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moonlessoul · 2 years ago
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Exchange (also on INPRNT)
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fraudulent-cheese · 8 months ago
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in general the idea of Heather of all people being vulnerable enough to start a real friendship with someone is fascinating to me. She so clearly has issues with her parents (they celebrate her absence while she left for Island for fuck's sake, they used ELECTROSHOCK THERAPY to try to make her nicer as a kid), she places a ton of importance on surperficiality and it's pretty heavily implied that even before the show she was rejected by everyone
so for her to actually form a positive connection with someone else? That's genuine, and returned? Seeing her be nice to DJ in a way that wouldn't be benificial to her in any way related to challenges? Her (sadly canonically) brief friendship with Harold and Leshawna starting off out of necessity to get Gwen out forming into a genuine bond? Harold willingly allying with her right after Island? Her relationship with Alejandro, who is in alot of ways similar to her? i EAT. THAT. SHIT. UP.
Hell if you wanna go off canon i fuck with the idea of Gwen and Heather forming a begrundging respect for one another post canon, especially since i think their friendship would be hilarious. the fic Karma and Other Sweet Things does this really well imo, they are really fun
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red-velvet-0w0 · 5 months ago
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was having a conversation with some friends on the topic and we were getting such varied and intriguing answers I though this was the sort of thing tumblr might like.
(I would pick option 1 probably depending on the personality and voice of the spider)
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pop-pop-pop-popculture · 2 years ago
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I still think their relationship is mutually benificial as in Jake gets much needed clout (he gained over 300k followers since the annoucement) and he gets to fuck Millie whenever she wants in exchange for movie roles, that surname and security that he will be "tied down" to her
Tragic, sad, and pathetic. And yes, it absolutely, 100% is 'mutually beneficial', and nothing will change my mind.
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multiversal-andra · 2 years ago
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This is a golden tailed spiny ant. It's native to the eucalyptus forests of East-coast Australia, from North Queensland to Victoria. Its gaster is not actually gold, but covered in a thick layer of golden hair, which can appear more sparsley elsewhere on its body. Thay also are occasionally silver instead of gold!
They are a primarily nocturnal species, which remains active year round, and does not hibernate. They're considered sugar ants, with sugars making up most of their diet, but they also eat proteins, seeds and oils.
They can live in large, multi-queen colonies, or in smaller (100-200) single-queen colonies.
These ants prefer to live at the base of, and forage from trees, and have been known to bite, and/or spray out formic acid when threatened.
They also tend to be timid, and shy when compared to other ants, though their small numbers make keeping them much easier for beginner ant keepers.
Some of their natural predators include echidnas, lizards, and native birds.
They have a mutally benificial relationship with leaf-hoppers, protecting and "farming" them for the honeydew that they produce.
These ants can live anywhere from a couple of weeks to a few months.
saw an ant with a golden ass today 👍
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Idk what kind of ant this is but its pretty awesome
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justnoodlefishthings · 2 years ago
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"Vegan water" makes sense because if a human or animal is exploited to make the product, then it's not vegan.
don't think the vegan label has ever applied to human exploitation because capitalism has no ethical consumption
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groupwest · 2 years ago
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Sorry I’ve been reading about bacteria and microorganisms all day sorry I will seek knowledge eternally
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stclartics · 4 years ago
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fluff alphabet ━━ finn wolfhard x fem!reader
↳ queeriacs
𝗔 - 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗶𝘁𝘆 ➵ ( what do they like to do with their s/o? what do they do in their free time with them? )
➵ paparazzi is always evrywhere, so when you hang out with finn, it would usually be cuddling in bed and watching a movie or him playing his guitar for you.
➵ when you do go out, he would love to take you to the movies or go on a picnic.
𝗕 - 𝗯𝗲𝗮𝘂𝘁𝘆 ➵ ( what do they admire about their s/o? what do they think is beautiful about them? )
➵ everything about you.
➵ and that you love him for him, and not his fame.
𝗖 - 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁 ➵ ( how would they help their s/o when they feel down/have a panic attack, etc. )
➵ for when you feel down, finn would just hold you in his arms until you calm down, then let you explain what happened that made you feel sad.
➵ for when you have a panic attack, finn would help instruct you on breathing in and out while doing it with you. finn had had experiences with them so he knew what to do.
𝗗 - 𝗱𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗺𝘀 ➵ ( how do they picture their future with their s/o? )
➵ finn would love to marry you one day, but with his career you two would want to wait awhile to have kids. finn definitely wants to spend the rest of his life with you.
𝗘 - 𝗲𝗾𝘂𝗮𝗹 ➵ ( are they the dominant one in the relationship, or rather passive? )
➵ depends.
( i don't really know how to answer that one. )
𝗙 - 𝗳𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀 ➵ ( would they forgive their s/o easily? how are they fighting? )
➵ fights with finn aren't very heated, he is very understanding so fights don't last long.
𝗚 - 𝗴𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗱𝗲 ➵ ( how grateful are they in general? do they realise what their s/o is doing for them? )
➵ finn was always one to be grateful for what he has, considering all the great things that have come his way in his career.
➵ the relationship is equal, the both of you had been closed off at the beginning of your realtionship, but then you both loved doing things for each other.
𝗛 - 𝗵𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘁𝘆 ➵ ( do they have secrets to hide from their s/o? or do they share everything? )
➵ nope.
𝗜 - 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 ➵ ( did their s/o change them somehow, or the other way around? like trying out new things or overcoming things? )
➵ you really helped finn's anxiety, so he would always invite you to premiers becaue you always managed to help him stay calm.
