#before you ask….yes im an infp

[whenyoucallmelover]

i feel oddly soft and emotional tonight, as i often do late in the evenings, so please do forgive the sappiness... i just wanted to say how much i’ve loved being on tumblr. i’ve loved 1d since i was a shy, young tween who just goofed off and sang wmyb and i want with my friend into hairbrushes at our sleepovers. in 2015, i actually joined the fandom and i was mainly on stan twitter, where met a lot of lovely people on there that i still think about often (and one that i still talk to!), but i also met some one who were very harmful and mean. as much as i loved the good people i knew on twitter, i never quite felt the kindness and the sense of community and the pure love for harry and louis like i do here.

i really wish i had joined tumblr sooner!! i know i’m late to the party over here, so i just wanted to thank all my sweet mutuals for making this such a warm place after leaving my overwhelming, toxic twitter world. i’m really grateful to have found a new and more positive place to continue sharing my love & admiration for my favorite things <3

(tldr; you’re all so cool and fun and kind~~ i just wanted to send you some virtual hugs. 🫂)

[mbti-enemies]

hey there guys, I wanna ask for advice on something if you're cool with it

I've always found the ships between INFPs and ENTJs so intriguing, they make such good dynamic tropes in theory and I wondered if it'd actually work well in real life

So I've got a new job recently and there is this girl there who's an ENTJ, she's got sharp cheekbones and dimples, tanned skin, long black hair, the prettiest shaped dark eyes I've ever seen, and she's so damn funny, wit, intelligent, bold, confident...

and GOSH, I'm just so very gay

She's so out of my league I didn't even consider anything actually working out, besides I've always been more inclined towards XNFXs, I just have the best past experiences and connections with them, but this girl's got me on my knees.

My colleagues are always hanging out together and they call me to tag along with them, I'm usually introspective and prefer small groups or one-to-one hangouts, but I don't wanna seem rude or antisocial, so I go, specially because I was/am new there and I'm not against making friends.

This girl - we'll call her Nell - came up to me and asked for my Instagram on my first day there and we had this conversation

Nell, scrolling through my acc: you don't post pictures of yourself?

Me: no, I'm not photogenic

Nell: oh please, spare me the BS, I look at you and my mind goes "she looks just like a dream, the prettiest girl I've ever seen" (yes she fucking sang that)

My reaction was basically the personification of a keyboard smash.

From there we became friends and she kept boldly flirting with me, leaving no space for doubts that she was flirting. But me, being the oblivious insecure dingus that I am, thought it was all a joke, like a friendly flirting, I don't know, I'm socially awkward, give me a break

I think she's only around me because she thinks I look cute, and I feel like if she actually gets to know me she won't like me anymore and that terrifies me, she's so WOW, and I'm so no big deal.

Anyways, yesterday we were preparing a birthday party for a co-worker when she came from behind me and turned my face to her as though she was gonna kiss me, she did it before but she never actually went for it, so I leaned in myself and pulled back before actually touching her lips, she widened her eyes and her jaw dropped slightly

Everyone was like "oh my god, were you actually gonna do it?", "I can't believe you missed the opportunity, she was literally right there", "were you about to make out?" and she replied with "not in front of everyone, give a girl some privacy" then she looked at me, "I wouldn't mind a kiss rn tho" pulled me by the waist, LEANED IN AND KISSED ME, it was just a quick peck, but still. then she pulled back and went "is this ok?" and I replied by kissing her back.

I don't know where I took that confidence from, but that's not the point

I HEKEHSKDGWKHSJDEH guys, I'm not good with this socialising thing, I've never dated anyone before, I never give people opening to actually get to know me or get closer, I've always been lonely (partially by choice), I have abandonment/trust issues, and yes, I go to therapy. Been recently diagnosed with ASD and ADHD, which fucks everything else that much more, I have no idea what I'm doing, but I really like this girl

It's just, I don't know, help me, please, what do I do? what's the way for an ENTJs heart? :D

...... soooo anon

you already have the entjs heart im pretty sure. i think what you need is a self confidence and self love boost so here is *boosts you (you sounds SWEET and AMAZING and LOVELY and you like her so beautifully and what more could she ask for)

anyways, i understand that you're scared. but you respect entj, as well as crush on her, so respect her decision to like you ;)

respect her liking you and let her decide whether you're good enough for her (you so are btw shut up already), open up, and just ask this girl out. if you like her, that's enough, it really is.

literally just go ask her out do it shoo everyone is rooting for you and the girl already kissed you infp what more of a sign could you POSSIBLY ask for. give us an update after <3

[plasmasimagination]

Hi! I hope You’re doing well and I wanted to ask who you’d match me with from HSR, preferably the guys because ahhahdjsbdks my pfp, but ignore jingy rn I want your true and honest opinion. (I don’t mind a female suggestion either)

I’m going to really try and keep this short (I feel like I will fail this as I literally over-explain everything—) but don’t feel pressured at all to reply to this or anything! (I kinda feel i alr did this but im forgetful too help-)

A quick summary:

I’m afab, like 160cm(5’2? With chest which I hate because I want the dark academia dressing style (i dont have money)), she/they, libra, INFP, I’m sorry, I haven’t really had the hyperfixation on sun moon and rising and well astrology stuff tbh 😭

My personality (a mess im so sorry):

Well, I don’t think I could tell you. What I know of myself is that I try to be honest, I am loyal to my friends and probably obsessive when someone shows me interest and i dont know- (there’s some mental disorders going around, along a suspicion of autism) Personally I see myself as a shy annoying brat, while in reality I don’t ever initiate conversation and never know what to say unless it’s about a hyperfixation or something—AGAIN I OVEREXPLAIN EVERYTHING. My mouth doesn’t work as well as I’d like to, I cry too much (imo) I’m sensitive to well a lot, I get overstimulated quickly depending on the situation and um well I’m a picky eater I guess.

RAHHH I LOVE FOOD. And I’m chubby. I’m VERY self conscious and messy (which I’m sure you’ve noticed if you got this far)

Fun fact! If i were to live alone (still living with parents because house market is hell) I’d probably forget to eat a lot/overeat even more than I already do. Why? Because I don’t feel it. I don’t feel a limit to my ‘hunger’ and I don’t even really think I feel hungry at times.

Also, I hate to be perceived by people. It makes me feel like… too much alive. I don’t really feel a connection between my mind and my body, like someone sees my body and I’m just: THAT AINT ME YALL PLEASE IT AINT MEEEEE 😭😭😭😭 but id never say that bc again, my mouth doesn’t work.

I think I’m pretty useless at a lot too, but I don’t mean for this to be a traumadump thingy, which I also don’t realise when I should stop or not like RIGHT NOW I SHOULD PROBABLY STOP (the doubt is real, I’m so sorry—)

LAST THING!

I’m a Jing Yuan simp, obviously, name and all, but I also firmly believe we wouldn’t be good together? Like he’d be great for me. But what would I bring to him? Besides messy thoughts and nothing?… Which is literally nothing. I want to be someone he could properly rely on and not just a hopeless random girlypop who stops processing information after something becomes a bit too much mentally.

I have my serious moments, which will for most part go unnoticed online, but it’s not like I’m inherently useful or whatever. I feel like I’m really lacking in lots of aspects, and yes I’m aware I’m not ‘old’ yet, but my thoughts eat me alive and I won’t be surprised if I well blablah me me me I hate talking about me. Nothing bad even happened I’m just weird at this point, apologies! (Im a mess, my mind is still that 12 year old kid who just wanted a good hug from her mom and a good chat with her mom without all the school and later college problems aghh I wanna be 5 again.)

ANYWAYS if you made it this far, kudos to your determination anddd i hope you stay hydrated! And eat well. Health before anything.

