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about to be a liitttllle bit controversial here but i’m not sure i like how tarot at this point in tumblr spaces mostly cater to 18+ soulmate readings, who will be your soulmate, what will your love life be like, etc etc.
#i'm not saying there's anything wrong with that but!!!#it gets redundant!!!#and honest to god stale!!!#like it's truly catering to the public at this point#instead of finding something different#to enrich people's spiritual life#and hey im also not saying#that tarot can't be used for fun like romance#but having to see that on a daily basis?#just to like#boost people's egos??#idk how i feel abt this#DISCLAIMER THIS IS MY SUBJECTIVE OPINION#tarot#this isn't twitter#it's tumblr#following count doesn't MATTER#not that im indicating that most people do it for the following count#if they have fun#good for them#but it just gets tiring having to see that be#the majority of tarot feed#on a daily basis#imo
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i stg people better not be fucking complaining because armand/lestat backstory isn’t the same as the books when the whole point of the series is they’re all SHITTY NARRATORS with SHITTY MEMORY who CANT BE TRUSTED because versions of events frequently CHANGE depending on WHO IS NARRATING
#armand#daniel molloy#interview with the vampire#amc iwtv#iwtv s2#louis de pointe du lac#loumand#can people learn the definition of an adaption#i’m begging i can’t go on like this anymore#it’s not going to be the same as the books as much as you want it to that’s why they’re two different entities#made in entirely different media forms#please#i undertand being disappointed but you kinda sound silly nitpicking#just let armand lie about pulling#he needs the ego boost
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You want to prove Zuko is the better man so bad but he only got 1 kid and Aang got 3 so who’s the ‘alpha’ now?
😬😬😬 Maybe I spoke too soon when I said Kataang shippers weren’t as outwardly misogynistic as they used to be
#well idk maybe not outwardly since all you people are cowards on anon#all seriousness though this logic is so gross#wtf even#using child production as a marker of superior masculinity is such a disturbing idea#they are *people* not objects to boost your ego#besides aang was a shit father compared to zuko so#die mad ig#katara deserves so much better than the kataang fandom#zutara#anti kataang#anti aang stans#zuko#katara#ask#anon#hall of shame
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Thinking a little bit about that one "I'm an English major and a professional as opposed to you amateurs" anon. Gonna roast 'em a little bit, but with the intention of addressing a thing we've had in mind for a while.
Real talk, coming from someone who WAS an English major; majoring in English is not necessarily a guarantee that someone is a good writer. For one, you can be bad at your major, full stop. For another, it's not even a guarantee that someone identifies as a writer to begin with. English as a major is pretty broad, and it covers reading too, among other things. There's library science, analytical academia, historical preservation & interpretation (MEDIEVAL MANUSCRIPTS HELL YES), editing, nonfiction trades (often crosses over with STEM majors), marketing (crosses over with business majors), and also book design and typography (<3 <3 <3 our favorite, crosses over with art majors).
Someone can major in English and take a specific minor with the goal of falling into a trade that is not writing literary fiction. In fact, we would argue that most people who get something useful out of their major are the ones that do that.
It's also worth noting that it's possible to be an English major focused on "lowbrow" fiction. There are people who major in English and use the experience towards the end of writing erotica. There are people who major in English with the intent to write genre fiction. There are people who major in English to study the history and social context of fanfiction.
These things are, in fact, worthy fields of study! The realm of the "amateur" is the realm where a lot of cultural conversations and innovations happen!
Expecting English as a major to be a tract specifically for producing acclaimed literary fictionists is not realistic, not how the discipline typically works, and it's certainly not a thing you can use to hold over other writers' heads. It is perfectly possible for people to write good things (professional-grade things even) without ever touching a college course.
I sat through so much bad writing in college. Technically bad, thematically bad, gramatically bad. And I routinely bump into non-graduate authors who write texts, formal and informal alike, that blow my own writing clean out of the water with their quality.
In short, dismissing other people in your general field as "amateurs" who are beneath you is an incredibly unprofessional thing to do.
#writeblr#basically this is an anti-elitism post#sometimes we see elitism creeping back into writeblr#and as academia enthusiasts we feel the need to respond to it by whacking it with a broom#because! if you were really dedicated to the honing and preservation of knowledge & skill! you would NOT! be! dismissing people offhand!#and you would especially not be putting them down to boost your own ego!#you would be learning from them or politely leaving them the FUCK alone to do their own thing while you focus on yours!#*general you here#i know we sound angry here but please imagine us saying all of this with wicked glee while whacking Amateur Anon with said broom#because we are saying it out of enthusiasm for the people who are making cool things around here#ourselves included because we are not allowed self-deprication anymore
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Hm, guys. Quick update
Remember my Crowley tattoo?
