political dynasties. Raising one’s voice does not necessarily mean joining rallies but spreading awareness regarding the wide-ranging effects of the influential families sitting in power. Not speaking up and allowing corrupted families in power to continue and degrade the country’s socio-economic status will make us all accomplices to the destruction of our nation as a whole for failing to protect it.

CHAPTER IV

CONCLUSION

Conclusion

The Ampatuans remain a powerful and dangerous force with which to be reckoned. For years, the department of justice and the military has been trying to get the Ampatuan family to pay for their actions yet they haven’t achieved full justice. A police officer once asked, “what do we do? This is an influential family.” The Ampatuan family is a powerful family with many connections making it hard for people to stand up against them. The trial of the Ampatuan massacre is a case that has far-reaching implications not only on press freedom in the Philippines but also on one of the biggest threats to the country’s democracy, impunity.

With impunity present in our country, killings and other illegal doings happen all around with no one to be held accountable. Thousands have been killed with impunity in the Philippines’ illegal war on drugs alone, how many more innocent people have died from other activities and remain greatly suppressed, away from where the world can see. In these cases, it is imperative that we equip ourselves with the proper knowledge and be a voice to those who are voiceless.

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grosirkaoskakicomel · 1 year

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cakarkuning · 4 years

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Kata orang aku cantik, tapi..

“Kayanya kurusin deh badan kamu, gak enak cewek kalo bergelambir gitu!”

“Ih itu juga muka, kamu kok iteman? Kamu pake motor sih, langsung kepapar sinar matahari, jadi item kan? Emang kamu gasuka pake sunscreen?”

“Kamu kok jadi jerawatan gituu, kamu emang ga skin carean apaa? Itu juga bekas-bekas jerawatnya, sayang banget muka kamu. Padahal dulu mulus banget.”

“Sekarang keliatannya bahagia banget ya! Pipinya makin chubby, eh tapi jangan terlalu bulet yaa, cantiknya kalo tirus. Tapi jangan ketirusan deh.”

“Yaallah, kaki kamu buluan? Padahal kaki kamu bentuknya bagus loh, gak buntet. Kaki kamu kaya kaki cowok aja. Emang gamau nyoba waxing?”

“Kalo idung kamu mancung sama kecilan dikit, udah top deh. cantik”

“Eh itu juga, idung kamu komedoan ya? Coba deh pake porepack anu. Jangan jangan emang kamu ga suka cuci muka ya?”

“Kamu buncit banget kaya ibu hamil, kecilin perutnyaa, jangan ngemil terus!”

“Itu lingkar mata kamu udah item banget, kamu suka begadang nih pasti?”

“Eh aku baru sadar, kamu kumisan yaa, emang kalo make up-an kumisnya gabakal ganggu tuh?”

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louie-d · 2 years

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BULUAN ISLAND | IPIL, ZAMBOANGA SIBUGAY

1 FEBRUARY 2022

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denisherman · 4 years

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KESURUPAN PALSU

Namanya Neni. Temen satu angkatan gue. Biar jelek item dekil begini, nyatanya gue bisa dapetin Neni yang mulus lahir batin. Jangan tanya caranya gue dapetin dia, karena jujur, ampe saat ini aja gue masih tanda tanya. Si Neni ini kelilipan angkot apa gimana. Tapi bodo amat dah, yang penting gue bisa pacaran sama dia.

Gue seneng banget hari ini, bukan karena nilai Kimia yang gak remedial, atau karena disenyumin Bu Mimin yang imut-imut, tapi karena lepas sekolah gue janjian ama Neni.

Waktu sekolah yang sedari tadi berjalan lambat akhirnya selesai juga, begitu bel bunyi, gue langsung ngibrit ke parkiran. Disana, terparkir dengan manis si Ringgo, motor kesayangan gue. Walaupun dia motor tua keluaran tahun 70, tapi masih enak banget buat dipake boncengan. Shock Breaker parkit emang gak ada lawan deh. Walaupun ketika ngelindes lubang suka bunyi, tapi masih mantul dengan sempurna. Nyahahaha

Tak lama berselang, Neni pun datang ke parkiran, “Naik motor siapa?” tanya dia sambil senyum. Manis. Banget.Bikin dada gue pesta pora.