I FAILED TO KEEP IT SHORT. Sorry I- AAAA that’s how my brain is.

Good god jingsnuggler you're Litteraly the best request I've had in my inbox- (IM SORRY MY OTHER CUTIEPIES DONT GET JEALOUS)

And I also was scrolling from like bottom to top to write some request and saw your pfp and was like "wait didn't I just recently get another one of them?" And I was right >:} You really did stay in my memory HSHSHS anyways anyways not tryna chit chat too long since we know why you're here, and I'll use both of your submits to give you the perfect match...

Drumrolls please....

🥁🥁🥁

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JING YUAN!

WAIT ! LISTEN IM NOT BIASED.

I genuinely with all of my heart think that you guys would be perfect like no joke

He would balance you out, just fine.

He's a gentle soul, and would find you very amusing and enjoy being around you

Your talkative and bubbly nature would soothe his soul and calm him even.

Sensitive personality? Don't worry Jing yuan will pat your head and tell you it's fine

Forget to eat? Jing yuan will take note of it. And make sure you never forget. Ever

Okay enough of fluff you said you don't think you have anything to offer for him while I strongly disagree

I think Jing yuan needs someone who can keep him entertained, someone that can talk to him, he's a lonely man believe it or not, he doesn't really interact much with plp other than Yanqing, and between you and me Yanqing is boring af

So he'll greatly appreciate having a small birdie on his shoulder that will tell him all that they think , after hours of doing general work all he would need is to have someone talk to him about some casual stuff and random thoughts, yk?

I also think he would turn to you in case of a crisis, sometimes just come home to you and lay down to cuddle with you, it comforts him somewhat, youre like his stress reliever, hes usually very reserved and calm with other people, but with you..it's so different

To him you're like a fresh breath of air, like just a slap to the face to wake him up, you keep him from going freaking insane

I don't think Jing yuan is usually fit for people with a personality of like blade or Dan Heng (just an example of personality I am no shipper nor anti shipper don't shoot me)

Like ...yeah I guess they can be friends but like...Jing yuan wouldn't click with them? I don't know how to explain it but jing yuan needs someone lively and like all over the place, so he can take time to slowly organize you and your thoughts in his mind.

Phew that's all from me, sending lots of hugs and loves I hope to see you around on my blog since you're a small blessing on my acc (≧◡≦) ♡

[kozukenkitten]

Hewwo! I was wondering if ya still open and if you have free time, Can i have a BNHA match-ups pretty please? If not, its okie!

👉👈

*Im actually 5'7 female, has short black hair and black eyes i wore sometimes glasses and I wear dark clothes.

*Favourite Colour: Violet/purple and Black

*Favourite Flower: Lavender

*My zodiac sign is Aries.

*My personality type is INFP

*Personality:

♡people see me that im always quiet, distant and emotionless, but for me im just (anxious) shy and yes im a quiet person, im afraid to socialize people because im kinda akward or anxious, if someone get to know me, im might kinda childish or playful it depends on my mood.(sometimes chaotic)

♡I have a terrible anxiety when i perform/observe/introduce infront of le people, i easily go panicked/ panic attack and shaking easily, even i socialize people because im terrible at it, but still try to communicate or interact.

♡And im a introvert, i like staying at home because its comfortable and enjoy le quietness.

♡Im having difficult controlling my emotions and my temper.

♡Im kinda insecure because of my own body or a scar on my cheek

*My hobbies is:

♡Drawing/doodling (sometimes draw in digital), whenever im alone or bored so i decide to draw,whenever people peeking my drawings, i suddenly quickly hid it or didnt show it because im to shy yo show it because my art/drawing wasnt that good, my art style is like an anime.

 ♡can do martial arts, i used it for self-defence.

Likes:

♡Reading books, i like to read science, poetry and arts.

♡Writing stories or letters (is embarrased/shy to show or read my stories)

♡Loves going le park, because its peaceful.

♡Listening music/songs (P!ATD or 17th Century music)

♡Volunteer/joining being a medic in school

♡Loves drinking slushies

♡Plushies

♡Sleeping (yes, i sleep, A LOT.)

♡Loves studying about insects

Pet Peeves:

💔loud noises/screaming/shouting

💔afraid being alone

💔afraid in the dark

*How i show affection:

♡The way i show affection is head patting, gives hugs or kisses. (This is how i comfort or i do it because i want to cuz why not? Im kinda clingy and likes giving some affection)

Thank you! 💕

Hi! I've matched you with Shota Aizawa (feat. Present Mic)!

Okay, okay, hear me out on the latter part. Present Mic's loud as hell under normal circumstances, yes. But around you? He is the most respectful, quiet, calm person. He deliberately speaks more quietly around you after he finds out that you're sensitive to loud or unexpected noises. He'll still be the same enthusiastic, energetic guy, but he'll be a lot more cognizant of his volume levels. He's so freaked by the idea of his quirk hurting you that he specifically avoids using it if you're around so he doesn't accidentally upset you or otherwise hurt your ears. And he'd be such fun for you to be around, jamming out to music together and snuggling! He'll occasionally work to get you out of the house (ie to the park or to the school), because he wants you to get some fresh air every once in a while and have a chance to socialize in a low-stress environment (ie with the students, all of whom are very respectful of your introversion, and are very interested in learning more about their teachers' partner).

Shota, on the other hand, seems to be a pretty obvious fit. This man will invite you into his sleeping bag (with or without him in it) for a nap between classes or whenever you're feeling overwhelmed by being around the students, and will gladly cuddle in bed with you at home before and after work. He'll also ensure there's access to plenty of interesting books to read in his classroom (most of which were picked out by Nezu himself from the library to pique your specific interests at Shota's request). If there's an insectoid student, they're quick to discuss setting up a meeting between you and the student as long as the student's cool with it, so you can ask whatever questions you may want about their insect-like qualities, to offer you a unique perspective on one of your special interests.

Between these two, you'll never have a dull day if you don't want to. They're good at lazy days in, but are also good at fun days out, so whatever you're in the mood for, they've got you all set.

Scars? These guys both have plenty of their own, so that won't bother them in the slightest. In fact, to them, it's just another small part of the story of how you became who you are, so they're quite pleased when you finally feel comfortable telling them what happened to lead to the scar's creation, and they're glad to share the stories of their own scars as well.

[shytastemakerthing]

Hii, I wanted to ask for a romantic matchup please, the fandom I choose is Jujutsu Kaisen. ^^ My mbti is infp, my enneagram is 9w1 and im pan but i prefer to be matched with male characters. I define myself as a laid back, goofy and reserved person; my social battery is very low and I tend to remain quiet when I find myself in a situation where too many people are involved. My 'extroverted' side tends to come out when I'm around my closest friends or when alcohol is involved (lmao), even if sometimes it only depends on my current mood.

The people close to me describe me as a calm, always balanced person who thinks things through before doing something; they also see me as a faithful individual with strong values, an empathetic side and as someone who likes to joke around A LOT. My bad traits are that i procrastinate and daydream often, trying to escape from my problems :p. My hobbies are shopping for clothes (i don't have a particular style, i like to dress in feminine/elegant clothing), playing video games (my favourite genres are rhythm games, story driven games and strategic games like FE or Triangle Strategy) and hanging out with my friends. I like spending time alone in my room, reading (even if i don't do it very often), wearing good outfits, traveling and listening to music (mostly pop but im fine with everything that has a good beat). I'm also trying to get better at digital art! :)

The things i hate are overly loud people (they drain out my social battery), public speeches and being ignored or left out.

Thank you very much, I hope this amount of info is enough! Don't be afraid to let me know if I have to add other details in my description, no worries. <3

Hello and thank you for your request! I do hope that you enjoy your match-up! This is my first time doing JJK as I am still rather new to the series so I hope I do this well!