➵ and finn taught you how to play the guitar and drums
𝗝 - 𝗷𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗼𝘂𝘀𝘆 ➵ ( how jealous do they get? how do they deal with it? )
➵ finn gets rather awkward than jealous.
➵ he tries to join in the conversation but can't relate.
➵ sad boi :(
➵ really wants to leave
𝗞 - 𝗸𝗶𝘀𝘀 ➵ ( are they a good kisser? )
➵ finn is a good kisser
➵ likes to keep them sweet and slow to show his adoration for you.
𝗟 - 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 ➵ ( how would they confess to their s/o? )
➵ probably would confess after you helped him calm down from an anxiety attack.
𝗠 - 𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗴𝗲 ➵ ( do they want to get married? how would they propose? what would the marriage be like? )
➵ finn would love to get married some time in the future. he would propose probably on a meadow with the sunset. he even bought a beautiful diamond ring, which he would say was not as nearly as beautiful as you. the wedding would be small with family and close friends, and would hopefully be off of the interenet.
𝗡 - 𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗸𝗻𝗮𝗺𝗲𝘀 ➵ ( what do they call their s/o )
➵ he loves to call you sweetheart and baby (sIcK bEaTs BaBy)
➵ you would would call him bubba and even love muffin, which he secretly adores.
➵ and you would jokingly call him finnlard or dogsoft which would annoy him.
𝗢 - 𝗼𝗻 𝗰𝗹𝗼𝘂𝗱 𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗲 ➵ ( what are they like when they are in love? is it noticable to others? )
➵ finn would be in awestruck when you were around, but tried to hide it.
➵ of course, some people in the comments would notice and comment about the loving and longing look on his face on videos of you and him.
➵ the others (it/st cast) would tease him about it because they could tell he liked you.
𝗣 - 𝗽𝗱𝗮 ➵ ( are they upfront about their relationship? do they brag about their s/o to others? or are they shy to kiss etc. when others are watching. )
➵ finn would never really be a pda person. some hand holding and occasional cheek kisses stolen, but other than that, he would like to keep the intimate stuff at home because of paparazzi.
𝗤 - 𝗾𝘂𝗶𝗿𝗸 ➵ ( some random ability thats benificial to the relationship. )
➵ him playing guitar and singing to you is definitley a very lucky thing.
𝗥 - 𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗰 ➵ ( how romantic are they? cliche or creative? )
➵ you would sometimes not see finn for awhile, so when you do, he would alway do something creative and special for you to show you how much he cares for you.
➵ so yes, finn would be romantic
𝗦 - 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 ➵ ( do they support their s/o achieve their goals? do they believe in you? )
➵ finn is a very supportive person. he would be there every step of the way to achieve your dreams. of course he believes in you!
𝗧 - 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗶𝗹𝗹 ➵ ( do they need to try new things to spice your relationship? or would they have a certain routine? )
➵ maybe some makeouts, or small intimate touches, but other than that, nah.
𝗨 - 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 ➵ ( how well do they know their s/o? are they empathetic? )
➵ finn definitely knows you very well and can tell when you're uncomfortable with something.
𝗩 - 𝘃𝗮𝗹𝘂𝗲 ➵ ( how important if their relationship to them? what is it in comparison to other things in life? )
➵ finn would definitely rather be with you than going to interviews and tours.
𝗪 - 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗱 ➵ ( random headcanon for their relationship )
➵ finn would secretly love to watch edits made by (your ship) fans about you and finn.
𝗫 - 𝘅𝗼𝘅𝗼 ➵ ( are they affectionate? do they love to kiss and cuddle? )
➵ finn LOVES your kisses and cuddles, he could stay and cuddle you for as long as he wanted.
𝗬 - 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 ➵ ( how will they cope when they're missing their partner )
➵ would call or text you whenever he could.
𝗭 - 𝘇𝗲𝗮𝗹 ➵ ( are they willing to go great lengths for their relationship? )
➵ of course, but make sure he's had his gatorade first.
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reverielix · 4 years ago
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Bang chan as a boyfriend based on his chart?
Sure ;)))
Let’s get straight into it!💭
I’ve been wanting to talk about his interceptions/duplications for some time, and now it finally fits haha!!😊 His Venus is intercepted and...let’s say that his chart (+ Saturn singleton and other aspects) poses some obstacles for romantic relationships, and suggests a personal transition/journey he has to go through in order to even allow himself to experience romantic love and affection....🤭
Scorpio is intercepted in the 6th house in his chart while Taurus is intercepted in the 12th house. Capricorn makes up for it and rules both the 8th and 9th house as Cancer rules both the 2nd and 3rd house. So what does that mean?
First of all, the qualities associated with Scorpio and Taurus are hard for him to access as they weren’t taught or understood at an early age. This can further suggest that he experienced a lack of love and tenderness, while receiving criticism, (Saturn singleton, 6th house stellium, Chiron in the 6th makes him extremely sensitive to criticism, he started young as a trainee and went through monthly evaluations and such for 7 years!) which probably influenced his self-perception, as he already has low self-esteem and lots of self-doubt implied in his interception, which suggests a need for validation and extra-love, though he was given the opposite. Moreover, he could’ve had issues forming an opinion and sticking to it (supported by his Libra placements), fully devoting himself in a relationship (any type, Mars conjunct 7th house) and leaving his comfort zone. Lack of privacy, fear of loss and struggles regarding finances/recourses may have also occurred in his life. These aspects in regard to the 6th and 12th houses hint at an unstable and insecure environment as a result of lacking routine (e.g. going to sleep at odd hours with Pisces and Virgo here) and giving into bad habits. Something generally big in his chart is his insecurity and deceiving perception of himself as well as his ways of coping (intercepted Taurus, Saturn singleton, Virgo Chiron,... surpresses/ignores feelings or ignores them). He may use his self-doubt and criticism from both others and himself as a “fuel” for his determination and work-ethic to try and prove others and a part of himself wrong. Although one might argue that using negativity to grow from it is benificial, he harms himself subconsciously by having that mindset, since when a) he fails, like all of us do sometimes, he will fall into a pit of self-hatred or b) he achieved a goal, but after it, he’ll still be unsatisfied and want more. It always ends back where he started; craving for UNCONDITIONAL love, but he won’t give himself that type of love (unconditional love can also be associated with Neptune, which is in retrograde in his chart, and can contribute to hyper-awareness of his own wrongs). The love he gives himself is conditional and situational, which he adapted from all the lack of love and criticism and makes him feel like he will never be enough. A big lesson he has to learn is that his work/success doesn’t define him, and he is enough without his awards and wins. He’s an amazing person just being himself, and once he realizes that he deserves unconditional love, he will also be a step further to allow love to come his way. (You can’t come from a place of hatred and expect love to come out at the end!)
