#biphobes need not interact

[epitome-of-an-openbook]

As a multi-shipping bisexual person who has been crying tears of joy for the past two episodes over the bi-buck story arc - I need you all to know that the weirder you guys are about it (and let's be real right now, you guys are being INCREDIBLY weird about it), the more uncomfortable I, an actual real life queer person, get with Buddie.

I genuinely love Buddie, one of my all time favorite fics across any fandom is "My Fingerprints Smeared on Your Heart", but I'm very hesitant to believe it will ever happen. So when ABC brings in Tommy and starts a VERY WELL WRITTEN and BEAUTIFUL queer story that UPLIFTS MY HEART and then I go into fan spaces to see people trashing on BuckTommy, or screaming "no Buck thats the wrong guy", or wanting the relationship to end with Buck cheating (which is incredibly biphobic btw) with Eddie, or implying/hoping that Tommy is an abuser that Buck can be saved from by Eddie, or any of the countless other scenarios that turn Buck's happily-and-safely-exploring-his-sexuality arc into small-or-traumatic plot point for the purpose of making Buddie canon it makes me feel deeply uncomfortable with Buddie and my fellow 911 fans. And that makes me sad, because I love fan spaces and I love interacting with people who like the same things as me!

Also, please learn the difference between queerbaiting and queer coding.

[lafemmemacabre]

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DNI ~ Not that it stops the wrong people, but...

No lesbophobes, misogynists, biphobes, transmisogynists, transphobes or homophobes.

No transandrophobia bros.

No racists (including antiblack poc), antisemites or zionists. No US or otherwise imperial core chauvinists. Your lives aren't more worthy than those of the global south.

Very much uninterested on liberals interacting with me or my posts, for the love of God please leave me alone.

I'm very against the whole m-spec "lesbian" bullshit and no you will not convince me that it's #Valid. I'm not interested in the politics of the validity of identity labels, I'm only interested in labels in their capacity to describe our positionality within hierarchies of power and oppression. Lesbian identity describes specific gender relations within our established patriarchy, and part of those gender relations is as women or women-adjacent people who do not willingly form sexual or romantic relationships with men outside of sex work or other similar survival needs.

I'm similarly opposed to TME people claiming the transfem label. Fuck off.

If you're an able-bodied person who thinks physically disabled people have it somehow easier, are more believed, or are given more compassion/sympathy, and/or you co-opt our struggles, kindly kill yourself. <3

If you're someone who thinks misogyny is Oppression Lite™ also kindly kill yourself yes even if you're LGBT/disabled/etc. I don't care. Die. <3

I'd rather swifties stay the fuck away from me purely because you're all insufferable even if the mediocre white woman you all were worshiping wasn't a snake billionaire polluter bully.

[a-bit-too-critical]

YALL I make PFPs and profile decor on another blog of mine and I’ve made some out of Hellaverse stuff… the amount of Vivzie supporters I’ve attracted to that blog makes me feel like the stupid despicable me double life song (I have to tag the actual Hellaverse tags so that the posts get out there and it sucksss, we need a tag for people who don’t support Viv and like fanon/AU/rewitten Hellaverse instead of canon)

Some highlights include:

- That one time I had to force myself to make Stolitz matching PFPs for a request because I promised I would answer everything that didn’t break my dni 😭 (it hurt my soul but the requester seemed nice so I just did it and tried to forget about it-)

- …THIS

TW STELLA IS CRAZY BRO WHAT THE HELL

The Stolas stans kill me istg

- the one person I actually was so repulsed by I had to block them from my blog (if you’re just interacting with the PFP blog then it takes a lot to make me block you considering it’s just silly profile decor) (they were. Ahem. Proship, an aroace exclusionist, called pansexuality a biphobic and transphobic version of bisexuality (as a bisexual, wtf-) , oh yeah they were also truscum or whatever the frick it’s called. Also they had the nerve to call themself the “Eminem of tumblr”, whatever the frick that means). Worst part? They weren’t even a helluva fan. They reblogged some Villainous Pfps I made like that’s actually a good show please get out of the fandom-

- also got so many minors dni and “anti-vivzies” dni like bro I don’t think you read my intro 😭

[nqueso-emergency]

Reality check for both fandoms

Neither Buddie or Bucktommy matters. Hope that helps.