So, I've been holding myself against dyeing my hair red, cause I knew I would lose my mind, but turns out...
I have the jeans
I have the boots
I have the shirt
I will have the sunglasses on Tuesday
I will have the red hair on Wednesday
I will have the vest on Friday
I will get the yellow snake contact lenses the week after
...I guess Crowley season is officially open
After Friday, you can officially picture the person behind the screen as a wish version of Fyre Type David Tennant Pokemon
#and you know this will completely consume my personality and boost my ego like nothing in my life ever was#you think im annoying? you havent seen shit#for the people that know me irl: i apologize in advance#good omens#crowley#anthony j crowley#spencer speaks#david tennant
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I just saw a few "beginner artist" animations and posts that had gained some traction and their comment sections actually made me pretty seethingly upset.
"Experienced" artists really just jump on "beginner" artists to tell them all the 2 to 5 to 50 things that they can do better. All under the guise of "I'm just tryna help" and coated with "you have potential!". Well I am also a fellow artist and that is so haughty and discouraging to me. Some artists need to get off their hyper realistic objectively superior anatomically correct high horses and give the goofy newbie ones some fucking room to breathe. Leave beginner artists alone, a tip or two is fine but they do not need 20 people correcting all their "mistakes" and giving tips and criticism where it was never asked for. I genuinely feel so bad for these beginning artists who put in effort to create something, and that's the foremost beauty of art, only to get jumped like prey by all these other artists who fail to appreciate the very core of what they claim to teach. If you do that, THEY DON'T NEED YOU to grow as artists, and that's assuming you even wanted to help and not just having a superiority complex
#if people ask for criticism thats a different story. Im not here to tell you you cant say what you want. free speech and whatever#its the internet#but holy SHIT#if I had gotten this amount of “experienced” artists seeing my newbie artwork#ough I shudder at the thought. Horrible#blabber#art#I will tell you right now I criticize etc some art in private. with friends. dont do that in the artist's face are you kidding me#If a baby takes its first steps are you going to give it a 5 minute pep talk on its posture correction and how to run#like no oh my god the baby will be fine. People new to their craft will be fine#are you gonna do that because it gives you an ego boost because youre better at walking than a baby. no youre not!!!
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People findinging out that antisemitism does, in fact, victimize people
#jumblr#jewish politics#antisemitism tw#nothing is more instantly frustrating than the 'jews just want to victimize themselves!' thing#yes actually. bigotry victimizes people. that's why it's called bigotry#honestly this is just me venting about this because i see this way too much#it's even more confusing how much i see it from 'leftists'. you sound worse than my conservative family#it's less that leftism is a set of principles to some but rather that it is an ego-boost i think#it's the aethetic of being a Good Moral Person without any of the work#you won't have to make any uncomfortable reckonings with your own pitfalls#you don't need to worry about what Actual Inclusion looks like because that's not the appeal of leftism#the appeal of leftism is how it props you up#i think in this case this is less a horseshoe theory moment rather it's just that people just...#don't care about the principles they say they have adopted because aethetics are a very attractive set of values#and the people who are hurt most by this is everyone else. it's the jews who won't make a stop in entire cities because they are unsafe#also to make this emphatically clear: antisemitism victimizes people (primarily jews)#this does NOT mean that i am saying someone is like... essentially a victim or they are Cursed or whatever else#recognizing that someone can be victimizes doesn't mean that someone is by character/nature a victim
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So I made an evil cult leader bard & have been drawing her a lot lately <3
#jolly's art#dungeons and dragons#dnd#dnd 5e#d&d#bard#sketch#digital art#illustration#drawing#art#tiefling#werewolf#wolf#ttrpg#fantasy#artists on tumblr#oc#she is a spoiled brat who gets everything she wants and has the biggest god complex known to man and beyond#she researches eldritch knowledge and manipulates people to do her bidding. deadass full on has a cult of her own to boost her ego :)#she reached lvl 9 recently and contracted lycanthropy during the sessions
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a piece for my art history class [tags for info]
#GAHRG im so normal about this one#the theme was “i am great” and we had to basically boost our ego while in the style of an artistic avant garde#i chose art nouveau for this piece :]#i make art because it connects me to humanity past present and future#making art is in humanity's instict. i am a result of all that people knowledge practices and moments#and that i represent with the “cosmic” theme. its the universe#the universe loves me and i love the universe#theres a lot of symbolism as well. narcissus flowers are the most obvious#the laurel wreath and the peacock feathers represent pride and glory#theres a total of 9 white stars in the piece a number considered the “perfect” number for being the highest digit#and some ivy at the top to bring it all together “connection”#this piece ended up being very important to me. i printed it out and have it framed in my room lol#yeag#my art#illustration#digital art#artists on tumblr
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Oooooooooo maybe laywright?
