#being rude idec

[gor3-hound]

Nyxy Baby Haiii!!! I love your bg3 theme sm!! It’s super pretty I love it sm, especially the astarion pfp :33

Also saw that anon talking about the person giving the fart asks and I wanna chip in this as someone who’s been dragged into this by the fart anon.

Anon your opinion on this situation is wrong. The fart anon is doing it to purely harass us, myself included. I’ve had to delete too many of their disgusting ass asks despite not even being a writer. This anon is doing it for the point of harassment and it’s annoying alongside the fact it’s just fucking weird since fartplay isn’t something any of us like😭 that anon is an obsessive freak who needs to get a life since they spend too much of their time doing this.

Maybe that anon is into that stuff or whatever but to go harassing multiple people about it multiple times a day/week relentlessly is rude when it’s in our no section. Also comparing it to people who write incest is such a stupid thing to say since people who write incest fics do not go round into others inboxes requesting this stuff especially when they know it’s something someone isn’t comfortable with. Your take is bad and you lack basic comprehension skills :3

Sorry this is so long and I’ve put it on your inbox nyx but I’m just fed up of the situation and the fact that anon is trying to not make it seem so bad is pissing me the fuck off😭 anyways ily nyx <33

omg hiiii!!!! tysm i love astarion sm <3 he's the cutest ever i'm in act three now and... i'm obsessed with him we're dating i'm gonna kick you-know-who's ass as soon as i get the chance :3

also last thing i'm gonna say about the anon thing like... ever bcs i don't wanna clog the dash n idk why i'm getting so many random asks today BUT!

literally my problem isn't the kink. it's the spamming and disregard for people's blog limits. when it's getting sent to almost every. single. blog i follow, it's too much. i have them blocked n it still manages to slip through, but i don't complain. tbh it doesn't even really annoy me that much, only ever bothered me when i was tagged in others blogs, but everyone seems to realise that its a fake ask anyway so idec anymore. idek why that random anon sent the para to me today, bcs i haven't replied to an anon like that in forever, but we move.

i'm mean ig what can you do.

[evansbby]

BESTIE IM SOOSOSOSOSOS HAPPY POYT IS OUT but idk i couldn’t shake the feeling that i was reading a different fic, everyone was super OOC like omega being more brazen and yelling, i always imagined omega as more of the silent type and homegirl was BOLD, steve was just soo different..he was kinda giving manchild and pathetic and just different and i mean poyt!steve is a MANCHILD but idk they just didnt hit the same. It was the ending i expected and was glad that omega got her happy ending but i just wanted angst honestly. I expected peter to take her away and steve just like find them somehow, idk it felt like i was reading a different story, were you perhaps influenced by other characters because they felt a bit off…Anyway it was long and really happy 5 is out! SO SAD TO SEE POYT COMING TO AN END😭 AAH I MISS IT ALREADY, i feel like poyt 3 was like my fav chapter of the whole series, it just slapped and you’re a fantastic writer and i hope this message didn’t offend you in anyway! I just wanted to tell you my opinion, I CHECKED UR ACC EVERY SINGLE DAY FOR A POYT UPDATE(not joking 100% serious)

Oof. So when I first read this comment about a week ago, I was pretty upset and hurt by it. Again, I feel like it is very tactless to say this to someone who spent so long writing something and was so nervous about it being posted.

But okay, let’s get into it then…

1) you felt like it was out of character that omega was being “bold” by being brazen and yelling bc you imagined her as more of the silent type. Okay. So you just wanted to read almost 40k words of her being shy and stuttering and having absolutely no growth while the worst things in life happened to her and everyone just walked all over her? You wanted absolutely no character growth? You wanted her to just remain quiet and docile and never be comfortable. You didn’t want her to stand up for herself when this madman Bucky is about to SA her? You wanted her to remain all bashful and shy and quiet and not show any emotion when she found out her mother left her? Okay then… Look, I’m a very quiet person but sometimes when I’m pushed so far, I WILL react. I think it’s extremely weird of you to think someone would just remain shy and docile forever when such terrible things are happening to her. It’s like… what exactly did you want to read??? You didn’t want her to react to anything?? All that being said, I feel like she still WAS shy in the moments that weren’t her mom leaving or the confrontation with Bucky. Like she literally still is shy, it’s only when she’s being pushed to the limit that she reacts like almost anyone else in her position would. Do you think shy people don’t yell? I’m really confused…. Because omega has lashed out in the other parts too. In POYT 4, and POYT 3 and even in POYT 2. So… idec what you mean by that being OOC.