In terms of his Venus and his 7th house conjunctions, I can see how he craves love deeply and intensely, he craves privacy and validation, though with intercepted planets the individual isn’t allowed or suppresses a core-part of their personality. In Chan’s case, he suppresses his longing for romantic love and relationships as he is taught to focus on his work (he channels all his energy through his Saturn singleton, work is existential to him) rather than his need for affection, because “I don’t deserve love anyway” (conditional self-love, damaged awareness of self-worth). He perhaps doesn’t consciously know who he is looking for, but craves stability, (a routine to help him feel comfortable, as he values that with his Cancer and Capricorn duplications, but we’ll get to that later) sensuality, validation, appreciation, inspiration, acceptance and most importantly: love! In terms of Taurus here, which is intercepted and is ruled by Venus, I can see how a big life lesson is to value and appreciate his materialistic possessions and achievements that originated from hard work. He needs to learn how to feel appreciative of his past efforts and learn to feel satisfied with himself and his past efforts as well as allow himself to rest.
His Saturn singleton in conjunction with what I’ve discussed previously briefly points out; he channels his entire energy though his work, through restrictions, through his reputation and his ambition. (This Placement fits perfectly with him being on stage. He performs with such purpose, with such determination and devotion by using his body (Aries), and most importantly with his group (11th house).) The Pluto Mars conjunction also hints at Chan being a very devoted individual, who can get engulfed in his task and even isolate himself when doing something he’s passionate about. His Saturn is also in retrograde, which internalizes this placement and makes him very conscious about his success, reputation and overall misery and hardship that he wants to (perhaps aggressively or boldly) take action on and improve all the time. He fears letting people down and wants to live up to their expectations, while often letting himself down in the process, which feeds into his conditional self-love and lack of self-acceptance. He sets limits for himself, when actually, he wants to be free, because he lives in fear of not being enough and fulfilling people’s expectations of him as he wants to have a good reputation and success, be better than all the authority figures with criticizing eyes he’s been exposed to all his life. A contradiction within himself here is that he doesn’t want people to tell him what to do, he doesn’t like being pushed around and wants to be his own boss, but as soon as somebody expects something of him or questions his authority, he wants to prove them wrong and so does what they want. He is a pushover, in a way, but is consciously very resistant toward rules and boundaries other authority figures set for him to follow. Additionally, valuing tradition and following a routine (6th house interception) can be hard for him (especially when it comes to sleep, 12th house). Further interpreting, his Sun (Libra, 5th house) is opposite his Saturn, which can indicate a gap in self-perception that I touched on in the previous paragraph, outlining his rather subconscious (12th house interception, so this part is more “hidden” from him, while the 12th house is already hard to access in the first place) way of self-destruction considering his way with doubt and criticism and how it will forever remain a spiral of negativity that results in no progress if he doesn’t understand he is deserving of UNconditional love). Additionally, he might believe he can only be loved when he performs well and succeeds, which is obviously not true, though it is a big life lesson for him to truly understand that, with his 12th house interception and his tendency to ignore his intuition/spirituality to listen to the logics (air signs and other). He can escape this spiral of negativity by learning this big lesson; he is worthy, he deserves love, he deserves privacy, he deserves care (from himself and others).
Ways to “unlock interceptions” and learn the previously mentioned life lessons are to look at the “directors” (the signs that rule the intercepted houses, so in Chan’s case it’s Libra and Aries), the duplications and take into consideration his intercepted Chiron. First, let’s look at his 6th house ruler: Libra. Libra ruling the 6th house is usually a sign of self-care in a physical sense and beauty and care in everyday routine, pets or a desire of taking care of one. Though, with his Saturn singleton in Aries (opposite Libra) I can see how he works too much and disregards his mental and physical health (12th house would be mental health here). A helpful way of dealing with this is arranging a routine in which he assembles self-care and private time (he had a lack of, which the interceptions point at) to feel instead of brushing his emotions off (12th house interception). He will feel lonely. He longs for love with his Pluto conjunction his descendant, he can even become obsessive about it and feel the need to be with somebody. But as long as he doesn’t understand he deserves UNconditional love from most importantly himself, he won’t be able to allow (healthy) love in his life and recognize when he isn’t being treated the right way, because he pushes others away and has no clarity of what he deserves. In this routine that I have previously mentioned, where he shall implement self-care and privacy, he needs to give himself time to feel and not push his emotions away anymore. And as he accepts his emotions and turmoil, this 12th house part that we all have (this part that Billie addresses in idontwannabeyouanymore), that is hurt and deals with all the things we brush off in a “call me what you wanna, ‘cause I’ve probably called me worse.” way (self-criticism with the Chiron in the 6th — as Chiron is also healing and the 6th house comes together with routine and stability, I can see how this fortifies my claim — and interceptions). When he lets himself feel, accepts his negative feelings and takes care of himself, he will learn to love ALL of him (also his “demon” and will learn to access his 12th house). Through all of this, he will trust himself and his intuition more, learn to use both his brain & heart — here I think it’s remarkable that Melanie has multiple Taurus placements and a Scorpio rising — as the line between reality and delusion isn’t blurry anymore. Listening to his intuition, he will start to feel comfortable with himself and the things and people around him. He will learn to surround himself with the things he feels comfortable with, and not only “should” (brain). This is a big desire: comfort. His Cancer/Capricorn duplications leave him longing for a home, though as long as he doesn’t feel at home with himself, he won’t feel at home anywhere (ties in with 2nd house Cancer and his self-esteem being ruled by the moon with a desire for comfort). And when he learned to love, accept and feel comfortable with himself, he will allow love into his life and not push anyone away anymore (he will learn that it doesn’t matter if he failed or not, if he worked hard enough or not: he deserves love and care like he gives it to others). This is how he could “unlock” his Venus, perhaps. Regarding his Neptune retrograde in the 9th; in conjunction with his 12th house being intercepted, he needs to learn to create a sleep pattern that is healthy and provides him with enough rest. This will then also strengthen his trust and intuition.