gay as fuck to be solving puzzles with another man
#professor layton#ace attorney#hershel layton#phoenix wright#laywright#me and the bad bitch i pulled by being autistic etc etc#i dont ship these two in any serious capacity#but they are objectively funny as fuck#ive talked abt this with my friends before#i think they fucked once and it was great and a huge boost to phoenix's ego#but it wouldnt last because phoenix is exclusively attracted to bottom of the barrel people he thinks he can fix#when the tables turn and suddenly the professor is trying to fix HIM he gets overwhelmed and ends it#he will NOT call him but maya and luke still keep in touch which makes it even worse for phoenix#tldr i only ship these two when its really fucking funny
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i hate that Media Literacy is the latest new thing the tortured underground posters of tumblr have latched their sense of moral superiority to bc like like here's a life skill that's actually essential, invaluable, incredibly important for navigating day-to-day life, that is objectively a Good Thing, a lack of which is something that ought to be cause for concern (all of which is unlike previous subjects that have been paraded around as Indicators of Superiority like having sex and doing drugs and going to clubs or whatever when theyre literally just things people choose to do) but people on this site cannot go a single day without being so fucking condescending about it and making it less about "genuine issue in modern society we should talk more about" and more "uhhhh i interpreted this anime Better Than You Did which means im better and smarter than you completely ignoring the fact this is a skill that is learned/taught and not born with and isnt an inherent indicator of morality".
#it already grated me a little the wrong way when it started . as a person who struggles w reading for a number of reasons including but#not limited 2 disability but i didnt think too much of it cuz i was like#Oh they dont mean harm theyre just rightfully worried aboutit. We all should be#but now its v clear its just a quick way to feel like youre better than all the other Virgin Shut In Sober Losers like oh okay#i dont expect people on tumblr to teach other people reading comprehension or thinking skills. there is a reason theres entire classes for#that#no internet user chilling on their own blog should be expected to educate others#but i truly feel some people care less about informing others and more about a good ego boost#t#anyways. posts that will put me in witness protection
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Hello I have been using your blog as a source for book recommendations and I picked up 2666 the other day and I’m really enjoying it so far. thank you for talking about your interests for free I really appreciate it.
You're welcome, but remember: the only reason I don't monetize this blog is to offset the hidden costs of following me.
#i love getting to know people well enough to be able to recommend specific books that i know will interact with their medication but also#the ego boost i get when the thing i rec ends up being a whalefall that feeds everyone is unparalleled#with my meat huge my suffering endless and my taste impeccable i trudge onward#assbox#lakemichiganed
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Interesting commentary about how most people will identify with victims/victimhood while feeling discomfort when others identify with perpetrators, especially given the fact we live in societies (at least the one I’m in and the one that book was written in) that habitually materially revile victims on every level while championing and supporting perpetrators of certain violence.