Tim told you himself, what fandom wants does not reflect what the general audience wants at all. For those of you too stupid to figure it out, I'll help. Buddie is not happening, because the general audience sees them as close friends and brothers. Tevan, Bucktommy or whatever the fuck you call it is also at the mercy of the general audience. They decide they don't want to see Buck with a man or Tommy? He's gone, and his bisexuality was a phase. Buck will be with a female love interest next season as a long-term partner. You better hope a certain new show does well, or guess who will be his next long term partner if it gets cancelled.

At the end of the day, fandom is seen only as a tool for interaction online with a show as big as 9-1-1. You want one that cares about the fandom, find one with such low ratings you might actually matter. Oh wait, those shows get cancelled.

In the meantime, all of you need to grow up. You are acting like toddlers full on bullying and harassing people. "Spy network"? Please tell me at your full grown age what your boss would think of you if they found out, because they just might.

Wow. So much to unpack here...

Uhm... being bisexual isn't a phase? That's extremely biphobic.

And yes, general audience matters but not in how they write the show.

Please go back to your corner and educate yourself

[userautumn]

I don’t think O Stark was trying to be malicious or biphobic but he worded some answers poorly and kind of came off a tad heartless. Also, this week hasn’t been a good week for many people and add in a major part of the fandom saying bucktommy bones, his comments must feel like the last straw especially because up until this point, he seemed really positive about the relationship.

I mean, I won't say he seemed positive about the relationship at all, to be honest. He's been positive about Buck being bisexual, which a lot of people unfortunately and wrongly conflated with him being positive about the Queer relationship itself. But Oliver has always seemed neutral about Buck and Tommy together, which is fair and a non-issue to me. His eager endorsement is not required for him to be a professional and do his job, which he did. I think a lot of people set themselves up for disappointment in a lot of significant ways by trying to compare the way Oliver spoke about Buddie to the way he spoke about BuckTommy by convincing themselves the two are/were comparable. But they weren't. I understand why people did it—with so many loud voices invalidating or speaking negatively about the ship, it was very easy to try and create valid "defenses" to combat that. But in doing so, I think people placed way more weight on Oliver's scant interactions with the ship than maybe he intended.

So now, we fast forward to the present where Oliver, the actor, is thrilled that Buck, the character, is single and Oliver, the actor, can explore what it means to have fun with and play a bisexual character on screen. It's okay for him to feel this way, and to want to have fun with this character now that he's not in a monogamous relationship. But the way he phrased this sentiment came across, to some people, as a mimicry of what we've been hearing all summer—that Buck needs to "explore his bisexuality" in order for his sexuality to be valid, which is biphobic and is also simply not true. So high emotions, and Oliver's own careless word choice, created a perfect storm of biphobic accusations that aren't one hundred percent fair, especially considering how carefully this show has treated this character and this relationship thus far.

I understand the hurt feelings, I really do. A lot of people who relied on this escapism and who put high hopes into BuckTommy endgame are trying to find equilibrium after this surprising shake-up, and I truly do get it. I'd just caution and advise people to not let their emotions become so inflamed that they lose sight of rationality and decency, and to maybe check their own fandom interactions/beliefs to make sure they didn't succumb to a BuckTommy hivemind in the same way Buddies often succumb to a Buddie hivemind.