2) Steve being a “manchild” Girl… idk WHAT fic you were reading before POYT 5 bc Steve has ALWAYS given manchild vibes. Like always. But I think I know what you mean. It seems like you didn’t like that big strong tough alpha Steve was acting “pathetic” and having panic attacks. Because God forbid someone make their characters react different to different things and God forbid someone make their characters multi-faceted, right? I’m sorry it “didn’t hit the same” for you, but I don’t know what you thought you’d achieve by telling me this. I’m proud of how i characterised Steve, and many have told me his progression was realistic and the panic attack made sense. Steve has always been all over the place with his emotions, ever since POYT 4.

3) i literally cannot believe how you’ve actually sent me this and I will not be gaslighted by anyone chiming in being like “omg that anon didn’t mean to be rude” bc idec. This WAS rude. You’re complaining because the fic “didn’t hit the same” and you didn’t get what you were expecting. Fair enough, feel that way all you want. But I wrote this fucking behemoth of a fic for free, and I don’t need to see comments like this. Idec if you sprinkled in a few compliments at the end bc this was the most backhanded thing I’ve ever read. To the point where it’s almost laughable bc either you meant to be rude and backhanded, or you’re just not self aware enough.

“I expected Peter to take her away” okay? Do you want me to apologise for not writing the plot the way YOU wanted it to go? Bffr. Anyone who knows me knows that I am not a fan of cliche stuff like that, I never intended for him to take her away. “I just wanted angst” There was angst. It was very angsty. If you want a more angsty fic, write one yourself.

“Poyt 3 was my fav, it just slapped” this is the most backhanded thing ever 😂😂😂😂 it’s like you didn’t want any progression, any resolution. WHICH AGAIN, that’s fine if that’s what you’re into! But write it yourself jfc.

I just want to ask you this. If you had written a 37k fic over the course of more than six months FOR FREE and then nervously posted it, only to get a backhanded message like this one… how would that feel? I mean it’s one thing if I was a paid author, then you can criticise me all you fucking want bc at least you’re paying me to read my shit.

But to read it and come back telling me the characters felt off, that you felt like you were reading a different story, etc etc. It is not nice. I remember reading this message a week ago and I literally burst into tears bc I was so sensitive. I wish you’d sent this not through anon so I could keep note of who you are and maybe block you or keep you away from my writing bc honestly? I don’t want you even reading it. But oh well.

And I know many of you will read this and say I’m overreacting but I don’t care. This is me being truthful. This wasn’t nice. Goodbye and please unfollow me.

[retired-magical-girl]

i didnt really vibe with the c09 anime idk what else to say lol not much thoughts and cba to elaborate (spoiler alert i elaborate) nor do i really want to get into a shitfight about it, id probably laugh more at a 2016 "try not to laugh compilation" than "WOW youre a hot 15 yo" like 😭 idk i just dont care maybe. i saw a video complaining about lack of characters and idec about that its just not funny. i dont even know why its not funny compared to other dark humour (well i do but its hard to explain to the public who just call u party pooper like im just explaining why i dont think its funny to me u do u boo). i think its because the world is crafted around the characters rudeness rather than characters being awful in a world where their actions still have consequences and that their views aren't normal if that makes sense.

its like the difference between magical girl site and wonder egg priority for me, WEP handle their subjects way better and by doing that they shine in their genre whereas MGS is just like... shock value weird stuffs. like they don't have that layering of values its just normal to kill children or something and thats the joke/content but in reality while people do get hurt all the time there are layers to taboo and society and its not that simple. then i just doubt the message of the media itself and its just offputting i guess. like whats the point of the burrito scene. it feels like a collection of memes rather than something meant to be over 3 mins.

and idk i just got grossed out i personally just dont feel like engaging with the source that much anymore and thats just me again i dont dictate what u do dont act like i am pls.

[the-ugly-ly]

i like him so much and idec he doesn’t want me romantically (well ofc i care but regardless) i still want to be his FRIIIIEND.

but i’m such a cunt and i’m so awkward otherwise. he already rejected me tho so what do i really have to lose??

i’m considering just striking up a random conversation with him… ya know for the plot.

worst case scenario he screams in my face to get lost and how gross i am and how dare i even try talking to him…

actually WORST case scenario he doesn’t even engage with me and ignores me or walks away from me. oh fuck that would be so much worse.

actually i can handle full on rudeness and rejection but being ignored would actually kill me. BECAUSE THATS THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT I WANT BY APPROACHING HIM RIGHT??