Also, his Pluto Mars conjunction conjunct his 7th can imply that whenever he experiences hurt or is left by somebody else, he can transition this pain and obstacle into power and drive, motivation with which he approaches new relationships. This ties in with the dominant role that Saturn plays in his life, as Saturn is essentially working hard through hurdles and misery to come out successful.
So, now that we’ve established that his chart is challenging in regards to his love life and really just anything, we can get into the actual thing haha
⇢ confession/beginning stages
His Libra Sun and Mercury in the 5th, Gemini rising and Aquarius mc can give him a very playful and airy first impression
He is generally attracted to mannerism, soft spokenness and gentleness, as he also likes showing these parts of himself to romance others haha
Would probably take it slow and not rush into relationships (would take a while to confess, he first has to relish in the feeling of having a crush lol)
He might want to introduce himself as the fun and flirty version of himself, though I feel like he’d be way less bold than Minho (he’s a shy Libra bean) — it doesn’t mean he’s “acting” or anything. That’s just as much him as is every other part of his chart.
I don’t think his Venus would shine through in the beginning (I’d be more his air signs taking the lead, talking away and vibing lol) He’d most likely keep it light and nice on the first date, show off his manners yk👀
His intercepted Venus stressed that it would take him a lot of work to let himself freely express his love language and refrain from bottling it up
But once he does let himself express his love freely, during his confession or an intimate moment, it would fizz all up
His confession may be very thought through and planned, though in the moment, he’d just improvise anyway and fizz up like a bottle of sparkling water under too much pressure from holding back everything
Heartfelt confessions are his specialty, though he’d probably get very emotional
Scorpio is already kind of a wild sea, waves hitting the stones, but that interception would just contribute to this inner tension and turmoil
Once he feels attraction toward somebody, it can be very intense, even scary at times
His confession would be the one of a young boy who feels love for the very first time, intense and emotional, maybe clumsy
Though he’d mean every word
He’s just such a loving and caring person,,,,I’m not crying you are because even astrology says he’s nurturing and lovely
⇢ overall behavior in relationship
I feel like this short fic describes it pretty well haha (I read it and immediately thought of his Scorpio Venus interception)
It could be scary for him to be in love with somebody and go past the first, flirty phase
He’d be very devoted and give his all in the relationship (like how Minho would)
Just with the exception that Minho is pretty aware of this part of himself and embraces it with confidence
Though Chan on the other hand would get to know himself in another light
His emotions would fizz up, as he’s held the desire for love back for way too long (his Libra placements and especially his Pluto descendant conjunction have been begging him) and he could perhaps find the intensity of his romantic feelings scary or shocking
His Pluto descendant conjunction gives him a transformative feature. He can be drawn to relationships in which power dynamics can become toxic, though he has the skill to take the pain and transform himself from a hurting to a more powerful person in control. This can be something to look out for when he hasn’t yet gone through the lesson of acceptance and love for himself as his little self-esteem can be abused by a partner with this placement (Also, his Taurus interception hints at a lack of self-worth and boundaries, just like his 12 and 6th house interceptions do, as he can have issues recognizing when something is happening to him that is not right and he doesn’t deserve). Pluto conjunct the descendant can also hint at a partnership in which both partners are very successful and work together toward wealth, success and a comfortable home. His Venus is intercepted and this aspect points at, amongst other things, an unknowingness when it comes to an ideal type or what someone looks for in relationships. The Pluto descendant conjunction and Venus placement suggest that he is subconsciously on the outlook for or especially attracted by somebody who he can work hard together with and is devoted to the relationship and him. He may end up with somebody very successful and wealthy, who transforms him deeply as this person can feel to him like they are too intense for words to describe them.
His Mars conjunct his Pluto and the descendant accentuates what I previously said as he tends to express his drive and motivation in one-to-one relationships, which can bring a passion and determination into a relationship. He tends to get swallowed up by what he does, oftentimes forgets time or a sense of when to stop when he’s especially motivated or passionate about something. In a relationship that could mean a great deal of loyalty and devotion as well as proactiveness when it comes to achieving shared goals and fulfilling shared desires.