Prompt:Romantic JJK match-up

Tw: None

I match you with.......

Kento Nanami

From an outsiders perspective, he seems rather closed off in his relationship with you, but they only see this from the outside, not how he really is with you

You're safety is his main priority, especially in such a dangerous area, yes, he has tried teaching you various forms of defense, it helps him feel better

Honestly, he loves how laid back you can be. It is a big change from the stress and chaos of his work life

Coming home to you at the end of the day?

Yes, please. It is like all worries just melt away off his shoulders

He loves how calm and balanced you can be, refreshing, in his mind. The two of you have quite the conversations at the end of a work day, that is certain

Knowing of your love of reading, if he happens to see or find a good book while he is out or working, he has already bought it and anticipating the smile on your face when he shows it to you

In the end, Kento loves every little thing about you, from your calm nature, your love of reading, and knowing just what to do and when. He has never been happier

Have a wonderful day/night!

[seekinginnerwisdom]

I am an older female INFP and I first took the test as a teen and have consistently gotten the same results, regardless of website or version of test. And I was always kinda secretly proud to be one because my mom was struggling with my teen sister's bipolar/hormone powered rage and my dad, I think, was one of us too. He was a reserved, weird, sweet, unfocused mess who avoided conflict unless drafted (little war humor, get it from my dad). So I became my mom's confidant which made me feel helpful and special at the time but i now know probably wasnt "healthy".

Fast forward to now and I've earned a number of invisible "survivor of *insert trauma*" medals for myself. And just recently earned myself a small one for "surviving break up with first boyfriend after divorce" Its doesnt have a catchy title and I dont know how I they fit all the words on such a small surface but I'm proud of my small accomplishment. 13 years married, 6 years single, 2.5 years with him...alone again.

Shouldn't I be devastated longer than a week? He did it really poorly, too. Asked for a break a week before which took me by surprise, then 4 days later he told me he loved me and didnt want to break up but still needed time to figure things out, a few days later and its I want to be your friend but nothing more.

It was a back and forth conversation and he's telling me he's not attracted to me anymore and quickly adds "it's not because of the weight" (to clarify I have been struggling with my stomach and have lost 40 lbs which sounds great, unless you weren't overweight before and now I look like a skeleton). When he said that I couldn't help but laugh in that hurt way, where its brevity and pain mixed with a scoff (just me?) And not expecting a reply I rolled my eyes away from him and ask "so it's just me as a person" and there wasnt much hesitation before I hear a soft but steady "yes" behind me. As you can imagine, I didnt respond well to having my entire existence be rejected so i did something he had never seen me do. I yelled at him and kicked him out of my car. Then I tried to go back to work. Yup, he broke up with me in the middle of the work day. I'm sorry this is so long and I even skipped parts.

I left early and took a pill or two more than recommended and just ran away from consciousness as fast as modern medicine could get me there. (I dont post much so I dont know if I need to worry about responses but I took low doses of anti anxiety meds that wouldnt harm me unless i consume the whole bottle. I took 1 mg more than normal. Dont attack me). I got him to be more specific in his choice of break up methods the next week after texting to let him know I wrote a 7 page goodbye letter and how he has come out of this looking like a psychopath.

Is it an INFP thing? When someone hurts me or angers me and I'm trying to speak it's a lot of ums or long pauses. But hand me a pen or a keyboard and fill me will righteous rage...you cant stop me. If I know anything at all about you then you will receive a paragraph like you are reading right now filled with oddly observational criticism, I will hit upon at least one thing your sensitive about and end it all with a guilt trip so strong only the Catholically trained can weather it well.

I think he was afraid of the letter because he had been receiving the texts but not replying. He responded pretty quickly after that. After days of contradicting actions, trains of thought that burst into flames as it derailed and red string theory memes he finally told me that his decision to take a break, reassure me and then dump me in such an abrupt manner on a workday, twice btw, was because he really hadn't thought about it...

Now this is going to sound strange but I am so glad my exhusband had been abusive because it taught me control. Otherwise I would have hit him. Who does that?! Im 99% sure he wasnt lying because he's a blunt INTJ and he explained his incomprehensible thought process earlier and I've had previous experience with his type of obliviousness. He really didnt mean to hurt me, he doesnt have any social circle to speak of so when planned this whole thing his feedback was a crowd of 1.

But I saved the best for last. He appears to genuinely like me and really doesnt want to lose me. He wants to be friends...and my dumb ass said yes. With a caveat that the second he starts dating I'm out. I dont do lover to friends. I'm possessive and wont share. So as long as he stays single I'll be his friend. I know I'm dumb. I know I'm just going to be hurt by another display of thoughtlessness from him. But except for the week of hell I've been truly happy with him until I got sick. He's a jerk. I deserve better. But did you know, that INFP can be shallow too. I didnt until i met him. He is so pretty (in my eyes, he is definitely not to everyone's taste) and 7 years younger and he picked me 2.5 years ago. I am not pretty. Hard marriage, lifetime of depression, rather read another chapter than apply a layer of makeup, etc. but he eavesdrop me talking to my work friend and liked what he heard and asked me out.

God I'm dumb. Wow. I'm so sorry. It just happened today and I needed to let it out and when it started I tried another forum to get perspective from similar wired people as my boyfriend so I could do whatever was best for him and some responses were productive and informative if a tad blunt. One or two tried with all their might to be kind and I love them for that. The rest can burn in hell. I know I'm what people consider an "unhealthy" version of my type but I've just been considering myself a survival INFP. I think we all get broken a lot thanks to our inner compass. And when we build ourselves back up again our structure gains or loses new aspects. My corners are sharper, and someone broke my glasses so things arent clear all the time and when my belief in human goodness broke off I wasnt able to find all the pieces but it's still there. I'm still here. And now I will shut up. Sorry again. Still gonna post it though! :p

[sensitiveandhungry]

get to know me game !!

tagged by @bbujiikseu <3

birthday: april 10th

favorite color: purples and bright/dark yellows and lots of greens and blues

do you have any pets? i don't have any of my own but i have my family dog Buster <3

how tall are you?: 170 cm (5'7) :,) unfortunately

how many pairs of shoes do you own?: 15 but i definitely wear five the most

favorite song: every few days it changes, right now its "Let You Break My Heart Again" by Laufey and the Philharmonia Orchestra

favorite movie: also changes from moment to moment but I can confidently say that overall I will never get tired of Thor: Ragnarok

who would be your ideal partner?: wow, so many things. to be simple and succinct he needs to be respectful and patient, asks for consent, is honest and truthful, and loyal. And, of course loves me for me. can also deal with my antics, insecurities, etc

do you want children?: honestly, i'm not sure. i do but also the idea of being in charge of another human being and responsible for how it turns out is terrifying to me. also no thank you to child birth. since i was in middle school i have wanted to adopt, and would ideally like to adopt teenagers so i can help them and give them the resources they need in the last few years before they become adults. i want to be able to put more functioning adults out in the world, even if its only one or two.

have you gotten in trouble with the law?: no sir no ma'am

what color socks are you wearing?: no socks right now but earlier today i was wearing grey socks with lavender borders and cartoon cows on it. cows are my favorite animal. they are my favorite socks.

favorite type of music: girl i love so much music, number one is just pop. overall, all sub-genres. k-pop of course, duh, hello. lately r&b is just SO GOOD? so yeah that too. and i really life soft pop/rock/bedroom type beats.

