Most people don't understand Sadism, what a Sadist is, or why.
It's important to remember that sadomasochism activities should be enjoyed WITH CONSENT and RISK AWARE. Even if you are practicing CNC or other hard kinks, these should be things you discuss beforehand and ensure they are done safely.
Practicing sadism on someone who doesn't consent or isn't willing is abuse. Don't confuse these two types of people.
WHAT IS SADISM AND MASOCHISM?
Sadism is the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification and satisfaction, from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation onto others. This person receives gratification and even pleasure from things such as degradation, humiliation, pain play, denial, etc., to others.
Masochism is when someone receives sexual or other gratification from one's own suffering, pain, or humiliation. This person might be gratified by pain, degradation, etc., self-imposed or imposed by others.
WHY DO I ENJOY SADISM?
I get a deep sense of satisfaction during pain play and other forms of sadism with willing partners. It's not just about seeing them suffer, whimper, or cry but almost a sense of gratitude toward my masochist for allowing me to use them in such a way.
Hearing the crack of the whip mixed with their cries, overstimulating them while they beg for release, humiliating them and watching them blush, denying them just to see the suffering on their face, the possibilities really are endless.
I can't describe the feeling when I hear them cry out, only to remain in place and wait for the next strike, my words, or whatever they'll have me do to them. Knowing that your masochist does this as an act of service and because it pleases me while knowing they are getting just as much out of it as I am?
There is no better feeling of dominance to me.
AFTERCARE, AFTERCARE, AFTERCARE
Sadomasochism may involve humiliating, degrading, and even pain play. Therefore, aftercare activities can help to remind them that they are loved and cared for. Specific activities may also result in injuries. If there are any wounds or other injuries, treatment can be done during aftercare to help someone feel like they're being looked after.
Some aspects of BDSM involve pain and humiliation, and one may feel a sense of shame, sadness, or other drops in emotion after a scene is done.
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This blog is for all my dark, masochistic thoughts.
I am 31, pansexual, and polyamorous. While I am a switch, this blog is specifically geared toward my submissive side.
DMs and asks are open; hit me with your best shot. Moots can add me on Snapchat (shoot me a dm).
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I am a goth girl, yes, black lipstick and all that spooky stuff.
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My Musings
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Ready to get kinky, darlings?
My favorite kinks and ways to play as a Submissive:
Masochism
Pain Play
Oral and Face Fucking
Biting, Marking, and Scratching
Bondage
Knife Play
Pet Play
Anal Play
Choking, Breath Play, and Erotic Asphyxiation
Impact Play and Face Slapping
Narratophilia
Exhibitionism
Collaring
CNC
Praise and Degradation
Discipline and Training
Breeding
Manhandling and Overpowering
Worship
Fisting
Group Sex
Intoxication
Quirofilia
Orgasm Control
Ropework
Sensation Play
Sensory Deprivation
Oral Fixation
Somno
Teasing
Voyeurism
Vampirism
Temperature Play
Primal Play
Freeuse
Hand Kink
Voice Kink
Limits/Boundaries
Incest
Mutilation
DDLG
Scat and Piss Play
Racism, Body, Queer, or Gender Shaming
Beastiality
Feeding Kinks
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♥︎ My favorite color is vermilion.
♥︎ I love horror movies, gore, and all things spooky.
♥︎ When I'm not dominating my good little pets, I enjoy a variety of interests and hobbies.
𝔗𝔥𝔢𝔰𝔢 𝔞𝔯𝔢 𝔞 𝔣𝔢𝔴 𝔬𝔣 𝔪𝔶 𝔣𝔞𝔳𝔬𝔯𝔦��𝔢 𝔱𝔥𝔦𝔫𝔤𝔰
♥︎ My favorite literature includes
Dracula by Bram Stoker
Frankenstein by Mary Shelley
The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde by Robert Louis Stevenson.