His Venus is in a square aspect with his Neptune, which is in retrograde. As I have discussed before, he needs to give himself time to let himself feel. Here it is suggested that there can be a cloud where certain feelings lie. He has a hard time accessing his subconscious, dreams, spirituality and intuition (in conjunction with his 12th house and Neptune rx he, as he has also confirmed, doesn’t have a good relationship with sleep). He has difficulty with his feelings and recognizing, accepting and embracing them. He can be prone to deception and misjudgment (reality and delusion are blurred, as I said previously and also mentioned a way to “unlock” that). Here it’s possible he may choose a partner not right for him, somebody who deludes him into that tale of an intense and powerful bond as his Venus interception also suggests, as already mentioned; he doesn’t consciously know who he’s looking for. He simply craves love and a comfortable, successful future and tends to see that in people who are not for him. It may be hard for him to feel fulfilled if he doesn’t feel fulfilled with himself yet and also because of this deceptiveness he tends to have.
All these things, the 7th house, Pluto, Scorpio, Mars and the interceptions are very much rooted within him. Having watched this video (I would highly recommend you to check her channel out if you’re into astrology!) on shadows and blind spots in astrology, I realized that love and Chan’s attitude toward love is deeply rooted in him. It can be a sensitive topic and bring out blind spots, parts of himself that he doesn’t really know or want to except. He may push his s/o away for bringing out these deeply rooted and emotionally triggering as well as intense things and shining a light on these aspects he dislikes and rejects about himself. He can live in denial of his longing for love and behavior in love as well as his desires, and be protective over these things. This can express itself in engagement with toxic endeavors and relationships. A build-up of jelousy, rage, vengeance and other negative qualities associated with especially Scorpio can come into play. He may be in denial of them and hardly even be able to access these parts, though I feel like in relationships, these qualities are prone to explode in his chart, as he is also likely to bottle anger up and avoid conflict. Maybe he has a hard time staying with somebody, though he is a devoted lover, because he can’t address the problems rooted within himself and rather projects them onto others in one-to-one relationships. Again, though, when he lets himself feel all these negative feelings, all the hurt and aggression, he can transform into a very powerful person and change who he is on a deeper level. These placements, which are tightly conjunct with love and relationships, point at the most vulnerable and scariest parts of him. Confronting scary parts and being brave is the key here!
His Venus interception, if not resolved, (though even when it’s resolved, it won’t forever be gone,) poses obstacles in love style and overall behavior in specifically romantic relationships. He may be shy and tapping into the unknown as he can be clumsy and confused in love. Like a boy loving for the first time, he will have issues expressing his love in a way he feels like is true to himself or feels comfortable. He has difficulty accessing Scorpio qualities and since his Venus lies in Scorpio, I can see him also bursting sometimes. As in, one day he’s more cold and holds back and on another day he showers his s/o with all the love. He can be very intense in love, especially on these days where he just can’t hold back anymore, where this intensity fizzes up.
I think he’d run into a lot of problems finding somebody who is right for him, but once he’s figured it out, he will be such a devoted partner with a passion to proactively work on the relationship and shared goals and desires. He will work hard for the relationship, just like he does for everything, because after all, that’s how he expresses himself with his Saturn singleton; through work and dedication. Love can be life-changing for him. But emotional highs and lows can occur as he “transitions” and continues to grow. It can often be a deep transformation that can feel like death and rebirth. This is the thing I’ve talked about earlier: he is self-destructive (and can also project these denied things about himself onto others) as he tries holding things associated to Mars, Pluto, the 7th house and Scorpio in his chart back/in. The interception being “unlocked” doesn’t make it disappear though — he’ll still be struggling with it and find it hard to address his emotions, establish routine or take care of himself as he gets lost in his passion and work-ethic.
Lastly, we cannot forget that the 5th house, the Sun, the Moon and the 2nd house usually play a big role concerning love in the birth chart as well. Most of these placements reflect how he knows himself and identifies with certain traits. All the previous things I’ve discussed are things hidden and deeply-rooted in his persona that he can have difficulties recognizing and coping with. So let’s jump into the parts of himself that he’s more comfortable with and more aware of, which also implies a more direct and conscious expression of the following aspects. As I already said referring to the first stages; he approaches romance in a flirty, gentle, fun and romantic way. He may enjoy going on dates a lot, meeting new people, being open-minded and generally gets along with most. He just has an easy time with romance in general as he possesses a natural way with words, though shyly, and a characteristic ability to attract many. It could be that he sees it as a priority to keep the romance alive, so he will keep arranging dates and such all throughout the relationship. Somebody with Libra placements or traits can make him feel special and admired, understood even. He can be a good advisor, great at giving compliments or a “therapist figure” to his partner, and is generally very giving. Good for him would be somebody who gives him validation, reminds him of his self-worth, respects his personal space and creates an environment of privacy and intimacy that’s in a way secret and visatable to only him and his s/o. Somebody who provides comfort, care and affection. (Something else would be conditional love. He could base love off of fairness and imply conditions, which both his Libra placements and his Neptune rx suggest, as Neptune can represent unconditional love and the “merging” of two souls. His Venus in the 6th can also suggest high expectations that hold him back from forgiving his partner’s mistakes and flaws as he could hold a grudge or hold these mistakes against his partner in future affairs.) He may also show his affection in a more practical way with gifts, acts of service and touch.