SHOULD I DO IT. i want to tell him how good he is at driving the clamp truck and how efficiently he downstacks. truly he’s so good at his job and it’s the one thing at work i struggle with quite a bit.

ugh he’s so cool. SHOULD. i. do. IT!?!?

[a-ikuoliver]

me being a cunt below the cut

AHAHAHHAAHHA CUNNNNNNT MY FUCKING FUCKED FATHER IN LAW IS AB TO LOSE HIS BIGGEST FUCKING CLIENT SUCK MY ASSHOLE YOU FUCKINMG WASTE OF SPACE AHAHAHHAHHAA

this cunt looks down on everyone bc he runs his own business AND HE CANT EVEN DO IT RIGHT he has one massive client he could LIVE OFF ALONE he does not need a single other client AND YET HE'S SPENT THE LAST 2 WEEKS SINCE MY PARTNER LEFT THE BUSINESS DRINKING AND SLEEPING AT HOME

BITCH???? DO U THINK THIS MASSIVE FUCKING COMPANY IS GOING TO COME BACK AFTER THIS BRO??? AHAHAHAAH god i've never been happier idec that it's rude or fucking spiteful he is finally getting the shit he deserves he has lost every fucking client and every fucking friend and every fucking family member bc of his own actions and i fucking lvoe to see it

[nothaileysrs]

Im just so tired of feeling alone, i really am i fucking hate my new school yall bitches fake and i dont like nun of yall, im sorry but you guys arent my true friends you guys dont treat me like true friends every day i hate being there i hate it there i hate everyone there none brings me joy. Its so chaotic there i feel bum even walking there i feel bum when i talk to people or try to talk to people and they js ignore me like j.r like dude im trying to talk to you fuck are u ignoring me for thats rlly rude im trying not to be mean or any way manipulative by saying i dont like when u do this bc i dont like being controlling pero vete al a verga con eso i tried but i havent done shit for you to treat me like that and i dont get why you giving me an attitude when i ask for a sip of ur water shi u acting like im asking for the whole damn thing and when i used to ask for shi u would be so rude acting like i dont share my shit with you like damn u fake asf ion like that shit. Change ur attitude w me hoe or i wont talk to you but atp idec if we talk bc ur treating me like shit fucking my mental up when all i wanted to do is be ur friend from day one. This mad goofy but wtv im js ranting

-hailey

[harryfeatgaga]

okay so I've sent you like a million asks about being a CNA but i need advice again 😭 I thought it was going okay but the other day i worked with someone who was just ... not great and honestly kind of made me rethink things. like she was really rude and made me reconsider whether i actually like working there or if I've just gotten lucky with good coworkers so far. and like my facility has really weird rules so I'm not allowed to use the machine lifts bc you have to be 21, so whoever I work with basically has to do twice the work and i feel so bad 😭 basically all the residents require a machine lift so i pretty much just can't do anything, and also it's just so much more physically demanding than i thought like I can't be moving people all day I am simply not strong enough 😭 I'm rlly thinking about switching from long term care over to memory care bc apparently all the residents there can move on their own and don't require lifts at all so I'm like maybe... but I know memory care is really difficult in its own way so basically I'm asking if anyone has any advice here like should I stick it out in LTC or just switch to memory care ? I think memory care might pay less but I'm so stressed atp idec 😭

Oh man I’m so sorry that’s really tough I worked in memory care not as a CNA but it’s def hard work but it it’s easier for you id talk to someone about switching!

[frog-0n-a-l0g]

1 IDEC IF ITS U DOING IT

2SINCE WHEN DO YOU CARE ABOUT BEING RUDE TO ME

Hehe I made another

It’s a sleep aid

[winterstark]

stop following me here random accs jfc just scroll down my blog for 2 seconds and you’ll see ???

[dellinah]

I worked at the Bronx Zoo in 1995 and there was an old man volunteering there who in the 1920s saw their live thylacine. Sad conversation with him b/c he'd always known it was a special opportunity to see it, but he couldn't describe it as anything special - what he was saying was what you would say if asked to describe the video clips. The pure experience of it cannot be transmitted. I have loved thylacines my whole life and feel cheated. We were all cheated.

Woah! Lucky you :D There are probably not that many (if any) people alive today who saw a thylacine as kids and were old enough then to remember it still, since the last one died in 1936. Pretty cool that you met someone who did and got the chance to talk to him about it! Even if he didn't find it that special, I'd say that that puts you closer to tassies than most of us will ever be in a way :P Not many people can say they saw an extinct animal alive, so I think that alone is pretty cool too. I'd have asked him to describe so many details he'd probs be annoyed, lol. I can see why some people would think they aren't special, but I do. Yes, a lot of the wonder and mistique around them comes from the fact that they are extinct, but I think they're special on their own.

