#borderfluid

[cheeryfairygender]

BPD Neurogenders

Since both of the mods have BPD, I thought that I would try and collect all the BPD neurogenders I could find together! As inspired by @plurgai doing the same with OCD neurogenders.

Borderix: A gender relating to BPD in some way. This is a gender that feels stronger when the individual has an FP and feels almost nonexistent when without one.

Bordix: When having BPD is so intrinsically tied to your gender that you absolutely cannot separate the two. Alternatively, a neurogender for people with BPD, who feel like their gender is tied directly to being borderline. Alternatively again, a person with BPD who feels like their gender is null, and instead feel like their disorder, BPD, has replaced their gender.

Bordergender / borderfluid: A fluctuating gender experienced exclusively by people with BPD. A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on one’s identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. Having the sense of grasping at labels as much as possible to describe a gender one keeps questioning because one keeps second guessing one’s sense of self and, consequentially, one’s sense of gender.

Priborderic / bordericesse / royalborderic: Genders related to being royalty with BPD (prince, princess and non-binary royalty, in that order). These genders are connected to having BPD, BPD pride, prince/princess/royalty aesthetics, and non-binary girlhood / boyhood / being non-binary.

Rencgender: A gender that confuses and infuriates the person whose gender it is because of their BPD, causing the person to impulsively collect labels trying to find one that fits.

Exagender: A gender for those with BPD, influenced or affected by the approval of others. It is usually affected or altered by splitting, which can result in a gendered feeling that is in contrast with the person’s ‘actual’ experience of their gender.

Focigender: A gender identity that is influenced by or shifts with your hyperfixations/obsessions. Was primarily made with those with ADHD and BPD in mind.

Genderkrieg: A gender where one has multiple genders that harshly contradict one another, due to personality disorders.

Incertagender / aselfgender: A gender describing when one has no true gender, due to a shaky sense of self from BPD. Instead of flipping through them like borderfluid, you simply can’t make out one that feels right.

Glutinfernal: A gender for when obsessive-compulsive behaviors (such as hoarding) or a desire to obtain objects (such as kleptomania) creates an identity surrounding a deep desire to keep objects, and a deep fear to lose them. In those with borderline personality disorder, this can also translate as a deep desire to keep people, and a deep fear to lose them. It was based off of the deadly sin of gluttony.

Gemichromaeic: A colourgender defined by black and white, absence of colour, & black-and-white feelings/view of your own dysphoria and euphoria. Often tied to feeling empty and forlorn, greys, blacks, sepia, and feelings of disconnect from human binary in favor of your self-made binary. Can also be  defined by impressionable gender presentation, switching between singular presentations depending on your surroundings or people around you. Was coined during the creator’s BPD.

[mogai-headcanons]

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Baikinman from Soreike! Anpanman is an enbian diamoric bacteriagender narkissigender daegender mischiefgender clowngender egogender pyrogender caelgender astralgender boggender being who uses he/him, vi/lai, vi/vir, and ha/no pronouns, and ha made up the last set haself!

Dokin-chan is a flamfemme enbian diamoric borderfluid histrigender princessgender lunadarian helidarian overfemme altexoy altexirl loverboy femache who uses she/her, luv/luvs, let's/go/girlself, and love/struck pronouns, and let's made up the last two sets lovestruckself!

Horrorman is an enbian diamoric apangender gendermeh fatugender egogender cassgender genderwhatever genderblank gendermaybe maybinary skeleton who uses he/him pronouns only out of apathy!

The three are in a queerplatonic diamoric polycule!

dni link | requested by @epiceneandroid

[theunluckyvandalist]

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[genderqueer-dream]

Neurogender folks are fantastic!

Neurogenders are important labels that help many people describe themselves!

Neurogenders are not ableist, quite the opposite!

Support neurogender people this disability pride month!

[fictionalred]

Apparently it's all over Europe 🙃

Every Belgian on my dash rn

[moistmogai]

Hey I was wondering if you could redesign the borderfluid/bordergender flag? I don't really like how the original looks.

omg why does it look like that?