The Lord of the Rings by J. R. R. Tolkien
Jaws by Peter Benchley
Jurassic Park by Michael Crichton
The Book of the Dead
The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald
Alice's Adventures in Wonderland by Lewis Carroll
♥︎My favorite movies include (well, some of them, at least)
A Quiet Place
Scream
Saw
Alien
Strangeland
The Uninvited
Interview with a Vampire
Queen of the Damned
The Autopsy of Jane Doe
Black Swan
Pulp Fiction
Guardians of the Galaxy
Van Helsing
Apocalypto
The Phantom of the Opera
Creature from the Black Lagoon
Howl's Moving Castle
Venom
The Bride of Frankenstein
Little Shop of Horrors
Sweeney Todd
47 Meters Down
Catwoman
Jaws
♥︎My favorite shows include (well, some of them, at least)
Deathnote
What We Do in the Shadows
The Addams Family
Arcane
Chainsaw Man
Fullmetal Alchemist
Hazbin Hotel
Invincible
Love, Death, and Robots
MEGALOBOX
Parasyte
Sabrina, The Teenage Witch
Tokyo Ghoul
WandaVision
Westworld
You
♥︎My favorite musicians to listen to (well, some of them, at least)
Clan of Xymox
HIM
Rob Zombie
The 69 Eyes
Alice in Chains
The Killers
Blue Stahli
Arch Enemy
Anthrax
Blind Guardian
Cradle of Filth
The Misfits
Fit for an Autopsy
Funeral for a Friend
Nightwish
Rammstein
Burzum
The Smiths
Kamelot
Dance with the Dead
Razed in Black
Nine Inch Nails
The Birthday Massacre
Otep
Marilyn Manson
Children of Bodom
Korn
Siouxsie and the Banshees
Depeche Mode
Bauhaus
Bile
Ghost
Blink 182
The Cure
Emilie Autumn
Type O Negative
Sisters of Mercy
She Wants Revenge
FAQ
𝚃𝚘 𝚊𝚗𝚜𝚠𝚎𝚛 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚏𝚛𝚎𝚚𝚞𝚎𝚗𝚝𝚕𝚢 𝚊𝚜𝚔𝚎𝚍 𝚚𝚞𝚎𝚜𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚜 𝙸'𝚟𝚎 𝚋𝚎𝚎𝚗 𝚐𝚎𝚝𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐:
No, I will not send you nudes. If I don't know you, and we've never even talked, don't ask. Save yourself the embarrassment.
Yes, my boobs are real. No work done, all natural.
Yes, that is me in my audio and my PFP.
I am not interested in having a dom or relationship; don't ask.
Yes, I am a switch and do have subs as a domme.
If you're going to take the time to entice me in my inbox, at least take time to scroll through my blog and see what I like. It's not exactly a secret dears, though I won't entertain your efforts if I find you off-putting.
I will not respond to profiles without content. I know what you're doing here, but it won't work.
Jack off, Jack off your partner, do whatever you want with the content here. I don't need to hear every excruciating detail. Have fun.
I am a busy woman, and I don't live on Tumblr. Sometimes, it takes me awhile to get to all my requests and messages. I easily get about 50+, if not more, a day, and I like to respond thoughtfully to each one. Be patient. I'll get to you.
I know how to spot a fake Dom when I see one; if I don't even know you, I'm not interested in being your submissive.
Kink should always be safe, risk-aware, and consensual. While I post many hard kinks, they are always practiced safely. Know that a lot of kink is highly fantasized and exaggerated online for flavor. Do your research, be safe, and be respectful.
If you dm my girls harassing them or are disrespectful to them in any way you will be blocked and they will tell me. I don't take too kindly to people fucking with them, and you'll be lucky you only sit in front of a screen.
No, I won't post nudes or photos of me to this page, I'm not looking to get terminated. Those are saved for a select few who have earned their right to see them.
I think this is everything. So please be respectful and remember kink is supposed to be fun!
Enjoy your time here, loves; I know I will ❤︎
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