Possums that looked like wolves. What's not to love?

I love that you sent this ask, actually. It warmed my thylacine-loving heart in a way :'3 have some other pictures I took in the museum as a thank you (the lighting there is terrible for pics, but hopefully you enjoy it still)

But honestly, I get you. There are things that can't be said with words, and I think experiences are one of those things. Even with the most eloquent of descriptions, I think you can never fully understand what someone else went through or felt at a certain situation. I know that if I got to see a living thylacine, I'd never be able to convey what it meant to me. Even if most people found it dumb/didn't get why it was special to me. Heck, people at the museum were probably confused as to why I was crying at a mounted animal oop

It's sad, but in a way, thylacines disappeared twice. Once when the last one passed away, and again when the last people who saw them alive passed away too. First they were gone, and lived on only as memories. Now that the memories are gone as well since those people are (most likely) gone too, we only have the ghosts - the pictures, the drawings, the videos, which shape the ideas we get of them. Like you said, you, and I, and anyone else who wishes to see them, were robbed.

All we have of the thylacine is old. A video I've seen a million times, pictures that will never move or make a sound. We were robbed of so much when it comes to them. We were robbed of their sound, of their colors, their behavior. We have nothing now. We'll never know what they sounded like, or watch them hunt, or learn more about them. Really, all we have is ghosts and other people's memories as we look at the pictures other people took.

And that will have to do.

Little story for yall: when I was at the museum, there was a little girl with her dad there too. She'd jump from one animal to another, asking him to tell her where each animal lived (as the exibitions were labeled by place of origin of the animals). They got to the tassie the same time that I did, and when she asked "where does this one live?" he read the sign and replied "It doesn't live anymore. It doesn't have a home anywhere. They're gone."

And then they walked away, and I didn't see them anymore. But man, that hit hard. I keep hearing that in my head, over and over again.

It doesn't live anymore.

It doesn't have a home anywhere.

They're gone.

That dad and little girl probably didn't think anything of it. But I'll never forget that. How thylacines once lived, once had a home.

And now, there's none.

Been thinking of incorporating those sentences into a drawing of them or smth. I know it's very r/im14andthisisdeep but let me weird about them ok they make me sad

But yeah, that's my thylacine rant for the night. Because there aren't enough of those in my blog :P Thanks again for this, as it allowed me to ramble oops. Hope you doing well!

[forcedsense]

how there are people in the world that think dogs are dumb ill never understand my morkie has been throwing a tantrum for an hour now bc i paused mar/kiplier

[songmingisthighs]

To the person I highlighted, whoever you are,

YO MOM'S A HOE

fucking asking about another member in the middle of yeosang's live THE DISRESPEKT

idec if what I'm doing is controversial or frowned upon or whatever but don't do this. Don't be THAT fan ok ??? Like it's fucking simple ??? ask questions to and about the member who's on live

like imagine being in a group gathering and the people in that group asked you questions mostly about your parents, your siblings, your other friends, your old schoolmates, etc. and the questions dumped on you are stupid ass ones like "what'd you choose, having to wear a chicken as a hat or an octopus as a skirt?"

don't fucking join their lives if you wanna ask questions about other members.

"are you still talking to other members" or "did you do something with ××× today?" are ambiguous but still okay

BUT

"where's ××× ?" "how's ××× ?" "is ××× okay?" are just plain rude

[yuzudonut]

yozzer’s bakugan brawler thoughts

so i can keep track of what i end up thinking of and if anyone’s interested in reading them all in one place and since i’m in such a bakugan mood this week...

ALICE GEHABICH - shes so versatile for gender thoughts im serious, holding trans girl alice and “masquerade was her trans awakening” trans guy alice <-- latter is super indulgent and more like me projecting how masquerade was one of the characters that influenced how i wanted to be perceived as a kid (evil and masculine). wow alice ur so very gender i wish i had ur range  - she should’ve had a borzoi pet dog  - i think more people should draw her with two tones hair like idec how you draw it but give her some blonde hair eh eh eh ? 