[itsgreeb]

some of yall have never had your views challenged in an unfriendly yet justified way

some of y'all don't know that addiction is a mental illness

some of y'all have never had to interact with an actually mentally ill person who is still struggling with making healthier choices

some of y'all are sexist

some of y'all do not understand the intricacies of abusive relationships

some of y'all do not fundamentally understand that change takes not just time but lots of patience too

some of y'all haven't had to deal with true grief yet

some of y'all do not get that chronic illness is disabling and disorienting and frustrating

some of y'all do not get that neurodivergence is disabling and disorienting and frustrating

some of y'all can't handle the fact that people are allowed to voice their opinions in a strong and impolite way regardless of of who they're talking to

some of y'all have never needed to question authority in your privileged lives

some of y'all are transphobic, biphobic, polyphobic, queerphobic in general

some of y'all have never had to consider the little guys, nor the sacrifices attached to grand leaders and their grand plans

some of y'all clearly haven't learnt that it's not about you all the time

some of y'all cannot handle the concept of nuance

some of y'all just don't have any empathy i'm convinced

and all of us forget to take a step back once in a while and remember that this is a Fictional Story full of Fictional Problems. so here's a reminder.

[autismcultureis]

"What is this blog for?"

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Send in an ask that starts with something along the lines of "autism culture is.." , "autistic adult culture is.." , and/or "undiagnosed autism culture is.." and it will be sent to the queue. Anything based around autism is encouraged.

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About the owner

Hello, I am Adelaide! I am a genderqueer bisexual (in very simple terms) that uses she/her.

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[lovely-lou]

Couple of things. Regarding previous anon and being disappointed in Lou's comments, I'm not seeing what people are taking offense. He doesn't say that he is better at playing a gay character because he and OS are so masculine (and presumably straight). My interpretation of his words boil down to this:

When the audience see a man and a women close together on the screen, they assume sexual tension so no surprise when they kiss. When they see two guys that they KNOW are gay, they make the same assumptions. The fact the both he and Buck were presumably straight, it was a surprise because the audience didn't see what was coming until it happened. And that's it. And the use of the term "masculine" doesn't mean that gay guys aren't masculine. It just refers to how certain people perceive certain characteristics. Lou also goes on to talk about hugging male friends and kissing them on the cheek so he's very much about challenging notions of traditional masculinity. I feel like we are so used to assuming the worst of people particularly when only interacting virtually.

In contrast, OS did in fact say that he wants Buck to fuck around 1.0 style all the while forgetting that we didn't in fact LIKE Buck 1.0 until he started dating Abby. Buck 1.0 was an asshole who only got a bit of a pass because he was young and damaged. A return to that from a guy pushing middle age will be just pathetic. One last note, the break up would have been more honest if it came from Buck since clearly Tommy is looking for love and Buck/OS is looking to screw around some more. They couldn't write this honestly because that would have made his character unlikable so they had to perpetrate this fraud of a storyline on the audience. https://www.tumblr.com/ranbling/766617732581097473/if-you-hate-oliver-so-much-now-for-his-biphobic?source=share

Honestly that's how I interpreted Lou's comments as well. His wording could have been better and I am disappointed in HOW he said it, but I didn't particularly see anything offensive. That said, I'm not gay. Even though I don't see his comments as offensive, that doesn't mean someone who is actually gay wouldn't find it offensive.

As I've mentioned though, I am bi and Oliver's comments were offensive. I truly don't understand why certain people can't grasp that fact. I don't think he needs to be shunned or anything, but his comments were very offensive ESPECIALLY after saying he didn't want to play into bisexual stereotypes. And I agree, a return to that phase in Buck's life would be another example of poor writing. In the real world, a person Buck's age could sleep around as much as he wants with whoever he wants. But in a fictional show that will never be able to go on forever? It's time for him to finally settle down with someone. AND that's another reason why the comments are so hurtful. These are fictional characters who often give real people the opportunity to explore themselves. So to be showing us that a relationship with a newly out bisexual person can't work because they have to sleep around first and really experience being bi is just so cruel to the people who may have discovered their own bisexuality because of this storyline.