how many pillows do you sleep with?: four pillows, a quilt and two blankets, two stuffies. anything less its just not heavy enough i need a nest

what position do you sleep in?: all of the above? primarily a stomach sleeper but i can fall asleep on my side or back too. but i always wake up on my stomach

what don’t you like when you’re sleeping?: being cold. it is the absolute worst. i also hate sleeping with like no weight on me. def can't do just a sheet and can hardly do just a comforter/duvet. <<this is kana's response but literally me too. we are the same.

what do you have for breakfast?: it depends on the day and my schedule. with a few exceptions, M,W,F I eat nutella toast, T,Th I have chocolate protein milk with apple cinnamon nutrigrain bars. On the weekends I make homemade egg 'mcmuffins' with english muffins, over-easy eggs, american cheese, and occasionally bacon.

have you tried archery?: yes! it is so much fun although im not much good at it

favorite fruit?: hmmm pomegranates and maybe plums too <<< once again kana's response but as usual, we are, in fact, the same

are you a good liar?: it depends. partial truths? yes. blatant lies to people's faces? no jfsdhlgdks

What’s your personality type?: as a kid i was an enfp, for a short while i was an istp, and now i am an infp

innie or outtie? i have the deepest innie belly button you will ever see in your entire life jfkjf. genuinely like the size of a thimble

left handed or right handed?: right handed, always wanted to be ambidextrous

favorite food: carbohydrates. pasta, bread, rice, potatoes. :)

favorite foreign food?: just like kana i love phad thai. it is so good i just- *faints*

am i clean or messy?: i'm def unorganized, but i also hate messes but bc of my anxiety i never know where to start with cleaning until it piles up to the point where i'm so stressed i can't let it sit dkfjd <<kana's response, yet again. but me too, down to the last word.

most used phrase: lately i just call everything garbage. that is garbage. his behavior was garbage. i feel like garbage. also many different variations that include "oh, holy, thank, god, heavens, good lord above"

how long does it take for you to get ready?: i like having lots of time to get ready so i can be relaxed and happy while doing so. so like two hours? but if need be i can also get ready in less than five minutes. anything in between.

do you talk to yourself?: yes because how else would i stay sane, hm?? its mostly like humming, dancing, telling myself what i need to do and get done, or just narrating my every move. also if you don't act like you're filming a youtube video when getting ready in the morning, you are wrong

do you sing to yourself?: girl literally constantly. catch a time when i am not singing. if i am not singing i have a song in my head. currently it's "Moonlight" by Ariana Grande

are you a good singer?: actually yes. the one skill i can confidently say i have, is the ability to sing well. very well. incredibly well. fun fact, my only claim to fame is that i sang the star spangled banner as a solo for my high school graduation, attendance of over 5,000 people. and yes i did have to go through an audition process to do so.

biggest fear: never falling in love. synonymous with being alone/dying alone, but specifically never falling in love. never getting married. never having a boyfriend. that is just absolutely terrifying to me. worse than death

do you like long hair or short hair?: i like me with all the hairs. been wanting to shave my head for like five years and still haven't. everyone else can also do whatever makes them happy. it is your hair not mine

favorite school subject: choir :D this is unsurprising. also yoga. literally the best class EVER

extrovert or introvert?: i am a loud introvert. i love hanging out with people and making friends but my social battery dies quickly and i also have to be in a certain mood to want to interact with people. <<kana's response, but me too. extroverted introvert. also, i am shy. so approach me first and then i am an open book

what makes you nervous?: small, tight spaces, big crowds, loud music / sounds (like to the point where i can't hear myself speak or think), uhhh a lot of things lol <<kana and me are the same

who was your first real crush?: my older sisters tried to push the idea of crushes on me literally since i was five. so my first "crush" was a kid named Jace in my kindergarten class. but if we're talking actual genuine interest in someone for the first time? probably a kid named Gage in fourth grade.

how many piercings?: i have two lol. just on my ear lobes. <<me too, kana

how many tattoos?: zero! i have issues with permanence when it comes to my body, it took me until i was 14 to even pierce my ears. i have interest in the fake tattoos that last a couple months tho!

how fast can you run?: honestly pretty fast. but i would not win a race

what color is your hair?: a really pretty brown. currently growing out bad highlights from middle school i had to spend hundreds of dollars correcting, also a hint of purple from a tint i use

what color are your eyes?: a lovely brown that looks especially pretty in the sun !!

what makes you angry?: people who don't take no for an answer, people who think they're the coolest ever even when they're actually dicks, being blatantly ignored but not being told what i did wrong <<yeah me too, kana

do you like your name?: i am indifferent. i used to hate it as a kid and was bullied for the way it was spelled, told it didn't make sense to spell it Lindsay when you pronounce it Lindzee, but i do in fact have the original Scottish spelling of the name.

do you want a boy or a girl as a child?: i am entirely indifferent! whoever i can adopt i will. also however they may want to identify later in life.

what are your strengths?: girl i dont know what to say. i can sing. i try my very hardest at most things. i am strong and brave. i have a gift for empathy, to a fault. i care and love almost too much.

what are your weaknesses?: same as my strengths, empathy, caring, and love are also my weaknesses. i am also wayyy too sensitive, i overthink, and take everything personally.

what’s the color of your bedspread?: sky blue with white roses

color of your room: white :( not allowed to paint it

[kimbap-r0ll]

Hello, can i participate your match-ups event? i would like a twisted wonderland matchup please? also congrats to your 100+ (i guess you have 200+?) followers too! 🎉🎉🎉

I'm actually a female btw.

Appearance: I have a black short hair, Brown eyes, fair light skin, my height is 5'7", im quite chubby a bit..my clothing style is like gurenge the way i wear is boyish type with a dark color, sometimes i wear a bit girls clothes and cute clothes (kinda like soft girl aesthetic) if i want to and i wore a glasses, i used it sometimes if i can't see a far.

Personality (+about me):

-Im a (akward) quiet and shy person who have a stoic face, im very bad communicating/interacting with people cuz i have a bad anxiety issues but atleast i try/want to talk people if i want to (but not a lot, its getting tiring when talking to people). -People didn't really know that im a bit  softie person and playful when it comes to my loved ones or friends, i dont easily open up to anyone with my behavior.  -I have a short or maybe quick temper i can pissed so easily and is trying my best to control myself but mostly hard dealing my emotions, if i hurt people's feelings i'll apologise immediately if im calm.  -My friends commented me like im sort of mother/sister figure in our group, the way i act i didn't quite realized my behaviour the way i treat my friends or my little cousins. -Im very insecure person, i been compared with someone who is smart, pretty or etc than i am because i wasnt one of them, it makes me think i wasn't enough. -The way i act is boyish, but im bit act like a girl like im very shy, embarrased or flustered compare to the girls who acts girly. -people was wondering why always stay inside in my room, all i do is study, watching anime, reading manga/fanfics, playing video games with my younger cousin and sleep, but i sometimes go outside when i wanted to buy or walk around. -when it comes to my friends or family, i give them a headpat or hugs, but if i had a s/o, i will give them lot some hugs & kisses, i secretly kinda clingy or likes giving some affections but doesnt want to admit.

MBTI: INFP

Zodiac: Aries

Hobbies: Drawing (digital & traditional), Reading, Playing piano, gaming, babysitting, do martial arts and listening music

Likes: going to quiet place, sweets,(not a lot) , cold drinks, cute things or stuff, bunnies, watching anime & reading manga.

Dislikes: noisy/loud people, spiders or maybe bugs, math

My Love Language is:

Physical Touch: I like hugs/cuddles and kisses this is they way im showing my comfort or affection but im very shy when it comes show or expressed my affections to my s/o, but im very careful that i wont be extra clingy to them so i have to asked them first before showing it.

Quality Time: If i have a free time, i would like to spend time with my s/o, but i'll let them choose they want or plans for spending time with them.