!Disclaimer! I don't hold BPD symptoms in the system but I'll do it because our system has BPD. If anyone who experiences BPD is offended by what I create feel free to tell me off and fix it.

I tried to keep the general color scheme but make the stripes less, like, idk, something about the old flag kinda bothered me no offence so I get it. Hopefully this ones easier to look at.

[bastardcl0ver]

i made a more typical looking bordergender / borderfluid flag! The original design was hard for me to look at without getting anxiety

Here’s the original! Couldn’t find who originally designed it! If you know tell me and i’ll link them!

[cubeflag]

Bordergender / Borderfluid flag

(A fluctuating gender experienced exclusively by people with BPD. A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on one’s identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. 

Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a disorder of mood and how a person interacts with others.   )

[mogai-headcanons]

icon id: 2 icons in a pair. both have the listed flags in order in the background and the left has an image of the listed character with a white outline and a black shadow.

banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.

Kinito from KinitoPET is an autistic bisexual bikenolux epicene genderglitch borderfluid autigender axolotl with ADHD, OCD, HPD, and BPD!

dni link | requested by @epiceneandroid

[heliflower]

I was bored and did some bordergender backgrounds 😔👌🏻

I have diagnosed BPD and am on the autism spectrum and I found bordergender perfectly explains my relationship with gender

[theunluckyvandalist]

Borderfluid mafuyu icons [using my brown skin edits]

Credit/tag me if used!!

[xeno-aligned]

Are there any genders along the lines of "can't tell what their gender is due to weak identity/sense of self"? Preferably a neurogender (bpd or depression)

here’s some that might work for you!

Rencgender: A gender that confuses and infuriates the person whose gender it is because of their BPD, causing the person to impulsively collect labels trying to find one that fits.

Bordergender / Borderfluid: A fluctuating gender experienced exclusively by people with BPD. A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on one’s identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. Having the sense of grasping at labels as much as possible to describe a gender one keeps questioning because one keeps second guessing one’s sense of self and, consequentially, one’s sense of gender.

Exagender: A gender for use by people with Borderline Personality Disorder. It is influenced or affected by the approval of others. It is usually affected or altered by splitting, which can result in a gendered feeling that is in contrast with the person’s ‘actual’ experience of their gender.

Alexigender: A term for when you are unable to describe your gender due to neurodivergency - you cannot put it into words. You may have a vague idea of what your gender is or could be; if so it can be used as alexigenderqueer, for example. Alexigender can be used in combination with another identity, or it can be a stand-alone.

Mistigender: A gender that’s like mist or fog, and when you try to grab at it (think of it, describe it) it just… slips through your hands, and it only comes back after you stop trying to grab at it.

Vaguegender / Gendervague: A gender being mostly or around a certain gender (or mostly around a certain gender), but is only approximate on account of difficulty defining it due to one’s neurodivergence.

Foggender: A gender which is close to a certain gender, but cannot be directly pinpointed due to brainfog (a lack of concentration or wakefulness associated with ADHD, fibromyalgia, depression, etc.). Can be combined with relevant genders.

[queerso]

borderfluid flag emojis please??

[neurogender]

i think i might be bordergender or borderfluid. i’m just having a hard time being 100% sure of my gender. i thought i might be a binary trans man but maybe not. i’m just going through it. any tips to help figure this out? i really like the label borderfluid

well, i mean... the very definition of bordergender/fluid is having trouble figuring out your gender. “A gender identity lacking a firm grasp on one’s identity, while still experiencing gender, to varying degrees, but having trouble pinning it down to just one label or identity. Having the sense of grasping at labels as much as possible to describe a gender one keeps questioning because one keeps second guessing one’s sense of self and, consequentially, one’s sense of gender.”

so, yeah you could be a binary trans man or bordergender/fluid, but you could also be both. they’re not exclusive

[genderqueer-dream]