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I can see him being pretty spontaneous haha. Sagittarius is on the cusp of the 7th house and his Pluto and Mars, which are conjunct his 7th, are also in Sagittarius, so he may enjoy little trips into other cultures with his partner to relax a bit from work. Also, let’s not forget, he has his Sun and Mercury in his 5th and many personal Libra placements, he’s a big romantic. It’s how he knows himself, how he shows himself, how he communicates and how he feels. I thought I’d mention this part of his personality, because it’s the most straight-forward and commonly known “version” of Chan, even to himself. Since a partner tends to bring out 7th house qualities and motivate a person to be less their ascendant (the person they were motivated to be as a child or in their early lives) and more a “hidden” version of themselves (so in Chan’s case more bigger-picture-oriented or in favor of getting to know new cultures instead of only taking short road trips,...). So, here’s a little scenario in 1st person (just skip it if you’re not into flash fiction haha):
After 17 hours of flights and waiting, a hard-bedspring hotel mattress seemed a dream, but “the stars shine bright tonight,” Chan smiled
So instead of a douvet, a beach towel pressed against our backs
It had been 2 months, and though it was only an extended weekend, I was gonna spend every second enjoying him and Montpellier.
“I still hate that I forgot my dress.”
“You look better in my jacket anyway.”
The waning moon painted the sea, shone in his eyes
“Can’t have a cute French guy steal my baby.” Sweater paws covered his dimples, but his eyes told in the way they winged up
“Never.”
The Scorpio and Pluto conjunction is coming through🤭
Taper candle lit and polyester napkin folded into a lotus, we sipped on the nicest sounding wine the menu offered.
He laughed with gold in the eyes, an Italian-style suit and curls on his forehead.
“I’ll get whatever they do.” He tilted his head as shadows traced his dimples. The waiter rose his brows.
“I’d like...uhm...Beu- Boeuf bouuu-” Letters morphed into each other, a strand fell.
“Boeuf Bourguignon. Oui, ready in a minute, madame, monsieur.” He left behind an onion smell.
When Chan reached for Ficelle slices, sleeves were loose on his suit.
“This garlic spread’s nice.”
“So nice, you’ve got to have it on your face?”
He covered his face with the sleeves as he wiped
And then some of the spread ends up on his sleeve lol
If life is a movie // Oh you’re the best part.
11:23pm
D-Major vibrated off his acoustic guitar, and his voice accompanied mine through the last chorus
The mattress was softer than expected and his voice fuzzier than I’d remembered.
Love me, won’t you “ever leave me”
Guitar on the bedside table, his arms enclosed me. Nowhere else would I have rather been. (Lol sorry for being cheesy)
Also can we just appreciate his TALENT for a second like this man gives me goosebumps with that tone and his stunning vocal stability☁️💗
Additional small thought; I think with his Sun conjunct his Mercury in the 5th, he isn’t only good at communication, thinks a lot and is proud of it, but also probably talks to himself haha
Feel free to lmk your own thoughts on this post as well as other aspects concerning his chart, let’s chat!💫
//I also want to add that, yes, without the possibility of him using his birth chart to his advantage and making his “demons” a controlled part of him that he turns for the better, he does have a very difficult love life focused on business and unhealthy power dynamics in which he would most likely be the one seeking control, considering his libra placements as well as the significance of Saturn in his birth chart suggesting that he feels the constant need to conform to societal norms for self-esteem reasons and others talked about above like the Saturn retrograde.//
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meili-sheep · 2 years ago
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ONE MORE!!! ONE MORE WORK AND IM FINISHED!!!!1
Also yes i agree with the Jean slander but there must've been a source of why she's like,,,, That.
you know, Jean "I take up all the paperwork the knights have and then complain about being overworked even though i put it on myself" Gunnhildr.
Fredrica Gunnhildr.
it makes sense right??? because it seems the Gunnhildrs are the opposite of a patriarchy aka a matriarchy and so that phrase "All for Mond" or something has definitely been drilled into Jean's head since she was young because shes the eldest, i also think Barbara is an unexpected child because due to their likely age gap- around 20 and maybe 14-16, which is 6-4 years, probable time for unexpected births, my little sister is only 4-5 years younger and she was unplanned so yes very likely Barbara was unexpected.
And i really dont think Fredrica was a good mom... just look at Jean! She overworks herself constantly and is probably ready to throw her own life away for Mondstadt at any given moment and theres Barbara feeling inferior to Jean and doubts any ability of hers that doesnt make others happy
And Barbara may have been pushed aside by Fredrica because of her focus on Jean instead and so thats most likely why Barbara feels so much lesser than Jean. And I also think that to make really complex shapes with a catalyst is a high skilled thing, it wouldn't seem much on the surface but Barbara's attack particles Glimmer
To achieve that effect she must've had to practice how to make the water she produces from her vision to refract light in such a way that it changes color, sure it may just be a gameplay thing but at the same time its too deliberate and fits her job as an idol so yes im taking that to account.
sure she may be weak in lore but because of her inferiority complex where she most likely pushes down her skills in fighting and defense and such for healing because to her, her healing is more benificial that those other things.
I also have a Genshin oc! His name is Anatoli
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to explain more, in my au's, Abyss Barbara and The Pegg twins aus. Anatoli is Barbara's younger twin brother made him to add to the Jean and Barbara's distanced relationship issue
sorry if this has almost all have been about Barbara
I do have a part about diluc tho
Barbara and Anatoli wouldve sought comfort in Diluc due to their situation(emotional neglect basically) and they see a big sibling figure in Diluc, not as a replacement for jean but for the comfort and love they werent really given because barbara and anatoli were both ignored much more
btw Anatoli is his chosen name, no he(sadly) isnt trans its more of a Fischl situation bc he was named Anne at birth even though he was a boy and he got the name Anatoli via suggestion of Barbara during a trip to Snezhnaya
i might explain more abt Anatoli next time
-Leyline!Anon whos very clearly a Barbara kinnie 9and also wants to castrate Albert)
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Well let me say the netiher Fredrica Gunnhildr or Seamus Pegg was a good parnet. And well I think Jean does have her problems from that. She still has agency as a person and her dicisous to continue to support the knights after all they did to Diluc is totally on her.