#human reads time limited hunt#this convo comes up cause jiang lian is explaining to shi shanyan#how he wishes yan junxun would get at least one case wrong#because his ability to empathize with serial killers to this degree#unsettles ‘normal folks’#but at the same time#is anyone *really* indentifying with the victims?#because the only reason why the crimes in this book happened#are because neither people nor institutions helped ANY actual victims#in fact they were using actual victims’ stories for prestige and ego boosts#even the victim-turned-serial-killer is using revenge killing *other* people’s assaulters#to make herself feel better#and because of that she ends up fucking up#and murdering an innocent man!#anyways reminds me of that study on kids#that said that showing bullying in kids shows#actually doesn’t prevent bullying#because bullies identify with the victims in shows#while adopting the fictional bullies’ tactics irl#so no lessons were learned#because nobody identified themselves as having the capacity to harm#or at least to harm the ‘undeserving’#weaponization of victimhood and the aesthetics of innocence and docileness#or something like that#time limited hunt
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it's sweet that people make those posts that are like "your f/o cares about you and thinks you're the most important person in the world and would do anything and give the world for you" but I can't relate to them at all
like no Eggman doesn't gaf and he's his favorite person and biggest love forever and wants to own the world and rule it by himself. I'm just some guy with no significance besides setting an example of how loyal members of the empire should be, who he might let hit just because it's good for his ego and it serves his needs. but I'm genuinely a simp so I don't mind and specifically into and want that as a dynamic in fact lol
#also I'm aro so Idc about like big romantic things and massive displays of affection and devotion to me like that#I like to be like that towards him in my concepts though just with a less romantic angle XD#I like when people say he'd be proud of spreaking the word of his glory though because he likes the ego boost and indoctrination hehe#dr eggman#eggman#dr robotnik#dr. eggman#f/o#villain f/o#self ship#self shipping#self ship community#self shipping community#my post
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thinking about gijinka!metal sonic again. bc like in a humanisation she’d be like the biological kid of eggman right? and that’s giving me such brainrot. the tl;dr is that she was born through surrogacy to serve as eggman's heir when he dies and basically she was raised to be eggman 2 (her deadname is literally ivo jr) and despite growing up with a safe, wealthy environment with a ton of education she never really felt loved by her father so after he and sonic start fighting she pretty much immediately both replaces half her body with cybernetics to serve as a useful pawn in her fathers schemes and started dying her hair in the hopes that if she looked like sonic she'd at least get any attention. she eventually ran away (after realising she was trans and being terrified of her father not accepting her) and like kinda did the whole sonic heroes thing but being like a human meant she couldn’t just be reset so. she just kinda started serious therapy and now is in an awkward midground where she has absolutely no idea who’s side she’s on. i also have some more detailed thoughts on her under the cut if u want.
the modifications she did to her body for her cybernetics stunted her growth a lot. she was short as a kid and as a teenager she's like 4’7 max. it was extremely invasive and painful, but she was that desperate for any sort of familial love. being eleven it was not exactly done great and while she’s a terrifying combatant she's in and out of hospital the rest of her life for some reason or another.
eggman does actually fully support her transition, bc while he's a terrible dad he does on some level genuinely care about her and like, he cares more about her continuing the mad science legacy than how she presents herself.
she’s very much a sheltered rich kid. the closest thing she’s ever had to a friendship is trying to murder her fathers arch nemesis, and that started when she was eleven she didn’t have any sort of friend before that. her socialisation is messed up enough that despite technically still being fully human (just with very advanced cybernetics) she's still very much the maladjusted violent ball of anger and jealousy she is in canon. sonic and co literally thought she was just a very humanoid killer robot for years. like, up until heroes. but no it’s just severe trauma.
she does however have more hobbies than torturing small animals! she's fond of liveleak.com, licking batteries until she's electrocuted (her modifications prevent her from being seriously injured), and inventing weaponry. she eventually picks up some less… concerning hobbies after a bit of therapy and spending time with sonic and co. (she particularly enjoys fashion and, surprisingly enough, animal crossing).
she mostly resembles her father (her biological mother was specifically picked so that’d be the case, along with many other stringent requirements) but she looks close enough to maria robotnik that she Constantly freaks shadow out. especially bc she is again very sickly and probably will die young bc of the complications with replacing half of her body including her brain with cybernetics made by an eleven year old. she exploits this to experiment on him when she’s bored. she’s not as familiar with biological sciences as robotics but she does kinda want to Not Die and unethical experimentation on the immortal ultimate life form helps.
yes, her nine year old pre-cybernetics appearance is deliberately meant to look a little like alex kidd with the messy hair and pallet. bc she’s neglected in favour of sonic. why not.
#my art#human metal sonic au#sonic humanization#sonic gijinka#metal sonic#transfem metal sonic#i hope eggman looks as fucking out of his depth as he can get in a doodle#he is Not a good parent to robot kids let alone human ones#he just wanted an ivo jr for the ego boost and he didn’t even end up with that#though he did end up with a daughter who shares his passion for robotics and exploiting people so he’s not mad lmao#neglect tw#abuse tw#since like. child neglect is abuse lmao#do her cybernetics count as body horror idk#bc they’re not like prosthetics or anything they're like. forcibly grafted on#and replace a good half of her organic body#including her organs :D
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Im not crazy
#i say as i like the 500th oj related thing i see#i love hom so much its not even funny anymore??#like ??#i dint know why im so drawn to him . he literally isnt even that cool#(yes he is)#to me. hes cool to me#hes really cool to me#idk why people just disregard him when hes literally a really important part of ii#like you can not care for him but ACKNOWLEDGE HIM!!!#he probably would giggle and kick his feet being acknowledged#little NARCISSISTIC fuck he needs to die#hes already dead. i cant say that#he would love to be talked about it'd boost his ego and he could boast even more than he already does#i want him GONE#oj ii#inanimate insanity#yap hour#not art
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