[cloudycleric]

tl;dr for my bi vs gay mike truthers video

basically, summarized, through my own research ive concluded... mike wheeler is....

unlabeled!!

i don't think the whole bi vs gay mike truthers thing needs to be a thing. like i dont get why it was ever as controversial as it was. you can very much interpret the first few seasons of stranger things through the lens that mike wheeler did in fact have a crush on el. or, you can support the theory that neither of them had a crush on each other, but mike felt a sort of comp-het impulse to have a crush on el. whichever theory you support is fine.

but, (if you believe this) just because mike never had a crush on el doesn't mean he can't be bisexual, mike could very well be gay as well & only experience attraction to men, but honestly, who cares! i don't think we need to force a label onto mike if the show doesn't want to give him one (yet, if they do in s5, i will update this).

being a bi mike truther doesn't erase mike's obvious queerness, & being a gay mike truther doesn't make you biphobic. it's just not how it works. at the end of the day, mike wheeler is queer in some way shape or form whether he chooses to identify as gay, bisexual, unlabeled, or whatever the fuck he wants.

i'm learning different styles of literary theory & criticism in my english classes right now, & i think something that they said in the class about criticism & theory about writing (& various forms of media, it doesn't just have to apply to writing) is that criticism & theory helps us see stories & interpret things in an infinite number of ways, & i think that's really nice. the only problem is when people start declaring their theories as true.

i've fallen into this, i'm sure a lot of bylers have, into the over analysis train. as much as i love theorizing about byler, looking at the cinematography & writing & editing & lighting & whatever, at the end of the day, we're all just theorizing based on the evidence that is presented to us. just because a light shines on will doesn't necessarily mean that mike sees him as his sunshine & true love, but we can definitely theorize that that's what it means! & after byler is confirmed canon in s5, (or god forbid it's not), we can finally have a resting answer to our theories. but again, a story is a story, you can still have theories about it even if the show is over.

it's your choice whether or not you want bi/gay mike truthers to interact with your page, it's your social media experience & you should be able to tailor it to how you see fit. the only thing i get upset about is the fighting over it. i just think the whole super heated debate about it is a bit silly.

anyway, that's my two cents. this was longer than what i thought it was gonna be & honestly more comprehensive than the video, so. i hope this makes sense. if you're a gay mike truther, you're valid. if you're a bi mike truther, you're valid. if you're an unlabeled mike truther, your valid. if you're using your analysis & theories as facts & as justification to be mean to others over the internet, you are in fact NOT valid.

[biccysresources]

👁️‍🗨️ Welcome to my blog .ᐟ 🌀

★ Blog introduction and DNI below the cut! ★

First off ill say this is a side account for my Main account @biccyssafespace !

im mainly on tumblr for Agere purposes but i wanted to make a seperate blog for my other big interest of making graphics and post them seperately! so only follow here for my non-agere related posts.

DNI CRITERIA: tw for below & i block freely for anybody who makes me uncomfortable

N$FW K!INK G0RE anti-agere/age regression, basic dni; homophobic, transphobic, biphobic, xenophobic, islamophobic, etc. misogynistic, racist, ableist, discriminatory, weightshaming; bodyshaming etc. invalidates a persons pronouns / gender / identity. says slurs you cant reclaim, p*dophile, sexualizes minors/fictional minors/children. anti-xenogender, anti-neopronouns, pr0shippers, c0mshippers, Darkshippers, ships ab*sive/toxic ships, jokes about sexual crimes. ddlg/ddlb/mdlb/clg, supports or justifies etc any of these. wriothesley and/or dottore fans im personally uncomfortable with these characters due to personal reasons and would prefer if you dont interact/nbr Vivziepop media fans (helluva boss, hazbin hotel). please do not repost my posts with f/o, kin, id tags/nbr or post my creations on other sites/apps.

My DNI is subject to change/be updated.

★ A little about me! ★

- I am Autistic, i experience verbal shutdowns and have hyperfixations! I’m Physically disabled and chronically ill. I’m a Trauma regressor

- I made graphics stamps and dividers etc as a hobby for myself and friends because i love digital design!