Words of Affirmation: I maybe not good at talking, but i love and try my best give my s/o some compliment, praises and comforting words.

When it comes the partner: I kinda like when my s/o who have same hobbies like me, i would rambled them my likings, also who also very honest and loyal to me, if my s/o is had problems or insecurities i will give them so many hugs, head pats and kisses. lastly, who have patience and accept for who i am.

Fun fact about me: + I maybe wore stoic expression cuz im not that a smiley type but i smile and laugh sometimes but my friends know my weakness which is tickling me this fails me to laugh, they even try to picture me.

+ Im a soft person who loves cute things like wearing cute clothes, plushies, or etc, and i adore cute animals. i hate to get caught if someone knows about my weird habit of mine i might ended up teasing.

Thank you and  i apologise if this is kinda long, also again congrats! have a nice day/night! ✨

Hi, thank you! Yes it’s technically much more than 100+ (I need to do something to celebrate 300 but I’m already close to 400 so idk what to do 😭), but more importantly, your matchup! I think that there’s a lot of characters that could work with you, but the one that would be the best is…

Idia

Hey look, your pfp! No but seriously, you guys match so much in vibes it’s so cute!

He’s someone that would prefer someone who understands his nerdiness and who can relate with him so he completely understands you. He’s into anime and manga, so you guys could recommend each other different series to watch or read! I can imagine you guys talking for hours on your favorite shows, or maybe taking forever on anime streaming catalogs to see what to watch next. He also really likes listening to music, so sometimes you guys just vibe next to each other while one of your playlists are playing. He’s always wanted to draw, maybe make his own comic one day, and he admires your skill in drawing so much. Please draw him one day, he’ll absolutely melt! You guys would absolutely love playing video games together. I can see you guys gaming until sunrise sometimes haha.

He’s not the best at doing pda, but he’s probably more clingy than he seems. He’s like you in being shy at first to initiate any kind of physical touch, but once he gets more comfortable around you, he won’t worry about cuddling with you. He’s not going to do any kind of pda, but when you guys are in private he’s totally cool with it (he might want it too honestly).

Speaking of physical touch, give him headpats! He’s been through so much (*cough* chapter 6 *cough*) and he’ll just melt if you give him any kind of soft attention. He’s probably a softie at heart like you are, so you guys match wavelengths so well.

Idia would love to spend as much free time with you as possible, even if that means you guys just hang around in his room or your room. Please just text him if you want to hang out since he’s more than willing to spend time with you. Ortho might ask you if he can join just because, and honestly all three of you might have a vibe going. Also Ortho’s adorable and he loves seeing you guys together so much (probably starts calling you “sis” too).

He will never judge you for what you like, your strengths or weaknesses, or anything else. He loves you for who you are, loves you for being an artist, a plushy lover, and a gamer like him. Know that he’s always going to be by your side and there for you.

Overall you guys match vibes so well, and he just loves being with you so much he could probably cry 😭

[silvermistcosmos]

hiii! I’m back for the ship game :’) can I have one romantically w enhypen?

I’m 19 years old and I have shoulder length black hair, glasses, brown eyes and I’m around 153 cm.(Niki share some of those growth gummies pls 😫✋) my pronouns are she/her! im an infp and pretty shy and introverted irl but I love the presence of other people- like sitting with or facetiming ur friend while you both do your own work. I also enjoy spontaneous day trips and going out to eat. I’m currently studying to become a child psychologist and I absolutely love working with children and playing with them! They’re just the cutest ever 💗💗 def wanna work at a daycare someday 😌 as for love languages I love giving others handmade gifts (I love to crochet!) and receiving physical touch & quality time :) I usually comfort others when they’re upset by trying to make them laugh or smile. The jokes are fails half the time but I try :”) and this game is so cute, ty for doing it!!! -siri 💕💕

HIII, Siri, thanks for participating and sorry this took FOREVER to do! The amount I write has gone 📉 !! but hey, I’m doing it now! I hope you like it! 💕💕

I ship you with...Sunoo

ok ok, hear me out, doesn't this description just make you think of someone Sunoo would date? like seriously, you seem so caring and sweet and cute and just skjdka Sunoo’s type! also ngl, he’d love your height even though he sometimes teased you about it, he does it out of love =) 

pairing - siri x sunoo

genre - fluff

wordcount - 710

warning(s) - n/a

a/n - if you would like to be shipped as well, check out my enhypen & bts ship game

"Alright, guys! Are you ready?" When you heard a series of 'yes' and the kids getting in formation, you smiled and pressed play.

As you and the kids danced with giggles and laughter, you saw from the mirror, your boyfriend walking in through the door, holding a banquet of flowers.

Before you even said anything, one of the little girls with brown hair stopped and pointed straight at Sunoo, "That's for Miss Siri, right?" She held a mischievous smile on her face, "She told us all about you. How she's sooo in looov-"

you jumped towards her, pressing your finger to her lips with a nervous giggle, "haha that's enough for today. Miss eunjoo will take over for me now."

Sunoo smiled, "aw, but I wanted to hear more about what you've told them about me. I bet you told them how in love with me you are." He teased, making everyone laugh except for you. You hid your face in your hands slapping his shoulder softly.

"You're so mean..." You whined

"I'm only joking, but I wanted to ask the kiddos if I could steal you away for a while. I wanna take you out for dinner."

Before you could answer, another young boy popped in, "Sure, as long as y'all don't get lovey dovey here." He laughed.

You both shook your heads, “then we'll be on our way out!" As you walked out the door, you heard them in unison, "Sunoo and Siri sitting on a tree K.I.S.S.I.N.G. !"

"The kids you babysit are the darn cutest kids I've ever seen." He commented, handing you the flowers.

"They are adorable. I love taking care of them, but they can be little stinkers." You laughed, taking the flowers and getting in his car, "So, where are we going?"

"Just someplace.."

~~~~

"JUST SOMEPLACE?!" You gawked at the huge building in front of you with wide eyes, "No way..."

You started to walk away before he pulled you back and wrapped his arm around your shoulder, "Yeah, just someplace." He said nonchalantly, opening the door to the restaurant.

You cringed into his side, "Sunoo, this is the type of place where people wear red dresses and suits and like super expensive jewelry. I'm literally in an old T-shirt I use to wear when I'm cleaning the bathroom and ripped jeans. I dont feel like I'm dressed suited to the occasion." You whisper-yelled, but he only shrugged, looking back down at you, "Love, you look gorgeous. Don't worry about it."

As you opened your mouth up to speak, a lady at the front spoke to Sunoo about reservations and sorts before leading you to your table, "Enjoy your night." She bowed with a smile, leaving.

"This place is so nice." You began, taking a look around, "when did you make reservations? It must have taken forever."

"Mmm, I made it a couple months ago. I wanted to do something special together since we've...or particularly I have been so busy with work that we haven't been able to actually sit down for a nice dinner and enjoy each others company in a long time." He took your hand in his and grabbed the menu with his other hand, "Take a look at the menu and pick what you like."

You ‘awwed’ before leaning over and placing a quick kiss to his cheek, “I really appreciate this, thank you.” You squeezed his hand and looked back at your menu. 

“Ahem, after this...do you want to teach me that dance you taught this kids?” 

You giggled, raising a brow, “You want to learn it?” 

“Yeah...it looked cute.” He shyly scratched the nape of his neck. 

You eyed him, “You just want to tease me, right?” 

“No no, of course not! I just want my girlfriend to teach me a dance. Is that so wrong?” 

“Okay okay, after dinner, let’s go to the dorm and I’ll teach you!” 

“In front of the others?” He widened his eyes, taking a sip of his water that the waiter had brought them earlier. 

“What? You embarrassed?” You snickered.

“Wh-what? No.” 

“Okay it’s settled then.”