“Motorku aja, gimana? Biar romantis. Dia kan lajunya pelan banget kek keong, bisa enak kita ngobrolnya.” terang gue sambil ngekek.

“Oke deh, tapi nanti kesini lagi ya pulangnya,” ucapnya riang.

Gue ngangguk, sambil langsung keluarin si Ringgo dari parkiran. Tanpa nunggu perintah, Neni naik ke jok belakang. Berangkaaat~

Jalanan kampung yang berdebu. Cuaca yang panas. Dan batu jalanan yang segede pala bayi. Gak jadi alasan buat gue berhenti senyum. Sepanjang perjalanan gue ama Neni ngobrolin banyak hal. Satu dua kawan sekolah yang mengenal kami memberi klakson. Ada juga yang berteriak ‘KIW’, bikin malu aja.

Neni ini ternyata lumayan nakal. Sepanjang perjalanan tangannya nemplok di paha gue. Itu dia kalo tangannya typo dikit, bisa nyentuh daerah lain, dijamin nyungseb ke sawah ini si Ringgo. Maka demi keselamatan bersama, gue tahan si Joni biar gak berontak. Jangan tanya siapa itu Joni, sebab dia susah untuk dijelaskan. Nyahahaha.

“Den, aku tau deh tempat yang enak buat pacaran,” bisik Neni di kuping gue. Brrrrr, langsung berdiri bulu-buluan gue.

“Dimana emang?” Tanya gue, berusaha se-cool mungkin.

“Udah, kamu ikutin arahanku aja.” Bisiknya lagi. Beuh, ini Neni, beneran bikin gue ser-seran.

Si Ringgo pun melaju mulus mengikuti jalan setapak. Ternyata Neni mengarahkan ke daerah perkebunan ubi. Lewat tanggul, sungai kecil, dan jembatan yang masih gantung. Rasa takut seperti tertutup sama kebahagiaan, walaupun jembatan gantungnya lebih mirip jalur menuju maut, gue santai-santai aja pake si Ringgo. Kalo gak lagi kasmaran, beuh, puter balik tuh pasti gue.

Gak seberapa lama, sampailah gue di sebuah gubuk. Nggak terlalu gede, tapi rapi dan teduh. Sejuk gitu, banyak angin. Setelah parkir, tanpa banyak cingcong si Neni narik tangan gue. Wah, tanda-tanda nih. Dada gue makin dag dig dug.

Pas masuk ke gubuk, ternyata ada dipan kayunya. Kokoh. Dan dengan cekatan si Neni buka hijabnya, dipake alas. Maafkan kami, Ya Allah.

Saking cekatannya, gue rasa ini bukan kali pertama si Neni ngelakuin ini deh. Tapi bodo amat lah. Gue pun mendekati Neni. Dia natap mata gue, lalu tiba-tiba meluk. Tanpa grogi dia cium pipi gue. Cup cup cup. Lembut bibirnya. Beuh.

Badan Neni juga wangi, walaupun seharian di sekolah, gak ada tuh bau-bau keringet. Cewek emang paling pinter jaga badan. Lalu tanpa canggung, bibir kami pun beradu. Macam kesetanan, Neni mulai menjulurkan lidahnya masuk ke mulut gue. Gila ni cewek, baru pacaran sehari udah kek gini. Emang dasar rejeki nomplok.

Karena gak tahan, tangan gue pun akhirnya belanja. Dari yang awalnya ngusap-ngusap punggung, sekarang beralih ke depan, memegangi dua benda berujung lancip yang kenyal. Pas gue remes, tiba tiba si Neni gigit bibir gue. Badannya kejang, kaku. Gue reflek teriak, karena emang sakit banget. Pas ciumannya lepas, si Neni tiba-tiba menggelepar gitu di atas dipan.

Sumpah, ini dia kenapa? Gue bingung banget ngeliat si Neni. Apa jangan-jangan dia kesurupan? Ini kan tengah-tengah kebun ubi, jangan-jangan ini gubuk ada setannya? Panik. Gue yang parno langsung teriak-teriak.

“Tulung! Tulung! Ada yang kesurupan! Tulung!” Sambil teriak, gue lari keluar gubuk. Sambil lari, terus aja gue teriak-teriak. Sampai ada tiga orang petani ubi yang denger suara gue.

