#because i'm me

[submisstresbunny]

[cookies-over-yonder]

do you ever think about polydads

[mountmortar]

May I request your Dad Lance thoughts for the Johtet 👀 (recently came across the phrase as Johto + Quartet. I think it goes better than Joh4 bc I don't like numbers haha) and would you mind if I incorporated them (or your other thoughts) into my fanfic visions?

well you see my thing is i tend to view lance as more of a crazy uncle sort of figure towards them instead of any sort of that because i have done my absolute best to block the mangling of his character in hgss out of my mind (because i think hgss tried to make him more. uh. heroic-sounding??? champion-like???? and it resulted in lance becoming the blandest dude known to pokémonkind) and instead focus on his original gsc character. who. yknow. was sassy as all hell and loved tearing team rocket to shreds. so instead of being some ultra responsible coddling dad-type figure i think he would just be like WHO WANTS TO GO SET A TEAM ROCKET BASE ON FIRE!!!!!!!!!!! and the johto quartet would just all start cheering like maniacs. do you guys remember in gsc when he sent his dragonite to physically attack ariana to get her away from the protagonist (like earlier in the game when he had his dragonite use hyper beam against a grunt) and then strutted up all nonchalantly and went "Hey! Don't be so selfish. Spread the fun around." who is doing it like this man i love him

[cat-downthestreet]

hello to my moots, I got a question for you

what's the most exciting thing to happen to you this week?

mine was finding hedgehog socks I've never worn before in my old clothing stash. they fit perfectly :))

[because-im-me]

Heyy, I know I don't really have a following on here but is there anyone who would like me to make posts more regularly?? Feel like I won't really get a response, but sometimes you got to shoot your shot even if your anonymous. Also if anyone has any questions, I'm down to answering them!

~Because I'm Me

[icewindandboringhorror]

(also feel free in the tags to clarify Why you made the choice you made!! :0c)

[chaotic-neutral-knitter]

I think one of the kindest things you can do for people with various mental health struggles is just... let people back into your life after they've been absent for a while.

Making friends as an adult is so fucking hard already and isolating yourself from other people is a very common symptom of depression, anxiety, burnout, ocd, trauma, grief, etc. Which means that someone will do the hard work of recovery/healing and resurface back into a world where their previous friends have written them off because they stopped showing up.

So if you know someone where you're like "yeah we could have been better friends but they fell off the map a bit" and that person suddenly reaches out, or starts showing up to events even though you kind of forgot they were still in the group chat... well they may have been Going Through It and you don't actually have to punish them for their absence you can just be glad that they're back.

[reactionimagesdaily]

[egophiliac]

missed the mark by (looks at calendar) uhhh. hm. but I really wanted to do something for the 5th anniversary! happy five years to these idiots 🎉

[decamarks]

Thinking of becoming a guy that thinks wolves are the most badass and aspirational animal, but about ants. Like wearing t-shirts about being loyal to my Queen and training to bench 5x my bodyweight. Studying ant warfare. Posting shit like this

[yourfavecharacterisqueer]

hypothetical scenario for you all: the real king arthur returns. you meet him and you welcome him into your home. what is the first thing you do with him? keep in mind, this is a man from the 500s (he died in 542), and you are from the 21st century (2024).

[lazylittledragon]

can't believe we're all adults being forced into the club penguin level of censorship in 2024

[ducktracy]

sharing a very sage bit of advice from The Simpsons' own John Swartzwelder that i've been trying to hamper down in my writing and drawing alike. let your inner crappy little elf do his worst

[because-im-me]

Daddy Issues

Lately, I've been thinking about my birth father. I've never met him, but I know the city he resides in and the place he works. I tried to contact him when I was 15, and that was it. I don't know why today I have been having thoughts about him. I don't blame him. They were 19 when they met and conceived me. All I know about him is that he is obsessed with Guns 'n' Roses, met my mom through a mutual friend, first danced to the song "The Bad Touch" by the Bloodhound Gang, and is a barber in Edmonton.

My stepfather is a whole other story on its own. He has been in my life since I was 2, and my mom was pregnant with her second child by a different man. He was adopted and always wanted a big family. I believe he loved me once, a long time ago, when he was a different person. When I was 13, he started to pull away from his family. I believe the reason is because we were growing up, and his children were not shiny new toys anymore. Eventually, he ended the family and practically abandoned his wife and children. He disregarded me and my two siblings that he had with my mom, but the only relationship he has with any of us is my sister, who my mom was pregnant with when she met our stepdad.

Sometimes I feel envious of my sister. Not only is she the pretty one of us four, but she also has both her dads in her life; her birth father and our stepdad.

I don't know where I was going with this, but I guess that is all I have on my mind to share about the topic.

~Because I'm Me

4/29/2023

[hellohellomoshimoshi]

I'm not the only one who does this?!?!?

sometimes you just have to let yourself be a bit neurodivergent.

i hate going out, it gives me a lot of anxiety and sensory input that i dont like, and i am often forced to talk to people.

so i do this thing on more difficult days, or sometimes just for fun, where i "bring a fictional character with me". i walk and imagine Fictional Character walking next to me. they talk to me, reassure me, hype me up, whatever i need them to do.

today dean winchester came christmas shopping with me. he went over the list with me of stuff i needed to get, told me i was doing a good job every time i finished in a certain shop, reminded me to take a deep breath when i got a little overwhelmed.

and yea. its kinda silly. and i know its just me talking to myself in a different voice, but it Works! especially since all of my special interests/hyperfixations tend to be tv/movie related.

so do what you gotta do to Get Shit Done. stop holding yourself to neurotypical standards. if you need Fictional Character to tell you you're doing a good job, do it! if you need Favourite Singer to walk you to school, do it! yea it might feel silly but you're literally fighting against your own brain to get stuff done every single day. you can have a little self indulgent daydream, as a treat.

[whynotfabulous]

Time for a Blast from the Past

please go to your browser and type in https:// [insert your url here] .tumblr.com/page/1000

Look at the first 5 posts that come up