~~~

After dancing in FRONT of the boys, DO expect lots of cuddles and kisses from Sunoo cause the boy is embarrassed!! But it’s okay, you make sure to make it up to him by cuddling with him all night...and maybe all of the next day. 

[anakiinhighwalker]

hi! can I get a star wars match up if youre still doing them?

Im a virgo sun, sagittarius moon and gemini rising, and an infp 9w1.

generally Im pretty shy and anxious, I will open up eventually but it takes a while. I do get overwhelmed sometimes and can be a little emotional. while I am introverted I do like hanging out with people and trying new things sometimes. I like helping people but I can be a bit of a pushover. I enjoy cooking, digital art, listening to music and napping.

I use he/him pronouns. my style is more alternative, Im 5'10" and Ive got piercings and tattoos and am always looking for more lol

🦫 NOW LET ME EXPLAIN. Alt s/o w Mando? That’s like so iconic imo.

Other than that. I headcanon Din to have a Capri sun…with ur Virgo moon? That’s literally a soulmate match!!! Every single match I’ve ever seen, Capri x Virgo have always pulled thru!!! I feel like you could develop your relationship w Mando to a point where mf poses some way and you know just by staring at him what he’s thinking. Silent telepathic communication and he’s not even a jedi LMFAO.

I feel like you’d really have to be comfortable with complete silence when dating Din. It’s practically a given. ALSO GROGU HAS TO LOVE U!!! LIKE GROGU HAS TO AT LEAST TOLERATE U (which will prolly b easy bc he’s an INFP too.) the fact that mando has been shown taking good care over grogu just makes me wonder abt how he will treat u (spoiler alert: it’s what u deserve pookie).

I feel like there may be issues w you being overwhelmed bc I feel like Din doesn’t get overwhelmed and when he does, he immediately resolves his emotions. Buuuut idk, I hc Din has a Pisces moon and while yes, Pisces r stereotyped to be melodramatic and all that and u might think “Mando’s not dramatic” he literally made his son chain armor and had a whole arc fighting himself bc he wanted Grogu to have fun at Jedi school. He’s very emotional in his own way. (It’s all that heavy repression). So w Din’s Pisces moon, he would just understand that. Like, he just gets you emotionally in a way not even Luke can. Add the fact that Din can read people very good and boom, your boyfriend always knows what’s going with you!!!

When u cook, Din and Grogu are your Guinea pigs for when u ever want them to taste a new recipe.

STOP!! Now imagine Din getting a tattoo with you? Or pointing at his signet and pointing at ur tattoos then pointing back at his signet then at ur tattoos? Let him have his moment.

Mando if you ever got his signet tattooed/got earrings/piercing accessories of his clan symbol.

Mando’s the confident introvert and you’re his dynamic anxious buddy who brought their drawing tablet :). Mando would ask u reluctantly if you could draw with him one afternoon and that is a core memory for Grogu. Watching Din silently contemplate what to draw before drawing a crudish Grogu? Yassss.

STOP. BECAUSE. MANDO. WOULD. ASK, THE E, ARMOR TO MAKE YOU SOMETHING SO SPECIFC YET IT WOULD RESONATE SO DEEPLY WITH YOu. I’m weak. I know I said he’s the confident introvert but the way this dude would waddle nervous to show you about like he’s a cancer sun….🤭

Very cute couple. I supprot it and I love it. (Now imagine Mando infodumping abt Mandalorian armor and culture to u when u ask him if he could show or explain u something new) also also I have an inkling Mando would wanna train you in hand to hand combat just in case. Overall? This couple is so cute Omg. I forgot to add the fact that Mando would 100% step in if people do try and treat you like a pushover. That Capri sun is NOT for show.

[runeterrankhaleesi]

Hello! I hope you’re doing well! Could I please request a LMMU for League? I’m a bisexual woman, 5’7 and a boney lil stick lol. I love playing video games, playing piano, doing puzzles, writing and baking. And listening to music ofc! I love grunge and 90s style and horror movies but i also really love softer stuff and also like dark academia and classical music so.. idk. I’m interested in tarot and runes too.

I’m an infp, 4w5, scorpio and I generally consider myself as a quiet and kind person. I can have a hard time opening up to people, and tend to focus on others more than myself (which im working on haha). I can be quite affectionate and I love talking about my interests and listening to other people’s interests too! It’s great if we can have an in depth discussion! Though I’m usually friendly, I can sometimes get very introspective and I kinda go off the grid for a hot minute. Ummmgmmg i hope that’s enough ehehe. Thank you very much and I hope you have a great day! >^<

I pair you with...

SHEN!

Why? Because...

You and Shen have a lot in common in terms of personality. Both of you are the mediators. You're both quiet and selfless-helping others in need and focusing more on the well being of others than your own.

And just about anyone can say that Shen is touch starved. It's been years (give or take) since he's felt any kind affection. Give him a little kiss on the cheek before he leaves his house or grab his hand and hold it while you're talking a walk, he'll blush under the mask and be "sjkdaldekjks" on the inside.

He's patient and a great listener, he can listen to your rants anytime and provide some of his own opinions if you're looking to deepen the conversation. And he appreciates that you would do the same for him, it makes feel warm that he has someone he can talk and vent to anytime.

Shen has been cooking for himself for years, he'd be happy to teach you some Ionian recipes or show you techniques to make cooking/baking easier.

He's also a fan of puzzles and chess-he considers himself a master. He likes it because it stimulates his brain and it's one of the ways he meditates. You can challenge him any day, who finishes the puzzles first or who wins in chess.

As for music, Shen mostly likes instrumental pieces, the kind of music that has the "traditional" feeling to it. Of course, he would listen to you play the piano. If you feel shy and can't play with him watching, he'll secretly listen. No matter how far, he can still hear you, he's got good ears. He can even name certain music pieces if he's heard of them.

You have to understand though, Shen isn't a real fan of horror movies, especially the ones with gore. It reminds him of his time with Jhin. He may sit through the kind of horror movie with ghosts and people getting possessed.

And yes, he'd teach you all about tarot cards and runes if you ask him. He'd be more than happy to tell you all that he knows about magic and give you books to read if you want. Call him "Master Shen" while you're at it, he's gonna think you're teasing him.

💝~Happy Valentines Day!~💝

[taeyamayang]

match up! I prefer boys! my pronouns are she/they!

INFP-T. I believe, because of past experiences, I’m a rather cautious person when it comes to friendships/relationships. Never been in a relationship. I would consider myself an A+ friend, love my friends very much. My humor is broken. I’m an introvert. I love physical touch, but only if I initiate it or they ask beforehand if I’m ok with sudden touch. I get very blushy around people I like, even talking about them brings a blush to my cheeks. I’m a bit naive, things fly over my head EASILY.

I’m attracted to people that are a bit weird. because they have to match my AWFUL sense of humor. If I send them the dancing cockroach video at 3 am I NEED them to respond. Someone who teases me would be nice lol. Lastly someone who is less pessimistic then I can be. Somedays I convince myself it’s the end of all days and I Just Wanna Cuddle. Someone, who will go slowly, who would wait for however long it took for me to open up.

i am pairing you withㅡTendou Satori

↬ i hc tendou sending ushijima a dancing cockroach at 3am and the latter waking up perplexed vsksbsjs i view tendou as a very unique person and weirdly idk how to explain this but his unique take in life/personality matches with yours. youre pessimistic, you said, and tendou tends to look at the brighter side of things, tossing away his past experiences to look forward to a better future and i think he can influence you with that. additionally, his child-like innocence what differs him (in a good way) from other characters in haikyuu. i also think he has high regards for people's feelings like he wouldn't go around not minding the boundaries/space of individuals. instead he asks for you consent first (im so soft for him) so i think he really is a great match for you :)

"alright, everyone attention please." your teacher claps his hands together to instill authority. your classes are randomized this year and the fact that you dont know anyone from this class is enough to bring you anxiety. though you recognize a few faces you also know that they already belong to an existing circle. the universe must have hated you to place you in classes where your friends do not belong to.