“Kenapa, Jang?” Ucap satu Mamang dari kebun sebelah.

“Tulung, Mang. Itu Pacar saya kesurupan di saung! Tulung!” Gue panik, langsung minta pertolongan. Si mamang dan kedua temannya berlari mengikuti gue.

Pas nyampe saung, gue liat si Neni masih di posisi kayak tadi, “Itu, Mang, liat, Mang. Tolong, Mang, kesurupan, Mang!”

Si Mamang itu pun lalu memegangi si Neni, karena posisinya telungkup, dia angkat supaya wajahnya menghadap ke si Mamang, “Atuh bukan kasurupan ini mah, Jang!” si Mamang teriak.

Gue deketin mereka, ternyata benar saja, mulut si Neni mulai berbusa.

“Ini mah epilepsi, Jang. Ayo dibawa ke puskesmas aja,” si Mamang dan kedua temannya pun menggotong si Neni. Dan diletakan di motor kepunyaan si Mamang. Gue ikutin dari belakang sambil nepokin jidat. Goblok, goblok.

Sesampainya di Puskesmas, si Neni langsung dirawat. Gue kaget banget. Kirain si Neni kesurupan. Ternyata epilepsi. Duh-duh, nasib. Sambil duduk, gue ngerasain bibir gue makin nyeri. Tapi gak dirasa. Gue diem aja. Kedua Mamang yang nganter tadi langsung pamit balik ke ladang karena khawatir ninggalin satu orang kawan disana. Setelah gue berterima kasih dengan sebungkus rokok, mereke pun berlalu. Gue bengong di depan ruangan si Neni.

“Hey, kamu temennya si Neng yang di ruangan itu?” suara dokter membuyarkan lamunan gue.

“Iya, A. Gimana, A?” jawab gue terbata.

“Udah nggak apa-apa kok. Aman. Tapi itu kamu bibir kenapa? Ampe jeding begitu?” si Dokter ngikik sambil nunjuk ke arah bibir gue.

“Itu, mmmm, tadi kegigit sama si Neni, A,” jawab gue malu-malu. Kalo muka gue putih, pasti udah keliatan merahnya.

“Ohh, gitu? Abis ngapain emang?” goda si Dokter lagi, “makanya jangan aneh-aneh. Sekolah dulu yang bener, baru pacaran,” ujarnya, bijak.

Gue cuma garuk-garuk pipi yang nggak gatel.

Lepas kejadian kesurupan salah alamat itu, si Neni menghindari gue. Padahal gue gak mempermasalahkan, tapi besoknya dia susah banget ditemuin. Di-sms gak bales, ditelpon gak jawab. Didatengin ke kelasnya, dianya kabur ke kantin. Susah banget ditemuin lah pokoknya. Dan di hari ketiga, dia minta putus. Apa salah gue coba?

Dan seminggu berselang, gue liat si Neni dibonceng si Aa Dokter yang di Puskesmas beberapa hari lalu. Sial. Bibir gue yang bekas digigit kemaren, ngedadak kerasa sakit lagi, kali ini dibarengi sama nyeri di bagian dada. Gatau kenapa.

Lalu pada satu kesempatan, gue akhirnya beranikan bertanya, “Nen, kenapa waktu itu putusin gue?”

Dan dia jawab dengan ketus, “Kamu gak bawain jilbab aku pas ketinggalan di gubuk! Padahal kan itu jilbab baru! Kesel!”

Gue cuma bisa bengong dengan jawabannya.

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Nyahahaha, itulah salah satu cerita yang tertulis di buku ‘ALUMNI’ yang kesemuanya merupakan pengalaman pribadi si penulis, kalian suka sama ceritanya? Monggo dipesan bukunya langsung ke penulisnya, DM aja ke Quora. Harganya 52K, belom termasuk ongkir yaaa. Sekarang udah masuk PO Cetakan ke-3 lho, dan khusus buat pemesan di cetakan ini, bakalan dikasih bonus cap bibir dari penulis langsung. Iya, bibir yang itu, yang pernah digigit si Neni itu. Mayan kan? Nyahahaha.

Monggo dipesan lewat DM ke sini https://id.quora.com/profile/Denis-Herman/

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