- Some of my special interests are Paranormal/Ghosts, Psychology, Pokemon, true crime

- You can use and collect my stamps/whatever i make if you like and reblog just dont repost them as your own on tumblr or any other website please! if you do use them you dont need to credit me all i ask is that you dont claim them as your own, i love making stamps etc and would love to keep posting them!

- I make typos ALOT and im mostly posting here just for stamps i make self indulgently or for my friends, im not ready to take requests yet!

^_^ My overall interests! (bold=fixated)

- Splatoon, Pokemon, Ducks, Genshin (HoH), Cats, Cookie run, Neon genesis evangelion, Animal crossing, Honkai star rail, Reverse 1999, Ocs, Disney, Apex legends (wattson), Nendoroids.

Thanks for stopping by my blog! :)

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[liauditore]

LIAU MY BELOVED

ask game question

Jimmy x Martyn

:D

romeo asking for mirror birds in MY ask box?!!?!??!?!?! (i know u pref mirror birds but solidwood is too funny im so sorry)

ah yeah. these losers.

see, a lot of my thoughts surrounding these two would kind of spoil my own AU that i never make stuff for so im usually somewhat hesitant to talk about them but basically., (toxic!fh mention)

post-evo divorced property police is so real. ive always imagined it as a childhood friends situation, with martyn being a bit older than jimmy.

they probably caught feelings for eachother fairly late and already well into teenhood but neither of them were really sure what it was (this is maybe going a little bit into sexuality hc territory but ive always imagined jimmy as whatever the male equivalent of a useless lesbian is and martyns biphobic towards himself lmao).

i touched on this briefly in that one fic i wrote but i've always headcanoned martyn as being somewhat parentified and thus ties his worthiness to be loved into his ability to perform acts of service for someone rather than just.. existing and letting himself be loved.

so as jimmy became more independent, martyn becomes a bit more insecure about their friendship. this becomes a bit of a self-fulfilling prophecy as he distances himself from jimmy, feeling like jimmy wouldn't love him if he didn't Need him, and jimmy in return feels confused and hurt as he helplessly watches someone he knew all his life drift away.

that + jimmy has this not-so-subtle crush on scott that martyn's always suspected. he's a jealous bitch.

The storm formed after a final sip, my fingertips frozen solid, I pretend that again I can see, you past the rails, ready to meet And I wonder is it too much to ask, to once more, hold you warm in my hands? To accept I can’t forget, and embrace what still fails to fade?

Milk Tea (Oktavia's translyrics) (because I wasn't kidding when I said these two were cheesy yuri to me lmao)

we had a clown to clown communication moment i think cus I also love the idea of them splitting up and meeting in Third Life years and years later (altho i like to imagine it as more of a voluntary separation).

some stuff copy+pasted from that cursed shipping doc i mentioned awhile back: ((scott + jimmy became a thing while martyn was gone pre-3L))

Now reuniting in 3L as fully grown adults after years apart, all those suppressed emotions come bubbling back up to the surface. An adult Martyn is much less unsure about what he's feeling and Jimmy still has those fantasies of what could have been playing on loop in his head. Of course, Jimmy is still attached to Scott and can't abandon his Bethrothed. He loves and knows what's best for him, he would sooner die than forsake his loyalty. But it does hurt when he hits him. Martyn still cares for Jimmy deeply, whether he wants to or not. He takes the time to keep an eye out for him, even though they had no real reason to interact anymore. He becomes one of the only people to realise what Scott was like with him, how devoid of love it all was. He throws out a line, offers to help him run away. Jimmy refuses. Betrayal. A second time. For the same man. Who cares about Jimmy anyway? (he always did take me for granted)

(a little note here before anyone sets me on fire - time works a bit differently in my writing and the players don't have exact ages but jimmy and martyn's age gap is probably not as dramatic as their cc counterparts)

(it's still there but neither of them even recognise their feelings as remotely romantic until they reunite as adults, as kids it's all just them being silly and having grade school drama with each other)