"pair up for the next literature project." you fall into despair as your teacher verbalizes your fear. as an introvert, you struggle with approaching people first and the thought of them rejecting you doubles your anxiety.

there's no way you're coming out of this class alive.

you hear the students in the class chatter, laughing between conversation yet you're frozen to your seat utterly lost with what you have to do. you press the pads of your palms to your eyes as you come up with a plan.

in one way or the other, you have to do this.

so, you pull your palms away from the socket of your eyes as your vision scans the room for students sitting alone probably having the same problem as you.

then, you spot him. the red headed boy with droopy eyes from the volleyball team. you have watched their previous plays live with your friends, mostly when they're competing for nationals, and you had an eye for him. oddly, you feel comfortable with him. maybe because he left a good impression on you when you saw him outside the court acting like a regular individual. some players let their popularity get into their heads but he stayed humble.

"do you have a partner yet?" you blurt out as soon as you reach his seat, biting down on your tongue when words left your mouth.

"me?" he looks at you as if he can't believe that you appraoched him of all people in the room. he turns his head to the side to see if you're talking to a person other than him.

"yes, you." you swallow in air before continuing. "if you don't have a partner yet do you want to pair up with me?"

"i dont have problem with you but are you sure you're pairing up with me?" he tilts his head to the side.

"why would i have a problem pairing up with you? do you neglect your tasks?" you ask.

"no, i fairly do well in all of our subjects."

"then, there's no problem at all." you shrug.

"it's weird." he narrows his eyes at you. "im usually the last person to be chosen by everyone in the room."

your eyes rally from one of his orbs to the other. his words leave a heavy pang on your chest. how many times have he felt unwanted for him to casually say that? you furrow your eyebrows at him.

"maybe it's about time you get to be chosen first." you speak your thoughts out and by the time you realize what you said your cheeks are painted in crimson. you bring your eyes to anywhere but his'. you curl your fingers into a fist behind your back, flustered with what you did.

"mm." he hums before nodding.

"okay." he says making your eyes shift back to him.

he stands up, pulling the top of his uniform down. he grabs onto the desk next to him before lifting it up to join two desks together. he tucks in the chair under it at the hollow space between the ground and the desk. he taps on the flat surface of the desk connected to his'. he settles back to his chair. you pull the seat out before you fold your knees to sit. you look at him.

"so what do we do, partner?" his eyes fluttering close as he shows you a tight lipped smile. your heart flutters at the his innocent look making you pull a grin.

you're not sure if you made him feel belonged or it's the other way around. nonetheless, you feel safe with him and for now it's more than enough.

a/n: THIS IS THE LAST ONE IN MY ASK BOX AHHH!!! IM SO HAPPY I FINISHED EVERYTHING 😭 thank you for joining the event!

[mbti-enemies]

;-;

* So... basically i'm an infp who has always found entjs to be kinda intimidating, but from all i have read about them they seem so cool?? And your posts make them seem even more soo?? How??

Are you friends with entjs and so are they really that dynamic/ maybe intimidating at first, if not then maybe any advice? I do really wanna get along with entjs, i am pretty sure i met one (or an estj) who did kinda 'adopt me' pretty fast, but other than that, ?? What do you do to be more relaxed around them? If it makes any sense??

*Sorry if this counts as an ask, i have just been thinking of this for a while and your blog seemed like an appropriate place to send it. However feel absolutely no pressure to answer!!

💐I wish you both a lovely day either way💐

nope nope you're good this isn't an ask for dynamics and before i continue wishing you a lovely day as well! kinda flattered you thought to send this to our blog

oh yeah and before i start, of course, not all entjs are the same. i don't know how many you have hanging around you right now, but they may not be the ones you can click with! others may not be so intimidating. being super scary is not a prerequisite to being an entj ha and some are more approachable than others

anyways yes step 1. entj's are not cool and intimidating. they may SEEM so on the outside but everyone is human. everyone. obviously. not so much a case of actually exposing the squishy side but just having good interactions with entjs, and anyone, is really not letting their intimdating-ness affect you, they're just people, take them off any pedestal if you can.

(intj edits in italics)

totally get why you feel their intimidating tho , a lot of entjs at first glance seem the no nonsense lets get down to business type but you've got to remember that's j how they initially observe and make judgments regarding the world around them..through an objective Te type lense so yes In that way they are dynamic because the more you get to know them the more you get to see the other sides of them which rlly arent intimidating at all.

it'll help them feel more comfortable around you, and help you feel more comfortable about them. as for what to actually do to feel more relaxed around.... non-relaxing people..... uhm im not sure. that's like a How To Deal With Your Feelings question and that's quite the age old question. i'd say it's like most fears, maybe a fear of performing for example, just do it more often till it feels normal and hopefully by then you'll be able to feel relaxed around them.

also just BE YOURSELF and don't think too much or try too hard..infps and entjs share two functions, Te and Fi but in the opposite order so Te is an infps weakest function but the entjs strongest, whereas Fi is the infps strongest function and entjs weakest, so its kinda like puzzle pieces that fit tgth just write- you guys might be opposites but you compliment each other well and help develop each others weakest areas

in terms of mbti and functions it can always help to remember there's that soft fi squished at the bottom of the function stack. look for glimpses of it? but really it might not always manifest in the best way, an entj's fi could them just easily getting angy at small things. who knows. any help intj? also entjs in the audience feel free to comment ofc

[baekhvuns]

HII HIII it’s me again, the one who doesn’t usually comment or anything…hahh and the one who started talking about ,,Hearts Awakened” fic. I said I’ll tell you what I think of the fics you recommended on wattpad, I still haven’t read Ishihara 😬 but I read Empire and it was good but I’m sorry there is only one mafia Hwa and it’s yours, Mr. Park! He is something else..

But I’m not here for this I just wanted to tell you again how I like everything you do and how my day is not made if I don’t see a notification from you hahah. It sounds silly but I’m serious, I really love how you respond to everyone with the same energy even if the ask has nothing to do with you or your work. You are so nice 🥺

I read every ask and I enjoy every second of it, I smile a lot and you help me through the day- that one ask where the anon was struggling with something and you gave a long response even though you didn’t know what it was about. It was so nice of you and you helped me that day too, not only that one anon.

Yeah I don’t know what I’m talking about I just wanted to send you something again. I’m sitting here on my sofa thinking what I should write, for about half an hour because I’m so bad with words ( I should be getting ready for class but I HAD TO TELL YOU THIS)🙂

Again, thank you so much for everything you do. You are so sweet and so talented but we’ll talk about it later cause if I start now I won’t be able to stop.

One question, if it’s not taken can I be 🥀 anon, I won’t send a lot of asks because again I’m bad with words but if I do I want you to know who it is because it means so much to me 🥺

Now I’m going to get ready for class, I can’t be late professor is going to kill me byebyeeeee♥️

bestie i wrote this before bed at 2:35 am and u had me crying 🔫 and now it’s morning and im still thinking about this 🔫

HII HIII it’s me again, the one who doesn’t usually comment or anything…hahh and the one who started talking about ,,Hearts Awakened” fic. I said I’ll tell you what I think of the fics you recommended on wattpad, I still haven’t read Ishihara 😬 but I read Empire and it was good but I’m sorry there is only one mafia Hwa and it’s yours, Mr. Park! He is something else..