SHUN KAZAMI  - trans but is so distanced from the lgbt community he simply wouldn’t even consider himself trans  - half chinese on his dads side bcs i said so and its my favorite character i can make him a little chinese since we dont know anything abt his dad  - his fashion style is whatever u call modernizing traditional clothes so they can be worn casually, with a mix of goth.  - went through a warrior cat phase with runo 

RUNO MISAKI - scene girl look but its like scene girl lite i dont think she’d commit too hard to it but she digs the general aesthetic - i think she should’ve been childhood friends with dan and shun, before my rewatch i thought she was... think dan and runo would’ve been funnier as childhood friends.  - nightcore fan - went through a warrior cat phase with shun

DAN KUSO - depending on how i feel he is either the token cishet friend or also trans but is unaware shun is also trans until s2-3 - his eyes are brown but are like borderline burgandy  - he’s got canine teethies, sharp

JULIE MAKIMOTO - should’ve been more lovecore thats my only criticism  - i think she shouldve been more rude but in the “^v^ omg totally!” way,  and then spits in ur food when ur not looking  - horse girl  - the type of person to write love letters for fun and then just puts them in a neat box or something (isnt there a movie w something like this idk)

MARUCHO MARUKURA - frog/crab liker, i think thats canon but i need it emphasized - his character development is not being a captialist and wealth hoarder after s1 (idk how true this is ive only watched s1 and remember like 2 things about s2)  - confession... i hate marucho fr some reason, i love all his bakugan but he just doesnt do it fr me so i don’t have many thoughts on him

[keichanz]

alright. okay.

rin is in the damn tree. fine, whatever idec anymore. but y'all, I gotta ask....

why the FUCK are sessrinners like "ITS CANON OMG ITS CONFIRMED" when its literally not?? y'all where tf you see that its confirmed?? newsflash guys, rin being in the tree confirms literally nothing. it doesn't mean she's the mom. it doesn't mean she's married to sess. fuck for all you know she could still just be his fucking ward/daughter or what-thefuck-ever. maybe she has another purpose. maybe its her goddamn ghost or something for all you know. which is n o t h i n g.

stop jumping the fucking gun and wait for the goddamn episode to air before you go around screaming your ship is canon when you don't know shit. its annoying as fuck and idec if you come at me for being rude, im fucking done with this already. you're making something that i genuinely enjoy lose its appeal and frankly it's pissing me off.

yeah i fucking said it. die mad about it.

[ask-twinx]

dear journal,

captain’s log,

to whom it may concern,

me to me,

you gotta stop doing that thing you do where you stop talking when someone interrupts you

just keep going like you didn’t hear them being LOUD and rude and just finish that damn sentence

idec if it’s a customer saying they don’t wanna hear about the special—they are gonna hear about the motwhffuxnsjcjin special!!!

sincerely,

me

p.s. don’t order the special, it’s nasty

[jamaisjoons]

how can you say you don't know who the anon is referring to lollllll everyone knows who unless you're a newbie or completely naive. Anyways they have a point because you post screenshots of pretty much every other day of your conversations and then act like you're the IT group. I'm just saying what I've observed over the years. Call me a hater if you wish.

Yeah dude I said I didn’t know because I literally have more than one friendship group on here but also if you actually read the answer to the original ask, you’ll see I mentioned that I assumed it was about FWL admins because we’re the loud dumbasses on here

Also like idec if this comes off as rude but literally go fuck yourself lmao I’m sorry but you cannot single out me and my friends for doing that when we’re not the only ones doing that. Also like,,, I haven’t even posted a screenshot about them in like a week or two, aka since we got fucking drunk on zoom and did dumb shit so like,,,,, don’t sit here behind anon being like ‘yeah you post screenshots every day acting like you’re the it group’ it’s fucking bullshit. Also like idk wtf YOUVE been observing for years but like,,,,, we literally only became really close a couple months back when I came off hiatus so idk what you’ve been observing for years,,, unless you’ve confused us with someone else but idk

Also like I post screenshots/DMs about ALL my friends because they’re fucking crackheads- and if you WERE observing it as you so claimed, you would have noticed that too. Also like it’s my fucking blog if I wanted to post 100 screenshots a day I’m well within my right to do so and you can simply just unfollow ? Like it’s not that hard to do

also we have NEVER ONCE pretended to be the IT group or dumb shit like that because a) we’re not children we’re adults b) we don’t think so highly of ourselves lmao like who tf thinks like this in the first place. As everyone has mentioned, it’s all on perspective and if that’s yours then so be it like I’m not gonna sit arguing with you over stupid things like this

Also lmao I’m not gonna call you a hate because again,,, immature and childish but go off and call yourself a hater ig????

Anyway I was chill but this ask pissed me off so like yeehaw I’m off to go read some Jin fics : )