So uh yeah lots of mutual pining and suppressed feelings and puppy love turned angst👍 tis all i shall say cus i wanna make art of the rest lol

Just a second to lessen the ache, or minute to kiss it away I’d give all I have for the chance to go back to youth and you

[vanmarkus]

In previous seasons I thought that people who were die hard in their belief that buddie was going to happen (buddie truthers I think they like to call themselves) were setting themselves up to be disappointed every season, now I think that they're still doing that, but are also downright mean towards people who like the canon relationship Buck is in and would like to see it develop further. Just today I unfollowed a long term mutual of mine cause they reblogged the screenrant article with the tags 'bt bones' and I just have no interest seeing malicious glee on my dashboard if they do break up (which I'm not expecting but still, you never know).

mm yeah. i'm sorry about that moot, but it has been the vibe around here the last however many months i guess.

i mean, i still say that buddie could happen if the conditions were right (you know, time for development of the characters and closing currently running storylines etc etc) and i'm not expecting people to enjoy and love bucktommy, cuz i don't like and enjoy every canon (or non-canon, even) ship ever, you know?

it's about being an adult and not throwing tantrums and making your ship interactions about shitting on an entirely different ship lmao like, that's just pathetic.

and again, i see bt fans (some, i blocked most of these type) who go out of their way to talk about how buddie makes no sense and everyone is delusional who ships it — not even expects it to become canon, just... ships it.

i love buddie, i think it could be a great endgame relationship for both of them. so could be bucktommy and someone else for Eddie. cuz i love the show and i have trust in the creators (well, the cast, crew and writers mostly) to do us justice. and even if they don't, shipping and fandom doesn't depend on canon. it never did.

but i really need some people to step back and realise that they are being nasty, homophobic, biphobic, racist and so on, over literally non-existent people.

like, that does not reflect well on anyone involved.

[mizisuaenthusiast]

Introduction

Call me Li shu, I have a ding dong and I'm a minor. Pansexual and Genderfluid (I'm way too lazy to add colors) any pronouns will do, I don't really care.

I have mixed Chinese and Filipino genes (I grew up in the philippines however)

I am a victim of sexual assault and grooming. Good things about me, this shittt harrddd 😭😭🙏 anyway have a normal mindset and I'll treat you with decency 💜💜

Bad things about me, well....take a guess💜 and this account is a whole different persona. So anyone who knows me in a specific app.....

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IMPORTANT NOTE

Finally decided not to interact and engage with proshitters any further (recommended by my therapist) at first I was being stubborn and persisted about my decisions on continuing to ruffle some feathers (proshitters) and engaging in back and forth replies but whatever. My therapist is RIGHT, I shouldn't waste my time on engaging further with these weirdos who obviously needs help. (I made this after a therapy session)

Anyway I'm STILL making anti-proship posts

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DNI (DO NOT INTERACT)

Literally the basic criteria of DNI (tw!!)

— proship

⠀⠀— anti anti, pro fiction, com ship, etc

⠀⠀— you ship illegal ships

— incest, pedophilia, etc

⠀⠀— you think fiction doesn't affect reality

⠀⠀— you sexualize minors

⠀⠀— you fetishize lgbtq+ pairings

⠀⠀— you identify as a minor attracted person/pedophile

⠀⠀— you identify as a fujoshi/fudanshi

⠀⠀— you romanticize or glorify problematic media

⠀⠀— you romanticize or glorify problematic tropes in media, mental illnesses, self harm, physical, sexual, or emotional abuse/assault, rape and other illegal or immoral tropes