HIHI !!! OH MY GOD I RMR U I ABSOLUTELY DO FHWKFHWKDHWK AND U READ THEM HOW WERE THEY 😩😩😩 SO GOOD HUH FBWK ofc ofc omg pls do id love to discuss favourites and non-favourites !!!! U READ EMPIRE YES FBWNFBEB IT RLY WAS SO VERY GOOD <333 author is a god truly omg,, god is a woman and it is her dbdbdb BFENHDKE I AGREE FR FR 🤚🏼🤚🏼🤚🏼

But I’m not here for this I just wanted to tell you again how I like everything you do and how my day is not made if I don’t see a notification from you hahah. It sounds silly but I’m serious, I really love how you respond to everyone with the same energy even if the ask has nothing to do with you or your work. You are so nice 🥺

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 STOP IT THATS SO SWEET 😭😭😭😭😭😭 omg idek what to say <33 thank u so much for this,, i personally have wack ass experiences with how ppl respond to me so i decided i won’t let that happen to anyone bdbddb also it’s probably my infp i just get really excited dbdbdb thank u thank u seriously

I read every ask and I enjoy every second of it, I smile a lot and you help me through the day- that one ask where the anon was struggling with something and you gave a long response even though you didn’t know what it was about. It was so nice of you and you helped me that day too, not only that one anon.

GRKSHDKS EVERY ASK?? 😭😭🤚🏼 DEDICATION omg,,, 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 im glad it helped it u too!! sometimes strangers help more than those you know!! i don’t think im qualified for giving advice any words of affirmations bc im terrible w words so u telling me tHis 😭😭 i genuinely don’t know how to respond to this whole ask except saying thank you 😭

Yeah I don’t know what I’m talking about I just wanted to send you something again. I’m sitting here on my sofa thinking what I should write, for about half an hour because I’m so bad with words ( I should be getting ready for class but I HAD TO TELL YOU THIS)🙂

BCNDBWMD I CAN IMAGINE BFBFBF 😭😭😭 I HOPE U HAVE A NICE CLASS AND HAVE LOADS OF FUNSIES HDFH WHEN UR FREE LMK WHAT U THOUGHT ANT THE FICS BC IM READY 🔫😩

Again, thank you so much for everything you do. You are so sweet and so talented but we’ll talk about it later cause if I start now I won’t be able to stop.

BFMWHDKW thank u so so much 😭😭😭 ofc ofc!!! whenever u wanna talk ill be all ears <3

One question, if it’s not taken can I be 🥀 anon, I won’t send a lot of asks because again I’m bad with words but if I do I want you to know who it is because it means so much to me 🥺

OH ITS NOT TAKEN!! 🥀 anon ur literally so sweet 😭😭😭 dhskdhdj however many asks is fine bestie i totally understand!!! 😭😭😭 wHY DO U DO THIS TO ME IM TEARING UP

Now I’m going to get ready for class, I can’t be late professor is going to kill me byebyeeeee♥️

i shit u not bESTIE i waved at u thru the phone and said bye fhwkhfkwkfel down bad fbwndwk have a good day!!! <333 thank u so much once again!!!!!

[mirakeul]

making miracles at mirakeul’s !!!

welcome, dear @1shigami​​, thank you for supporting mirakeul’s! your match will be right with you! just step this way, and you’re good to go! pardon me for the long wait, we hope you enjoy your date ! i must warn you though, there are some language used that may not be for minors [reader uses they/them]

matchup masterlist || event details [event status ; closed]

"get in, loser." their partner said, affectionately. y/n raised their brows. "we're going shopping."

"no, we're not." they sat at the passenger seat. "it's literally close to midnight now."

their partner, konoha akinori just scoffed in the driver's seat, putting a hand on his chest, as if offended. "mean girls is a cultural reset!"

"ahuh," y/n said. "where are we going, really?"

konoha started the car, y/n not getting anything but a wink as he drove. y/n rolled their eyes, opting to connect their phone to the aux, playing their late night drive playlist, and yes, they were prepared.

"oh, yeah." y/n said, turning to their partner. "do you remember that nekoma setter? you know, the one kuroo was talking about at camp before?"

"kenma?"

and it was too late. before konoha even got to stop, y/n was already shouting, "kEN M(A)Y BALLS FIT IN YOUR MOUTH?"

konoha let out an exasperated yet affectionate sigh. "i deserved that."

y/n was laughing loudly, their laugh echoing into the night sky. konoha just shook his head, a fond smile on his face as he drove to god-knows-where. there were few lovely banter between the two throughout after konoha parked near a rather quiet place.

he pulled out a blanket, placing it on the ground and offering y/n a sweater. they sat beside each other, looking into the city lights. y/n placed their shoulder on the blonde's while konoha placed his arm around them. they looked up as a star flew by, opting to lie on the ground. they sighed peacefully, lying beside each other as they watched the twinkling stars, almost as if they could just reach out and touch them. they had each other though, and that may be the closest they can get to their stars.

reblogs are greatly appreciated ! keep reading for a personal letter !

letter from you ;

hi omg ok this is me applying for a matchup idk 😄😄 uhmmm ok so im either an infp or intp ,,, i get both equally HAKDKS. im a leo sun and rising + aqua moon 😼 uhh and a lot of people have called me intimidating bc of the way i look LOL its just my eyes i promise. andddd i honestly dk how else to describe my personality pls 💔🙏 im cool?!?? and Fairly fashionable?!!? and sarcastic. And cocky sometimes. and thats it. yea. i go by any pronouns

i like deez nuts jokes 👍 IM JK i like fashion, baking/cooking, editing, kpop/anime/kdramas all that jazz and i dislike ... anything thats annoying to me 😁

my God ok im gonna try making this whole ask as short as possible. anyway im looking for someone whos a little bit like me (especially the sarcastic and cocky part). also someone kinda smart 😼 and a lil mean 😼 and funny 😼

i dont have a preference (IM PAN!!!) and i dont rly have an ideal date but stargazing or going on a late night drive sounds nice Lol ok thats all WOW THIS IS LONG IM SORRY

letter from me ;

juno, zen, my love KJAHSDKJHAKDF HI THANK YOU FOR JOINING <3333 also, thank you for always supporting me :(( u’re the best ily and u will always be one of the very first ppl i will worship-- i mean,,, love <3333 i hope you enjoyed this! you and konoha HIGHKEY be that couple everyone looks at and they can’t decide whether they want to be you or be konoha <//333 i want to be konoha <3 n e ways, ya’ll gonna look so good 2gether tho KHASSAHKD ILY HOPE U ENJOY HUHU here’s a big kith kith for you mwa

[morioh-killer]

May I request a matchup?

I’m a short 19 year old girl (4’9) with short hair and glasses. My personality type is INFP and I’ll be honest, I’m constantly anxious about everything. I’m trying to get better but it’s hard 😅. My favorite hobby is drawing , listening to new music, and reading. I like to plan out these big projects, but they never go anywhere,,, Also I SUCK at video games!! I love traveling (mostly just because I love car rides). Going places with people is always fun, no matter what we do.

(IM SORRY IVE NEVER DONE THIS BEFORE, IDK IF THATS ENOUGH,,,,THANK YOUUU)

I match you with...

MISTA!

Number one, he loves your glasses. He always stared right at them and smiles, and maybe he'll be honest and say "god, you're so damned beautiful." Plus, I HC him as liking short girls. He does his best to make you feel less anxious, but he knows it isn't as simple as that. He helps you in every way he can, from teas to massages. He does it all to ease your nerves. he loves to see the things you draw, he will ask if you can draw him. Yes he will pose.

Mista loves to take you new places, eat new food with you, and enjoy the little things <3