And not making time to be with her sister is also on her. And jean not doing anything to help Barbara feel that there isn't a competition between them is also on her.
Well Barbara isn't my favorite characters (I might have been a little more warm had they kept her original voice) But I do really sympathize with her.
Oh your OC is very Cute though! And very interesting!
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safetyrat · 2 years ago
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🍒🧡💧 + CHRYSES!!!
i am kissing you on the lips and transferring all the riches of the universe to your bank account as we speak
heres the ask game (ocs are midas, adra, veras, isca and chryses)
🍒 What kind of things do they expect from their relationships? Does this differ between platonic relationships and romantic ones? Is your OC “demanding” or a door mat? What kinds of things do people expect from them in a relationship?
oh god chryses and relationships is tough, as he only ever had two people in his life who actually treated him as an equal and who he was close to. in his childhood he has only ever been treated lesser, as a child that doesn't know anything and has to be left in the dark about everything going on. so i think the only real demand he has is to never be treated like that again.
his following later actually respect him and actually think of him as a capable leader, rather than that he has to be groomed into that role, and he thrives under that attention. thats his demand towards his subjects. but i dont think he could ever have a personal relationship with somebody that puts him on this pedestal like that.
isca is different. because as much as he bullies and teases chryses, something that irritates the hell out of him at first, isca always both treats him like a normal, not untouchable human and also as someone valuable. isca makes use of chryses cleverness, indulges in his passion, actually listens when he is worried about something. the only demand chryses could have towards isca is that he doesnt also leave him and. haha about that
chryses is very aromantic so the only thing he expects out of a romantic relationship is a Respectable And Politically Benificial Wife Who He Can Court Smile :)
what other people expect out of chryses... they expect him to be the person they idealized him to be. the flawless king. the saviour of all. the reviver of justice. if i had to find a flaw between iscas and chryses relationship it would be that isca never fully lost that part that so desperately longed for a prophet that shared his views. he treats chryses like a normal person, sure, but he never lost that glow in his eyes when thinking about what chryses could achieve.
i think the only person who could truly see chryses as the person he is and not the person he was born to be is his brother. but LMAO yeah that ain't happening anytime soon.
🧡 Who is your OC’s favourite person? Why is this person the top of their list and have they actually met them (an idol or rolemodel or celeb can be someone’s favourite after all!).
i think if chryses was asked this question, his initial reply would be a snarky "nobody"
if he was allowed to think about it, especially about the 'it doesnt have to be somebody you've met' part, i think he'd arrive at justice. chryses is very very religous and never looses that deep admiration and connection to that goddess. to his goddess, he has been told all his live that she chose him after all.
...the actual answer is very obviously isca FGHJKH but do you think chryses will ever admit to that??
💧 What is the earliest memory your OC can recall? Do they know what their first words were or remember where they took their first steps? Do they have any mementos of their childhood they’ve kept such as a stuffed toy or tiny baby clothes?
chryses has no recollection of his childhood in the palace, nor does he still own anything from that time. the revivers made sure of that. generally his early childhood is defined by not knowing what is going on, being passed from one room to the other and a lot of pain. the only times that were ever good were when he had his sibling by his side. if i had to pick a particular moment that he remembers first itd look probably a little like this, though:
the room is small, but its so empty that it still looks bleak and sad. the only things decorating the walls are emblems he doesnt know the significans of and writing he cannot read. he is sitting on a bed, but the surface is leathery and cold, not comfortable at all. he doesnt remember the face of the person next to him, but he does remember a womans voice promising "dont worry, it wont hurt at all" before slicing open his skin in a straight line on his upper arm. he watches fluid gold trickle down into the vial she is holding. this is after he has learned that crying and protesting doesnt serve a purpose. but he hasnt taught himself not to flinch yet.
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wizisbored · 2 years ago
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Pls tell me more about snake oil and the dragons
you want some species lore because i have species lore
snake oil demons:
they're in a category somewhere between ghosts and netherworld fauna. like fauna they're solid, but like ghosts they were once alive
despite having a solid body they aren't walking corpses. they form a new body after they die
the only things that can destroy a demon for sure are sandworms or an exorcism using their name. if their body is destroyed in any other way they just reform a new one, though that takes a while
a demon's name is not the name they had before they died. it's whatever they settle into responding to and thinking of themselves as. when it gets to the point they could wholeheartedly say 'my name is x', they'll be unable to.