— racist

⠀⠀— xenophobic

⠀⠀— sinophobic

⠀⠀— colorist

⠀⠀— orientalist

⠀⠀— anti blm

⠀⠀— anti black

⠀⠀— anti stop asian hate

⠀⠀— you say slurs you can't reclaim

⠀⠀— you think people in racial minorities can't also be racist

⠀⠀— you think white people can be oppressed for being white

⠀⠀— etc

— anti lgbtq+

⠀⠀— homophobic, lesbiphobic, biphobic, panphobic, etc

⠀⠀— transphobic

⠀⠀— transmed/truscum, radfem, terf

⠀⠀— anti neopronouns or xenogenders

⠀⠀— anti non-she/her lesbians or non-he/him gays

⠀⠀— exclusionist

⠀⠀— radical inclusionist

⠀⠀— etc

— zionist

⠀⠀— pro israel

⠀⠀— pro idf

⠀⠀— anti palestine

⠀⠀— etc

— sexist

⠀⠀— misogynistic

⠀⠀— transmisogynistic

⠀⠀— you think men can be oppressed for being men

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Interests

alien stage, identity v, honkai star rail, reverse 1999, mononoke (2007 and 2024), nanbaka, danganronpa trigger happy havoc/goodbye despair/killing harmony, junji ito, bungou stray dogs, blue lock, persona 5, demon slayer and many more

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Characters I LOVE to a concerning amount

ITHAQUA(Night Watch), RICHARD STERLING(Knight), Michiko (Geisha), Galatea(Sculptor), Joseph Desaulniers(Photographer), Edgar Valden(Painter) ── Identity V

Sua, Sua, Sua, Sua, Sua, Sua, Sua, Sua, Sua, Sua, Sua, Sua, did I mention Sua? Mizi, Luka── Alien Stage

Medicine Pocket, Tennant, Argus, Zima(Зима), Getian, Lucy ── Reverse 1999

MICHAEL KAISER, Chigiri Hyoma, Sae Itoshi ── Blue Lock

Ren Amamiya/Akira Kurusu, Futaba Sakura, Ann Takamaki ── Persona 5

OTHER FAVS

Braz Daniel Blood, Hydra Bell ── Blood Lad

Medicine Seller (both 2007 and 2024), Kame, Asa ── Mononoke (2007/2024)

KOKOMI TERUHASHI, SAIKI KUSUO, Nendou Riki ── The Disastrous Life of Saiki K

Jiaoqiu, Ling Sha, Stelle, Aventurine, Robin, Sparkle ── Honkai Star Rail

Epel Felmier, Riddle Rosehearts, Skully J. Graves, Idia Shroud, Ace Trappola ── Twisted Wonderland

[meanbitchydyke]

(Asks are DISABLED for now) Pinned Post — Read BEFORE Interacting

Hi hi! I'm Cat, a 28-year-old non-binary (TME) butch lesbian. I use they/them, he/him, ze/zir, fae/faer, and ey/em pronouns. I'm white, mentally ill, AuDHD, and physically disabled. I use a cane and a wheelchair. I am on testosterone and I have had top surgery and a hysterectomy. I am a trauma survivor and I talk about it sometimes.

Before following me, I'd appreciate if you read my about page, and I ask that you read my DNI, linked here and posted below this preamble in the readmore.

My activity is pretty sporadic depending on school and dealing with my disabilities, and I don't run this blog on a queue - most of the stuff I reblog tends to be time sensitive.

Please don't hesitate to ask me if you need something tagged! I would rather know to tag something appropriately than have anything I post or reblog upset someone needlessly.

Thank you for reading! If you could like this post or send me an ask to let me know you've read it and my DNI, I would appreciate it! It's by no means required though.

Also, because my description cuts off on some devices, I will put here that the credit for my icon goes to bisexualdimitri. The flag used is the autistic lesbian pride flag, and the character is Rika from Pokemon Scarlet and Violet.

DNI below the cut.

None of the following criteria are up for debate. Do not send me messages trying to argue with me about them. Just block me and move on.

DNI/people I block on sight:

people who interact positively with girl-effigy. I will update her url here if I ever catch wind of her changing it. It is extremely important that people who interact with her do not interact with me. You can ask me why OFF ANON.