their names are powerful, which can be benificial or detrimental to them
their base form will be how they looked in life, though they meld slightly to align with mindset (eg how lydia wants to look more demonic in order to be respected and subconciously alters her form to match). im thinking theyre not stuck in the clothes they died with due to them being more animal than spectre but some significant items will stick with them
there are certain traits im currently calling curses (though the name isnt final) that many demons initially form with, that they can spread. its not uncommon for demons to end up giving each other curses during fights. the mould/moss on beetlejuice is an example
some curses (might give these ones a different name) can only be 'inherrited', when a demon kills someone and creates another demon. demon lyida has mood ring eyes because of beetlejuice having mood ring hair
unlike ghosts demons can jump between living and netherworld at will, though it's difficult
dragons:
ive figured the growth stages of this dragon species, though im yet to assign precise ages to them. so while i know lydia starts the fic towards the end of the fledgeling stage and will become a juvenile during it im not sure exactly how old she is
hatchling
little ball of fluff, tiny wings
no horns
born with claws to break egshell but theyre quite blunt so as not to injure clutchmates
peep/chirp
eat as often as possible
totally dependant on parents, stay in nest w/ siblings
pets are usually incubated and hand-reared by humans, with some exceptions
domestic non-pets like show or racing dragons are more likely to be left with the mother
groundling
start to wander outside the nest and play with siblings
shed fluff, grow wings
horns begin to grow in
learn to talk (among dragons, no english)
can begin to understand english if exposed to it
domestics usually given basic obedience training once they start reacting to speech, and are introduced to halters and tethers
fledgeling
learn to fly
size at which they fledge varies with breed - larger breeds grow more as groundlings
less reliant on parents but copy them hunting/foraging
growth slows at this stage, energy mostly goes to learning and mental development
eat as large a meal as they can every 1-2 days
are more likely to flee to parents/safe areas than fight
domestics need a lot of mental stimulation and exercise, very resceptive to training at this age
juvenile (1 year after fledging)
hit a growth spurt, feed near constantly to fuel it
leave their parents, though dragons maintain familial relationships after seperating
become more agressive/defensive
constant hunger and growing pains dont help their attitude
tailfeathers or equivalent develop further
growth depends on breed but generally become more gangly/oddly proportioned
domestics can be difficult at this age, hard but important to get them to focus on maintaining training
many owners treat them with painkillers for growing pains, for their comfort and to help calm them a bit so they're easier to manage
adolescent
growth spurt stops when they are generally big/strong enough to take on decent prey and defend against scavengers
behaviour calms somewhat
return to more spaced out feeding pattern
fill out to adult proportions, basically look like smaller adults
may begin to seek out pair bonds
dormestics usually given groundwork training for riding/pulling/other disciplines
adult
full size depends on breed
raise young in pairs
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kacakacafall · 3 years ago
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Scotland♂×England♀ is definitely my favorite ship,I have written tons of fanfiction about them(all not in English...) Yet I realize that I seldom draw them_(:з」∠)_ probably because I still struggle with painting male characters and human body...
Anyway, I manage to draw some 18th century scoteng stuff. The reference I used here is The Swing by Edward Henry Corbould (https://www.mutualart.com/Artwork/The-Swing/D1AE94F0F95258DB)  I never thought swing could be this romantic, and I just want to see these two do it :3
considering that during 18th century romance and sentiment had gradually get popular in Britain, and (accoriding to history) these two went through a lot after they unitied(got married, in my headcanon) untill finally having a steady benificial relationship. I just want to see them finally become a lovely couple,being terrriblely romantic and very very soppy o(*////▽////*)q  For example,swing like this  (*/ω\*)
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insouciant-jouissance · 4 years ago
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With how Rick was so quick to turn on Morty and Summer and reveal what he promised would stay between them in order to hold examples of bad parenting over Beth and Jerry’s heads so he could come out on top in the conversation makes me think that if there was something between him and Morty he’d sell out part of, if not all of, the truth in an impulsive and childish urge to dominate an argument at least once to Morty’s absolute mortification.
From something humiliating to Morty like, “oh yeah, well your son has a huge boner for his own grandpa, talk about daddy issues. It’s nowonder why he has those though amiright?” to as forward and incriminating as “I’ve been in an incestuous relationship with your son for months now, making him cum almost nightly in your own home and you haven’t even paid enough attention to what he gets up to have a clue. But tell me more about what an attentive and caring person you are to your family when it’s not self benificial to you?”
All because he has to have that gratifying satisfaction of winning with the last devestating word, even if he had to go through the trouble of “fixing” it with a memory wipe or something after the fact when Morty begged him to or once the shock of the revelation wore off and shit hit the fan.
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wizardwatch · 5 years ago
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What is this self indulgent au? 👀👀👀
Ok so it’s like fahhhntasy...
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Essentially instead of being a sci-fi setting i was like ok how could this translate into being a sort of fantasy/fairytale/lotr/dnd type setting and this is like a first draft design lmfaoinstead of being super technologically advanced theyre like these goblin/elf creatures with magic and humans pretty much assume theyre just a mythAlso instead of a robotic PAK situation it’s like a big tick bug thing that latches onto their back in a sort of symbiotic relationship. It survives by drinking the irkens blood from where theyre bitten on the back but also benefits them with fighting/evading with its powerful legs. Irkens can survive without the pakbug but it’s benificial for elites and soldiers to use them to give them an edge in battle
this was just something quick i made between commissions so hopefully ill have more to add on this soon, i have dib/the human side of things kinda figured out too and ill elaborate later
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ao3feed-izuku-midoriya · 4 years ago
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Deals with Demons and Casual Tomfoolery
Deals With Demons and Casual Tomfoolery by TheWeirdnessIsReal
Izuku has been having a hard time, what with Bakugou being a dick, his dreams casually being crushed, and some random stranger stopping him from jumping off that god damned roof. Hey, at least the stranger's hot?
Words: 1647, Chapters: 1/?, Language: English
Fandoms: 僕のヒーローアカデミア | Boku no Hero Academia | My Hero Academia
Rating: Not Rated
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Characters: Midoriya Izuku, Midoriya Inko, Todoroki Shouto, Yagi Toshinori | All Might
Relationships: Midoriya Izuku & Todoroki Shouto, Midoriya Izuku & Yagi Toshinori | All Might
Additional Tags: Midoriya Izuku is a Little Shit, Midoriya Izuku Needs A Hug, Bakugou Katsuki Swears A Lot, Bully Bakugou Katsuki, Suicide Attempt, Demon Deals, But It's a Mutually Benificial Deal, Todoroki Shouto is a Little Shit, Todoroki Enji | Endeavor Being An Asshole, Eventual Romance Hopefully If I Can Get My Shit Together, I Wrote This Instead of Sleeping, no beta we die like mortals, Alternate Universe - Demons, Let Midoriya Izuku Swear
Read Here: https://archiveofourown.org/works/27499540
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