LGBT-phobes (especially transmisogynists)

misogynists

white supremacists (includes anti-BLM and pro-colonialism)

antisemites and islamophobes

zionists

ableists

anti-abortion rights activists

Republicans/conservatives/“centrists”

MRAs/anti-feminists/transandrophobia “truthers”

fatphobes/pro-ana/pro-mia/weight loss blogs

antivaxxers

abuse/incest/SA apologists (includes pro-shippers)

pansexuals who spout “hearts not parts” nonsense (the tl;dr is it’s homophobic, biphobic, and transphobic)

bi/pan “lesbians” and their supporters

people who use the q slur to describe all lgbt people, to describe cishets at all, or to describe specific lgbt people who have not agreed to have the q slur used for them

endogenic “systems” and their supporters

hates dogs, cats, or kids (not a moral reason, just an “I don’t need that negativity in my life” sort of thing)

JKR apologists

people who hide behind one marginalized aspect of their identity to excuse their bigotry toward others (“I can say racist things because I’m gay” etc etc)

people who have ever been fascists (I don’t care if you’ve been “reformed”, I don’t fucking want someone with that kind of history interacting with me)

Can interact but don’t follow if:

You are under 18 (do not interact with posts I have tagged “nsft” under any circumstances, you will be blocked)

Can follow, but I probably won’t follow back if:

You are under 21

You type mostly in all caps (I can’t read it very well and I feel like I’m getting yelled at)

You type mostly in colored text (I can’t read that very well either)

You are a cishet

[thunder-jolt]

A PROPER INTRODUCTION

I'm Thunder, also known as Herald if you're from Comic Studio.

Pronouns (preferred): She/her, but any pronoun, like they/them, is fine.

I Have:

Autism

Anxiety

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My fandoms vary, so I don't really need to be specific.

I like to draw, and write, which isn't anything new. However, I don't do commissions, but what I can do is write fanfic requests, with some free fanart. BUT- BUT! Before you can do that, you must understand this. Keep it as SFW as possible, no NSFW stuff.

WHAT I WRITE:

X Reader Fanfiction (DC Copperhead x Reader, etc.)

Headcanons (Any character I'm currently hyperfixating, such as, say, Flippy from Happy Tree Friends, Jiren from Dragon Ball Super, etc.)

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DO NOT INTERACT:

Racist

Homophobic

Transphobic/TERF

Biphobic

Aphobic

Ableist

Groomer/Pedophile/MAP

Zoophile

Scammer

Sexist/Misogynist/Misandronist

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DO NOT FOLLOW:

NSFW Blogs

WILL ADD MORE IF NEEDED, BUT FOR NOW, THIS IS ABOUT IT.

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Also, at the time of making this pinned post, I am a minor, so please, be respectful. Also, don't send Mutual Aid asks, I have too many of those already.

And as of now, I also have my asks turned off, so sorry for those who DO WANT TO ASK SOMETHING, but right now, it's off.

[hotdyke-hardstyle]

my issue with bi lesbians/mspec lesbians isn't the idea that it will lead to men being even shittier to lesbians, because shitty men will always be shitty men, they don't need that excuse. it's that these people and their supporters are saying that lesbians can be attracted to men in any capacity. if you can't understand how gross it is to push that narrative all on its own, and you can't understand what a fundamental misunderstanding that is of the lesbian sexuality, then idk what to tell you but you're stupid at best, hold malicious intent towards lesbians at worst, and it's also likely there's a lot of internalised biphobia and/or lesbophobia at work. there are also the biphobic and transmisognyistic aspects to the label that i've mentioned in past posts/reblogs, but my point rn is it is completely reasonable for us to want to avoid you and keep you from interacting, because you do not respect lesbians or bi sapphics at all. yes, even if you are also a lesbian supporting these identifies. idk why people think just because it's not the most important issue in the world that they can avoid criticism for a genuinely harmful idea and opinion. identifying this way and supporting these types of identities implies certain opinions and worldviews.